I found condoms in the glove compartment of my husbands car over the weekend. We stopped using condoms after we got married in February this year. I asked him about it but he said one of his colleagues may have left it there. It's too early in my marriage to start suspecting my husband of cheating but I don't know what to make of what I saw. Please advice. Don't men wait for at least a year into marriage before they start cheating?
He's cheating
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm. Real men mostly godly men don't and never cheat except they r half men or ungodly.
DeleteTo correct dis impression, its not all men dat indulge in d act of cheating bcos one wit Jesus Christ obey His commands concerning not cheating on his or her partner.
I suggest u strictly advice and warn him against any thought of cheating let alone commiting such act if not u let him know d consequence if he dare it.
A word is enough 4d wise!
Hmmmmm. Real men mostly godly men don't and never cheat except they r half men or ungodly.
DeleteTo correct dis impression, its not all men dat indulge in d act of cheating bcos one wit Jesus Christ obey His commands concerning not cheating on his or her partner.
I suggest u strictly advice and warn him against any thought of cheating let alone commiting such act if not u let him know d consequence if he dare it.
A word is enough 4d wise!
He may not be cheating,hear him out bcos it is too soon to start suspecting,even do all men cheat.
DeleteO so you actually saying he's permitted to cheat after one year?
DeletePlease let the condom issue go, shove it aside and move on, i can assure u that allowing it to bug Your mind isn't healthy.
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My dear, Deres no time frame to cheating. A cheat will alwz be a cheat so get ready
DeleteHe is cheating on you...better go check up urself
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He might n he might not, wait till u catch him red handed
DeleteAll i can say is be more prayerful.
DeleteNOTE:Ladies pls dont marry just becos others r marrying.be more prayerful.keep urselvs i mean close your legs to avoid mistakes.have a great day
Even b4 you found those condoms, you knew that he was cheating. Didn't you feel it? Focus on making yourself better, get another degree, get a better job, ignore him and he will come clean begging.
DeleteHe was cheating.
DeleteFoolishness of the world saying they are wise...how can a fornicator be ever faithful...u too madam are a potential adulteress promoted from fornicator.
DeleteMy dear be prepared...hes cheating...dont let day bother u mbok..All men are CHEATS!#BITTERWIFE
DeleteWait for a year? Lol! You think some men actually wait that long to cheat? Be happy he's even protecting himself.
DeleteMy dear,jus b prayerful n try as much as u can to remove ur mind from cheating so it doesn't get to u
DeleteOk so he's cheating then what?
DeleteOk so he's cheating then what?
DeleteGod help you on dis my dear. Welcome to the club. Linda take note!
DeleteGod help you on dis my dear. Welcome to the club. Linda take note!
DeleteThank Ur stars he uses protection at least loves u enough not to infect u with an STD
Delete~D great anonymous!
U don't no what to do with what you saw, why bother us?
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm. Real men mostly godly men don't and never cheat except they r half men or ungodly.
DeleteTo correct dis impression, its not all men dat indulge in d act of cheating bcos one wit Jesus Christ obey His commands concerning not cheating on his or her partner.
I suggest u strictly advice and warn him against any thought of cheating let alone commiting such act if not u let him know d consequence if he dare it.
A word is enough 4d wise!
Wilheminna Girl please don't stop using igbo. Mine suck and I actually visit this blog to learn from you. Biko inugo xoxo
DeleteBut the problem is, if Godly men come, ladies will always put dem in friend zone, n d godly men end up marrying d bad girls who r left afta all the good ones have been married 2 some Badt guys. Such is life Lol
DeleteDon't even know what to say
ReplyDeleteAnd so. To protect you from other STDs. Or u wan carry HIV. Engr Emy
ReplyDeleteYou know your husband more than we do. If you're married to a faithful man who fears God, you wouldn't be asking this question because you'd know he can't do such. My point is, deep inside your heart, you know the truth.
DeleteAbi.....n if his cheating den be careful so u don't get STDs.
DeleteUr question is shaa funny.
It is well with you
DeleteReport him to the nearest police station
ReplyDeleteHahahahahaha u no well
DeleteFunny
DeleteAtleast he plays safe! So be happy.... men will always have their way,dont bother your head young woman.
ReplyDeleteThat's it!
DeleteYes they don't especially the chronic cheats. Sorry ma'am he's cheating.
