Dear LIB readers: I can't seem to please my girlfriend sexually
From a male LIB reader
I've been dating this lady for 11 months and sex with her is destroying my self-esteem. No matter what I do to her and for her, I can't seem to please her or make her reach orgasm. I've used my tongue, my fingers, my p****, nothing works. Sometimes I'll go down on her and stay there for over 30 mins trying to please her and when I raise my head to see if she was enjoying it she would ask me, are you done? I strain my mouth and tongue for so long and all I get is 'are you done?' She is circumcised but I have had sex with other circumcised women who enjoyed it but this woman is just so rigid, I've never seen anything like it. But before you suggest I dump her, I need to let you know that is not an option for now, I'm crazy about her. Everything else in our relationship is going well, I just can't seem to make her enjoy intimacy with me. What can I do?
All you need to do is to seek for penis enlargement and protect yur woman,cos if she ever got another enlarged dude dick,am sowi for yu,..in olu jacob's voice.
that is assuming she always cums! As a retired legendary womanologist and breastographer,i know for certain that women have differing libido levels.as par the question,satisfying her wont be easy. You need to know what her zodiac sign is - that wld lead you to her erogenious spot(s).then u get the ice cubes,hot chocolates,vanilla ice creams,spanks etc #there is a science to satisfying your woman.#send your questions to joene2348@gmail.com.some raw truths cant be discussed openly.
The best thing for you to do is to speak with her. Let her show you how to do it. Nobody knows a womans body like a woman herself. You just arent pushing the right buttons that is all. don't panic. I give out tips and tricks for sex in my blog www.askralph.blogspot.com
it doesnt matter if she is circumsiced there is always a way. But first of all forget your pride and speak with her.
You are a wise man@ Ask Ralph. A very wise man,well said!!! Its not how long you go down on her. If you do the "right things" it won't take long, the moans will testify, but u can only know the "right things" if u ask her
AS for my wife..she knows wat she enjoys..when she's on top on me, she always know where to hit that will make her cum..mostly on second round when i wont cum on time..i always feel happy when she cums..IT FEELS GOOD.
you are stupid and very very stupid, your girlfriend not wife. you be drown by now self, how can she be pleased with your stupidity. and you boastful said ''i dumped her''
Hahaaaaaaaa.... you must definitely be high on something. you can't read, you can't write..... WTF is your stress? Take another pill....it ll help you feel better. Mtchewwwww
There are women that are harder to please and its only natural. you can spend an hour going down on her without actually doing anthing. you can be going as fast as you can without hitting what turns her on. circumsised women get off more by penetration and g-spot stimulation than teasing of the clitoris. Talk with her I still urge you and I swear you will see your mistakes.
www.askralph.blogspot.com for your advices in different areas of life. Tell somebody to tell somebody about the blog if I helped you
LISTEN..not all ladies can cum especially the ones circumcised..just keep trying your luck by fingering her gently..put A FINGER in and make the come here sign with one finger , scrubing the upper wall of her vagina gently, u will c her screaming gently and moaning then she will definitely cum..OR she will beg u to climb her..TRUST ME
Lmao... Dat lady is possesed I guess. Cos wen ma man suck ma p***y, I reach orgasm quickly.. Maybe u shuld talk and ask her wat turns her onn. Evry woman has her weakest point.. Let her tel u her's.
G-spot stimulation over clitoral stimulation. penetration will work better. she will hardly have feelings in her clit so its either u use a firmer hand to tease her clit and forget totally about giving her head or else you are using your tongue in her "inner lips".
Stop blabbing u ignorant fool. Over sabi way no sabi anything. Wat is gspot stimulation? My friend clitoral stimulation is d key to women Orgasm. Penetration is only fun d 1st few seconds of entry. Do ur research and ask women. Mumu
IS SHE COMPLAINING OR YOU ARE WORRYING YOURSELF? DO YOUR BEST AND LEAVE THE REST IS THE BEST POLICY. (DEM NO DEY WIN GOLD MEDAL FOR "DE THING" AND NOBODY DE DO AM PASS!)IF SHE NEEDS "DAT FEELING", SHE WOULD EVENTUALLY TELL U HER "PASSWORD" WHEN SHE TRUSTS YOU ENOUGH AND FEELS COMFORTABLE DISCUSSING HER BODY.
THE TRUTH IS THAT PUT ONE FINGER IN HER AND MAKE THE COME HERE SIGN WITH ONE FINGER, SCRUBING THE UPPER WALL OF HER VAGINA GENTLY, IT WILL MAKE HER SHIVER..TRUST ME ON THIS.it will make her cum easily ,..Thank me later..
Silly boy, instead of you to be reading your books and preparing your self for the future ahead, you are here complaining about not satisfying your girl.
Say no to pre marital sex *tongue out* Have u asked her what she likes been done to her in bed? Circumcision varies, if her clitoris was chopped off my dear u're wasting ur time. Also ask her if she has ever had an orgasm b4 and how the person fucked her to achieve orgasm. If u can't satisfy ur gf trust me u will never be happy and will soon lose interest in sex
she is not so into you thats just the problem. or her mind is somewhere else. When my woman sees me she gets wet. i also have an instant hard on when we just hug.... i need no drug or any substance to get me on
eayaa! dude i feel ur pain o, but pls i want to ask this question to my follow LIB, is cum different from orgasm? and is wet different from cum? abeg help me i be olode o.
