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Thursday, 30 October 2014

You go girl! 'My boyfriend said I was too fat for sex so I dropped 30 stone - and him'

A cruel comment from her boyfriend during a romantic getaway made 22 year old Paige Way to drop from a whopping size 28 to a size 12. Paige said her boyfriend told her that belly was too fat for them to have sex. The comment from her boyfriend shamed her into shedding a lot of weight.
"It was absolutely mortifying when my boyfriend told me that my belly was getting in the way, but it gave me the push I needed to finally do something about my weight. I'd always been big as a child, and then I was 'the fat one' in my bunch of friends. Men would say horrible things about me on nights out, like "God, look at the size of her."

"I had no confidence whatsoever, but I tried to kid myself that I was happy being fat. Even when I broke a sun lounger at a family barbeque by sitting on it, I just laughed it off. However, when my boyfriend made that comment, I knew I couldn't kid myself any longer."
So for the next eight months, Paige worked on her weight, exercising and eating small portions of healthy food. By the time she'd lost all the weight, she dumped the man that felt she wasn't good enough. Now she says losing weight has completely changed her life and she's single again and looking for Mr Right
"Every time I think back to the night at the hotel, it makes me cringe. But it made me make a change. Now I'm happier than I've ever been - and I definitely haven't had any complaints about my belly since!"
Source: UK Mirror

88 comments:

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    1. Bia Linda, did you say 22? Or you meant to write 32. That's by the way.
      To the main ish, i don't see how what her boyfriend said is wrong. He couldn't penetrate into her because her tummy getting in the way. The same boyfriend that was in love with her and dating her. He lloved and appreciated her plus size body that was why he was dating her. He didn't mock her for being too fat or lazy.

      She should be totally grateful to that guy and she shouldn't have dumped him. Hw made her loose weight.

      As if the guy won't get a morw beautiful and skinny chick to date and marry.

      Kudos to her. She really tried. All her efforts paid off.

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    2. Okay he waist is on her stomach level now...

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    3. Bitch please, he did you a favour. And she looks 42.

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    4. Wow! 6 dress sizes in 8months?
      Amazing job!

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  2. Now she needs to work on dressing/ looking her age! Looks like a woman in her 40's

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  3. Happy for her dump that nonsense man am a size 12 or 14 am happy for her dere u go girl

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    1. bt is it d boy's fault?she was actually fat na,shuo,d boy even helped her sefff

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    2. @Chee you are harsh o but finally will do the same if I was in her shoes

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  4. That's a very nice dedication. But even people far bigger than her former size could enjoy a good sex life, it might have some restrictions especially while exploring different positions but definitely possible to enjoy it. Anyway it was really good she lost the weight. ...www.askralph.blogspot.com

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  5. The guy helped you na, be thankful!

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  6. ok..... good for you, he inspired your decision to get healthy

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  7. Well her bf inspired her to lose all d excess weight, looks way older than 22

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  8. Now I'm inspired to do something about leaving my fluctuating 12/14 sizes to a comfortable 10.

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    1. 10 is not comfortable think about 8 or 6

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  9. Nice! She looks more beautiful

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  10. Either way she no try.


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    1. Sharap there. Put a pic of urself let's c what u look ..

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  11. Gud fr her

    ~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~

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  12. Good for her!!.she looks gud..nd i like that she dint want to b skinny...

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  13. Everything happens for a reason. The guy's comment gave her courage so its not too ugly.

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  14. Are u sure this woman is 22? 22 years bawo

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  15. 22??......*sigh** babes don start to lie.... but wait oo! na bcos of s*x SHE GO DROP WEIGHT? d babe don high!!

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  17. the guy tell u tru. na help im help u.

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  18. wow awesome I love her new look dis is really great. lau say so

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  19. She looks good,healthy and younger.

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  20. Wow!She really shed some weight.

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  21. She really droped some weight

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  22. This is y I've got much luv 4 the west most of our African babes can't adjust to this they would want u to like them in anyway they appears....... go girl!!!!!!!!!

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  23. Another motivation to drop this extra 22kg I am carryng about. Am presently 100kg. God help me o!

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  24. Lol
    I Thank Baba God for this my shape
    I can chop for africa still my figure 8 is intact

    Oya obessed phoools insult me na una knw
    Hheheheh slim girls Rock!!!!!!

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  25. She no com fine 4 face again

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  26. She actually needs to thank her ex, 22 and she looked like that?! Dumb him but thank him for the push cos you coulda had a coronary.

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  27. Wait. I don't understand the "You go girl"? The boyfriend should've been deceiving himself that he's able to efficiently have sex with her?

    This is why you're single. Celebrating women that get hurt over necessary truths. Didn't the comment make her lose weight?

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  28. Hahahahaha…That is nice.

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  29. 22??? I tot she's 45
    still looking like 45 years old woman lol

    BORN TO SHINE!!!

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  30. So she dumped d person dat told her d truth...

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  31. Go find somewhere siddon abeg, how can you be this fat in the first instance? Mchewww. So the guy shoulda pretended like all was well yea?

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  32. so why dump the guy when he's the one that told you the truth...women and their way.Lie to them and you are the love of their life!

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  33. She looks 45, she dropped him after "motivating" her lol.

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  34. She shouldn't have dumped him, if not for him she would still be Fat, he was just being sincere. Its only someone who loves u dat will tell u d truth.
    She just lost a good friend. He was her motivation

    ROPE

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  35. Na surgery jor, dat kan pesin no fit loose weight by exercising nt possible

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  36. She looks amazing. Good thing she shed all that weight, its good for health reasons too.

