I had been in an off and on relationship for nearly eight years, though we were more off than on. There were times I tried to move on but I always allowed my emotions to draw me back since I loved the guy in question to a fault. I can't begin to narrate all the things he put me through, he can be very arrogant and so full of himself yet I would excitedly run back into his arms whenever he chose to open them to me again.Sometime in the middle of last year, I traveled for his younger sister's marriage. She's a close friend of mine too. I had thought that would be an opportunity to reconcile with my man (we were in one of our off sessions then) but that didn't happen. Instead I met with the biggest disappointment and embarrassment of my life. My guy formed too busy and was not ready to give me any attention. All through my stay in their family house, he made extra effort to avoid any form of contact with me so I let him be.
Anyway, something else happened during my stay. His maternal uncle (not an old man please, but a young adorable guy in his late thirties) became interested in me. We exchanged contacts, became friends right away and later started a relationship.
Now he has asked me to marry him and of course I said yes! I have since told him about his nephew and I.
However, my head ache now is that my ex and his sister are accusing me of trying to ruin the relationship between them and their uncle, my bae... They've been sending me text messages and throwing shades at me on social networks. It's really heartbreaking as most of the things they post are demeaning. Was I wrong in accepting to marry him? Should I have said no? I am not going back on the wedding which has been fixed for Easter, but I want to be convinced that I'm not treacherous as they both said I am.
It's better now. He MUST respect you as his uncle's wife.
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U don't know ur boundaries. Hoeloshi
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ReplyDeleteJust imaginning how you'd face them all your life
Girl abeg forget them & marry your guy jare
ReplyDeleteDear Poster, carry on with the wedding! With Joy in your heart sef. If there's no rule(against) or abomination about sleeping with nephew and uncle( that's if you slept with your ex-boyfriend) pls go on. He had a good thing and he lost it! Now he is crying wolf! Mstchew! Abeg carry go!
ReplyDeleteEwo dats a sin
ReplyDeleteChai! Omg! Lol...
ReplyDeleteIt's your happiness that is most important. Don't mind what they say or do.
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He should be mad at u more tbh
ReplyDeleteWhy re U doing family circle......Why not find love somewhere else.........d sista is ur frnd.....his broda was ur ex nd now is uncle wanna be ur husband.....Its just too somehow.....
ReplyDeleteMoye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB....
Please if you're happy with him and he loves you back, go on with your marriage and put those haters into prayers. Life must go on na...BTW Linda I'm still waiting for your story because most of your posts inspire me...well, not to eggplants and d unnecessary amebos#lol
ReplyDeleteFollow your heart ♥ girlfriend!
ReplyDeleteSo what's the point seeking our opinion when you're not going back on your decision? Please keep going front.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind dem, do your thing gal..
ReplyDeleteDon't mind dem, do your thing gal..
ReplyDeleteHe should had clapped for you ni?
ReplyDeleteAre they Mad! Young woman good men are scarce! Scarce! It's hard to find someone that won't waste your 8 years. Your ex is an idiot and he is just beginning to realise it.
ReplyDeleteCarry on, nothing do you
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U re meant 4 d uncle, datin d nephew was a mistake in ur past #winks. God bless ur union no matter wat anybody say. Go wit d man who cherish and knw ur worth
ReplyDeleteMy dear! Continue wit ur marriage plan! Congt to u guys! Bt I hope d uncle is nt a married man!
ReplyDeleteMy sister biko go ahead.it is said that you dont know the value of what you have till you lose it.its too late for your ex and it has hit him in the face.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm...... jus figure it out
ReplyDeleteMtchew his uncle are u sick? Yea u must be sick!
ReplyDeleteThis na serious love issue. That means you don't really love the uncle. Why the deceitful I do? www.ikeani.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteMy dear move on. You ain't at fault.
ReplyDeleteAm sure the question is for the gods .
ReplyDeleteYou should have said no...
ReplyDeleteBut is your choice!!!!
