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Tuesday, 5 May 2015

I should have died, not my pregnant wife – Husband of Arepo victim

Bukola Fajana, the husband of the 26 year old lawyer, Damilola Fajana who was killed by a stray bullet after she drove into a crossfire between members of the Oodua Peoples Congress OPC and oil bunkers in Arepo, Ogun state on April 29th, says he wished he was the one that was killed while his wife and unborn son were spared. A heartbroken Bukola while narrating the sad incident to Punch, said his wife who was 6 months and two weeks pregnant was preparing to go give birth in America when this unfortunate incident happened. He described his late wife as his reason for his existence.

"Around 2am on Wednesday, I had serious pains and she rushed me to a private hospital near us. We knocked the hospital’s door for about 30 minutes, but nobody came out, so we left the place for another hospital in Ikeja, where she used for her ante-natal. She was six months and two weeks pregnant. She was with me till around 4pm when she said she wanted to go home. She was supposed to go to the immigration office for her data capture because she was to deliver her baby in the United States. But because of my illness, she postponed the appointment till ThursdayWhen she was about to leave, I decided to call someone to drive her home.”he said

Bukola said he called while they were on their way to know where exactly they where and he was informed they just arrived their area. He said few minutes later, he got a call from the driver who drove his wife that she had been shot in the neck

"It was barely a year we got married that this happened. I am saddened because she was my heart and brain. She was the reason for my existence. She was contented with the little I could afford us. I wish I had died and both my wife and my son ─ the pregnancy was a baby boy ─ had lived. At least, I would have had a son to survive me,” he said.

103 comments:

  1. Quite heart rendering, may her soul rest in peace.
    I pray God to give him the fortitude to bear this great loss.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

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  2. May her soul rest in perfect peace.AMEN

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  3. Chai! I can imagine, may her soul rest in peace. Amen

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  4. What a painful loss. God give U fortitude to bear this terrible loss bro. As they say, "God knows best".
    Ubanagum

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  5. sorry to him,what a loss. May the the dead rest in peace.

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  6. So sad. May ha soul rest in peace

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  7. So sad RIP to d woman + pls take heart!

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  8. Touching! May her soul rest in peace

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  9. Omg! This is so touching! Honestly, I cried while reading this. The so called OPC, with all the tragedy caused by them, should be abolished! I pray that Buhari will take a serious action against this COLD BLODED MURDERS, they've done more harm than good. May her gentle soul and that of the innocent unborn child R.I.P

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  10. What a sad tale. Take heart

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  11. Omg! This is so touching! Honestly, I cried while reading this. The so called OPC, with all the tragedy caused by them, should be abolished! I pray that Buhari will take a serious action against this COLD BLODED MURDERS, they've done more harm than good. May her gentle soul and that of the innocent unborn child R.I.P

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    1. Buhari will take serious action, is he ur president...... Igbo girl without brain.......why don't u take the action ursef

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  12. Eyaaaaaa. May her soul rest in peace.

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  13. Awww. Rest in peace to the dead.


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  14. Hmm. Take heart broo. Rip to her

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  15. Take heart my dear brother. RIP to the dead

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  16. Chai! Hard luck... Rip madam

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  17. Jesus exco as we call her aburo mi.... Sleep well... God is this how people die, God

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  18. So sad, may her soul rest in peace, for those caused this whole thing in the beginning may you never know peace in your lives, you will suffer before you die!.

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  19. I felt dis right inside my heart. So touching, and am even short of words to pass across. I pray God grant his family d fortitude to bear their loss. RIP.

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  20. So sad. May her soul rest in peace. Linda take note!

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  21. May the Lord give him the fortitude to bear his loss... It is well.

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  22. i feel your pain man, life can be so unfair

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  23. Take heart man
    Its not †ђξ end of †ђξ world
    God knws d best








    I Rep 27th May

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  24. So Sad May Her Soul Rest In Peace. Nd her husband may God Strengtn u More

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  25. So sad, buhari shd pls reverse d pipeline appointment given 2 d opc n return it bk 2 naval, police n civil defence so dat dey can mount d area n gv d pple full security dat dey need. Ijaw pple r evrywhr in lagos vandalising pipelines wh is vry bad, govt shd pls find lasting solution 2 dis prob

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  26. Don't wish for death sir....just try to bear ur loss

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  27. So sad, buhari shd pls reverse d pipeline appointment given 2 d opc n return it bk 2 naval, police n civil defence so dat dey can mount d area n gv d pple full security dat dey need. Ijaw pple r evrywhr in lagos vandalising pipelines wh is vry bad, govt shd pls find lasting solution 2 dis prob

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  28. Don't wish for death sir....just try to bear ur loss

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  29. a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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    May her soul RIP...
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  30. Awwww the Lord is your strength.

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  31. So sad,rest in peace.

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  32. Sad story....God is ur strength, may soul rest in peace.

