Dear LIB readers: My sister-in-law is a lesbian, Should I tell my brother?
From a female LIB reader
I found out this past weekend that my brother's wife and mother of his two children is a lesbian and I don't know what to do about this information. Does my brother need to know? She had sex with another lesbian at a friend's house in Parkview (she's a reader of this blog so I want her to know that I know) and I don't know what to do with this information. I've suspected for a long time but my suspicion was only confirmed on Saturday. I don't know what will happen if I tell my brother but she can't continue living a double life, going to church every Sunday and giving advice like Mother Teresa when she lives a dirty, disgusting life. Try it again and see!
In this case you haven't got your brother's best interest at heart. You clearly are harboring done resentment and jealousy towards your brother and you see this as an opportunity for one - upmanship. If there are kids involved and this is something you suspect (and your brother doesn't, though he's the one making babies with her) then maybe there's more to your noseyness than meets the eye.
Not once did you say *I love my brother*, *I don't want him to hurt* etc.. You're clearly a vindictive little shit.
Go ahead a wreck a home and watch your life fall apart.
amebo indeed. That'd why I don't date nigerians o. No offense to our men...but some of you got sisters n mothers from hell. They leave thier own miserable grey lIves n wanna tag along urs...destroying relationships every step of the way. No privacy in naija marriage. Ever considered that ur brother might know? Some naija men got bisexual wives n they Kool with it...cause they do thier own thing on the side as well. so long as both parties keep the extra activity outside. Mind ur own damn business for the sake of her kids. Even tho am sure u won't...u had to bring it to linda ikeji. U muse have lots of spare time
Aiye baje.Foolish irresponsible married woman with two kids sef.She needs to be sent out of the house immediately.You don't need to keep such a thing like this,Kindly report her to her husband quickly.She is a daughter of devil
Phew! This is serious, if she's truely an LIB reader, I pray she gets to see this post. My dear try confronting her before telling your brother, she needs help.
My dear 98% percent of ladies out there are bisexual Leave it or take it ......besides she aint gay shes bi Lesbian sex dey sweet die, it takes grace to test it and nt fall hehehehe
Dear poster.. I sense some HATE in ur post; don't let it cloud your judgment. Tell her you know and you can actually blackmail her by making sure she gets help thru deliverance or you'll tell your bro.. That is, if you are very sure of what you are saying and not hung up frm your hatred for her. Good luck!
Dear poster.. I sense some HATE in ur post; don't let it cloud your judgment. Tell her you know and you can actually blackmail her by making sure she gets help thru deliverance or you'll tell your bro.. That is, if you are very sure of what you are saying and not hung up frm your hatred for her. Good luck!
Oh boi ...she mean business ..." try it again and see"! well obviously u are reeling out a warning to her and u dont intend to tell just yet, you are waiting for the "push" from libers! Now she knows u know, dont tell ur bro yet and shatter his home. But on 2nd thought, she will never stop! so use ur church mind and do what u think is right.
Sister in law -judge ikpeama. You found out and what next? Are 100% clean? Give her some break or else you want to break your brother's home. You can call her and talk to her but it seems you were looking for fault.
Thank you nwannem......ndi inlaws eeeh! Especially d gurls.....ire ncha! She no go go marry face her own family. Ask her wat she was doing @ her sister inlaw's friends house. Crooked story!
My dear oooo... i thought exactly same.. am not saying lesbianism is just.. but this sister inlaw dem.. she sure sounds like she hates the lady and been looking for a fault.. if shes a good person, she would have confronted the lady and talk about it not flyin to your brother.. home dividers
Tell ur brother..Don't hide such a thing..Can't stand Lesbians ☹☹ so preeq aint good enough?..I am very very sure she's catholic cos most Catholic women are lesbians..................................#KingOfKings #6ixGod
Who r u to mention names here?? Are u God to judge??hw dare u??If u hv issues wit catholic church as a union sort it out dnt paint dia ladies black.How clean r u urself?? Be Matured wen nxt u comment on a social media dnt be so sure of wad u dnt knw.You urself am very very sure u knw u r a hypocrite. Remove d log in ur eyes first b4 taking off d spike in another's eyes.
You have got to confront her. Let her tell your brother herself or you do the telling. She needs help. You can't hide this truth or it will hunt you for ever. Selah.
Asirir gbakaa ute olaru na gutter.......confront ur sis inlaw b4 running off to ur bro! And how did u even find out ? Where u de? If u were there, wat were u doing there? U have sum questions to answer. All dis inlaws sef! Poke noser!
