Kemi Adetiba slams women cyber bullying her and others to get married
The music video director and filmmaker took to her twitter page this morning to slam all the people who are bugging her and other single women to go get married. See more tweets after the cut...
And the most annoying one is the way a married friend will now write on BBM when another is engaged or getting married "welcome to the club". Which kain club?! Pisses me off. Then the newly married ones will now be deleting their friends who are unmarried from their contact and unfollowing them on instagram and twitter. Lol
This " go and marry thing is now like a song" people should let single ladies live, u don't know what they going through. In Nigeria it's like a curse being single, they keep asking the stupid question
Well i guess the reason lots of people say that to a lady thats very matured ls that she dont really gat much time to play around with b4 she hits menopause.. So they expect her to make marriage a priority over other things she's doing at the moment cos time is a limiting factor..but you wont kill yourself if thats not working , You just gato do other things...
Being single is not by choice sometimes. I'm a successful woman. I earn my money. I am beautiful. I'm a homemaker. I am educated. I am a virgin. I don't sleep around. I don't waka all over Abuja. I am an incredible chef. So, is it my fault that no man has seen these qualities and want to make me his wife?! Fuck that. I don't even want a man to come out of the blue and start talking marriage. No matter how old I am, I have to know that kneecar first and well. And I will NOT lower my standard by settling for a man who is less than I deserve. Mba. I know what I want. I better myself at every chance I get so I won't let a man who doesn't have a vision of mission to drag me down with him. Mba nu. Laziness, poverty and their vices are contagious. I shan't be affected so I can be called a "wife". I'm not saying single working women have to be looking for rich men, nah. But when you meet a man who knows he's going somewhere and when you too look down the same road, you'll see the same destination the man is headed, then you can invest in him. Not all those ne'er-do-wells. That are still "will"ing. Lol. I refuse to be coaxed into a marriage of misery and suffering and heartache. This peace of mind I enjoy now (that is making me fresh)? I no fit trade am for anything ooo. If not that I don't want to disobey God and I don't want to bring disgrace to my father, I would have birth a child on my own. Walahi
Better ke? We that are inside want to leave the marriage ®retting why we got married in the first place.abeg,if it pleases her let her remain Single.
@anonynous 11:01. Since u got married for all of the wrong reasons there are, yes, u should want to leave the marriage. Nxt time, don't make a blanket statement 'we that r inside want to leave' believe me, some of us are having the time of our lives. We love our marriages n encourage singles who find love in the right places to cm join the jolliment. My dear, with speed, run out of that ur marriage before it kills u.
Anon 12:28 God bless you joor....not every marriage is doomed to fail, some of us are very happy and still very much in love with our partners, despite how much time had passed.
Ruth Kemisola Bambi, it seems u have blocked head. Don't u understand wat she is trying to say. That not everybody wants marriage. Haba.. If na so, wen ur pickin reach 12 yrs make she go marry. Marry marry marry, wetin e dey add 4 ur body. After 6 months sef all the so called love go fade e go com turn to quarrel everyday. For ur info, being single is better. Wen u get married (if u not), wait for 3 yrs den compare it with wen u were single
Anon 10:57 ...this lady aint no dumbo...shes saying some real truth here and i understand that the truth is bitter...Marriage would earn you some respect wether you want to hear it or not...you cant be unmarried and contest for governorship or some top positions here in nigeria or even in yankee ...you wont get elected just because of your status.. So shes right. Theres no crime in being single or unmarried but if you have made that decision to stay unmarried then dont go about making other peoples husbands,fiancees or boyfriends your sex partner and causing multiple problems for others, it will pay you to get your own partner..Simple!!!
