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Question of the day: Which is an easier secret to keep?

A LIB reader wants me to ask this. Which is easier to divulge to Nigerians; that you have HIV/AIDS or that you are homosexual?

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    1. Hiv ooo cuz there r lots of nigerians living with hiv yet the public knows less than 20

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    2. Both. Once u tell me you are homosexual,i take it to mean that you are HIV positive.

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    1. Hiv is easier. Depending on who υ̲̣̥r̲̅ divulging to sha.

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  3. Question 4 d gods.

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  4. Question 4 d gods

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  5. Ok HIV is way easier to keep secret nobody kwns excerpt you, taking drugs is normal pple wnt ask both Homo? Lol

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  6. Linda if u like one topic,u aways bring it up till em tier us.chaii

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  7. U can hide/tell abt HIV...I no mention AIDS oo....the drugs help a looot!!
    But HOMO....u better hide am...cos 14yrs dey wait u...n only prayer can hlp u

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  9. Just tell the person during an intimate chat.
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  10. Homo is far better. But sinful. Engr Emy

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  11. Non,tell dem u are gay,u either get beaten or lynched,tell dem got AIDS u are stigmatized, alienated ,pple will tink u are promiscuous,and gossiped about.. D best thing is keep ur mouth shut! Nobody need to know if u are gay or not,ur sexual orientation is no ones business! And tell only pple u trust bout ur HIV status

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  12. Which is less painful, the left or the right horn of a bull? This post brings that question to mind.

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  13. In the case of homosexuality it takes two to screw ass hole so

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  14. That i am none, thats easier.

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  15. >>>> That you are Homo, cos they hope you gonna straight one day, HIV/Aids ain't got cure. <<<<

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  16. bothat are deadly oo but i thing homo is easy secrete to keep..that thing is sick act!


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  17. None! I guess this question is probably taken from my comment on ur post abt Badmus the other day right? 2 huge issues for only one person to deal with!

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  18. Mehn this is really tough..... NON







    Heaven on Earth

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  19. The easier secret is after receiving a hot slap frm me and I won't tell anyone @LIB reader. Hopeless question!

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  20. None...keep your secrets to yourself #Shikena


    #Omoh

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  21. That u are homosexual is better to keep...HIV ke?
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  22. That u are homosexual is better to keep...HIV ke?
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  23. This question is really really tricky..dey all carry the same penalty

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  24. That you are homosexual...is a better secret to divulge,reasons been that people will not run away from you unlike you saying you have hiv.lolz

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  25. Have yo all noticed the comments are displayed faster now...Tenx Linda cos sometimes I just see a post and all I wanna do is read only the comments.

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  26. Homosexual is an easier secret to keep

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  27. Dat u av HIV/AIDS. Linda take note!

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  28. Homosexuality has actually become the order of the day..which shouldn't be so atall..lets say NO to Homosexuality..it is well. 1 Cor 6:18-19. @Bishop_Dammy

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  29. Homosexuals of course. Nigerians dread AIDS than they do Homosexuals.

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  30. THat you have HIV is an easier secret till it manifest to AIDs though. One can detect gay expecially men easily

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  31. Homo is harder. 1. you get to go to jail for 14yrs, rmb? 2. social persecution.
    HIV/AIDS is curable now. They have a strong group and can marry and have kids that not only do not have HIV but I predict would be resistant to the HIV virus. Their blood may, in future, be used to treat HIV because their body can generate antibodies that can fight the virus. (you heard here first. lol)

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  32. That u re homo is beta ooooo, cos with dt, u cn still ve frnd's bt for HIV, o boy ooo u dey on ur own oooo.
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  33. Homosexual is easier to keep.
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  34. It has to be HIV / AIDS OO.... #Bad Market#

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  35. As a Nigerian, being a homosexual would be easier to hide than having Hiv/Aids. No discrimination against Hiv/Aids patients and definitely no jail time for being infected. If you are a homo on the other hand....

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  36. As a Nigerian, being a homosexual would be easier to hide than having Hiv/Aids. No discrimination against Hiv/Aids patients and definitely no jail time for being infected. If you are a homo on the other hand....

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  37. That's a tough one make I read comments but in Nigeria we always want to believe that people should be perfect and have perfect lives but that can't always be d case cos are r all imperfect and people should b accepted with their imperfections

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  38. hehe its as clear as glass, Miss... the moment one spills the beans bout getting the #homo vibes... one's life will never remain the same... guess the deficiency virus is a lot more easy to take in...#justsaying
    Cherrio

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  39. To Nigerians saying you r HIV positive is easier than telling them you are gay....i guess.

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  40. HIV/AIDS, nigerians r not afraid of it. but say u r homosexual, u myt end up commiting suicide.

