I'm sooooo scared and confused I had sex with my boyfriend who is 20 years old In summer and I know I'm pregnant because my period hasn't come since July and Ive started feeling signs what should I do should I abort the pregnancy or tell my parents? My boyfriend said I should keep it I'm currently doing my foundation I'm supposed to leave for the UK next year please time is running out I think my life is over I need help.
Please keep the pregnancy. Abortion should never be an option.
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Give birth to it,next time use a condom
ReplyDeleteKeep it!!!ur parent are rich
ReplyDeleteLol. You didn't let the world know when you were behind closed doors enjoying o! Now you're making us brain storm for you. Wereey nie. O ti kuri. Inu e bu Oo ri orun sa. Lol. Tie ti bae. Wether you keep it or abort it, you lose both ways
ReplyDeleteNo dnt! since d guy is ready 2 take d responsibilities
ReplyDeleteU shdve asked for help before you had sex wt him.Abstinence would've helped.Sory u just need to keep the baby. Abortion will be a double sin.
ReplyDeleteTruly, your life is over for now *straight face
ReplyDeleteTell your parent, they will decide for u.
Say no to unprotected sex/ use condom
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U berra keep it,u no wan preg n u dey fuck...
ReplyDeleteKeep jor...and be a woman
ReplyDeleteur life is not ova buh my advice 4 u is to keep d baby and learn frm ur mistake.
ReplyDeleteToo bad hw d ladies cant keep their legs closed knowing they are at rthe receiving end. Now your torn between killing that child and keeping it.
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You haven't seen your period since July.. This is November.. You should be 5months pregnant...
ReplyDeleteAnd you want to abort??
Wow!!!
If you were few weeks pregnant, would have advised you abort it.. But 5months is way risky...
Well, since you are in UK.. The Doctors might help...
Sad...but at this stage u jst av to.keep it cos its late alrdy. since july????? Hnmmm just tell ur parents my dear.. gud luck
ReplyDeleteGo and tell ur parent first. Oniranu onisekuse omokekere.
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Be responsible and have ur baby,afterall toto and prick scratch una, its a mistake and u gotta face it,a child is a blessing from God!! Dont even consider abortion
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ReplyDeleteWe haf hear!!
Please don't abort your child, you'll regret it for the rest of your life. I know you're scared and confused but this child could end up being your greatest blessing. Talk to your parents or someone who can talk to them on your behalf. Maybe your grand parents? Or a counsellor? it's not going to be easy but you've already made one mistake, don't make another by killing your child. You're lucky your boyfriend is supportive. I pray God helps you through this.
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ReplyDeleteHave the baby. God be with you. It is well. Gen 2:9..Rom 6:23. BishopDammy#
ReplyDeleteWhat? All these questions on L.I.B thesedays freaks me out..
ReplyDeleteBig girl caught sleeping with her younger sister's Boyfriend[pics/video ]
Nne carry urcross.......umu aka dis dayz Sef
ReplyDeleteYou are so in deep shit!
ReplyDeleteBut all is not lost, as all you need to do is postpone your UK foundation and instead get other education backup in Nigeria working until after the child then you can leave it for mummy and go continue your school.
Have d baby..d tin dat made u have sex without a condom should also give u d strength to prepare ur cervix for ur baby.
ReplyDeleteLeave sex till Marriage.. mbanu!!!
ReplyDeleteOya what dyu want us to do now??? Eh. Carry the child. Your 18 and wow!! ...am speechless. Am not judging, but please women we can do it. Preserve your dignity.
Well, dont abort. Just give birth.
Shikena
When u guys were doing it ur life no over then ooo. Yeye.
ReplyDeleteMy friend go and abort...
For more dumb ass advice like this add me 24C632E3
So U want Libers to tell U weda to keep d pregnancy or go for abortion. My dear, we re in no position to do dat...
ReplyDeleteThese pple don't inform Libers before committing d act but dey leta cum nd bore Us with their stories of 'I need advise'.. Well my advise is, U shud nt av had sex. Shekina
Welcome to motherhood.
ReplyDeleteCondom sales are really low this year,why cant people use rubbers anymore??
ReplyDeleteBabyGal ur Life is Nt Over Yet, but Wen u dey Colect D 2by2 plank u no no?
ReplyDeleteIf u haven't seen ur period since July den abortion might b risky...tel ur mum
ReplyDeleteRubbish when you were unzipping libers didn't hear abt it,na you don carry belle,you need our help,what nonsense!!!