Wo! It's nt easy oh,wen ure 28 n unmarried like me every1 will begin to worry ur life,u hv no idea d kind of pressure I'm passing thru nt to talk of sm1 older,it is well with us oh
Life isn't all about marriage either. NIgerians real need to calm the fuck down!! Too much societal pressure on young women. As if being married suddenly makes you better and more achieved. Bullshit ideology
Damn! Someone has defly hurt this beauty. Well its a naija mentality, some of dem girls grew up abroad nd they know better than just marriage unlike naija girls. On d first date, they already expecting a proposal. Bullcrap
Ooh shut up! People like you have LSE. Which one is naija girls again? What does this have to do with growing up abroad? Even girls over here want to get married. I didn't grow up here but I'm not particularly bothered about it. It's just a thing of difference in mentality and upbringing. Mtchew.
True talk my dear, tell them ooooo. The rate at which people attach marriage to success is alarming, their is more to achieve in life than a marital status !
People keep acting like marriage is a womans ultimate achievement, its not we live in a different generation. To each her choice. If ur ultimate ambition on life is to marry, marry and leave others alone.
God's time.is the best for everyone.The same peoole will insult your life when you rush in and divorce few months later.SMH...easytravelsconnect@gmail.con
Been married is good,dont do it based on the fact that others are doing it or family wants you to,do it becus u are rdy for it and u are happy doing it. Else,it won't last a year and ur divorced.
Cyber bullying is the worst among other abuses. Nobody is God . I thought God's time is the best. People should learn to mind their fucking business and let others be. Beside all these people bullying others all una clan don marry finish? Rubbish!!««QUEENMAYA»~REPORTING LIVE»
A girl like u opening ur mouth nd saying that crap *am ashamed* pple sit at one corner nd say crap to others like they known half of what they have gone thru, marriage is not everything, live and let others live, biri ka anyi biri.
You ain't lie! As in I know one whose husband hasn't worked in 2 years just lost motivation and she can't get or support him and curses him out every week but can still open mouth to say go and marry and look down on her unmarried friends because she is an MRS
That lady is very angry, 1st time I'll see this side of her. Marriage isn't something u rush into, am glad she knows that. Ppl sud stop pressurizing d singles to gt married cs dey're nt kids & wen d ryt tym comes dey'll marry. Kemi Adetiba, d ppl askn u 2 gt married also kia abt u, its jst dt we've diff ways of showing our loved ones d kia & luv in our hrt 4 dem. Dnt b offended & pls understand dt dey all want d bst 4 u in all u do even in ur ststus.
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said... . Bcos of twitter many people don gather mouth nw i swear..... *GLO BRING 3G TO KONTAGORA* . . ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
The only major reason why marriage is important is for you to have your own family! Your kids are your true family,Not even your spouse! Apart from having kids...Marriage is over-rated.
dnt knw why people pay attention to all dis cyber crap...some say it aint dt easy but wen i become a celeb,pls bring it on...so long watever anybody says doesnt affect my cash in-flow,den pls sit on it(d middle finger)
Kemi finish dem cos m tired of women bulling oda women cos of marriage... Hw many pple happi fr dia marriage eh? U rush enta,naso u go rush cum out... Wait fr d rit tym n pesin,dnt let pple push u into sumfin dat will gv u pains cos wen u start facin d painful drama of marriage,dose pple will back out n let u face ur drama. B wise ladies
Nigerians and Marriage, most of the so called married ladies are battered on daily basis by their husbands. Some will go to d extend of marrying their grandfathers' age mate and be wife no 7 just bcus they wanted validation from the society, and they are miserable. In as much as I respect the institution of marriage, Nigerians especially should stop all this nonsense of pressuring women of certain age to get married by force. How many of the so called married ladies are really happy in their so called marriage.
Well said. Women needs to learn how to support and love each other. Most married women don't even feel at home in their own homes. I don't understand what the fuss is all about. Some men are not even worth sacrificing your name for. Women pls beat it!
Where are the clever zingers of her own: Are you happily married tho? Are you in your husband's house or your jointly owned house as a couple? Can he throw you out of his house at any time? What rights do you have if he leaves you or marries another woman? Did mana fall from the sky on your wedding day? Does marriage shield you from life's tribulations, death, debt, sadness...?
