Dear LIB readers; my girl blurted out to my friends that she's had an abortion before
From a male LIB reader
I, my girlfriend and three other friends were having a jolly discussion last night at a friends house and while talking, my girlfriend threw up. One of the ladies there jokingly asked her if she was pregnant.. and my girlfriend laughed if off saying no, that if she was pregnant she would know. The lady asked her if she'd had child before and girlfriend said no but she'd been pregnant before but she had an abortion. She said it so casually like she was talking about the price of aso-ebi. The abortion was for an ex-boyfriend, not me, so you can imagine my embarrassment. I called her later to blast her over what she said and insisted it's not a big deal. How is abortion not a big deal? If she can confess to one, how many has she done? I'm thinking of breaking up with her. Would I be right to do so?
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said... . If i was yu i will break up with her ryt nw asin ryt nw.... Infact pick the phone and tell her ryt a way....... #NowPlaying cucumber: b red... . . ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
You know there was a time I was against abortion so much that I usually end up having argument or a fight with people over αи∂ over again, but that's not so now! You know why? Cause there was a time someone threw a question at me on what am gonna do if I become pregnant, what I blurted out was "am not having it". Cos when i saw what's infront of me, what am yet to achieve that I haven't, I know that having a baby isn't in d picture, don't get it twisted, have never had one...αи∂ that's why abstinence is best for me!
Well to d poster, don't know the reason why she said that shamelessly, in as much as she had her reasons for having aborted the baby, she has no sense or reasoning to have said it shamelessly in front of your friends, that's bad. But again, that isn't enough reason to break up with her. Ur gonna talk to her again αи∂ see if she will apologise αи∂ be remorseful for disgracing ur ass, αи∂ if she does, then just stuff the whole story in a polythene bag αи∂ bury it. But if she doesn't, then do what ur mind tells you. I didn't hear u say u love her, so it means u guys are just having fun αи∂ I wouldn't be surprised if she has aborted ur baby. Some ladies are just that way! They do whatever they want without caring if sm1 gets hurt or not. Deal with it in a light manner. Nothing spoil
I really hate commentators that cannot carefully read what they are commenting on. The abortion was NOT for him, it was for her ex. Take a reading class, please.
Truly is not a room for you to breakup!, cos when you breakup with her to date another person, you don't still know if d new one might have had an abortion too & knowing d reason 4 ur breakup she will still keep it to herself, a lot of girls out der have done lots of it, so just figure out what to do and avoid mistakes, don't use this as a reason to break up, but let her know how bad u feel about her shamelessly spitting it out publicly. That's all I can I say
Truly is not a room for you to breakup!, cos when you breakup with her to date another person, you don't still know if d new one might have had an abortion too & knowing d reason 4 ur breakup she will still keep it to herself, a lot of girls out der have done lots of it, so just figure out what to do and avoid mistakes, don't use this as a reason to break up, but let her know how bad u feel about her shamelessly spitting it out publicly. That's all I can I say
I would advise you to put a ring on her finger, that kind of woman would never lie to you. How many women are honest about anything these days? That's the kind of woman I need. Who hasn't done an abortion for an x? What's the big deal? We all make mistakes and so have you so my Bros, life goes on and so should you.
Abeg I hv nt done it before, u r saying all dis cos u hv done it, lyk seriously did I hear u say whts d big deal? U r asking if taking a child's lyf is a big deal.nawa o
Men with their warped ,corrupted sense of reasoning plus d women who foolishly join them with silly excuses... not ready to marry or abort YET fornicating and still committing adultery. How is abortion worse than fornication in the first place? holy sinners!
Gaan sleep my frend,wld u hv preferred if she lies?truth ws told,u r complaining,wat if she told u she never did n someone came along n said she has?although I fault her fr saying it out to d hearing of anoda,bt it really doesn't change her person.
Don't u guys get??? If she had said it to only him, dat wud avbin better. Bt in frnt of his frnds, dat is shamelessness... He needs to tink twice abt keepin d girl
You want to break up with her cos she said she had an abortion in front of your friends?go on now,has no girl had an abortion for you too? Also the people she confessed to about having an abortion are they innocent? Biko wake up,talk to your girl about it ,explain to her how you felt and you guys should be happy .Most women that have abortions don't like it but circumstances make them do it.
LOL Are you stupid? The fact that she was open about it shows she has no reason to lie about having had more. Yes, dump her for the one who will LIE boldly to your face (as a result of the shame that you have already unleashed)and tell you she has had none, when in fact, she has had five abortions. LOL. I really wonder about some men...
Please, go and dump her and grab the one who shouts from the mountaintop that she is even a virgin. Foolish boy. Grow up.
