Peter and Lola Okoye lost their Nanny of 7 years to Cervical cancer today. Lola mourned the loss of their nanny, Esther Ngobor who had battled the deadly disease for 5 years until she lost the battle today. The message she shared on her page after the cut...
Eyaaaah pele oooo Esther RIP oooooo.
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DeleteOMG! That is so touching. RiP to the dead biko
ReplyDeleteWhat is Pap smear?
ReplyDeletePlease I need explanation
RIP Esther
Wow .... You are not serious, are you? In many countries from age 21 , females are mandated to have Pap smears every 3 years till they hit 65... Cervical cancers are slow growing and can easily be detected at the early stages. If Nigeria your country had tried 'for her' , they would have made this a women's Public health initiative and implemented it as a solution to this scourging illness. By the way cervical cancer is 100% curable if detected on time.Fact... It is a popular exam question.... This shows how 'our country' values women's lives... And the ignorance is really divine
DeleteIt called a PAPANICOLAOU SMEAR Test, it's done to screen a woman for cervical cancer, it should be done every six months or one year at most. Every woman should be aware of a pap smear. Linda pls use your platform to create awareness because many women are still not aware of it. Pls don't say you are too young o, early detection is better. You are welcome.
DeleteWhat is Pap smear?
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RIP Esther
It's to detect cancer genes. We need more awareness in Nigeria.
DeleteDon't have the full details but pls Google.
Linda pls help to create more swear was and where women can go for the Pap smear test.
Rip to her
ReplyDeleteAwww...may her soul rip
ReplyDeleteI thought Lola is married to peter okoye? Why is she still answering omotoye, may d nanny poor soul rest in peace,
ReplyDeleteWat do u expect from a rich independent woman.. Forming class like who dey school
DeleteI thought Lola is married to peter okoye? Why is she still answering omotoye, may d nanny poor soul rest in peace,
ReplyDeleteIt does not matter... Try to free yourself from the patriarchical and parochial system you come from.... If you think education is expensive, try ignorance
DeletePap text save my life was so lucky .
ReplyDeleteRest in peace nanny! I pray God to comfort them
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteAwwww, rip to her
ReplyDeleteit is well
RIP...she must had been a nice person as seen in her face.
ReplyDeleteIf u are in Lagos, visit optimal cancer centre in bode Thomas (after GTB) for cervical & breast check up. It's 1k. Free on Fridays. Vaccine is also available from age 10 for girls. Guarantees immunity by 90-99% I think.
ReplyDeleteToo bad.
ReplyDeleteIt a pity....R.I.P to her.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry dear, I have to go do a pap smear test asap. May her soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteEyaa so sad,rip esther.
ReplyDeletemay her soul RIP...amen
ReplyDeleteSo sad.
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteEya!
ReplyDeleteSad!
ReplyDeleteAwwww! Rest in peace
ReplyDeleteRest in peace dear. God loves you
ReplyDeleteSad! May her soul rest in peace....
ReplyDeleteThis killed one of my friends mum. #CANCERSUCKS
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteAwwwww,so sad, may her soul rest in pix
ReplyDeleteEeeeeeeeeyah! May her soul rest in peace. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteEeeeeeeeeyah! May her soul rest in peace. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteEeeeeeeeeyah! May her soul rest in peace. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteEeeeeeeeeyah! May her soul rest in peace. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteSo sad and heartbreaking
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace
Did you seek medical help abroad?
ReplyDeleteRip to the dead but the tribute that Lola is posting does not go well with because if truly she said she is a good Manny and also has been working with you why not help her to travel out and get proper treatment knowing fully well that our medical facilities in nigeria both private and government sucks and also in which I know it is just a peanut from God's blessing on your family though you will day you guys support with hospital bill but it wasn't enough cause to have fight it for 5yrs it wasn't at all and I have said my mind will relax and see other comments
ReplyDeleteU are a big FOOL. Do u knw anything abt cervical cancer u pig. Home or abroad, once cancer has spread little or nothing u can do abt it except radiotherapy and chemo. N how do u knw she wasnt taken out d countrty. You bitter soul. Always lookn fr d negative side.Change or things wld nt go well wit u in this life wit such a foul heart.
DeleteFirst and foremost let clear something never in your life curse anybody either anonymous or not cause how will you feel if some tells you that things won't go well with you in your life and more so there is no place in the comments that you reply under that has abusive words in it it is just opinion and everyone is entitled to his or her own so pls comments and back out from that useless act so am just saying mine and like I said just reading other comments
DeleteSorry for being abusive but u shld learn not to conclude and judge others so briskly.Always look for the positive side. There is a popular saying if ur words wont uplift or make a situation better,its best not to say anything. Sorry again!