Kemi, pls live your life the way you want to. I wish I can turn back the hands of time, I would have made different life decisions, and one of them would have been not getting married. I would have gone for artificial insemination or adoption. I have always known that marriage is not for me, but I allowed myself to be pressurised into it. Now, I feel trapped, I am miserable and also not living the life I want. I have two kids who might end up being kids of divorced parents as I am getting to a breaking point. I strongly advise women to never let family or friends push you, do it because you want it. It requires a lot of commitment, just think about it.
You sef Go marry!!! are you a lesbian!! Do you have a disease you are afraid will come out, You are a role model to many of our young girls, Find yourself a good man there are plenty out there, i heard on the grapevine that you have a bad character sometimes almost senile, Find Peace too and come off that high horse miss too successful, you are not European, you are African so it matters and bothers people to see an old mama like you not married or at least a baby mama. Are you that undesirable that no man want you. Check yourself before you wreck yourself
You sef Go marry!!! are you a lesbian!! Do you have a disease you are afraid will come out, You are a role model to many of our young girls, Find yourself a good man there are plenty out there, i heard on the grapevine that you have a bad character sometimes almost senile, Find Peace too and come off that high horse miss too successful, you are not European, you are African so it matters and bothers people to see an old mama like you not married or at least a baby mama. Are you that undesirable that no man want you. Check yourself before you wreck yourself
There's a grace that comes with being married, granted. This however does not mean everybody should marry, someone here @grace offor said get married, its better. I ask than what? The system is so jacked up, girls hurry up and get married it preaches, but it doesn't prepare the poor things for the abuse that occurs in some homes. And that's why women stay with men who cheat and abuse them because its better!Black eyes and STD is better than being single?. That's why we feel that even a woman who wins a nobel prize is overshadowed by the fact that she is not married. Then its ehya she's still a Ms. She becomes a pariah among married women, who dig their nails in their husbands arms whenever she passes by, lest she snatches their prized possession. Was just saying to my mate I've had it with those dps that say once a girl is 28 and she hears settle down her thighs should spread like an open compass and she start to go to Shiloh for deliverance. If men appreciate how a bad woman can wreck a home he would go to Shiloh too. Food for thought, has anybody considered the increased rate of divorce and Separation in Nigeria. Any free day you have go to Lagos High Court and listen to the family division court proceedings, that should fill you with sufficient dread. Summary: Earn your own respect, stop looking to be a Mrs Somebody to gain respectability.
Na wa ooo... Some people will never stop to suprise me sha... Wetyn concern em? Abiii na envy dey cause ds one ni? Make Una leave her for me ooo.. Maybe na me go marry her last... Cos she's beautiful and hardworking... I dey always trip ni... Just that she's older Dan me.. Lol... Linda watch ur back ooo... Make dem no attack u too...
But seriously, what's all d marriage bugging about. Are married women the happiest women on ewrth? They qre d most frustrated. My dear Kemi, fovus on ur career biko. Dont mind busy bodies, jobless housewives.
People rushing others into marriage should shut up and realize this is why a lot of marriages are crashing in naija. Ppl rush to be socially accepted n the marriage fails. The way ppl r evil, you dunno who you marry. Just for the sake of elevating social acceptance, people marry n then when the wedding crashes it's those same that will abuse u.that's how one woman called off her engagement n wore her aso ebi to another wedding. Please, we don't want divorce
Kemi is so correct,Enof wiv d stereotype.d society shud applaud ladies like these,women who dnt jst lay on their back,spread their legs and wait for men to give them peanuts.dat bn said @linDa I troway salute.kip reppin
10:41, Oprah Winfrey, Condoleeza Rice, Queen Latifah, Tyra Banks, Mother Theresa, Coco Chanel, Sheryl Crow, Queen Elizabeth I, and Cameron Diaz are successful never married women.