This is not enough reason to break up with her, she was at least honest about it, some would hide that fact for eternity! What should shock you is the moral decadence of today's world where what was spoken in secret in the days gone are spoken about in market places. It is your choice though.
@poster...you must be mad. So after all d sex and all,u wana break up with her cos she was truthful enough to say she has had an abortion. Would u have preferred she never said a thing? Y not talk to her rather than be an idiot
No pls,she said it @ d wrong plc meaning tws out of too much talking esp dat she wants to look lyk a bad ass(how sum ppl tink) n she prolly s d open book type,notin to hide u knw dat kinda tin.talk to her to control d way she talks,if u love her bounce bck with her.xcept if she' nt sorry about it.
Hmmm try nd ask her how many has she done before this days, before u will no if u will breakup with her or not. If it is 2 or 3 times. My guy breakup sharp sharp no look back.
Irabo, una no real get sense as una men dey too think say una sense pass God...if she's not fertile, big problem! now she's fertile, problem! See how you say if na 2 or 3... wetin she go tell hypocrite wey no fit keep himself or leave her body alone. She go tell a lying, unfaithful man say she NEVER EVER do abortion ar all or na ONLY one... * no matter how men deceive themselves, you can NEVER eat your cake and still have it
Wishing to, or not to tell you about her past relationships, is 100% her choice. If she feels like you deserve to, or need to know, she would have made the effort to tell you.
However, it depends on how you treat the whole issue. Does it matter to you that she wasn't a virgin before she met you? If her being or not being a virgin didn't matter, then her abortion shouldn't be a big deal also. It was her life choices at the end of the day and it all happened before you existed in her life.
Sit down for a moment and think about, just YOU & HER right now. Are you guys deeply in love? Does she treat you so well to the point you have even imagined a future with her?
If so, do you think it's worth breaking up with her because she didn't tell you about her past? Also keep in mind she didn't mean to hide it from you, otherwise she wouldn't have blurted it out like that.
Sometimes, love means, sacrifices and forgiving each other simply because you want to stay together.
McCoy, aren't u a known unrepentant fornicator alrdy which is the root of abortion and yes, worse than abortion, no matter how the world lies...evrythg comes around.
If correcting and she's not reasoning with you with such a sensitive issue then she's got no dignity. So bruv its your call, if she's not sober about taking a life what can be precious to her?
I agree. The issue is not that she has had abortions. The issue is that she is crude and doesn't know how to comport herself. Abortions are rampant,yes,but it doesn't stop it from being a horrible thing. I've had 2 abortions for the guy that disvirgined me. I still feel ashamed of that decision but I couldn't imagine the alternative. In my head I always think 'I could have been a mum,they would have been bla bla' and Shame has never let me share this with anyone. So I can never understand how she can be so careless to not only say it to you but in the presence of other people. Please leave her and date an adult. This girl will fall your hand.
You would be the greatest fool on earth to break up with her. As i would always say "let he who is without sin...be the first to cast the stone". You are not happy that you know she had abortion? how about having a baby and you are completely oblivious of it?...well i don't blame you small boys that date babes without using your brains though. i'm sure if it was you she had abortion for, you would be happy like a king in the jungle.
Breaking up with her isn't d best., just make her understand abortion is a sin nd should be kept secret and not a public announcement. If she insist Shez rite den u can't quite.,
Did u see why men like u don't need honest girls as frds ? U go for som1 who hides everytin even telling u how old she is she won't .... Abortion not a big deal.... Is a sin & is even worse to bring in a child u can't take of it's also a sin.. So long as she is not a virgin there is 80% possibility she has had an abortion b4... Most girls won't be honest... My only problem with ur girl is dat she talks carelessly.... Teach how to control her tongue not telling her abortion is a big deal.. Am sure u ve done somtin worse... There is nobody witout sin...
Guy have you not been sleeping with her without condoms? What do u expect when u take a lady into the bed room n skin dive, a rat jumping out of that hole? It's high time we begin to sensitize youths about sex n the way they do it oh Imagine a male friend of mine asked me if I have been head Chai I was shocked cos as a medical doctor I treat girls for vagina discharge almost every day yet when u ask them about head they smile and say yes their boyfriend loves it So biko guys n girls STD/STI are rampant n very common so use ur condoms to avoid these disease n pregnancy Abortion is not something to be proud of so be careful 50 naira gold circle or 150naira and above condoms can save u the stress of taking a life please, God is not happy about it I hope some of u will Google vagina infection n also infections gotten commonly by men too E dey sweet without condoms but e better with condom oooooooh Hilexira
Lol! Would you rather she be dishonest and die with all her doings..... You better stick your ass with her before u go and meet one that is 'forming holy 'nwa-eke' meanwhile she has huge skeletons in your closet!!!