Correct how did she know? That means she was there infact I suspect she did a threesome with her sister-in law. Pls stop pokenosing leave ur brother's marriage alone. When I get married my inlaws will not live with me they can only visit mtcheww
Stay away from their marriage jor. She might be into that because your brother doesn't satisfy her sexually. Abeg leave them as long as e no de cause any marital problems at the moment. Let your bros find out himself if he notices any changes
Dis person dat wrote dis letter is just an hypocritical idiot. Since when does ones sexuality define a person she is wrong for cheating on her husband but judging her 4 going 2 church or doing things that comes natural as a human and a mother just becos u feel she is gay makes u an idiot and + u did't even tell us how u found out of her infidelity. Madam sister in-law get ur facts straight o before u break a home "he without sin cast the 1st stone"
who's dis fool,so u dnt understnd simple writeups,so hu's d hypocrite here? is it nt d lesbo?didnt u see wen she wrote nd givin advice like mother teresa?dat means say she de go church nd give advice like say na she holy pass,u b monkey o,must u defend ur lesbian act ignorantly,am nt sure u even read it u just rush come insult her bcos u follow b lesbian,olosho
This babe harsh o. I think the best u can do 4 now is to confront and caution her. See if there's a way u can talk her out of it. Her reaction will determine if ur brother should know or not.
Dear LIB reader;u will be d worst enemy of your brother and those children if you dont tell your brother and show him whatever proof you have.This is not a case of warning her or getting confused cos she is actually bringing a curse upon ur brother and his children. Lastly;u better tell it all quickly before she cooks up allegations about you that would turn ur brother against you in her quest to hide the truth.Gud luck
If you love her like a sister, talk to her, counsel her or get her to meet a counselor. its hard but I know you can, its the right step, and love conquers every situation. please don't tell your brother. at least not at the moment, cos a divorce will do him no good and believe me God will punish you. because as the saying goes. what God has brought together, let no other put asunder
How did you know she is a LESBIAN? Hope you didnt join in the act?? Never you tell her brother if she told you she gonna change | but tell him if she doesnt heed to your advice!
@poster...it is absolutely non of ur bizness,i know he's ur bro bt den let dem both settle dia ish...if along d line he catches her,let his wrath desend on her bt asides dat,i know uv got ur brothers interest @heart and although she's into a shameful act,truth b told it's really non of ur concern nor business
am glad she is also a LIB visitor(the so called lesbian)......pls my dearest libers advice her cos am kinda short of words now.....trust libers on issues like this.
Telling her brother might end their marriage,call her and talk to her abt it and if she still doing it,you have no other choice than to tell ur brother. Faceoflib
U asking us if u shud tell ur broda and u also giving her a formal warning "Try it again and u'll see" DAT sounds like u already giving her an opportunity to change...which side re u on...
firstly how did you know she had sex?abi na una 2 straff una self.i would advise you pray for her and with her and also have a heart to heart talk with her rather than condemning her
TELL HIM!!! or wait till u get evidence then show him...so that she does not lie that u don't like her and that u are blackmailing her... next time u want to report something, don't mention it...u may be endangering your life...what if she harms u or kills u?
Hmmm, so you been investigating her for long? How do we even believe your story then? Plus you could just hate on her and possibly been looking for ways to indict her. So all these cos its your brother he is married to abi? Jealous much! IMO, seems you've been beefing her for a long time
Don't tell ur brother and scatter his marriage. Advice her instead and warn her to desist from such. If you tell your brother, you will crash his marriage and i tell you, he will never forgive you as a part of him will hold you responsible for his broken marriage.
Call your sister in-law aside, discuss with her, ask her why she has been doing it. At least she isn't screwing a man. Find out from her ifbher husband doesn't satisfy her sexually. Help her stop the habit instead of condemning her and destroying your brother's home.
But sorry oooooo........ How did you know? Did you go into the lovers room for you own lesbo sex?
I didn't know its a crime to be a lesbian... Nigerians will leave more pressing matters to worry about what an adult does in close doors. Not my business sha.
Go fine work stop monitoring people,s life hw are u sure if she is a lesbian wots ur biz dere maybe u think she is eating ur bros money and she not given u abii go and fine wrk u fucker ashwo ass
Are u sure ur brother doesn't already know she's gay? Maybe she's his breed and his her biabia. Don't involve yourself in matters u don't understand. I don't see how you'll be married to someone and not know they're gay. Maybe he choose to look the other way.
I think you should let your brother know, he deserves to know so that he can confront her. If she wants to be with girls then its ok for her to go with girls. Just tell him what you observed and allow him deal with in he's own way www.askralph.blogspot.com
Ah!inlaw u don come?things women do!if u love him why u cheating on him?i have no issues with lesbians so it cld av been a dog!but u cheated!dats d issue here
Buhahahahah! Oh d poster bu di ashawo sef! Biko nne pack for pit toilet.....hahahahaha! But wify if dis is truly u and u did wat she said,pls dnt do again.... And pursue dis poster frm ur matrimonial home! Ndi sister inlaws na witch! Anya ufu.