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And the most annoying one is the way a married friend will now write on BBM when another is engaged or getting married "welcome to the club". Which kain club?! Pisses me off. Then the newly married ones will now be deleting their friends who are unmarried from their contact and unfollowing them on instagram and twitter. Lol
DeleteWoman Mata, e no concern me bisflo2002@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteHahahaha last tweet tho
DeleteBlocked the nigga straight up
Okay o we haf heardnu
This " go and marry thing is now like a song" people should let single ladies live, u don't know what they going through. In Nigeria it's like a curse being single, they keep asking the stupid question
DeleteWell i guess the reason lots of people say that to a lady thats very matured ls that she dont really gat much time to play around with b4 she hits menopause.. So they expect her to make marriage a priority over other things she's doing at the moment cos time is a limiting factor..but you wont kill yourself if thats not working , You just gato do other things...
DeleteBeing single is not by choice sometimes. I'm a successful woman. I earn my money. I am beautiful. I'm a homemaker. I am educated. I am a virgin. I don't sleep around. I don't waka all over Abuja. I am an incredible chef. So, is it my fault that no man has seen these qualities and want to make me his wife?! Fuck that. I don't even want a man to come out of the blue and start talking marriage. No matter how old I am, I have to know that kneecar first and well. And I will NOT lower my standard by settling for a man who is less than I deserve. Mba. I know what I want. I better myself at every chance I get so I won't let a man who doesn't have a vision of mission to drag me down with him. Mba nu. Laziness, poverty and their vices are contagious. I shan't be affected so I can be called a "wife". I'm not saying single working women have to be looking for rich men, nah. But when you meet a man who knows he's going somewhere and when you too look down the same road, you'll see the same destination the man is headed, then you can invest in him. Not all those ne'er-do-wells. That are still "will"ing. Lol. I refuse to be coaxed into a marriage of misery and suffering and heartache. This peace of mind I enjoy now (that is making me fresh)? I no fit trade am for anything ooo. If not that I don't want to disobey God and I don't want to bring disgrace to my father, I would have birth a child on my own. Walahi
Deletelol...na really go nd marry
ReplyDeleteTell dem!!
ReplyDeleteSome people don't know when they have crossed the line. They should learn to mind their business.
Deletemake dem leave here alone abeg
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ReplyDeleteAs if being married is the certificate to getting to heaven.
ReplyDeleteI tire o. Ignorant jobless people. I wonder why she responded sef.
Delete#word... you guys should leave Kemi alone ooo
ReplyDeleteI wonder why someone would ask her to go marry. Why z even replying. Pple should learn to mind their business.
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ReplyDeleteGet married. Its better
ReplyDeleteBetter ke? We that are inside want to leave the marriage ®retting why we got married in the first place.abeg,if it pleases her let her remain Single.
Delete@anonynous 11:01. Since u got married for all of the wrong reasons there are, yes, u should want to leave the marriage. Nxt time, don't make a blanket statement 'we that r inside want to leave' believe me, some of us are having the time of our lives. We love our marriages n encourage singles who find love in the right places to cm join the jolliment. My dear, with speed, run out of that ur marriage before it kills u.
DeleteAnon 12:28 God bless you joor....not every marriage is doomed to fail, some of us are very happy and still very much in love with our partners, despite how much time had passed.
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ReplyDeleteShey she no wan kum marry ni, ok oo, make she dey work dey go den!
ReplyDeletePlease tell me what the marriage will do for her?
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ReplyDeletelol kpele kemi they will always talk
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ReplyDeleteU need to get married gal
ReplyDeleteHahahhaha God's time is the best o.
ReplyDeleteHahahhaha God's time is the best o.
ReplyDeleteok na,, women oya over to una..
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Is only in Africa dat every woman must marry
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ReplyDeleteI no fit laugh.. Bully dem back naw.
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ReplyDeleteBut Miss, marriage is sweet & it will earn u some respect.