Why date two people in the same family
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They should all go to hell go ahead an married their uncle if he so much love u
ReplyDeletebabe carry on....some guys don't learn until someone that knows your worth take you away....go ahead with the wedding ....also tell ur man what his nephew and niece are doing...let him deal with them
ReplyDeleteLive your life
ReplyDeleteHow does our opinion affect the decision u have taken? Abeg rest
ReplyDeleteDEAR EDIOT,IF YOUR EX CAN PAY ME,I CAN HELP HIM KILL YOU.YOU MUST HAVE BEING DATING HIM WHILE YOU WERE ON WITH YOUR EX....AKA....BRAWLING
ReplyDeleteHis uncle are u sick? Yea u must be sick!
ReplyDeleteFirstly, u have to come out clean wit ur fiance, tell him everything that transpired between u & his nephew. God will take care of d rest. Best of luck.
ReplyDelete@Sophia Stephen
Please go ahead with the wedding. I've learned that opportunity is never lost, someone will eventually take the one you missed.
ReplyDeleteHe sees you as a poison and someone sees you as his BREAD, nothing do you my sister. Their action is all about jealousy and guilty conscience.
You did nothing wrong in accepting to marry him. You told the uncle about your relationship with his nephew and he didn't mind; if you both love each other, go for it girl.
ReplyDeleteA man that kept on ignoring you like a plague When u loved n wanted him back. God prepared something bigger and better 4 u. As long as he has the fear of God in him,cares,loves and respects u pls marry him over and over again. You ain't a traitor they are. GBAM!
ReplyDeleteAbeg carry go nothing do you. You've been with him 4 eight years dats enuf tym 4 anyone to make a firm decision & stand by it, if it az not worked with him 4 eight den move on. Abeg tym waits 4 no one especially d female folks. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteAbeg carry go nothing do you. You've been with him 4 eight years dats enuf tym 4 anyone to make a firm decision & stand by it, if it az not worked with him 4 eight den move on. Abeg tym waits 4 no one especially d female folks. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteMy dear please go ahead with the wedding,you're a woman and can't afford to waste much time,abeg ignore them.
ReplyDeleteAbeg carry go nothing do you. You've been with him 4 eight years dats enuf tym 4 anyone to make a firm decision & stand by it, if it az not worked with him 4 eight den move on. Abeg tym waits 4 no one especially d female folks. Linda take note!
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ReplyDeleteov cos he has to be angry..i think hez just been jealous..but life goes on..
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Wooow, sounds weird, but girl u followed ur heart which is the most important thing. Be ready for the worst though
ReplyDeleteYou've done nothg wrong jare. Carry on wit the wedding. Solider go solider come, barrack remain the same.
ReplyDeleteLet him go and sleep! Enemy of progress.
ReplyDeleteSlap urself 2tyms den u get d answer.
ReplyDeleteDnt mind dem o, enemy of progress, as long as Ʊ luv ur man and he loves Ʊ, and his family accepts Ʊ, Ʊ dnt av a p o, off and on for 8yrs and his sister is getting married, its so obvious they dnt want ur happiness, pls try ur best and avoid them and be very prayerful cos that ur guy is vry wicked... Pls, pray well o, make dem no put sand sand 4 ur garri o.. All is well..
ReplyDeleteI dont support d idea of getting married to ur bf's uncle
ReplyDeleteLet him go and sleep! Enemy of progress
ReplyDeleteRelationship matter can tier me o!
ReplyDeleteHmmmm,but u get mind sha oo,they should let u be,some1 else is interested in you
ReplyDeleteabeg contn with ur marriage plan o dnt mind dem. Nan so now, person wey no appreciate wetin in get must loose am. @funmimy
ReplyDeleteDnt mind dem o, enemy of progress, as long as Ʊ luv ur man and he loves Ʊ, and his family accepts Ʊ, Ʊ dnt av a p o, off and on for 8yrs and his sister is getting married, its so obvious they dnt want ur happiness, pls try ur best and avoid them and be very prayerful cos that ur guy is vry wicked... Pls, pray well o, make dem no put sand sand 4 ur garri o.. All is well..
ReplyDeletemy dear, ignore them both.....that`s men 4 u, when u r with them, they don`t know your worth and when u leave, u become d treacherous one. If u are happy with your new man and all previous grounds are known, then go ahead.............