ReplyDeleteBeta talk to him oo
ReplyDeleteMy uncle's wedding day....... he had his reception in a particular hotel in Owerri........ he kept his girlfriend in the same hotel........ before reception he entered his girlfriend's room and made love to her... immediately after reception he still made love to her again ....all his friends was busy covering everything from his wife............. men are bad
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Of course he's cheating or planning too..
ReplyDeleteYour husband has a side chic.
ReplyDeletemadam u are on a long thing.
ReplyDeleteWhat advice do you need again, he already told you a colleague might have left it there.
ReplyDeleteAsides the condom, you never said any other reason why you should be worried.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
throw it away then
ReplyDeleteEven if she throw way am...police dey stand for where them dey sell condoms? Abeg don't say a word.
DeleteHaahahahahahahahahahaaha,,,lol,,no police o
DeleteHahahahahahahahahha sorry dear.it might be his baloon or what ever is your husband from yoruba because the love condom pass God.
ReplyDelete#sad indeed
My sister pls leave it there, its better he uses condom than skin to skin.
ReplyDeleteGbam baddest u rite
DeleteThank ur God he is using condim sef..nt lik mine day goes under every dirty pussy skin 2 skin...i don't even live him again..jus livin with him,,,like am so hard hearted n without feelings @all.upon say i dey pretend 2 enjoy his small dick love making...smh...
DeleteAnon 2:52 You know he's going into every dirty pussy and you still allow him? Wow!! Women are trying.
DeleteHahahahahahahahahha sorry dear.it might be his baloon or what ever is your husband from yoruba because the love condom pass God.
ReplyDelete#sad indeed
Same excuse mine gave,but since I was heavy wit m little princess I decided to let it go,but I no he cheats on me...big time
ReplyDeleteHahahahahahahahahha sorry dear.it might be his baloon or what ever is your husband from yoruba because the love condom pass God.
ReplyDelete#sad indeed
My sister pls leave it there, its better he uses condom than skin to skin.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm. Real men mostly godly men don't and never cheat except they r half men or ungodly men.
ReplyDeleteTo correct dis impression, its not all men dat indulge in d act of cheating bcos one wit Jesus Christ obey His commands concerning not cheating on his or her partner.
I suggest u strictly advice and warn him against any thoughtof cheating let alone commiting such act if not u let him know d consequence if he dare it.
A word is enough 4d wise
U better remove ur mind from that cos u'll never get to hear the truth and thank God hez using condom and not skin to skin... dee
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm. Real men mostly godly men don't and never cheat except they r half men or ungodly men.
ReplyDeleteTo correct dis impression, its not all men dat indulge in d act of cheating bcos one wit Jesus Christ obey His commands concerning not cheating on his or her partner.
I suggest u strictly advice and warn him against any thoughtof cheating let alone commiting such act if not u let him know d consequence if he dare it.
A word is enough 4d wise!
Hmmmmm. Real men mostly godly men don't and never cheat except they r half men or ungodly men.
ReplyDeleteTo correct dis impression, its not all men dat indulge in d act of cheating bcos one wit Jesus Christ obey His commands concerning not cheating on his or her partner.
I suggest u strictly advice and warn him against any thought of cheating let alone commiting such act if not u let him know d consequence if he dare it.
A word is enough 4d wise!
Funny woman..like marriage changes men who cheat. it's not about the length of time into marriage, it's about who he has been even before marriage. U should be happy he even uses condoms. most married men still argue the use of condoms with side chicks.
ReplyDeleteU are very correct! Most married men don't like using condom!its d side chick that usually force them to use it!
DeleteEven on ur wedding day,he will cheat on you...marriage s a university.just put it in prayers. Love him as u can.make sure he comes him everyday..and most of all he brings money..collect even more than if not anoda woman will be collecting d money for u
ReplyDeleteThx
Best advice ever....
DeleteCollect all the dough you can
Alll dese LIB readers sendin dis n dat una can disturb oooo,is like it's a new trend now make I do send mine asap.dn;t knw wat to tell u dear LIB
ReplyDeleteMy dear, men are not emotional about sex. The need for sex for a man is like the need for our weaves or pressed powder. The earlier women come to terms with this things, the easier our lives will be. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. In a man's heart, he knows who he loves but his dick, needs variety. I am not saying it's right but if your happiness depends on your husbands fidelity, you just might be one unhappy woman for a long time. I have been married for 8 years, trust me.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you
DeleteALL of us MEN are the same
@anony 09:09am, Wow!!! *standing ovation* you're genius, well said.