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  37. Lmao @ "Even when I broke a sun lounger at a family barbeque by sitting on it, I just laughed it off". Dunno abt other blokes buh i me i like my girls big. Like voluptuously huge. Big and CURVY tho. Not big and round.






































































    ~BADOO OF COVENTRY

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  38. 22 ko! If shez 22 then i'm 15!

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  39. She looks much berra! The guy changed ur life wit that comment!

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  40. So we should encourage unhealthy fat just to be nice ei? He actually helped her life. Made her realize she needed to dump that excess weight. He might not have done itt the right way, still he was the last straw.

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  41. Sometimes harsh criticism is all we need to get on our feet! She should buy a boyfriend a gift for giving her the push she needed.

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  42. 22 ? Even after shading some weight she still looks 45.. Good one though

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  43. Gud attempt, am 12/14 wish i can come down to 10

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  44. Linda how real is this story?I cant find it anywhere else.

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  45. Good for her,but she looks older than 22.

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  46. Linda i found ur story. Its actually 13 and not 30 stone.

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  47. Gud for her..... Lessons to other fat mamas

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  50. This guy must be eating himself now, he's become a celebrity but not in a good way, LOL. I've lost 20 pounds with Loaded Gun Diet this summer and I was eating almost anything, so I know the feeling is good.

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  51. The boyfriend was right. She was FAT!!! Ladies don't like it when you tell them the truth. But thank God, that simple truth pushed her.

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  52. I am greatly inspired by this. My husband makes cruel comments about my weight too and I wish I could wipe the silly smirk remarks off his lips. Yesterday, I told him my neck hurts and asked if he would be nice enough to change bed sides with me. Then he said with a smirk that my neck hurts since I have bent the mattress because of my weight! I was really really hurt! I put in so much into the home-pay the childrens' school fees, buy food, clean and cook-not much financial help comes from him- it was just so hurting. I know he does it to deliberately hurt me and feed his ego since he isn't able to provide much into the home. I cant even stand him touching me anymore.
    I wish I could do away with both the fat and him! But I will start one at a time-with the fat. Then I will also decide what to do with him!

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  53. She look way older than her age...good she drop dose weight she look better now.

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  54. Eyaaaah, my people you see the truth is better. The BF tell am say him belle nor gree am throttle down, she don dump am, next time guys, na scope u go use tell am . E.G. If you be leap, you go say, " honey lets jog together, I need you to help me keep fit." Lmaooooo.

    Good her though, to drop that much of weight.

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  55. thats what happens when you are determined

    richardoseji.blogspot.com

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  56. At 22 you are already as big as a hippopotamus, I wonder what you will look like at 44...elephantatatamus I guess !

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  57. Its almost unbelievable its the same person...Wow! She lost weight drastically, happy for her....And Yes, that guy did her good eventually lol. Her dress sense is really warped though

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  58. Dumped him? He probably saved her life! Nothing like a rude, insensitive comment to make people get off their fat a** and make the much needed change (No pun intended!).

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  59. She needs to thank him. E try for her.

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  60. I have to share my testimony to the world because i dont know who it might be helpful to. I know my comment is not related to the discussion here but i only want to use this opportunity to share the testimony to friends here too. My name is Mrs CHRISTIANA from chicago am 25 years old i got married at the age of 23 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail, i cry and cry seeking for help, i discussed it with my best friend Allix and she promise to help me. She told me of a man called DR AKPARA BLA, she told me he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot solve and she told me how he has help countless number of people in restoring their relationship. I was really convince, I quickly contacted his email address at dr.akpara@gmail.com . I explain all my problem to him, he told me that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, and it really happen as he said, i was very surprise, this is so amazing. To God be the glory our relationship is now very tight and we both live happily again. If you having similar problem, Contact him now (dr.akpara@gmail.com) and get your problem solve once and for all

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  61. Wow she try oooh...I hope she maintains d eating healthy habits..dis is a good start n heads up to others in her shoes..

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  62. Health is wealth. When you feel light and trim, it makes you glow.
    Love my size (14)

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  63. imagine! so if her bf did rebuke the fat, she doesn't know wah to do. @ 22 she already looks like a 44 even with the new figure.#just passing by

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  64. @olubukola luro must u insult people??? Stop being a lekpa phool urself.
    Mind u I'm not obsessed.. lol

    @Anon which one is 10 is not comfortable? Must everybody be a size 6 & 8. Ohhh plzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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  65. Anonymous said...
    I am greatly inspired by this. My husband makes cruel comments about my weight too and I wish I could wipe the silly smirk remarks off his lips. Yesterday, I told him my neck hurts and asked if he would be nice enough to change bed sides with me. Then he said with a smirk that my neck hurts since I have bent the mattress because of my weight! I was really really hurt! I put in so much into the home-pay the childrens' school fees, buy food, clean and cook-not much financial help comes from him- it was just so hurting. I know he does it to deliberately hurt me and feed his ego since he isn't able to provide much into the home. I cant even stand him touching me anymore.
    I wish I could do away with both the fat and him! But I will start one at a time-with the fat. Then I will also decide what to do with him!
    October 30, 2014 at 7:38 PM

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    i have the best organic product totally harmless with no side effects to help you... but get ready to work out you must WANT IT LIKE THIS LADY DID OR IT'S A NO SHOW

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  66. One food is another man poison.Me i like them fat

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  67. If she's 22, then am 12

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  68. Why drop him? The dude prolly saved your life.

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