Dear LIB readers: My pastor told me my fiance is not my husband, and my friends already bought aso-ebi
From a female LIB reader
My wedding is scheduled for September 5th only for my pastor to tell me during a deliverance service this past Sunday that the man I'm engaged to is not my husband. He said if I marry him, not only will the marriage not last, but that evil will befall me. He said the man was not destined for me and if I go ahead I would wish I had not. My parents are scared and are taking the revelation seriously. They are advising me not to marry him but some of my friends have already bought my aso-ebi. It's not like I can't leave the guy but how do I explain it to people and especially my friends? What would you do if you were in my shoes?
Mtchew! Mumu oya go marry ya pastor naa. Don't believe in all dis crap. If u hadn't gone to d deliverance nko? Would u have heard this from pastor.? NNE its all in d head
You should have gone for the prayers before picking aso-ebi. Take the man in question to your pastor for deliverance, I'm sure you pastor go change mind after he has delivered the husband to-be. Linda take note!
You should have gone for the prayers before picking aso-ebi. Take the man in question to your pastor for deliverance, I'm sure you pastor go change mind after he has delivered the husband to-be. Linda take note!
You should have gone for the prayers before picking aso-ebi. Take the man in question to your pastor for deliverance, I'm sure you pastor go change mind after he has delivered the husband to-be. Linda take note!
Your pastor is not God. Why don't you face God and let him handle the rest? God wouldn't let you go this far for you to let go now. Just fast and pray to God ask him to right every wrong in your marriage. God is in control
I wouldn't even be in ur shoes because am nt dat easily influence by this days see see pastors. Go down on ur kneels and tell it to God in prayers. One thing am gonna let u know, God fogive me if am wrong, most of this see see pastors put asunders in relationships this days so u better be wise.
Pastor said this.....pastor said that........na the pastor go marry u.....better marry ur Niggga, from the way u are sounding its as if u don't even like the guy self
But you never gave any reason why you should believe your pastor, you didn't state any bad behaviour of your fiance. Just a revelation from your pastor. If he's so powerful to tell the future, why can't he pray against the evil. This is how they instill fear in people just to extort from them.
Pastor said this.....pastor said that........na the pastor go marry u.....better marry ur Niggga, from the way u are sounding its as if u don't even like the guy self
My dear,it's simple. You call them friends so explaining to them shouldn't be a hard nut to crack. Also, it's your life and future on the line. I'll advice you take heed. God bless you.
hahahahahahahahahah.....I had to laff.........So pple still fall for dis??? Young woman.......Go to God and talk to HIM.....Let GOD tell you dat himself.....God does not select pple he speaks to.....HE speaks to us all............haba
Ask the pastor to show you your husband first before you leave this one. I pray he is not one of those wicked men out there that pride themselves as men of God. olomaje.
Why is the "pastor" just seeing that. Plus I think you should probably leave the poor guy because not once did you mention that you love him or that you don't want to break his heart. In fact you seem to have no problem with that,apparently your only concern is how it would make you look. So leave the guy alone, in my opinion not because a pastor said so,but because your biggest concern is your reputation. You should not be marrying him if your first thought is not to fight for him.
I quote you.."its not like I cant leave the guy"...I can see you dont love the guy and maybe your relationship didnt undergo any proper courtship. You are not even concerned about the guy or his feeling or anything. U r concerned about money spent on aso-ebi and ur friends! You are wicked so I have no advice for you.
#Story4dgods!!!.... A lot of unions av been ruined by my pastor said diz or dat! Was he not consulted b4&after he proposed to u,b4 d wedding date fixed?Smh! Every in life is a risk,so is falling in luv&finally settling down! My Take: Trust/av Faith in ur GOD &simply follow ur heart. #Goodluck
My dear if u know that dis guy loves u n u love him, if dis guy is doing well n hav plans for his future n he's a God fearing, he's taking good care of u y nt marry him. For the pastor u know him more than he knows him, fast n pray to God don't allow so call pastor to destroy ur marriage, maybe he's looking for a way to tell u God sent u to him. Be wise don't b fool by all dis fake n hungry people calling theirselves pastor. Go on wit ur marriage dear.
Some ladies and their stupidity. I don't think it's a question of already sold out aso ebi rather, it's not right for your pastor to play 'God' in your life. Better get married now before you end up being your pastor's side chick.
If u believe in d Pastor, den u Jst hv to call it off. 4get abt wat pple wil tink or mayb they wil laugh at u. Buh it's better they laugh at u nw dan u nt enjoyin d rest of ur life n them laughing at u later. So Jst take heart, let d man go n call d wedding off no matter what pple say or think.
Because thy Lord have reveled it to you through your pastor, l believe through prayers he can change what ever evil that might cause in future,so go ahead and wed. Also continue your deliverance with your guy till d D day.
"It's not like I can't leave the guy" so please do bcos you're truly not in love with him. You just want to change your marital status. Is your pastor God. Why don't you seek God's face. He's the unchangeable changer. Why not quietly discuss this problem with your spouse and you both pray and fast about it. Rather you bother about aso ebi sold already. My dear you both check your genotype.
Ur Pastor is a weak and wicked Pastor. If a deliverance service was held for u,does it exclude ur husband? If ur Pastor is a true man of God he should have d revelation long b4 now and told u, So if don't marry him, ur husband will b roaming about as a Menace to any girl he meets after u.Ur Pastor and his team should carry out a deliverance service on ur husband of not u will never get married I promise u.Ur husband needs help ur Pastor should help him if he is a true man of God and not chicken out by telling u he is not ur Husband.
both u and the pastor is very stupid, u think dat is a revalation...can't u drive ur own destiny. u dey dere dey listing to what dis hungry pastors using people as toy baby r saying.....if u don't Marry dat guy u'll even regret it the rest of ur life.if the guy is a mistake it better be the one u mad by ur self than the one pastor and family made for u, cos u can try to withstand the pressure wen u r the cos than wen someone else is the cos.
Sista pls go on nd marry d man,u c dis life God will neva let his own pple suffer,neva put ur mind on d revelation,pray 2 God if truly d guy isn't ur real hubby b4 dat date smtin shuld split u both,bt if nt abeg my God is merciful,dats wat all dis pastor says dis one is nt gud 4 u,do u knw d problem anoda guy u will meet av,i believe in prayer wateva is best 4 u d lord will alwys mk it cm ur way,but if u cancel d wedding on ur own dat means d devil has won cos all he does is 2 create fear in2 ones life,abeg move on wit d wedding....
All these fake pastors and their fake visions! This was how a colleague of mine lost a good girl. 'She is not your wife'. 'He is not your husband'. Nonsense! Abeg, as long as you love each other, you both fear God, he/she has a good character, come from good families and love their families; go on jare and ignore these fake nonsense pastors. Rubbish! How are the marriages of these soothsayers? Their marriages are worse! They see nothing but prey on gullible followers like you.
My Sister, For every revelation, there is a counter-revelation. All these pastors sef!! Please dnt mind him o, marry your man and keep praying to God for a happy marriage.
..The pastor will come bck in 2yrs time and tell u you have a spiritual problem dats y ure still single and the solution is to sleep with him for cleansing. Ndi ara
Prophecies come true when we believe it will come true. Our minds work with d spiritual. God lives in our hrts. Call upon him and hand ur marriage into his hand. Do u believe in man or God. Darling dat man came into ur life for a purpose. Rebuke negativity and it will flee. D devil is strongly against marriage, be prayerful and wise. In conclusion, tell God to lead u through ur marriage successfully. Get married!
Are you not meant to do marriage counselling with your pastor before you start selling aso ebi sef? Wedding that's in September u have already sold aso ebi? Na so u need money? Hian!
Tell ur pastor dat I said he lie. If u like liv ur husband u will forever regret it. Why did D prophecy came dis late. Since D plan an all tins. GOD said his not an auto to confusion. Take heed. UGO-GOlD............
Tell ur pastor dat I said he lie. If u like liv ur husband u will forever regret it. Why did D prophecy came dis late. Since D plan an all tins. GOD said his not an auto to confusion. Take heed. UGO-GOlD............
Tell ur pastor dat I said he lie. If u like liv ur husband u will forever regret it. Why did D prophecy came dis late. Since D plan an all tins. GOD said his not an auto to confusion. Take heed. UGO-GOlD............
Do you think you are ready for marriage? If you are, you won't allow anyone to give you directions on who or who not to marry; you will just have that conviction in your heart. Since you are obviously more concerned about the aso-ebi than whether you can stick with or leave your man, my question is "Are you ready for marriage?" Because if you're not ready, it's not that the marriage won't last because the pastor said so, it's majorly because you're not mature yet for the institution called marriage... doesn't matter how old you are.
Prophecy is very good my dear but first of all u have been with this guy and what was your mind telling you and what is it also telling you now?if your mind is at peace with him go on.at times some of this pastors spoil people's home talking out of experience.Am a living testimony don't get me wrong not saying that there is no prophecy there is because in 2nd chronicle 20 vs 20 it says Believe in the lord your God,so shall ye be established,believe his Prophets so shall ye prosper.so just know who is speaking to u i mean the spirit.My dear,Ur a prophet on your own too.God can speak to you go on your knees and ask for his guidance.And bear this at the back of your mind that a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.if you decide not to continue,then don't care about what people will say because who wears the shoe knows where it pinches.its well with you.
