Unfortunately your husband needs a lot of training. It seems like he was "psychosexually arrested in the anal phase "according to signing Freud . There is a whole lot here which is both psychological and somatic. For me I have to have a shower after a "dump" even if I had a shower 30mins earlier. People have been trained differently hence , no dumping occurs at work for me. It's either early in the am before work or later in the evening when I come back so I can have a shower after every occasion. The guy needs to see a psychotherapist .
A man will stand on the road brings out his penis to weewee, afterwards put it back and continues with what ever he was doing, with out bothering to wash his hands. Some men are so dirty that their boxers smell and singlet milk color. Yalk.
Men are pigs! To even lift there scrotum wash am well with soap and sponge na wahala. Na esi ka akwa rere ere!na DAT kain public toilet dem go expect make woman bend down suck when making love. Nwanyi biko dibe na di GI bu ezi! BTW is ur husband Yoruba?
If bcos a girl I met was dirty an smelly, dat doesn't mean I generalize an insult to all women. Ur wrong! See Ur dirty yansh Ur putting on ur display sef. Asili gba kute...akunakuna!
It's very saddening that the kinda men you roll with do that to you, I feel so sorry for you, instead of asking the tribe of the man why don't you concentrate the energy in changing the kinda men you attract. .....shirt will always attract flies anyway
U are all shades of stupid! is he yoruba meaning what?there aren't dirty ibo men u ds retarded ethnic bigot.shove ur stupid ass opinions up ur stinking ass let's hope it transforms into u having half a brain.
Lol! Let's avoid tribalism and sexism. The lady needs to threaten her husband o. If he won't wash his ass, I wonder what he will ever wash. But she should have noticed this before marriage now. Nne when he was chyking you did you not notice the smell? Only you can put a stop to this situation. Sorry, pele,ndo.
That man is simply a dirty one...ewwwww....αи∂ it seems d wife has OCD.... E don be for her... Can't stand such nonsense myself, she has to teach her or remain disgusted all her life
Talk bout OCD. I'm over the top clean and my hubby of bout 7 months is a huge mess. I mean dude can't even lift the toilet seat to pee yet when I put it up he remembers to put it down to sit and do his nos 2. He brushes his mouth for less than 5 seconds...I'm not even exaggerating. We have quaralled over dis a zillion times cos I love to kiss a lot but wen I think of it I'm like naaa. He can't wipe his ass well...he wears white briefs so each time I wash I see Brown stains. He shaves and leaves hair aĺl over the sink. He Messes the table while eating. I mean I could go on and on bout his mess. Bottom line is he don't even appreciate my effort to keeps things clean and tidy after his mess. Dunno if he'll ever change or I'm in for it all my life.
No bashing ke? Who tell you say we nogo bash you...anyway who tell you say real men don't clean up well? You should have even say "some men" not "real Men". Cleaning up has to do with individual personality whether man or women. Babe if your man is dirty or doesn't clean up well, it's either you discuss it with him or join him. The next time you come here and disturb us with issues like this then "bishop Damy "wunt be far from you for serious Deliverance.
No bashing ke? Who tell you say we nogo bash you...anyway who tell you say real men don't clean up well? You should have even say "some men" not "real Men". Cleaning up has to do with individual personality whether man or women. Babe if your man is dirty or doesn't clean up well, it's either you discuss it with him or join him. The next time you come here and disturb us with issues like this then "bishop Damy "wunt be far from you for serious Deliverance.
His a nasty piece of shit, she should return him back to sender; his MOTHER that wrong him with bad upbringing........ Sex can never happened with such unclean man........
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said... . See as i dey close my nose as if the smell they currently affect me i swear...... Dirty he-goat... Divorce his ass abeg.... . . ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Big lie the ladys husband is just a dirty pig I fucking clean evey where infact I feel comfortable using water to wash up after I shit I even put body spray in ma private region .
Big lie the ladys husband is just a dirty pig I fucking clean evey where infact I feel comfortable using water to wash up after I shit I even put body spray in ma private region .
Arrrggghhhh. If I were her if he refuses to change, I would move out immediately until he changes and starts cleaning his bum himself. Otherwise we have to have separate rooms and bathrooms. Whenever we want to have sex he has to shower first. And he has to wash his own crusty underwear himself!
Your husband is a disgusting man!! Why won't he clean his between his cheeks, Ewww, *pucking*. U are really trying. That's just a dirty man and not applied to others at all!! As for the shoes, some guys don't take hygiene seriously, when their mothers and sisters do everything for them.
Thank you. If they were dating and having sex before marriage, she would have seen all these rubbish. The man is a goat. Even if he has been raped, a clean man would always clean up.
Thank you. If they were dating and having sex before marriage, she would have seen all these rubbish. The man is a goat. Even if he has been raped, a clean man would always clean up.
Hmmmm Linda dis mata pass me ohhh..... But Madam I would like to say if he is claiming real men don't go in between his cheeks den I guess u ve to come up with a strategy to make him feel embarrassed with out putting d blame on you. cos the truth is dat na only person wen like person dey tell am say him mouth dey smell.
If the husband forbids cleanliness and refused to conform into her taste, perhaps she should get herself someone who will. Your happiness counts after all. 'filthiness is avoidable ' so let him step up.
Nasty AF...he's probably been assaulted back there and hasn't dealt with that trauma. So in the rush to be Mrs., this woman really did not see all this during courtship. Now you ride a man with poop eternally in his crack. LOL.
Eish! This is true with some guys though, especially bad breath, smelly shoes, bushy and smelly privates. Dear guys, please endeavour to shave "down south", use a good mouth wash and toothpaste, and please please please try to keep your shoes clean, it's very important.