I guess the problem is psychological,it happens when a girl is not that into you again,when a man has hurt a lady,even though she claimed she has forgiven him,she still harbour the hurt within. You need to meet a psychologist or an expert in that field.
Sweet heart. If u do. Not satisfy a woman then you are giving her a reason to cheat on you to find satisfaction, so frankly u need to let her go because no woman wants a man that can't make her Scream. Sorry. But it's the truth.
You said she's circumcised, that's the reason you can't satisfy her. Her clit was totally cut off with no fragment left. The other circumcised girls you've met probably have little fragments of clit left that's why they enjoy sex and can reach orgasm. Check well, your babe gat nothing left there. I'll suggest you ask her what stimulates her. How does she get satisfied sexually? How has she been enjoying sexual pleasure in her previous relationships? or she hasnt orgasmed once in her life? she should tell u and stop leaving you in the dark. It's all about communication.
Lmfao....all the comments I see here just makes me laugh only few pple are telling this guy the truth on wat to do...guy just talk to her...ask her wat she likes...communication is the key bro
My friend stop drinking panadol for another person! U said "every other thing in our relationship is going well", right? Then focus your energy on those positive aspect, since she's not bordered about u not making her reach orgasm! Haba!!!
Hmmm...she might just be frigid or both of you might not just be sexually compatible ...talk to her about it and learn about her past sexual experience .
Her Breasts... Learn to Suck em well. That works every time. And pls wen i say suck, i don't mean squeeze the life out of them or bite till she's bleeding. Just gently use ur tongue to tease the nipples
Sorrie dude! There are many things we don't know about you. How large is your d**k? How good a stamina have you got? Have you asked her what turns her on? Only with these facts will I be able to help you.
Sometimes I'll go down on her and stay there for over 30 mins trying to please her and when I raise my head to see if she was enjoying it she would ask me, are you done?......Seriously, buhahahaha, that girl is mean sha.
Sorrie dude! There are many things we don't know about you. How large is your d**k? How good a stamina have you got? Have you asked her what turns her on? Only with these facts will I be able to help you.
Rotfl @ i'll go down on her and stay there for over 30mins trying to please her 'lol'. Both of you should meet needs a counselor on sex matters please because if you ask me na who I go ask coz the Mata wey u see so e pass me jare #onelovefromSnow#
Its OBVIOUS SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU.. PROBABLY YOU ARE FORCING HER TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU. OR MONEY IS THE REASON WHY SHE IS JUST THERE WITH YOU.. THE TRUTH IS SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU PERIOD. I AM A LADY AND I UNDERSTAND DIS
Let her cum on u nd u put both boobs in ur mouth nd suck dm gently while she rides u slowly. 90% of women cum dt way whether circumcised or not. Trust me
thank God, you said that other things are going on well with both of you except the issue of Sex. My advice is this, ask her what will really make her happy in Bed, it might be mood swing or something else.
Ode you dey ask us wetein u fit do idiot keeping sucking her till u get throat cancer go ask Michael guy ditch dat lady before she kills u or bangs ur best friend all in d name of satisfaction
You have to talk to her to get her to tell you what she likes, it might be awkward but it has to be done. You might consider softening her b4 asking I.e dinner, wine or ice cream etc. Goodluck
Talk to her, u both should av a hrt to hrt talk, u can tell her what u like in bed and she should tell u too, if after sometime it still doesn't work out, u can find someone else instead if cheating so it will affect u both in d future, cos sex is very important in a relationship Jst my little opinion
hahahahahaahahaha, you for put your head inside nau.. nothing wey person no go hear oh. if she no wan cum then shun her nau afterall its not a must to cum during sex.
the lady is frigid. either you leave her or see her as your cross and put up with her lack of orgasm. there is nothing much you can do to change the situation. sorry about that.
Her inability to achieve a clitorial orgasm is all down to circumcision. I wonder if SHE can achieve an orgasm on her own.
Add in the fact that male circumcision involves the removal of the foreskin which contains 20,000 nerve endings which are there to increase pleasure, and you can see why circumcision of any kind is a barbaric act that stems from viewing sex as a taboo topic and seeks to control natural sexual urges. Before one spouts about "benefits" of circumcision, do your research. All lies.
I do not see why Christians still do it despite Jesus himself stating that the important circumcision one needs is that of the heart.
This is why I am against circumcision of any kind, except due to certain medical conditions, or when someone makes a conscious choice to do it instead of it being forced on them as babies. I hope many others will come to share my sentiments.
Guy talk wif ur girlfriend. She may not be telling somethings. I think she was abused. Make her see that u ar not just after sex. I think she does not know the implications of what she is doing. Marriage can't survive with such issue
Simply tell her to guide you through the lovemaking process so you get to learn what actually pleases her. Talk to her while making love, don't take initiatives, let her show you or teach you what she likes and what she's expecting of you sexually wise. If she feels loved, satisfied and emotionally secure, she will in turn be more than willing to satisfy you. If you try this and it still doesn't work...it may mean that she's frigid or just not that into sex. Hope this helps. Good luck!