Aha! I knew something was missing somwhere... So she is no saint after all... She can't break your home don't worry. She's just trying to scare you with the joker.
Deal with the matter wisely pls, I'm sure you know its wrong but I commend you for wanting to keep your marriage intact. I bet your husband suspects anyway, so its between you and him and your sis-in-law should butt out.
Why are u sounding so guilty?attack is d best form of defense......better stop d lesbo practice,its not worth breaking ur home,cos there is nothing hidden under d sun,...he will soon catch u in it if u don't stop now dat it's early As for u tatafo inlaw,its not worth it,breaking ur brother's home won't make u gain weight,neither will it increase ur bank account.....i believe she will change...pray for her
This babe harsh oh. See threat!!! I wonder how people stumble into this activity. Yes, we do crazy stuff due to youthful exuberance but know the limit and how to control the flesh. This poster might be putting herself in danger, rather than making it public and expecting your sister-in-law to see and keep mute, you better tell your brother.
Lol. My dear, he who is without sin, cast the first stone! In as much as we don't encourage everyone to be sanctimonious, we DO need those sanctimonious individuals to even things out. Does she take care of your nieces and nephews? Her home slash your hubby nko? Is her hubby complaining? What if your brother was cheating on her, would you be obliged to come here on LIB to rat him out or warn him as you've just done?
Bottom line is, it's none of your goddamn business. Fuck off!!!
Hmmmm, Trust nobody. Going to Church or Mosque everyday doesn't makes you a good Christian or Muslim. I pray she see this post and change or stop that bad habit. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥
if you also wish to speak with her first then that is fine, but he is your brother and he really deserves to know what is happening. Let her come clean, it'll be the best thing for her also
Is it your business? Why don't Nigerians mind their business? What of if your brother is gay or Bi and decided to marry a lesbian that will understand? If you don't know that is what is happening now. My sister remove the log in your eyes before you see the grain in another's eyes. Mind your own business. It may turn out that you are exposing your brother.
Ma sister as am writing dis comment be dialing ur brother's line now nd tell him oooo, cos 1, 4 de sake of her children nd shame she will do evrytin to make sure dat dis story never gets ur brother so she might end up killing u trust sm women are desperate. 2, ur brothers life is in danger oooo cos dat her lesbian fool will be seeing ur brother as a rival nd an obstacle nd will want to kill him nd am sure u knw ur brother's wife is de 1 to finish de work cos she is got nothing to loose she has kids already nd ur brothers wealth belongs to her as his legally married wife.3, she will turn ur brother's children into lesbian nd gay cos dose kids will be looking after her nd might think dat is life, pls ooo am crying now save ur brother nd ur family b4 is too late ooo plssssssss nd Linda publish ooooo u knw am suspecting u ooo nd I want to marry u so no fall ma hand.
Is it your business? Why don't Nigerians mind their business? What of if your brother is gay or Bi and decided to marry a lesbian that will understand? If you don't know that is what is happening now. My sister remove the log in your eyes before you see the grain in another's eyes. Mind your own business. It may turn out that you are exposing your brother.
Tsew. This person is a coward. If u want her to know that u know then u go talk to her instead of bringing ur bro's fam affair out in d open on social media. Anyway, I have questions for u; were u in d room or whereva u claimed they had sex? U say she goes to church every sunday to act like a saint, are u a saint? U really wanna sort this out, then u sit her down and talk like adults. Tellin ur bro cud break his home buh if that's what u want, then go ahead.
EVERYONE SAYING SHE SHOULD TELL HER BROTHER IS STUPID..PUT YOURSELF IN HER POSITION,DO YOU WANT THEM TO DIVORCE.. WHAT IF THE HUSBAND KNOWS SHE IS BI SEXUAL BEFORE SHE GET MARRIED TO HER? THE BEST THING TO DO IS CALL HER AND COUNSEL HER... SO MANY NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE LESBIAN,THEY JUST HIDE IT...
My sister this is a sensitive issue because it can destroy your brother`s marriage if not handled with care.See what to do-Call her attention and let her know that you are aware of this her problem,and you want to help her out of it without your brother knowing about it.Remember this problem can be psychological,hormonal or even demonic.Discurse it with her and let her know the effect of continous indulgement in such act.Meet a true man of God or a counsellor experinced in such matters who can help her out.Pls remember that she cannot help herself out of this problem,God want to use you in this situation that is why He allowed you to discover it.We meet such cases occationally ,and this the way we handle it without people knowing about it.Everybody have one problem or the other to conquer in this lie,this is her own problem.Good luck.
Disgusting act! I can imagine how grossed out u are. U should let ur brother know. Cos cautioning her won't make her stop, she will only be more careful than she has ever been.
Abeg shutup, how is it ur business that she is a lesbian... TaTAFO.....