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  41. Easier?id say being homosexual o.cos a lot of nigerians are still in 1970 when it comes to things that concern hiv.once U tell them,Ur already an outcast..besides they know you can still stop being homosexual but hiv is for life.we just need to educate people about those things.

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  42. Hmmmmm! Questn for the gods!

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  43. I prefer wen d person tells me. He or she is HIV becos hiv can be treated. ,if d person takes his or her medication very well but if person come out as gay..omo I run frm am like johnbenson o..lol

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  44. It's easier to divulge that u are homo... at least no one is gona get hurt health wise.

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  45. That you are homosexual i think

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  46. I prefer wen d person tells me. He or she is HIV becos hiv can be treated. ,if d person takes his or her medication very well but if person come out as gay..omo I run frm am like johnbenson o..lol

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  47. i see being a homosexual easy to divulge..atleast use the signs and body language..well its not d case for pple living with Aids/Hiv dont just dilvulge such info..anyways#say_no_to_discrimination.

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  48. Oh meeeen! None of the above. Either way, you are done for.

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  49. I prefer wen d person tells me. He or she is HIV becos hiv can be treated. ,if d person takes his or her medication very well but if person come out as gay..omo I run frm am like johnbenson o..lol

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  50. That u re homosexual is easier for me to say. To avoid ppl running away from u n avoiding I like leper

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  51. OH! Shoot! I was making a case for the wrong question, (which is easier secret to let out?). Back on track, HIV is easier secret to keep. Just take your drugs and you will be fine. The drugs will make you add weight so if you smile always people will think you are balling. On the hand, Homo is a lifestyle. (wrong and silly lifestyle) Lifestyle is an everyday living issue. How do you hide that???

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  52. Being Hiv/AIDS is much easier to divulge

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  53. Lol. I think HIV/AIDS. Cuz quite a good percentage of Nigerians will still interact with u(to a limit sha). Awareness has made that possible. As 4 being homosexual, lol. A low percentage of Nigerians will accept that easily, cuz of belief and how d society criticises IT.

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  54. Definitely easier to come out and talk about AIDS now. At least you don't get a jail sentence for that one and you can keep your head.

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  55. Is homo, once people notice u hav Aids dey will flee

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  56. Dat you are homosexual of course

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  57. Dat you are homosexual of course

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  58. Dat you are homosexual of course

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  59. See me see questn, no one is good to hear sef

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  60. I think HIV is better cos u dnt go to prison for that, and if u ar the carefree type that does not give a damn about what plp thnk of u, then i thnk u wld live well wth plp knowing u ar Hiv positive

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  61. HIV is not that stigmatized as such and people are now less ignorant about it. But being gay in Nigeria, you will be treated worse than an outcast so better to stay in closet until you move to Europe not Russia or USA

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  62. In Nigeria they can digest that your HIV+ than that your a homosexual. It wouldn't go down well on their throat.

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  63. GUESS THE 1ST IS EASIER...HIV/AIDS...HOMOSEXUAL NEWS NA 14YRS STRAIGHT!

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  64. I think dat u hav Hiv is better cos being guy is not a good thing @ all. Hiv is not ur fault d society and d govt may accept u. But being gay mennn

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  66. They are both just as heavy! On the one hand if you are broke and HIV positive, chances are you are gonna die soon and with that your "shame", but if you are rich and can manage it, well you might get stigmatized! So they are just the same.

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  67. whos asking? godwin ongx? cant spell his name properly tho

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  68. Abeg, no come infect us with HiV oo.




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  69. HIV/AIDS is more easier dan homosexual cos homosexual is something that has to do with feeling.


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  70. Aunty Linda you are the one indirectly asking us shey? After yesterday's drama.smh

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  71. Kenny'a actions have answered that one na... It is clearly easier to admit to being HIV positive than a gay man. But i'm betting the reverse would be the case for women.

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  72. Please ask the faggot Badmus

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  74. I guess homosexual is easier to divulge

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  75. homosexual.

    Miss indomie says so

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  76. HIV is easier to divulge

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  77. OMG, this two secrets ain't easy to divulge ooo

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  78. OMG, this two secrets ain't easy to divulge ooo

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  80. None. I'm both and no one knows. Only my bf

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  81. None of d above
    Post by comment o

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  82. Linda kpachara anya gi oo, ogini? Every 2days in a week must be about sexuality preference on ur blog ! Ike agwula m biko! Anyone d person wants let him or her keep as a secret its his/ her burden. But I think nigerians will readily accept a hiv/aids patient than a sexually wired person, no offence! May God help us all

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  83. Linda kpachara anya gi oo, ogini? Every 2days in a week must be about sexuality preference on ur blog ! Ike agwula m biko! Anyone d person wants let him or her keep as a secret its his/ her burden. But I think nigerians will readily accept a hiv/aids patient than a sexually wired person, no offence! May God help us all

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  84. Linda kpachara anya gi oo, ogini? Every 2days in a week must be about sexuality preference on ur blog ! Ike agwula m biko! Anyone d person wants let him or her keep as a secret its his/ her burden. But I think nigerians will readily accept a hiv/aids patient than a sexually wired person, no offence! May God help us all

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  85. That you are homosexual.