DeleteMen will love your comment. see them hiding under anonymous. chai... long hiss....
DeleteMadam of 8 years you tried but STILL not the real truth if not God Himself will not call such men dogs or even command men to cut off any body parts that leads to chronic sin...make men try am now to show say dem sabi God
DeleteHold up Mam. Don't be quick to conclude. Maybe he got them for decoration in the bed room. Bulshit!!! His colleague my foot!
ReplyDeleteYOU should be happy he uses a condom... Thank God u saw a condom and hes not going bare.
ReplyDeleteWelcome to the club of women with cheating husbands. You better put on your FBI or SSS hat and be an undercover detective. Bottomline, don't let him bring you STDs!! Goodluck
ReplyDeleteU are just too funny! Hahahahahaha
DeleteMy dear hez cheating on you. Most men cheat even a night before their wedding. Prayer is the key. Pray it works out for you.
ReplyDeleteNope they sure don't! If he was a cheater before u got married, my dear only the Holy Spirit can interfere in your matter. Marriage doesn't curb a cheating man
ReplyDeleteHis colleague left it there? As what? He LIED!!!
ReplyDeleteMy love...THEY DON'T ...men cheat even on their wedding nights if they have the chance. My advise for u...pray for your husband and try not to snoop around because u would cause yourself unnecessary headaches...
ReplyDeletePatience..steadfastness...PRAYERS...Praying for him would guide him a great extent...good luck
it is for your own protection
ReplyDeleteDear. Pls just forget the issue. Act like u never saw it , Else u would just start losing trust in your husband. MEN WILL ALWAYS BE MEN
ReplyDeleteY u dey vex? D gentle man don answer u nah. Drink cold water and sleep
ReplyDeleteMAYB HES PLANNIN TO VENTURE INTO DT LINE OF BIZ...TOMJERRYSWIT
ReplyDeleteIt's amistake, his colleague may truly have forgotten it. Let's no jump into hasty conclusion. (OPTIMIST)
ReplyDeletehe is cheating on you
ReplyDeletehe is cheating on you ooooooo wise up
ReplyDeleteHello dear, you got what you wanted. Did you hear yourself? You are asking us if the vacation period for cheating is one year. You married a cheat and you want us to validate it. I pity young girls rushing into marriage these days without proper counselling in church and reading books on marriage. Any surprise, when all marriage these days is all about the wedding day. They dedicate all their time and strength to the very intricate details of making their wedding day a competition for others. If your believe is that all men cheat, then be prepared anytime after your marriage-not one year after. My advice for you is to dedicate time to make sure it works. Go and correct your mistakes, go for counselling, read books, talk to people with at least 15yrs experience with a marriage life that is successful and make them your mentor. What you believe is what you get.
ReplyDeleteHe is cheating on you.
ReplyDeleteplease dont discourage him,you might talk to him about blessedness faithful in marriage and why he shouldnt start that now,but dont hammer ur points on the condoms alone ,cause if he doesnt use condom ,he might bring hiv home .
ReplyDeleteAwww. can you eat same soup for like 6mnth talk more of getting to a year @least? If so den ur hubby is faithful outside that he is doing what all men re used to perhaps he is no gonna be the first neither d last.
ReplyDelete....CYNTHIA commenting from my TOYOTA CRICKET
Dts y ur eyes r lik dt! Effects of eating different soups. Different soup ko different eba ni!
DeleteDts y ur eyes r lik dt,effect of eating different soups. Same soup kor,same eba ni!
Deleteyou asked him about it and he said one of his colleagues may have left it there.....what else do u want?.... looks like you don't TRUST your Husband!!
ReplyDeleteHello dear, you got what you wanted. Did you hear yourself? You are asking us if the vacation period for cheating is one year. You married a cheat and you want us to validate it. I pity young girls rushing into marriage these days without proper counselling in church and reading books on marriage. Any surprise, when all marriage these days is all about the wedding day. They dedicate all their time and strength to the very intricate details of making their wedding day a competition for others. If your believe is that all men cheat, then be prepared anytime after your marriage-not one year after. My advice for you is to dedicate time to make sure it works. Go and correct your mistakes, go for counselling, read books, talk to people with at least 15yrs experience with a marriage life that is successful and make them your mentor. What you believe is what you get.