Lol...Linda are u sure it's nt you d guy is referring to as d girl dat never gets satisfied...anyways my advise to you is to stay off sex,Jesus Loves U. Halleluyah!
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Communication is the most essential tool in a relationship, sit her down ask her questions about her body, know what turns her On and act on her soft spots #LetsTalkAboutIt follow @OneGr8Heart on twitter, it's a non profitable NGO with versatile specialists to help savage situations like yours
Her pussy nor get alignment. Toto is too wide and open and she's a dead log in bed. Dump her! Or maybe ur thing too small and u nor sabi use ur tongue n blokos to make her squirt. Anyway, na una sabi...make u go see hausa man to wen go sell you burantachi or agboo! Goodluck!!!
Do your homework by understanding a womans anatomy and what makes them tick,spend enough time on foreplay, and do not focus on making her climax, focus on making the sex enjoyable for everyone, it puts less pressure on your mind and makes you last longer. Im a guy btw, so i can tell you these are what ive done and got results from every time.
She is probably not into sex or into you in d first place. .. or maybe instead of pleading her with your tongue or hand , you were simply taking 30 minutes of ur time down there hurting her...how old are u lol
errm...she is circumcised..she would never enjoy the sex...the "circumcised" girls you have had sex with that you feel enjoyed it..lied to you....the fault isn't yours...but there's really nothing you can do about it..the only way she could enjoy it is emotionally...but never physically...also you should aim more for her nipples..no point in giving her head..there's no clitoris...just imagine her licking your elbow..
It takes 2... she saying "are u done" shows she's nt interested. If she is willing to put her mind 2it, u wont b complaining. Let her show u ow to please her. Also, if she hasnt complained, y bother?? Re u sure u aint jst readin meanin to d situation?
You better let her go cos na dog u she be, if not one day she go kill you. I've used my tongue, my fingers, my p****, nothing works...better use iron rod. Sometimes I'll go down on her and stay there for over 30 mins, guy na prayer session you dey ni...
She needs you to fuck her ass. Try it and she will scream you down. Most likely her thing is so wide and yours can't make any impact. Try has ass and see the way she will be begging for more. Now fire on!
women generally doesn't reach orgasm without alot of attention. ...i for one ..married with 2 children and i use toys with my hubby...nothing is wrong with you, dont let her give u low self esteem. Run for your life though....
I think ur trying too hard to please her you've turned ur sex life from pleasurable to a mission,otherwise, why go down on a woman for 30mins? What r u trying to prove? You need to talk to ur woman, allow her to take the lead, direct you during sex to stuffs that pleasures her. E.g fingers are a big turn off for me. Do you know hers? You have to be in a relaxed mood during sex. Again, maybe ur pen*s is either too small or too big. Ladies have preference. Talk to ur woman and not LLB.
You need not stress further, perhaps she has a very thicker clitoris n dried. You need to know how long she has been having sex? Most of them are always not feeling the regular size of p**** anymore except for bigger once.
I'll advice you seek help from Hausa man who are naturally endowed with such long thing.
Actually, have come close to such a lady like that before. but in her own case she enjoys sex is just that she doesn't reach orgasm. what most people don't know is that as we have male impotent so also there is female impotent but just that its different in the way it functions in both sex. like we all know how the function is in a male, but in the female case is different in the sense that in a female what happens is that they don't enjoy sex at all and also they feel pain all through no matter how good a male is on bed with them and they cannot reach orgasm. What i will advice is that she should go to the hospital maybe they can find a solution about it.
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Awwwww. I usually don't comment, but the part where u said that breaking up wasnt an option and u're crazy about her really warmed my heart.
I'll suggest you talk to her about it and hear her out first. It sounds to me like this has nothing to do with ur skills, but might be her. We women are quite complex when it comes to sex. Not all women are the same sexually. I am a medical doctor, and i can tell you that there are quite a few conditions that may cause a woman not to enjoy sexual intercourse with ANY man, from vaginismus, to psychological trauma in the past to Orgasmic Dysfunction, that may prevent sexual pleasure. Furthermore, different women have different "buttons" that make them cum. Some thru vaginal intercourse only, some clitoris only, some even labial and very few come from stimulation of all. It will also surprise u to know that as much as 1 in 3 women have trouble reaching orgasms...yes! So its not YOU honey. Many women are having this "problem".
Like i said, talk to her and see if there is a past situation(eg sexual abuse) that may be leading to this...and if there is, go see a therapist...they can help normalize ur sexual lifestyle. Or/and also see a gyn doctor who can also take it from there. Depending on what the problem is, they can help give you options and techniques to help her enjoy sex better.
Hugs to u. U seem like a great guy. Please make sure to establish a line of communication with her about everything ALWAYS. It will help u know how she feels and act the way she does, instead of u assuming.
Dating for just 11 months now and she always say are you done??? THE TRUTH IS SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU ONE BIT,maybe she is there before of your money or something
get a cameroun pepper, chew it very well before sex with her, dont drink water o, then go down on her with your tongue, that rigidity in her will vanish from her body.
