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Sunday, 14 June 2015

Ladies...wise words from Wunmi Obe

Gbam!

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    1. Really Gbam! She nailed it, and said it all. Dis is d main reason I do kick against all dis luv frm celebs b displayed on social media.

      She nailed it, and is on point wit her comment. Thumbs up, and more power to her elbows for dis lovely advice, and inspirational words. Wish her well.

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    2. Really Gbam! She nailed it, and said it all. Dis is d main reason I do kick against all dis luv frm celebs b displayed on social media.

      She nailed it, and is on point wit her comment. Thumbs up, and more power to her elbows for dis lovely advice, and inspirational words. Wish her well.

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    3. 80 shades of tizzy15 June 2015 at 01:13

      True but, d partner wasnt blind wen he let d temptress in. He didnt mistakenly do it.

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    4. Yes I agree wif her, son ladies r nt just it! Dats wa I do. ..keep it private away from prying eyes

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    5. Alll na TALK! No matter what Toke puts up and no matter who gets jealous and wants to destroy it, IT IS ULTIMATELY UP TO HER HUSBAND TO TURN IT DOWN. Abeg! I'm tired of these silly excuses. There are absolutely no rules to life.

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    6. Asampokoto, there are no rules to life but there are proven principles for successful living that have passed on from gen to gen. So wise up.

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    7. It's wisen up mate. Not 'wise' up. Generation to generation really? PLS how recent are these social media platforms? Lol! Clown

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  2. #he who has ears. Thank u, we have heard

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    1. I hope tonto don hear. Many fishbrained gals

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  3. #he who has ears. Thank you, we have heard

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  4. That's Tokes mistake, putting everything out there.. Relationships should be kept private, very private in fact, cause of things like this. Hopefully she's learnt her lesson

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    1. You said my mind. Felt so sorry fot her tho. #pensive

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  5. Gbam......pple shud stop all dis social media relationship/marriage

    Moye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB......

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  6. Very wise indeed. Those who have ear should hear.



    #TeamBlessed#

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  7. One thousand likes from me....#learning

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  8. All this bcos the relationship advice expert has been cheated on. #nice words

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  9. True words...toyin aimakhu...u listening?

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  10. I'm surprised that etcetera hasn't written any epistle yet on that case...linda find out.

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  11. Tell that to Toke Makinwa. Her husband wants children but she's too busy taking selfies.

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    1. Lol, plus social media every minute Toke Mak, Toke Make this. Toke Maka that. Toke Makvin learn! Lol, i can't stop laughing

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    2. Haba that's not right to say now..if he can wait for 12years fr her then he should have waited..well everyone is entitled to thier opinion

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    3. Why are u saying dis is she God that gives children. Do u no if she has been trying to conceive pls live her alone let her face her world

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  12. Lawd!! I love me this lady, never seen in public frolicking. She's always modest

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  13. @wilheminna moses Na only ur comment I dey always like see.. Ur igbo comments kills it for me, Biko jisike n'olu

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  14. True word my sister. Linda take note!

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  15. Okiie, notice to all LIBERs. Didn't want to do dis before but I gex I just have to do it as a disclaimer. One idiot on dis blog stole my identity, my name & signage. So please any negative comments on dis blog is not coming from me but from the thief cos I would neva say anything bad about someone or wish anyone evil. So I have gone back to using my old pix & my email address is (julie3er@gmail.com). Linda take note!

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    1. This one na medicine after death. Akuko na egwu.

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  16. Thank you ma, God bless u

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  17. Eally Gbam! She nailed it, and said it all. Dis is d main reason I do kick against all dis luv frm celebs b displayed on sociaal media.

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  18. Word, those who have ears, let dem hear..

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  19. This is what they call hard core truth. She's sitting, standing in short lying on point. Many people don't want to see you happy, so when they can afford to take away your source of happiness, they do it without hesitation. Dont go rubbing the source of your happiness on people's faces. Keep them guessing what keeps you happy.