ReplyDelete@Lazy Reader, you're such a clown....lol. Madam, go to God in prayers
ReplyDeleteAll men cheat. You should be happy that your husband is cheating with condom
ReplyDeleteU shud be happy he uses condoms.. Mine just gave me an std. He has been cheating on me thruout our 3yrs of marriage. It rily hurts n I love him less each passing day. Stil in it for my boys.
ReplyDeleteWait a minute sister, are u actually saying it is okay for men to start cheating after one year? Hummmmmm.....anyway, back to the topic. Did u ever catch him cheating while u guys were courting? If yes, then he actually might be cheating on u!
ReplyDelete#TeamBlessed#
You shld be happy he's using condom sef! Some men ehnn*
ReplyDeleteDon't men wait for at least a year into marriage before they start cheating? What a silly question.
ReplyDeleteA cheat will cheat whenever he wants to irrespective of whether he's been married for a day or for a year. A cheating rubberiser is better than a cheating non-rubberiser.
Did you want until you got married to sleep with him
ReplyDeleteBrush up ur english 1st b4 u start asking ques.
DeleteDts y u ddnt wait 4ur english classes.
DeleteBrush up ur english 1st b4 u ask ques here
DeleteSweet heart wake up from your fairy tale, they don't give you up to a month, I had the same opinon and heart break after I got married too I will advise you as a mature person not to put so much pressure cause when you do, he goes from using condom to not using condom in other not to be caught and when he comes home with std, you will be the recipient, so biko let him carry his condoms and go and pray for him and stay safe
ReplyDeleteSeeing condom in your husbands car does not mean he is cheating dont give your self unnecessary head ache. And if he is using condom you should be glad cos some idiots will not even think of condoms and end up coming home with all kinds of infections. For now just pray to God and upgrade your bedroom skills.winks
ReplyDeleteHe's cheating but be happy he's doing it with condom bcus if he is d cheating type I dnt think u can stop him by jst telling him to stop. So thank God dat he knows how to protect himself thereby protecting u also.
ReplyDeleteNo comment, not married yet, so I can't say the duration men wait to cheat. Not that it is right.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry, but I find ur question very funny.
ReplyDeleteThat's what in vogue right now men do cheat, if they give the new bride up to a month after wedding that means he love his wife so so much. Back to the main point, is like two sides of a coin. It might be true and it might not, don't nag him and be patient with him. Love him the more and pray the more.
ReplyDeletesweetie I know Its a hurtful feeling and all but I always say if you bust him this time you are only teaching him more creative ways to hide his acts. my advice will be just try as hard as it will be but try to take your mind off it and pray. pray that he changes and that you are able to overlook. I wish you all the very best in your marriage. Marriage is very very hard don't let all the movies fool you if you divorce him somebody else will marry him simple
ReplyDeleteHa..Ha.ha..., a solder is always prepared for war..#smiles#
ReplyDeleteSome Men r dogs. It happened to someone I know 2weeks after thr marriage her husband cheated on her with thr neighbour.
ReplyDeleteMost married men these days don't even wear a condom,so consider urslf lucky if he's usint one...my dear he's cheating
ReplyDeleteYour husband is such a darling husband to have thought of using condom,at least, he is not gonna impregnate any woman out wedlock, and better still you are protected from hiv and std.you need to check yourself very well, what went wrong okay.
ReplyDeleteHe is obviously cheating, since u guys stopped using condoms, did u take time to collect all the remaining condoms in the house? Why will his friend leave condom in his car, sounds like a lie, just like someone saying a colleague gave it to him to keep. Is bad enough bcos married men think they have monopoly of cheating. However, try to keep urself happy bcos u will see more things in the future. Marriage is not beans.
ReplyDeleteGood man be dat
ReplyDeleteNah today, dis one no be news
ReplyDeleteYou guys were knacking before marriage, its just normal for him to continue. Im sure he was knacking some other babes while he was knacking u. Pls wake up, dude is cheating real time.
ReplyDeleteGhen Ghen...on a serious note tho, condoms does not mean he is cheating. But if he is, then be glad he is wise enough to use protection. Pele.
ReplyDeleteI love these comments! Guys get in here! Let's here from you.
ReplyDeleteHelp him stock up more condoms in his car for your safety and silently try to catch him, record it and divorce him taking away half of his money. lol. We need that law. Ladies should start holding men to high standards else this trend will keep going on. Men don't lower their standards for ladies. So ladies be warned!!!! And dear lady don't trouble yourself but pray. Don't let his cheating worry you. Watch War Room!!! Prayer changes everything. Since you signed up for this life. Because when you were having protected sex before marriage with a man that couldn't wait and exercise self control, what do you expect. God's laws were not play. turn to Christ and pray. He will change by your prayer if you really love him.
