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Tuesday 20 January 2015

All these couple that play love on social media, do they say same words to themselves in real life?

Went through instagram this morning and saw quite a number of Nigerian couples sending loving messages to each other for their followers to read. What I wonder now is if these couples look into each other's eyes and say it to themselves when they are alone and no one else can hear what they are saying? Abi, is it only on social media we hear all 'dem cheesy love quotes?' What do you guys think?
at 1/20/2015 01:48:00 pm

133 comments:

  1. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 13:50

    most of them don't, its only when they offend their wife's, they come on social media to post things begging for forgiveness...

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    1. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:11

      Who cares if dey say it or not


      What Secondary school boys and girls do during break time

      Married Woman Caught Red-handed Cheating with 2 Men at the Same Time in her Husband’s House

      Big Disgrace: See what happens to fela’s daughter on stage

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    2. Pink Bananas20 January 2015 at 14:18

      Linda, all Na for show

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    3. GALORE20 January 2015 at 14:28

      Lol.. . tell the world that u love me

      Just like @Osas told world that she loved @Gbenro(UTI's rebound)



      @Galore

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    4. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:41

      Of course they do...

      As d saying goes "charity begin@home".

      It doesn't cost anytin saying it face2face.

      In fact, it much easy saying it face2face bcos no other person may b there wit u compare to d social media when d world r there and r ur witness.

      If u ask me I wil tell u I prefer face2face. All dis social media love is too fake for my liking and I don't beliieve in it.

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    5. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:42

      Of course they do...

      As d saying goes "charity begin@home".

      It doesn't cost anytin saying it face2face.

      In fact, it much easy saying it face2face bcos no other person may b there wit u compare to d social media when d world r there and r ur witness.

      If u ask me I wil tell u I prefer face2face. All dis social media love is too fake for my liking and I don't beliieve in it.

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    6. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:42

      Of course they do...

      As d saying goes "charity begin@home".

      It doesn't cost anytin saying it face2face.

      In fact, it much easy saying it face2face bcos no other person may b there wit u compare to d social media when d world r there and r ur witness.

      If u ask me I wil tell u I prefer face2face. All dis social media love is too fake for my liking and I don't beliieve in it.

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    7. Unknown20 January 2015 at 15:39

      I llove u,is a normal phrase .
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    8. Unknown20 January 2015 at 16:05

      Nt all do
      Besides some ppl (like me) dnt knw to go abt the i love u thingy in person
      Express my self more on chats

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    9. DADDYSWIFE20 January 2015 at 16:22

      Ka awe si things. #nothanksi'llratherbeselfmade#

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    10. Richard20 January 2015 at 16:34

      They're fouling themselves.

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    11. Unknown20 January 2015 at 17:00

      Lolz ask them oo . My dear..

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    12. Unknown20 January 2015 at 17:12

      Seriously some is 4 publicity

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    13. Unknown20 January 2015 at 19:50

      All for publicity sometimes

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    14. Unknown20 January 2015 at 20:10

      Awwww that is so sweet.

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  2. AbokiDaWarriBoy20 January 2015 at 13:51

    Question for d gods..lol

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    1. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:34

      its called social media love..........




      Moye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB....

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    2. Unknown20 January 2015 at 15:07

      Their wahala

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    3. @MEETD®EALEVANS™20 January 2015 at 15:09

      Ask Kabi esi

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    4. BRIGHTINO20 January 2015 at 15:22

      Saying it is useless if you don't show it

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  3. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 13:51

    all of them have side chicks, they all pretend on social media...

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  4. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:51

    Na them sabi o

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  5. AbokiDaWarriBoy20 January 2015 at 13:52

    All na lie......if is dat sweet y plenty crashed marriage??

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  6. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:52

    I'm with you on this Linda don't mind them always wanting to live their lives on social media then at the end of the day, u will hear they ve divorced

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  7. Ochuko Arhiakpore20 January 2015 at 13:53

    Making linda jealous LOL,but it's absolute rubbish,the bitter truth is that they don't.

    GEJ till 2019

    !! BIG BROTHER SAYS SO !!

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  8. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:54

    Social media love is fake love jare...

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  9. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:54

    the things that go through your mind hein linda.ur question got me laughing so hard

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  10. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:54

    For where... It always end in d social media circle... Dats d more reason y their marriage doesn't last...

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  11. CHERRY20 January 2015 at 13:54

    Its left for them o Linda!

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  12. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 13:54

    God bless you Linda. I PERSONALLY know a number of couples that have serious issues with their marriages but go on SOCIAL MEDIA to profess love all the time.
    If you talk now they will say it's BEEF!! They will say it's because you are not married or you have issues in your marriage. I find that most people who keep their love to themselves last longer.