There is no prophecy that can't be reversed, don't let any man of God bring set back to your life. Have seen people come on the altar to share testimonies of what men of God like your said before there marriage but God shamed the devil and gave them a marriage full of blessing, children and long life. Change your church, go to churches where there is life and not death, like Redeem, winners etc. But if you yield to is satanic prophecy you 'll end up regretting it in life and by then it would have been too late. A word for the wise. God bless you.
Pray by urself too, if God can reveal it to the pastor, God will reveal it to u, it is no big deal praying a prayer of faith nd God will definitely tell u his mind, trust me
God created you in his image and you can talk to him directly, i hate it when people say pastors are saying this and that,is it the pastor that has been in the relationship with you? if he's what you want in a man, talk to God!!!!!!
Simple. If u believe ur pastor so much, den its better to explain to a few friends dan to say "I do" in front of God and man. It's better to explain to a few friends than 3yrs down d line u will start explaining to ur kid/s forever y u left dad.
If u stop the wedding then u are an idiot. All married couple at one point or the other regret marrying and hated themselves but that is marriage. Its not perfect and it will never be. There are days u will wish u can kill him in his sleep and there are days you will be willing to give your life for his. So go ahead marry him. EXCEPT if YOU have doubts about your fee!ings for him. And pray to God to be with you.
Tel Ur Pastor to go get U ur husband b4 he let's d one U hav go. Don't knw Y youths especialy ladies of dis days r so gullible to any criminal hu goes by D Monikr Pastor #Yung Nigerian
So your problem is not breaking the guys heart but dissappointing aso ebi friends. Isorait. No wonder marriages don't last these days. Misplaced priorities.
Stop being "people conscious ".. Be conscious of yourself and your happiness. What is aso-ebi cloth compared a serious issue like this? Pray & God will direct you aright.
Dis na serious mata o, is ur pastor married, didn't u pray over it b4 now? If u so much blv in ur pastor, den call it off n God wl bring u d correct man
Dis na serious mata o, is ur pastor married, didn't u pray over it b4 now? If u so much blv in ur pastor, den call it off n God wl bring u d correct man
My dear I would advice u seek the face of God b4 taking any decision ur faith can move mountains u just have to believe or u go to other churches to know if ur pastor his right my case is similar to urs but different my pastor told me he was my husband until I went to 3 different churches after my 7 days fasting in each church those other pastor told me he wasn't my husband
Heheheehheeh... funny I'd seek help from other pastors.. I won't just jump in2 conclusion Cz one pastor told me d man 'm engaged to is not my husband.. Plz, where was he wen d date was fixed? Why didn't he tell her 4rm d onset that he isn't meant 4 her? Why now? Plz, go 4 prayers elsewhere, confirm 4rm two or three pastors b4 concluding o... "Pulling my ears"
ohh, so the guy's feeling is not the problem ?,how his family would take it is not a problem ? what you feel (or do not feel) is not the problem, its your friend and aso-ebi that the problem ?
I've seen a situation like this. Please dear pray against it and tell ur pastor to pray against it as well. That ur so called pastor might have interest in u. Ignore him and move ahead dear. Pastor indeed!
Tell pastor to give you logical reasons, not just revelations. Has this pastor given you advice that worked previously? Was he not aware that you were planning your wedding all along? Is he married? Has God spoken to you madam? Or you don't pray? Do you have peace with your supposed about to be husband? Think n pray.. God has not given you the spirit of fear
my dear such things was said to my sister when she was about to get married but she love the guy and got married to him,now they are happily married with kids.if you love and trust your guy,go ahead and marry him.God will take control of the rest if you allows him into your marriage. wishing you luck
Tell them the wedding is off due to unforseen circumstances. DO NOT tell them the reason until you're engaged or married to somebody else. Go away (travel) around the time the wedding is meant to take place.
And your Pator is God abi? Can't yu pray for reversal of any evil yourself? didn't you get a revelation from God before planning wedding? Issokay by the time you call off your engagement and you are still single in 10years time you will be praying from one prayer mountain to the other.
TEST ALL SPIRITS MY DEAR. NOT SAYING THE PASTOR IS FAKE.IF YOU ARE SO CONVINCED ABOUT THIS GUY, PRAY ABOUT HIM YOURSELF, TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE..ELDERS, OTHER PASTORS, DO MORE BACKGROUND CHECKS...I PRAY GOD DIRECTS U AND MAY HIS WILL FOR UR LIFE PREVAIL ULTIMATELY
I knw some people will come here and give u advice dat u should leave the guy and listen to ur pastor buh my dear the decission is strictly yours and his to handle.. first none of us here attend ur church and knw the level of spirituality it has also remember that marriage is appose to be a long time union and God has destined it to be for better or worst. my question now for u is did u pray with ur man to ascertain wat said about it?? if u already prayed and God gave u a go ahead my dear den go ahead ur pastor is suppose to council u and guide toward the right path in marriage not to choose a spouse for u.. did ur husband to be prayed?? wat was God's reply to him?? Let's not be deceived by what some so called pastors do today most of dem now re in business of match making cos they want u to marry their own church member or vice versa.. be wise the bible is there for u to get answers dnt be lazy use it... The most important thing is ur own confirmation BE WISE
Let me advice you from my own experience. Before i got married, during a prayer session my pastor told me that am not destined to marry a man from imo state that if i marry a man from there i will never be happy in that marriage. A year later i married a man from imo state and i can confidently tell you that my marriage is made in heaven. Forget about this pastors and their prophecies. They have misled alot of our ladies. If you and ur boo have the same feeling, love and respect for each other......my advice to you is to go ahead and marry the young man.
I might be wrong but I know it is he dat finds a wife findeth a good thing and obtains favour from the lord...I don't believe in pastors telling you who to marry or not ..besides there is absolutely nothing prayer cannot change ......do what will you make happy regardless and make sure you pray very well before your final decision.....Cheers
Let me advice you from my own experience. Before i got married, during a prayer session my pastor told me that am not destined to marry a man from imo state that if i marry a man from there i will never be happy in that marriage. A year later i married a man from imo state and i can confidently tell you that my marriage is made in heaven. Forget about this pastors and their prophecies. They have misled alot of our ladies. If you and ur boo have the same feeling, love and respect for each other......my advice to you is to go ahead and marry the young man.
Let me advice you from my own experience. Before i got married, during a prayer session my pastor told me that am not destined to marry a man from imo state that if i marry a man from there i will never be happy in that marriage. A year later i married a man from imo state and i can confidently tell you that my marriage is made in heaven. Forget about this pastors and their prophecies. They have misled alot of our ladies. If you and ur boo have the same feeling, love and respect for each other......my advice to you is to go ahead and marry the young man.
See let me tell you, don't listen to anyone who says that someone is not your husband. God does not choose a man for anyone he just directs us. I have been in this kind of dilemma before and truthfully its not worth leaving your man for anyone. See even if you marry a man that your pastor says he is your husband, see you will still have ups and downs. I saw this post written by a man of God about this same matter.
My Sister the deliverance should be a confirmation and not a source of confusion because God is not an author of confusion. 1st, ask your self, have you been having this doubt deep inside of you that the guy is not meant for you? if yes then the prophesy have just confirmed it but if before the prophesy you have been at peace and convinced that the man is yours, then you go ahead with the wedding because my sister it is only God that can tell a true prophet and he has given us conscience to detect one atleast to a point. #myopinion
Every Body is entitled to a Vision from God, try fasting and prayer. God will reveal to you. also try deliverance in any MFM church it works like magic.
I dont know why people decide to listen to pastors who dont even know who they are,how can someone see a future for you. becareful,you should be wise enough to know that your happiness depends on you and not anyone else.Unless there are obvious reasons why you shouldnt be with that person like if he beats or cheats occasionally,then desist,apart from that,dont give ears to everyone giving opinion about your fiancee
Lol I think u shld leave the guy. It's funny,not the revelation but your attitude,as if you know in your heart that it won't work with him. Your reaction in ur write up is of one who wants to save face. If u really want to marry him u wld first think of d guys feelings rada dan asoebi. So therefore I tell u Ms,save the guy further heart ache,refund money for aso ebi now. I cld have given u many many option but u no wan marry in d first place. *sips Lemon juice*
Those of you who go to your pastor to pray for you and tell you who to marry, if care is not taken, you will become a victim of lies. You are simply lazy. No pastor or prophet should tell you who to marry. They are to pray along with you, counsel and guide you using the Word of God. If you fail to pay the price to hear from God on that matter, you may be deceived. God can use your pastor or a genuine prophet of God to confirm what He had already told you. Many homes have been established on falsehood and that is why things are falling apart and the center can no longer hold. Some pastors are seriously into match-making. They have taken over from the Holy Spirit. Match-making remains God's prerogative and He has not delegated it to any pastor.
