Mrs. Sinmiat Omowumi Ogunbanjo, a mother of four was on Sallah day, battered by her
husband after she refused to take custody of a baby delivered by her husband's mistress, P.M News reports.
Jimmy Omotalabo Ogunbanjo, 40, a staff of Federal Road Safety Commission, FRSC, Abeokuta, Ogun State, came home with a two-year old child and informed Omowumi that the baby was the result of his affair with his mistress in Abeokuta.
Jimmy Omotalabo Ogunbanjo, 40, a staff of Federal Road Safety Commission, FRSC, Abeokuta, Ogun State, came home with a two-year old child and informed Omowumi that the baby was the result of his affair with his mistress in Abeokuta.
According to P.M. News, he told her that he brought the child to her to nurse
because the mistress could not take proper care of the baby. Omowumi asked him to
return the baby to the mother because she was not ready to nurse or take
custody of the baby. Several family members, including her mother-in-law, Ganiyat Ogunbanjo pleaded with her
to take custody of the baby but she refused. Her refusal to accept the child led to an argument and in the process Jimmy and
other members of the family allegedly battered her and threw
her out of her matrimonial home.
Omowumi, who was seriously injured reported the assault to the police who told her it was a family matter and
sent her away. Following the development, Omowumi contacted a
lawyer, Barrister, Olufemi Ajiboso who petitioned the Ogun State
Commissioner of Police and the management of FRSC Ogun State Command,
her husband’s employer.
Ajiboso, who confirmed the incident, said
what happened to Omowumi was a clear case of inhumanity to man and an
assault not only on the victim but women in general. He said
Omowumi informed him that her husband had subjected her to all sorts of
ill treatment since he married her and she had been enduring it because
of her children.
He also revealed that he had instruction from Omowumi to institute a suit for divorce.
Ogunbanjo could not be reached at
the time of filing this report as his phone was switched off when P.M. News reporter phoned him several times.
Hmmmm! NIGERIA IS CELEBRATING 55 YEARS OF INDEPENDENCE! Amazing right? Well I came across this song some few days back and it's something everyone should read, listen to and digest..
ReplyDeleteThe lyrics goes thus:
The young man standing laughing
But he knows where the shoe dey
pain am so
He no fit do anything today
But one day, the tables will turn
The little children on the street
Working hard so they can eat
Dem no fit do anything but cry
But one day, the tables will turn
My sister with the sexy eyes
Selling her body so she can live
She no fit do anything but worry
But one day, the tables will turn
So my brothers don't you see
We must bring some sanity over here
How can one person have so much
While so many have none
The average man doesn't ask for too
much
He only wants what you and I want
A safe place to lay his head at night
Is that too much to ask?
He wants his kids to go to good
schools
So they can become somebody
He wants them grow up healthy and
strong
Is that too much to ask
So when you build your mansions
And drive around in your fancy car
Remember to think of the little man
Cos one day, the tables will turn
So my sisters don't you see...
You must bring some sanity over here
How can one person have so much
While so many have none
People keep on struggling
Meditate on the words of the wise
A lie may stand for a thousand years
But one day the truth will reign
Mothers put away your worries
Wipe away your flowing tears
We no fit do anything today
But one day the tables will turn
Little children listen up
We may be down but we're not out
We must not give up on our dreams
One day, your time will come
So my people don't you see...
You must bring some sanity over here
How can one person have so much
While so many have none
The poor man stands there laughing
But he knows where the shoe dey
pain am so
Him no fit do anything today
But one day, the tables will turn.
LET THE RICH THINK WELL AS THE POOR WORK HARD AND PRAY . .. HAPPY INDEPENDENCE#.
Bishop Dammy, is dis u?
DeleteOppression of s highest order
DeleteThe*
DeleteSuch men will never come my way because they know what am capable of.. Useless men..!!!
DeleteHmmmmm. Dis act iss unacceptable and I pray she get justice so dat dis wil serve as deterrent to other men.
DeleteHappy Independence Day celebration!
Change is here in Nigeria, and remember true change begins with a change in our attitude!
