Sad! Grieving husband narrates how his wife died during childbirth
A grieving Nigerian man took to twitter this morning to share
how he lost his wife and their unborn child during childbirth (the man is pictured above with his late wife). The tweets are so sad and could mess up your morning. Read them after the cut. May her soul rest in peace, Amen...
May her soul rest in peace. Thank God for my life dis almost happened to me. At gwarimpa gen hospital d scan said my baby was 3.8kg which is big I told d doctors we shd go for cs based on my brother's advise since he is also a doc. But dey said no that I shd push, they induced me hmmmm it wasn't an easy labour. At d end my baby came out abd had to go to neonatal while I was bleeding but I thank God I made it after transfusion. Pls never advise any pregnant woman you knw to be "induced". Its too much stress on d baby and d mum bcos she will end up bleeding. I'm so sorry for this loss.
Oh my God, this is heart wrenching, no no no. May the Lord console him and his daughter and may his wife and child rest in peace. You can't help but feel a bit of what he's feeling. Too sad. Too too sad.
*tears*hmmmm..if only tears could bring back our loved ones..may her soul rest in peace..indeed this reminded me of my lil bro as well..#flatlineontheekg..i was helpless and at that moment I thought to myself..why am I serving God..i hated myself and blamed myself so much..but who am I to question God..he knows all..in every situation..give thanks..May God console you sir and give yu the strength to carry on.
So sad and touching, oh why are women dying at child birth /durig pregnancy, I lost a friend 4days ago 6months pregnancy, may there souls rest in peace and God will give your family the fortitude to bear the loss, rest in peace lola jegede and this beautiful woman here and to all the mothers wev lost during pregnancy, may God forgive ur sins and give you eternal rest. Am so shaken.
Oh God this hurts to the bone!!!!! I lift. up all pregnant woman to you this moment. Father! they shall all give birth safely in Jesus Name,Amen.Bro take heart God will heal you.
#Sobs ."pregnancy nd childbirth" , only God can safe women. I feel ur pain dear. May she rest in peace. So sad. May lord protect other preggy mums nd grant them safe delivery.
E no easy. Many women go in there and dont come out. Labour can be described as going to heaven, hell and back. The pain can be likened to 1,000 of your bones broken at the same time. Thats why i feel sorry for these women that show off baby bump pictures. The right thing would be to stay away from glaring eyes till after delivery. Believe it or not, we are Africans and juju is real. It is on this day(Labour/delivery) that most women are attacked spiritually. I have been down the road 3times. If not for the end product, its a journey one would almost never want to embark on. Sorry about your loss sir, Its one of the many woes of being a woman. God bless women and mothers the world over.
Oh wow...this is a very sad one. My wife left at 35weeks + . These Naija hospitals are not to be trusted at all, the best one are a 1000 time below the average hospitals in US. Considering what my wife went tru even in the US hospital...i cldnt help but imagine wat the story would have been now if she stayed back in Naija for the delivery. Everything na God sha. May God grant her eternal peace
I can brother I can feel your pain totally.. Watched my elder sister died in same circumstances, just has was in Abuja. God rest the soul of your wife.
Linda this man write up made me cry. Mr olu I know no one can feel ur pains like u but I know the good lord will never leave u and darasimi. I pray God to heal all ur wounds and turn ur sorrows to joy amen. Oluremi may u and jimi gentle souls rest in perfect peace amen. Sunre remi.
Dear God,we sometimes don't under some things and why they happen like the death of a loved one; a death of a wife; one's own body; one's own flesh .Though no words, no comfort no pleading could fill that void such incident leaves in our hearts but our comfort comes in the fact that you know everything, in that knowledge of your greatness pls be that that we need to go through this phase by your grace we pray. ##plsLordbehiscomfort
And thats where some men will be angry with there wives for not having a baby boy. And some women too will continue getting pregnant because they are looking for a particular sex. If there is any such person on this blog, know that you are playing chess with your life. If anything happens to you, you will be replaced asap by a step mum who will maltreat your children. So stay alive, love yourself and appreciate whatever gender God has given you. My one cent. Cos these men aint loyal.