ReplyDeleteD guy one secure him future, cos he knws u travelling,
ReplyDeletesugar y did u send dis?u alredy keepin it,5monts preg is no joke o,abortion is not an option at dis stage,u nt d first being preg at 18 nd u wont b d last,u came 2 dis one alone nd u wil die alone so no mata wot anybody says 2 u plz dont mind,u wil give birth safely,no one is perfect,we all bunch of imperfections so kip ur child u no mata d hurdles and struggles stay strong nd i bet u u wil b glad u did,plz b happy,u just got only 4 months left,love u
ReplyDeletetel ur parents,d worst de wil do is shout,de wont kill u,de may not even shout sef,u wil b so surprised
ReplyDeletemumu gal.when will you have brain when your dumb at 18 .you cant control your whore_mones.
ReplyDeleteTell only ur mum, vry fast
ReplyDeleteBrymo said " if ur old enough to fuck, ur old enough to know, nobody gives a fuck"... Truth is, u should keep the baby. Bible says so and it just might be the best decision you'll ever make. I have this friend who's ur age and she had a baby. Twas hell at first from family and all, but now, none of em can imagine their lives without the bundle of joy. So trust in the lord, give him your troubles and he'll make crooked ways smooth. And if things work out, try not to get pregnant again until you really are ready. #Udo
ReplyDeleteHow can you think about abortion is a remedy.
ReplyDeleteTwo wrongs can't help here. you're even lucky that your bobo agreed.
Please give take care of yourself n give birth to the innocent child. You still have a bright future because you're still very young.
Look beyond the present my dear.
MURDER IS AN ORIGINAL SIN.
ABORTION IS MURDER.
How can you think about abortion is a remedy.
ReplyDeleteTwo wrongs can't help here. you're even lucky that your bobo agreed.
Please give take care of yourself n give birth to the innocent child. You still have a bright future because you're still very young.
Look beyond the present my dear.
MURDER IS AN ORIGINAL SIN.
ABORTION IS MURDER.
Ur life isn't over.....a new one is just beginning.....another path...........u should tell ur parents.......what does a twenty year old boy know???....I mean he's older than you and yet wasn't responsible enough to use protection...*except if it got torn......no matter what happens , tell ur folks.....but ultimately, d decision lies with u.....it's ur life that will be upturned....that child will be ur responsibility....are u ready for it?....on another note,,,,,are u ready to take a life?...the choice is urs.....for me, I think getting yelled at by parents and pointed at by friends and hater for abt 6months(cos that's the highest it would take people to move on to another news), is a much better deal than a nagging conscience....or being reminded of ur sin by any 'lil kid u see.......that child could end up being the only constant thing in ur life...goodluck
ReplyDeletePls dnt abort it cos is rather late nw, u'r almost 5month gone,u need tell ur parent so dey can guard u,pls always play safe cos u'r still young.
ReplyDeleteu re very stupid,u Got pregnant in July nd u re askin in nov iF u shld abort it..i am guessing u re probably havin a Laugh.hissssss
ReplyDeletePls watever u do, do not abort mbong
ReplyDeleteDon't abort the baby please, I beg of you in God's name.
ReplyDeleteIf I knew what I know now, I wouldn't have done so to mine.
Not seeing ur period since July mks abortion difficult so telling ur mum wud b ideal
ReplyDeleteYour life is not over.Keep the baby and u'd be glad you did.
ReplyDeleteWhen you dey do am and e dey sweet you, u no ask for help from linda's blog.
ReplyDeleteThe thing we you no go eat, make u no smell am.
you are to make your decision yourself. It's not up to anyone.
I think you should keep it and tell your parents what if something bad happens
ReplyDeleteKeep it thanks,#THAT AKWA IBOM BOY
ReplyDeleteI bet you now know how the forbidden fruit taste like. Tell you mum,she's not gonna kill.
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If u think ur parents can take kia of the child den keep it, at 18 ur already having sex.
ReplyDeletePls ask google. Cos wen ur enjoy it. U did not ask us. I advice u to keep it
ReplyDeleteyou just have to keep it baby
ReplyDeleteKeep it.. Its a gift 4rm G0D.
ReplyDeleteYou are young,but please don't abort,save yourself the guilt.
ReplyDeleteWhy did you wait till now?!
ReplyDeleteYou haven't seen your period since July and you waited 4 months?! Have you done a pregnancy test?
Girl, you ARE NOT A CHILD, get a pregnancy test and make the decision.
Please keep it
ReplyDeleteNa waooo,u expect us now to encourage u to abort,forget ur education for now,ur BF asked u to keep it,welcome to motherhood.mtchewwww
ReplyDeleteYoung lady ,I can't imagine how you must be feeling now .I think you should tell your mom, have the baby and leave him / her with your mother and go and pursue your education .Your family would be disappointed , some might even encourage you to take the baby out, but things will turn around .Just don't put your life on pause because of this mistake .The decision is yours. Goodluck and God bless you.