If we start to dig into your wardrobe Lawd Knows what we will find, Please allow the girl to get it in the way and manner she pleases, (at least she isnt sleeping with another man)
Maybe your brother doesnt touch her right or he doesnt do certain things right, may be he knows about her life , may be her lesbian partner is the only thing that keeps her sane.. Please keep your goody two shoes horny mouth in one place and stay out of peoples buainess.
If you tell him what will uachieve?, u will wreck their home and leave their kids in an unhappy home, so shut the fuck up and mind ur damn business.
Gbam, like she's better! Maybe ur broda is aware, better for him than for her to cheat with guys. Maybe ur broda even pushed her into it Maybe ur broda is gay too Maybe its not something she indulges in always For ur info, its everywhere, telling ur borda doesn't make it any better. You too go find ur husband make babies and stay out of pples life aproko.
She even try to go for woman wen dick sweet like anoda thing.
Was the act before or after marriage?Nwy ever heard of bisexuality? instead of prosecuting her here put your your stance on sexuality and her personality aside and confront HER about it. see what she has to say before you decide whether to interfere
Madam I too know I am sure u don't have a husband and you are beefing your brothers wife cos u sound so bitter what is your business are you a saint?i aM sure if u have your own home u will too busy taking care of your home rather than monitoring your bros wife all these sisters in law sef just talk to her about it and leave her to her conscience u r not in d best position to judge her na u be God?Or u want to be a home breaker ba?pls just mnd your business bitter soul,I am sure you do worst things that is if u r not a witch sef!!!!!
Madam I too know I am sure u don't have a husband and you are beefing your brothers wife cos u sound so bitter what is your business are you a saint?i aM sure if u have your own home u will too busy taking care of your home rather than monitoring your bros wife all these sisters in law sef just talk to her about it and leave her to her conscience u r not in d best position to judge her na u be God?Or u want to be a home breaker ba?pls just mnd your business bitter soul,I am sure you do worst things that is if u r not a witch sef!!!!!
M,o Madam I too know I am sure u don't have a husband and you are beefing your brothers wife cos u sound so bitter what is your business are you a saint?i aM sure if u have your own home u will too busy taking care of your home rather than monitoring your bros wife all these sisters in law sef just talk to her about it and leave her to her conscience u r not in d best position to judge her na u be God?Or u want to be a home breaker ba?pls just mnd your business bitter soul,I am sure you do worst things that is if u r not a witch sef!!!!!
Please do not say anything to your brother about this, it is not your place to do so. As someone said, it might be a result of your brother's lack. let him find out himself or the least you could do is talk to her. As long as they are not having issues at the home front DUE to her sexual orientation. Do not use your amebo to break it for him. Gues what?...neither your brother or the wife, even family members will ever forgive you for it. "Those who the Lord has joined together...let NO MAN/WOMAN put assunder".
hmmm after reading all d comments am short of words but pls let her be but if u care u can talk to her or rather keep quite untill ur brother finds out. i live with my ex-husband for 3yrs and 2boys without knowing his gay but everybody in his family know this untill i caught him. so let him catch her red handed then he can take his decision but dont be d one to separate them if nt u alone will take the blame.
Please do not say anything to your brother about this, it is not your place to do so. As someone said, it might be a result of your brother's lack. let him find out himself or the least you could do is talk to her. As long as they are not having issues at the home front DUE to her sexual orientation. Do not use your amebo to break it for him. Gues what?...neither your brother or the wife, even family members will ever forgive you for it. "Those who the Lord has joined together...let NO MAN/WOMAN put assunder".
How did you know about it? I am sure u have some issues with your sis-in-law that's why u are coming out to vent this way. If it was ur brother u discovered was gay, I don't think u would have posted this.
We are too quick to judge in this country... How are you sure your brother's attitude is not the leading cause of her new found sexual pleasures??? Think hard, nobody is a saint, not even you!
At least she has fulfilled her duty to her sex, family and humanity by getting married, rather than remaining useless fruitless for the sake of abnormal feelings. As long as she continues as a wife and mother, that's the best way to be a lesbian in my opinion. Don't tell your brother and break up a home, its her secret to keep. Just mind your business.
Madam Is your Brother better? is he an adulterer?? does he sleep with women outside his marriage? are u a fornicator? answer these first becos u are judgemental.....do u knw if your brother stop sleeping with her years ago thereby prompting this action???
the babe dn reply sef she sed her frend caught u with her hubby so ur guilty of sleeping with peoples husbands.how com ur hurt wen dey straf ur sister inlaw?.hmmmmm iheojo akaria nuwa.