Change does not necessarily assure progress but progress implacably requires change. Change is inevitable. Change 4d better is a full-time job!
I pray today marks total turn around in our lives, and point of contact to every household's wit God meeting our needs even b4 they arise!
God bless, sweet kisses, and luv y'all.
Welcome 2d month of October&Happy New Month.
Long Live LIB!
Rubbish!
DeleteWhat
DeleteThat's a devilish act. Only satan is capable of doing this. 1pet 5:7-8
ReplyDeleteThe man is a beast, he should be locked.
DeleteThe idiot should be jailed
DeleteThat man must be crazy, they should give him 5 month imprisonment with hard labor.
DeleteWomen are always concubines to pain.Quite unfortunate
ReplyDeletethat man needs to be dealt with criosly..useless men parading themselves up and down
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SUCH PPLE R WICKED...INLAWS FOLOW BEAT KWA??...TOMJERRYSWIT
ReplyDeleteAre you minding the fools! The stupid mother-in-law will be supporting his son naaa, women are the problem of women.
DeleteCan you imagine, forcing her to take care of a child when she is not emotionally ready! Tomorrow now, after suffering they will still give her a bad name.
Let the man and his mistress take care of the product of their sexcapades. They are remembering the wife now that the hard part has come.
Is it easy to take care of children? I have just a 6month old baby and sometimes I get so tired that I wanna faint.
Thank God for police,lawyers and the court if not,hmmm....My lips are sealed when it come to marriage palaver!
ReplyDeleteBut didn't you read that the police turned her away? Nigerian people are so hopeless in their reasoning that even her own mother was begging her to stay and take the baby. That is just the height of it! I'm even more upset with that mother who is her blood and is supposed to guide and protect her daughter, that I want to deal with her more than the fake beast of a dirty husband! Anyways I don't blame her, she probably had an abusive marriage just like this one, and was taught by her own mother to stay.
DeleteUseless men, stupid family members! Imagine if it was the woman that had this baby, will the man accept the child? Selfishness!
ReplyDeleteExactly my thoughts!
DeleteMy thoughts exactly
DeleteIt's their culture bro
DeleteNawa ooooo ccc assult of the highest order lolz madam kpele ooo....I dn't eeven knw wat to tell dem sef
ReplyDeleteWomen are too often manhandled in dz world...I hate it!! may God punish all women beaters..amen
ReplyDeleteA vewi gigantic amen,
DeleteWerrin big pass gigantic oh? That's the one I'll go for. Ihe n'eme!
DeleteLOL this leaves a bitter taste in my mouth!
ReplyDeleteNigeria men can so misbehave, if she accept the child he will then bring the woman home. The man should b dealt with abeg
ReplyDeleteSeyilicious
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Some men are very stupid..... He should be jailed for a long tym along with all his stupid relative....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Jesus!!!
ReplyDeleteLinda... this is a clear case of dt pix u uploaded sumtym ago... either u carry dem lazy men or get assaulted...
ReplyDeleteThat was extreme on d man's part, he shouldn't have laid a finger of on her. Oh, he didn't knw he was married αи∂ went outside to impregnate another girl outside his matrimonial home, why are most guys so heartless, senseless αи∂ so unreasonable? Why will he even lay his finger on that lady? He's a weakling of a man αи∂ deserve to be tortured. Is it not all these that makes ladies to hunger for gender equality???? This man is a monster!
ReplyDelete#IT will ONLY get BETTER
#it MUST end IN praise
That was extreme on d man's part, he shouldn't have laid a finger of on her. Oh, he didn't knw he was married αи∂ went outside to impregnate another girl outside his matrimonial home, why are most guys so heartless, senseless αи∂ so unreasonable? Why will he even lay his finger on that lady? He's a weakling of a man αи∂ deserve to be tortured. Is it not all these that makes ladies to hunger for gender equality???? This man is a monster!
ReplyDelete#IT will ONLY get BETTER
#it MUST end IN praise
That was extreme on d man's part, he shouldn't have laid a finger of on her. Oh, he didn't knw he was married αи∂ went outside to impregnate another girl outside his matrimonial home, why are most guys so heartless, senseless αи∂ so unreasonable? Why will he even lay his finger on that lady? He's a weakling of a man αи∂ deserve to be tortured. Is it not all these that makes ladies to hunger for gender equality???? This man is a monster!