ReplyDeleteYour are not the only girl who have got pregnant at teen . your boyfriend said you should keep it,only him knows why you should keep it.
ReplyDeleteBut apart from that,I will suggest that you keep your baby . save the baby to save the world.
Your parents get the final say in this matter and for that reason alone,you should let them know your condition.
You can continue with your education,travel or whatever after birth.
why must you hav sex in the first place @18 and ur guy is twenty@20 when we @ 22 the huszle to make pay for our self una the get wife@twenty ok on your own sha'''oyo''but for you a mistake is already done keep the baby dnt abot the baby keep it'oo take care and for the uk trip dash me ur visa boys the game oo take dear the lord wil c u tru
ReplyDeleteDO NOT ABORT THAT BABY.Just because you made a mistake does not mean your life is over. Tell your parents about it and live your life. God will see you through in Jesus name.
ReplyDeleteAm so tired and bored with all these stupid advice seeking...so it has taken u 4 good months to realise u needed to make a decision..what happened to taking a pregnancy test the moment you missed your first period or even when you still didn't have a period after 2 months. Abeg go and sit down somewhere! When you r all being advised to use protection or abstain nobody listens then we hear all these silly stories that touches. I don't have any advice for you because you already made up your mind by sitting on this mess for 4 good months! Having said that my rant is not personal I am just tired of all these young girls with promising futures just allowing themselves to get compromised like this. PEOPLE PLEASE SEX NO BE FOOD! If you must have sex please use protection!
ReplyDeleteSorry darling, tell your mom asap!
ReplyDeleteThe best help for a pregnant woman whether 18 or 45yrs is to continue doing the thing s*x as you were doing it before it occurs. Abortion count me out.
ReplyDeleteYou too run out of time,love girl. When you re moaning you didn't know then Ooo you be they sweet you. Keep it,joor.
ReplyDeletePlease don't abort the child, tell your parents, raise him and I'm sure he will make you smile one day.
ReplyDeleteI think you should tale time to think of all the pros and cons of aborting. Don't be misguided by what people say (people will judge you no matter the decision you make). You're the only one that knows the true feeling of what you're going through. Think and pray about it. Talk to a close older aunty if possible and if you feel you can tell your parents then go ahead. Try To Focus on your studies too. Don't Think pregnancy is the end of the world, its not, ok? The Lord is your strength. Wish I could help further.
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Ur Bf wants 2 tie u down with dat baby sha... please don't abort, u are already in ur 2nd trimester. Have d baby & keep pursuing ur education/career... having a child is not bad buh pre marital sex is.
ReplyDeleteKeep the baby tell ur parents
ReplyDeleteYour folks obviously have cheddah, find a way to get some money from them and see a professional, ur definitely not ready for the pregnancy and i'm sure u dnt wanna really ruin ur life by yourself. PS: sex is no biggie but these youngins' shud be more careful. @mcpapillo
ReplyDeletehmmm! sex has cause so many problemsssss..that's why i dey hold my self ooo lol
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hu send u mke u go f**k,u wanna hear suggestions lyk abortion ba?go ahead and destroy ur lyf....u beta kip dat innocent child o#tough love#
ReplyDeletePlease please please......keep it ok.
ReplyDeleteSorry ehn
ReplyDeletePray to God
ReplyDeleteD more d guy is ready to take responsibility of it why not keep it and tell ur parent then they will know wat to do
ReplyDeleteAbortion is a mortal sin.
ReplyDeleteYou try nah....well done. Abi wetin I for talk?
ReplyDeleteWell, you are about 5months now. That implies that having an abort is quite risky. Having a kid wld be probably change you life especially with school, ur friends, etc. But the d in future, it wld probably be worth it! So my dear, prepare for all the wahala of having a kid but remember, it's. Worth it at the end. Also, you need to ENSURE you finish school because you need to be financially independent later in the future too. This is because, you may need to train your kid yourself especially if ur BF bails out on u! But no fears you would done fine! Kids ar gift from God! Just brace urself! (family, parent talk, ur school friends) etc!
ReplyDeleteDid yu tell us when u were enjoying it?
ReplyDeleteSorry dear, your life is not over, rather it is just beginning the hard way you caused on yourself for having unprotected sex, you should be happy its a baby coming and not AIDS or some STD's. However a child is a gift of life and won't advice you abort it, but then you can plan your life with your baby, your education may only be delayed, but it will definately end well when you have a solid plan. While you may not be able to concentrate in studying , you may equip yourself with professional courses to prepare you for school. When your baby is grown a little you can go to school, also there are online degrees with accredited universities, you can search them out. It's not a do or die situation dear, speak with your mum about it.