Oh you bloody judgemental idiot ! We all sin on a daily basis but that doesn't stop us from going to church to seek the face of God. I advice you to go get a life of your own and leave ur brother be.only a fool interfers in the matters concerning husband and wife. And to every other peeson reading this: bisexuality is the not the biggest sin in this worl. Fornication,adultery,stealing and all this our petty white lies are all big sins. So instead of judging others,go and confess your sins and ask God for forgiveness
First, u v no rit to judge her.....2nd, is none of ur damn biznx.... Do u hate her dat much cos I cn feel it in ya word?u ddnt see it yasef nd u want to tell ur broda....ur reali stupid,go nd marry so u will stop hating....wat if ur broda is to b gay,wat will u do?anywayz mind ur biznx nd let ur broda find out emsef
Would like to ask u a question, would you tell your sis in-law if ur brother was a gay? If no then “don’t” I know it’s a shameful act but the best u can do is to help her, pray with her, counsel her and if need be let her see a counsellor cos it not what only u can do… Nobody holy pass!!! She might be a lesbian, we don’t know ur history though….. don’t be a home breaker… if u r really concern about the act as u said, “Human Right Activist” Do ur brother a favor by building and protecting his marriage and not destroying it……………..
omggggg!!!! your brothers wife has replied. lmao so u found out bcs u went to leep with her frds husband. hahahhahahahaha superstory, chews kpo kop garri
Dear poster.. I sense some HATE in ur post; don't let it cloud your judgment. Tell her you know and you can actually blackmail her by making sure she gets help thru deliverance or you'll tell your bro.. That is, if you are very sure of what you are saying and not hung up frm your hatred for her. Good luck!
Am a girl n I knw dat if it were a man sleeping wit anoda man ppl will ask u to let hell loose but simply becos its a woman everyone finks its cool. U shud pretend u dont even know wat the word lesbian is, What if ur bro knows n enjoys d threesome his being benefiting u wud look like an idiot.pretend u dont knw shit. Safest way out.
Any1 dat supports her not to tell her brother z a lesbian or gay oooh shit some people comment as if they feed from the nose *i guess you lesbians aren't happy wif her telling ha brother*jeeezzz
Some times, I wonder if God was to be a Nigerian, then how the world would have been. What is wrong in being a lesbian or gay? The bible warn against nations with unreasonable thought, which base on lack of human understanding, including human sexuality, this question goes to u all, WHO WAS CAIN'S WIFE?, that's where homosexuality started from, not sodom, proof me wrong people.
1st confront her and ask her to stop. if she doesn't then get evidence because it is your word against hers. u don't want to be labelled as the one trying to destroy their marriage. 3 with ur evidence report her to your brother.
YOU THAT YOU ARE A CHRONIC MASTURBATOR, HOW ARE YOU BETTER THAN HER? MTCHEW! YORUBA WILL SAY "ENI ILE BA MO BA NI BARAWO!". SEE, YOU DONT WANNA KNOW THE NUMBER OF BISEXUALS LIVING IN THIS COUNTRY RIGHT NOW. THE DEVIL HAS TAKEN OVER. END TIME THINGS OF COS. HOW DO YOU KNOW HER HUSBAND IS NOT GAY? OR YOUR OWN HUSBAND FOR THAT MATTER?! IS SHE WORSE THAN A PASTOR THAT COMMITS ADULTERY WITH HIS CHURCH MEMBERS? I'M NOT SAYING WHAT SHE DID OR IS DOING IS GOOD. I'M ONLY SAYING ITS NOT YOUR GODDAMNED BUSINESS. I HOPE THIS DISCUSSION HAS REDUCED THE PRICE OF GARRI IN THE MARKET ELSE I'LL CONSIDER THIS A WASTE OF MY PRECIOUS TIME.
Nobody needs to give you advice, and the advices you have been given you dont need to take. But ask yourself this question- if it was your sister and you found out, will you tell her husband? There might be repercussions for her sins but you wont come out a saint either if you end up destroying the marriage and having the kids grow up in a broken home. The harm from that might be far worse than the harm from her cheating on your brother. And pls, she may not be the best wife to your brother but is he a model husband? No body is perfect! Stop looking for her faults; you will keep finding them. I also suggest you talk to her with love and there are counsellors that can help her. Dr obi sandra
Msheeeew......what if your brother na GAY???? What if he knew bfr d marriage...all u will hear is 'thank you' and then you remain single till u r 48!ode!!! Mind ur business!!
My dear sharraaaap there....gossip....would u rather she fucks a man?do u know why shes doing it?do u know what ur brother is into?rubbish. ..leave the woman alone jor...it will shock u to know that we have so many bisexual married women in naija...but dey hide it cos of what society thinks...mind ur business jare...u never fuck woman before?if u havent den u should try it....its fun....pretender
Zip your mouth amibo
ReplyDeleteIn this case you haven't got your brother's best interest at heart. You clearly are harboring done resentment and jealousy towards your brother and you see this as an opportunity for one - upmanship. If there are kids involved and this is something you suspect (and your brother doesn't, though he's the one making babies with her) then maybe there's more to your noseyness than meets the eye.