    Nothing wrong with PDA every once Im a while (anniversaries etc) but when it gets too much. . .

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  13. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:55

    I think it's for the media. Just to tell us they are in love. Don't be surprise they don't show each other affection wen they are together!


    ....LIB ADDICTION...

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  14. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:55

    I think it's for the media. Just to tell us they are in love. Don't be surprise they don't show each other affection wen they are together!


    ....LIB ADDICTION...

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  15. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:55

    I think it's for the media. Just to tell us they are in love. Don't be surprise they don't show each other affection wen they are together!


    ....LIB ADDICTION...

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  16. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:55

    I think it's for the media. Just to tell us they are in love. Don't be surprise they don't show each other affection wen they are together!


    ....LIB ADDICTION...

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  17. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:55

    Really cheesy and corny love quotes. Before you know it bae is gone =baygon.

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  18. Bonita Bislam20 January 2015 at 13:56

    Lol everyone has caught the bug.Say sweet things about your partner on sicial media while you maintain a gorilla face when the both of you're alone.Its called E-showoff

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    1. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:31

      Lol.... E-showoff.
      See linda being curious like say she never ever do before.




      Sincerely speaking the mind of Amadioha

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  19. Dave Mide20 January 2015 at 13:56

    Only God can answer that ... ! Question for the gods

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  20. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:56

    I think it's for the media. Just to tell us they are in love. Don't be surprise they don't show each other affection wen they are together!


    ....LIB ADDICTION...

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  21. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:56

    I think it's for the media. Just to tell us they are in love. Don't be surprise they don't show each other affection wen they are together!


    ....LIB ADDICTION...

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  22. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:56

    even some of them fight like cats and dogs in their home but come to social to display love and made people believe all is well....
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  23. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:57

    Some do, while some don't.
    $.
    $.
    @Mr Endowed via Lumia phone

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  24. 9ja Parrot20 January 2015 at 13:57

    No mind dem o Linda, na form many of dem dey form o.

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  25. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:58

    It's their headache shaa
    $.
    $.
    @Mr Endowed via Lumia phone

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  26. Uche20 January 2015 at 13:59

    U v to be in love real life before u can love on social media.

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  27. Unknown20 January 2015 at 13:59

    I personally do it in real life

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  28. General20 January 2015 at 14:00

    Made me rememba ''pretenders are d worst''

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  29. Elodie O. Mbape20 January 2015 at 14:00

    I believe very few do say it to each other in private. Most of them play the 'happy couple' card on social networks to remain relevant in the eyes of their many followers and friends. In fact, I dare say some of them are far more romantic on social media than in real life.

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  30. Preciousgirl20 January 2015 at 14:01

    Bunch of show-off-ers lol...attention seekers

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  31. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:01

    Well if a couple is bold enough to say it on social media, they shld be comfortable saying it to themselves wen they are alone.

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  32. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 14:01

    Honestly Linda it's all paparazzi. Many couples live a fake life.they love to have a picture perfect marriage which they throw at people's faces.my next door neighbor is an example.they r always fighting n even breaking stuff.but when ever they Av visitors they start calling each other some sugar coated names.there was a day she ran into my home n said I Sud help her that her husband wants to break her to pieces.she had managed to escape with 2 blows.i was shocked when her friend called her she swiftly changed tones n said she was getting set for an evening dinner wt her boo of life.all her Insta gram n BlackBerry dps all show cases her love for her man.this same person confesses to me that her hubby hasn't slept wt her for over a year.he has numerous side chick's n pay their bills.she handle all her bills n sometimes settle d housebill.i Av never cautioned her on ds her fake "I av the best boo in d world mentality ".advice for peeps-never listen to pple dat keep professing their undying love for each other.90% are fake.

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    1. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 14:33

      I hope this ur friend isn't an LIB reader shaa

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    2. aproko manager20 January 2015 at 14:54

      U won just write kill yourself abeg calm down

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  33. Damilola Tee20 January 2015 at 14:02

    I have always thought about it ...Its good to know Linda also thinks about it that same way.Too much of Love messages in the air,do they actually say those things when they are with each other or is it just a show off thing...jut saying

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  34. Damilola Tee20 January 2015 at 14:03

    I have always thought about it ...Its good to know Linda also thinks about it that same way.Too much of Love messages in the air,do they actually say those things when they are with each other or is it just a show off thing...jut saying

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  35. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 14:03

    Too many relationships are for show these days.

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  36. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:04

    Lol,its the only place they can say reason cos they don't av the nerve to do that face to face or may be they are not really inlove just knocking each oda or one party is and the oda isn't , etc

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  37. Ogechi@ afakos@yahoo.com20 January 2015 at 14:05

    Is true jo. Most of them don't say it when they are alone. Deceit.