O nigeria!!!d rate of maternal n child death is on d increase...I can't imagine d pain he feels,watching a woman trying 2 give life n dies in d process..it is well with ha gentle soul....God will console u sir..pls take heart..God pls watch over me n other preggy women IJN...
Oh my Goodness Gracious Lord Almighty ... I know Remi Ajatta as i am also a Badorian of the 99 set ...Wow!! May her soul rest in peace. Beautiful Remi Ajatta gone so soon
O dear Jesus, what words do i have to console this man...NONE! Please dear Lord, hold him for me and heal his broken heart and spirit for only your Name's sake.Amen.
Such a sad tale. My heart bleeds when I hear that a woman died during childbirth. Pregnancy is such a beautiful thing that it should not end in tears. The science of pregnancy has been mastered to a point that there a very few reasons why a woman should ever die during pregnancy, and juju is not one of them.
It is sad that Nigerian women still approach and go through pregnancy with so much trepidation and uncertainty where in other parts of the world, women plan every bit of their pregnancy and delivery.
The problem is multifaceted, but at the center of it is a poor health system with health workers who are constrained to work under conditions that make delivery of the right care at the right time difficult.
Until the government sees humans as its greatest asset and not oil, it is difficult to imagine any improvement in the nearest future. Healthcare is involved and needs government support and oversight on many fronts, including policy making and accountability.
May her soul RIP.. am still in shock! He still told us we shld all come n celebrate with him for the naming, Sanmi d lord is ur strength n may he guide u n Darasimi! Can't stop crying just had a flash back last year Whn I heard a surgery ( CS) n d doctor told me it was a narrow escape. Oluremi will forever live!!! Take heart bro God bless u.
So sad, may God console him and their son and please they should if the hospital or Doctor was negligent them must sue them. Tired of the recklessness of our health sector
Am wondering if we would even have doctors in the years to come because everyone seems to be schooling on blogs or doing entertainment,no serious minded students anymore. It is terrible. RIP beautiful chick, this life is full of stress
I'm so heart broken. God please in your mercy grant her eternal rest in your bossom and please give the family esp. the husband the heart to bear this great loss.
Some doctors/ hospitals should be charged for man slaughter so that the rest can learn. What is our medical system deteriorating to? Can't believe I'm crying. I don't even know these people. * wipes tears* may her soul RIP and May the Holy Spirit be your special comforter.
Really sad. Am so thankful am able to live and have both my kids in america. All this private hospitals in Nigeria use people as experiment. I beg all the pregnant ladies in the house. If u can't afford to go out side the country to have ur kids, please go to general hospitals. I know the nurses are rude. But, you get care from experience dr
RIP Oluremi Nee Ajata...this is heart wrenching! She was a beautiful lady inside and outside.she had an amazing heart. I remember back in secondary school days, she was a mother hen..loved us like we were her own blood..it's so painful you had to leave this world like this but God loves you more... May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace..May God give your family the fortitude to bear the loss...it is well
May her Soul RIP.. Sanmi sorry for d lost may Almighty God bless u and Darasimi can't stop crying.. just heard a flash back last year Whn I had my surgery ( CS) n the doctor told me it was a narrow escape cos I almost lost my life n the baby's too. Oluremi will forever live!!! ( AMEN) .
Hmnnn...Aunty Remi...whr will I evn start from. I'm still in shock. When you sed bye to me on Monday I had no idea that was thr last time. You told me you would have put to bed before I come back from my trip
Your words, smiles n acts keep ringing in my head. I still ate the cake you baked that day.We had arranged everywhere for the arrival Dara's brothers . You will forever remain in my heart. Rest in peace Aunty Rems
Remi ,Its so sad, i will never see you again, you talked about us seeing soon on your trip. I pray your gentle soul find rest in the Lords bosom. I trust your hubby and family will do right by Dara,but truthfully its painful to think we don't have you amongst us here on earth. I will continue to cherish the memories we had. Remember when you took me to the new Yoghurt sto re in Wuse, or those days when baba picks us to work.I will always keep those moments close to my heart. Rest on Remi.