If she had the Child, would you date her? So what are you talking about? If you love her then you should thank her because are decision to abort is the reason you are with her now.
that is why ladies should be carefully on how they speak publicly. meanwhile the girl should be ashamed of her self for saying that its not a big deal. it is a very big deal by killing an innocent child, what if your mother have done same to you would you have been alive today? yes it was a mistake which you should be remorseful about and not boast with. may God forgive her.
90% of persons on this blog are dumb! you are all.going off point..he is aware that she had an abortion but saying it nonchallantly before his friends is what he didnt like and she aint even remorseful.
IDIOT, WHAT ABOUT WHAT MEN DO TO MAKE A GIRL DO D ABORTION? men have groupies, sleep with prostitutes, cheat, lie, determine which girl is good for them, or bad for them. marry the one they feel is Ok, and still cheat on her. Inspite of all the kindness they receive from women.
So what if she has had an abortion? Personalities differ, so she said her own in the open. are there not VIRGINS who have reproductive issues upon their virginity, so abegiiii, if the abortion was done well, it doesnt mean anything. and thos who will say u are killing a human being? thats just no sense becos its just a lump of blood at a few months. its not a humna being until its born, otherwise population census will count a pregnant woman as two people.
As early as 4 wks,baby has blood and its tiny heart is beating...as soon as the egg is fertilized,thats a new human with an entirely different genome... You can continue believing this bs up there if it makes you sleep better at night but google is your friend
Shut your trash, if u r tired of the relationship, why don't u call it quits instead of making up flimsy excuses. How many woman have u encouraged to have one?, Bastards
not bad that she had an abortion. Mistakes happen. it's bad that she does not think it's a big deal. This one is not girlfriend material. how did you end up dating such a person sef?
She is too honest for her own good. But the abortion average is 2 per woman. Your next gf has a higher number than this one so fashee, my dear. Girls have had abortions for u, in case u dont know.
Thank u anon 3.13 Imagine, when secret abortions he knows nothing about have been done for him and everyone always thinkg every man is pure yet can't keep his dick in his pants at last...
You are just an idiot. You heard the truth and you are fooling yourself. would you have been going out with her now if she had that baby? that's the kind of girl i need joor! she did what she needed to do then and now she's sharp enough to know if she takes in (so that she scan do the needful if necessary). I love her
Hypocrites...that's why I'll FOREVER love TheLord Jesus...how can you hate abortion so much and NOT hate fornication and adultery so much ...chasing shadows.
Break up and date who? Abortion is a normal tin 4 naija girls, welda d real abortion ie surgical abortion or medical abortion, afterall postinor 2 is an abortion pill......
Gerrara here old fool...haven't you made love to girls who ain't ur wife....so u r not happy she told u the truth... what if u found out years after u were married, that's if an okpo like u plans to marry her. Grow up jor... hian. Guys hit me up lets talk relationship 2C0FE109
And so? How many ladies have you slept with? Do you use condom everytime? If No, your ex or sick chick must have aborted a baby for you as well and is a man like you that will marry them. Useless boy.
Guy it will be too ash if I call u a fool, u did nt listen to ur self wen u wer typing u message der are somethings u try to settle maturely lik u said d abortion was nt for u but her ex, dat means if u wer to b d guy it's cool but just bcos it's not u it's nw a big deal just be sincere to ur self hav u nt paid for abortion b4 or was she a virgin wen u went in guy grow up she was sincere to u she need someone respect for dat. Maybe na all dos ones way dey pretend nd lair u like. Grow up dear.
If you want to breakup then breakup, but it is her body to do with as she wishes. If she was a single mother you would not have dated her, you would not have looked at her for a second. You dated her because she was a childless woman. Another thing, most women who have had abortions also become mothers at some stage, so you will never know who has had one unless they told you. Is it the fact that she had an abortion that is bothering you, or that your friends know about it, or that she was not weeping or wailing as you thought she should be doing. The problem is with you, you have to look within to see why you were so offended.
If she get pregnant for u, wn't u ax ha to do d same? U think gals enjoy doing dt? I ova heard a guy sd dt since he dated hs galfrd dt she hs neva gottn pregnant talkless of abortion. Imagine dt, so a gal v to get pregnant first be4 u decide if u will mari ha, n such men cn chng dier mind wn u tell dm u r pregnt. Imagine being in skul n u find out u r pregnt. What will u do. Abortion s bd. Bt if our men accept responsibilities dn abortion wn't be an option. Wat if she got pregnant for u?