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  38. Deedee20 January 2015 at 14:09

    GOOD QUESTION, I FEEL D SAME WAY LINDA ESP THE YOBOS & OSAS WITH GBENRO ALTHO GBERNO DOESNT DISPLAY SO MUCH LIKE OSAS. LINDA U GET BF OR GF?

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  39. Deedee20 January 2015 at 14:10

    GOOD QUESTION, I FEEL D SAME WAY LINDA ESP THE YOBOS & OSAS WITH GBENRO ALTHO GBERNO DOESNT DISPLAY SO MUCH LIKE OSAS. LINDA U GET BF OR GF?

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  40. ary20 January 2015 at 14:11

    It is easier to write than to say how you feel, helps you be more creative and sometimes hide how you truly feel! Words speaks better than action and the social media proves it everyday

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    1. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 15:13

      Good point. Then send them a PERSONAL SMS!!!!

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  41. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:13

    To me this types of couple are neva in good terms in real life becos if you are in really in love wit each other you don't really care wat the world cares about your love life's. So to me all this love play on social media are just dramatising

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  42. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:14

    Too many relationships are for show these days,all we have now is social medial marriage!!! JC

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  43. cutestlove20 January 2015 at 14:14

    I think they do say those words to each other....but if they don't is there selves they are deceiving not me nor linda ikeji.

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  44. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 14:17

    I'd like to know too.
    pls visit my blog...

    Liflblog.wordpress.com

    LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE EVERY DAY!

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  45. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:17

    Linda you already answered your question, dat one na media love, we get in house love. Linda take note!

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  46. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:17

    Linda you already answered your question, dat one na media love, we get in house love. Linda take note!

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  47. REXOVIC20 January 2015 at 14:17

    NA NOTICE ME THEY WORRY THEM....I BET THEY MAY NOT BE IN TALKING TERMS AT HOME!

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  48. OMOOBA20 January 2015 at 14:18

    IF ANYONE HAVE 1000 NAIRA AND CLAIM IT'S 5000 NAIRA, WHEN HE FINISHED SPENDING THE 1K, HE WOULD HAVE TO WAKE UP TO THE REALITY OF THE MIRAGE 4K

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  49. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:18

    Linda you already answered your question, dat one na media love, we get in house love. Linda take note!

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  50. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:19

    Linda you already answered your question, dat one na media love, we get in house love. Linda take note!

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  51. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:19

    Linda you already answered your question, dat one na media love, we get in house love. Linda take note!

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  52. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:21

    Believe me those tins r just show off,those kind of pple av d worse love life

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  53. lgho20 January 2015 at 14:21

    All na wash..

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  54. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:22

    Na em sabi

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  55. elovi20 January 2015 at 14:22

    They are all seeking attention but might love dia spouse ffor real

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  56. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 14:26

    Many are fake o, lol. Fake, fake, fake! Some dont even talk to each other but on social media they do lovey dovey.

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  57. yawanow20 January 2015 at 14:29

    its refreshing to express your love and kinda makes one confident about each other. I'm sure it extends even within themselves and not just on social media.

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  58. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:30

    Most of them dnt say those words, some people would rather feel comfortable in typing it than saying it..

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  59. Damilola Ade20 January 2015 at 14:32

    Their cup of tea

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  60. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:32

    Stupidity..if I get a thousand naira for every girl that has the so-called twitter BOO or social media boo that I have slept with tho..I'll be competing financially with Dangote and Adenuga......................................#KingOfKings #6God

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  61. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 14:33

    All na show off...

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  62. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 14:35

    Teebillz323 and Tiwa used to do it very well before naw. I wonder why they stopped? Remember that his poem to Tiwa "You slipped into my skin...bla...bla...bla" All na show!

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  63. QueenSheba20 January 2015 at 14:35

    Don't get it twisted love is a beautiful thing. Lol

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  64. Damola Gbadegesin20 January 2015 at 14:37

    They don useless the word love sef. Lol

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  65. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 14:37

    I noticed Toolz and her boo never do all that PDA shit on social medias unlike Adaeze Yobo. Whereas her hubby stays cheating on her. Fake pple everywhere.

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  66. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:39

    Its really chessy, i get putting your love out there 1's in a while but always is a chessy as it gets.

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  67. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 14:40

    kjdsnnjdsnjsndjns

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  68. aproko manager20 January 2015 at 14:40

    Abeg make I hear word jor...lyk d spirit...love nor dey exist na only God nd Jesus love us cos I neva count 100pple wen don die for one craze boy or girl

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  69. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 14:41

    jkskkjjjskm

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  70. Lifematters-Mattersoflife(PEOPLE AND SOCIETY)20 January 2015 at 14:42

    Na today

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  71. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:44

    relationship is a personal thing. why bring it here.