ReplyDelete#IT will ONLY get BETTER
#it MUST end IN praise
At times I wept for we women folks, we suffer thingz like animal..men become untamed animals jzt like d man that hits a woman's car den demanded for her husband,such a life of a woman..some need to be taught a strong lesson in this country.
ReplyDeleteThe mistress is highly welcome now the wife is out, devils!!!!
ReplyDeleteWhy would she refuse to take care of her husband baby? na wa for her oo, what if the man heard decided to marry that woman? she is very stupid and she got what she wanted. nonsense.
ReplyDeleteI guess you are one of the stupid men we are talking about, if it were to be your sister, I guess you will celebrate, men like you are the type that will go outside and get HIM and then pass it to your innocent wife, rubbish, men are so selfish.
DeleteYou are a useless fool and whether male or female, single or married, I hope you get. A triple dose of what she got.
DeleteHow dare you! A man battered his wife for refusing to accept a child from his adulterous affair and you say 'she deserves what she got simply because he could have married the mistress?'
Fear God! Karma has everyone's address. Never forget that! One day, she will definitely come calling at your place; either to seek you out or your offspring.
Before you babble, ask yourself if what you want to say is worth it.
Now scurry off, you vermin!
You vewi vewi stupid,some ignorant tlk,abeg Linda try and screen some comments bfr posting dem..
DeleteJust see the rubbish you typed
DeleteAnnon 12:31 u're d biggest fool ever idiot.. if u're a man den ur daugher will go thru dis fool may God punish u
DeleteA very stupid response from a very stupid anonymous person. Did you ask yourself that if the situation were reversed, would the husband take the child .
DeleteU're crazy....stupid illiterate!!
DeleteYou re the one who is a bigger fool. Are u the mistress???? You can't even write proper English.
DeleteYou are wicked for saying that
DeleteToo bad u are wicked
DeleteI'm sure you r one of d home breakers in dis world don't worry I wish you just one tin.. May u b treated same way like dis woman
DeleteHappy independence
U re really a heartless person. I strongly believe u're one of the relatives! Ekwensu in the highest order!
DeleteThunder fire you there! If you are a woman may your husband bring home stray children and if you a man, may your sisters and daughters be forced to take care of stray children, if you are gay gan, may your partner beat you blue black for refusing to accept that he can f**** other guys in your presence! Idiot
DeleteMay this befall you and your generations.....
Delete@ anonymous 12:31pm . I am 100% positive that either YOU committed this act or YOU are one of the relatives that beat this woman.
DeleteYou must be a trolling fool! Was she there when they were f**king? Idiot!
DeleteYou are the STUPID ONE. So would d hubby av agreed to take care of another man's child. We know people like you, still living in the stone age, thinking up side down like a rabbit.
DeleteYou are such a wicked soul. If it was the woman who had a baby from her boyfriend outside the marriage, would the husband accept the child? Selfish idiot you are for that silly comment.
DeleteAnon 12.31, give ur life to Jesus if u can.
DeletePeople, still don't get d fact that the woman is the only one taking care of het own children for the man(infidel), now he needs his wife to continue with her "philanthropy" on his mistress' child!
Nna na wa o! D man is heartless, haba! Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteNna na wa o! D man is heartless, haba! Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteNna na wa o! D man is heartless, haba! Linda take note!
ReplyDelete.... And they say Nigeria is great. After 55 years, brutallity is accepted in society. Where is growth or progress?
ReplyDeleteThis is why we are an unruly bunch. The police said it's a family matter. Can we blame leaders for our silly behavior?
DeleteNigerian police are so amazing. Every time someone gets battered by a family member they send u away saying it's a family matter. Pls dose guys need new orientation.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you, but the funny thing is that it would be a different case if someone ends up dying. Why should police force wait until someone dies before they take necessary steps...a lot of people have died due to domestic violence. You report issue to police, they tell you that it is "family affair," after much appeal and counselling from family members and loved ones, you go back and end up getting killed.