ReplyDeleteIt's dumbos like you she's talking to
DeleteRuth Kemisola Bambi, it seems u have blocked head. Don't u understand wat she is trying to say. That not everybody wants marriage. Haba.. If na so, wen ur pickin reach 12 yrs make she go marry. Marry marry marry, wetin e dey add 4 ur body. After 6 months sef all the so called love go fade e go com turn to quarrel everyday. For ur info, being single is better. Wen u get married (if u not), wait for 3 yrs den compare it with wen u were single
DeleteAnon 10:57 ...this lady aint no dumbo...shes saying some real truth here and i understand that the truth is bitter...Marriage would earn you some respect wether you want to hear it or not...you cant be unmarried and contest for governorship or some top positions here in nigeria or even in yankee ...you wont get elected just because of your status.. So shes right. Theres no crime in being single or unmarried but if you have made that decision to stay unmarried then dont go about making other peoples husbands,fiancees or boyfriends your sex partner and causing multiple problems for others, it will pay you to get your own partner..Simple!!!
DeleteGbam!!! Kemi tell dem o
ReplyDeleteN som wil b forming yle all is not well in dere marriages..mtshewww
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Wo! It's nt easy oh,wen ure 28 n unmarried like me every1 will begin to worry ur life,u hv no idea d kind of pressure I'm passing thru nt to talk of sm1 older,it is well with us oh
DeleteShe aint mature enough to ignore them...
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Eyaa d tin pain her......let someone somewhere cum marrryher naa cus deep inside she's dying to get married am sure.
ReplyDeleteLol that last tweet was so funny, first they come like they love you and then drop the bombshell.
ReplyDelete~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
sometimes the truth hurts! life isn't all about awards and achievements...
ReplyDeleteLife isn't all about marriage either. NIgerians real need to calm the fuck down!! Too much societal pressure on young women. As if being married suddenly makes you better and more achieved. Bullshit ideology
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Cyber bullying is the peculiar to married women alone, it affects everyone either married or unmarried.
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Damn! Someone has defly hurt this beauty. Well its a naija mentality, some of dem girls grew up abroad nd they know better than just marriage unlike naija girls. On d first date, they already expecting a proposal. Bullcrap
ReplyDeleteOoh shut up! People like you have LSE. Which one is naija girls again? What does this have to do with growing up abroad? Even girls over here want to get married. I didn't grow up here but I'm not particularly bothered about it. It's just a thing of difference in mentality and upbringing. Mtchew.
Deletedo you hate me dat much ........linda ............lesti
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ReplyDeleteSmh wt she said is true,pipo mke it seem like a woman needs a msn to validate her sigh
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmm pple always into pple mata! Marriage na must?
ReplyDeleteN d funniest thing is most of those calling pple to get married are way older n also unmarried
ReplyDeleteWe Nigerians just attribute a lot to marriage and when the marriage doesn't work out, they would be the same slamming for a failed marriage. Go girl
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ReplyDeleteKemi Adetiba, come marry me na!!! Hahahahaha!
ReplyDeleteI just cant laugh enough!
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Sweet Kemi, don't mind them.
Na marriage go carry u enter heaven?
ReplyDeleteTrue talk my dear, tell them ooooo. The rate at which people attach marriage to success is alarming, their is more to achieve in life than a marital status !
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ReplyDeleteIts a pity she comes from this part of the world where the success of a woman is not complete till she's married
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People keep acting like marriage is a womans ultimate achievement, its not we live in a different generation. To each her choice. If ur ultimate ambition on life is to marry, marry and leave others alone.
ReplyDeletemarriage is a choice
ReplyDeleteSo true tho. Every onee has a diff path...being married doesn't take one to heaven sef...what d hell?! Kemi live ur life the way U damn want it!!!
ReplyDeleteNa wa o.....u ppl are not smilling at all.
ReplyDeleteHaahaahaahaa! Itz a woman'z world!
ReplyDeleteLol they should do becos time is running out
ReplyDeleteGod's time.is the best for everyone.The same peoole will insult your life when you rush in and divorce few months later.SMH...easytravelsconnect@gmail.con
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ReplyDeleteThere's time for everything, when you're old enough to be in man's house, then u should be
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ReplyDeleteMarriage is nt evrytin bt dats pples perspective
ReplyDeleteBeen married is good,dont do it based on the fact that others are doing it or family wants you to,do it becus u are rdy for it and u are happy doing it. Else,it won't last a year and ur divorced.