DeleteNot once did you say *I love my brother*, *I don't want him to hurt* etc.. You're clearly a vindictive little shit.
Go ahead a wreck a home and watch your life fall apart.
amebo indeed. That'd why I don't date nigerians o. No offense to our men...but some of you got sisters n mothers from hell. They leave thier own miserable grey lIves n wanna tag along urs...destroying relationships every step of the way. No privacy in naija marriage. Ever considered that ur brother might know? Some naija men got bisexual wives n they Kool with it...cause they do thier own thing on the side as well. so long as both parties keep the extra activity outside. Mind ur own damn business for the sake of her kids. Even tho am sure u won't...u had to bring it to linda ikeji. U muse have lots of spare time
DeleteWhat are you waiting for? TELL OOO
ReplyDeleteNaaaa, don't tell him. 1st2comment? Yippee eeee! Ça va?
ReplyDeleteif hi reach for all this one,na me be first to comment but for lib giveaway i no day be first.y ?
ReplyDeleteU r still not d 1st to comment
DeleteChai...Nkechi..so u carry my mata go meet linda...lol..
ReplyDeleteIs better u let him know ooo.
ReplyDeleteyes,but you have to find out how he will react by asking him how he feel about lesbians..his answer will determine if you will tell him..Goodluck
ReplyDelete#GodblessNigeria
ReplyDeleteYes, your brother need to know
Mind your fucking business. At the right time , your brother will know... don't destroy his home please....
ReplyDeleteLol And you think your brother will believe you?someone that bore him two kids?let him found out himself
ReplyDeleteAiye baje.Foolish irresponsible married woman with two kids sef.She needs to be sent out of the house immediately.You don't need to keep such a thing like this,Kindly report her to her husband quickly.She is a daughter of devil
ReplyDeleteSee what Tiwa Savage did to a popular Comedian
Pretty wife caught cheating on her husband with the houseboy
Nadia Buari caught in a Hotel with a prophet
Phew! This is serious, if she's truely an LIB reader, I pray she gets to see this post.
ReplyDeleteMy dear try confronting her before telling your brother, she needs help.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
An liber? Bona anyuo ogbu.
Deleteu need help more,u jobless fool.what do u know?uneducated graduates that are all over d place dishing out unsubstanciated advise.
DeleteMy dear 98% percent of ladies out there are bisexual
DeleteLeave it or take it ......besides she aint gay shes bi
Lesbian sex dey sweet die, it takes grace to test it and nt fall hehehehe
Ewoooo!
ReplyDeleteConfront her & talk to her about it. Your brother isn't the best solution, so you guys can deal with it together.
DeleteBORN TO SHINE!!!
Dear poster.. I sense some HATE in ur post; don't let it cloud your judgment. Tell her you know and you can actually blackmail her by making sure she gets help thru deliverance or you'll tell your bro.. That is, if you are very sure of what you are saying and not hung up frm your hatred for her.
DeleteGood luck!
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Dear poster.. I sense some HATE in ur post; don't let it cloud your judgment. Tell her you know and you can actually blackmail her by making sure she gets help thru deliverance or you'll tell your bro.. That is, if you are very sure of what you are saying and not hung up frm your hatred for her.
DeleteGood luck!
*My R1.50c comment*
Oh boi ...she mean business ..." try it again and see"! well obviously u are reeling out a warning to her and u dont intend to tell just yet, you are waiting for the "push" from libers! Now she knows u know, dont tell ur bro yet and shatter his home. But on 2nd thought, she will never stop! so use ur church mind and do what u think is right.
ReplyDeleteSister in law -judge ikpeama. You found out and what next?
ReplyDeleteAre 100% clean?
Give her some break or else you want to break your brother's home.
You can call her and talk to her but it seems you were looking for fault.
Thank you nwannem......ndi inlaws eeeh! Especially d gurls.....ire ncha! She no go go marry face her own family. Ask her wat she was doing @ her sister inlaw's friends house. Crooked story!
DeleteI sense something.u r d one
DeleteAbi o! She was just seriously waiting breeze to blow to see fowl yansh
DeleteMy dear oooo... i thought exactly same.. am not saying lesbianism is just.. but this sister inlaw dem.. she sure sounds like she hates the lady and been looking for a fault.. if shes a good person, she would have confronted the lady and talk about it not flyin to your brother.. home dividers
DeleteTell ur brother..Don't hide such a thing..Can't stand Lesbians ☹☹ so preeq aint good enough?..I am very very sure she's catholic cos most Catholic women are lesbians..................................#KingOfKings #6ixGod
ReplyDeleteMay thunder + lightning scatter u into pieces like a suicide bomber! Chineke kpoo gi oku! King of evil!