    Now, many people re forming likeness for Toke. Bc she's in trouble shey? Are they not the ones that have been bashing her online and calling her mtn? Truth is, people prefer to see you sad than happy. They prefer to pity you, than rejoice with you, even the so-called friends

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    1. Wow! U spoke well. Lovely comment.

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    2. So sooo true...this world is full of wicked and heartless people

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    3. 1million likes for u don't mind dat over bleached girl wt fake life

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    4. I just used ur last sentance as my dp common that was so right of u to say !!

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  20. Word, those who have ears, let dem hear..

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  21. Word, those who have ears, let dem hear..

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  22. Word, those who have ears, let dem hear..

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  23. God!! She just wrote what I've been meaning to say. I just didn't want bashing so I kept mute. God bless you maami.








    Jesus is Lord.

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  24. Gbammest, this guy's are terrible

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  25. Let them hear

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  26. What of those dat don't go public abt their spouse and was still cheated on? Nne Na 50 50 tin ooo.

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    1. Dey also don't get a public disgrace like dis. Toke is probably facing dis much bashing bcos she put so much out there. See all d jokes abt her vlogs n not takin her own advice.

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  27. God bless you my sister. ..

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  28. That's why I love linda, she hasn't disclosed our rlshp yet. Lindaobserve

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    1. U are a big chicken sir looool
      Sha u people always make this blog so enjoyable for me

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  29. Paranoia talking. People can derail your happiness/relationship if it's weak to start and you're showing off without having the real deal. If it's truly strong, can't nobody touch it no matter what they try.

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    1. Don't b so sure...

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    2. I wish there's a like button for this. If your relationship is strong and true no amount of public display can derail it. Its he ones that are unsure of their standing in a relationship that hide.

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    3. Amen! Thank you.

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  30. hellooo.....who r u by d way? take several seat jor

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  31. Abegi, story! so I cant brag or praise my partner publicly, or even express my happiness?? if a partner wants to cheat they will cheat, its a conscious decision biko. live your life the way you please, do whatever makes you happy, there is no written formula on how to act when married or in a relationship, all the people with advice invent their own ni, them no go school study am, you sef invent your own, if it work fine, if not, move on! everything in life is a bloody risk mehn! some get lucky and some dont! simple!!

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    1. Listen to a great advise for once. You sound stupid

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  32. Love you for this Wunmi! When you tell people they say you're crazy. Even my kids I don't praise publicly. The heart of man is desperately wicked! Toke learn from this and move on. It is well with you. You deserve better and God is not asleep.

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  33. That's a powerful words for ya'all that love
    showing the whole world the source of ur
    happiness......pple are bad! Not all that smile
    with you, are happy that you're blessed!
    *word*

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  34. Linda please help Juliet
    Somebody is using her name and her logo
    419

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  35. Juliet fire that 419
    His using your name for rubbish ooooooo speak out

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  36. Is this an indirect message to or about the TOKE Makinwa situation ? I agree with her sha. Ti Ishu Eni ba ta...

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  37. Juliet speak out
    419 is using your name for rubbish ooooooo

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  38. Juliet speak out
    419 is using your name for rubbish ooooooo

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  39. Hmmmm....truer words have not been spoken...am sure she refers to toke..

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  40. Gbamest. Wunmi tell them o. Wise word.

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  41. Everyone is now a relationship expert including those that cannot keep, hold or maintain their partners

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  42. Sai mama... pls retweet.. #ORO

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  43. Wunmi, you are so right dt everyoda tin seems wrong @ the second tweet

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  44. Nailed. couldn't be said any better

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  45. God bless you woman. I believe those concerned are reading

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  46. i totally disagree with you on this, the real deal is whether someone knows or doesn't if they are covetous even if u hide it as much as u can they will still want what u have.

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  47. Oh dis y u Linda don't want to tel us who is ur boyfriend

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  48. what is gbam, there are no hard fast rule in life, it was bound to be!! she dated him for years and finally a very quiet wedding! i think thats where u should start analysis from not her being affectionate to her husband via media!