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Marriage is not the ultimate in life........i don't know why we place so much attachment to marriage
ReplyDeleteCyber bullying is the worst among other abuses. Nobody is God . I thought God's time is the best. People should learn to mind their fucking business and let others be. Beside all these people bullying others all una clan don marry finish? Rubbish!!««QUEENMAYA»~REPORTING LIVE»
ReplyDeleteGods tym is the best, no mata wat
ReplyDeleteThey shud leave her alone, God's time is d best
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ReplyDeletePeople shoulld learn how to mind their business.
ReplyDeletekemi go and marry, no doubt ur successful but will feel more fulfilled when u settle and have kids...Linda u sef go marry hehehe
ReplyDeleteA girl like u opening ur mouth nd saying that crap *am ashamed* pple sit at one corner nd say crap to others like they known half of what they have gone thru, marriage is not everything, live and let others live, biri ka anyi biri.
DeleteCongratulations on your own "marriage".
DeleteOnye buru na turn by turn you hear pray the one you have married lives like Methusela because the very next second can't be guaranteed...
I have seen one get married two years down the line she is widow or a divorced woman or a scorned wife...
Live your life and allow another person live theirs. In the end, the race is not to the swift nor battle to the strong...
Time & Chance!!
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ReplyDeleteWomen who are suffering in their husband's house telling others to get married.
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Delete10 million likes. Frustrated wives looking for who will join their club. Misery loves company.
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DeleteYou ain't lie! As in I know one whose husband hasn't worked in 2 years just lost motivation and she can't get or support him and curses him out every week but can still open mouth to say go and marry and look down on her unmarried friends because she is an MRS
DeleteThat lady is very angry, 1st time I'll see this side of her. Marriage isn't something u rush into, am glad she knows that. Ppl sud stop pressurizing d singles to gt married cs dey're nt kids & wen d ryt tym comes dey'll marry. Kemi Adetiba, d ppl askn u 2 gt married also kia abt u, its jst dt we've diff ways of showing our loved ones d kia & luv in our hrt 4 dem. Dnt b offended & pls understand dt dey all want d bst 4 u in all u do even in ur ststus.
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Support her its about time pple start managing there own business.
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ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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ReplyDeleteDeep down inside Kemi, i know you wish you were married. Dont worry though, Gods time is the best.
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ReplyDeleteshe shld wait for God's time jare.
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Must every woman have mrs attached to her...
ReplyDeleteNa wa oh bizy body plenty go,babe no mind them take ur tym jare.
ReplyDeleteThe only major reason why marriage is important is for you to have your own family! Your kids are your true family,Not even your spouse! Apart from having kids...Marriage is over-rated.
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ReplyDeletednt knw why people pay attention to all dis cyber crap...some say it aint dt easy but wen i become a celeb,pls bring it on...so long watever anybody says doesnt affect my cash in-flow,den pls sit on it(d middle finger)
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ReplyDeleteKemi finish dem cos m tired of women bulling oda women cos of marriage... Hw many pple happi fr dia marriage eh? U rush enta,naso u go rush cum out... Wait fr d rit tym n pesin,dnt let pple push u into sumfin dat will gv u pains cos wen u start facin d painful drama of marriage,dose pple will back out n let u face ur drama. B wise ladies
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DeleteNigerians and Marriage, most of the so called married ladies are battered on daily basis by their husbands. Some will go to d extend of marrying their grandfathers' age mate and be wife no 7 just bcus they wanted validation from the society, and they are miserable. In as much as I respect the institution of marriage, Nigerians especially should stop all this nonsense of pressuring women of certain age to get married by force. How many of the so called married ladies are really happy in their so called marriage.
ReplyDeleteWell said. Women needs to learn how to support and love each other. Most married women don't even feel at home in their own homes. I don't understand what the fuss is all about. Some men are not even worth sacrificing your name for. Women pls beat it!
ReplyDeleteseriously.
