He shared his views on his Instagram page. Read below...
My view on how to treat women.
1.Don't compare your wife to other women. You don't know what their husbands are going through.
2. Never expose your wife's weakness to your family or friends or run to them whenever you have issues. Problems are best solved between you and your woman.
3. Don't think you are man so you can use intimidation, shout or violence to communicate your moods. Agreesive men don't make a happy home.
4. Speak gently and calmly to your wife. Never raise your voice at her, it demeans her and shows you think she is stupid.
5. Do your responsibilities as man...don't leave every to your woman.
6. Never blame your wife if she doesn't take care of the home everyday. She is swamped with house work and helping you raise the kids.
7. Don't be wasteful spending money on drinks, friends and extended family.The wife and children are your first responsibility.
8. Sex is also important to women. Her pleasure should be considered before your own.
9. Never compare your wife to your ex-girlfriends. If you loved them so much why didn't you marry them instead of your wife.
10. Never shout down your wife or challenge her in front of the children. The children are watching. They won't listen and obey her too.
11. Tell your wife she's beautiful even if you know she's looking normal. Women love compliment.
12. Don't forget that women also want attention and someone to share their thougts with. Never be too busy for your wife.
13. A prayerful man is a better equipped husband. Pray always for your wife and family. Don't leave the prayers to your wife.
14.Treat your wife like a queen. Buy her gifts, take her shopping and once in a while, cook for her.
15.Please don't forget your these anniversary dates. Wedding ,engagement,the first time you kissed. I beg you. These dates mean a lot to women. (Don't ask me why). I also don't know.
16. Your mother should not have the final say in your marriage. You married your wife, not you and your mother. Let her talk in her own husband's house.
17.There
are 5 days each month that you have to say "I'm sorry", "yes baby" and
"I love you" more than 7 times a day. That's when she's menstrating.
Coming from a single man.
ReplyDeleteChai! I already love u John, αи∂ now this is coming from u, my love for u keeps growing. Please tell them oooooooooooo... Pls loud it oooooo
ReplyDelete#It WiLL oNLy gEt beTTer
#iT MuSt eNd IN pRAisE
I hope you practice it
ReplyDeleteI very well agree though. But pls goan marry. You're single and yet giving married people advice. Live with a woman 6 months and come back and give this same advice. I will take it.
ReplyDeleteI very well agree though. But pls goan marry. You're single and yet giving married people advice. Live with a woman 6 months and come back and give this same advice. I will take it.
ReplyDeleteYea since yesterday or so. Came across it. He did well.
ReplyDeletePls let me hear word! Everybody should bringing their own theory. Don't forget that whatever works for u may not work for others. Infact, I will send my own theory
ReplyDeleteWow! Am so impressed. Good one John
ReplyDeleteLIB ADDICT#just passing#
Tell them o... Some Guys are anti romantic.
ReplyDeleteComing from a man who isn't married? I'll pass pls.
ReplyDeleteNumber 8 especially.. Most Nigerian men think only bout their pleasure.. Other points makes sense! Intelligent man!
ReplyDeleteTotally On point
ReplyDeletePOINTS!
ReplyDeleteHe SAID IT ALL.
ok.Every body is now turning to relatioship expert
ReplyDeleteWow,God bless U Mr John Dumelo!nice one
ReplyDeletePersonal opinion
ReplyDeleteWow,God bless U Mr John Dumelo!nice one
ReplyDeleteThat's cool,to them that are married.i and linda are yet to.
ReplyDeleteI comment my reserve...
ReplyDeleteWow,God bless U Mr John Dumelo!nice one
ReplyDeleteGud ptz. Bunch of knowledgeable wordz! Dumelo not like in d movie%
ReplyDeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteRealy.
I love that and women dont lets forget to treat our husbands well too.
I think the celebrities are beginning to have a rethink on marriage issues.
May Allah bless us all with a rightful spouse. Aameen
#Hajia Mufliat
Ewuuuu so cute
ReplyDeleteIts alright Dumelo.....add some new things we dont already know
ReplyDeleteMoye says so via BB Passport courtesy LIB....
I married a selfish igbo man who doesn't even care me.......i am tired. Don't know if God has forgotten me.....m
ReplyDeleteEasier to say than do, how I wish #Linda can come interview your wife.