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  86. both, no be small thing oooo




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  87. I think HIV\AIDS is easier to make known to the public in all African country because as Africans they claim Gay is a disgraceful act and shouldn't be made known to people....vut personally I would've prefer Gay so that people won't make mistake of marrying a gay man
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  88. Homosexual is better


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  89. I think HIV\AIDS is easier to make known to the public in all African country because as Africans they claim Gay is a disgraceful act and shouldn't be made known to people....but personally I would've prefer Gay so that people won't make mistake of marrying a gay man
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  90. HMMMM THE TWO IS VERY DIFFICULT BUT THE TRUTH IS KEEPING SECRET INVOLVE A LOT OF THINGS!!IF YOU DONT HAVE THE COUREAGE YOU MAY NOT KEEP SECRET SO I WILL SAY KEEPING IS MORE DIFFICULT!!JC

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  91. HMMMM THE TWO IS VERY DIFFICULT BUT THE TRUTH IS KEEPING SECRET INVOLVE A LOT OF THINGS!!IF YOU DONT HAVE THE COUREAGE YOU MAY NOT KEEP SECRET SO I WILL SAY KEEPING IS MORE DIFFICULT!!JC

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  92. Hahahaha, non. Nigerians are very judgemental!

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  93. HIV-stigmatization
    GAY- 14yrs jail term
    The truth is that these days, some nigerians are indifferent abt homosexuals. Its not freakish anymore
    I go with homosexual

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  94. None of the above.

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  95. Seems this homosexuality of a thing is out shinning lesibianism, which confirms to me that it is not natural at all. Only bcos men mostly think with their dicks. Men are so imature.

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  96. Seems this homosexuality of a thing is out shinning lesibianism, which confirms to me that it is not natural at all. Only bcos men mostly think with their dicks. Men are so imature.

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  97. Lol. Linda what a question!

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  98. I THINK LINDA Z A LESBO...................................... Such a waste of pussy

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  99. That u have HIV/AIDS. With d right drugs pple may neva know. But wt being a homosexual, sooner or later pple are gonna wanna see u wt a woman, either dating or married 2 her. How do u hide dat? Especially 4rm ur caring mother.

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  100. Homosexual. 14yrs imprisonment dats if police safe u4rm d hnds of angry mob ,HIV /aids life sentence wit stima n tinkin ,both of dem hard o

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  101. I could keep both anywayz. U can't force it off my mouth.

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  102. I think HIV/AIDS is easier to hide than homosexuality.... Everybody needs love

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  103. NONE! almost same stigmatization! people will generally look at you and treat you like you are unclean and unhealthy!

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  104. Better HIV/AIDS.





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  105. Homosexual. 14yrs imprisonment dats if police safe u4rm d hnds of angry mob ,HIV /aids life sentence wit stima n tinkin ,both of dem hard o

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  106. If you tell your friend that you have HIV, consider your self dead already.

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  107. The both will be better to be disclosed

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  108. I don't want to think about a situation like that but being HIV positive is easier.

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  109. It's homosexuality becos no body is actually gay it's a choice so if u don't want it you can just change

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  110. I can keep both oh but the safer one to let out is the HIV positive own

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  111. Hard one- but there's hope for both in Christ Jesus.

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  112. Homosexuality

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  113. Paraphrase, the question should be: Which is harder to divulge...?
    Cos none of the two scenerio are EASY ( talk less of easier) to divulge in our clime called Nigeria.

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  114. homosexual is easier to be divulge. homo is something you live with if you are.there is nothing you can do to it.let appreciate each others feeling.

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  115. Hehrhhehehe die with your secret ooh

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  116. Being Hiv/Aids positive is easy

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  117. Abeg na HIV cos d stigma is less. Neva will I accept Homo.

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  118. None oooooo linda cos both na bad thing in dis country... dee

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  119. I think it is easier to say you R HIV +ve in Nigeria of today because of the law on homosexuality.

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  120. Definitely homosexual, cos a lot of Nigerians associate hiv/aids with death. Once u tell people u are hiv+ they stop being ur friend and start avoiding u.

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  121. Most definitely HIV/AIDS, trust me I know.

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