ReplyDeleteFinally, no union on this earth is wholly supported by everybody, just make sure u r in it for the right reasons. Good-luck.......
You are not treacherous hun
ReplyDeleteYour ex and his sister are immature rabbits.
Send them IV
Girlfriend you made a mistake by accepting him.you will nt enjoy your marriage if you take that step.
ReplyDeleteYou are a heartless bastard
ReplyDeleteLife is too short! Plz do wat makes you happy.
ReplyDeleteYou are not dear!!! Marry the uncle if you love him!!! Damn your ex, idiot ex!!! What is ex!? Ex is rubbish!!!
ReplyDeleteShuuu abeg forget them! They r all crazy! What's the guyz problem sef, him want y he carry am go mkt. He doesn't want u n doesn't want u to be happy that's evil. Gurl move on with ur life and forget them jare
ReplyDeleteChile, live your life and be happy. the guy clearly didn't want you then, so why he mad now?
ReplyDeleteenemies of progress
Jesus!see sentimental people o...don't mind dem mbok!go ahead n marry d sweet guy.since mr Ego feels u're not gud enuf 4 him.and 4 d insults they're throwing,dust 'em off.
ReplyDeletelike seriously who does that.
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ReplyDeleteBitch look elsewhere
ReplyDeleteTell them to go hug a live transformers.
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile, I still have a crush on #lauraikeji
Huh?linda nwa ikeji keije....
ReplyDeleteBabe, carry on with your plans. When the wedding finally happens, they'll take a chill pill and let you be.
ReplyDeleteBusy Fingers.
U not. Dey no wnt mk u marry? U wld surely marry 1 day nw bt marryn d uncle is some how bt we in d advance world anitin cn appen #wink#
ReplyDeleteI will strongly disagree with the marriage. Please there are great guys out there.
ReplyDeleteMarrying that uncle is like creating issues for yourself. In fact, you shouldn't have agree to date the uncle to begin. Where is your Pride? PLEASE don't do it
You are good to go jare, notin do you. #lindagiveawayonmymind
ReplyDeletethis is funny and serious at the same time. checkout more touching stories at wrdstory.blogspot.com thanks
ReplyDeleteYawa dey ohhh
ReplyDeleteCongratulations darling, you have met the person God kept for you don't be discouraged. Good luck
ReplyDeleteNne Uve already made up your mind!.. what more do u need?
ReplyDeleteChoice differs but I wouldn't If I were in your shoes! It seems awkward
ReplyDeleteWow!... u tried to cop wit all those shit from ur X n now u'v moved on n cin a true love though his uncle, he has collided wit his Sis dat is already married to spoil ur joy! Hmmm Datz a serious one. Hope u'v told ur man (der uncle) abt wot dey are putting up!? Please do if not n b prayerful love. Everyfin will sort out fine! Have faith...
ReplyDeleteYou've done nothing wrong. With time they will get use to the fact that you've moved on.so u should stay back and 1 guy will keep shagging and trashing you.biko HML in advance
ReplyDeleteDon't mind them joor. Has far as the new man loves and respect you; and you are also at peace when you with him. Don't allow anyone determine your happiness.. Forget about your ex and his sister. They will soon get use to the situation...
ReplyDeleteWhatever rocks ur boat is Good for you.it is ur future baby girl.
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If this is real and you love the guy,please go ahead ther's nothing bad since you guys were not married. Congrats in advance.
ReplyDeleteMy dear go on ur marriage arrangement,infact your vry lucy,dat guy is not meant for u.congrt my dear.......... God just use him to connect u to ur bone.
ReplyDeleteYou shouldn't care about what they say, if you love this man go ahead and forget them...they don't matter,its your life biko!
ReplyDeleteGo girl, ur doing the thing God punish satan
ReplyDeleteI don't think ua wrong with ur decision but you have to tell ur to be husband everything nd take it to God too!
ReplyDeleteWhere you made the mistake is that you didn't let enough time drift between your on and off relationship before moving on to the UNCLE. I fear you might have started bad blood between the 2 men, look at the bigger picture even though your ex deserves all the pain in the world. Anyway it is a maternal uncle so the repercussions might not be that great. Congratulations to both of you.
