I am a nonbinary (or agender, maybe) feminist and I had to fight very hard to become someone who was comfortable defining as either of those things, and then as both of those things. I have had a lot of discussions lately with my closest nb feminist friends about this and the fundamental thing we have all agreed on is that there is a conversation that badly needs to be had more often about how, even if you don’t feel 100% ‘female’, even if you never did feel 100% ‘female’, the world begins treating you as ‘female’ from a very young age and that is always, no matter how you end up defining yourself, going to have shaped your life experience.
So, I’m not a girl any more, or I never was one. but when I was young I didn’t know there was any alternative to what people were telling me I was, i.e. a girl. it never fit me, but that didn’t stop me from believing that was what I was because that’s what I was constantly being told - by my family, by society, by ambient media consumption, by changing in the girls’ room and not the boys’ room at school, by a thousand thousand things that happened every day. and, in that sense, despite not being a girl, I lived the life of one, the everyday warped reality of one, and so to all intents and purposes believe I can claim feminism as my own movement because not actually being a girl didn’t save me from the things that were done to me because everyone else thought I was one.
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End time things. Lovers of themselves
ReplyDeleteYes o. Endtime is near
DeleteIf she likes let her turn to chicken na she sabi
DeleteYou Cray girl.. You Cray. Bye!
ReplyDeleteNice one linda
ReplyDeletenon gender is a person who feels he or she Have a female and male identity..like they are both masculine and feminine. So if that's what wants for herself let her be..or how that one take concern you..na your life?
ReplyDeleteHer life, her choice......
ReplyDelete#PEACEOUT
Oh i weep for this soul she is gone and gone for real.
ReplyDeleteShe is about to become a robot can't wait to see it.
Clown.
#sad indeed
she don dey mad
ReplyDeleteShe is a confused being.
ReplyDeleteConfused soul
ReplyDeletepls its Amandla....Linda little things count
ReplyDeleteShut up! U are talking trash!
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Shut up! U are talking trash!
ReplyDeleteGood for her
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteYes Linda you're so damn right, they like to confuse their elders, na devil enter her mind, no mind her jare.
ReplyDeleteIndeed the world is coming to an end. From transgender to non gender. Very soon we'll have non human. 21st century madness!
ReplyDeleteSENSELESS.
ReplyDeleteLol@dis young people like to confuse dia elders".
ReplyDeleteHonestly dis generation is in shambles,only God can n wl rescue IJN.
Linda abeg help me ask am o... non-gender ko, hermaphrodite ni
ReplyDeleteThis one no no were dey pain am
ReplyDeleteOne word "Confusionist"
ReplyDeleteI'm out ***CATCH ME IF U CAN***
HER MADNESS
ReplyDeleteConfuse state of mind
ReplyDeleteShow us, seeing is believing
ReplyDeletei knew it, if you watch columbiana that she stared as a kid, she was already walking like a boy(tom boy) at that little age.
ReplyDeleteShe's just trying to tell us she's mad.
ReplyDelete#LibBadBoy
Wetin person no go hear & see for this life?
ReplyDeleteAnother one again...this world is a crazy place
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Hian.....endtime pikin
ReplyDeleteLolz, Owuya ooooo. so non gender means what?
ReplyDelete#iT WiLL OnLY gET beTTer
#iT mUSt eNd iN PRaiSe
Make she go kak somewere abeg...she needs deliverance
ReplyDeleteNawa ohh,orisirisi, End time tins on point
ReplyDeleteShe's confused. Dat's wat happens wen one is too comfortable in life. If she was in Naija her mind won't even go there.
ReplyDeleteMaybe she doesn't menstrate or she may possibly ve a prick below.....just guessing lol
ReplyDeleteShe's high on Oshogbo weed
ReplyDeletePlz try n commit a crime n ask for the non gender jail.
ReplyDeleteWharrefa rocks her boat.. Next!!!
ReplyDeleteHow e tk concern me
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This is the beginning of a mental disorder.. They need to check her brain ASAP..😩
ReplyDeleteEND TIME COMMENT
ReplyDeleteHigher level of demonic possession. Demons sef dey upgrade. Transexualism and being gay is d old OS
ReplyDeleteConfused soul
ReplyDeleteNa wa o, wonders shall end.
ReplyDeleteThis one na mad person oh! she needs help.....Olodo
ReplyDeleteSatan pikin.jumbo
ReplyDeleteAkuko ndi iberibe! Linda take note!
DeleteStory!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! story, abeg she should go and sit down
ReplyDeleteGud for her.
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Insanity manifests in different ways, no be only person wet commot cloth dey waka for street. Give her a few months, she'd become uncomfortable with this position and come out with the lust for monkeys or dogs. End time children.
ReplyDeleteWe are rounding up. Give ur life to jesus christ b/4 is too late.
ReplyDeleteLmao Na table then ode girl
ReplyDeleteShe needs help!
ReplyDeleteLol. Linda u get mouth o #elders# lol
ReplyDeleteMaybe she don stone well, well
ReplyDeleteu are so right Linda!!!small children confusing their Elders!!!!i weep for humanity
ReplyDeleteApparently I understand her point...she doesn't feel girly but society shoves it on her..she isn't a boy either...well..perhaps she is asexual....
ReplyDeletesome say is end time, some say she needs deliverance. listen to the views of people that are not as ordinary as you and try and see things from there perspective. she is trying to figure out who she is. at first she like guys, then later she like girls and now she want guys again. I think she is bisexual
ReplyDeleteNon-gender is called queer. They don't identify as either male or female or transgender.
ReplyDeleteShe is confused.
ReplyDeleteNa she sabi
ReplyDeleteShe is not normal but she is unaware of it.
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The thing this small girl is smoking is strong oh
ReplyDeleteI actually took my precious time to read this after i had skipped it... just to try & grasp/have a faint idea of what she meant.... I just ended up wasting my time! In conclusion, she is a confused being!
ReplyDeleteMaybe she soul our soul to devi
ReplyDeletethis girl should just pass through her tomboy phase in peace and shut up!
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