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  49. Very correct. Men too are wicked sha. Women are women's worst enemy. God help us. Social media is causing wahala.

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  50. Very correct. Men too are wicked sha. Women are women's worst enemy. God help us. Social media is causing wahala.

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  51. Yesoooo,i av a lot of friendsoo both married and unmarried,but I don't allow dem closeooo,trust no one, people can just jeelous u, just becos u are happy in ur marriage ,trust no oneooo,only jesusooooooo, he is my rockoo,hate me for dat I don't care

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  52. See most of dem do dat jst to make d world tink dey are happy wen inside dey are dying. Dats y u see infidelity everywhere. Pple need to learn to keep deir business private dats all and settle dier issues indoors. And wen u not happy pls get d hell out of dat relationship or marriage. U owe no one shit!

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  53. Chia o pity TOKE ... dedicated to her indirectly

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  54. Gbam. True talk. My sister.

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  55. Gbam,Gbamer, Gbamest!

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  56. It's true...m sure she's referring to toke. I cn remember one post linda posted about her, she was working way past midnight and she was celebrating how understanding her hubby was for not complaining about her long work hours. Den lib 'ers bashed her and said she was being neglectful to her hubby and I thought they were being unfair. When I heard news of her husband cheating, I just remembered that day.

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  57. It's true...m sure she's referring to toke. I cn remember one post linda posted about her, she was working way past midnight and she was celebrating how understanding her hubby was for not complaining about her long work hours. Den lib 'ers bashed her and said she was being neglectful to her hubby and I thought they were being unfair. When I heard news of her husband cheating, I just remembered that day.

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  58. Exactly, so true






    #ITwillONLYgetBETTER
    #itMUSTendINpraise

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  59. to all Nigerians..either against-buhari or for-buhari...please you all should exercise patience...Nigeria has gotten to a critical stage where its problems can never be solved over-nyt...it needs de grace of God, we de people, to bring about De change we all have been clamouring for...we need to check our hearts n minds...deep down we all are the solution to Nigeria's issh...we should stand and fight for what we want, not jus sittdown n keep quiet n act like dummies we all have been until march 28th....let's all work with the present government, no matter what it takes..this is our country,we can't allow it to slip out of our fingers, we own the key to a successful country...help others, show love to ur neighbours, that the ultimate key to a glorified human...LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOUR AS YOURSELF.....give freely, show mercy, help the needy, show appreciation to every little thing given to yu...let us continue to live in peace and Harmony...so that we can live the life we all has planned and dreamed for, for this great NIGERIA ...even if twasnt done when you were there, remember, it could be done for your children...LIVE A LIFE THAT PLEASES YOUR FELLOW BROTHER SO THAT HE DOESNT GET JEALOUS OF YOUR SUCCESS...once again, let us all be patient...#shareWITHfriendsIFyouLOVEme...jideblaq..twitter: blaqcejay whatsapp 07037210981...

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  60. Alll na TALK! No matter what Toke puts up and no matter who gets jealous and wants to destroy it, IT IS ULTIMATELY UP TO HER HUSBAND TO TURN IT DOWN. Abeg! I'm tired of these silly excuses.

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    1. I always love comments from @asampokoto. U always make sense

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  61. Word!!! He that has ears let him hear.

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  62. Word!!! He that has ears let him hear.

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  63. My dear ehn dat was exactly wot i said wen i read on ur blog months back wie toke was saying heaven and earth about her hubby...
    Tnx wumi for ds. Great and best advise ever. He/ she hu has ears let 'em hear ohh


    *****HOT CHOCOLATE *****

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  64. What is it ment For? What are you going to do with It? It. Is not for everybody but it is for somebody?

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  65. Too apt,I kuku don't publisize nothing,he loves me,he bought me this,took me there,he's the best man in the world etc,some people are really just going to need to the ends of the earth and destroy it also juju dey inside town,be wise,because you're a Christian and God covers you doesn't mean you won't lock your door when going to bed,a word is enoug for the wise

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  66. Absolutely rite rite....

