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Sunday, 25 January 2015

"I was so scared to let the world know I was pregnant for a younger man" Toyin Lawani shares moving story

She shared this on instagram this afternoon

I remember when I got pregnant I was so scared to let the world know, No 1 had a clue until they saw me on the runway at Africa fashion week London,was almost 8months then,I used to worry Alot abt what people would say if i had a baby for someone younger, My Boo would Beg me endlessly and say my love care not I'm by your side, His parents where so Amazing and supportive,i was so shocked cause I didn't expect that kind of love and support, I almost didn't want to go through with it, severally I would change my mind,I will sit in d hospital thinking endlessly should I or should I not.
my doc will say Toyin its just 9months ,A positive voice constantly kept telling me My love when you meet this bundle of joy in your stomach you will not care ....And Alot of negative voices kept begging me to take it out that it was a bad idea,Well Imagine if I had listened to the world or if I was too scared to carry on cause of what people will say?...I would have missed out on this Beautiful Blessing....My son is the most handsome Boy ever I've ever seen and so is my Beautiful daughter...

Happy Sunday yall Don't let voices of others make you kill your Blessings,Believe in Yourself and ask God for help cause he's the only man that can get you there....Too many kill Joy in this so called Nigeria but im sorry to burst your bubble,i dont Give a Shit about wht society think ,i came to this world Alone and im Going Alone,Live your life to the fullest cause oneday you will look back and realize u missed out on all the things u could have done for urself ,just because you cared too much about wht society would say or Think abt u....Anytime I feel down I look at my kids @lilatmfashionista and @lordmaine1 and all I do is Smile..went thru Alot but through it all only one person stood by me @lordtrigg Thanks for this Blessing...Even my so called Bestfriend told me ah toyin if u leave ur ex u will suffer oo and i told her hey dear dont forget i have my talent and handwork ,i will just suffer for a while,I thank God that I don't look like what I've been tru..I Thank God for his continous Blessings on my life and family #ATMFASHIONISTA #HAPPYSUNDAYALL

111 comments:

  1. So what's my business?!...Abeg pack oneside jare!

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    1. Hater...go born ur own....

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    2. Pls tell her well...
      As if she is d first or she is going to b d last.

      When she was opening her legs for him, d she let d world to knw.

      Now she is broadcasting her life lik news.

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    3. @Toyin can like to deceive herself...OK...u think say we be small pikin bah?

      Who no know,no know

      No worry...ur Hang bag boy of a husband go demand paternity test one day.....

      Juju go soon clear
      God can't be mocked



      "Heaven on earth!!"Wonders without end,that's my new realm"



      @Galore

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    4. Sometimes, u just have to walk in someone's shoes to really get a clue of what they must have gone through or going through. Nigerians r dream killers. If u have 5friends, 4 of them will always want to pull u down. The best thing is to follow υ̲̣̥r̲̅ instincts. Enemies of progress too much in this country! Sometimes its just best to be the so called ireland.

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    5. Awwwwwwww, your happiness matters.

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    6. Awwww so happy for her.its good to b urslf

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    7. This are the story people give to feel good about their self after doing something they knw deep down inside of them is wrong.

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    8. I taya o nnenne
      Abegy park well jorrr mek we hear another tin
      Shiooooo

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    9. @ Jules louis I think u mean Island, not ireland

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    10. Wow! I so much love toyin for this, love has nothing to do with age

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  2. .....Happy U





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  4. Which world is she talking about? Your relatives you mean to say.
    Sounding like one Beyounce or Oprah.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

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    1. I tire o, when she was opening legs she didn't know, with the gold wey the boy pack put for neck, his parents were just looking for a way to dispose him. Later now Na break up we go hear. She go say "he is not matured". Like say she see maturity for e body before.

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    2. Oh here you are Bonario. I need to see ur comments more often!

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    3. Bona is busy dis days campaining for 'change' (Buhari).

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    4. @Bonario d thing tire me oh

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  5. Nice one, i lovr strong women!!

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  6. Abeg make I hear word. You enjoyed the fuck, so why would you be scared to let the world know about it?