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  72. omowunmi okunti20 January 2015 at 14:47

    Na that one concern them. Who are they deceiving if they don't truly love themselves.

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  73. kezie20 January 2015 at 14:48

    I can see how that will definately help me in life na..mtcheeew!!next

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  74. Unknown20 January 2015 at 14:51

    If I hear, most of them don't.

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  75. Unknown20 January 2015 at 15:01

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
    .
    All na show biz.... Go to their homes and see war....
    *GLO BRING 3G TO KONTAGORA*
    .
    .
    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  76. Unknown20 January 2015 at 15:16

    morale of the today....don't believe everything you see on social media





    #Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE

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  77. Unknown20 January 2015 at 15:19

    Good question.

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  78. GR8BABE 20 January 2015 at 15:25

    HMM Dont pose for the crowd oo!BE REAL,DO THE RIGHT THING...

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  79. godson onyekuru20 January 2015 at 15:26

    All is just a bloody lie just tryin to fool them self's

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  80. Subomi20 January 2015 at 15:28

    with some peeps, dont mean much even if they say it in person.. but when you act it by proving it with your actions, I can start to believe you

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  81. Unknown20 January 2015 at 15:35

    Linda,get married and give us the answer urself.
    Lol

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  82. debbie20 January 2015 at 15:44

    I think some r real n some r fake...but shldnt be everyday display....but d fake ones r more Dan d genuine ones

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  83. Redcandy20 January 2015 at 15:49

    Well, my hubby and I are not into PDA but privately, I can tell you that we say the sweetest words to each other and we show it too. There are indeed happy relationships out there and by the grace of God, I have one.

    Redcandy
    ****www.idoncomeagain.com****

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  84. Unknown20 January 2015 at 16:01

    They just love cheap popularity. Thanks to people like you that help them achieve that.


    Busy Fingers.

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  85. Gentletee20 January 2015 at 16:02

    If there is no correlation between what is shared on social media and what goes on in real life then it is pretentious and only making a fool of them selves

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  86. ebonyz...20 January 2015 at 16:10

    i dunno oh

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  87. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 16:13

    Hahahaha. 4 wia. Real life Ba fight and quarrel oooo. Lol. De more u look. #oneandonlynwa@gmail.com#

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  88. Unknown20 January 2015 at 16:19

    Dats deir bizness!

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  89. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 16:24

    If u are in their shoes u might probably do more, I tink its romantic...never underestimate d power of true love.

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  90. MY TURN20 January 2015 at 16:47

    RUBBISH!SAY IT TO MY FACE

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  91. Unknown20 January 2015 at 16:52

    Sometimes privacy is good. But these days social media is the privacy. Lol.

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  92. Unknown20 January 2015 at 16:53

    Bunch of attention seekers

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  93. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 16:56

    Words.... Excellent raps!

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  94. Unknown20 January 2015 at 16:59

    All dos things are pretence o

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  95. Unknown20 January 2015 at 17:11

    Most of dem do it while making love especially wen d man releases, he uses d word to appreciate d woman lolss

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  96. Unknown20 January 2015 at 17:12

    Nd d woman as a fool will say I love u too after being used lolssss awu

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  97. amaka20 January 2015 at 17:13

    Dont mind them its activity.

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  98. abujakenneth20 January 2015 at 17:58

    That is why I don't support my parish of RCCG Sangotedo bringing out couples to demonstrate their love in the altar when actually they are enduring themselves in the closet

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  99. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 19:32

    @Wisdom Aku wat kind of brain do u av? And u the bigger fool wasting ur sperm n future kids all over the place and u still av the guts to call d women fools! Who trained u? We should be sending u to your Mum but because i'm not ill mannered like u i won't do that.Small boys who hide behind their computers and spit rubbish. Werey Omo.U better pray for ur future n d kind of kids u'll raise!

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  100. egowein20 January 2015 at 20:16

    No be only tell the world....
    Na preach the gospel....

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  101. egowein20 January 2015 at 20:16

    No be only tell the world....
    Na preach the gospel....

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  102. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 21:03

    Linda I av got a track for you.....badbelle by MI

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  103. Anonymous20 January 2015 at 21:50

    mind your business and stop scrutinizing people's relationship...also get a man!

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  104. Celestina Anthony20 January 2015 at 23:04

    Lol

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  105. Unknown21 January 2015 at 00:45

    Love on IG.......................





    *oparoescalade*

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  106. Unknown21 January 2015 at 00:45

    Love on IG.......................





    *oparoescalade*

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