ReplyDeleteit might be left over from before you guys got married...been gradually disposing my left overs too since I couldn't use it with my wife again.Give him the benefit of doubt and believe him.TRUST is what got you guys together in the first place and if he says it belongs to the friend then so be it.
ReplyDeletemen are just dogs. period. if he is decent and respects his wife, no friend of his would put a condom in his car.
ReplyDeleteDid u say wait for a year????????????????????????????
ReplyDeletethey dont wait,even our marriage that will be a year come september 4th has witnessed it,i caught the shit on his phone and he denied at first and apologised and since then different calls and messages on his whatsapp,its really dirty when u cheat on your partner,since u choose urself over others why trade that same person for the others,
in all i do am sure i love my hubby but he felt that the love wasnt enough and decided to cheat on me and our 9 months old son,after we dated for about 9 years,its really sad,icouldnt believe my eyes,he has lost my trust,but i know that God will change him.
My uncle's wedding day....... he had his reception in a particular hotel in Owerri........ he kept his girlfriend in the same hotel........ before reception he entered his girlfriend's room and made love to her... immediately after reception he still made love to her again ....all his friends was busy covering everything from his wife............. men are bad
DeleteTake it easy on him... Just be a good woman and leave the rest.
ReplyDeletethats a sign that he might need it anyhow any day. prevention is better than cure. if i were u sis, i rather leave it there.
ReplyDeletethats a sign that he might need it anyhow any day. prevention is better than cure. if i were u sis, i rather leave it there.
ReplyDeleteQuestion for d gods. Its gd he s protectg hmself. If u wana die young or v hrt attack try investigatg.
ReplyDeleteLet it go... naturally, men are adulterous... na so God do am... all you gat to Do is pray, you've asked. Him, he has explained, give him d benefit. Of. Doubt... believe him even if you know he's telling lies
ReplyDeleteLMAO!!! The comments here are hilarious. Harrysong also said "Even your boo get a boo". Its so hard to trust anyone these days. Even when a man says "i do" today, he is all over town the next day looking for a new pussy.
ReplyDeleteAnd if you actually believe that shit of "his friend left it in his car" then you need to wake up girl cuz he is definitely cheating on your ass. LOL!!!
i yen no nice
ReplyDeletethank God u found condom
i dont see anything bad it.
All is vanity upon vanity.
ReplyDeleteCheater alert!
ReplyDeleteWell...most men cheat. You should be glad he uses a condom sef. Tho not right.
ReplyDeleteMy uncle's wedding day.......
ReplyDeletehe had his reception in a particular hotel in Owerri........
he kept his girlfriend in the same hotel........
before reception he entered his girlfriend's room and made love to her...
immediately after reception he still made love to her again ....
all his friends was busy covering everything from his wife.............
men are bad
HE'S USING CONDOM SO HE LOVES YOU! PUT ALL IN PRAYERS.
ReplyDeleteMEN CAN EVEN CHEAT ON THE DAY OF THEIR WEDDING
ReplyDeleteWhat's cheating.. The world has gone bad why have sex whe your not married and your happy.... How do you think the marriage will be happy... There's nothing to crave for again... In the woman and man body after committing fornication before marriage... There's nothing like cheat in the bibe it's called adultery.... Bewarned the consequences are brutal
ReplyDeleteAfter reading u all comment all I can say is women are women problems,most ladies here jst embrace d cheatin subject like d man sud be awarded 4 it.Help destory ur husband life u hear#dere mouth like men ll always be men#Build ur home n never take shit 4rm anyman
ReplyDeletemen ar cheaters..u no lik a dog, dey will neva b satisfied....,my dear i wil only advise u hang on to ur man n tighten any loose end
ReplyDeletemen ar cheaters..u no lik a dog, dey will neva b satisfied....,my dear i wil only advise u hang on to ur man n tighten any loose end
ReplyDeleteMy uncle's wedding day....... he had his reception in a particular hotel in Owerri........ he kept his girlfriend in the same hotel........ before reception he entered his girlfriend's room and made love to her... immediately after reception he still made love to her again ....all his friends was busy covering everything from his wife............. men are bad
Deletepoint of correction d anonymous,not all men cheat,my advice is dont just react immediately, dat he may be right... just catch him red-handed b4 u penalise him
ReplyDeleteIf the guy is good, you may never catch him. Just trust your instincts.