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Hmmm LIBERS una no go kill me......wen thr was a topic abt a actress dat said ' it is good to have sex b4 marriage' everyone was abusing her, now u all are showing ur true colour as sex therapist. Geebaby
If she hasn't been satisfied before, then her problem could be medical. Probably she isn't producing enough female sex hormones. If she has been satisfied before, then, my friend, na ur side d wahala dey
she is a lesbian, no man will ever satisfy her!!!. That is why we keep saying that people should be allowed to choose their sexual partner, wether hetrosexual or homosexual!.
Probably she doesn't like long sex..she might like "straight to d point" anoda important factor is ur personal hygiene..its a total turn off for some ladies wen der men has body or mouth odour,except d lady herself is dirty..then d environment determines...if the room isn't conducive enouGh...its always an issue if der is hygiene difference between Couples.. 1st,talk to her abt hygiene den try anoda environment,probabaly a neat guest house.. I'm sure der are days when she had ENjoyed sex with you...maybe wen she was a bit High on alcohol...just saying.
Try this. Talking from experience with my present babe. First make sure you clean. Does she cuddle or kiss you without notice. Then you pass that test. Now my babe is circumcised but we still reach cloud nine. She made me to understand that I shouldn't try to make her cum but try to make love to her. Be gentle, be slow, listen and don't be fooled by those porn film. There are so many other sensitive parts of a Womans body. What Am saying is make love to her body and mind. Now Am not saying you will get it right at first but she will notice your actions. Woman like that need time. But after 3 times or more on this path. You will get her to call you daddy. Her body and mind not porn film.
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DeleteAll you need to do is to seek for penis enlargement and protect yur woman,cos if she ever got another enlarged dude dick,am sowi for yu,..in olu jacob's voice.
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ReplyDeletethat is assuming she always cums! As a retired legendary womanologist and breastographer,i know for certain that women have differing libido levels.as par the question,satisfying her wont be easy. You need to know what her zodiac sign is - that wld lead you to her erogenious spot(s).then u get the ice cubes,hot chocolates,vanilla ice creams,spanks etc #there is a science to satisfying your woman.#send your questions to joene2348@gmail.com.some raw truths cant be discussed openly.
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ReplyDeleteThe best thing for you to do is to speak with her. Let her show you how to do it. Nobody knows a womans body like a woman herself. You just arent pushing the right buttons that is all. don't panic. I give out tips and tricks for sex in my blog www.askralph.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteit doesnt matter if she is circumsiced there is always a way. But first of all forget your pride and speak with her.
You are a wise man@ Ask Ralph. A very wise man,well said!!! Its not how long you go down on her. If you do the "right things" it won't take long, the moans will testify, but u can only know the "right things" if u ask her
DeleteAS for my wife..she knows wat she enjoys..when she's on top on me, she always know where to hit that will make her cum..mostly on second round when i wont cum on time..i always feel happy when she cums..IT FEELS GOOD.
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ReplyDeleteyou are stupid and very very stupid, your girlfriend not wife. you be drown by now self, how can she be pleased with your stupidity. and you boastful said ''i dumped her''
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ReplyDeleteThere are women that are harder to please and its only natural. you can spend an hour going down on her without actually doing anthing. you can be going as fast as you can without hitting what turns her on. circumsised women get off more by penetration and g-spot stimulation than teasing of the clitoris. Talk with her I still urge you and I swear you will see your mistakes.
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LISTEN..not all ladies can cum especially the ones circumcised..just keep trying your luck by fingering her gently..put A FINGER in and make the come here sign with one finger , scrubing the upper wall of her vagina gently, u will c her screaming gently and moaning then she will definitely cum..OR she will beg u to climb her..TRUST ME
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ReplyDeleteLmao... Dat lady is possesed I guess. Cos wen ma man suck ma p***y, I reach orgasm quickly.. Maybe u shuld talk and ask her wat turns her onn. Evry woman has her weakest point.. Let her tel u her's.
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DeleteG-spot stimulation over clitoral stimulation. penetration will work better. she will hardly have feelings in her clit so its either u use a firmer hand to tease her clit and forget totally about giving her head or else you are using your tongue in her "inner lips".
ReplyDeleteStop blabbing u ignorant fool. Over sabi way no sabi anything. Wat is gspot stimulation? My friend clitoral stimulation is d key to women Orgasm. Penetration is only fun d 1st few seconds of entry. Do ur research and ask women. Mumu
DeleteIS SHE COMPLAINING OR YOU ARE WORRYING YOURSELF? DO YOUR BEST AND LEAVE THE REST IS THE BEST POLICY. (DEM NO DEY WIN GOLD MEDAL FOR "DE THING" AND NOBODY DE DO AM PASS!)IF SHE NEEDS "DAT FEELING", SHE WOULD EVENTUALLY TELL U HER "PASSWORD" WHEN SHE TRUSTS YOU ENOUGH AND FEELS COMFORTABLE DISCUSSING HER BODY.
ReplyDeleteTHE TRUTH IS THAT PUT ONE FINGER IN HER AND MAKE THE COME HERE SIGN WITH ONE FINGER, SCRUBING THE UPPER WALL OF HER VAGINA GENTLY, IT WILL MAKE HER SHIVER..TRUST ME ON THIS.it will make her cum easily ,..Thank me later..