This is a very sad news! May her soul rest in peace. To all her friends, families esp her hubby and daughter, I pray the almighty one give you the comfort you all need. We were in the same department in school. And it saddens my heart to know she is no longer with us. RIP REMI
Oluremi my friend, I got the shock of my life yesterday on facebook when I read that you had passed on. I thought about you some weeks ago and I thought of calling you but it just escaped my mind. I remember our last conversation, you asked if my Darasimi wasn't looking at another girl because your Darasimi will be waiting for him. The few weeks we spent together when you had Darasimi before going back to Nigeria will be forever cherished.my husband is still in shock. I can't imagine the pain your husband is going through and to think Darasimi is motherless just breaks my heart. Rest in peace Remi.
May God grant you the fortitude to bear this great loss. Just had a son few weeks back, fear no gree me until when i saw my wife, spoke to her and she responded. Women dey try sha.
No woman should die during child birth. It is abominable. Pregnancy is not a disease neither is it a terminal disease. Women die due to negligence of our doctors. Now Remi is gone. This is just damn too sad. My consolation goes to her broken husband and the entire family. Only God can console them for this is tooo sad. He didn't mention the name of the hospital and their location. We honestly need to start boycotting all negligent hospitals who kill our young mothers during childbirth. Maybe they will all sit up.
How can a woman die just like that? Wasn't she being monitored and the baby too. The baby boy also died. My God this is too painful! Both the basket and water thrown away. Only God can console this man. I almost during childbirth of my 1st baby 9 years ago at Ayinke house Ikeja. Only God said it wasn't yet time. All due to the negligence of the delivery team.
God help us oooo. Men must insist and shout the roof down if they have to when it comes to taking decisions during delivery. It's a life or death situation when things go awry.
She was already weak. Baby was weak yet they induced her. Too sad oooo
rest in peace remi close to tears now i dont know why good people have to go like this it just goes to show how precious these little time we have on earth is, it could be anyone's turn tomorrow
rest in peace remi close to tears now i dont know why good people have to go like this it just goes to show how precious these little time we have on earth is, it could be anyone's turn tomorrow
Very sad indeed. Just saw the news on facebook. I knew Remi since 2007 when we sat together on a flight to Dubai.We bacame friends since then. Very nice woman
O my HRM still feel like this is a bad dream, was only getting to know you and the lord has received you, am soooooo sad...but God knows best...may God console and comfort your family IJN
This has to change, we are loosing this generation of young women to child birth. We need to demand better and quality healthcare and there needs to be accountability when there is gross negligence such as this. I'm so heartbroken for you dear brother. This should not have happened. May Oluremi's soul rest in peace and justice prevail. God comfort those left behind.
My cousin may God bless you and keep you in this moment, may his face shine upon you. I pray for grace great grace to go through this moment it's well with you and darasimi.
May God comfort you and the rest of family she left behind. I cried as I read this as it reminds me of my late sister who died during the birth of her first & only child and never saw her baby due to a stupid & greedy doctor's negligence trying to play God.
Oh with tears. may her soul find rest in the Lord. I hope you fine courage to ask questions. YES its time we ask questions. Nigerian women are dying needlessly from Child birth. For Gods sake this is 2015 and not 1520
I can only imagine how you feel at this trying moment Sanmi. All I can say is the it is well with your soul. May the Comforter himself console you and the whole family she left behind. Take heart bro. the Lord is the saving strength of his anointed. IT IS WELL WITH YOUR SOUL.
I can only imagine how you feel Olusanmi, but I know it is well with your soul. My prayer is that the Comforter himself will comfort you and the family at large, may the peace that passes all understanding rule your heart at this trying moment, it is well my brother with your soul.
May her soul rip.m lindaobserve
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I pray God grant him d fortitude to bear his loss. RIP.
DeleteChai!!sobbing!!RIP
DeleteNIGERIA! I rest my case
DeleteMay her soul rest in peace. Thank God for my life dis almost happened to me. At gwarimpa gen hospital d scan said my baby was 3.8kg which is big I told d doctors we shd go for cs based on my brother's advise since he is also a doc. But dey said no that I shd push, they induced me hmmmm it wasn't an easy labour. At d end my baby came out abd had to go to neonatal while I was bleeding but I thank God I made it after transfusion. Pls never advise any pregnant woman you knw to be "induced". Its too much stress on d baby and d mum bcos she will end up bleeding. I'm so sorry for this loss.