#ShoroNiyen...u talking friends like they gonna be there when d relevation starts coming to pass, better see reasons with ur parents or better stil pray to avert d evil in d relevation but neva put friends into matters that has to do with ur life...no friend nowhere
A pastor has no right to put asunder in marriage. He was there when you people were courting , he never deemed it fit to carry out his spiritual search it is now that all is set that he came out to brainwash you. Do you have any relationship with the so called pastor ? If not , go ahead with your wedding and trust in God. No mere mortal has power to foretell tomorrow.
That's why it's important to go to God in prayer before making such important decision like marriage. Pray, then sit him down and explain things to him and do the same with your friends.
Seek a 2nd opinion and pray about it. Why didn't you seek God first before you got this far? Or hire a detective to investigate your guy and his family background.
I see a lot of selfishness here. You aren't bothered about him, his friends or his family. Its about how you will explain to people. My dear, your pastor isn't God. Pls don't listen to fake prophecy. God plans for you are good and not evil. Jer 29:11. God doesn't orchestrate disaster in marriage. God invented marriage so He won't do anything to destroy it. Pls go back and meet your pastor and tell him to say that he prophesied that through the Spirit of God. And ask him to say that Jesus is Lord. You'll be shocked he won't. I've tried it before. Most of these evil pastors won't accept the supremacy of Jesus. If you leave that guy. You probably will regret it. Only reason you can call off the wedding is if you find out something life threatening about him by YOURSELF. If not, go ahead. God bless you
Is hw pple & frndz feels, nt yr happiness?. If d pastor's really genuine my of God, plz follow d instruction. Or....go through d manual givin 2u by Almighty God (Bible) & consult him. Gdlck!
A word is enough for the wise + use your tongue to count your teeth... right now your friends don't matter its your future he is talking about. Some of us wished we had this revelation before marriage. HEED TO YOUR PASTOR'S ADVICE, it could safe you from a life time of misery.
I no that nothing is impossible for God to do. The question is Do you believe your pastor? Have you prayed about it yourself? Do you know that God can talk to you too? Talk to God yourself and he will tell you what to do.
My dear not all revelation are true sometimes de are just fake.. pray for God to revail things to u.ask God to let u see for urself if it true. if u do 3days fasting and prayers u don't see anything my dear God ahead with ur wedding .be careful of fake revelations
Hello Dear, marriage is a sensitive matter, that is why I advise you to hear from God yourself, he really wants to speak to you & listen to you. If you ask God personally, he will guide you even in the most difficult situation. The question, If your finance is for you or not? I cannot answer but I know who can hence my previous message. God has also revealed the character of his dream husband for you in the bible that is a sure way to make the right choice or analysis, you can always hear many voices in life, but the skill of knowing Gods voice comes from deep fellowship with him, your pastor has heard his part now its time to hear from God too. Don't make such decisions with insufficient knowledge. Study the bibles view on marriage, the character of a husband & the character of a wife & all your questions, fear & doubt will melt away cause you will know exactly what to do. About what people will say, FORGET THEM! if you get married or not they will still talk, Important thing is #Dotherightthingfortherightreason# Shalom!
i dont understand y people become so stupid whenever a supposed man of God is in the question. please what is this stupidity?? someone who knows nothing about your relationship dynamics with you fiancee wakes up one day and says that both of you aren't meant to be and you too just foolishly accept it just because he labels himself a man of God? you are a mumu! original mumu! oya dump your fiancee now. your eye go clear when pastor will make your fiancee marry his daughter instead. how can you be so unbelievbly gullible? mark my words, your pastor is up to something. maybe he even wants to marry you sef. if you like, dont live your life. be accepting everything your pastor says like a gullible mumu. mtcheww
Am surprised to still see this at this age...why do girls or naija like vision and false prophet..oh no ! Why for christ sake will you listen to a pastor that is worst a sinner than any body.You will so regret your life when you leave ur fiance and you live to see him prosper with a new wife and a happy home.Please when next you see the so called Pastor tell him to give you the husband he has destined for you, and as for your parents i shake my head cos they have been so into fake prophesy ,they need deliverance to know that its only Almighty God that reign supreme,for your fiance it will be a good thing to marry a lady that believes in God cos i see you as one that will believe in babalawo and ruin your home with fake pastors /prohecy.Advice to people getting married ,so many things in marriage that one has to go on his/her knees to seek God not these fake pastors and others.All the best to you.
Marriages are not made in heaven but on earth. I am surprised that you were not very convinced about ur guy despite heading toward marriage. Marriage doesn't work by what a pastor or prophet says but by the agreement of the parties involved. In my opinion, if you're convinced about him please go ahead with ur marriage because no prophetic word can see you through marriage except ur personal conviction to be with ur man in joy, happiness, sorrow, riches and poverty, in health or sickness. May God help you
It's not that I can't leave the guy but how will I tell my friends. Hmmmmmmmmm. You wicked o so u are not even considering his feelings. That means u had a double mind before ur pastor's vision. If I be that guy I for go for thanks giving, it just shows u just wanted to marry but never loved the guy. Linda na when u go propose to me? Pls do am quick before ur pastor see vision.
Let me warn that this is pretty long! Can your pastor can advise you in this manner? Yes. But only because u made him your high priest. Shouldn't be so for a child of God. In this new grace covenant dispensation of our Lord Jesus Christ, the high priest of those that believe in Him, you have eternal access to our loving Father - once you believe in Jesus; believe that your sins are paid for - past, present and future. Believe that all things work together for good for those that trust Him. Believe that you are the righteousness of God thru Christ Jesus and that all the blessings of the Word are yours and all the curses have no place in your life. Believe that Psalm 91 was written for you- no evil shall befall you.... so your marriage cannot fail and evil cannot befall you. Even when you sin, know that it is not counted against you because God cannot punish the same sin twice- Jesus already died for our sins! Know that you cannot stop sinning by your own effort - YOU WILL STILL SIN AGAIN AS ONLY THE HOLY SPIRIT CAN TRANSFORM YOU- and know that these sins are already forgiven before you even think about committing them. All these and so much more only if you believe!
WTF! I don't believe all these pastors' shits. So many pastors always create confusion with dia so called prophecy. One question I will ask u is do u really love dis guy? If yes, pls forget what ur pastor says! He who finds a wife finds a good thing n not he who d pastor helps to find a wife finds a good thing. Or maybe he is interested in having u as a side chick. Go for what u want n not what ur pastor says. QED
Mtchew...ur pastor, that means u have known him for long and also he has known you for long. Did he not know when u were getting engage, did the church not fix the date for u, or u r a church harlot? If this is your main church and ur priest then he must hv known the whole process up till aso Ebi started selling. so ws God sleeping then, or was he blinded in the spirit then. Pls the Bible says test every spirit and know if it's from the Lord. Are you convinced about the man you love, or u r just scared you might be in your father's house longer than normal. Your pastor might be right if you can boldly say, it's nt as if I cnt liv him. You are majorly concerned about what people would say and not the emotional commitment that both of you share. Add me up on Google+ or email revabrahamndu@gmail.com 2ADF43F5 for counselling and I would help you with the right direction!
2000yrs ago he went to the cross and die a shameful death dat you will be save he took away every evil in ur lyf, go down on ur kneels and remind him of his promises he has never fail, he has the final say in ur lyf.
haaaa...see gobe...........talking from experience, leave him. if i has listened to my pastor years back too, i wont be in a mess now. i went ahead n married the guy n the whole tin went on fire a year later. he has moved on with anoda woman and im still single n searching....so babes ur friends will understand if they r ur friend. hoha. besides it will blow over after 3 months or so.
Go and ask your pastor if there is any perfect marriage. if he says no then you have the answer in front of you. Even if God give you angel from heaven you still need to work on your marriage to make it stand the test of time. my humble believe tho
Your pastor told u? Ask God to tell u too...as along as u are a child of God, God can speak to u the same way he speaks to men of God so be sure it is God speaking pls
I am not a fanatic for Pastors and their revelation but what amazes me is that your problem here is "how to tell your friends that the Aso Ebi they bought will be useless to them?????"
Thot the most difficult part will be that you can't leave him bcos you love him. But no, it's about your friends. The Pastor must be right then. You are not fit for the guy. My opinion.
It's pretty hard, that I know but it's not explaining to your friends that is difficult here. It's throwing away a well nourished relationship that blossomed to tieing the knot away on your pastor's revelation. Why don't you go on your own prayers and also hear from God because to the best of knowledge, He is not known for confusion.
don't mind him that is how they told my wife when i gave her engagement ring,if it your it is yours no body is perfect you 2 can grow to become perfect.
I really don't know this your pastor or your relationship with God, I will advice you to seek God's Face yourself and challenge him to give you a sign and a prove that you are with the right person. There is nothing God can't do if only you believe in him.