ReplyDeleteTotally wrong, what were u xpecting frm him and his sister?hugs and pay on d back?
ReplyDeleteNo u r not! Pls go ahead wt ur plans
ReplyDeleteWen u need d guy,he was nt dere for u,now his uncle want to marry u,he is now angry..my dear go ahead and marry his uncle...as far as u have told him (d uncle) about his nephew ,go ahead n marry him..
ReplyDeleteYou did what you had to do, he wasn't serious and now u re happy, he wants to pull u back to himself, carry go my dear
ReplyDeleteYou did what you had to do, he wasn't serious and now u re happy, he wants to pull u back to himself, carry go my dear
ReplyDeleteHe is jealous someone found a jewel in d trash he took for granted! This is d bezt karma next revenge! Don't ever back down! You did not wrong! What he took for granted another valued!.......
ReplyDeleteIf u really love that uncle n u notice that man love u too gal carry on with ur plan.
ReplyDeleteLol it's just paining them..go 'head girl..just tell their uncle and u too be careful cos they may try to ruin your relationship.. I see nothing treacherous in what u did
ReplyDeleteThey should both piss off! Especially the ex-boyfie! Why aren't they going after their "uncle"? Abeg Abeg Abeg....make yourself happy!
ReplyDeleteHmm this 1 get as e be ooooo. Lol, I wouldn't put myself in this. Situation at allllll. It's just too complicated.
ReplyDeleteGo on with your wedding plans, just ignore your ex and his siblings
ReplyDeleteMe I findd nothing wrong with it ooooo, u dated ur x serve as the way God want you to meet ur hubby, continue with the weeding if only u can avoid temptation when u see him.
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ReplyDeleteLol only you have smashed both uncle and nephew! Na wa o...you sef answer your own question.
ReplyDeleteMy dear. Wishing you a Happy Married Life jare. You will be most stupid to even listen to them. You did the right thing. May God bless your union. Congratulations.
ReplyDeleteYou are not being treacherous my dear.. pray and go ahead
ReplyDeleteGo ahead and marry ur man jor. But we for like hear d man side of d saga
ReplyDeleteMy dear marry nd b happy.i wnt 2 post a story on linda's blog how do I go about it
ReplyDeleteMy dear go on and marry him jare.ur ex is not serious and don't let anyone stop u from being happy
ReplyDeleteMy sista biko marry ur man!!! ur time wasting boyfriend and his sista have done their job; to lead u to ur husband... marry him and don't even think twice abt it
ReplyDeleteCan u imagine the devil asking if she's wicked, chai girls and marriage sha...
ReplyDeleteCarry on girl. You are not treacherous. ..He will learn to deal with it. So long as his uncle doesn't give a damn I have are good to go
ReplyDeleteBaby fire dey go.....as he no send you,better person come send you.....congrats babe
ReplyDeleteBabe carry on joor. They are all enemies of goid progress.