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ReplyDeleteHave u asked her what she likes been done to her in bed? Circumcision varies, if her clitoris was chopped off my dear u're wasting ur time. Also ask her if she has ever had an orgasm b4 and how the person fucked her to achieve orgasm. If u can't satisfy ur gf trust me u will never be happy and will soon lose interest in sex
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she is not so into you thats just the problem. or her mind is somewhere else. When my woman sees me she gets wet. i also have an instant hard on when we just hug.... i need no drug or any substance to get me on
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ReplyDeleteWell I think u both shud discuss it
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ReplyDeleteeayaa! dude i feel ur pain o, but pls i want to ask this question to my follow LIB, is cum different from orgasm? and is wet different from cum? abeg help me i be olode o.
ReplyDeleteYou cum when you reach orgasm . you get wet when you feel like having sex
DeleteU don't need to worry cuz it's not your fault.
ReplyDeleteI guess the problem is psychological,it happens when a girl is not that into you again,when a man has hurt a lady,even though she claimed she has forgiven him,she still harbour the hurt within.
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Sweet heart. If u do. Not satisfy a woman then you are giving her a reason to cheat on you to find satisfaction, so frankly u need to let her go because no woman wants a man that can't make her Scream. Sorry. But it's the truth.
ReplyDeleteYou said she's circumcised, that's the reason you can't satisfy her. Her clit was totally cut off with no fragment left. The other circumcised girls you've met probably have little fragments of clit left that's why they enjoy sex and can reach orgasm. Check well, your babe gat nothing left there. I'll suggest you ask her what stimulates her. How does she get satisfied sexually? How has she been enjoying sexual pleasure in her previous relationships? or she hasnt orgasmed once in her life? she should tell u and stop leaving you in the dark. It's all about communication.
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DeleteLmfao....all the comments I see here just makes me laugh only few pple are telling this guy the truth on wat to do...guy just talk to her...ask her wat she likes...communication is the key bro
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DeleteMy friend stop drinking panadol for another person! U said "every other thing in our relationship is going well", right? Then focus your energy on those positive aspect, since she's not bordered about u not making her reach orgasm! Haba!!!
ReplyDeleteu have to go gaga with her.
ReplyDeleteHmmm...she might just be frigid or both of you might not just be sexually compatible ...talk to her about it and learn about her past sexual experience .
ReplyDeletexi think you should introduce anal sex. it would definately get her attention. linda please post this it will help him.
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Dump her b4 it destroys ur self esteem abeg.....
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You should check out some useful tips online, and maybe you talk to that babe of yours maybe she has had problems reaching orgasm with other men.
ReplyDeleteMaybe you see a medical doctor, you can work something out.
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Hello Sir...not every woman enojoys sex. you need to be sure she is not one of them..for one I pretend to be satisfied so my fiancée isn't frustrated but I can totally not be bothered. I wish we wouldn't do it. I don't know if its guilt cos of my religion (I just know I wish we wouldn't so I pretend)
ReplyDeleteDiaris God o. Am like that too. Why tho?
DeleteTry a romantic date and also watch adult movies together.. it could be of help... cheers
ReplyDeleteTalk to her #bright bravo#
ReplyDeleteHer Breasts... Learn to Suck em well. That works every time. And pls wen i say suck, i don't mean squeeze the life out of them or bite till she's bleeding. Just gently use ur tongue to tease the nipples
ReplyDeleteOn point
DeleteYou should talk about it with her.
ReplyDeleteSorrie dude! There are many things we don't know about you. How large is your d**k? How good a stamina have you got? Have you asked her what turns her on? Only with these facts will I be able to help you.
ReplyDeleteSometimes I'll go down on her and stay there for over 30 mins trying to please her and when I raise my head to see if she was enjoying it she would ask me, are you done?......Seriously, buhahahaha, that girl is mean sha.
ReplyDeleteSorrie dude! There are many things we don't know about you. How large is your d**k? How good a stamina have you got? Have you asked her what turns her on? Only with these facts will I be able to help you.
ReplyDeleteMaybe your dick Is small. I Don't blame her
ReplyDeleteCall 911.......*Lmao*
ReplyDeleteYOUNG MAN! WHAT YOU SEE NOW IS A RED FLAG.IN CASE OF TOMORROW...WATCH OUT.DON,T CRY RIVER 2MORO..SHE WAS SOMEWHERE B4 YOU MET HER....
ReplyDeleteDAFEMAN MORITZ
Ask her, it may be a thing of her mind.
ReplyDeleteAsk her what she wants, I didn't read that anywhere in your narrative!!!Ask her, talk to her!
ReplyDeleteRotfl @ i'll go down on her and stay there for over 30mins trying to please her 'lol'. Both of you should meet needs a counselor on sex matters please because if you ask me na who I go ask coz the Mata wey u see so e pass me jare #onelovefromSnow#
ReplyDeletehmm
ReplyDeletehmm
ReplyDeleteSpontaneous sex is what you need, formal sex in bed is a no - no. Take her at unusual places at unusual hours. Best of luck
ReplyDeleteRent someone who has big **** to help you service her or better yet you can buy a horse to do that for you.