For the fact that you agreed that leaving the guys is not a problem,that was the moment you called of the wedding. listen to the 1st voice in your head,your friends won't marry you if you run out of the marriage. @IzikObie
When pastor told u dt dt man isnt ur husband.did he tell u who ur hubby is then.or offer u one immediatly.someone wil suffer find husband n a pastor wil tell her dt he isnt her husband.u came wit a full hand into d presence of God then left wit nothin.dts not d kind of God I serve. #nothankyoui'llratherbeselfmade
Why are you going for deliverance, are you a witch? The pastor is human don't worry what he says, worry what God says. How can you dismiss your relationship and everything invested just because someone Said he is not your husband. Pls be enlightened this is 2015. How would you feel if your fiancee told you they said you are not his wife? just like that? Fast and pray for 1- 2 weeks and ask God if he is your husband. Not any pastor. Pls stop this backward behaviour Nigeria. That is why the west laugh at us.
Idiot.so you are more worried about what to tell the people who took aso ebi than a man you were supposed to spend the rest of your life with.it shows you didn't even love him.silly monkey.
Hmmmm l usually dont like to comment on blogs bt dis caught my eye. Pastors would always talk and most of them give false prophecies. I have bin into the game of seeing so many pastors nd many of them misled me. They collected my money and gave me false prophecies. I advised myself. So right now if l see any of these pastors l run. LIB wont be enough to share my story about these pastors. Ma dear u may not listen to me. But pls go ahead with your marriage else u will regret it big time. The only thing u nid 2 do is pray against wat that pastor has said and it will neva come 2 pass. The pastor is not God. Go to your God in prayer and its well with you. HML in advance.
dispite the revelation from the pastor, on your own, you have to seek the face of your God first there is nothing imposibility that cann't be possible it depend on your owned mentality or your understandiin.
please be very careful about what people say to you during your marriage decision making. your pastor is human and can haver ulterior motive or can even have a wrong conviction. what did God say to you earlier that made you accept to marry him? ride on those paths . but if you did not pray well before now, please don't call off your marriage because your pastor said so, I advise you pray more and seek God's voice through other means and trusted sources.
Is your Pastor your God. Get on your knees and pray to God who sees and knows everything, ask him for wisdom and guidance. Don't be foolish to fall for all these Pastors of doom and bad news all over this country. Enemies of joy and happiness. Do not replace God with your Pastor, the answer to your prayers is the distance between your knees and the floor. Just pray and trust on the Lord and the word of God and not some prophet of doom that is always preaching that evil will befall you. Just to earn their 10% tithe offering. Rubbish. Never allow anybody take your joy away and replace it with evil. Did this your Pastor even give you a reason why you shouldn't marry this man and what that impending evil doom is?
Many of these pastors are satanic liars o!!! For example, not a few of them predicted that Jonathan was destined to win the 2015 election... But what turned out? He lost... In 1999, Tunde Bakare predicted that Obasanjo was not going to be sworn-in as president... But what happened? Not only was he sworn-in, he did two terms in office and almost made a third term... MORAL: If you must marry or leave your fiancee, it should not be as a result of the words of your so-called pastor... I urge you to entirely discontented the words of the man, because he is not God... Approach your Maker in penitent, sincere prayers.. He would lead you....
With all due respect, we tend to worship our pastors and Rev. Fathers more than God. Now let's look at it this way... the Bible says the blessings of God maketh rich and addeth no sorrow. How has the relationship been? Turbulent? Peaceful? Do you love and respect each other? Is the union based on love or material things? Search yourself very well my dear and don't be deceived... What do you feel in your heart? When you pray, what do you feel/hear? Before you make any decision, listen to your heart. Whatever your heart says, that is the right thing for you to do. Meanwhile God has already assures u that He will PERFECT that which concerns you!
despite the revelation from the pastor,i advice you to seek the face of God for his manifestation of his glory upon you, and i wish yours stories will change,in jesus name,amen.
SAI BABA GO SLOW!
ReplyDeleteBONARIO SON OF ' BABA GO SLOW'!
ReplyDeleteTHE REALLY FIT BUHARI SHAI,,,HA ' BABA GO SLOW!
ReplyDeleteLobatan! Collect back the ashebi and refund their money ni. Hehehehe
ReplyDeleteMtchew! Mumu oya go marry ya pastor naa. Don't believe in all dis crap. If u hadn't gone to d deliverance nko? Would u have heard this from pastor.? NNE its all in d head
ReplyDeletepls ask president BABA GO SLOW!
ReplyDeleteYou had better cofus on ur wedding arrangement!
ReplyDeleteLOL madam go and seek a second opinion!!! So this ya pastor no see say this man no be your husband till you go deliverance?!! Abeg!!!
ReplyDeleteYou should have gone for the prayers before picking aso-ebi. Take the man in question to your pastor for deliverance, I'm sure you pastor go change mind after he has delivered the husband to-be. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteYou should have gone for the prayers before picking aso-ebi. Take the man in question to your pastor for deliverance, I'm sure you pastor go change mind after he has delivered the husband to-be. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteMugu! Dats how ds pastor's go abt breaking homes.
ReplyDeleteYou should have gone for the prayers before picking aso-ebi. Take the man in question to your pastor for deliverance, I'm sure you pastor go change mind after he has delivered the husband to-be. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteYou must be very foolish!! Is your pastor God? Can't you pray on your own?! Keep listening to prohecies and revelations till you are 70years old!
ReplyDeleteYour pastor is not God. Why don't you face God and let him handle the rest? God wouldn't let you go this far for you to let go now. Just fast and pray to God ask him to right every wrong in your marriage. God is in control
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't even be in ur shoes because am nt dat easily influence by this days see see pastors. Go down on ur kneels and tell it to God in prayers. One thing am gonna let u know, God fogive me if am wrong, most of this see see pastors put asunders in relationships this days so u better be wise.
ReplyDeleteWahoooooooo this a very shocking and scaring story ........is only God can take d control of the situation.
ReplyDeletePastor said this.....pastor said that........na the pastor go marry u.....better marry ur Niggga, from the way u are sounding its as if u don't even like the guy self
ReplyDeleteBut you never gave any reason why you should believe your pastor, you didn't state any bad behaviour of your fiance.
ReplyDeleteJust a revelation from your pastor.
If he's so powerful to tell the future, why can't he pray against the evil.
This is how they instill fear in people just to extort from them.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Pastor said this.....pastor said that........na the pastor go marry u.....better marry ur Niggga, from the way u are sounding its as if u don't even like the guy self
ReplyDeleteDumb! Mumu
ReplyDeleteMy dear,it's simple. You call them friends so explaining to them shouldn't be a hard nut to crack. Also, it's your life and future on the line. I'll advice you take heed. God bless you.
ReplyDeletehahahahahahahahahah.....I had to laff.........So pple still fall for dis???
ReplyDeleteYoung woman.......Go to God and talk to HIM.....Let GOD tell you dat himself.....God does not select pple he speaks to.....HE speaks to us all............haba
Moye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB......
send this blog link to your friends, they will understand
ReplyDeleteAsk the pastor to show you your husband first before you leave this one. I pray he is not one of those wicked men out there that pride themselves as men of God. olomaje.
ReplyDeleteWhy is the "pastor" just seeing that. Plus I think you should probably leave the poor guy because not once did you mention that you love him or that you don't want to break his heart. In fact you seem to have no problem with that,apparently your only concern is how it would make you look. So leave the guy alone, in my opinion not because a pastor said so,but because your biggest concern is your reputation. You should not be marrying him if your first thought is not to fight for him.
ReplyDeleteHey! Gbesere o, pray about it, ask God to speak to you, your pastor doesnt have the final say, buh God does
ReplyDeleteit is well
Pray to God let him reveal it to u
ReplyDeleteI quote you.."its not like I cant leave the guy"...I can see you dont love the guy and maybe your relationship didnt undergo any proper courtship. You are not even concerned about the guy or his feeling or anything. U r concerned about money spent on aso-ebi and ur friends! You are wicked so I have no advice for you.
ReplyDelete#Story4dgods!!!.... A lot of unions av been ruined by my pastor said diz or dat! Was he not consulted b4&after he proposed to u,b4 d wedding date fixed?Smh! Every in life is a risk,so is falling in luv&finally settling down! My Take: Trust/av Faith in ur GOD &simply follow ur heart. #Goodluck
ReplyDeleteMy dear if u know that dis guy loves u n u love him, if dis guy is doing well n hav plans for his future n he's a God fearing, he's taking good care of u y nt marry him. For the pastor u know him more than he knows him, fast n pray to God don't allow so call pastor to destroy ur marriage, maybe he's looking for a way to tell u God sent u to him. Be wise don't b fool by all dis fake n hungry people calling theirselves pastor. Go on wit ur marriage dear.
ReplyDeleteSome ladies and their stupidity. I don't think it's a question of already sold out aso ebi rather, it's not right for your pastor to play 'God' in your life. Better get married now before you end up being your pastor's side chick.
ReplyDeleteUr concern shld definitely not be about pple and how they will take the news. Ur hapiness is top priority so ask urself if u love ur fiancé enough to marry him, cos revelations or no revelations, love shld be the basis for marrying some1.pray also for God's direction and discuss the revelation with ur man and hear his take. All the best
ReplyDeleteIf u believe in d Pastor, den u Jst hv to call it off. 4get abt wat pple wil tink or mayb they wil laugh at u. Buh it's better they laugh at u nw dan u nt enjoyin d rest of ur life n them laughing at u later. So Jst take heart, let d man go n call d wedding off no matter what pple say or think.