DeleteAww! May she rest in peace. Like he said we can't question God! Some go through worst ordeals and still survive it. Its just God! Take heart!
DeleteChai....this is painful. Take heart brother. May her soul Rest in Peace Perfect.
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Chai, how painful....may her soul rest in peace. Sad!!!
DeleteChai! This is deep pain.Rest in peace woman.Thou art totally loved.
DeleteI feel ur pain bro. Take heart
ReplyDeleteTake heart bro
DeleteGod knows best, take heart Mr.
DeleteOoo God, d lord will heal your pain and. Give. U double for your shame
DeleteDavido's house help pls when did u start feeling people's pains?....
DeleteTake heart dear.... R.I.P to the dead
DeleteSo painful!!!
DeleteRest in peace.
ReplyDeleteRIP TO HER...DS IS SAD.TOMJERRYSWIT
ReplyDeleteTears drop my eyes* oh God why do we even experience death. So sorry for the lost, may her soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteMay r gentle soul rest in peace n may God grant r husband d fortitude 2 bear d loss
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ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace
Phew! So heart wrenching. Life can be so unfair.
ReplyDeleteMay God grant him the fortitude to bear this great loss.
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Maternal mortality rate is really high nowadays. May her soul rest in peace!
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Oh my God, this is heart wrenching, no no no. May the Lord console him and his daughter and may his wife and child rest in peace. You can't help but feel a bit of what he's feeling. Too sad. Too too sad.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm this is saddening.. R.I.P to your Wife/Friend..
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SO Sad, wish him strenght
ReplyDeletePls what God forsaken hospital is this? May your wife rest in peace sir.
ReplyDeleteAwwwww....take heart sir
ReplyDelete*tears*hmmmm..if only tears could bring back our loved ones..may her soul rest in peace..indeed this reminded me of my lil bro as well..#flatlineontheekg..i was helpless and at that moment I thought to myself..why am I serving God..i hated myself and blamed myself so much..but who am I to question God..he knows all..in every situation..give thanks..May God console you sir and give yu the strength to carry on.
ReplyDeleteHow touching.. May her soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteGod plz console those she left behind..rip to her n d little angel
ReplyDeleteAhhhhh so sad,but they should Ave gone 4 a CS cus d pregnancy is jst too overdue.
ReplyDelete..................... So sorry for your loss. May God grant you the grace to bear this loss. RIP to your wife & unborn child. 😂
ReplyDeleteSo heart breaking
ReplyDeleteIt's so sad, RIP to the dead.
ReplyDeleteGod have mercy! So :(
ReplyDeleteSo sad! Itswell!!
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Rip to her n son! Quite emotional n painful
ReplyDeleteThis is 2 sad. Gosh, May her soul rest in perfect peace.. Tk heart.
ReplyDeleteSo sad and touching. I can feel his pains
ReplyDeleteWaooo may her soul rest in perfect peace Amen
ReplyDeleteGod this is so sad, i dont even know what to say. Dear God, i pray that you give this man and the entire family your strength to bear this huge loss.
ReplyDeleteSo sad and touching, oh why are women dying at child birth /durig pregnancy, I lost a friend 4days ago 6months pregnancy, may there souls rest in peace and God will give your family the fortitude to bear the loss, rest in peace lola jegede and this beautiful woman here and to all the mothers wev lost during pregnancy, may God forgive ur sins and give you eternal rest. Am so shaken.
ReplyDeleteEhya wat a pity!!!!! Sorry for the loss
ReplyDeleteAllah sarki. :'(
ReplyDeleteThis really broke my heart...
ReplyDeleteNigeria is very unsafe. Quack doctors everywhere. I don't like this country one bit
ReplyDeleteMY HR, MRS OLUREMI (PENEIL APARTMENT ABUJA) WE WILL ALL MISS YOU MY FRIEND. *CRYING*
ReplyDeleteOh God ! Reposer en paix.
ReplyDeleteDis is very very sad. What a loss. May her soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteOh God! So sad and teary! Take h@. I pray God almighty imsef will console u and Oluremi will rest in perfect peace of d lord
ReplyDeleteSad.