ReplyDeleteIts OBVIOUS SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU.. PROBABLY YOU ARE FORCING HER TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU. OR MONEY IS THE REASON WHY SHE IS JUST THERE WITH YOU.. THE TRUTH IS SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU PERIOD. I AM A LADY AND I UNDERSTAND DIS
ReplyDeleteBia Linda, what's is p****??? Prick or penis no be new something again jor
ReplyDeleteLet her cum on u nd u put both boobs in ur mouth nd suck dm gently while she rides u slowly. 90% of women cum dt way whether circumcised or not. Trust me
Deletethank God, you said that other things are going on well with both of you except the issue of Sex. My advice is this, ask her what will really make her happy in Bed, it might be mood swing or something else.
ReplyDeletethank you
My candid advice to you is to dump her before it's too late. Women like her cheats on their husbands when they get married.
ReplyDeleteOde you dey ask us wetein u fit do idiot keeping sucking her till u get throat cancer go ask Michael
ReplyDeleteguy ditch dat lady before she kills u or bangs ur best friend all in d name of satisfaction
You have to talk to her to get her to tell you what she likes, it might be awkward but it has to be done. You might consider softening her b4 asking I.e dinner, wine or ice cream etc. Goodluck
ReplyDeleteTalk to her, u both should av a hrt to hrt talk, u can tell her what u like in bed and she should tell u too, if after sometime it still doesn't work out, u can find someone else instead if cheating so it will affect u both in d future, cos sex is very important in a relationship
ReplyDeleteJst my little opinion
hahahahahaahahaha, you for put your head inside nau.. nothing wey person no go hear oh. if she no wan cum then shun her nau afterall its not a must to cum during sex.
ReplyDeleteMy brother u get srs work 2 do oooo. Dis kain woman go need Eva 1.5 litre bottle 2 feel anything.
ReplyDeleteTruth is, the other ladies were just pretending to enjoy it....anyways sha just keep on firing. Hopefully someday she'll go gaga
ReplyDeletethe lady is frigid.
ReplyDeleteeither you leave her or see her as your cross and put up with her lack of orgasm.
there is nothing much you can do to change the situation.
sorry about that.
Please try harder
ReplyDeleteGive her dogoyaro and monkey tail and you take caro...come and thank me later
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm just enjoy ur self
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm just enjoy ur self
ReplyDeletena wa o
ReplyDeleteSHE DOESN'T LOVE U...FINISH!!!
ReplyDeleteThere are sex drugs that you can get for her, just ask your doctor for a prescription and you will see her begging for more.
ReplyDeleteEg. Spanish Fly.. there are other ones too
Her inability to achieve a clitorial orgasm is all down to circumcision. I wonder if SHE can achieve an orgasm on her own.
ReplyDeleteAdd in the fact that male circumcision involves the removal of the foreskin which contains 20,000 nerve endings which are there to increase pleasure, and you can see why circumcision of any kind is a barbaric act that stems from viewing sex as a taboo topic and seeks to control natural sexual urges. Before one spouts about "benefits" of circumcision, do your research. All lies.
I do not see why Christians still do it despite Jesus himself stating that the important circumcision one needs is that of the heart.
This is why I am against circumcision of any kind, except due to certain medical conditions, or when someone makes a conscious choice to do it instead of it being forced on them as babies. I hope many others will come to share my sentiments.
Guy talk wif ur girlfriend. She may not be telling somethings. I think she was abused. Make her see that u ar not just after sex. I think she does not know the implications of what she is doing. Marriage can't survive with such issue
ReplyDeleteSimply tell her to guide you through the lovemaking process so you get to learn what actually pleases her. Talk to her while making love, don't take initiatives, let her show you or teach you what she likes and what she's expecting of you sexually wise. If she feels loved, satisfied and emotionally secure, she will in turn be more than willing to satisfy you. If you try this and it still doesn't work...it may mean that she's frigid or just not that into sex. Hope this helps. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteLol...Linda are u sure it's nt you d guy is referring to as d girl dat never gets satisfied...anyways my advise to you is to stay off sex,Jesus Loves U. Halleluyah!
ReplyDeletefinger her with pestel or Firewood
ReplyDeleteCHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT IN HER OWN WAY.
ReplyDeleteCHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY
CHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY
CHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY
CHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT IN HER OWN WAY.
CHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY
CHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY
CHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY
CHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT IN HER OWN WAY.
ReplyDeleteCHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY
CHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY
CHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY
CHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT IN HER OWN WAY.
CHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY
CHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY
CHANGE THE SEX STYLE AND LET HER COME ON YOU TO DO IT THE RIGHT WAY
Communication is the most essential tool in a relationship, sit her down ask her questions about her body, know what turns her On and act on her soft spots #LetsTalkAboutIt follow @OneGr8Heart on twitter, it's a non profitable NGO with versatile specialists to help savage situations like yours
ReplyDeleteTurn back the hands of time and uncircumcised her... #YourProblemIsSolved.
ReplyDeletecherrykoko
Her pussy nor get alignment. Toto is too wide and open and she's a dead log in bed. Dump her! Or maybe ur thing too small and u nor sabi use ur tongue n blokos to make her squirt. Anyway, na una sabi...make u go see hausa man to wen go sell you burantachi or agboo! Goodluck!!!
ReplyDeleteUse knife or scissors, that will do magic.