ReplyDeleteWhere are the clever zingers of her own: Are you happily married tho? Are you in your husband's house or your jointly owned house as a couple? Can he throw you out of his house at any time? What rights do you have if he leaves you or marries another woman? Did mana fall from the sky on your wedding day? Does marriage shield you from life's tribulations, death, debt, sadness...?
ReplyDeletelolzzz!
ReplyDeleteDont let your kids call you granny! Word!
ReplyDeleteI dont understand why another womans marital status should be a source of bother to another.
People won't mind their business nd use the energy they use, in trash talking to better their lifes *mseew*
ReplyDeletemofoz won't just mind their biz.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is gud but it shud nt b a deciding factor in a woman's life.
ReplyDeleteA single girl has no peace of mind in Nigeria again cos of marriage pressure from family, frnds,nd society
ReplyDelete---#AUNTYLINDAgoddaughter#
AM A WOMAN AND I DON'T WANT TO BE MARRIED, NEVER.
ReplyDeleteIT IS JUST ONE OF LIFE'S CHOICES, AM NOT SURPRISED SOME IDIOTS ARE HARASSING THIS YOUNG WOMAN TO GO GET MARRIED.
IN A SOCIETY WHERE THE MEN ASPIRE TO LOOT THE TREASURY, BUILD HOUSE AND BUY JEEP AND BELIEVE THY HAVE ARRIVED.
WHAT DO YOU NOW THINK WILL BE THE A SENSE OF ACHIEVEMENT FOR THE WOMEN FOLK GET MARRIED AND BORN CHILDREN.
LOOK AROUND YOU FOLKS WE ARE A SOCIETY OF UNDER ACHIEVERS AND NO PURPOSE.
THE WHITE MAN IS BUSY BUILDING COMPUTERS, MOBILE PHONES, JETS, CARS.
WE SO CALLED AFRICANS ARE BUSY PURSUING MEDIOCRE THINGS TO BUY HOUSE, RIDE JEEP AND VISIT AMERICA/LONDON.
THAT IS ONLY WHAT WE THINK ABOUT, A NATION OF SMALL MINDED, DIM WITTED IDIOTS.
YES OUR MEN HAVE MARRIED OUR SO CALLED WOMEN AND YOUR ECONOMY IS BUSY SLIDING DOWN TO THY KINGDOM COME.
CONTINUE SHOUTING MARRIAGE ONE DAY ALL OF US WILL WAKE UP TO A NATION WHERE ONLY 000.0001% WILL BE ABLE TO AFFORD BREAD OR MILK.
ABEG IF I DON'T GET MARRIED WILL I GO TO HELL?
A CONTINENT OF SMALL MINDED IDIOTS.
Kemi, pls live your life the way you want to. I wish I can turn back the hands of time, I would have made different life decisions, and one of them would have been not getting married. I would have gone for artificial insemination or adoption. I have always known that marriage is not for me, but I allowed myself to be pressurised into it. Now, I feel trapped, I am miserable and also not living the life I want. I have two kids who might end up being kids of divorced parents as I am getting to a breaking point. I strongly advise women to never let family or friends push you, do it because you want it. It requires a lot of commitment, just think about it.
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ReplyDeleteYou sef Go marry!!! are you a lesbian!! Do you have a disease you are afraid will come out, You are a role model to many of our young girls, Find yourself a good man there are plenty out there, i heard on the grapevine that you have a bad character sometimes almost senile,
ReplyDeleteFind Peace too and come off that high horse miss too successful, you are not European, you are African so it matters and bothers people to see an old mama like you not married or at least a baby mama.
Are you that undesirable that no man want you. Check yourself before you wreck yourself
loye.motun@gmail.com..it fit be me oo
ReplyDeleteYou sef Go marry!!! are you a lesbian!! Do you have a disease you are afraid will come out, You are a role model to many of our young girls, Find yourself a good man there are plenty out there, i heard on the grapevine that you have a bad character sometimes almost senile,
ReplyDeleteFind Peace too and come off that high horse miss too successful, you are not European, you are African so it matters and bothers people to see an old mama like you not married or at least a baby mama.