But didnt you guys date each other for sometime at least to know the kind of man you are getting married to?Anyway, marriage is for better for worse, you take him to a health personnel who can counsel him on the need for personal hygiene.Honestly i feel your pain sis.
dats why it is good to do "intensive" dating, weigh the pros and the cons and know what you are getting into. talk it over subtly and lovingly. dont be harsh or confront him from a superior position. marriage is all about tolerance. and pray. all the best.
the guy is just dirty period. i know guys dont clean well after the use the toilet but the do bath at least once a day that take care of that. its a pity but your husband is dirty. i am a guy but hmmmmmmm its just another level.
Sorry to say but if his feet and shoes smell, u can change dat as a woman. About him nt spreading his cheeks to clean...sory u hv a husband who doesnt understand hygiene but u can talk him into it....quite disgusting
My friend your husband is a dirty man... Seek professional advice cos as it is like dis, small time d marriage go tire u n u go begin seek for divorce. For what reason??? Say ur husband dey smell. If you can't get advice anywhere, then turn to God cos its obvious you are not a strong Christian. Arrange your relationship with God n God in turn will arrange the issue of ur smelling n dirty husband. No mind my words o. Na u bring ur matter come here.
I ended a relationship, one of the reasons being poor personal hygiene...all he knows is wear suit and look clean on the outside but zero for inside... can't deal with guys who don't understand personal hygiene biko.
What's the definition of real man? Man is man! Im a man, with penis. I clean myself very well. It's just disgusting and a dirty man that would keep shit and not clean the ass after doin your number 2. Woman, your man needs help pls.
If a man cant clean himself properly and isnt keen on personal hygiene he is still a boy and needs to put his marriage on hold and go back to his mamas house so she can teach him to clean his ass like the baby he is..
Find out the origin of his misconception, could be from his childhood. Then gently and prayerfully correct it. If u show your disgust too often he will resist the change you are trying to effect. Marriage is not a trivial contract before God.
it is only a pig that would not want to adhere to sanitary tips. that man is dirty, i am a guy and nothing irritates me more than a dirty environment. i guess that ladies husband grew up with that dirty mentality.
Madam u dated dis man before marriage and u were in lost to see his short comings cos u think u re in love or you can change him. Pls develop a strategy to help him cos marriage them say if for better or worse
This lady needs advise. so lets stop the bashing I guess I can give some advice sha. I have been married for 15years. my wife loves me like her soul depends on it and she is such a pretty angel. Yet, I am not a saint. I have had a couple of GFs over time and they all seem to have fallen for me and always begged and wept whenever I needed to ease them off. So. I guess I'm not a disgusting guy like the this lady's husband. Didn't you date at all? dating lets you know how lovely a guy smells, his shoes, stockings, boxers/pants, habits etc. so, I advise dating before marriage. How you smuggle close and want to smell his skin and kiss him endlessly. Anyway, now that you are in it and if you must keep the marriage, first, sit him down and talk frankly. tell him all the things that put you off.After that, start working at those problems, pick his socks and dump in the washing basket at the balcony so it doesn't stink in the house. Same with the shoes. ensure he uses new pants/boxers everyday. No matter how dirty he is, It will be less dirty/brownish. Sun the shoes everyday. introduce him to using water to wash after using the toilet. It is actually cleaner. buy him nice deodorant and use it on him if he wouldn't use. you try and smell well and clean in your negligee. Over time, he will become uncomfortable with smelling badly; and when his friends start commending his nice smell, he will get more into it and appreciate you for your help.
There's noting like real men or fake men here, that fact is that the man is a dirty pig no doubt, it's called {dirty} talk to his family if u can't handle him.
Advice him appropriately and walk him through it. It's just unfortunate you have to deal with it. About his smelly shoes, he should wear sock just once and then wash. Also take d shoe out for fresh air when he's back from work. And then advice or help him wash his feet as much as u can. Kpele
That man is worse than a pig. Men should learn to shave their pubic hairs, lift up their scrothum and shave that area, them wash with soap and sponge. Wash your ass with water thoroughly after using the convinience.wash your undies and singlets at all times. These will keep you clean and fresh all day. Your husband lacks personal hygiene and bad upbringing.
Lol now I want to thank God for my husband because that one cleans his bum like every time and I was feeling bad not knowing some men don't even go there. Jesus I can't cope oh. Thanks for my lovely husband who cleans n washes all the time. Babe talk to ur man ok
like seriously, who does that? i was laughing as i was reading comment. That is not so good at all, may God help you both. For me, unclean guy cannot be my pal not to talk of my hubby, tufiaka.
MAAAAAAAAADDDDDDDAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!.....ABEG U HAVE A MAJOR ''HUMAN PIG SITUATIOON''.......DON'T KNOW HOW U GOT MARRIED TO HIM...BUT CLEARLY, HE NEEDS SOME HELP....IF HIS NUFFIN GOES IN BTW BUTT CHEEKS PHILOSOPHY IS REAL...1)HE SHOULDN'T BRUSH HIS TEETH THEN 2)HE SHOULDN'T CLEAN HIS EARS 3)HE SHOULDN'T DO ANYTHING CLEANING..EVEN TAKING A SHOWER...#PSYCHOHUBBY
@wilheminna moses U HAVE KILLED, KELT & KILLEDED ME. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHA. I cant stop laffing!!!!!!! Nne dibe ya nno...................Lol. Dis one na chance. Does it mean u didnt notice any of these signs before marriage. D worst part is dat he doesn't see anyfin wrong in it. D guy is disgusting! Sorry oooooooooooooo
A lady has just discovered a solution to one of his dirty issues. Toilets that help clean after you and wouldn't require tissue. But, bad breath aint SEXY. Shitty bum bum aint also. Sure his teeth will be horror, more so, his tongue. buy a book of how real me take hygiene issues very seriously for the guy.
Maybe he's not a pig, maybe he didn't deliberately choose to be 'dirty', maybe, just maybe, he was molested as a child and doesn't feel secure spreading his 'cheeks' because it brings back horrific memories. Y'all shouldn't always be quick to judge.