ReplyDeleteHe said it all.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk john dumelo
ReplyDeleteCool...I like
ReplyDelete100 percent of support on his view
ReplyDeleteTosisochukwu! Marry me
!brightosman aka fake phyno .#gerarahere
True talk, good views..... Let's go Linda
ReplyDeleteNice no.13...very important...
ReplyDelete#sips Orijin#
Hes gonna make a real life coach..
ReplyDeletewhy is he not married? Abeg too much grammer
ReplyDeleteBig ups John! This is indeed a great write-up... Wow!I'm impressed
ReplyDeleteOld news
ReplyDeleteOdiegwu..... but interesting!
ReplyDeleteOshey Mr Lecturer
ReplyDeleteFantastic!
ReplyDeleteChai I just fell in love with this man . I wish God can give me a man like this I will worship him till I die .
ReplyDeleteOmg! So funny, but this is true...happy wife happy life!!!!
ReplyDeleteWonder how he knew about all these tips. An interesting piece. Well said.
ReplyDelete#LIB ADDICT#
good
ReplyDeleteWell said; men take note.
ReplyDeleteLove this write up and the dude. Sure hope you are married!
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...I luv that.
ReplyDeleteMr teacher why are you still singel- get one, Put ring on it and then practice what you preach.
ReplyDeleteLovely.............
ReplyDeleteTrue talk bro
ReplyDeleteI hope u put all these to practice itself...Linda'bae
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...Luv it
ReplyDeleteLol. Like dey dnt know.
ReplyDelete... Merited happiness
pls tel dem o john......
ReplyDeleteFoolish man. What does he know about women and marriage? Nonsensical boy. Go and marry and then you can come here and talk about how to treat your wife.
ReplyDeletesmiled all through while reading this interesting piece and felt special. God bless u Mr Dumelo . wish every man can think and act like this .
ReplyDeleteSo why did he divorce his wife I he was such a perfect woman man???
ReplyDeleteInstead of all this long story he could hav just ask men to be mumu to their wives...lol
DeleteJohn has never been married
DeleteNice one, but all this our celebrities with this marriage and women advice. #IRepLIB
ReplyDeleteCan he practicalise wat he just listed?
DeleteLINDA NOTIFY DBANJ
Well said, Linda if u like don't post my comment am use to it
ReplyDeleteInteresting!! Chicaly49@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteNice one!
ReplyDeleteMay you not only be writer but also the doer.
God help the gentlemen reading this.
I totally support those,God bless John Dumelo
ReplyDeleteI like number 17 more.
ReplyDeleteVise versa, all about wot a man shld do. Wot bout wot a woman shld do.
ReplyDeleteAll good points, I hope it's something you do too. Saying isn't good enough
ReplyDeleteHope he treat his woman with all DAT respect
ReplyDelete#100kOnMyMind
I just read 1 to 8. Nice one. But if you marry the wrong woman, even if you add all your write up (Dumelo's write up)...
ReplyDeleteand practicalize it, it would still yield no fruit...
Cos there's this saying that if you marry the right woman you're complete...
But if you marry the wrong one, YOU'RE COMPLETELY FINISH... (Same goes for the men)
I just read 1 to 8. Nice one. But if you marry the wrong woman, even if you add all your write up (Dumelo's write up)...
ReplyDeleteand practicalize it, it would still yield no fruit...
Cos there's this saying that if you marry the right woman you're complete...
But if you marry the wrong one, YOU'RE COMPLETELY FINISH... (Same goes for the men)
Not bad at all nice
ReplyDeleteTo start with..John is sooo hot...Secondly his views on how to treat women is spot on. .
ReplyDeleteLinda post my comment on
#IWASHERE
Wise words.....
ReplyDeleteNice one from dumelo
DeleteAwww, wish all men will do this, the world will be a better place...Shalis
ReplyDeletenice tips
ReplyDeleteUhmmm that's Deep #Noted Thanks for sharing John (y)
ReplyDeleteI Know Am gonr Be a Great Husband to my unknown Wife and Unborn Kids .
*DeW*
Hmmm...nice one Dumelo
ReplyDeleteOh really....