ReplyDeleteHEY,I would say do a proper test to check.i once missed my period and the signs but i was not pregnant. pls check first.think the child's future. a child is not something you can joke with.Talk to God to help you.but think well you know how nigeria is with children before marriage.will that boy friend be there for you??
ReplyDeletechoi it has reded for ya cos anyhow u will be a baby mama congrat!na better tin
ReplyDeleteI don't support abortion because of all the medical circumstance surrounding it... Your parents will eventually find out and i advice you to tell them now than later. As for your boyfriend, is he ready to be a Dad or he just want the title "father"?... Above all, pray for guidance and the strength to handle what is to come
ReplyDeleteWell,Life is every simple and I believe we all make mistakes and first and foremost...you don't percieve what you are not ready to eat so I think this a big lesson for people to learn...Don't abort the pregnancy, tell your mum or grandma or grandpa,talk to someone that can talk to your parent because I have a serious example here that I can share with you...thesame u encountered now happend to them while dey we're both in ss2 bt dey kept it, after years and both went their way, D woman got married born 5children and D man got married for years he neva had one til date except dt babie of ss2. Dts d only child he has nw. What if dey aborted it and again God hate such so don't kill.
ReplyDeleteNo help here for you. Nwata rie awo, oju anu!!!
ReplyDeleteKeep the baby..
ReplyDeleteDearest, believe me you're better of keeping this baby regardless of all the responsibilities it's coming with. That's why they say sex is for marriage and since you've had it own the responsibilities it brings. Child will bring you happiness one day and God forbids abortion ; that's God's breathe of life you're considering sniffing out! Be bold to take this step and give your life to Christ, He sees us through our mistakes in life. Tell your parents or anyone who will stand by you against every negativity. God strengthen you to do what's right. Amen!
ReplyDeleteKeep the baby because abortion is murder. Kindly tell your parents too because if anything go wrong they will still know. That's the regret of five minutes pleasure. Jesus is loves you!
ReplyDeleteTravelling to U.K? Hahahaha Yawa don gassss :P
ReplyDeleteHuh? You haven't seen your period since July and it's in November you decided to start panicking? Just start buying baby stuff dear and Safe delivery in advance.
ReplyDeleteTell ur parents n ask for forgiveness...dnt even tink of abortion cos dts murder....bear the consequences
ReplyDeleteYou didn't think of falling pregnant whilst having unprotected sex? Have your baby please, your boyfriend is right
ReplyDeleteY did u open ur legs in d first place when u knew u were stil tender nd not prepared? Keep it. Besides u shd Thnk ur stars ur baby dad accepted it. Just open up 2 ur parent and as 4 ur career, there is Alwz time 4 it
ReplyDeleteWhat's wrong with young people? You are asking for our opinion??? You should have asked us before having unprotected sex @ 18! Rubbish!
ReplyDeletePlease keep d baby, tell your parents, they will only b disappointed, u can always catch up with school, don't abort as u may regret it later.God is ur strength, draw closer to God at dis time, He 'll see u through
ReplyDeleteTalk to your folks or your sister(s)...An abortion should be your last or not even an option..Safe
ReplyDeleteJust tell ur parents,people dnt commit abortion again.pls don't do it.
ReplyDeleteDear don't abort the pregnancy, the Lord will take care of it okay? Its not too late to turn to him.
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Please don't abort that baby,let your parents know about it.it is not over for you dear.we all make mistakes but it is left for you to learn from your mistakes.
ReplyDeleteU Will be okay.
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ReplyDeleteSex is what adults do, so of you did it you should be ready for the consequences. Why would you come on a blog to ask people for a advice that would change your life forever..child listen go and talk to your parent about it and make that decision on your own. You're 18, you should know what to do. Cos no matter what you decide to do, your life will change forever.
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ReplyDeleteMy dear will advice you to tell your parent. CHI.
ReplyDeletePls remove it and make a life for yourself....kids will come at the right time. biko
ReplyDeleteNext time use a CONDOM........ is cheap
keep it...u sound like someone from a well to do background nd u lucky d guy cares enuff to ask u to keep it..so keep it
ReplyDeleteWhen you were doing it, you didn't know abi
ReplyDeleteSister take it easy,it is not d end of life.Don't abort the baby,u don't know what he will be tomorrow. Let or mother know about it,she is a mother,she knows how to handle the situation.I know this type of situation is not easy,especially on the father's side,but with time,everything will be okay.
ReplyDeleteThat serves you right. Upon the high incidence of hiv , you people wont still fuck with protection.
ReplyDeleteAbstain from sex, no. Oya use protection kwa, no...yes, having a baby now could slow you down for a bit (putting ur age into consideration and ur partner), but with a strong support system u'll pull tru. Unfortunately, the final decision is urs. Gud luck sweet hart!