Wen dem say make una dey do courtship/dating before marriage una no dey hear, now carry market wey u close eye buy. Nne it's ur cross o, beta carry it well. Dat man na dustbin shaa o
Ewww!! Reminds me of my ex. I can't stand dirty guys. One time we were doing reverse 69. Man on top. I opened my eyes and I see one hairy black nyash with brown dry poop crumb / dingleberries on it! Told the dirty fool to go and wash up! I was so turned the f off! He was also fond of not wiping after he peed, he would just shake the rest of the pee out of his dick. It would go everywhere. And the floor and seat would be soaked in pee. Like dude this is not a fuckin public toilet. Even at my place, even in hotel. He would do it. Nasty habit. I tried to tush him up but the dirty pig is some poor girl's problem now. Thank God. The guy was just short, black and fine for nothing. Lmao!
Ewww!! Reminds me of my ex. I can't stand dirty guys. One time we were doing reverse 69. Man on top. I opened my eyes and I see one hairy black nyash with brown dry poop crumb / dingleberries on it! Told the dirty fool to go and wash up! I was so turned the f off! He was also fond of not wiping after he peed, he would just shake the rest of the pee out of his dick. It would go everywhere. And the floor and seat would be soaked in pee. Like dude this is not a fuckin public toilet. Even at my place, even in hotel. He would do it. Nasty habit. I tried to tush him up but the dirty pig is some poor girl's problem now. Thank God. The guy was just short, black and fine for nothing. Lmao! Not fit to be my husband abeg
Ewww!! Reminds me of my ex. I can't stand dirty guys. One time we were doing reverse 69. Man on top. I opened my eyes and I see one hairy black nyash with brown dry poop crumb / dingleberries on it! Told the dirty fool to go and wash up! I was so turned the f off! He was also fond of not wiping after he peed, he would just shake the rest of the pee out of his dick. It would go everywhere. And the floor and seat would be soaked in pee. Like dude this is not a fuckin public toilet. Even at my place, even in hotel. He would do it. Nasty habit. I tried to tush him up but the dirty pig is some poor girl's problem now. Thank God. The guy was just short, black and fine for nothing. Lmao! Someone like that even tho he works at chevron is not fit to be my husband Bill. When we marry, who knows it might be shit I will have to deal with. LOOOOOL.
Hmmmm babe abeg,you can't do anything about it anymore.the only thing you can do is clean him up yourself and tell him how disgusting it is.this is the price you have to pay for not courting
Why didn't she notice all this before getting married to him. In life everybody have to make their life the way they want. I personally cannot stand any form of smell from any man talk more of this shit that this woman is going through. Some men are neat while some are so fucking dirty starting with their mouth that gutter is even better than. Then their hairs that they don't shave it smells like he-goat. They fimd it difficult to even bath once a day. So my dear you should have see all this before saying I do. Sorry that u have to live with it.
Every body is creaming he is a pig!!!, without any possible solution, my dear i think first u need to take this as an assignment. make you home filled with room freshener, if its not dead yet revive the idea of bathing together before bed time as such in love you can correct it, also leaving him alone will embarrass u as the wife if he goes to work smelling pops, as a wife you will do that for your baby so try correcting him in love. you might not succeed in changing that at once but gradually you will, if his socks smells make a duty to always pull out his socks and replacing it for the next day as he might have a sweaty feet. yes its not going to be easy but gradually he will change.
IF YOU LOVE HIM ENOUGH TO MARRY:YOU SHOULD LOVE HIM ENOUGH TO DEAL WITH HIS PIGGISH ATTITUDE.
This is a serious issue and you need to discuss it with your husband. By the way did you not court him before marriage? He could possibly be suffering from anal dysfunction. Sit him down and discuss it with him or die in silence.
You will be surprise to know what men do all in the name of being a man. When they see you doing some cleaning, they will say who is this one that is behaving like a woman. I get sick when I see men like that, I am a young man who share a room with other 4 boys in Mushin-Lagos and I know what I go through everyday, I know my midnight prayers will not go in vain for God knows I'm really working to make sure I leave there for my own apartment. When you share an apartment with some guys, you won't want to bring in anyone you don't know so well, knowing his or her way of life when it comes to cleanliness into your house. Uncleanliness can bring bad luck to one's life and it's kind of a set back, it blinds you to know the value of good things. You won't be able to think big, you will want to settle with every little thing that comes your way ... I'm not saying one should go steal but have the mind set of acquiring something better than what you have by knowing you can get there.
So many things have meaning to life, there is magic everywhere ... believe it or not, it's happening just like the work of God that is moving forward.
I pray God help us and open our eyes beyond the ordinary.
Cleanliness is next to Godliness so anyone who is not practicing that is just trying to close the door that leads to Gods Kingdom and when that door is close... How can you receive from God, How can you get answers to your prayers.
I am trying to put in words to these guys I live with here and they are gradually changing... though they don't listen to me but they themselves are noticing the gap between us.
You are a woman, just try to help him with the washing and put in words when an opportunity comes in... it might be when you guys are discussing, talking about something that falls on that part, auguring about somethings that relate to that....
If you love him, try doing this for him and give him time to change ... I don't like the sex before marriage but I will say here and now that is still good to get close to someone as in the naked part before marriage...if opportunity permits... hold yourself while doing that ...lol
If we want ask you now, it will turn out that you've had series of sex with him before getting married and possibly you've seen these things but decide to look away because he's promising in matrimony.
I pray there will be a time in this life when marriage will no longer be important to humans.... maybe a third priority base thing.
Enjoy your marriage and embrace your second half... pray over it and God will present you an opportunity to grab him by his balls while he get fixed in that aspect.
You are the best of your kind my dear.... Happy Marriage Life.
please your husband is bi sexual..... his ass been up and about.... real men dont have to prove they are real men by saying it... you are a real man by action. open your eyes
It is wah!