DeleteYour foolishness has gone beyond imagination. Where is it written that Only catholic women are lesbians? Uncivilized animal
DeleteShut up! Does lesbianism have denomination? You must be a stereotypical fool
DeleteU re mad for saying dat
DeleteCome, kill urself already. Pychopath
DeleteU are mad 2 call catholic names, u ar a big fool.
DeleteWho r u to mention names here?? Are u God to judge??hw dare u??If u hv issues wit catholic church as a union sort it out dnt paint dia ladies black.How clean r u urself?? Be Matured wen nxt u comment on a social media dnt be so sure of wad u dnt knw.You urself am very very sure u knw u r a hypocrite. Remove d log in ur eyes first b4 taking off d spike in another's eyes.
Delete@king ur an idiot and a fuckin bastard, what has bein a catholic got to do with lesbianism? Ewu, big fool!
DeleteYou're very stupid for dat statement,servant calling himself king. foolish boy.
DeleteYou're one the reasons of the causes of problems in the world . always ready to point out one religions or the other . God help you
DeleteSuch a very stupid thing to say"I am very sure she's catholic cos most catholic women are lesbians"rubbish!!!
DeleteIs like you are mad abi? For dropping that statement...
DeleteYou have got to confront her. Let her tell your brother herself or you do the telling. She needs help. You can't hide this truth or it will hunt you for ever. Selah.
ReplyDeleteThat is not your business,let your brother find out himself..........but u can talk to her and let her know you cant deal with it
ReplyDeletecall her and talk to her make her see the danger in it and the damage it can cause her family and most importantly how God sees sodomy.
ReplyDeleteAsirir gbakaa ute olaru na gutter.......confront ur sis inlaw b4 running off to ur bro! And how did u even find out ? Where u de? If u were there, wat were u doing there? U have sum questions to answer. All dis inlaws sef! Poke noser!
ReplyDeleteCorrect how did she know? That means she was there infact I suspect she did a threesome with her sister-in law. Pls stop pokenosing leave ur brother's marriage alone. When I get married my inlaws will not live with me they can only visit mtcheww
DeleteStay away from their marriage jor. She might be into that because your brother doesn't satisfy her sexually. Abeg leave them as long as e no de cause any marital problems at the moment. Let your bros find out himself if he notices any changes
ReplyDeleteYou are disgusting ........
DeleteWot ar u sayin lesbianism is a spiritual problm its nt a physical tin ooooo
DeleteDis person dat wrote dis letter is just an hypocritical idiot. Since when does ones sexuality define a person she is wrong for cheating on her husband but judging her 4 going 2 church or doing things that comes natural as a human and a mother just becos u feel she is gay makes u an idiot and + u did't even tell us how u found out of her infidelity. Madam sister in-law get ur facts straight o before u break a home "he without sin cast the 1st stone"
ReplyDeleteYou have casted the first stone already.
DeleteEwu so all dis ur idiotic talk justicfy her being a lesbian abi? Maybe u re her partner,stupid shegoat,ozuwor
Deletewho's dis fool,so u dnt understnd simple writeups,so hu's d hypocrite here? is it nt d lesbo?didnt u see wen she wrote nd givin advice like mother teresa?dat means say she de go church nd give advice like say na she holy pass,u b monkey o,must u defend ur lesbian act ignorantly,am nt sure u even read it u just rush come insult her bcos u follow b lesbian,olosho
DeleteI taya o
DeleteU gan wetin u dey do there nd hw did u catch her, na thief dey sabi thief o
Pokenoser
She didn't. Spot on sister!
DeleteThis babe harsh o. I think the best u can do 4 now is to confront and caution her. See if there's a way u can talk her out of it. Her reaction will determine if ur brother should know or not.
ReplyDeleteHeheheheh I no fit shout.This post sounds more like a warning than advice.Hope the LIBer is reading this your federal warning.
ReplyDeleteDear LIB reader;u will be d worst enemy of your brother and those children if you dont tell your brother and show him whatever proof you have.This is not a case of warning her or getting confused cos she is actually bringing a curse upon ur brother and his children. Lastly;u better tell it all quickly before she cooks up allegations about you that would turn ur brother against you in her quest to hide the truth.Gud luck
ReplyDeleteA curse???? Wat century are u from Abeg? But if na d man dey cheat curse no dey ba mumu
DeleteIf you love her like a sister, talk to her, counsel her or get her to meet a counselor. its hard but I know you can, its the right step, and love conquers every situation. please don't tell your brother. at least not at the moment, cos a divorce will do him no good and believe me God will punish you. because as the saying goes. what God has brought together, let no other put asunder
ReplyDeleteBest advice so far
DeleteBeta be fast in telling him.
ReplyDeleteHow did you know she is a LESBIAN? Hope you didnt join in the act?? Never you tell her brother if she told you she gonna change | but tell him if she doesnt heed to your advice!