DeleteHmmmmm Na wa oooooo, may God punish the oshi
ReplyDeleteGlowyshoes u go dey here d comment for every blog, u no go tanda for urs n load shoes n draw traffic there.Go back n build ur blog.
ReplyDeleteGlowyshoes go n build ur blog
ReplyDeleteStupid man!
ReplyDeleteAnnymos 12:31 u talk as if u can take take things like this anyway i wish you what u wish this woman .
ReplyDeletewhen people are celebrating they are there beaten each other olaniyidavid71@yahoo.com
ReplyDeletewould the Mans Mother also plead with her son to accept a baby brought in by his wife???..Not good to marry into a razz family fa..imagine you go young sleeping with a mistress then have the audacity to make me the nanny of that rubbish act??...shuooo...so the outside woman can nack but cannot take care of the fruit of that act....
ReplyDeleteI need to hear from the other side too . Inbalance report. Don't jump into conclusion.
ReplyDeleteWicked man,pls they shld teach d man a big lesson dats why i hate sm men.
ReplyDeleteUseless man after four children, he still went out to bring #maggi#baby home. Just destroyed his home.
ReplyDeleteI believe that a child shld be properly taken care of by her biological mother. What made the man think that his wife can take proper care of the child? Again beaten the woman and throwing her out of her matrimonial home is not too good. Pls oga road safety go and bring back ur wife and apologise to her biko before it's too late.
ReplyDeleteYoruba people!
ReplyDeleteThe man should be jailed....
ReplyDeletesee d man dt shld be on his knees begging.. kai women don shop shut. dibe nne, marriage is nt easy
ReplyDeleteThe woman should not have argued with him but pretend to agree and later run away with her kids and file for divorce. He is a monster who should also lose his job. She should waited for him to be asleep on a Sunday morning and run away. Oloriburuku oko oshi!!! Were...
ReplyDeletethat beast needs to be locked up! http://www.bummyla.com
ReplyDeleteHow can someone be assaulted like this and the police turn them away. How are Nigerian police officers trained? Do you have to die first before it becomes a matter for the police to deal with.
ReplyDeleteSee why women today seeking their education and money so they don't have to end up at the mercy of any man. Could she bring another man's baby into their marital home and force him to accept it? What kind of beast is this man and his family members? I implore all ladies out there to seek an education or skill and find a way to support yourselves, have your own money so that nobody will have power over you! Invest and buy your own land and home on your own so when men bring their fckry your way you have your own place to go to. Remember the spirit of Lilith and know your worth!!!! My heart goes out to this poor innocent woman, I hope she gets some help.
She should had accepted the child to her husband home.Man is the head of a family.
ReplyDeleteBuy some brains Oga. It'll help ur ministry. Head of the house my ass
DeleteThis is Abusve Awareness Month in the United Stated., and abuse is live and well... My sister. I Feel so Sorry that happened to you.
ReplyDeleteNo matter the situation NO WOMAN should have too suffer the hands of a angry man. Love isn't suppose to hurt. Love is kind, Love is Gentle. Tears roll down the said of my face while I think about the horrid moments of his abuse you endured. But worry not. Let God fight your battle because he who is greater., will be left standing.....And to her Absurer may God have mercy on you....
Ladies wear your purple lip stick today in solidarity that we are aware of Domestic Violents...
Stupid man,stupid concubine.The wife should start taking care of the child so that the mother can continue sleeping around ,right?God forbid bad thing!Let the owner of the child take care of her child.Period!
ReplyDeleteNana O! you took the words rite out of my mouth......anon 12:31 you are a scumbag.May you be unjustly treated by your spouse.
ReplyDeleteAs for the bastard and his family, i hope you all rot in jail.If the woman accepts the child and starts Mal-treating him, they will say she is a witch.How on earth do you expect a woman to take care of a child that is a product of a man's infidelity. Its not just possible.......even if you are a saint!
my point is that the man should take the child to his biological mother to train. the poor wife is not the one that ask him to spread his sperm around.
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