ReplyDeleteD lady doesn't ve any chill at all
DeleteReal dirty men don't clean. Real MEN clean...
DeleteHe's not a real man. He's a real pig!!!
DeleteAnd u didn't know he was this dirty when u were dating? Or u overlooked it? Am so not advising u aunty. U should have known before now
DeleteAs d saying goes, u can tak a pig away frm d gutters but u can not tak away d gutters frm inside of d pig.
DeleteDis man is damned dirty and should learn cleaniless is next to godliness. I hope dat he wil change for d better and I believe matter of time he wil.
D woman should b supportive and encourage him to b clean. All d best to them.
Unfortunately your husband needs a lot of training. It seems like he was "psychosexually arrested in the anal phase "according to signing Freud . There is a whole lot here which is both psychological and somatic. For me I have to have a shower after a "dump" even if I had a shower 30mins earlier. People have been trained differently hence , no dumping occurs at work for me. It's either early in the am before work or later in the evening when I come back so I can have a shower after every occasion. The guy needs to see a psychotherapist .
DeleteA man will stand on the road brings out his penis to weewee, afterwards put it back and continues with what ever he was doing, with out bothering to wash his hands. Some men are so dirty that their boxers smell and singlet milk color. Yalk.
DeleteEwww! You're married to a pig oo
Delete~D great anonymous!
OmG! That man is disgustingly dirty. I want to puke!!!
DeleteLol
ReplyDeleteEwwwww, can't even look at my poo talk more of someone else'
DeleteTake him to a car wash.
ReplyDeleteI wana puke
ReplyDeleteI no fit laff abeg. Dat man is surely a pig. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteI no fit laff abeg. Dat man is surely a pig. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteEwwwwww!!
DeleteMen are pigs! To even lift there scrotum wash am well with soap and sponge na wahala. Na esi ka akwa rere ere!na DAT kain public toilet dem go expect make woman bend down suck when making love. Nwanyi biko dibe na di GI bu ezi! BTW is ur husband Yoruba?
ReplyDeleteIf bcos a girl I met was dirty an smelly, dat doesn't mean I generalize an insult to all women. Ur wrong! See Ur dirty yansh Ur putting on ur display sef. Asili gba kute...akunakuna!
DeleteIs Igbo bcs as a yoruba man u must use water to wash ur self after toilet bt Igbo no dey use water or tissue paper.
DeleteHope u've given ur father and husban/boy friend some pig foodd this morning
DeleteIt's very saddening that the kinda men you roll with do that to you, I feel so sorry for you, instead of asking the tribe of the man why don't you concentrate the energy in changing the kinda men you attract. .....shirt will always attract flies anyway
DeleteLol. Preash it sister willy!
DeleteU are all shades of stupid! is he yoruba meaning what?there aren't dirty ibo men u ds retarded ethnic bigot.shove ur stupid ass opinions up ur stinking ass let's hope it transforms into u having half a brain.
DeleteYou see how myopic you are, been Yoruba the context of the message.
DeleteSure you are short sighted to life. Eeeewu
You see how myopic you are, been Yoruba the context of the message.
DeleteSure you are short sighted to life. Eeeewu
That was harsh..
DeleteThat was harsh!
DeleteLolz. Please pity the ignorant jelly fish
DeleteLol! Let's avoid tribalism and sexism. The lady needs to threaten her husband o. If he won't wash his ass, I wonder what he will ever wash. But she should have noticed this before marriage now. Nne when he was chyking you did you not notice the smell? Only you can put a stop to this situation. Sorry, pele,ndo.
DeleteThat man is simply a dirty one...ewwwww....αи∂ it seems d wife has OCD.... E don be for her... Can't stand such nonsense myself, she has to teach her or remain disgusted all her life
ReplyDelete#It WiLL onLY geT beTTer
#It mUsT eNd iN prAiSe
Talk bout OCD. I'm over the top clean and my hubby of bout 7 months is a huge mess. I mean dude can't even lift the toilet seat to pee yet when I put it up he remembers to put it down to sit and do his nos 2. He brushes his mouth for less than 5 seconds...I'm not even exaggerating. We have quaralled over dis a zillion times cos I love to kiss a lot but wen I think of it I'm like naaa. He can't wipe his ass well...he wears white briefs so each time I wash I see Brown stains. He shaves and leaves hair aĺl over the sink. He Messes the table while eating. I mean I could go on and on bout his mess. Bottom line is he don't even appreciate my effort to keeps things clean and tidy after his mess. Dunno if he'll ever change or I'm in for it all my life.
DeleteDisgusting
ReplyDeleteEwwww! jez dunno wat 2 say
ReplyDelete*lib's namesake*
Your husband is just a pig, nothing like real men don't clean up.m
ReplyDeleteSome men, not all
ReplyDeleteHer husband is a dirty guy, period! This has nothing to do with real man or fake man.
ReplyDeleteDo You Have Problems Lasting Long in Bed?
Don't think so..... we are all different. Read Gen 1:27
ReplyDeleteNo bashing ke?
ReplyDeleteWho tell you say we nogo bash you...anyway who tell you say real men don't clean up well?
You should have even say "some men" not "real Men".
Cleaning up has to do with individual personality whether man or women. Babe if your man is dirty or doesn't clean up well, it's either you discuss it with him or join him.
The next time you come here and disturb us with issues like this then "bishop Damy "wunt be far from you for serious Deliverance.
No bashing ke?
ReplyDeleteWho tell you say we nogo bash you...anyway who tell you say real men don't clean up well?
You should have even say "some men" not "real Men".
Cleaning up has to do with individual personality whether man or women. Babe if your man is dirty or doesn't clean up well, it's either you discuss it with him or join him.
The next time you come here and disturb us with issues like this then "bishop Damy "wunt be far from you for serious Deliverance.
ReplyDelete>>> abi na village man you marry ???