Good point. But you really need to stop abbreviating words because clearly, you're using it to cover up your grammatical deficiency. Improve your spelling skills instead dear. Good point again.
God...d moral decadence in d world today..took ma time to go thru d comments and its sickening to see pple comfortably support abortion..wat level of immorality could be greater Dan a gal announcing casually she's had an abortion..Jesus hasten ur reign..d world has lost it all..
For me, men can rant all they can cos men don't even know or practice sexual self control so fornication, adultery for them is okay but abortion is evil after all he sleeps with her to the knowledge of his friends too and is not ashamed...All men are whores who are responsible for the legal and illegal pregnancies by their female whores...
What I have a problem with in this case is just d casual nature she blurted it out to u and ur friends. Maybe it's her nature to be brutally honest, however she cld have kept that nature btw just d two of u. If there's anything u shld have a problem with it shld be how she controls her thought process, mouth and emotions when other people r around. Cos it wld be d same way she wld blurt out "ur d**k is to small" or "u don't do her well" in front of people. So I don't think d termination of pregnancy shld be d issue cos many girls of reproductive age who r sexually active have @ one point or d other terminated a pregnancy... so that's not n issue anymore. Not like I'm justifying it o!!
A girl that cant learn to keep her mouth shut will one day destroy her home
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Even some ladies who have had an abortion will come here and criticize too .....if you are without sin cast the first stone
DeleteEven u had 100abortions, must u say? Some girls can talk for continent sha. Smh!!!
DeleteEven thou she had 100, must she talk? Some ladies talk damn much!!! Smh for dem all.
Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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If i was yu i will break up with her ryt nw asin ryt nw.... Infact pick the phone and tell her ryt a way....... #NowPlaying cucumber: b red...
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That babe na wa o. Any decision you take is completely up to you.
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That babe na wa o. Any decision you take is completely up to you.
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Wht!!!
ReplyDeleteThat's way too careless of her...
You damn right boy, she gotta go
ReplyDeleteYou know there was a time I was against abortion so much that I usually end up having argument or a fight with people over αи∂ over again, but that's not so now! You know why? Cause there was a time someone threw a question at me on what am gonna do if I become pregnant, what I blurted out was "am not having it". Cos when i saw what's infront of me, what am yet to achieve that I haven't, I know that having a baby isn't in d picture, don't get it twisted, have never had one...αи∂ that's why abstinence is best for me!
ReplyDeleteWell to d poster, don't know the reason why she said that shamelessly, in as much as she had her reasons for having aborted the baby, she has no sense or reasoning to have said it shamelessly in front of your friends, that's bad. But again, that isn't enough reason to break up with her. Ur gonna talk to her again αи∂ see if she will apologise αи∂ be remorseful for disgracing ur ass, αи∂ if she does, then just stuff the whole story in a polythene bag αи∂ bury it. But if she doesn't, then do what ur mind tells you. I didn't hear u say u love her, so it means u guys are just having fun αи∂ I wouldn't be surprised if she has aborted ur baby. Some ladies are just that way! They do whatever they want without caring if sm1 gets hurt or not. Deal with it in a light manner. Nothing spoil
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I really hate commentators that cannot carefully read what they are commenting on. The abortion was NOT for him, it was for her ex.
DeleteTake a reading class, please.
Truly is not a room for you to breakup!, cos when you breakup with her to date another person, you don't still know if d new one might have had an abortion too & knowing d reason 4 ur breakup she will still keep it to herself, a lot of girls out der have done lots of it, so just figure out what to do and avoid mistakes, don't use this as a reason to break up, but let her know how bad u feel about her shamelessly spitting it out publicly. That's all I can I say
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts exactly
DeleteTruly is not a room for you to breakup!, cos when you breakup with her to date another person, you don't still know if d new one might have had an abortion too & knowing d reason 4 ur breakup she will still keep it to herself, a lot of girls out der have done lots of it, so just figure out what to do and avoid mistakes, don't use this as a reason to break up, but let her know how bad u feel about her shamelessly spitting it out publicly. That's all I can I say
ReplyDeleteI would advise you to put a ring on her finger, that kind of woman would never lie to you. How many women are honest about anything these days? That's the kind of woman I need. Who hasn't done an abortion for an x? What's the big deal? We all make mistakes and so have you so my Bros, life goes on and so should you.
ReplyDeleteU have a warped sense of reasoning!