Are you that undesirable that no man want you. Check yourself before you wreck yourself
There's a grace that comes with being married, granted. This however does not mean everybody should marry, someone here @grace offor said get married, its better. I ask than what?
ReplyDeleteThe system is so jacked up, girls hurry up and get married it preaches, but it doesn't prepare the poor things for the abuse that occurs in some homes. And that's why women stay with men who cheat and abuse them because its better!Black eyes and STD is better than being single?.
That's why we feel that even a woman who wins a nobel prize is overshadowed by the fact that she is not married. Then its ehya she's still a Ms. She becomes a pariah among married women, who dig their nails in their husbands arms whenever she passes by, lest she snatches their prized possession.
Was just saying to my mate I've had it with those dps that say once a girl is 28 and she hears settle down her thighs should spread like an open compass and she start to go to Shiloh for deliverance. If men appreciate how a bad woman can wreck a home he would go to Shiloh too.
Food for thought, has anybody considered the increased rate of divorce and Separation in Nigeria. Any free day you have go to Lagos High Court and listen to the family division court proceedings, that should fill you with sufficient dread.
Summary: Earn your own respect, stop looking to be a Mrs Somebody to gain respectability.
Na wa ooo... Some people will never stop to suprise me sha... Wetyn concern em? Abiii na envy dey cause ds one ni? Make Una leave her for me ooo.. Maybe na me go marry her last... Cos she's beautiful and hardworking... I dey always trip ni... Just that she's older Dan me.. Lol... Linda watch ur back ooo... Make dem no attack u too...
ReplyDeleteIndeed. Especially when people like Linda can't happily get married unless it is to their fellow woman. ;)
ReplyDeleteKemi I'm young and single. Lemme help you shut these *** up
ReplyDeleteWetin she wear sef. Make i start from there. Later i will address the issue on ground. lol
ReplyDeleteAnon 12:56, you nailed it.
ReplyDeleteYou said it all.
Took words out of my mouth.
God's Time is the best. Won't succumb to pressures.
But seriously, what's all d marriage bugging about. Are married women the happiest women on ewrth? They qre d most frustrated. My dear Kemi, fovus on ur career biko. Dont mind busy bodies, jobless housewives.
ReplyDeleteLinda u don hear? Go and marry oooooooooooooooooooo. Lmao
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Why bother to respond at all to these haters? You're making them feel like it's paining you...
ReplyDeletePeople rushing others into marriage should shut up and realize this is why a lot of marriages are crashing in naija. Ppl rush to be socially accepted n the marriage fails. The way ppl r evil, you dunno who you marry. Just for the sake of elevating social acceptance, people marry n then when the wedding crashes it's those same that will abuse u.that's how one woman called off her engagement n wore her aso ebi to another wedding. Please, we don't want divorce
ReplyDeleteMaybe if she had a good attitude/behaviour, someone would have put a ring on it.
ReplyDeleteKemi u are looking cool on ur dp...
ReplyDeleteHow will she marry when she's busy ripping off and stealing from Nigerian Churches. Who will marry her anyways?? Those hips are worn out....
ReplyDeleteDon't let your kid call you granny. Hahahaha that was ash.Lol spacojolly@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteMarriage is not the key to success
ReplyDeleteLinda what do you think? Do you concur with Kemi?
ReplyDeleteKemi is so correct,Enof wiv d stereotype.d society shud applaud ladies like these,women who dnt jst lay on their back,spread their legs and wait for men to give them peanuts.dat bn said @linDa I troway salute.kip reppin
ReplyDeletewhat a waste of time! waht is she waiting for? why not get married?
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lmao at blocked that part cracked me up. abimbo_sweety@yahoo.com
ReplyDelete10:41, Oprah Winfrey, Condoleeza Rice, Queen Latifah, Tyra Banks, Mother Theresa, Coco Chanel, Sheryl Crow, Queen Elizabeth I, and Cameron Diaz are successful never married women.
ReplyDeleteKemi go and marry and have kids! If u think u r too successful to be under a man, your body go soon tell u..go ask Nike oshinowo.
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