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace.
WAS SHOCKED THIS MORNING WHEN I HEARD THE NEWS. STILL CAN'T BELIEVE MY HR IS GONE. SHE IS SUCH A WONDERFUL LADY
ReplyDeleteso sad #crying#
ReplyDeleteSo touching, tears almost filled my face. It's only God that can console you. Accept our condolence.
ReplyDeleteDis s so sad May her soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteWot a pain!!!
ReplyDeleteOh God this hurts to the bone!!!!! I lift. up all pregnant woman to you this moment. Father! they shall all give birth safely in Jesus Name,Amen.Bro take heart God will heal you.
ReplyDeleteDeath is so cruel. RIP to his beloved. He's alleging malpractice. Hope he gets the justice he seeks.
ReplyDeleteRIP. Please give us more details so we could petition the hospital.
ReplyDeleteSo sad
ReplyDeleteso sad, may her soul rest in peace
ReplyDelete#Sobs ."pregnancy nd childbirth" , only God can safe women. I feel ur pain dear. May she rest in peace. So sad. May lord protect other preggy mums nd grant them safe delivery.
ReplyDeleteE no easy. Many women go in there and dont come out. Labour can be described as going to heaven, hell and back. The pain can be likened to 1,000 of your bones broken at the same time. Thats why i feel sorry for these women that show off baby bump pictures. The right thing would be to stay away from glaring eyes till after delivery. Believe it or not, we are Africans and juju is real. It is on this day(Labour/delivery) that most women are attacked spiritually. I have been down the road 3times. If not for the end product, its a journey one would almost never want to embark on. Sorry about your loss sir, Its one of the many woes of being a woman. God bless women and mothers the world over.
ReplyDeleteOh wow...this is a very sad one. My wife left at 35weeks + . These Naija hospitals are not to be trusted at all, the best one are a 1000 time below the average hospitals in US.
ReplyDeleteConsidering what my wife went tru even in the US hospital...i cldnt help but imagine wat the story would have been now if she stayed back in Naija for the delivery. Everything na God sha.
May God grant her eternal peace
I can brother I can feel your pain totally.. Watched my elder sister died in same circumstances, just has was in Abuja.
ReplyDeleteGod rest the soul of your wife.
So so bad,RIP Oluremi
ReplyDeleteWhat women pass through during child birth......... God i thank u for my life. RIP my fellow woman.
ReplyDeleteSo sad........#crying#may her gentle soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteah ah...this broke me. And he told dem not to...that last smile...those last words...brother God will console u
ReplyDeleteLinda this man write up made me cry. Mr olu I know no one can feel ur pains like u but I know the good lord will never leave u and darasimi. I pray God to heal all ur wounds and turn ur sorrows to joy amen. Oluremi may u and jimi gentle souls rest in perfect peace amen. Sunre remi.
ReplyDeleteOh nooo very sad may there soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteDear God,we sometimes don't under some things and why they happen like the death of a loved one; a death of a wife; one's own body; one's own flesh .Though no words, no comfort no pleading could fill that void such incident leaves in our hearts but our comfort comes in the fact that you know everything, in that knowledge of your greatness pls be that that we need to go through this phase by your grace we pray.
ReplyDelete##plsLordbehiscomfort
Just shed tears.. #Truelove... RIP
ReplyDeleteso sad....sorry bro God will bless u
ReplyDeleteOoohhhh., its a pity. May her Soul Rest in the Lord. Take heart sir, God is your strength
ReplyDeletemay God console d bereaved husband.
ReplyDeleteI refused 2 read the tweetz.
ReplyDeleteSo sad, take heart sir
ReplyDeleteSo sad, may her gentle soul rest in perfect peaceful peace.
ReplyDeleteRIP. Can't stop crying, dis is so heart broken.
ReplyDeleteSo touching, Struggling to hold my tears.may God continue to console you. And may she RIP.
ReplyDeleteAnd thats where some men will be angry with there wives for not having a baby boy. And some women too will continue getting pregnant because they are looking for a particular sex. If there is any such person on this blog, know that you are playing chess with your life. If anything happens to you, you will be replaced asap by a step mum who will maltreat your children. So stay alive, love yourself and appreciate whatever gender God has given you. My one cent. Cos these men aint loyal.