ReplyDeleteWhat are you doing having sex at 18 and if u had to hv sex why couldn't you ask for condom? Children these days eh?. Anyway, this is no time to condemn but to encourage cos the deed has been done. Pls talk to your parents. I'm not for abortion. We d readers can't advice you to terminate, dt decision lies with the two of you and your parents but I pray you make d best decision and wish you the best.
ReplyDeleteIt's not a big deal. If u have the right support most especially from your parents, you will be proud if the baby later in life. I don't think abortion is right. It will slow you down a year or two but you can still be who or whatever you want be. At your thirties when some if your mate might still not married, you will have a grown up. And u're lucky the boy is ready to accept the baby. I wish you best of luck.
ReplyDeleteIt is a sin to abort, have the child and later continue your life. You can give it out for adoption. But don't kill
ReplyDeleteUr crazy for not speaking out all along!!! Four months later u then decide to seek help..
ReplyDeleteKeep the baby and tell ur parents.Achild is a blessing
ReplyDeleteDear, please, please, please don't abort. Its a sin to abort. You ca n abort now and never give birth again.Tell your parents. They will be dissappointed at first but they won't kill you. You had pre-marital sex which is wronng.You can continue with your studies after you deliver. Good luck to you.
ReplyDeleteGirlie, when you have sex without protection (abstinence is my watch word) you get pregnant. My advice is that you give that unborn child a chance at life. It may seem that it life is coming to an end, but later on in life you will thank God for making the right decision. You are young, everything will fall into place in time. Tell your mother and I pray you get the needed support thru this period and be strong n prayerful. Keep ur head up knowing you are doing the right and pay no mind to wagging tongues.
ReplyDeleteTwo wrongs my dear can't make a right. I am writing from experience.
Your life isn't over, it just became lots more challenging. Don't kill that life in your womb, deal instead with the consequences of your actions and be strong. You can make a big comeback from all this. Sure hope your boyfriend is going to play his part in pulling the burden. Please don't get pregnant again, and finally, repent and seek Christ Jesus.
ReplyDeleteMy dearly keep the preg... It will only last another 7month. Trust me, the joy of this baby cannot be compared to the risk of a deformed womb or death in the process of doing an abortion. You are already an adult Hun. Sch will always be there dear.
ReplyDeleteHummnn I hope this gets back to who ever wrote this Linda. Here goes...
ReplyDeleteIts unfortunate that this has happened at a point in your life when you are not ready for this responsibility. But iv always said, u cant dig a hole to get out of another hole. So my advice is (as hard as it can be) tell your parents. it wnt be an easy thing to have a child at ur age but its the most noble thing to do. despite what others may think, children are a gift from God. I know this decision will be hard, but pray, ask God for his help and it will work out in the end. You will love that baby more than words can say. As for the father, even if he is not ready for it, its still ur decision to make. Please make the right one. YOUR LIFE IS NOT OVER!!! Breathe and Pray.
Your life isn't over.Abortion's not the auction.please keep the baby.
ReplyDeleteIts unfortunate that this has happened at a point in your life when you are not ready for this responsibility. But iv always said, u cant dig a hole to get out of another hole. So my advice is (as hard as it can be) tell your parents. it wnt be an easy thing to have a child at ur age but its the most noble thing to do. despite what others may think, children are a gift from God. I know this decision will be hard, but pray, ask God for his help and it will work out in the end. You will love that baby more than words can say. As for the father, even if he is not ready for it, its still ur decision to make. Please make the right one. YOUR LIFE IS NOT OVER!!! Breathe and Pray.
ReplyDeleteIts unfortunate that this has happened at a point in your life when you are not ready for this responsibility. But iv always said, u cant dig a hole to get out of another hole. So my advice is (as hard as it can be) tell your parents. it wnt be an easy thing to have a child at ur age but its the most noble thing to do. despite what others may think, children are a gift from God. I know this decision will be hard, but pray, ask God for his help and it will work out in the end. You will love that baby more than words can say. As for the father, even if he is not ready for it, its still ur decision to make. Please make the right one. YOUR LIFE IS NOT OVER!!! Breathe and Pray.
ReplyDeleteIts unfortunate that this has happened at a point in your life when you are not ready for this responsibility. But iv always said, u cant dig a hole to get out of another hole. So my advice is (as hard as it can be) tell your parents. it wnt be an easy thing to have a child at ur age but its the most noble thing to do. despite what others may think, children are a gift from God. I know this decision will be hard, but pray, ask God for his help and it will work out in the end. You will love that baby more than words can say. As for the father, even if he is not ready for it, its still ur decision to make. Please make the right one. YOUR LIFE IS NOT OVER!!! Breathe and Pray.