DeleteAnony 8:26 since you know that"if ur words wont uplift or make a situation better,its best not to say anything" you should have just overlooked the comment in the first place. Deal with your own shortcomings first before trying to correct others. It's a free world and Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
DeleteI really appreciate your maturity though I might be wrong in the way I criticised the article but as human I felt the pains how I wish I can be able to let you see it from my point of view but all the same peace to you bro or sis
DeleteRip to the dead but the tribute that Lola is posting does not go well with because if truly she said she is a good Manny and also has been working with you why not help her to travel out and get proper treatment knowing fully well that our medical facilities in nigeria both private and government sucks and also in which I know it is just a peanut from God's blessing on your family though you will day you guys support with hospital bill but it wasn't enough cause to have fight it for 5yrs it wasn't at all and I have said my mind will relax and see other comments
ReplyDeleteMust u guys always find a way to attack someone.. Haba!! She stated they tried everything within their power, do ubk kw if that includes taking her abroad?? Besides if d cancer was caught at an advanced stage, taking her abroad won't have changed anything cos its still d same chemotherapy / radiotherapy she wld get. People shld fear God and slow to Judge.... #MyTwoCents
DeleteShe was sick yet she still took care of your children. Between the kids and her who needed more attention? It's not my place to point accusing fingers but let's consider that issue.
ReplyDeleteIn all, may her gentle soul rest in peace!
No we won't consider that issue.
DeleteWhat have you done to help someone in your community? Look at the person in the mirror and that the only issue to consider!
Are you saying she should fire her because she was ill???? or adopt her because she's Lola Okoye.
DeleteDid you read that she had just 3 months to live when she was diagnosed but went on to live 5 yrs??? That tells you she had good people around her.
Let's reflect on our lives and think of how many people we had the opportunity to put a smile on their faces but we didn't; yet we are quick to point accusing fingers at other.. Repent
She was sick yet she still took care of your children. Between the kids and her who needed more attention? It's not my place to point accusing fingers but let's consider that issue.
ReplyDeleteIn all, may her gentle soul rest in peace!
But it wasnt stated she was working while sick now.pls let us not jump into some conclusion based on how we read some stories.it xoesnt even make sense, when someone is in pain and sick what strenght would she have had to take care of her own children not to ralk of other peoples'.Lola mentioned she worked with her as her children's nanny doesnt mean at the point when she was sick.Let's stop making unnecessary conclusions pls.
Delete@ anonymous 10.07am.bless you for your kind comment...I hope other positive minds would appreciate this and the negative ones should read and understand. God bless..@Linda Ikeji..thanks for sharing..just a suggestion..would recommend that you create a "like" button like what we see on other social media platforms..so in this case urs would be : like,comment and reply...well done!
DeleteGet ur annual pap-smear done.. early detection could save your life... RIP dear!
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace. Lola, may God give you and family the fortitude to bear this. May God console her immediate family. People already saying this and that, Were you living with them to know to know the extent they went or you want them to start listing that. Whether she travelled or not, once it spreads, its only treatment that carries the person till the body gives up. For her to have managed for 5 years, they really tried and must have spent a lot. From the pictures, we don't need to be told she was a member of the family.
ReplyDeleteheya may her soul rest in peace
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ReplyDeletemay her soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteSad. may her soul rest in peace.
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ReplyDeleteEven at that why do people not check their hearts and intentions before commenting... What if even the nanny like some patients usually request to be and try to live a normal life around their loved ones despite all else...
ReplyDeleteRip. Some good questions on whether the Okoyes could have done more to help her if she was such a valued employee.
ReplyDeleteAwww
ReplyDeleteRIP Madam Esther!! May your Beautiful soul RIP!! #Live Right!
ReplyDeleteSmear test should be done once every 5 years. I have done it 3 times now, last time being 2 years ago.
ReplyDeleteRIP ESTHER.
ReplyDeleteRIP ESTHER
ReplyDeleteA pap smear is a test for women, where the gynecologist takes a sample of the cervical cells (the cervix is the opening of the uterus/womb) and looks to see if there are abnormal cells or cancer cells there. The test is done on women from age 21 onwards. If you have normal pap smears, you can space it out to 3-5 years. I will be conducting a free pap smear clinic in December in Lekki. Say tuned for more.
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Pls more info on pap smear..thanks dok.
Deleteyou guys dont know if they sent her abroad..speculating as usual
ReplyDeleterest in peace.
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