DeleteMy uncle's wedding day....... he had his reception in a particular hotel in Owerri........ he kept his girlfriend in the same hotel........ before reception he entered his girlfriend's room and made love to her... immediately after reception he still made love to her again ....all his friends was busy covering everything from his wife............. men are bad
DeleteMy uncle's wedding day....... he had his reception in a particular hotel in Owerri........ he kept his girlfriend in the same hotel........ before reception he entered his girlfriend's room and made love to her... immediately after reception he still made love to her again ....all his friends was busy covering everything from his wife............. men are bad
DeleteMy uncle's wedding day....... he had his reception in a particular hotel in Owerri........ he kept his girlfriend in the same hotel........ before reception he entered his girlfriend's room and made love to her... immediately after reception he still made love to her again ....all his friends was busy covering everything from his wife............. men are bad
DeleteUmmmm.....u said u guys stopped using condoms after marriage...well maybe he wanted to start again..the again karma may be catching up with you, like the old saying do onto other what you want to be done to you
ReplyDeleteHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH Laugh wan kill me for here.
ReplyDeleteWoman, just let him know how bad u're feeling.
80% of Naira loaded men cheat.
It's sad enough to see some comments here soundin like they encourage infidelity in marriage.....very sad! If people will regard God's word more and take celibacy more seriously then the rate of infidelity in marriage will b minimal.....just keep praying....God will intervene.....i see dat most comments r even from ladies sigh....where r d men who will stand up against infidelity??? If God decends on d earth with anger....i dunno if anyone will survive honestly
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry ma'am! You've been sleeping with him long before you married him, or worse still married you, so don't expect him to stick with you alone. While he was sleeping with you, he obviously must have slept with thousands like you, using condoms. So he cannot just throw away the fun he's having or has had previously just because you are now legally living with him.
ReplyDeletePRICE TO PAY FOR PRE-MARITAL SEX
My dear, just forget about it and move on.
ReplyDeleteYours is car only, l found condoms in his trousers, box, several times in his car and my own car when he takes it out. This is a man that l help built, had children for, pay the children's fees, feed and clothe them including the so called husband. Take care of his relations including parents. Help build houses. My reward is using the little he gets to sleep around. The worst is that he comes back and accuse me on daily basis, going through my phone like an idiot without seeing anything. My prayer is that God punishes him right before my very eyes. I will be happy to see this happen to him as long as l am faithful to him. Useless fool.
ReplyDeleteYours is car only, l found condoms in his trousers, box, several times in his car and my own car when he takes it out. This is a man that l help built, had children for, pay the children's fees, feed and clothe them including the so called husband. Take care of his relations including parents. Help build houses. My reward is using the little he gets to sleep around. The worst is that he comes back and accuse me on daily basis, going through my phone like an idiot without seeing anything. My prayer is that God punishes him right before my very eyes. I will be happy to see this happen to him as long as l am faithful to him. Useless fool.
ReplyDeleteNawa o is it that people don't fear God again these days. So much immorality in our society its disgusting.
ReplyDeleteWOW TRUTH IS BITTER THEY SAY,I GUESS HE IS CHEATING ON YOU DEARIE.BE KIND WHEN YOU TALK TO HIM ALRIGHT.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is Fiducial. Marriage is based on trust. You should know your man better than anyone else before agreeing to marriage. If he is into girls you will know; so i expect that you trust ur man when he gives u his word. I once told my woman about a close female colleague and her word was "hope u use condom?" I was pained cause i never said she is my love and i made her understand how pained i was and also position myself for a revenge. Not quite long, she traveled to the North to pick up an important document from her old school and return to tell me that one Alhaji help her with the process and i quickly asked "hope you used condom" and she was very pained in fact almost crying. "Do u now take me as a prostitute" was her response and i quickly reminded her of her comment to me the last time and let her know that i felt the same way then. The moral of the story is that couple should learn to trust one another. MARRIAGE IS BUILT ON TRUST.
ReplyDeleteMy uncle's wedding day....... he had his reception in a particular hotel in Owerri........ he kept his girlfriend in the same hotel........ before reception he entered his girlfriend's room and made love to her... immediately after reception he still made love to her again ....all his friends was busy covering everything from his wife............. men are bad
ReplyDeleteAll men do not cheat. The way you handle this will make or Mar your marriage.