ReplyDeleteYour life isn't over, you either decide to keep it and put a pause to ur life or u abort it and move on wit ur life..u r already 3months gone and u might nt av tym to abort it..go to d doctor to confirm ur status. Hmconcept2000@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteIts unfortunate that this has happened at a point in your life when you are not ready for this responsibility. But iv always said, u cant dig a hole to get out of another hole. So my advice is (as hard as it can be) tell your parents. it wnt be an easy thing to have a child at ur age but its the most noble thing to do. despite what others may think, children are a gift from God. I know this decision will be hard, but pray, ask God for his help and it will work out in the end. You will love that baby more than words can say. As for the father, even if he is not ready for it, its still ur decision to make. Please make the right one. YOUR LIFE IS NOT OVER!!! Breathe and Pray.
ReplyDeleteIts unfortunate that this has happened at a point in your life when you are not ready for this responsibility. But iv always said, u cant dig a hole to get out of another hole. So my advice is (as hard as it can be) tell your parents. it wnt be an easy thing to have a child at ur age but its the most noble thing to do. despite what others may think, children are a gift from God. I know this decision will be hard, but pray, ask God for his help and it will work out in the end. You will love that baby more than words can say. As for the father, even if he is not ready for it, its still ur decision to make. Please make the right one. YOUR LIFE IS NOT OVER!!! Breathe and Pray.
ReplyDeleteYour life isn't over, you either decide to keep it and put a pause to ur life or u abort it and move on wit ur life..u r already 3months gone and u might nt av tym to abort it..go to d doctor to confirm ur status. Hmconcept2000@gmail.com
ReplyDeletewho taught you how to fuck at such a tender age? Now you have put yourself in trouble and you are disturbing our ears. Were we there when they were fucking you?
ReplyDeletewho taught you how to fuck at such a tender age? Now you have put yourself in trouble and you are disturbing our ears. Were we there when they were fucking you?
ReplyDeleteLOL, you didn't remember UK/your foundation when you went face down ass up abi? Nigga splashed all the juices inside! Bad guy
ReplyDeleteno, please do not abort. life is sacred, the baby is a human being bearing the image of God. snuffing that life out is never an option. Hope you find the strength to make a wise decision.
ReplyDeleteWhat the hell happened to condoms? At 18, you've got a WHOLE lot ahead of you. You should speak to your mother. And hurry.
ReplyDeleteIf u guys are ok wit it and can cope den keep it dat child might be ur child of destiny
ReplyDeleteKeep it madam. Your life isn't over,it just began. Babies come with good tidings. Linda why do I have a feeling this story is made up?
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, your life is NOT over. Pregnancy can be a scary thing, but try not to get too overwhelmed. One thing at a time.
ReplyDelete1. You're 18. You're young, but you aren't stupid. Explore all of your options and seriously think about the consequences. Enlist the help of an older, more mature person that you trust. Weigh their advice with what you want.
2. Abortion is serious, but don't let anyone guilt you or shame you about it. If you really want the abortion and decide to go through with it, then don't let anyone tell you different. Go to a GOOD doctor, and ignore anyone who wants to talk shit about the procedure. Trust me, those people will talk up and down about the evils of abortion, but won't lift one finger to help you with the child when it comes.
3. Seriously consider including your parents in the decision. There are parents who would help you raise the child while you go to school. Alternatively, they might have good advice to give. Or they could be really shitty. Think about the parents you have and if they could be helpful, then involve them.
4. Where is this your boyfriend? As you've mentioned, he wants you to keep the child, but what does he do? Does he have a job? Can he support this child? Is he trustworthy? Is he abusive? Think really hard if you want to be tied to this person with a child. Once this child is born, there's no undoing it.
5. Do what is RIGHT FOR YOU. No matter how many stories intended to scare you that people will tell you whether its dor or against abortion, do what is right for you! It might be difficult, but do what works for you
It's your choice not ours
ReplyDeleteDo you seek LIBERS advise when you were enjoying that tiny dick..deal with it!
ReplyDeleteTell your parent and don't do any silly thing
ReplyDeleteAbortin is nt d best option it also against Gods wil u shuld av used condom instead of being in a dilema wel since d guy ask u 2 kip it I tink dats d best
ReplyDeletemy dear..i know u enjoyed it while having sex.....so i would advice u keep d baby okay..
ReplyDeleteDon't even consider an abortion! Please! You've already made a mistake... don't compound it... what seems like the easiest solution to a problem might really not be a solution at all... pele dear... *hugs*
ReplyDeleteyou are so stupid to ask us this question, when you were enjoying the sex, did you ask us whether it may lead to pregnacy?
ReplyDeleteGo ahead and do what you will BUT dnt try to abort that innocent soul or else you will suffer
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Next time, use protection!