ReplyDeleteBecause thy Lord have reveled it to you through your pastor, l believe through prayers he can change what ever evil that might cause in future,so go ahead and wed. Also continue your deliverance with your guy till d D day.
ReplyDelete"It's not like I can't leave the guy" so please do bcos you're truly not in love with him. You just want to change your marital status. Is your pastor God. Why don't you seek God's face. He's the unchangeable changer. Why not quietly discuss this problem with your spouse and you both pray and fast about it. Rather you bother about aso ebi sold already. My dear you both check your genotype.
ReplyDeleteUr Pastor is a weak and wicked Pastor. If a deliverance service was held for u,does it exclude ur husband? If ur Pastor is a true man of God he should have d revelation long b4 now and told u, So if don't marry him, ur husband will b roaming about as a Menace to any girl he meets after u.Ur Pastor and his team should carry out a deliverance service on ur husband of not u will never get married I promise u.Ur husband needs help ur Pastor should help him if he is a true man of God and not chicken out by telling u he is not ur Husband.
ReplyDeletethat moment when you realize your wedding is on september 5th.
ReplyDeleteboth u and the pastor is very stupid, u think dat is a revalation...can't u drive ur own destiny. u dey dere dey listing to what dis hungry pastors using people as toy baby r saying.....if u don't Marry dat guy u'll even regret it the rest of ur life.if the guy is a mistake it better be the one u mad by ur self than the one pastor and family made for u, cos u can try to withstand the pressure wen u r the cos than wen someone else is the cos.
ReplyDeleteSista pls go on nd marry d man,u c dis life God will neva let his own pple suffer,neva put ur mind on d revelation,pray 2 God if truly d guy isn't ur real hubby b4 dat date smtin shuld split u both,bt if nt abeg my God is merciful,dats wat all dis pastor says dis one is nt gud 4 u,do u knw d problem anoda guy u will meet av,i believe in prayer wateva is best 4 u d lord will alwys mk it cm ur way,but if u cancel d wedding on ur own dat means d devil has won cos all he does is 2 create fear in2 ones life,abeg move on wit d wedding....
ReplyDeleteNa wa oooo for that ur pastor sef, wich kind time bomb be this.
ReplyDeleteAll these fake pastors and their fake visions! This was how a colleague of mine lost a good girl. 'She is not your wife'. 'He is not your husband'. Nonsense! Abeg, as long as you love each other, you both fear God, he/she has a good character, come from good families and love their families; go on jare and ignore these fake nonsense pastors. Rubbish! How are the marriages of these soothsayers? Their marriages are worse! They see nothing but prey on gullible followers like you.
ReplyDeletePray let God reveal things to u himself... forget what the pastor said. u can speak to God yrself. I wish u d best
ReplyDeleteIfe nke a dikwa egwu...
ReplyDeleteLinda cogitate
My Sister, For every revelation, there is a counter-revelation. All these pastors sef!! Please dnt mind him o, marry your man and keep praying to God for a happy marriage.
ReplyDelete..The pastor will come bck in 2yrs time and tell u you have a spiritual problem dats y ure still single and the solution is to sleep with him for cleansing. Ndi ara
Keep praying.
ReplyDeleteKeep praying
ReplyDeleteThis is serious
ReplyDeleteOKORO UPGRADED**
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ReplyDeleteLipsealed will chill for my fellow Libers comment .
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Pray and fast ask God to reveal the msg your pastor gave to you is true u will get a better answer don't just give up God is watching u.
ReplyDeleteProphecies come true when we believe it will come true. Our minds work with d spiritual. God lives in our hrts. Call upon him and hand ur marriage into his hand. Do u believe in man or God. Darling dat man came into ur life for a purpose. Rebuke negativity and it will flee. D devil is strongly against marriage, be prayerful and wise.
ReplyDeleteIn conclusion, tell God to lead u through ur marriage successfully.
Get married!
Are you not meant to do marriage counselling with your pastor before you start selling aso ebi sef? Wedding that's in September u have already sold aso ebi? Na so u need money? Hian!
ReplyDeleteSee another pastor or u pray ur self!!! Ask God for signs....I dnt trust men of God who professes doom
ReplyDeletei wonder wats wrong with pple dis days....am sure u nvr loved d guy frm d onset if not wat dos it take u to pray and avert evil prophesy frm ur life?
ReplyDeletesome pple's reasoning makes me wonder.
i wonder wats wrong with pple dis days....am sure u nvr loved d guy frm d onset if not wat dos it take u to pray and avert evil prophesy frm ur life?
ReplyDeletesome pple's reasoning makes me wonder.
Tell ur pastor dat I said he lie. If u like liv ur husband u will forever regret it. Why did D prophecy came dis late. Since D plan an all tins. GOD said his not an auto to confusion. Take heed. UGO-GOlD............
ReplyDeleteTell ur pastor dat I said he lie. If u like liv ur husband u will forever regret it. Why did D prophecy came dis late. Since D plan an all tins. GOD said his not an auto to confusion. Take heed. UGO-GOlD............
ReplyDeleteTell ur pastor dat I said he lie. If u like liv ur husband u will forever regret it. Why did D prophecy came dis late. Since D plan an all tins. GOD said his not an auto to confusion. Take heed. UGO-GOlD............
ReplyDeleteDo you think you are ready for marriage? If you are, you won't allow anyone to give you directions on who or who not to marry; you will just have that conviction in your heart. Since you are obviously more concerned about the aso-ebi than whether you can stick with or leave your man, my question is "Are you ready for marriage?" Because if you're not ready, it's not that the marriage won't last because the pastor said so, it's majorly because you're not mature yet for the institution called marriage... doesn't matter how old you are.
ReplyDeleteWhat will i do? Well am a man, I would leave her. opari
ReplyDeleteProphecy is very good my dear but first of all u have been with this guy and what was your mind telling you and what is it also telling you now?if your mind is at peace with him go on.at times some of this pastors spoil people's home talking out of experience.Am a living testimony don't get me wrong not saying that there is no prophecy there is because in 2nd chronicle 20 vs 20 it says Believe in the lord your God,so shall ye be established,believe his Prophets so shall ye prosper.so just know who is speaking to u i mean the spirit.My dear,Ur a prophet on your own too.God can speak to you go on your knees and ask for his guidance.And bear this at the back of your mind that a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.if you decide not to continue,then don't care about what people will say because who wears the shoe knows where it pinches.its well with you.
ReplyDeleteSimple tin,marry ur pastor
ReplyDeleteThere is no prophecy that can't be reversed, don't let any man of God bring set back to your life. Have seen people come on the altar to share testimonies of what men of God like your said before there marriage but God shamed the devil and gave them a marriage full of blessing, children and long life. Change your church, go to churches where there is life and not death, like Redeem, winners etc. But if you yield to is satanic prophecy you 'll end up regretting it in life and by then it would have been too late. A word for the wise. God bless you.
ReplyDeleteYou also have to pray & fast about it on your own asking for God intervention,
ReplyDeleteHave you ever heard of changing your own star. If you have, then i will advise you to go ahead with the wedding if you love your man
ReplyDeleteMarry the pastor.
ReplyDeletePray by urself too, if God can reveal it to the pastor, God will reveal it to u, it is no big deal praying a prayer of faith nd God will definitely tell u his mind, trust me
ReplyDeleteYour pastor will destroy your life just like many pastors have destroyed people s lives. You are on your own.
ReplyDeleteGod created you in his image and you can talk to him directly, i hate it when people say pastors are saying this and that,is it the pastor that has been in the relationship with you? if he's what you want in a man, talk to God!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteU be mumu sincerely
ReplyDeleteRespect ur friends and get doomed... dee
ReplyDeleteSimple. If u believe ur pastor so much, den its better to explain to a few friends dan to say "I do" in front of God and man.
ReplyDeleteIt's better to explain to a few friends than 3yrs down d line u will start explaining to ur kid/s forever y u left dad.
It's still early oooo
Just make sure ur pastor is always right.
Idiot! Listen to your pastor eyah! When ur 50 wit no husband na that time your eye go clear.
ReplyDeleteDon't ask me what I will do. Go and ask your Pastor.
ReplyDeleteWahala dey o, why not pray about it.
ReplyDeletena pastor wan marry u?.. pray to God and believe all is well
ReplyDeleteIf u stop the wedding then u are an idiot. All married couple at one point or the other regret marrying and hated themselves but that is marriage. Its not perfect and it will never be. There are days u will wish u can kill him in his sleep and there are days you will be willing to give your life for his. So go ahead marry him. EXCEPT if YOU have doubts about your fee!ings for him. And pray to God to be with you.
ReplyDeleteMy dear sit your as down pray and God leads you to the straight path
ReplyDeleteTel Ur Pastor to go get U ur husband b4 he let's d one U hav go. Don't knw Y youths especialy ladies of dis days r so gullible to any criminal hu goes by D Monikr Pastor #Yung Nigerian
ReplyDeleteMy dear sit your as down pray and God leads you to the straight path
ReplyDeleteSo your problem is not breaking the guys heart but dissappointing aso ebi friends. Isorait. No wonder marriages don't last these days. Misplaced priorities.