His a nasty piece of shit, she should return him back to sender; his MOTHER that wrong him with bad upbringing........ Sex can never happened with such unclean man........
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
See as i dey close my nose as if the smell they currently affect me i swear...... Dirty he-goat... Divorce his ass abeg....
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ewwww.....that man had better strt cleanING UP HZ FAT ASS biko
ReplyDeleteMISSVEE
Put him on OLX
ReplyDeleteLolzz......... Even OLX won't let Him be sold on their platform
DeleteTufiakwa unu Ndi Mpitoor
ReplyDeleteAs d saying goes, u can tak a pig away frm d gutters but u can not tak away d gutters frm inside of d pig.
ReplyDeleteDis man is damned dirty and should learn cleaniless is next to godliness. I hope dat he wil change for d better and I believe matter of time he wil.
D woman should b supportive and encourage him to b clean. All d best to them.
He is dirty just like u that uses tissue paper to clean ur ass
DeleteThe man is a capital PIG.
ReplyDeleteSorry maám, but your husband is a PIG. Contrary to what he said, REAL men clean up after bathroom business.
ReplyDelete#TeamBlessed#
Sorry maám, but your husband is a PIG. Contrary to what he said, REAL men clean up after bathroom business.
ReplyDelete#TeamBlessed#
Big lie the ladys husband is just a dirty pig I fucking clean evey where infact I feel comfortable using water to wash up after I shit I even put body spray in ma private region .
ReplyDeleteBig lie the ladys husband is just a dirty pig I fucking clean evey where infact I feel comfortable using water to wash up after I shit I even put body spray in ma private region .
ReplyDeleteArrrggghhhh. If I were her if he refuses to change, I would move out immediately until he changes and starts cleaning his bum himself. Otherwise we have to have separate rooms and bathrooms. Whenever we want to have sex he has to shower first. And he has to wash his own crusty underwear himself!
ReplyDeleteThat's why you can never get married. If moving out is your best option.
DeleteShe need to help him out.
I'm a man... but I must tell u the truth... ur husband is a PIG
ReplyDeleteThat man is a complete dirty personality,don't fail to realise that no all men are like.thanks
ReplyDeleteAdvice! Start cleaning him up like a kid he is shikina.
ReplyDeleteYou are married to a pig. Sorry.
ReplyDeleteGuy is a real omoto...what nonsense?
ReplyDeleteYour husband is a disgusting man!! Why won't he clean his between his cheeks, Ewww, *pucking*. U are really trying. That's just a dirty man and not applied to others at all!! As for the shoes, some guys don't take hygiene seriously, when their mothers and sisters do everything for them.
ReplyDeleteDid u guys ever dated at all? If "YES" why didn't u notice all those flaws? and if "NO" u hv to deal with it. #ImportanceOfDatingBeforeMarrage#
ReplyDeleteThank you. If they were dating and having sex before marriage, she would have seen all these rubbish. The man is a goat. Even if he has been raped, a clean man would always clean up.
DeleteThank you. If they were dating and having sex before marriage, she would have seen all these rubbish. The man is a goat. Even if he has been raped, a clean man would always clean up.
DeleteHaa...big problem,no idea
ReplyDeleteTHAT IS A DIRTY ASS (lol) MAN, PERIOD!!!
ReplyDeleteHmmm. Seriously...He need to learn proper hygiene..If not for himself..But for you the wife. Classic men" are clean to there toe.
ReplyDeleteWth are u talking about
ReplyDeleteYOU have married A PIG.
ReplyDeleteLike you should see my face now. ewwwwwwwww.
I have geese bumps all over my skin.
Tufiakwa.
#Smile
If the dude forbids cleanliness,and cannot conform to her taste, perhaps she should get herself someone who does.
ReplyDeleteU too na d same. U didn't notice when u guys dated? Story for the gods. Maybe na u worse sef. Wetin u want make we do for u now? Make we come beat am?
ReplyDeleteDis one na original pig. Pls keep talking to him n praying 2. Who knws, may he needs deliverance frm dirtyness.
ReplyDeleteit obvious you are married to a dirty man. take heart and bear with him
ReplyDeleteNimelda said so...........
That's what happens when u marry a Man U didn't date for long..I pity u sha
ReplyDeleteYou married a dirty pig!! EWWWWW
ReplyDeleteExtremely dirty man i must say.
ReplyDeleteDirty ass.
ReplyDeleteShe married a really dirty man. What kinda 'real' man doesn't clean up? Jeez, I hate dirty men!!!
ReplyDeleteHmmmm Linda dis mata pass me ohhh..... But Madam I would like to say if he is claiming real men don't go in between his cheeks den I guess u ve to come up with a strategy to make him feel embarrassed with out putting d blame on you. cos the truth is dat na only person wen like person dey tell am say him mouth dey smell.
ReplyDelete*throws up.
ReplyDeleteI have never heard such a thing, he is just a dirty man
ReplyDeleteIf the husband forbids cleanliness and refused to conform into her taste, perhaps she should get herself someone who will. Your happiness counts after all. 'filthiness is avoidable ' so let him step up.
ReplyDeletehahahhahahahahaa...funny man
ReplyDeleteNasty AF...he's probably been assaulted back there and hasn't dealt with that trauma. So in the rush to be Mrs., this woman really did not see all this during courtship. Now you ride a man with poop eternally in his crack. LOL.
ReplyDeleteThe ladies username shouldn't be displayed.. Cos people who know her might read this and tag her husband dirty
DeleteWait wat? Dats ugly!
ReplyDeleteEish!
ReplyDeleteThis is true with some guys though, especially bad breath, smelly shoes, bushy and smelly privates.
Dear guys, please endeavour to shave "down south", use a good mouth wash and toothpaste, and please please please try to keep your shoes clean, it's very important.
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No comment. Just speechless.
ReplyDeleteOde!