DeleteAbeg I hv nt done it before, u r saying all dis cos u hv done it, lyk seriously did I hear u say whts d big deal? U r asking if taking a child's lyf is a big deal.nawa o
DeleteMen with their warped ,corrupted sense of reasoning plus d women who foolishly join them with silly excuses... not ready to marry or abort YET fornicating and still committing adultery. How is abortion worse than fornication in the first place? holy sinners!
DeleteFucking is not a mistake and getting pregnant can never be a mistake..... This world is full of cunts....smh
DeleteAm sure u have made up ur mind already....so follow ur guts......
ReplyDeleteMr Guy, I'm sure u've also gotten other girls pregnant b4. Really, abortion is no big deal. Vool down and concentrate on ur relationship.
ReplyDeleteGaan sleep my frend,wld u hv preferred if she lies?truth ws told,u r complaining,wat if she told u she never did n someone came along n said she has?although I fault her fr saying it out to d hearing of anoda,bt it really doesn't change her person.
ReplyDeleteDon't u guys get??? If she had said it to only him, dat wud avbin better. Bt in frnt of his frnds, dat is shamelessness... He needs to tink twice abt keepin d girl
DeleteYou want to break up with her cos she said she had an abortion in front of your friends?go on now,has no girl had an abortion for you too? Also the people she confessed to about having an abortion are they innocent? Biko wake up,talk to your girl about it ,explain to her how you felt and you guys should be happy .Most women that have abortions don't like it but circumstances make them do it.
ReplyDeleteDid she attend Uniport ? Cos na their way
ReplyDeleteLol... I Swear!!
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DeleteUgo U r not a serious person!
LOL Are you stupid? The fact that she was open about it shows she has no reason to lie about having had more. Yes, dump her for the one who will LIE boldly to your face (as a result of the shame that you have already unleashed)and tell you she has had none, when in fact, she has had five abortions. LOL. I really wonder about some men...
ReplyDeletePlease, go and dump her and grab the one who shouts from the mountaintop that she is even a virgin. Foolish boy. Grow up.
I'm more concerned about the talking and throwing up part.
ReplyDeleteTaaaaah gbafuo, Ewu
ReplyDeleteHmmmm Pele o its allowed ode mtchewwww
ReplyDeleteBut she is been real..
ReplyDeleteGuess you wouldn't prefer a pretender instead.
You would be LEFT if you do so
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ReplyDeleteThis is not enough reason to break up with her, she was at least honest about it, some would hide that fact for eternity! What should shock you is the moral decadence of today's world where what was spoken in secret in the days gone are spoken about in market places. It is your choice though.
ReplyDeleteAnd so????!! Why don't most people appreciate the truth? SMH
ReplyDelete@poster...you must be mad.
ReplyDeleteSo after all d sex and all,u wana break up with her cos she was truthful enough to say she has had an abortion.
Would u have preferred she never said a thing?
Y not talk to her rather than be an idiot
Abeg, do whatever you deem fit, no just disturb anybody for here. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteAbeg, do whatever you deem fit, no just disturb anybody for here. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteAbeg, do whatever you deem fit, no just disturb anybody for here. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteYour very stupid to say you want to breakup with her...Men like you are wolves but wants a sheep. As a wife.
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Guess she's d loud type but it's not enough for u to breakup. Everyone has got a past. Let it go
ReplyDeleteNo pls,she said it @ d wrong plc meaning tws out of too much talking esp dat she wants to look lyk a bad ass(how sum ppl tink) n she prolly s d open book type,notin to hide u knw dat kinda tin.talk to her to control d way she talks,if u love her bounce bck with her.xcept if she' nt sorry about it.
ReplyDeleteThe sender is a mumu..
DeleteWhy this nigga they behave like jew. Abegi. It's clear you tired of the relationship. Looking for any ugly situation to run away. Byeee and goodbye
ReplyDeleteWhat you want is someone that would lie to you? I just think she shouldn't have said it in the presence of your friends.
ReplyDeleteHmmm try nd ask her how many has she done before this days, before u will no if u will breakup with her or not. If it is 2 or 3 times. My guy breakup sharp sharp no look back.
ReplyDeleteIrabo, una no real get sense as una men dey too think say una sense pass God...if she's not fertile, big problem! now she's fertile, problem! See how you say if na 2 or 3... wetin she go tell hypocrite wey no fit keep himself or leave her body alone. She go tell a lying, unfaithful man say she NEVER EVER do abortion ar all or na ONLY one... * no matter how men deceive themselves, you can NEVER eat your cake and still have it
DeletePhew! life so unfair.
ReplyDeleteI pray God gives us the type of women we deserve.
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ReplyDeleteWere u planning to marry her before?