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    1. Well, its your choice. Be happy and enjoy your man for as long as you have him.

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  7. Linda, stop looking for a man who is older than you, do a Toyin Lawani, you hear me? Lol.

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  8. Imagine her saying God is a man! God is not and can never be a man!!!

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  9. Tho gettn pregnant out of wedlock is nt really d best Buh I Tnk God u had courage

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  10. Woooow, really touching but also encouraging. Tnx for sharing. Linda take note!

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  11. Woooow, really touching but also encouraging. Tnx for sharing. Linda take note!

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  12. I wish u d same dear... Vote for #change# vote Buhari and Osinbajo for president on the 14th of nest month

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  13. Woooow, really touching but also encouraging. Tnx for sharing. Linda take note!

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  14. Woooow, really touching but also encouraging. Tnx for sharing. Linda take note!

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  15. Just stay happy. It's nobody's business.

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  16. Awwww.. Thank God for you
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  17. I wish u d same dear... Vote for #change# vote Buhari and Osinbajo for president on the 14th of nest month

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  18. Too long to read....


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  19. I am so happy for you. What matters is that you keep believing in God

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  20. thank God she kept the baby. Its her life

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  21. Hmmmmmm,
    Pls take note of her words...
    "Happy Sunday yall Don't let voices of others make you kill your Blessings,Believe in Yourself and ask God for help cause he's the only man that can get you there...."

    Pls can someone tell her dat God is no "man".

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  22. Hmmmmmm,
    Pls take note of her words...
    "Happy Sunday yall Don't let voices of others make you kill your Blessings,Believe in Yourself and ask God for help cause he's the only man that can get you there...."

    Pls can someone tell her dat God is no "man".

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  23. Hmmmmmm,
    Pls take note of her words...
    "Happy Sunday yall Don't let voices of others make you kill your Blessings,Believe in Yourself and ask God for help cause he's the only man that can get you there...."

    Pls can someone tell her dat God is no "man".

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    1. Tell her nah, abi wetin do ur mouth. Una sabi hate. Tell ur own if you hv a beta story.

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  24. We hear, and u think d world won't eventually find out. Abeg this is no new jare

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  25. Eyah Touching story my foot...wen u were strafing didn't u know wat would come out...why mk it sound sympathetic now...Every body has a touching story,so urs ain't spectacular...NEXT PLS...

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  26. Good for her. Age doesn't matter much in relationships.
    $.
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    @Mr Endowed via Lumia phone

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  27. She can carry on o and turn herself into a baby factory. If her new baby daddy did not marry her she will give birth for her next guy and continue good luck hiss!!!

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  28. thank God you kept him. isn't he such a light in your life now? I'll bet he is.

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  29. She shared how she felt then,it wasn't easy

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  30. So what do you want us to do with your story?

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  31. Wow d baby is such a cutie

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  32. Ok, good for her. I know in a country filled with myopic individuals, it's not an easy feat to pull off. Admire her courage.

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  33. I feel you,i pray I have a better to tell too.Gdluck babes......1love.Kissrs

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  34. How will this stop BH menace in Nig...still wondering....

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  35. May God bless her union as long as she puts God first. She should ignore haters; it's your life. Haters are never happy for others which is why they themselves don't enjoy long lasting happiness. BTW, as others have said, it ain't nobody's business and age is just a number. People get out of your 18th century mentality.....the rest of the world has moved on.

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  36. Wht of d man wu stood by u den ?

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  37. WHO ELSE SAW THE BIG THING IN THAT GUYS GAY RED PANTS?

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    1. Ha ha ha ha. I did o. Na d thing dey cause trouble so. As she chop am on saturday night, hold am for mouth reach Sunday morning, she come turn wole soyinka. #prickmagic

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  38. MR EDDY said this Heat wan kill person o. I miss Harmattan.