ReplyDeleteOK ooooo
True talk
ReplyDeleteTrue talk.but this coming from someone who don't even have a girlfriend not to talk of wife or even dreaming of that . all the same you make sense
ReplyDeleteFor window blinds, wallpaper and curtain please call 08160856785.
ReplyDeletePls tell PMB to give us the jobs he promised #unemployed graduate
ReplyDeleteWow... this got me..
ReplyDeleteMy husband does all except one
ReplyDeleteWhich one?
DeleteHmmmmmm amazing
ReplyDeletelol I could not stop laughing at the last one... correct one bro tell ur brothers o
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwwwwwwwww.... D number 17 got me melting... Chai! I still crush on u John... Lols
ReplyDeleteGo and get married. Idiots
ReplyDeletecool...
ReplyDeleteWow! His so correct. Men hv u heard.
ReplyDelete@Lindaikeji No. I FAN.
Kudos 2 u@John, u gat it right.
ReplyDeleteNoted.....u just said it all...
ReplyDeleteNice talk...
ReplyDeleteOn point
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...Good talk..
ReplyDeleteMehn if this is what practice at home then u have made heaven! You can also open a consultancy firm for this purpose
ReplyDeleteNice one Dumelo
ReplyDeleteKudos 2 u @john, u gat it right.
ReplyDeleteNice one Bae... is he married?... BECAUSE HE IS ALWAYS COMMENTING ON LOVE AND MARRIAGE. THOUGHT HE WAS SINGLE?
ReplyDelete***LIB JUDGE***
Waooo,thanks for the advice . it goes a long way.
ReplyDeleteThe ideal is rubbish please think great one.
ReplyDeleteJohn is so,i always know u will make a good husband,jah bless.
ReplyDeleteLinda look alike
No 17. Very important.
ReplyDeleteAww! That's so sweet and he just said the truth. Well, which man go fit do am for naija?
ReplyDeleteThat is good of him.#Abi linda#
ReplyDeleteWith all these knowledge.....your yet to be married 💑?
ReplyDeleteNice write up.
ReplyDeleteNice one
ReplyDeleteNice 1
ReplyDeleteakiko na egwu. John dumelo I can tell u, u don't do any of these. Quit stressing us with all these write ups, let's face reality with full force instead of all these deceits. Mtchww next Biko
ReplyDeleteWow this lovely nic one
ReplyDeleteRubbish,men like john dumelo always have a hidden agenda and are the worst type of men to be with.They are very talented in manipulating women for the own gain and women lap up everything they say
ReplyDeleteEverybody is now a love doctor.
ReplyDeleteTrue
ReplyDeleteI like
ReplyDeleteNice one. Hope young couples learn from these tips?
ReplyDeleteWow nice 1 dumelo[moneyinthebank]
ReplyDeleteWord! #choppindollar
ReplyDelete12,15&17. My boyfriend should be told that. I have no idea for how long I will call him "my boyfriend" the dude really sucks at times!! I have been sick for 3days he can't find 10min time to chat with me. Am about to quit this relationship. We are in a Long-Distance relationship. He just doesn't know how to show care, I sincerely can't be with such a man and thinking of marrying him. Am really confused and worried!!
DeleteM soo hooked on d 17 th soo nice and totful. Thumbs up john
ReplyDeleteOde....lol
ReplyDeleteGbam,correct guy. If only men will listen.
ReplyDeleteGbam!!!,you have said it all john. Ride On.
ReplyDeleteWell said,men take note nd treat ur galfrnd/wife well#slimmy.
ReplyDeleteEverybody to his/her opinion abeq
ReplyDeleteLoving no. 7!
ReplyDeleteEnd time advice
ReplyDeleteAss wipe!!!
ReplyDeleteLol..."wen she is menstrating"
Never try a woman in her period cos hell knows no fury like the Kolo of a woman even wen she dey labour too
John forgot to add dat
Okay uncle
ReplyDeleteeasier said then done, I hope the guys r taking note
ReplyDeleteeasier said then done, I hope the guys r taking note
ReplyDeleteawwwww... 9, 15 AND 17 are d best
ReplyDelete#nicepiece
Nice....I lv
ReplyDeleteD question is, which nigerian man go fit do all these?
awwwww... 9, 15 AND 17 are d best
ReplyDelete#nicepiece
Wow! Well said John Dumelo,quite funny tho.