ReplyDeleteHa! See gobe! I had a similar experience,but was too scared to tell d uncle,nd his nephew whom I dated/was more of a constant fling,knew,i just culdnt go on,it was alrdy a too dirty for me to give in to marriage wiv d uncle,so my dear,hmmmmm...ur playin dirty
ReplyDeleteMove on but be careful of them. LIB EMPIRE
ReplyDeleteHmmm, this your case is critical. But I feel you have your life and they have theirs, they should learn to deal with what ever is making them feel uncomfortable about you marrying his uncle. Some people sef, you no serious now another person serious with the girl you da vex. Na wa oo
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My dear you are not wrong, some guys can be have like assholes , so he cares and decided to be putting you through all the mess and stress and now some one that found you worthy has been a man about the whole situation to make you happy and his telling you trash, my dear happy married life in advance. The sister should also meet a man that would treat her like her brother did to you and let's see if she would think twice
ReplyDeleteGo n marry......dey r crazy
ReplyDeleteBiko Ride on girl...Relationship is NOT a dettol advert, if he did not take care of you, someone else will....Mtcheeeeeeeww
ReplyDeleteBabe u have done notin wrong.d uncle knws ur worth and went 4 it.dey r family dey wuld settle it, live wiv it and get over it
ReplyDeleteHahahahah! Babe dt serves d mumu guy right, carry go with ur marriage abeg, men doesn't knw wt d hv untill d loose it, y e dey pain am now? Plsss if na me I go happy self he shuld fall inside river Niger for all I care, pls ignore d useless guy an move on. Ds destiny for u.just be sure his uncle loves u an can stand for u in all things becos d might cook up lies against u, just be vry careful an avoid ur ex an his sis. All d best darl
ReplyDeleteGal, congratulations ohhh dnt fall for that boy he wasnt ready to make an honest woman out of you so? if you are indeed sure you love this man you about to marry then marry him.Good luck
ReplyDeleteNigga wnts 2 eat his cake and have it,no way! Marry the uncle if you love him hon,fuck his sis nd him..The sis doesn't want u2 marry ni shebi she has marry
ReplyDeleteNone of his business. Let him go gaga if he wishes. #oneandonlynwa@gmail.com#
ReplyDeleteThis is serious, honestly if it was d other way arnd u'd be mad, but dat dnt mean u shld not accept, afterall ur ex was not rilly interested according to dis post
ReplyDeleteYou're free to marry is father and make him your stepson. Nne you're not wrong
ReplyDeleteYOUR EX IS JEALOUS! LEAVE THAT MOMO IN THE PAST AND ENJOY YOUR BAE. MAKE THEM NO PUT SAND SAND FOR YOUR GARRI!!!!
ReplyDeleteNo hun. You are not treacherous. His disappointment has become your blessing. That's how God works. Enjoy your marriage.
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Babe fuck them, they can never hold back ur joy ok. Marry that man abeg no tym....
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Marry him joor and don't mind them
ReplyDeleteMy dear u r not o but I hope u r not marrying ur 'bae' as revenge or out of despiration. As for ur ex, he's an idiot. Guys like dat will toy with u forever. Good thing u moved on
ReplyDeleteMy dear ride on biko. U deserve a better and more caring man. I think u should forget abt ur ex and his sister, they have no good excuse.
ReplyDeleteMy dear please go ahead with ur marriage plan. They say u don't know what u have until it's gone. They are only jealous of u.
ReplyDeleteCarry on.u r nt treacherous.#lindi change ur profile picshure #:)
ReplyDeleteIs the guy and sister that are treacherous. the sister sef is more wicked, were was she when the guy was maltreating you and ignoring you.
ReplyDeleteNonsense
My dear move on with ur better bae jare
He doesn't know the value of what he has until he lost it.
The way some girls behave to their brother's girlfriend or wife at times is annoying as if they're not women too and won't marry one day.
Absolutely not. As long as you are comfortable able the whole thing. If you slept with your ex, don't you feel somehow sleeping with the uncle? As long as you ave told your uncle boo about it and he accepts you then plsss be happy. They shouldn't come to the wedding if they are hurt abegii
ReplyDeleteNne pls gaan marry
ReplyDeletethe guy is just jealous, he thought no other guy would hit u, pls go on with ur marriage.
ReplyDeleteCarry go joor! The guy wan make u still be her girl toy... U found happiness, go ahead... Its your life not theirs...
ReplyDeleteI think u didn't properly end ur relationship wit ur ex before moving on, otherwise, why would he and his sister accuse u of being treacherous
ReplyDeleteUr happiness first girl....derz notin wrong wit ur decision, dey shud go Fuck demselves. @chidinma
ReplyDeleteWhy would you marry the uncle since you loved the other guy to a fault? Okafor's law is real oooooo.
ReplyDeleteCarry go,dont mind the kill joy dem. As long as your boo ain't complaining,na them teeth and tongue go pain.
ReplyDeletethat serves him right though.But you shouldn't have accept to marry any of his relatives,you made it clear that it was an on and off relationship,with time He'll come back to you.Even If you'll break up with him and marry someone else it shouldn't be anyone in that family.that's a lesson for him
ReplyDeleteListen to ur heart. If u are ok, fine! If u feel guilty or bad then end it!