ReplyDeleteStop being "people conscious ".. Be conscious of yourself and your happiness. What is aso-ebi cloth compared a serious issue like this? Pray & God will direct you aright.
ReplyDeleteDis na serious mata o, is ur pastor married, didn't u pray over it b4 now? If u so much blv in ur pastor, den call it off n God wl bring u d correct man
ReplyDeleteDis na serious mata o, is ur pastor married, didn't u pray over it b4 now? If u so much blv in ur pastor, den call it off n God wl bring u d correct man
ReplyDeleteMy dear I would advice u seek the face of God b4 taking any decision ur faith can move mountains u just have to believe or u go to other churches to know if ur pastor his right my case is similar to urs but different my pastor told me he was my husband until I went to 3 different churches after my 7 days fasting in each church those other pastor told me he wasn't my husband
ReplyDeleteStupidity is a disease
ReplyDeletePlease cure yourself
Later you will be looking for husband in daytime with torch light
WHICH PASTOR BE THAT,DID YOU PRAY AND WHAT DID YOUR INNER MAN TOLD YOU.ALL OF YOU RUSHING FROM ONE PRAYER HOUSE TO THE OTHER ARE FULL OF CONFUSION.
ReplyDelete"Know Thyself" Dig very deep, might be psychologically tiring and stressful, but you will surely find the answer Sister (KARMA)... Roger Linda!
ReplyDeleteIf your husband listing to his pastor that means his foolish and you better let him go because worst things will still come up.
ReplyDeletelOL! Na wah! Marry the pastor then.
ReplyDeletei think its advisable you seek GOD PERSONALLY WITH PRAYER AND FASTING FOR DIRECTION.
ReplyDeletePray to God and follow your heart.
ReplyDeleteThen ask your so called pastor who is your husband , maybe his interested in you.
ReplyDeleteHeheheehheeh... funny
ReplyDeleteI'd seek help from other pastors.. I won't just jump in2 conclusion Cz one pastor told me d man 'm engaged to is not my husband.. Plz, where was he wen d date was fixed? Why didn't he tell her 4rm d onset that he isn't meant 4 her? Why now?
Plz, go 4 prayers elsewhere, confirm 4rm two or three pastors b4 concluding o...
"Pulling my ears"
ohh, so the guy's feeling is not the problem ?,how his family would take it is not a problem ? what you feel (or do not feel) is not the problem, its your friend and aso-ebi that the problem ?
ReplyDeleteyou're not well, well well
Seek the face of God yourself,let God speak to you on the issue because a separate relationship is better than a separate marriage.
ReplyDeleteGod will direct you, all the best
I've seen a situation like this. Please dear pray against it and tell ur pastor to pray against it as well. That ur so called pastor might have interest in u. Ignore him and move ahead dear. Pastor indeed!
ReplyDeleteTell pastor to give you logical reasons, not just revelations. Has this pastor given you advice that worked previously? Was he not aware that you were planning your wedding all along? Is he married? Has God spoken to you madam? Or you don't pray? Do you have peace with your supposed about to be husband? Think n pray.. God has not given you the spirit of fear
ReplyDeletePray about it,n let d God dat showed d pastor show it to U.
ReplyDeleteLmao, nawa ooo
ReplyDeletemy dear such things was said to my sister when she was about to get married but she love the guy and got married to him,now they are happily married with kids.if you love and trust your guy,go ahead and marry him.God will take control of the rest if you allows him into your marriage. wishing you luck
ReplyDeleteAll dis yéyé pple who can't make their own decisions without one yéyé 'man of god'.
ReplyDeleteYOU'RE THE PROBLEM WITH NIGERIA!
GOD IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT!!
Tell them the wedding is off due to unforseen circumstances. DO NOT tell them the reason until you're engaged or married to somebody else. Go away (travel) around the time the wedding is meant to take place.
ReplyDeletePay for the aso ebi or pay part of it.
Just make sure d pastor guarantees u another one if u let dis one go.
ReplyDeleteAnd your Pator is God abi? Can't yu pray for reversal of any evil yourself? didn't you get a revelation from God before planning wedding? Issokay by the time you call off your engagement and you are still single in 10years time you will be praying from one prayer mountain to the other.
ReplyDeleteKasala
ReplyDeleteTEST ALL SPIRITS MY DEAR. NOT SAYING THE PASTOR IS FAKE.IF YOU ARE SO CONVINCED ABOUT THIS GUY, PRAY ABOUT HIM YOURSELF, TALK TO OTHER PEOPLE..ELDERS, OTHER PASTORS, DO MORE BACKGROUND CHECKS...I PRAY GOD DIRECTS U AND MAY HIS WILL FOR UR LIFE PREVAIL ULTIMATELY
ReplyDeleteIt's ur personal decision. Make it n be ready to defend it
ReplyDeleteI knw some people will come here and give u advice dat u should leave the guy and listen to ur pastor buh my dear the decission is strictly yours and his to handle.. first none of us here attend ur church and knw the level of spirituality it has also remember that marriage is appose to be a long time union and God has destined it to be for better or worst. my question now for u is did u pray with ur man to ascertain wat said about it?? if u already prayed and God gave u a go ahead my dear den go ahead ur pastor is suppose to council u and guide toward the right path in marriage not to choose a spouse for u.. did ur husband to be prayed?? wat was God's reply to him?? Let's not be deceived by what some so called pastors do today most of dem now re in business of match making cos they want u to marry their own church member or vice versa.. be wise the bible is there for u to get answers dnt be lazy use it... The most important thing is ur own confirmation BE WISE
ReplyDeleteLet me advice you from my own experience. Before i got married, during a prayer session my pastor told me that am not destined to marry a man from imo state that if i marry a man from there i will never be happy in that marriage. A year later i married a man from imo state and i can confidently tell you that my marriage is made in heaven.
ReplyDeleteForget about this pastors and their prophecies. They have misled alot of our ladies.
If you and ur boo have the same feeling, love and respect for each other......my advice to you is to go ahead and marry the young man.
Just to avoid "HAD I KNOWN"
Take the matter to God thru prayer nd fasting...he'll surely reveal to you what 2 do.
ReplyDeleteI might be wrong but I know it is he dat finds a wife findeth a good thing and obtains favour from the lord...I don't believe in pastors telling you who to marry or not ..besides there is absolutely nothing prayer cannot change ......do what will you make happy regardless and make sure you pray very well before your final decision.....Cheers
ReplyDeleteLet me advice you from my own experience. Before i got married, during a prayer session my pastor told me that am not destined to marry a man from imo state that if i marry a man from there i will never be happy in that marriage. A year later i married a man from imo state and i can confidently tell you that my marriage is made in heaven.
ReplyDeleteForget about this pastors and their prophecies. They have misled alot of our ladies.
If you and ur boo have the same feeling, love and respect for each other......my advice to you is to go ahead and marry the young man.
Just to avoid "HAD I KNOWN"
Let me advice you from my own experience. Before i got married, during a prayer session my pastor told me that am not destined to marry a man from imo state that if i marry a man from there i will never be happy in that marriage. A year later i married a man from imo state and i can confidently tell you that my marriage is made in heaven.
ReplyDeleteForget about this pastors and their prophecies. They have misled alot of our ladies.
If you and ur boo have the same feeling, love and respect for each other......my advice to you is to go ahead and marry the young man.
Just to avoid "HAD I KNOWN"
See let me tell you, don't listen to anyone who says that someone is not your husband. God does not choose a man for anyone he just directs us. I have been in this kind of dilemma before and truthfully its not worth leaving your man for anyone. See even if you marry a man that your pastor says he is your husband, see you will still have ups and downs. I saw this post written by a man of God about this same matter.
ReplyDeleteClick here to read it.. GABBY SPEAKS: HE IS NOT YOUR HUSBAND
please can you ask your pastor to help you deliver your fiance,since his a man of God,nothing is above God.libers abi i no yarn well?
ReplyDeleteMy Sister the deliverance should be a confirmation and not a source of confusion because God is not an author of confusion. 1st, ask your self, have you been having this doubt deep inside of you that the guy is not meant for you? if yes then the prophesy have just confirmed it but if before the prophesy you have been at peace and convinced that the man is yours, then you go ahead with the wedding because my sister it is only God that can tell a true prophet and he has given us conscience to detect one atleast to a point. #myopinion
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rubbish. please dont mind him oooo. him na God?
ReplyDeleteonly God can see tomorrow oo
Every Body is entitled to a Vision from God, try fasting and prayer. God will reveal to you. also try deliverance in any MFM church it works like magic.
ReplyDeletemy dear, just go ahead with ur marriage. d pastor is not God n also evil will never befall d children of God.
