"I had planned my escape from the beginning. There is a time my husband spent two weeks away, so I attempted to escape but guards returned me and beat me." Haleema said she somehow found a way to escape on a day when the security in the camp was relaxed and she walked through the bush for days until she found her way back to her village where she discovered that her husband had been killed by the sect members and their home destroyed. She also discovered when she returned that she was 7 months pregnant. Haleema says she has been rejected by her kinsmen for being pregnant for a sect member and insiting on keeping the pregnancy. "People in this village are rejecting me because of the pregnancy. Some will be happy to have me dead. Many people are even saying that I should go for an abortion." she saidIt's an option she refuses to consider, even though she says the men who live in her community have said they will not tolerate the children of Boko Haram living amongst them. She says they have threatened to kill both her and her baby.
Haleema's mother who also spoke with CNN says the fear of death that could come from abortion has made her not to allow her daughter get one. She said a woman in her community whose daughter was kidnapped and impregnated by the sect members, died while undergoing an abortion
"We heard about one girl who died after she attempted an abortion, losing both the mother and the baby. The girl was the only child to her mother, so that scared us. If God wishes, she will give birth safely. Life is in the hands of God alone."she saidA leader of the vigilante group in Haleema's community denied knowing that she was pregnant but he however stated that the tradition in their community forbids the children of Boko Haram members living with them
"I am not aware of any woman in this village who was impregnated by them. If any woman is found to be pregnant, in our tradition, the pregnancy is considered Haram (unlawful), hence we cannot accept them wholeheartedly because they can be like baby snakes."the leader saidSource: CNN
God protect her
ReplyDeleteNo comment.
ReplyDeleteI feel for d woman
ReplyDeleteWow she has courage GOD forbid I keep such
ReplyDeleteThey shld leave d village na cos d villager ll stop @ nutin 2 kill her.
ReplyDeleteThat's her own personal decision and I think her decision should be respected... But if it's me, am not keeping any bastard baby!!!
ReplyDeleteOmo e don rED...
ReplyDeleteOmo e don rED...
ReplyDeleteChai!!!Aluu!!!(in chiwetelu agu's voice)
ReplyDeleteOooh its a wise decision for her nt 3 terminate God ll b ur strength.
ReplyDeleteNa wa o. Its not her fault now. I fear for her life; if its possible, I suggest she leaves that village.
ReplyDelete#TeamBlessed#
This woman sef...are u in love with the boko harammember or what? You better abort that baby
ReplyDeleteUr a. Human bein...... With heart..!
ReplyDeleteChai!!!Aluu!!!(in chiwetelu agu's voice)
ReplyDeleteStrong woman she's, and may God see her through. The people of the community should calm down, as that was wat life presented to her.
ReplyDeleteI guess it's a personal fin...pipo hv d ryt to make dia decisions irrespective if ow dumb it might sound
ReplyDeleteDs one is very strong!
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Sad memory kai I cover my itid with the BLOOD of Jesus Christ
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm na wa ooo
ReplyDeleteShe shouldn't abort a 7months old.. She cud lose her life.. God has a reason for dat pregnancy.
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Her decision, her choice and her life.
ReplyDeleteIt's a pity that women should be molest in that way.
ReplyDeleteGod forbid it remove the baby
ReplyDeleteNa wa o
DeleteSince she has decided, dey should let her be. Linda take note!
DeleteNawa! She get mind oh
ReplyDeleteGod help us
ReplyDeleteShe was helpless poor child . Well have the baby and give it out to someone who does not mind who the father might have been , Kai but the gene might be very strong from the father, person wey go carry that kain pickin for house must be strong . Considering all the curses that would have followed the father .
ReplyDeleteLet someone help her to relocate and get a life , cause these people would stigmatize or kill her .
Gods wish.. The child can be a blessing to the world #AmOut
ReplyDeleteIt's her decision to make
ReplyDeletevery inspiring article, thanks for sharing
ReplyDeleteShe should remove the baby joor, is she mad for keeping the baby before! Mtcheew!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteTHIS IS ONE OF THE MOST TOUCHING STORY.I FELT EXTREMELY SAD FOR SUCH A CONDITION THIS LITTLE GIRL IS EXPERIENCING NOW BUT I WILL SUGGEST HER LIVING THE TOWN,SETTLE DOWN SOMEWHERE ELSE.
ReplyDeleteI WAS SITTING DOWN IN THE CORNER OF MY ROOM AND HAVE A RE-THINK THAT WHAT IF THIS IS THE ONLY CHILD THIS GIRL WILL HAVE.