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  33. If the baby was a girl,would u have still wished u have died? Cos I don't get the emphasy on the "baby boy" Anyways,take heart dear,i feel ur Pain,May God be with u throughout this moment...RIP to ur wife.

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  34. So sad, take heart dear God knows best. He will strengthen you always.

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  35. This is really sad.God have Mercy. What a world

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  36. Its really a painful loss..tk heart

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  37. God knows best.


    OKORO UPGRADED**

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  38. This is heartbreaking, May God console him and other members of the family

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  39. No one should call my president inti this matter. Rip young woman. Engr Emy

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  40. This is so sad.... Tears roll down Mii cheeks

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  41. So sad,may the Lord give and all she left behind the fortitude to bear the lost. RIP to the dead.

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  42. What a pity! The security of oil pipeline should be withdrawn from OPC ASAP. I think they r inexperienced for such jobs. That's one of the problems the outgoing govt created.

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  43. soooooo sad take heart

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  44. Oh my God !!!! Datz so painful...may her soul rest in perfect peace ...

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  45. Really sad. May her soul rest in peace.

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  46. See what happen when we a clueless and complete failure happen to find himself as president of a nation. What kind of a president will arm some thugs, asking them to do the job that's meant for a law enforcement agency??? It shall not be well with anybody that call this Evil a Hero

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  47. This is sad...may her soul rest in peace

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  48. Thisis painful...........May God givehim the Grace to survive this.......
    Maythe soulof ur wife and unborn child rest in peace...Amen

    Moye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB....

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  49. It is well with your soul my brother.

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  50. Ohh so so sad my dear. This is very painful, I feel the pain myself. Please take heart. I pray that the good Lord will give you the strength to bear this. God will send you another help ok. It is well.

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  51. Chai!!! How sad can life be?? May her soul rest in peace......

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  52. This is too heartbreaking. Sadly I doubt anyone is going to be prosecuted for this. Two lives were lost because of a bunch of ignorant people's quest for money.....that is just so wrong.

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  53. So touching,bt God knws the reason why things had to happen like dat...

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  54. Oh dear,so sorry for ur loss pls take heart and may the Lord console you,rip to ur wife and son!

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  55. May God comfort u sir.i feel ur pain.RIP to the dead.

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  56. This is so pathetic! May God grant the family the fortitude to bear the loss.

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  57. So sorry about the lost, please take heart.

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  58. OMG sorry bro pls take heart
    may her soul rest in the bosom of our Lord.





    Nimelda said so.....

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  59. SAD...MEK GOD COMFORT U...RIP TO HER AGN,...TOMJERRRYSWIT

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  60. Take heart

    God knows best



    ..JOSHSAYSO..LIB..FAN

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  61. Hmm, what a sad story. God knows best.

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  62. Take heart Bukayo. She will be missed by all of us.

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  63. It's so sad despite all this?i was @your weeding why is death so cruel!

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  64. Jesus....This is so sad. The Almighty God will comfort you my brother. He will give you peace even in the midst of this storm and may the soul of your wife and unborn son rest in peace. Am in tears....So so sad.

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    1. My heart goes to your parents uncle Andrew Femi Ojo and his wife of Ire Ekiti in Ekiti State, also to your husband, May God grant them all the fortitude to bear this great loss and May God grant your soul and that of your unborn child eternal rest. Sleep well sis

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  65. Naija Yankee Boy5 May 2015 at 11:12

    This is sad. I blame GEJ's irresponsible government for this. Why arm militant groups? Thank God he is leaving. GMB should fight OPC, MASSOB and Asari and co, the way he wants to fight BH. Stupid GEJ. BTW, I'm Yoruba.

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  66. GOD knows best. Take heart bro

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  67. Rest in peace damilola. SAD

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  68. It is well God knows why she has to die. may her soul rest in peace.

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  69. Although I knew her for only a short period of time, she was a darling, it's so sad she's gone.....take heart Bro, may d Almighty God be ur comforter (from myself and all her colleagues @ LOGOS institute) may her gentle soul R.I.P

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  70. So Sad!!! Take heart,may Allah never let u see such occurnce again.



    #Hajia Mufliat#

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  71. Men.... This is hard to take, may d the Lord grant I fortitude to bear dis great pain

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  72. The lord giveth and taketh, may her soul rest in the bosom of the lord.take hrt

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  73. SO sad... It is well... May God give you strength to bear this loss

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  74. RIP.. cant imagine the paid he is going through

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  75. Sooo sad! Only God can comfort this man oooo. God oooooo. This is just too much

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  76. Sad story sorry bro it's well

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  77. It is well.....God knows best

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  78. So sad! God grant the family the fortitude to bear the loss....and may we never experience this in our personal lives in Jesus Name. Amen!

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  79. Rest on dear friend, your death has brought so much pain to our hearts. We miss you already.

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  80. take heart bro...may she rest in peace amen.

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