ReplyDeleteDo not be aggressive or violent about it.
Discuss it with an open mind and low voice, looking into his eyes.
Ask him how he would feel about it if it was you cheating.
IMPORTANTLY STOP SUSPECTING HIM.
My uncle's wedding day....... he had his reception in a particular hotel in Owerri........ he kept his girlfriend in the same hotel........ before reception he entered his girlfriend's room and made love to her... immediately after reception he still made love to her again ....all his friends was busy covering everything from his wife............. men are bad
ReplyDeleteMy uncle's wedding day....... he had his reception in a particular hotel in Owerri........ he kept his girlfriend in the same hotel........ before reception he entered his girlfriend's room and made love to her... immediately after reception he still made love to her again ....all his friends was busy covering everything from his wife............. men are bad
ReplyDeleteMy uncle's wedding day.......
ReplyDeletehe had his reception in a particular hotel in Owerri........
he kept his girlfriend in the same hotel........
before reception he entered his girlfriend's room and made love to her... immediately after reception he still made love to her again ....
all his friends was busy covering everything from his wife.............
men are bad
My uncle's wedding day.......
ReplyDeletehe had his reception in a particular hotel in Owerri........
he kept his girlfriend in the same hotel........
before reception he entered his girlfriend's room and made love to her... immediately after reception he still made love to her again ....
all his friends was busy covering everything from his wife.............
men are bad
You already believe every man cheats, so the time frame is your problem right?SMH...
ReplyDeleteMen r idiots!! My hubby cheated on me n is still cheating! "sister girl get ur shot together n dump d fool! No man is worth it! Only God is.
ReplyDeleteIf any man engage in cheating either in part-time or full-time mode, let me just say, such act must have started years before the marriage took place. Madam, first of all examine the way you met this your husband and I think this will open up your mind and brain together. Things are in gradual process. Examine your life too. All these are the main reason to issues like this. I am a man, married for twelve years now, yet I am yet to sleep or kiss any other women/ladies beside my wife. The saying "all men are cheat" are what they use to poison women/ladies mind in most cases. All men are not cheat, I would agree that some are, but not all. Remember birds of the same feather flock together. At times, women legalise the illegality, they accuse a man of cheating until the man try cheating. God will take control.
ReplyDeleteNa wind blow the condoms from outside into the car.
ReplyDeleteIt happens.
LIB probably 1 of the worse place to go to for advice..have a click of other married women u confide in. I am a man and i can tell you its hard to put this dick on a leash Very Hard.Trust me most guys dont cheat cos they dont love you,the dick has a mind of its own!!
ReplyDeleteNot all men cheat. But it usually takes having a sound relationship with God and being active in spiritual practices for that not to happen... But I tell you for a fact - NOT ALL MEN CHEAT!!
ReplyDeleteMy dear sister, the guy has started cheating on you. Don't wait for somebody to advice you. Start cheating on him!
ReplyDeleteIt's a sample he wants to start importation and distribution of condoms . Madam should understand
ReplyDeleteSo I am reading all these comments and wondering "What's going on in the society", it's almost like10 out of ten married men cheat. Is this how it is everywhere or is it just peculiar to ppl who comment on this forum? I've been married 9 months, never cheated on my wife and don't intend to ever do and I'm almost thinking I deserve a Nobel Price with what I'm reading here
ReplyDeleteLord Jesus fix it pls!
ReplyDeleteWhen God was creating a PENIS, he didn't make t for cheating!! If dat was it's only purpose, den our male babies should have been manifesting the signs soon after birth! The world has defined their own standard for MEN,but it doesn't CHANGE what GOD EXPECTS from those same MEN He created
ReplyDeleteWait, whaaatttt? "Don't men wait for at least a year into marriage before they start cheating?" LMAO.... Talk about low expectations, I don't blame you for thinking like that tho, It's society forces us women to accept that it's normal.
ReplyDeleteWait, whaaatttt? "Don't men wait for at least a year into marriage before they start cheating?" LMAO.... Talk about low expectations, I don't blame you for thinking like that tho, It's society forces us women to accept that it's normal.
ReplyDeleteSwt heart....even on your wedding day,they hookup with who ever they want too..so just present you dont know they are ddoing it..and stop trying to find out things that dont concern..it will only hurt because he will never ever never admit..only a fool admits....We all know they do this things there is no need to waste time checking
ReplyDeleteHe is cheating on you
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