WHAT IF THIS SECT MEMBER THAT IMPREGNATED THIS GIRL WAS CAUGHT AND REPENT NOT GOING BACK TO THIS AWFUL ACT ANYMORE.
THERE ARE SO MANY THINGS WE SHOULD JUST TRY TO PUT IN PLACE AND ABOVE ALL,I WILL ADVISE HER KEEPING THE CHILD.
THOUGH THE THE VIGILANTE HAS SAID IT ALL THAT,THE CHILD IS MORE LIKE A BABY SNAKES.THIS LIVE IS FULL OF MANY THINGS,ONLY GOD WILL SAFE US FROM THIS HEARTLESS BOKO HARAM.
AM COMPLETELY OUT OF WORDS.
Hmm. This one get as e be. Just like what they people said, baby snakes. If I were the woman, I would be scared of what that child will become as I watch it grow sha. Future terrorist already existing in the DNA.
ReplyDeleteIt's just too complicated. There are certain judgements we can't place on our own palms.
ReplyDeleteChildren are from God. God gives and God takes. We have no right to take anybody's life that God has created. If God didnt want the child, he wouldnt have allowed the woman to get pregnant. I am against abortion because is it murder. The fact that the child's father is bad doesnt mean that the child will be bad too. That child can be a president in future
ReplyDeleteher choice.
ReplyDeleteHer people might as well just kill her. The pregnancy has gone far already.
ReplyDeleteAsking a girl to abort a child at 7 months is a death sentence to mother and child.
That's a really bold move. Proud of you woman.
ReplyDeleteAt 1st I think it's rit to remove d child bt it's her choice nd her child she shuld do wat ever she tinks it's rit for her nd d family shuld give her dem support also.
ReplyDeleteShe knows he reason behind her decision so her kinsmen should respect that. Afterall she is not happy being impregnanted by boko haram member
ReplyDeleteSô Sad
ReplyDeleteEntirely her decisioN
ReplyDeletePerhaps she fell inlove wt d BH "supposed" husband..
ReplyDeleteHer choice αи∂ most ppl doesn't support abortion
ReplyDelete#ITwillONLYgetBETTER
#itMUSTendINpraise
Baby snake indeed.
ReplyDeleteSo sad!!!
ReplyDeleteTragic story...
Let the government take up the responsibility. It was not her own making.
ReplyDeleteLet the government take up the responsibility. The problem was not her own making.
ReplyDeleteIF THE PREGNANT WOMAM SAID THAT "SHE WAS MARRIED OFF" TO ONE OF THOSE BOKO HARAM MEMBERS , THEN THE BABY SHE CARRYING IS A "LEGIMATE CHILD" . BECAUSE IT IS CONCEIVED ON MARRIAGE , WHICH IS THE ONLY WAY GOD WANT HUMAN BEINGS TO POPULATE THE "EARTH" , AND NOT THROUGH "FORNICATION AND ADULTERY" WHICH OUR WESTERN WORLD SUCCEEDED IN PUTTING INTO THE FEEBLE MINDS OF MOST OF THOUGHTLESS FOLKS . MOST OF AFRICAN YOUTH DONT EVEN KNOW THAT "SEX B4 MARRIAGE IS A HEINIOUS CRIME" . I WIL URGE THE FEDERAL GOV. AND ALL CASTIGATING THIS "GODLY WOMAN" , WHO DIDNT NEITHER COMMIT "FONICATION NOR ADULTERY" BE GIVEN ALL HELP TO REDUCE HER ORDEAL IN CAPTIVITY , BUT RATHER TO "ENACT LAWS WHICH WILL MAKE FONICATION AND ADULTERY" ILLIGAL AND PUNISHABLE . MAKE OUR TEEMING POPULATION KNOW THAT , EVERYBODY MUST MARRY A WOMAN BEFORE HAVING CHILDREN WITH HER . FOR GODS SAKE , LEAVE THAT "MARRIED WOMAN" , AND GO FOR THOSE WOMEN CARRYING "ADULTROUS CHILDREN" . (PLEASE , SAY YES TO SEX IN MARRIAGE , AND NO-NO-NO, TO SEX OUT OF MARRIAGE) . BE SENSIBLE CREATIONS OF GOD , STOP BLIND COPYING AND LIVING LIKE LOWER ANIMALS .
ReplyDeleteHmmm.its no good to commit abortion... But u sure sey haram dey inside? Just concerned though 😌 😌😌😌
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Its not good to commit abortion.... Abeg you sure sey na haram dey inside? Just concerned😌
ReplyDeleteThat's what she wants, they should respect her opinion.
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