ReplyDeleteO nigeria!!!d rate of maternal n child death is on d increase...I can't imagine d pain he feels,watching a woman trying 2 give life n dies in d process..it is well with ha gentle soul....God will console u sir..pls take heart..God pls watch over me n other preggy women IJN...
ReplyDeleteSo so sad, God will surely comfort you and fill your heart with joy again.
ReplyDeleteThis happened in this country or abroad?
ReplyDeleteThis happened in this country or abroad?
ReplyDeleteMrs Jade said ... OMG! May heaven console you bro and May her soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteTake heart Same, Allah knows best #Elliot#
ReplyDeleteSanmi, Allah knows best
ReplyDeleteReally sad, may God console this man, its not easy. RIP.
ReplyDeleteThis is heart breaking it's only God that can console u. It is well
ReplyDeletehmmmmm! LIFE!! RIP Oluremi!! It Is Well....(There's always A Purpose In the Pain)!!
ReplyDeleteoooooohhhh soo sad! so sad! May her soul rest in peace and may God give him the grace to bear the irreparable loss. Amen.
ReplyDeleteSo sad n touchy. RIP Oluremi
ReplyDeleteOh! so sorry! May her soul and that of ur son rest in the bosom of the most high God! Amen
ReplyDeleteGOD WILL GIVE YOU HEART TO BEAR THE BOUNDING
ReplyDeleteAccept my condolence brother..It is well. The Lord will comfort you on everyside. The Lord will wipe away your tears.
ReplyDeleteRIP Remi Ajatta. Model College Badore 1999 set. My heart goes to her family especially her sis Bolanle. God will be with Daughter and hubby.
ReplyDeleteOh my Goodness Gracious Lord Almighty ... I know Remi Ajatta as i am also a Badorian of the 99 set ...Wow!! May her soul rest in peace. Beautiful Remi Ajatta gone so soon
DeleteEternal rest O lord grant unto her & son and let your perpetual light shine upon them.may they rest in peace. So sad #sob#
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm so so painful RIP Remi
ReplyDeleteTake heart may soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteVery sad, may her soul continue to rest in perfect peace
ReplyDeleteMay the Lord be ur strength bro.sad so pathetic.I feel ur pain
ReplyDeleteReally hurts. Take heart bro. God is your strength
ReplyDeletethe Lord console u, his grace is sufficient for u...
ReplyDeleteit is well
ReplyDeleteEyah so sad very sorry
ReplyDeleteSo So painful but one Will not question God. Take heart
ReplyDeleteThese quack doctors needs to be jailed. RIP
ReplyDeleteO dear Jesus, what words do i have to console this man...NONE! Please dear Lord, hold him for me and heal his broken heart and spirit for only your Name's sake.Amen.
ReplyDeleteAwwww...this is really sad,may her soul rest in perfect peace
ReplyDeleteSuch a sad tale. My heart bleeds when I hear that a woman died during childbirth. Pregnancy is such a beautiful thing that it should not end in tears. The science of pregnancy has been mastered to a point that there a very few reasons why a woman should ever die during pregnancy, and juju is not one of them.
ReplyDeleteIt is sad that Nigerian women still approach and go through pregnancy with so much trepidation and uncertainty where in other parts of the world, women plan every bit of their pregnancy and delivery.
The problem is multifaceted, but at the center of it is a poor health system with health workers who are constrained to work under conditions that make delivery of the right care at the right time difficult.
Until the government sees humans as its greatest asset and not oil, it is difficult to imagine any improvement in the nearest future. Healthcare is involved and needs government support and oversight on many fronts, including policy making and accountability.
Sorry for your loss. May her soul RIP.
EYAH VERY SAD...TAKE HEART BRO......IT IS WELL
ReplyDeleteMay the good Lord comfort the husband all family members.RIP
ReplyDeleteNow am crying.
ReplyDeleteLinda cogitate
May her soul RIP.. am still in shock! He still told us we shld all come n celebrate with him for the naming, Sanmi d lord is ur strength n may he guide u n Darasimi! Can't stop crying just had a flash back last year Whn I heard a surgery ( CS) n d doctor told me it was a narrow escape. Oluremi will forever live!!! Take heart bro God bless u.