    It's a Good thing you did not commit the shameful act.
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  39. Awwww. Toyin I love u 4ds. Ure an inspiration. God bless u and ur kids. Muah*

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  40. Toyin get lost when you where fucking the boy raw with out condoms you didn't know you will get pregnant?useless old woman ,juju woman calling God the god you serve is a man .you are a learner

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  43. Madam 4get age,its nothing but numbers. I luv ur write up on this::::
    I came to this world Alone and im Going Alone,Live your life to the fullest cause oneday you will look back and realize u missed out on all the things u could have done for urself ,just because you cared too much about wht society would say or Think abt u..


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  44. Girl you made your bed lie comfortably on it. You don't have to try garnering sympathy to justify your choices. Just do you.

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  45. Awwww! Believe in God and in urself

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  46. Pls, let dis woman be, enjoy urself and be prayerful Toyin, its so obvious so many pple want to see Ʊ crash, stay out of social media.. All is well..

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  47. Story for d okija shrine....non of my biz.

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  48. You fuck you born oya make we hear word..Linda you are going to fall your blog with story's like this.

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  49. Congratulations for ur courage

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  50. Thank GOD bad belle pple stop drinking panadol for another mans handche it her life..

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  51. This LIB readers are so dumb somtimes.

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  52. This write up is just too Amazing! BLESS UP TOYIN!

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  53. Good for you. The older the better.

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  54. Her shade to Tonto Dikeh tho.. 😅😅😅😅😅😅

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  55. I feel u sister. God is the only one that sees the heart. Great that u looked up to God n the enemies never triumphed!

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  56. Good for you. This sounds more of trying to curry sympathy than motivational. Onto the next...

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  57. Nah,dis is not xciting. How far wud dis go on? Dat guy onLy came to SampLe. He wud soon run away. GirL don't come crying. Enjoy d moments. SimiLar stories all Over Planet Earth. Let's read interesting Stories.

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  58. Happy for her. As long as their happy, then its fine

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  59. How many more times much she talk about this same subject matter? Every time you read something from her its always connected to her relationship with her much younger man, which much always be mentioned, it cannot be just two ppl in a relationship, the fact that he is so much younger must always be mentioned.. Nobody cares, it's your life, your dick..enjoy it and keep it moving.

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  60. port/harcourt bois nor dey carry last, breezy rugged u!!!! infatuation is whats on ground not love TOYIN!!!!!!

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  61. Stupid girl looking for publicity, you ain't scared fucking a younger boy abi!!! Ayangba

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  62. I love Toyin because she's really hardworking,A lot of people don't really know her personal life,she shows you all what she wants you to see,I'm sure if half of you even see how amazing she really lives her life ;I'm sure you will all die of hate , excellent mother and the most industrous woman i've ever known in my life,my sister ride on for we who know you we know you ,I'm so glad you left all those your cokehead friend's, tonto, Yvonne ,toke,jecinta ,keep up your good work

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  63. Why won't u be scared u gave birth without a traditional or even white weDding you know its wrng naaa.mtchew!and ladies stop that thing

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  64. cool...a good one for d week.

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  65. age its just a number. Its all about understanding, compatibility and love

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  66. but u shd av tot abt that when u were doing the tin na

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  67. I like where she said "I don't look loke what I've been through".
    That's the testimony right there.

    Thank for coming out, a lot of relate with this.

    Cheers!

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  68. Oluwajuni Precious
    Multi:more than one
    Media:channel of passing a massage
    Multimedia:This are the different ways of through which messages are passed to an audience.It consist of one than one element of media,this story consist of Text and Still pictures.
    From:Caleb University,Imota Lagos.

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  69. I have meet this lady before. So nice and happy. If she is happy with her self there is no need to condem her? Everyone makes mistake. Am happy for you dear Toyin at least you did not go for an abortion.

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  70. Oluwajuni Precious
    Multi:more than one
    Media:channel of passing a message
    Multimedia:This are the different ways through which messages are passed to an audience.It consist of more than one element of media,the story consist of text and still pictures.
    From:Caleb university,Imota,Lagos.

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  71. Gosh! LIB readers can be so lame sometimes! This is such an inspiring story can't you guys see?
    Thanks, Toyin Lawani for sharing. God bless you.

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  72. Nigerians are just so rude.... lol I have been laffin my as out at these comments.

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