ReplyDeleteShildren of now adays. Since u say ur mama no go sleep, u sef no go sleep. U must born that pikin. Tell ur parents and have ur baby. Pele! Next time use condom or abstain
ReplyDeleteSweetheart I advise you keep it.. I was once in ur shoes buh today I have a 2 years old son and currently in my third year in covenant university' so having this child doesn't mean ur life is finished instead its a stepping stone to a higher ground ok
ReplyDeletejust kip it 4him nd pray over it
ReplyDeleteI advise she should keep the child.. Cos I was once in her shoes but today I thank God cos I have a two yrs old son and currently in my third yr in covenant university,,
ReplyDeletemy dear ur life is really over
ReplyDeleteShay when two of una bin dey do the thing,una no seek advice abi? You both enjoyed the pleasure totally forgetting the pain that might follow.
ReplyDeleteThis is a why teenagers shouldn't have sez! You are 5 months pregnant!!. Do not try to abort now it is too late! Stupid girl!
ReplyDeletePls,neva try abortion,cos u might neva av d opportunity 2 av a child again nd also who knw wat d innocent soul myt bcm in future,in 5mmth nw ur baby wuld b by urside,dnt blame urself it has happened Already,plis kip d baby,let ur parents knw...God is ur strenght...
ReplyDeleteWhat are u scared of? Ur old enough to have a baby! Since u were old enough to keep a boyfriend nd even had unprotected sex, then ur old enough to take responsibility for d outcome! Chiao!
ReplyDelete@jessyangels4love
Wen u were enjoyin d sex u dnt knw abi
ReplyDeletePls,neva try abortion,cos u might neva av d opportunity 2 av a child again nd also who knw wat d innocent soul myt bcm in future,in 5mmth nw ur baby wuld b by urside,dnt blame urself it has happened Already,plis kip d baby,let ur parents knw...God is ur strenght...
ReplyDeleteSo what do you want that we say when you have already put an answer to it that you think your life is over! @18 you av been engage in an unprotected sex so face d music.
ReplyDeleteKeep ur baby
ReplyDeleteU can keep it and tell ur parents and put ur UK trip on hold, silly rabbit. U guys don't use contraceptives nd you've never heard of the morning after pill. Or u can get two pills, insert one nd swallow d other. If it's not more than 2months. And behave yourself next time
ReplyDeleteGood for u..U weren't confused wen he was entering u
ReplyDeleteKeep it oh
ReplyDeleteI can't imagine how you feel at this point. you should talk to a close friend first about it and know what they think. it might not be easy telling your parents but my dear you might have to. you still have your future ahead of you so make a decision you can live with. Please be careful next time..if you have decided to be sexually active then you also have to be ready for the consequences that follow xx
ReplyDeleteGood for u..U weren't confused wen he was entering u
ReplyDeletewait are you crazy??? its been three whole months!!! go and tell your mother right now!! what can your boyfriend do for you ?? go and meet your mother so you can go and abort it in peace!!!
ReplyDeletePlease keep the pregnancy. It may initially distrupt your plans but at the long run , you will be glad you did.
ReplyDeleteToo late. You are already a mother.
ReplyDeletePlease invite me to come and eat rice for the naming ceremony.
N u didn't think of protection when u where doing it.
ReplyDeleteSince July na wa u wasted too much time now just tell ur parents about it but I will advice u tell ur mum first
ReplyDeleteu must b sick in your womb...
ReplyDeleteu re very stupid,u shud hv taugh of that b4 openin ur tight holes wide...anyway clap fr ur self I biliv u have made ur parent proud*ingrident don yarn*
ReplyDeleteWhy is it that all this cheap girls are so useless whereby after messing up then start looking for where to get advice.Me I don't have any advice for you.You are 18years you should know what best for you #Danmichael# said so
ReplyDeleteMy mum had her first child at 16..my dear u better keep dat child o because u never can tell if he/she is gonna be d only child u would ever have. If you're old enough to spread your legs for a man, u better be old enough to accept d responsibility...e don finish from my mouth.
ReplyDeleteSee don't make a mistake by terminating d pregnancy cos u are endangering ur life, just calm down and inform ur parents
ReplyDeletePlease my dear, your predicament is dicey and am giving you this advice out of experience, your pregnancy is over four months old and any attempt by you to terminate it at this second trimester may be suicidal... You may relocate to a new environment to save yourself some shame but please keep the pregnancy. Twenty years from now, when you see this your child, you will be glad that you did. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, by my calculation, you should be about 4 months pregnant. That's a tad late for an abortion. Right now the only option is to have the baby. It will slow things down a bit but does not mean your life is over. Children are awesome gifts and blessings from God. Have no regrets and look forward to meeting your little one. I wish you an uncomplicated pregnancy and a safe delivery.