ReplyDeletePlease Break up with she has no respect for your relationship so she affaires deserve you at all
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ReplyDeleteAll I wil hav to say abt dis is dat, biko my people desist frm d act of abortion for is abormination b4 dliving Lord.
Those who hav ears let them hear for a word is enough 4d wise.
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ReplyDeleteYes. Ur girlfriend is a slut and a murderer! Dumb her unrepentant ass.
ReplyDeleteAnd you kill with your tongue. Murderer calling another a murderer.
DeleteWishing to, or not to tell you about her past relationships, is 100% her choice. If she feels like you deserve to, or need to know, she would have made the effort to tell you.
ReplyDeleteHowever, it depends on how you treat the whole issue. Does it matter to you that she wasn't a virgin before she met you? If her being or not being a virgin didn't matter, then her abortion shouldn't be a big deal also. It was her life choices at the end of the day and it all happened before you existed in her life.
Sit down for a moment and think about, just YOU & HER right now. Are you guys deeply in love? Does she treat you so well to the point you have even imagined a future with her?
If so, do you think it's worth breaking up with her because she didn't tell you about her past? Also keep in mind she didn't mean to hide it from you, otherwise she wouldn't have blurted it out like that.
Sometimes, love means, sacrifices and forgiving each other simply because you want to stay together.
This is not a normal story abeg....
ReplyDeleteUr gf is a slut and a murderer! Dump her sorry ass. *pukes*
ReplyDeleteMcCoy, aren't u a known unrepentant fornicator alrdy which is the root of abortion and yes, worse than abortion, no matter how the world lies...evrythg comes around.
DeleteIf correcting and she's not reasoning with you with such a sensitive issue then she's got no dignity. So bruv its your call, if she's not sober about taking a life what can be precious to her?
ReplyDeleteI agree.
DeleteThe issue is not that she has had abortions.
The issue is that she is crude and doesn't know how to comport herself.
Abortions are rampant,yes,but it doesn't stop it from being a horrible thing.
I've had 2 abortions for the guy that disvirgined me. I still feel ashamed of that decision but I couldn't imagine the alternative. In my head I always think 'I could have been a mum,they would have been bla bla' and Shame has never let me share this with anyone. So I can never understand how she can be so careless to not only say it to you but in the presence of other people.
Please leave her and date an adult. This girl will fall your hand.
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This (Anonymous 10:06PM) goes to show there are still ladies with good attitudes and regrettably shameful.
You would be the greatest fool on earth to break up with her. As i would always say "let he who is without sin...be the first to cast the stone". You are not happy that you know she had abortion? how about having a baby and you are completely oblivious of it?...well i don't blame you small boys that date babes without using your brains though. i'm sure if it was you she had abortion for, you would be happy like a king in the jungle.
ReplyDeleteYour girlfriend sounded like d lousy type.. Breaking up with her not cos she had d abortion for u or cos she said it 2 friends.. Past is past jare.
ReplyDeleteBreaking up with her isn't d best., just make her understand abortion is a sin nd should be kept secret and not a public announcement. If she insist Shez rite den u can't quite.,
ReplyDeleteShouldn't bother you,I have a friend who casually tells anyone"I just had sex"
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Did u see why men like u don't need honest girls as frds ? U go for som1 who hides everytin even telling u how old she is she won't .... Abortion not a big deal.... Is a sin & is even worse to bring in a child u can't take of it's also a sin.. So long as she is not a virgin there is 80% possibility she has had an abortion b4... Most girls won't be honest... My only problem with ur girl is dat she talks carelessly.... Teach how to control her tongue not telling her abortion is a big deal.. Am sure u ve done somtin worse... There is nobody witout sin...
ReplyDeleteGuy have you not been sleeping with her without condoms?
ReplyDeleteWhat do u expect when u take a lady into the bed room n skin dive, a rat jumping out of that hole?
It's high time we begin to sensitize youths about sex n the way they do it oh
Imagine a male friend of mine asked me if I have been head Chai I was shocked cos as a medical doctor I treat girls for vagina discharge almost every day yet when u ask them about head they smile and say yes their boyfriend loves it
So biko guys n girls STD/STI are rampant n very common so use ur condoms to avoid these disease n pregnancy
Abortion is not something to be proud of so be careful 50 naira gold circle or 150naira and above condoms can save u the stress of taking a life please, God is not happy about it
I hope some of u will Google vagina infection n also infections gotten commonly by men too
E dey sweet without condoms but e better with condom oooooooh
Hilexira
Break up with her. You shouldn't be in a r/ship, don't think u ve d heart for one yet.
ReplyDeleteYeye dey worry u, how many pple don abort 4 u too? Abi na u holy pass, if she no talk am nko, hw u go take knw. Abeg wife her
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmm maybe she was jst joking......