ReplyDeleteI dont know why people decide to listen to pastors who dont even know who they are,how can someone see a future for you. becareful,you should be wise enough to know that your happiness depends on you and not anyone else.Unless there are obvious reasons why you shouldnt be with that person like if he beats or cheats occasionally,then desist,apart from that,dont give ears to everyone giving opinion about your fiancee
ReplyDeleteLol I think u shld leave the guy. It's funny,not the revelation but your attitude,as if you know in your heart that it won't work with him. Your reaction in ur write up is of one who wants to save face. If u really want to marry him u wld first think of d guys feelings rada dan asoebi. So therefore I tell u Ms,save the guy further heart ache,refund money for aso ebi now. I cld have given u many many option but u no wan marry in d first place. *sips Lemon juice*
ReplyDeleteThose of you who go to your pastor to pray for you and tell you who to marry, if care is not taken, you will become a victim of lies. You are simply lazy. No pastor or prophet should tell you who to marry. They are to pray along with you, counsel and guide you using the Word of God. If you fail to pay the price to hear from God on that matter, you may be deceived. God can use your pastor or a genuine prophet of God to confirm what He had already told you. Many homes have been established on falsehood and that is why things are falling apart and the center can no longer hold. Some pastors are seriously into match-making. They have taken over from the Holy Spirit. Match-making remains God's prerogative and He has not delegated it to any pastor.
ReplyDelete#ShoroNiyen...u talking friends like they gonna be there when d relevation starts coming to pass, better see reasons with ur parents or better stil pray to avert d evil in d relevation but neva put friends into matters that has to do with ur life...no friend nowhere
ReplyDeleteSince ur parents n u too believe in pastors. Go n ask another pastor if his ur real husband
ReplyDeleteA pastor has no right to put asunder in marriage. He was there when you people were courting , he never deemed it fit to carry out his spiritual search it is now that all is set that he came out to brainwash you. Do you have any relationship with the so called pastor ? If not , go ahead with your wedding and trust in God. No mere mortal has power to foretell tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteHahaah, funny... I'll check bak and read comment.
ReplyDeleteI so much hate story like this, then again maybe u shld marry Ur pastor, Ebot.#THATAKWA IBOM BOY#
ReplyDeleteThat's why it's important to go to God in prayer before making such important decision like marriage. Pray, then sit him down and explain things to him and do the same with your friends.
ReplyDeleteSeek a 2nd opinion and pray about it. Why didn't you seek God first before you got this far? Or hire a detective to investigate your guy and his family background.
ReplyDeleteI see a lot of selfishness here. You aren't bothered about him, his friends or his family. Its about how you will explain to people. My dear, your pastor isn't God. Pls don't listen to fake prophecy. God plans for you are good and not evil. Jer 29:11. God doesn't orchestrate disaster in marriage. God invented marriage so He won't do anything to destroy it. Pls go back and meet your pastor and tell him to say that he prophesied that through the Spirit of God. And ask him to say that Jesus is Lord. You'll be shocked he won't. I've tried it before. Most of these evil pastors won't accept the supremacy of Jesus. If you leave that guy. You probably will regret it. Only reason you can call off the wedding is if you find out something life threatening about him by YOURSELF. If not, go ahead. God bless you
ReplyDeleteIs hw pple & frndz feels, nt yr happiness?. If d pastor's really genuine my of God, plz follow d instruction. Or....go through d manual givin 2u by Almighty God (Bible) & consult him. Gdlck!
ReplyDeleteExperence is de best teacher so go and get it
ReplyDeleteIf u leave him who will marry u?
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ReplyDeleteIf u leave him who will marry u, ur pastor? Meanwhile marriage is not meant to last forever.
ReplyDeleteMehn dis is a difficult one ooo. 4me I wuld say u too repent and plc ya marriage in2 God's hand nahfin can happen again
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Marry the guy jor, that pastor is a fraud
ReplyDeleteif you guys are in love i will advice you go ahead with your marriage....
ReplyDeletePls your pastor is not God,God didnt give anybody power to foresee the future..marry the one you love and pray.Prayers can avert things
ReplyDeletePlease tell the pastor to show you your destiny husband LMFAO
ReplyDeleteBoth of you should go and see the Pastor or he should simply tell you who your true husband is.
ReplyDeleteA word is enough for the wise + use your tongue to count your teeth... right now your friends don't matter its your future he is talking about. Some of us wished we had this revelation before marriage. HEED TO YOUR PASTOR'S ADVICE, it could safe you from a life time of misery.
ReplyDeleteHe shud hv showed or introduce u to ur ordained wud be husband from God, in other to savage the problem he has created.
ReplyDeleteI no that nothing is impossible for God to do. The question is Do you believe your pastor? Have you prayed about it yourself? Do you know that God can talk to you too? Talk to God yourself and he will tell you what to do.
ReplyDeleteMy dear not all revelation are true sometimes de are just fake.. pray for God to revail things to u.ask God to let u see for urself if it true. if u do 3days fasting and prayers u don't see anything my dear God ahead with ur wedding .be careful of fake revelations
ReplyDeleteHello Dear, marriage is a sensitive matter, that is why I advise you to hear from God yourself, he really wants to speak to you & listen to you. If you ask God personally, he will guide you even in the most difficult situation. The question, If your finance is for you or not? I cannot answer but I know who can hence my previous message. God has also revealed the character of his dream husband for you in the bible that is a sure way to make the right choice or analysis, you can always hear many voices in life, but the skill of knowing Gods voice comes from deep fellowship with him, your pastor has heard his part now its time to hear from God too. Don't make such decisions with insufficient knowledge. Study the bibles view on marriage, the character of a husband & the character of a wife & all your questions, fear & doubt will melt away cause you will know exactly what to do. About what people will say, FORGET THEM! if you get married or not they will still talk, Important thing is #Dotherightthingfortherightreason# Shalom!
ReplyDeletei dont understand y people become so stupid whenever a supposed man of God is in the question.
ReplyDeleteplease what is this stupidity?? someone who knows nothing about your relationship dynamics with you fiancee wakes up one day and says that both of you aren't meant to be and you too just foolishly accept it just because he labels himself a man of God? you are a mumu! original mumu! oya dump your fiancee now. your eye go clear when pastor will make your fiancee marry his daughter instead.
how can you be so unbelievbly gullible? mark my words, your pastor is up to something. maybe he even wants to marry you sef. if you like, dont live your life. be accepting everything your pastor says like a gullible mumu. mtcheww
Am surprised to still see this at this age...why do girls or naija like vision and false prophet..oh no ! Why for christ sake will you listen to a pastor that is worst a sinner than any body.You will so regret your life when you leave ur fiance and you live to see him prosper with a new wife and a happy home.Please when next you see the so called Pastor tell him to give you the husband he has destined for you, and as for your parents i shake my head cos they have been so into fake prophesy ,they need deliverance to know that its only Almighty God that reign supreme,for your fiance it will be a good thing to marry a lady that believes in God cos i see you as one that will believe in babalawo and ruin your home with fake pastors /prohecy.Advice to people getting married ,so many things in marriage that one has to go on his/her knees to seek God not these fake pastors and others.All the best to you.
ReplyDeleteMarriages are not made in heaven but on earth. I am surprised that you were not very convinced about ur guy despite heading toward marriage. Marriage doesn't work by what a pastor or prophet says but by the agreement of the parties involved. In my opinion, if you're convinced about him please go ahead with ur marriage because no prophetic word can see you through marriage except ur personal conviction to be with ur man in joy, happiness, sorrow, riches and poverty, in health or sickness. May God help you
ReplyDeleteIt's not that I can't leave the guy but how will I tell my friends. Hmmmmmmmmm. You wicked o so u are not even considering his feelings. That means u had a double mind before ur pastor's vision. If I be that guy I for go for thanks giving, it just shows u just wanted to marry but never loved the guy. Linda na when u go propose to me? Pls do am quick before ur pastor see vision.
ReplyDeleteLet me warn that this is pretty long! Can your pastor can advise you in this manner? Yes. But only because u made him your high priest. Shouldn't be so for a child of God. In this new grace covenant dispensation of our Lord Jesus Christ, the high priest of those that believe in Him, you have eternal access to our loving Father - once you believe in Jesus; believe that your sins are paid for - past, present and future. Believe that all things work together for good for those that trust Him. Believe that you are the righteousness of God thru Christ Jesus and that all the blessings of the Word are yours and all the curses have no place in your life. Believe that Psalm 91 was written for you- no evil shall befall you.... so your marriage cannot fail and evil cannot befall you. Even when you sin, know that it is not counted against you because God cannot punish the same sin twice- Jesus already died for our sins! Know that you cannot stop sinning by your own effort - YOU WILL STILL SIN AGAIN AS ONLY THE HOLY SPIRIT CAN TRANSFORM YOU- and know that these sins are already forgiven before you even think about committing them. All these and so much more only if you believe!