ReplyDeleteshe might be seeing someone else she can't resist, who drives her crazy.. just saying..
ReplyDeleteWell dats pathetic, but if ur sure u can cope with dat, then it shldnt be a prb.
ReplyDeleteShe's not inlove with you
ReplyDeleteShe might belong somewhere
I'll say she's lez but even lez enjoy "dish-washing" unless she's a hardcore one...
Eyaa Sowi..
ReplyDeleteMy broda, no b ur fault. U won't kill yasef bcos u want to please her na. Make she talk wetin dey worry am. U guys should talk abt it.
ReplyDeleteDo your homework by understanding a womans anatomy and what makes them tick,spend enough time on foreplay, and do not focus on making her climax, focus on making the sex enjoyable for everyone, it puts less pressure on your mind and makes you last longer. Im a guy btw, so i can tell you these are what ive done and got results from every time.
ReplyDeleteGive me her number
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm ok guyz please assist ( meemee ).
ReplyDeleteThis is a matter of experience. I'll wait to see what solution(s) people would profer to this problem.
ReplyDeleteShe is probably not into sex or into you in d first place. .. or maybe instead of pleading her with your tongue or hand , you were simply taking 30 minutes of ur time down there hurting her...how old are u lol
ReplyDelete*sigh... this one is strong.. you guys just need to open up to each other and proffer solutions.. will like to meet such a woman though
ReplyDeleteAre you done ?
ReplyDeleteerrm...she is circumcised..she would never enjoy the sex...the "circumcised" girls you have had sex with that you feel enjoyed it..lied to you....the fault isn't yours...but there's really nothing you can do about it..the only way she could enjoy it is emotionally...but never physically...also you should aim more for her nipples..no point in giving her head..there's no clitoris...just imagine her licking your elbow..
ReplyDeleteSend her to me to activate her orgasmability and to set it to your level, or try MAGANI.
ReplyDeletemy contact? just ask.
It takes 2... she saying "are u done" shows she's nt interested. If she is willing to put her mind 2it, u wont b complaining. Let her show u ow to please her. Also, if she hasnt complained, y bother?? Re u sure u aint jst readin meanin to d situation?
ReplyDeleteTalk things with her over
ReplyDeletesee a doctor. she might just have hormonal imbalance or you might be hitting the wrong spots
ReplyDeletemaybe shes nt attracted to you sexually..
ReplyDeleteYou better let her go cos na dog u she be, if not one day she go kill you. I've used my tongue, my fingers, my p****, nothing works...better use iron rod. Sometimes I'll go down on her and stay there for over 30 mins, guy na prayer session you dey ni...
ReplyDeleteBORN TO SHINE!!!
Some women are like party rice yu can't finish it alone.. I think this is one of them.. Ruuuuuuuuuuun
ReplyDeleteShe needs you to fuck her ass. Try it and she will scream you down. Most likely her thing is so wide and yours can't make any impact. Try has ass and see the way she will be begging for more. Now fire on!
ReplyDeletewomen generally doesn't reach orgasm without alot of attention. ...i for one ..married with 2 children and i use toys with my hubby...nothing is wrong with you, dont let her give u low self esteem. Run for your life though....
ReplyDeleteIs she complain?.#THAT AKWA IBOM BOY#
ReplyDeleteshe is a lesbian! if you doubt me, have a threesome with her and see if she wont have multiple orgasms
ReplyDeleteUse ur feet.
ReplyDeleteUse Anafranil...25mg
ReplyDeletefirst i would say she doesn't love you that is why she is not feeling you.she is crazy about someone else. my advice avoid premarital sex
ReplyDeleteI think ur trying too hard to please her you've turned ur sex life from pleasurable to a mission,otherwise, why go down on a woman for 30mins? What r u trying to prove? You need to talk to ur woman, allow her to take the lead, direct you during sex to stuffs that pleasures her. E.g fingers are a big turn off for me. Do you know hers? You have to be in a relaxed mood during sex. Again, maybe ur pen*s is either too small or too big. Ladies have preference. Talk to ur woman and not LLB.
ReplyDeleteHow about asking the party concerned?mtsheww
ReplyDeleteYou need not stress further, perhaps she has a very thicker clitoris n dried.
ReplyDeleteYou need to know how long she has been having sex? Most of them are always not feeling the regular size of p**** anymore except for bigger once.
I'll advice you seek help from Hausa man who are naturally endowed with such long thing.
SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU....Haba!!!
ReplyDeleteMaybe she's not into u because that happens to me before
ReplyDeletelinda pls do not publish stop stories anymore, you are suppose to be an ambassador for morality
ReplyDeleteActually, have come close to such a lady like that before. but in her own case she enjoys sex is just that she doesn't reach orgasm. what most people don't know is that as we have male impotent so also there is female impotent but just that its different in the way it functions in both sex. like we all know how the function is in a male, but in the female case is different in the sense that in a female what happens is that they don't enjoy sex at all and also they feel pain all through no matter how good a male is on bed with them and they cannot reach orgasm. What i will advice is that she should go to the hospital maybe they can find a solution about it.