ReplyDeleteMy dear go ahead and marry the guy. Who has time to be running around with an arrogant guy. As long you let his uncle know everything before marriage, don't worry about bro and sis.
ReplyDeleteShalom in Nigeria, Amen
Follow ur heart
ReplyDeleteOnce ur mind is clear, go ahead pls
ReplyDeleteRide on abeg! Nw he knows ur worth wen he had already lost u. Close ur FB page and open anoda one if need b jare.
ReplyDeleteU are not my dear. Although such a situation as urs doesn't happen often, but that doesn't mean u did anything wrong. Ur ex and his sister must have tried to convince ur Uncle against leaving u but he refused to listen to them. He prolly yells at them or avoids them cuz of d rubbish they are telling him Abt u. I bet that's y they feel u are trying to ruin their relationship with their uncle. Go ahead and get married to a man that loves u enuf to Wanna settle down wit u
ReplyDeleteLmao...my friends always say....If your boyfriend breaks your heart and his father is still young....go after his father , marry him and become his step mom....too bad for the boyfriend sha
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Babe if u kw he loves u and u love him as much, then u have to move on with d marriage and let the past relationship with is so-called nephew be a story cos he didn't love u for marriage and besides, if even if u guys date each other for ages is not the guarantee the u guys will be husband and wife. So babe continue with ur marriage cos such opportunity might never come again if u miss it just because of ppls prejudices.
ReplyDeleteMy dear go ahead.. forget those bad belle pp..
ReplyDeleteNo! You are not wrong babe. Love happened and that's all that matters. Your ex never really wanted you, his loss I say. He and his sister sounds like low-lifes. The only problemo here is are you truly sure you'll be comfortable seeing ur ex around ur fiance all the time. They are family and you'll be seeing him in all family functions. If you can handle that then happy married life in advance. Make them boil joor
ReplyDeleteNonsense . You are in a wring right relationship but with a wrong person . Just forget it ..
ReplyDeleteAbeg marry the man Joh! Whose fault is it that your ex is mumu
ReplyDeleteFollow ur heart girl. Do what u think is best for u.
ReplyDeleteFunny n not funny.
ReplyDeleteNo mind the maga. He is annoyed cos you don wise up. God bless your union I jaree
ReplyDeleteNothing do u jare
ReplyDeleteNne biko u are not treacherous. Go on and marry ur bae joor. Thank me later. But don't react negatively on any if their post on social media. Ok
ReplyDeleteYou have done nothing wrong! But remember, all things are good but not all things are expedient...
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My dear I see nothing wrong in what u did, u moved from an uncertain relationship to a more certain one where u now know were u are going. Abeg ignore d siblings and marry ur man since u have told him about your past wit his nephew.
ReplyDeleteYou have done nothing wrong! But remember, all things are good but not all things are expedient...
ReplyDeleteprincess
Hmmm babe dis one na war if u no sabi pray go now n learn how to pray cos wetin u go see for dat marriage no be hia oooo I wish u luck
ReplyDeleteYou aren't treacherous dear, things taken for granted get taken.
ReplyDeleteLet the head ache kill them. God has shown him his greatness. Congrats
ReplyDeleteMy dear, let dem say or throw wateva kind of shade dey want... Abeg, marry d man o jare, wat rubbish... U tried sef, 8 yrs on and off, mtchew.. Good Riddance 2 bad rubbish
ReplyDeletethey will learn to live with it. You did nothing wrong.
ReplyDeleteIts shit to them though...lol but shit happens.
Marry him if u love him and he equally loves u.Your ex lost.
Wonderful pay bk ....we a guy mess up marry his uncle and mk him ur God son lol my dear go ahead with d marriage
ReplyDeleteits risky ooo
ReplyDeleteBabes,do follow your heart,dont let any old flame stop ur joy but be sure u hv absolutely no feelings for the old guy.Goodluck!
ReplyDeletePlease marry him jare!
ReplyDeleteHis loss now he'll refer to you as Aunt lmao!
But get ready to dance to the tune coz they'll hate on you for a long time. You are not just getting married to his uncle but his family too so just be ready to dance to the tune of hate from your ex
Babes,do follow your heart,dont let any old flame stop ur joy but be sure u hv absolutely no feelings for the old guy.Goodluck!