ReplyDeleteGoan deal with it personally
But didnt you guys date each other for sometime at least to know the kind of man you are getting married to?Anyway, marriage is for better for worse, you take him to a health personnel who can counsel him on the need for personal hygiene.Honestly i feel your pain sis.
ReplyDeleteSorry woman, u married a dirty punk ass man.
ReplyDeleteLol......dirty is an understatement
DeleteThere's no such tin.... the guy is a dirty person
ReplyDeleteHahahaha WTF!
ReplyDeleteabeg linda make d person try begin bath e husband before d house friends and family no go fit enter again.d man na very dirty man from on set
ReplyDeleteplain n simple the dude is just nasty yuck yuck yuck didn't u date him before u got married well my dear u done buy market enjoy your wedding life lol
ReplyDeletedats why it is good to do "intensive" dating, weigh the pros and the cons and know what you are getting into. talk it over subtly and lovingly. dont be harsh or confront him from a superior position. marriage is all about tolerance. and pray. all the best.
ReplyDeleteYOU SAID YOUR HUSBAND WERE U BLIND WHEN YOU SAID I DO?
ReplyDeleteNEEEEEEEEXXXXTTTTTTT!!!!!
LINDA NEXXXXTTTT!!!!
She's married to a pig.....how sad. smh
ReplyDeletehummmmmm i wonder Linda dirty man nonsense
ReplyDeleteUr hubby is an outright dirty man, diabolic or psychologically unstable
ReplyDeletethe guy is just dirty period. i know guys dont clean well after the use the toilet but the do bath at least once a day that take care of that. its a pity but your husband is dirty. i am a guy but hmmmmmmm its just another level.
ReplyDeleteOnce a day?? Are u kidding me *pukes* don't u shower before bed??? Hope ur gf don't give u bj? Ewww
DeleteUr hubby is dirty, that does not mean that men are like that, my husband is clean from head to toe.
ReplyDeleteSorry to say but if his feet and shoes smell, u can change dat as a woman. About him nt spreading his cheeks to clean...sory u hv a husband who doesnt understand hygiene but u can talk him into it....quite disgusting
ReplyDeleteMy friend your husband is a dirty man... Seek professional advice cos as it is like dis, small time d marriage go tire u n u go begin seek for divorce. For what reason??? Say ur husband dey smell. If you can't get advice anywhere, then turn to God cos its obvious you are not a strong Christian. Arrange your relationship with God n God in turn will arrange the issue of ur smelling n dirty husband. No mind my words o. Na u bring ur matter come here.
ReplyDeleteEwwww
ReplyDeleteYour husband is a dirty man! Anyanmaaa!!!
ReplyDeleteI ended a relationship, one of the reasons being poor personal hygiene...all he knows is wear suit and look clean on the outside but zero for inside... can't deal with guys who don't understand personal hygiene biko.
ReplyDeleteWhat's the definition of real man? Man is man! Im a man, with penis. I clean myself very well. It's just disgusting and a dirty man that would keep shit and not clean the ass after doin your number 2. Woman, your man needs help pls.
ReplyDeleteand you are just realizing this now, am guessing you met and married him the same day.
ReplyDeleteVariance Analysis Calculation
He may have developed a phobia for 'spreading his cheeks'. Maybe he was molested as a kid.
ReplyDeleteYour husband is just dirty who told you that real men don't clean up well?
ReplyDeleteIf a man cant clean himself properly and isnt keen on personal hygiene he is still a boy and needs to put his marriage on hold and go back to his mamas house so she can teach him to clean his ass like the baby he is..
ReplyDelete................
ReplyDeleteDIRTY MAN...Disgracing us men for public..when my wife is even complaining of my extra neatness!!
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ReplyDeleteOLX SALE HIM
OK just as u asked, No bashing! Please next time keep matters like this to urself cos ur hussy is an irreconcilable lazy serial dirt producer.
ReplyDeleteThats not true, I wipe my ass till the tissue is white and I always wash my ass whenever I shower.I hate brown stains on the toilet too.
ReplyDeleteFind out the origin of his misconception, could be from his childhood. Then gently and prayerfully correct it. If u show your disgust too often he will resist the change you are trying to effect. Marriage is not a trivial contract before God.
ReplyDeleteLol Go and buy him Tushy...... and pls the expensive one, he needs hot water for that area this one he has not being cleaning it for years. Lol
ReplyDeleteit is only a pig that would not want to adhere to sanitary tips. that man is dirty, i am a guy and nothing irritates me more than a dirty environment. i guess that ladies husband grew up with that dirty mentality.
ReplyDeleteMadam u dated dis man before marriage and u were in lost to see his short comings cos u think u re in love or you can change him. Pls develop a strategy to help him cos marriage them say if for better or worse
ReplyDeleteThe guy is a pig. period!
ReplyDeleteDid she not notice his lack of personal hygiene before they got married? Jizos I wanna barf.
ReplyDeleteThe man is simply dirty joor!
ReplyDeleteThat guy is dirty but since u guys r married try and teach him personal hygiene.
ReplyDeleteThis lady needs advise. so lets stop the bashing
ReplyDeleteI guess I can give some advice sha. I have been married for 15years. my wife loves me like her soul depends on it and she is such a pretty angel. Yet, I am not a saint. I have had a couple of GFs over time and they all seem to have fallen for me and always begged and wept whenever I needed to ease them off. So. I guess I'm not a disgusting guy like the this lady's husband.
Didn't you date at all? dating lets you know how lovely a guy smells, his shoes, stockings, boxers/pants, habits etc. so, I advise dating before marriage. How you smuggle close and want to smell his skin and kiss him endlessly. Anyway, now that you are in it and if you must keep the marriage, first, sit him down and talk frankly. tell him all the things that put you off.After that, start working at those problems, pick his socks and dump in the washing basket at the balcony so it doesn't stink in the house. Same with the shoes. ensure he uses new pants/boxers everyday. No matter how dirty he is, It will be less dirty/brownish. Sun the shoes everyday. introduce him to using water to wash after using the toilet. It is actually cleaner. buy him nice deodorant and use it on him if he wouldn't use. you try and smell well and clean in your negligee. Over time, he will become uncomfortable with smelling badly; and when his friends start commending his nice smell, he will get more into it and appreciate you for your help.