ReplyDeleteGO AND DO PENIS ENLARGEMENT.. SO SURE IT WILL HAVE HER VAVAVOOM SCATTERED.THEN VISIT SEX SHOP , AND BUY A VIBRATOR THAT IS BIGGER THAN UR PUNANA... LOL
ReplyDeleteAwwwww. I usually don't comment, but the part where u said that breaking up wasnt an option and u're crazy about her really warmed my heart.
ReplyDeleteI'll suggest you talk to her about it and hear her out first. It sounds to me like this has nothing to do with ur skills, but might be her. We women are quite complex when it comes to sex. Not all women are the same sexually. I am a medical doctor, and i can tell you that there are quite a few conditions that may cause a woman not to enjoy sexual intercourse with ANY man, from vaginismus, to psychological trauma in the past to Orgasmic Dysfunction, that may prevent sexual pleasure. Furthermore, different women have different "buttons" that make them cum. Some thru vaginal intercourse only, some clitoris only, some even labial and very few come from stimulation of all. It will also surprise u to know that as much as 1 in 3 women have trouble reaching orgasms...yes! So its not YOU honey. Many women are having this "problem".
Like i said, talk to her and see if there is a past situation(eg sexual abuse) that may be leading to this...and if there is, go see a therapist...they can help normalize ur sexual lifestyle. Or/and also see a gyn doctor who can also take it from there. Depending on what the problem is, they can help give you options and techniques to help her enjoy sex better.
Hugs to u. U seem like a great guy. Please make sure to establish a line of communication with her about everything ALWAYS. It will help u know how she feels and act the way she does, instead of u assuming.
I wish u the best of luck!
Comments here getting me hard.. OMG!!! Gotta go wank. Brb... #Fakolee
ReplyDeleteDating for just 11 months now and she always say are you done??? THE TRUTH IS SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU ONE BIT,maybe she is there before of your money or something
ReplyDeleteIs she pleasing you? You were not created to be a sex machine you know
ReplyDeleteget a cameroun pepper, chew it very well before sex with her, dont drink water o, then go down on her with your tongue, that rigidity in her will vanish from her body.
ReplyDeleteu need to apply something minty on the clit e.g toothpaste
ReplyDeleteThank me later :)
keep trying .... pele
ReplyDeleteHi, my name is Godwin, I don't want you to feel too bad okay. Just call me and talk to me on this number, 08169616262, lets talk man to man okay.
ReplyDeleteregards.
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ReplyDeletePlease tell them to repent of their sins and embrace Christ before it becomes too late for them. Copulation is for the married; awoof dey turn belle.
ReplyDeleteLinda r u sure it isn't you finding solutions for your new man!
ReplyDeleteshe needs to learn to tell you what she wants. sex is about communication
ReplyDeleteShe is circumcised, she wot enjoy sex unless you stick it in her butt. You gotta fuck her real gentle in the ass.
ReplyDeleteHmmm LIBERS una no go kill me......wen thr was a topic abt a actress dat said ' it is good to have sex b4 marriage' everyone was abusing her, now u all are showing ur true colour as sex therapist. Geebaby
ReplyDeletesit her down and ask her what she likes.she is the best person to talk to,not us.ZAINAB
ReplyDeleteIf she hasn't been satisfied before, then her problem could be medical. Probably she isn't producing enough female sex hormones. If she has been satisfied before, then, my friend, na ur side d wahala dey
ReplyDeleteshe is a lesbian, no man will ever satisfy her!!!. That is why we keep saying that people should be allowed to choose their sexual partner, wether hetrosexual or homosexual!.
ReplyDeleteIs she bisexual? Maybe she enjoys women more.
ReplyDeleteYou guys need to sit n talk.you a good guy.dat shows u care. Unlike some selfish dudes who care only for themselves. Hiss!
ReplyDeleteProbably she doesn't like long sex..she might like "straight to d point" anoda important factor is ur personal hygiene..its a total turn off for some ladies wen der men has body or mouth odour,except d lady herself is dirty..then d environment determines...if the room isn't conducive enouGh...its always an issue if der is hygiene difference between Couples.. 1st,talk to her abt hygiene den try anoda environment,probabaly a neat guest house.. I'm sure der are days when she had ENjoyed sex with you...maybe wen she was a bit High on alcohol...just saying.
ReplyDeleteI think u shld try using the female condom with her
ReplyDeleteTry this. Talking from experience with my present babe. First make sure you clean. Does she cuddle or kiss you without notice. Then you pass that test. Now my babe is circumcised but we still reach cloud nine. She made me to understand that I shouldn't try to make her cum but try to make love to her. Be gentle, be slow, listen and don't be fooled by those porn film. There are so many other sensitive parts of a Womans body. What Am saying is make love to her body and mind. Now Am not saying you will get it right at first but she will notice your actions. Woman like that need time. But after 3 times or more on this path. You will get her to call you daddy. Her body and mind not porn film.
ReplyDeleteSimple fix...drink alomo
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ReplyDeletePray to gods of her land
ReplyDeleteEeeeyah my people una no see life
ReplyDeletethe pussy no get nafdac no be dat
abi ur dick size na half inch
please try use (ekona gowan )or
make u apply (Aboniki) on your
dick and deep am inside she must
dance cum by force n faya
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ReplyDeleteDude, look 4 d drug called ANA****. iyanya used it on ***** Nelson.
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