ReplyDeleteI think the choice of who to marry is urs, don't let people deciede for u who to marry.
ReplyDeleteMarry him if u love him and feel confortable with it. No be family members dem dey marry in the days of the old.
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What exactly is d uncle in question doin abt d whole situation? I dnt c anything wrong in what you did even ur ex sista wud likely do d same if she were to be in ur shoes...let d uncle knw abt ur past relatnship with ur ex n see if e will fight for you...dt guy is just hurt cos e expectd u 2 foolishly come bak as usual!
ReplyDeleteGET MARRIED AND BE HAPPY. MAKE A LIST OF THEM THAT HATE YOU NOW AND SHUT YOUR MARITAL HOME DOOR ON THEM.
ReplyDeleteGOD BLESS YOU MARRIAGE.
My dear if possible marry his father..is he mad*intayo'svoice
ReplyDeleteGET MARRIED AND BE HAPPY. MAKE A LIST OF THEM THAT HATE YOU NOW AND SHUT YOUR MARITAL HOME DOOR ON THEM.
ReplyDeleteGOD BLESS YOUR MARRIAGE.
Please carry on,its not ur fault
ReplyDeleteMy dear you made the right choice
ReplyDeleteJust try n avoid your ex and his so called sis.
And try to know the area in which it seems to them as if you're in to intrude.
And always be prayerful.
Make sure you have no feelings for ex again cause he may try to retreat through what both of you had shared in the past.
As long as u keep the uncle (ur bae) in the know, u are good to go. Dont mind the bad belle ex and sister.
ReplyDeleteHE OBVIOUSLY GAVE HIS DINNER TO THE CAT.
ReplyDeleteExcept there's something you're not telling us, you're not treacherous.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm.. Over to you libers..
ReplyDeleteMy dear,abeg marry yeye jare, it's not as if u guys had a kid or smthng,he's not interested in yhu,he should den allow sm1else cme in jare even if it's his uncle,buh uve got 2 put ur self in his shoes if a guy u dated buh dnt wnt anymore wnted 2 marry ur niece,how wud u feel?buh if ure okay wit it den go ahead,MARRY him if he makes u happy,dnt care about what ur uninterested Ex thinks!get married jare,my own sista is about 2 get married 2 1 of our grand cousins former boifwnd,so chill relax and do ya think,there ain't no harm honey..comprende?
ReplyDeleteU sef get oju kokoro
ReplyDeleteGurl, You can't please everybody. Jst do what's best for u and be happy
ReplyDeleteone word "ODE"
ReplyDeleteure not wrong pls, jut make is luv
ReplyDeleteDat means u ve slpt wit both uncle n nephew ryt?
ReplyDeleteMy dear I give u my full support.....just go ahead with the wedding, don't listen to anybody that will say u are treacherous.....this is the best man for u!
ReplyDeleteMy dear I give u my full support.....just go ahead with the wedding, don't listen to anybody that will say u are treacherous.....this is the best man for u!
ReplyDeleteSwity,I Wish U HML Already.... block Your Ears Marry Ur Luv ooo,Sumtyms In Life We Met ppl Who ar Like Our Stair Case 2Our Destiny, Dnt Eva Giv Up....... Congrt U Made D best Choice
ReplyDeleteMy dear I give u my full support.....just go ahead with the wedding, don't listen to anybody that will say u are treacherous.....this is the best man for u!
ReplyDeleteThis is a non issue. They don't want you to be happy. Ignore them
ReplyDeleteGurl please go ahead. He didn't want you now that you have found love he is jealous!
ReplyDeletepls carry on by all means! When they r tired they will shut-up! That's how some ppl have missed their true love simply bcos they didnt want to date or marry a family member of a ex!
ReplyDeleteMy dear please go ahead and get wedded with the man abeg. That guy and his sister are very un serious human beings. Good luck to you and congratulations my darling.
ReplyDeleteHmn. #speechless#
ReplyDeletePlease go ahead dear. Ignore those devils! So long ur fiance is aware of ur past rship with his cousin, what's the big deal? Be happy with ur new man. #myadvice#
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