ReplyDeleteWe don't care..really!
ReplyDeleteLol! Would you rather she be dishonest and die with all her doings..... You better stick your ass with her before u go and meet one that is 'forming holy 'nwa-eke' meanwhile she has huge skeletons in your closet!!!
ReplyDeleteIf she had the Child, would you date her? So what are you talking about? If you love her then you should thank her because are decision to abort is the reason you are with her now.
ReplyDeleteYou are on your own o, dat kin girl.
ReplyDeleteWhat does that have to do with you? She owns up to what she did when your were not in her life and you want to punish her for it?
ReplyDeleteOk oga you can break up with her na...
ReplyDeletethat is why ladies should be carefully on how they speak publicly. meanwhile the girl should be ashamed of her self for saying that its not a big deal. it is a very big deal by killing an innocent child, what if your mother have done same to you would you have been alive today? yes it was a mistake which you should be remorseful about and not boast with. may God forgive her.
ReplyDelete90% of persons on this blog are dumb! you are all.going off point..he is aware that she had an abortion but saying it nonchallantly before his friends is what he didnt like and she aint even remorseful.
DeleteMy dear, see LIB o. I love LIB but the average IQ displayed here makes me weep.
DeleteChildish
ReplyDeleteLol, but ask ursef this would you have dated her if you knew she was a mother of one, single parent?
ReplyDeleteIDIOT, WHAT ABOUT WHAT MEN DO TO MAKE A GIRL DO D ABORTION? men have groupies, sleep with prostitutes, cheat, lie, determine which girl is good for them, or bad for them. marry the one they feel is Ok, and still cheat on her. Inspite of all the kindness they receive from women.
ReplyDeleteSo what if she has had an abortion? Personalities differ, so she said her own in the open. are there not VIRGINS who have reproductive issues upon their virginity, so abegiiii, if the abortion was done well, it doesnt mean anything. and thos who will say u are killing a human being? thats just no sense becos its just a lump of blood at a few months. its not a humna being until its born, otherwise population census will count a pregnant woman as two people.
As early as 4 wks,baby has blood and its tiny heart is beating...as soon as the egg is fertilized,thats a new human with an entirely different genome...
DeleteYou can continue believing this bs up there if it makes you sleep better at night but google is your friend
If having an abortion is a small deal then i wonder what her definition of big deal is! She's got no shame!
ReplyDeleteAbortion is seriously very bad but she is feeling careless because she believe DAT every girls do it,just sit her down and talk to her.
ReplyDeleteShut your trash, if u r tired of the relationship, why don't u call it quits instead of making up flimsy excuses. How many woman have u encouraged to have one?, Bastards
ReplyDeletenot bad that she had an abortion. Mistakes happen. it's bad that she does not think it's a big deal. This one is not girlfriend material. how did you end up dating such a person sef?
ReplyDeleteI feel like slapping u,u got urself an honest girl,and u are talking of breakup,...please do,she sure doesn't need a child like u
ReplyDeleteUr girlfriend is a HOE!
ReplyDeleteShe is too honest for her own good. But the abortion average is 2 per woman. Your next gf has a higher number than this one so fashee, my dear. Girls have had abortions for u, in case u dont know.
ReplyDeleteThank u anon 3.13
DeleteImagine, when secret abortions he knows nothing about have been done for him and everyone always thinkg every man is pure yet can't keep his dick in his pants at last...
Don't brake up......just put a bit pressure on her so shud cud probably tell u more but don't be to forcy
ReplyDeleteThe babe no get shame den... dee
ReplyDeleteYou are just an idiot. You heard the truth and you are fooling yourself. would you have been going out with her now if she had that baby? that's the kind of girl i need joor! she did what she needed to do then and now she's sharp enough to know if she takes in (so that she scan do the needful if necessary). I love her
ReplyDeleteThe ball is in your court
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This days girl talk about abortion like it's not a big deal...abortion is a super big deal o...she needs an orientation
ReplyDeleteHypocrites...that's why I'll FOREVER love TheLord Jesus...how can you hate abortion so much and NOT hate fornication and adultery so much
Delete...chasing shadows.
If she is proud of her bad past den the relationship needs to end. Not a good sign
ReplyDeleteShe didn't wanna lie dahs all
ReplyDeleteNo biggie
Guy break up and gerout,,,useless girls every wer u go now...
ReplyDeleteGuy, u harsh o. Lol....
DeleteUseless boys like Ikenna who still can never keep their dicks in their pants!