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Ma dear,sorry it apens bt abortion shudnt b an option
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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The dude in question ask yu to keep it then who the fuck are yu to think otherwise..... pls keep that pregnancy abeg.....
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No one can decide ur future for you, please go on your kneels and ask God to help you.
ReplyDeleteif you ask me na who I go ask seriously thinking girl first when you where about having sex you never taught it wise and reasonable to ask for my opinion now you seriously need my honest answer well to be frank with you is none of my business but I had rather advice you to keep the child if the father of 20 lmaoo insists well if you ask me na who I go ask.. kudos to all the single girls that seriously believe in true love call 09035904778 for match making thankss
ReplyDeleteThis is tough. I don't think you should abort it but you can if you are sure that's what you want. I think u should weigh your options really well before taking a decision - having a baby at your age isn't easy (the things it does to your body and all) but you have to decide if aborting it will really be easier ( cuz that also has it's own consequences on your body and life). You have to decide if you are okay with carrying something like an abortion on your conscience. Again abortion is illegal in our country, though there are places you can get it done, but it does increase the risk and if it goes south, can you deal with that? Basically, it's your choice, but I think it's cool your boyfriend is actually telling you to keep it. That can count for something. Oh and your life is not over, worse things have happened. This is just a phase - a really big one - but a phase all the same.
ReplyDeleteu go die o! no comot am.
ReplyDeleteur 4months gone. u should have said this 3months ago.JJC
Sharp Girl!! Dont abort o, the baby could be Naija's president later. When is the naming ceremony anyway?
ReplyDeleteGuys dont like dumping girls they havent slept with, and pregnant girls mostly always get dumped. If the impregnator tries anything, report him to his dad
My dear I would advise you to tell your mum. I know it is easier said than done, but believe me that your parents love you; they will be very disappointed at first but will help you move forward. Don’t think of abortion because you might live to regret it. TALK TO YOUR PARENTS, they are the only ones you have got!!!!
ReplyDeletePls do not kill.. I'd advice you to keep the baby, you never can tell what the future holds..
ReplyDeleteMy dear I would advise you to tell your mum. I know it is easier said than done, but believe me that your parents love you; they will be very disappointed at first but will help you move forward. Don’t think of abortion because you might live to regret it. TALK TO YOUR PARENTS, they are the only ones you have got!!!!
ReplyDeleteTell your parents they should have a better solution to your problem. You don't need to be scared now. You should have been scared that summer when your boyfriend was convincing/confusing you to have sex with him. what you need now is courage to face your own problem. good luck!!
ReplyDelete18 n pregnant? hmmmm, n ur boo says u should kip it.....u beta do....cos most tyms an abortion doesn't solve d problem...
ReplyDeleteCynthia Tasha
Tell ur boyfriend 2 drop out of school and take care of the baby wen it's born....mtcheww do wats best for you,I wouldn't want 2 be a father @ 20 neither will ur boy friend
ReplyDeleteOnyi diesel
U are finished. U are between d devil and d deep blue sea. It's d devil's alternative. Which ever way, u are cooked. Forget ur education for now. Make babies and continue education later. Maybe u will be in d same class with ur child. Cheers sex queen.
ReplyDeletePls tell your parents. Bring pregnant doesn't mean ur life is over. Learn from this and get ur life back.
ReplyDeletePlease do not abort d baby d deed has been done n u ve no option dan 2 gve birth 2 dat child
ReplyDeleteIf u no d amount of pple looking for a child, Ma dear ull keep it dnt make a mistake
ReplyDeletekeep it. you'll thank yourself in d future. God is against elective abortions.
ReplyDeleteI Wuld advise u keep d baby...u realy dnt knw wat dat baby would be in d future
ReplyDelete...Keep the baby
ReplyDeleteSince July hmmmm dat means you are 5months pregnant by my calculation..pls dear tell your parent about it.abortion is a No for me
ReplyDeleteSince July.
ReplyDeleteThis na November ending o. Na December u dey c so.
Advice ursef @abortion.
see young lady!!!...as at last year I was going. tru dis same ordeal u are going tru nw...I was pregnant last year at d age of 18 too...It was like I was in hel bcos I felt my life had ended but tanks to my mum and boyfriend dat asked me to keep it..i Wuld advise u keep the baby cos nw am happy I kept d baby and my baby is 6 months old and am still going to skul.. just talk to ur mother.. I believe she would not advise u abort.. abortion is dangerous....pls dnt abort pls!!!!!!!!!!...just comment so I can give u my contact if u want someone to talk to...
ReplyDeleteAre u nuts?! How can u possibly kill an innocent soul..at age 18? Tso tso ts,u must b sick
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