Sounds like he is gay or has male ***....And why is he so defensive about spreading his butt cheeks..*ding dong*
ReplyDeleteNAH!
ReplyDeleteThere's noting like real men or fake men here, that fact is that the man is a dirty pig no doubt, it's called {dirty} talk to his family if u can't handle him.
ReplyDeleteAdvice him appropriately and walk him through it. It's just unfortunate you have to deal with it. About his smelly shoes, he should wear sock just once and then wash. Also take d shoe out for fresh air when he's back from work. And then advice or help him wash his feet as much as u can. Kpele
ReplyDeleteThat man is worse than a pig. Men should learn to shave their pubic hairs, lift up their scrothum and shave that area, them wash with soap and sponge. Wash your ass with water thoroughly after using the convinience.wash your undies and singlets at all times. These will keep you clean and fresh all day. Your husband lacks personal hygiene and bad upbringing.
ReplyDeleteLol now I want to thank God for my husband because that one cleans his bum like every time and I was feeling bad not knowing some men don't even go there. Jesus I can't cope oh. Thanks for my lovely husband who cleans n washes all the time. Babe talk to ur man ok
ReplyDeletelike seriously, who does that? i was laughing as i was reading comment. That is not so good at all, may God help you both. For me, unclean guy cannot be my pal not to talk of my hubby, tufiaka.
ReplyDeleteThe guy is such a stinky, irritating, dirty pig! Kilode????
ReplyDeleteBabe ur husband is simply diryt, have never heard of such b4. Haba the man no try @ all. Don't even know the kind advice I fit give u sef
ReplyDeleteBabe ur husband is simply diryt, have never heard of such b4. Haba the man no try @ all. Don't even know the kind advice I fit give u sef
ReplyDeleteBabe ur husband is simply diryt, have never heard of such b4. Haba the man no try @ all. Don't even know the kind advice I fit give u sef
ReplyDeleteBabe ur husband is simply diryt, have never heard of such b4. Haba the man no try @ all. Don't even know the kind advice I fit give u sef
ReplyDeleteLol
ReplyDeleteThis sounds very comical and hilarious.Is the man for real, he should just clean up already and stop been dirty!
ReplyDeleteDi GI bu ezi biko .u need to soak him overnight with hypo
ReplyDeleteGET A WASHING MACHINE AND DIAPERS. @amfestus
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of real man is that.
ReplyDeleteChoi...so disgusting.
ReplyDeleteyou are married to an ape. live with it
ReplyDeleteMAAAAAAAAADDDDDDDAAAAAAAAAMMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!.....ABEG U HAVE A MAJOR ''HUMAN PIG SITUATIOON''.......DON'T KNOW HOW U GOT MARRIED TO HIM...BUT CLEARLY, HE NEEDS SOME HELP....IF HIS NUFFIN GOES IN BTW BUTT CHEEKS PHILOSOPHY IS REAL...1)HE SHOULDN'T BRUSH HIS TEETH THEN 2)HE SHOULDN'T CLEAN HIS EARS 3)HE SHOULDN'T DO ANYTHING CLEANING..EVEN TAKING A SHOWER...#PSYCHOHUBBY
ReplyDelete@wilheminna moses U HAVE KILLED, KELT & KILLEDED ME. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHA. I cant stop laffing!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteNne dibe ya nno...................Lol. Dis one na chance. Does it mean u didnt notice any of these signs before marriage. D worst part is dat he doesn't see anyfin wrong in it. D guy is disgusting! Sorry oooooooooooooo
A lady has just discovered a solution to one of his dirty issues. Toilets that help clean after you and wouldn't require tissue. But, bad breath aint SEXY. Shitty bum bum aint also. Sure his teeth will be horror, more so, his tongue. buy a book of how real me take hygiene issues very seriously for the guy.
ReplyDeleteClean up (2ce) everybody do your part.
Tell that man he is a PIG
ReplyDeleteOmo u don marry mad man
ReplyDeleteMaybe he's not a pig, maybe he didn't deliberately choose to be 'dirty', maybe, just maybe, he was molested as a child and doesn't feel secure spreading his 'cheeks' because it brings back horrific memories. Y'all shouldn't always be quick to judge.
ReplyDeleteLinda escalatopia. This one Na lie.
ReplyDeleteUr husband is dirty AF. Dats all
ReplyDeleteWen dem say make una dey do courtship/dating before marriage una no dey hear, now carry market wey u close eye buy. Nne it's ur cross o, beta carry it well. Dat man na dustbin shaa o
ReplyDeleteVery dirty man
ReplyDeleteVery dirty man
ReplyDeleteYou are his wife not his mum, you either put up with is love for shit or you do something about it. He is not a classic man either.
ReplyDeleteEwww!! Reminds me of my ex. I can't stand dirty guys. One time we were doing reverse 69. Man on top. I opened my eyes and I see one hairy black nyash with brown dry poop crumb / dingleberries on it! Told the dirty fool to go and wash up! I was so turned the f off! He was also fond of not wiping after he peed, he would just shake the rest of the pee out of his dick. It would go everywhere. And the floor and seat would be soaked in pee. Like dude this is not a fuckin public toilet. Even at my place, even in hotel. He would do it. Nasty habit. I tried to tush him up but the dirty pig is some poor girl's problem now. Thank God. The guy was just short, black and fine for nothing. Lmao!