DeleteWell she fucked up sha but caution her very well never to try that again....jor oh
ReplyDeleteIf u want to break up, just do it, and don't use wat she said as an excuse. Mtcheeeeeeeeeew. Very annoying.
ReplyDeleteIf u truely luv her don't break up with her
ReplyDeleteBreak up and date who? Abortion is a normal tin 4 naija girls, welda d real abortion ie surgical abortion or medical abortion, afterall postinor 2 is an abortion pill......
ReplyDeleteGerrara here old fool...haven't you made love to girls who ain't ur wife....so u r not happy she told u the truth... what if u found out years after u were married, that's if an okpo like u plans to marry her. Grow up jor... hian. Guys hit me up lets talk relationship 2C0FE109
ReplyDeleteDon't break up with her 4 give her if u love her
ReplyDeleteLol her mouth is loose
ReplyDeleteSeyilicious
And so? How many ladies have you slept with? Do you use condom everytime? If No, your ex or sick chick must have aborted a baby for you as well and is a man like you that will marry them.
ReplyDeleteUseless boy.
Guy it will be too ash if I call u a fool, u did nt listen to ur self wen u wer typing u message der are somethings u try to settle maturely lik u said d abortion was nt for u but her ex, dat means if u wer to b d guy it's cool but just bcos it's not u it's nw a big deal just be sincere to ur self hav u nt paid for abortion b4 or was she a virgin wen u went in guy grow up she was sincere to u she need someone respect for dat. Maybe na all dos ones way dey pretend nd lair u like. Grow up dear.
ReplyDeleteBut why has the girl not told her boyfriend before. Why saying it now in the presence of everybody?
ReplyDeleteI love to advise, but my is off, maybe next time.
ReplyDeleteToo much information!!!, Too much.
ReplyDeleteIf u ask me...na who I go ask? Ok ask Olivia pop.# scandal
ReplyDeleteIf u like wife her. If u like breakup ooh tiye niyen
ReplyDeleteIf you want to breakup then breakup, but it is her body to do with as she wishes. If she was a single mother you would not have dated her, you would not have looked at her for a second. You dated her because she was a childless woman. Another thing, most women who have had abortions also become mothers at some stage, so you will never know who has had one unless they told you. Is it the fact that she had an abortion that is bothering you, or that your friends know about it, or that she was not weeping or wailing as you thought she should be doing. The problem is with you, you have to look within to see why you were so offended.
ReplyDeleteIf she get pregnant for u, wn't u ax ha to do d same? U think gals enjoy doing dt? I ova heard a guy sd dt since he dated hs galfrd dt she hs neva gottn pregnant talkless of abortion. Imagine dt, so a gal v to get pregnant first be4 u decide if u will mari ha, n such men cn chng dier mind wn u tell dm u r pregnt. Imagine being in skul n u find out u r pregnt. What will u do. Abortion s bd. Bt if our men accept responsibilities dn abortion wn't be an option. Wat if she got pregnant for u?
ReplyDeleteGood point. But you really need to stop abbreviating words because clearly, you're using it to cover up your grammatical deficiency. Improve your spelling skills instead dear. Good point again.
DeleteGod...d moral decadence in d world today..took ma time to go thru d comments and its sickening to see pple comfortably support abortion..wat level of immorality could be greater Dan a gal announcing casually she's had an abortion..Jesus hasten ur reign..d world has lost it all..
ReplyDeleteAbortion to girls is like picking your teeth. Leave her and you will fall into the hands of a girl who has done more than 5 abortions.
ReplyDeleteHer carefree attitude towards abortion is not cool mehn, but the breaking up thingy is ur call. God help u all
ReplyDeleteMr complainer, you can't handle your girlfriend's brutal honesty, and this depicts the level of your maturity. Love a nun.
ReplyDeleteFor me, men can rant all they can cos men don't even know or practice sexual self control so fornication, adultery for them is okay but abortion is evil after all he sleeps with her to the knowledge of his friends too and is not ashamed...All men are whores who are responsible for the legal and illegal pregnancies by their female whores...
ReplyDeleteWhat I have a problem with in this case is just d casual nature she blurted it out to u and ur friends. Maybe it's her nature to be brutally honest, however she cld have kept that nature btw just d two of u.
ReplyDeleteIf there's anything u shld have a problem with it shld be how she controls her thought process, mouth and emotions when other people r around. Cos it wld be d same way she wld blurt out "ur d**k is to small" or "u don't do her well" in front of people.
So I don't think d termination of pregnancy shld be d issue cos many girls of reproductive age who r sexually active have @ one point or d other terminated a pregnancy... so that's not n issue anymore. Not like I'm justifying it o!!
My guy pack your bag and run...
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