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  67. Words of wisdom, quite philosophical

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  68. Honestly Wunmi, you are so right. Its so irritating seeing all these young wives professing love for their man publicly!!! They fail to realise that they are principalities in this world, whose sole purpose in life is to destroy marriages. These baby mamas, second wives, mistresses, side chicks etc have one thing in common, to destroy. Ladies guard your home. Never share your happy moments on instagram, twitter etc, they are lots of haters everywhere.As a matter of fact, let them believe all is not so good sef. Thats what the world wants to hear. Its really sad. Women have no self respect anymore. Morals have been thrown to the dustbins We need God in this country to help our marriage. God heal all who are hurting now. Give them the strength to move on. No one has the right formula. We can only try

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  69. I strongly belive that no 1 can take anyone from you unless he/she is willing to leave nd if that be the case there's nothing you'l do that will make them stay... People should stop making silly excuses nd take full responsibilities of there Actions cause that's what Adults do...

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    1. STFU!!! you both have to age things work.

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  70. Really Gbam! She nailed it, and said it all. Dis is d main reason I do kick against all dis luv frm celebs b displayed on social media.

    Thumbs up, and more power to her elbows for dis lovely advice, and inspirational words. Wish her well.

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  71. Really Gbam! She nailed it, and said it all. Dis is d main reason I do kick against all dis luv frm celebs b displayed on social media.

    Thumbs up, and more power to her elbows for dis lovely advice, and inspirational words. Wish her well.

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  72. There are no rules, different strokes for folks. Not publicising is not a guarantee for a long lasting and perfect relationship. Just do what makes you happy even if it means posting every detail of your relationship and leave the rest to God.

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  73. Can u hide anything under de sun,oku I seal ma mouth. Ekweme

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  74. True talk. She had better ass down and become sensible for once.
    I believe people that publicly declare their 'assets' have this deeply rooted insecurity in them plus a bit of complex that make them feel they need to announce to the world that they think they have achieved which they never felt they would ever have got; getting married( being the ultimate acquisition these days); making money etc.

    * At least Linda sef too don learn after she clash or connive with Ayedee. Na dem no what's up.

    *Toyin aimakhu has learnt one or two things with her husband-online praise. And the list goes on.
    A word is enough for the wise.

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  75. That is just why I hate living life on the social media, the 21st century way, because there are a lot of people lurking in the corner, liking your pictures and waiting for you to fail.

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  76. Abeg this is just one of the trying times in life. She will hurt but come out of it stronger. I don't think a women has control over a man's character even if she spies on him 24/7. Men do cheat no kiiiiilll ya self. If u like hide oh or expose ur praise the human mind .....no one can fathom it jooo. The babe fit form another blog called ' once bitten' and use it to make money.....toke u can do this....keep flying...I salute ur silence already.

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  77. Toolz take note, anoda busy body in d making. Engaged dis engaged dat we no go hear word for you.

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  78. Mercy Johnson please take note.

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  79. I wish our young celebs can learn more frm our veterans e.g Omotola Ekeinde, Joke Jacobs, Wunmi Obe, Annie Idibia e.t.c. kudos Aunty Wunmi.

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  80. Hmmmmmmm this is so true God bless u 4 this words Mrs Wunmi & God bless u 4 posting this Miss Linda.

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  81. Thanks a lot for this advice Wunmi. It makes sense. Now, some advice for you too. Please don't take offence. You need to lose some weight, not just to enhance your looks but for your health as well. Abeg! My 2 cents!!!!!

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  82. This is stupid. Wunmi is using style to say this is Toke's fault. A man who wants to cheat will cheat no matter what his wife is saying or not saying about him on social media!

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  83. Noted
    jacksoninem@yahoo.com

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  84. SO RIGHT! we should beware of those we surround ourselves with. esp female friends - so envious.

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  85. Toke makinwa hope you don hear

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