DeleteGot me in tears,may God grant you the fortitude to bear this huge loss
ReplyDeleteRIP
ReplyDeleteTake heart .God will comfort you.
ReplyDeleteSo sad, may God console him and their son and please they should if the hospital or Doctor was negligent them must sue them. Tired of the recklessness of our health sector
ReplyDeleteAm wondering if we would even have doctors in the years to come because everyone seems to be schooling on blogs or doing entertainment,no serious minded students anymore. It is terrible. RIP beautiful chick, this life is full of stress
ReplyDeleteMay God comfort u, n may she RIP
ReplyDeleteSad much heart broken I feel ur pain may her soul rest in perfect peace amen #in tears#
ReplyDeleteI'm so heart broken. God please in your mercy grant her eternal rest in your bossom and please give the family esp. the husband the heart to bear this great loss.
ReplyDeleteSome doctors/ hospitals should be charged for man slaughter so that the rest can learn. What is our medical system deteriorating to? Can't believe I'm crying. I don't even know these people. * wipes tears* may her soul RIP and May the Holy Spirit be your special comforter.
ReplyDeleteMay She rest in peace. God, pls comfort him!
ReplyDeleteRIP so sad
ReplyDeleteThis is so heartbreaking.
ReplyDeleteTake heart man.
Sorry bro
ReplyDeleteReally sad. Am so thankful am able to live and have both my kids in america. All this private hospitals in Nigeria use people as experiment. I beg all the pregnant ladies in the house. If u can't afford to go out side the country to have ur kids, please go to general hospitals. I know the nurses are rude. But, you get care from experience dr
ReplyDeleteSleep on Oluremi Ajatta Adeleke(LSMC BADORE 1999 SET)
ReplyDeleteWe love you but God loves u most..
condolences to the families....
RIP Oluremi Nee Ajata...this is heart wrenching! She was a beautiful lady inside and outside.she had an amazing heart. I remember back in secondary school days, she was a mother hen..loved us like we were her own blood..it's so painful you had to leave this world like this but God loves you more... May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace..May God give your family the fortitude to bear the loss...it is well
ReplyDeleteSo sad! Am short of words, may her soul and that of her unborn baby continue to RIP!!!
ReplyDeleteSorry man. May their souls rest in peace. God is still the Supreme one.
ReplyDeleteOh my! That was heart-rendering
ReplyDeleteTears rolling down......it is well
ReplyDeleteMay her Soul RIP.. Sanmi sorry for d lost may Almighty God bless u and Darasimi can't stop crying.. just heard a flash back last year Whn I had my surgery ( CS) n the doctor told me it was a narrow escape cos I almost lost my life n the baby's too. Oluremi will forever live!!! ( AMEN) .
ReplyDeleteHmnnn...Aunty Remi...whr will I evn start from. I'm still in shock. When you sed bye to me on Monday I had no idea that was thr last time. You told me you would have put to bed before I come back from my trip
ReplyDeleteYour words, smiles n acts keep ringing in my head. I still ate the cake you baked that day.We had arranged everywhere for the arrival Dara's brothers . You will forever remain in my heart. Rest in peace Aunty Rems
Very very sad. May her soul #RIP
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad I can't stop crying, my heart goes out to this man. May God give him the fortitude to bear this irreparable lost.
ReplyDeleteso sorry about the loss, God knows best...take heart and be strong
ReplyDeleteRemi ,Its so sad, i will never see you again, you talked about us seeing soon on your trip.
ReplyDeleteI pray your gentle soul find rest in the Lords bosom. I trust your hubby and family will do right by Dara,but truthfully its painful to think we don't have you amongst us here on earth.
I will continue to cherish the memories we had.
Remember when you took me to the new Yoghurt sto re in Wuse, or those days when baba picks us to work.I will always keep those moments close to my heart.
Rest on Remi.