ReplyDeleteEwww!! Reminds me of my ex. I can't stand dirty guys. One time we were doing reverse 69. Man on top. I opened my eyes and I see one hairy black nyash with brown dry poop crumb / dingleberries on it! Told the dirty fool to go and wash up! I was so turned the f off! He was also fond of not wiping after he peed, he would just shake the rest of the pee out of his dick. It would go everywhere. And the floor and seat would be soaked in pee. Like dude this is not a fuckin public toilet. Even at my place, even in hotel. He would do it. Nasty habit. I tried to tush him up but the dirty pig is some poor girl's problem now. Thank God. The guy was just short, black and fine for nothing. Lmao! Not fit to be my husband abeg
ReplyDeleteEwww!! Reminds me of my ex. I can't stand dirty guys. One time we were doing reverse 69. Man on top. I opened my eyes and I see one hairy black nyash with brown dry poop crumb / dingleberries on it! Told the dirty fool to go and wash up! I was so turned the f off! He was also fond of not wiping after he peed, he would just shake the rest of the pee out of his dick. It would go everywhere. And the floor and seat would be soaked in pee. Like dude this is not a fuckin public toilet. Even at my place, even in hotel. He would do it. Nasty habit. I tried to tush him up but the dirty pig is some poor girl's problem now. Thank God. The guy was just short, black and fine for nothing. Lmao! Someone like that even tho he works at chevron is not fit to be my husband Bill. When we marry, who knows it might be shit I will have to deal with. LOOOOOL.
ReplyDeleteLOL..OK ..well i advice you take him to a car wash first, then to church and then to his village maybe his mother is the cause LOL ... XOXOXO
ReplyDeleteHmmmm babe abeg,you can't do anything about it anymore.the only thing you can do is clean him up yourself and tell him how disgusting it is.this is the price you have to pay for not courting
ReplyDeleteWhy didn't she notice all this before getting married to him. In life everybody have to make their life the way they want. I personally cannot stand any form of smell from any man talk more of this shit that this woman is going through. Some men are neat while some are so fucking dirty starting with their mouth that gutter is even better than. Then their hairs that they don't shave it smells like he-goat. They fimd it difficult to even bath once a day. So my dear you should have see all this before saying I do. Sorry that u have to live with it.
ReplyDeleteDidn't you guys date??!! I hate dirty people.
ReplyDeleteEvery body is creaming he is a pig!!!, without any possible solution, my dear i think first u need to take this as an assignment. make you home filled with room freshener, if its not dead yet revive the idea of bathing together before bed time as such in love you can correct it, also leaving him alone will embarrass u as the wife if he goes to work smelling pops, as a wife you will do that for your baby so try correcting him in love.
ReplyDeleteyou might not succeed in changing that at once but gradually you will,
if his socks smells make a duty to always pull out his socks and replacing it for the next day as he might have a sweaty feet.
yes its not going to be easy but gradually he will change.
IF YOU LOVE HIM ENOUGH TO MARRY:YOU SHOULD LOVE HIM ENOUGH TO DEAL WITH HIS PIGGISH ATTITUDE.
ewwwwwwww........what kind of a man that........
ReplyDeletetell am to dey put Camphor for inside him yansh...or give am Drummer Boy
ReplyDeleteThis is a serious issue and you need to discuss it with your husband. By the way did you not court him before marriage? He could possibly be suffering from anal dysfunction. Sit him down and discuss it with him or die in silence.
ReplyDeleteHe is a pig
ReplyDeleteHe's a dirty man....
ReplyDeleteWTF,what sort of a dirty ass man is that,,jezz,disgusting.
ReplyDeleteNaaaaa... U must be a heart to heart tall with him, not all men are like that but u ve to try any teach him. Try!
ReplyDeleteYou will be surprise to know what men do all in the name of being a man.
ReplyDeleteWhen they see you doing some cleaning, they will say who is this one that is behaving like a woman.
I get sick when I see men like that, I am a young man who share a room with other 4 boys in Mushin-Lagos and I know what I go through everyday, I know my midnight prayers will not go in vain for God knows I'm really working to make sure I leave there for my own apartment.
When you share an apartment with some guys, you won't want to bring in anyone you don't know so well, knowing his or her way of life when it comes to cleanliness into your house.
Uncleanliness can bring bad luck to one's life and it's kind of a set back, it blinds you to know the value of good things.
You won't be able to think big, you will want to settle with every little thing that comes your way ... I'm not saying one should go steal but have the mind set of acquiring something better than what you have by knowing you can get there.
So many things have meaning to life, there is magic everywhere ... believe it or not, it's happening just like the work of God that is moving forward.
I pray God help us and open our eyes beyond the ordinary.
Cleanliness is next to Godliness so anyone who is not practicing that is just trying to close the door that leads to Gods Kingdom and when that door is close... How can you receive from God, How can you get answers to your prayers.
I am trying to put in words to these guys I live with here and they are gradually changing... though they don't listen to me but they themselves are noticing the gap between us.
You are a woman, just try to help him with the washing and put in words when an opportunity comes in... it might be when you guys are discussing, talking about something that falls on that part, auguring about somethings that relate to that....
If you love him, try doing this for him and give him time to change ... I don't like the sex before marriage but I will say here and now that is still good to get close to someone as in the naked part before marriage...if opportunity permits... hold yourself while doing that ...lol
If we want ask you now, it will turn out that you've had series of sex with him before getting married and possibly you've seen these things but decide to look away because he's promising in matrimony.
I pray there will be a time in this life when marriage will no longer be important to humans.... maybe a third priority base thing.
Enjoy your marriage and embrace your second half... pray over it and God will present you an opportunity to grab him by his balls while he get fixed in that aspect.
You are the best of your kind my dear.... Happy Marriage Life.
please your husband is bi sexual..... his ass been up and about.... real men dont have to prove they are real men by saying it... you are a real man by action. open your eyes
ReplyDeleteHe is just a dirty man, u should be studying him before marrying him. Now u ve to accept ur faith.
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