ReplyDeleteWTF! I don't believe all these pastors' shits. So many pastors always create confusion with dia so called prophecy. One question I will ask u is do u really love dis guy? If yes, pls forget what ur pastor says! He who finds a wife finds a good thing n not he who d pastor helps to find a wife finds a good thing. Or maybe he is interested in having u as a side chick. Go for what u want n not what ur pastor says. QED
ReplyDeleteMtchew...ur pastor, that means u have known him for long and also he has known you for long. Did he not know when u were getting engage, did the church not fix the date for u, or u r a church harlot? If this is your main church and ur priest then he must hv known the whole process up till aso Ebi started selling. so ws God sleeping then, or was he blinded in the spirit then. Pls the Bible says test every spirit and know if it's from the Lord. Are you convinced about the man you love, or u r just scared you might be in your father's house longer than normal. Your pastor might be right if you can boldly say, it's nt as if I cnt liv him. You are majorly concerned about what people would say and not the emotional commitment that both of you share. Add me up on Google+ or email revabrahamndu@gmail.com 2ADF43F5 for counselling and I would help you with the right direction!
ReplyDelete2000yrs ago he went to the cross and die a shameful death dat you will be save he took away every evil in ur lyf, go down on ur kneels and remind him of his promises he has never fail, he has the final say in ur lyf.
ReplyDeletehaaaa...see gobe...........talking from experience, leave him. if i has listened to my pastor years back too, i wont be in a mess now. i went ahead n married the guy n the whole tin went on fire a year later. he has moved on with anoda woman and im still single n searching....so babes ur friends will understand if they r ur friend. hoha. besides it will blow over after 3 months or so.
ReplyDeleteThe same way God spoke to your pastor is the same way God will speak to you.Get a confirmation from God dearie, talk to God on your knees
ReplyDeleteYou're a complete mumu.
ReplyDeleteGet a second opinion from another pastor. Seriously, what evidence does this man have to say such?! Nobody can tell the future dear!
ReplyDeleteBetter to leave now..nd d same people ure scared of telling,wont b dia with you if the marriage fails
ReplyDeleteGo and ask your pastor if there is any perfect marriage. if he says no then you have the answer in front of you. Even if God give you angel from heaven you still need to work on your marriage to make it stand the test of time. my humble believe tho
ReplyDeleteHian! Can't u pray by yourself? Well, since u believe your pastor do what he says.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm,I d'nt knw wot to say
ReplyDeleteYour pastor told u? Ask God to tell u too...as along as u are a child of God, God can speak to u the same way he speaks to men of God so be sure it is God speaking pls
ReplyDeleteI am not a fanatic for Pastors and their revelation but what amazes me is that your problem here is "how to tell your friends that the Aso Ebi they bought will be useless to them?????"
ReplyDeleteGod Can Speak To You Too, Use Your Head!!!
DeleteThat pastor want to sleep with you be careful..PASTOR IS NEVER GOD OK..PRAY
ReplyDeletepls stop listening to dumb pastor make sure u sure ab8 ur decision, u d only one dt can make d right decision #mayGodhelpyou
ReplyDeleteGo spiritual. Nd let him tell u d calamity dat will befall u if u marry d guy, nd den pray over it.
ReplyDeleteI am no expert in relationships but personally seek the face of God!
ReplyDeleteDid your pastor shows or tell you who is then your husband? If not, you go tay for ground if you let this guy go.
ReplyDeleteMy advice is to fast and pray too,the spirit is d same if he is not ur husband it will be revealed to u.all d best
ReplyDeleteYou r not serious.
ReplyDeleteThot the most difficult part will be that you can't leave him bcos you love him. But no, it's about your friends. The Pastor must be right then. You are not fit for the guy. My opinion.
ReplyDeleteThe words/revelation of the lord is to be taken seriously. But how do one know if the pastor is real? Anyway, follow your heart.
ReplyDeleteIt's pretty hard, that I know but it's not explaining to your friends that is difficult here. It's throwing away a well nourished relationship that blossomed to tieing the knot away on your pastor's revelation. Why don't you go on your own prayers and also hear from God because to the best of knowledge, He is not known for confusion.
ReplyDeletePls go and get married with ur guy, ur pastor is not God,and don't make him ur small god, believe in the living God,
ReplyDeletedon't mind him that is how they told my wife when i gave her engagement ring,if it your it is yours no body is perfect you 2 can grow to become perfect.
ReplyDeleteI really don't know this your pastor or your relationship with God, I will advice you to seek God's Face yourself and challenge him to give you a sign and a prove that you are with the right person. There is nothing God can't do if only you believe in him.
ReplyDeleteWhy all d deliverance now why did u not go 4 d deliveranc b4 now,ummm go n pray 2 God n beware of false prophecy.God b wt u
ReplyDeleteFor the fact that you agreed that leaving the guys is not a problem,that was the moment you called of the wedding.
ReplyDeletelisten to the 1st voice in your head,your friends won't marry you if you run out of the marriage.
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Deliverance or Not just Pray your way out, if you are destined to be God will surely show you the way. Just Trust In Him not Your Pastor....
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When pastor told u dt dt man isnt ur husband.did he tell u who ur hubby is then.or offer u one immediatly.someone wil suffer find husband n a pastor wil tell her dt he isnt her husband.u came wit a full hand into d presence of God then left wit nothin.dts not d kind of God I serve.
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Why are you going for deliverance, are you a witch? The pastor is human don't worry what he says, worry what God says. How can you dismiss your relationship and everything invested just because someone Said he is not your husband. Pls be enlightened this is 2015. How would you feel if your fiancee told you they said you are not his wife? just like that? Fast and pray for 1- 2 weeks and ask God if he is your husband. Not any pastor. Pls stop this backward behaviour Nigeria. That is why the west laugh at us.
ReplyDeleteIdiot.so you are more worried about what to tell the people who took aso ebi than a man you were supposed to spend the rest of your life with.it shows you didn't even love him.silly monkey.
ReplyDeleteIt's not as if u can leave the guy? Then truly u weren't in it for love. Pls leave the guy so he can find his soul mate.
ReplyDeletetell people marriage ceremony will no longer take place noni...lobatan!
ReplyDeleteHmmmm l usually dont like to comment on blogs bt dis caught my eye. Pastors would always talk and most of them give false prophecies. I have bin into the game of seeing so many pastors nd many of them misled me. They collected my money and gave me false prophecies. I advised myself. So right now if l see any of these pastors l run. LIB wont be enough to share my story about these pastors. Ma dear u may not listen to me. But pls go ahead with your marriage else u will regret it big time. The only thing u nid 2 do is pray against wat that pastor has said and it will neva come 2 pass. The pastor is not God. Go to your God in prayer and its well with you. HML in advance.
ReplyDeletedispite the revelation from the pastor, on your own, you have to seek the face of your God first there is nothing imposibility that cann't be possible it depend on your owned mentality or your understandiin.
ReplyDeleteplease be very careful about what people say to you during your marriage decision making. your pastor is human and can haver ulterior motive or can even have a wrong conviction. what did God say to you earlier that made you accept to marry him? ride on those paths . but if you did not pray well before now, please don't call off your marriage because your pastor said so, I advise you pray more and seek God's voice through other means and trusted sources.
ReplyDeleteIs your Pastor your God. Get on your knees and pray to God who sees and knows everything, ask him for wisdom and guidance. Don't be foolish to fall for all these Pastors of doom and bad news all over this country. Enemies of joy and happiness. Do not replace God with your Pastor, the answer to your prayers is the distance between your knees and the floor. Just pray and trust on the Lord and the word of God and not some prophet of doom that is always preaching that evil will befall you. Just to earn their 10% tithe offering. Rubbish. Never allow anybody take your joy away and replace it with evil. Did this your Pastor even give you a reason why you shouldn't marry this man and what that impending evil doom is?
ReplyDeleteCongrats.....lucky u
ReplyDeleteMany of these pastors are satanic liars o!!!
ReplyDeleteFor example, not a few of them predicted that Jonathan was destined to win the 2015 election...
But what turned out? He lost...
In 1999, Tunde Bakare predicted that Obasanjo was not going to be sworn-in as president...
But what happened? Not only was he sworn-in, he did two terms in office and almost made a third term...
MORAL: If you must marry or leave your fiancee, it should not be as a result of the words of your so-called pastor...
I urge you to entirely discontented the words of the man, because he is not God...
Approach your Maker in penitent, sincere prayers..
He would lead you....
Congrats.....lucky u
ReplyDeleteCongrats.....lucky u
ReplyDeleteI think u should pray and ask God to show u ur rightful partner
ReplyDeleteWith all due respect, we tend to worship our pastors and Rev. Fathers more than God.
ReplyDeleteNow let's look at it this way... the Bible says the blessings of God maketh rich and addeth no sorrow. How has the relationship been? Turbulent? Peaceful? Do you love and respect each other? Is the union based on love or material things? Search yourself very well my dear and don't be deceived... What do you feel in your heart? When you pray, what do you feel/hear? Before you make any decision, listen to your heart. Whatever your heart says, that is the right thing for you to do. Meanwhile God has already assures u that He will PERFECT that which concerns you!
despite the revelation from the pastor,i advice you to seek the face of God for his manifestation of his glory upon you, and i wish yours stories will change,in jesus name,amen.
ReplyDeletePlease go to another pastor/prophet to confirm. If you can fast and pray, GOD will reveal the truth to you.
ReplyDeleteIf your pastor is telling you who is not your husband, he should tell you who is. Sorry to say you are not sure of the God you serve.
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