This is a very sad news! May her soul rest in peace. To all her friends, families esp her hubby and daughter, I pray the almighty one give you the comfort you all need. We were in the same department in school. And it saddens my heart to know she is no longer with us. RIP REMI
ReplyDeleteOluremi my friend, I got the shock of my life yesterday on facebook when I read that you had passed on. I thought about you some weeks ago and I thought of calling you but it just escaped my mind. I remember our last conversation, you asked if my Darasimi wasn't looking at another girl because your Darasimi will be waiting for him. The few weeks we spent together when you had Darasimi before going back to Nigeria will be forever cherished.my husband is still in shock. I can't imagine the pain your husband is going through and to think Darasimi is motherless just breaks my heart. Rest in peace Remi.
ReplyDeleteMay God grant you the fortitude to bear this great loss. Just had a son few weeks back, fear no gree me until when i saw my wife, spoke to her and she responded. Women dey try sha.
ReplyDeleteTouching indeed. He loved his wife
ReplyDeleteOoooh my heart bleeds right now, may God give u the. Fortitude to bear dis irreplaceable loss IJN Amen. Take heart sir.
ReplyDeleteNo woman should die during child birth. It is abominable. Pregnancy is not a disease neither is it a terminal disease. Women die due to negligence of our doctors.
ReplyDeleteNow Remi is gone. This is just damn too sad. My consolation goes to her broken husband and the entire family. Only God can console them for this is tooo sad. He didn't mention the name of the hospital and their location.
We honestly need to start boycotting all negligent hospitals who kill our young mothers during childbirth. Maybe they will all sit up.
How can a woman die just like that? Wasn't she being monitored and the baby too. The baby boy also died. My God this is too painful! Both the basket and water thrown away.
Only God can console this man. I almost during childbirth of my 1st baby 9 years ago at Ayinke house Ikeja. Only God said it wasn't yet time. All due to the negligence of the delivery team.
God help us oooo. Men must insist and shout the roof down if they have to when it comes to taking decisions during delivery. It's a life or death situation when things go awry.
She was already weak. Baby was weak yet they induced her. Too sad oooo
May her soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteMy goodness! This was heartbreaking to read! May God console you!
ReplyDeleteBrendaN
rest in peace remi close to tears now i dont know why good people have to go like this it just goes to show how precious these little time we have on earth is, it could be anyone's turn tomorrow
ReplyDeleterest in peace remi close to tears now i dont know why good people have to go like this it just goes to show how precious these little time we have on earth is, it could be anyone's turn tomorrow
ReplyDeleteVery sad indeed. Just saw the news on facebook. I knew Remi since 2007 when we sat together on a flight to Dubai.We bacame friends since then. Very nice woman
ReplyDeleteO my HRM still feel like this is a bad dream, was only getting to know you and the lord has received you, am soooooo sad...but God knows best...may God console and comfort your family IJN
ReplyDeleteThis has to change, we are loosing this generation of young women to child birth. We need to demand better and quality healthcare and there needs to be accountability when there is gross negligence such as this. I'm so heartbroken for you dear brother. This should not have happened. May Oluremi's soul rest in peace and justice prevail. God comfort those left behind.
ReplyDeleteMy cousin may God bless you and keep you in this moment, may his face shine upon you. I pray for grace great grace to go through this moment it's well with you and darasimi.
ReplyDeleteMay God comfort you and the rest of family she left behind. I cried as I read this as it reminds me of my late sister who died during the birth of her first & only child and never saw her baby due to a stupid & greedy doctor's negligence trying to play God.
ReplyDeleteOh with tears. may her soul find rest in the Lord. I hope you fine courage to ask questions. YES its time we ask questions. Nigerian women are dying needlessly from Child birth. For Gods sake this is 2015 and not 1520
ReplyDeleteFranca Aiyetan
I can only imagine how you feel at this trying moment Sanmi. All I can say is the it is well with your soul. May the Comforter himself console you and the whole family she left behind. Take heart bro. the Lord is the saving strength of his anointed. IT IS WELL WITH YOUR SOUL.
ReplyDeleteI can only imagine how you feel Olusanmi, but I know it is well with your soul. My prayer is that the Comforter himself will comfort you and the family at large, may the peace that passes all understanding rule your heart at this trying moment, it is well my brother with your soul.
ReplyDeleteso sad, RIP
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