ReplyDeleteDope,u rock..
ReplyDelete"NeVeR SaY NeVeR"
wow he said it all, nice 1 john.
ReplyDeletepreach on
This is so nice...can't stop laughing
ReplyDeleteYes ooo... U are on point joor
ReplyDeleteOne of my best male actor!!! Thanks for sharing
ReplyDeleteso how should women treat men????
ReplyDeleteso how should women treat men????
ReplyDeleteHmm..... my head be swelling and bursting here. Husband take note o!
ReplyDeleteLolszzzzzzz
ReplyDeleteFunny john dumelo
Wow... These just make me love this guy more & more. These write up is simply d rules of a happy home. Expo
ReplyDeleteso how should women treat men??
ReplyDeleteGOSH! JOHN IS SO SWEET. GOD BLESS U WITH A GOOD WOMAN FOR THIS
ReplyDeletel love the last one.
ReplyDeleteAll this one that our celeb is just informing us how to treat woman from lynxx to dumelo hope all is well..linda observe carefully
ReplyDeleteNice one john
ReplyDeleteLindaz in-law(my brother's wife)
I love dis...
ReplyDeleteEmotional 2016. NiCe one
ReplyDeleteReally? When she's mensturating?
ReplyDeleteNice one John, you will make a good husband.
ReplyDeletetrue talk my man
ReplyDeleteNo 17 is sooo right and best advice to caring men. Lol
ReplyDeletethis guy did a good job here
ReplyDeleteWow. Nice
ReplyDeleteYes baby! Wise man
ReplyDeleteNum 11 and 13 Dumelo you nailed it and i pray you are doing all this your list to your wife
ReplyDelete.....And U are still single
ReplyDeleteVery interesting...MELOMOMENT..
ReplyDeleteWish we could jst get married already.
nonesence advice, stuff it up your ass man,i am not as weak as you are.you can only practice all of the above when you are married to an angel from heaven.
ReplyDeleteWooooooow....so sweet...wish I had a wife or Bar I could practice this with.
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...well said but cn he do all dat?
ReplyDeleteHe knows all dis tins. Why don't he get married and practice dem... Easier said Dan done
ReplyDeleteThat's the truth, I love his point of view
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...Linda I wish u marry a man like this. Pastor s dont preach dis in church dats y d level of divorce is high. They always call culture like their fore fathers created marriage. men ar d head.. lead well..
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...okay
ReplyDeletena u try pass. all correct
ReplyDeleteDumelo were never marry dey advice married ppl.....hmmmm wonders shall never end
ReplyDeleteLolzz
Deletetrue talk John but are sure you do all this things lol
ReplyDeleteNice one dumelo
ReplyDelete-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds
Oga go and marry then you get back to us. Thanks
ReplyDelete9ice ...
ReplyDeleteNice one
ReplyDeletewhy is he not married again? Cos he would make a great husband.
ReplyDeleteGbam Seconded! He is so on point!!!
ReplyDeleteNice write up
ReplyDeleteHe is married o
ReplyDeleteI wish he can share with us how woman must treat husband :p
ReplyDeleteTrue Talk!
ReplyDeleteWaoo great words you melt my heart. please you should adhere to them as well.
ReplyDeleteNice but it doesn't work for everybody.
ReplyDeleteRapuluchukwuifenineadigommakings@yahoo.com
Reporting from Delsu.
This sounds good cus I do most to my woman and we are doing great. But John, we need a manual for the male too.
ReplyDeleteI love Dis message
ReplyDeleteCome and marry me be a great hubby
ReplyDeleteWow.. that's so sweet of him but why is he not married? Waiting for me I guess! Issorite
ReplyDelete9ice1 broda!
ReplyDeleteJohn the writer, pls write more so all dis our men will knw how to treat a lady nd dere wives @home.
ReplyDeleteIs he married though?!
ReplyDeleteU're making sense broda,thoughful!!!
ReplyDeleteIntresting....
ReplyDeleteNot just saying it John..u sure u gonna do that to her
ReplyDeleteMZ EUEU
Brilliant broda!!!
ReplyDeleteBrilliant!!!
ReplyDeleteThoughtful!!!
ReplyDelete