ReplyDelete@poster...it is absolutely non of ur bizness,i know he's ur bro bt den let dem both settle dia ish...if along d line he catches her,let his wrath desend on her bt asides dat,i know uv got ur brothers interest @heart and although she's into a shameful act,truth b told it's really non of ur concern nor business
ReplyDeleteam glad she is also a LIB visitor(the so called lesbian)......pls my dearest libers advice her cos am kinda short of words now.....trust libers on issues like this.
ReplyDeleteThat's none of ur business
ReplyDeleteCHAI THIS IS A CONFIRM CALLING OUT!!!!
ReplyDeleteGoing to church every Sunday and giving advice like Mother Teresa when she lives a dirty, disgusting life?
ReplyDeleteWtf!blogger pays big girl busola 5,000 naira to expose herself on camera.see video!
Telling her brother might end their marriage,call her and talk to her abt it and if she still doing it,you have no other choice than to tell ur brother.
ReplyDeleteFaceoflib
Don't tell your Bro. I'l advice u confront her.
ReplyDeleteLol...
ReplyDeleteIf ur brother were to be gay, would u report him to his wife??? I knw d life is dirty, buh its better dan slipin wth men
The truth is, d are so many homosexuals in our society who get married to d opposite sex cos d dnt stand a chance of marrying dier types in nigeria.
Most of these lesbians were runs girls. Your bro shoulda known d kinda woman he was marrying b4 venturing into d marriage.
#His palava #dnt put assunder
She's bi you mean.
ReplyDeleteU asking us if u shud tell ur broda and u also giving her a formal warning "Try it again and u'll see" DAT sounds like u already giving her an opportunity to change...which side re u on...
Delete#dissapointed#
ReplyDeleteCame to read comments,unfortunately, none yet.lol
yes tell ya brother! if not it will surely hunt you one day..#the real wixzy#
ReplyDeletePls tell ur brother.na only God kw our heart is nt. All bout goin to church.
ReplyDeletefirstly how did you know she had sex?abi na una 2 straff una self.i would advise you pray for her and with her and also have a heart to heart talk with her rather than condemning her
ReplyDeleteTELL HIM!!! or wait till u get evidence then show him...so that she does not lie that u don't like her and that u are blackmailing her...
ReplyDeletenext time u want to report something, don't mention it...u may be endangering your life...what if she harms u or kills u?
100% right...
DeleteLol women always live double lives unlike we men. I no blame them sha. Na society cause am. Double standards and all.
ReplyDeleteWho told u men don't live double lives? I guess ure from the bush and not in this society. Anuofia
DeleteWho told u men don't live double lives? I guess ure from the bush and not in this society. Anuofia
DeleteNo leave her God has a way of expossing them leave her she is not a problem is she distubin u no
ReplyDeleteHmmm, so you been investigating her for long? How do we even believe your story then? Plus you could just hate on her and possibly been looking for ways to indict her. So all these cos its your brother he is married to abi? Jealous much! IMO, seems you've been beefing her for a long time
ReplyDeleteDon't tell ur brother and scatter his marriage. Advice her instead and warn her to desist from such.
ReplyDeleteIf you tell your brother, you will crash his marriage and i tell you, he will never forgive you as a part of him will hold you responsible for his broken marriage.
Call your sister in-law aside, discuss with her, ask her why she has been doing it. At least she isn't screwing a man. Find out from her ifbher husband doesn't satisfy her sexually.
Help her stop the habit instead of condemning her and destroying your brother's home.
But sorry oooooo........ How did you know? Did you go into the lovers room for you own lesbo sex?
Confront her then!
ReplyDeleteI didn't know its a crime to be a lesbian...
ReplyDeleteNigerians will leave more pressing matters to worry about what an adult does in close doors.
Not my business sha.
So homo is not a ppressing issue madam? Its very obvious dat u re one
Deleteit is supposed to be Paul and Patricia and not Patricia and Rita 14 years awaits you. They come in the open and pretend yet they are so disgusting.
ReplyDeleteshe should stop pretending and get married to a woman and let the man move on with his life.
it is supposed to be Paul and Patricia and not Patricia and Rita 14 years awaits you. They come in the open and pretend yet they are so disgusting.
ReplyDeleteshe should stop pretending and get married to a woman and let the man move on with his life.
it is supposed to be Paul and Patricia and not Patricia and Rita 14 years awaits you. They come in the open and pretend yet they are so disgusting.
ReplyDeleteshe should stop pretending and get married to a woman and let the man move on with his life.
Abegi shut up you that is talking na you holy pass ?
ReplyDeleteStay out of it.. It's none of your business but if you want to destroy your brothers home/life then go ahead
ReplyDeletehaha wahala de oh, please tell your brother jor
ReplyDeleteGo fine work stop monitoring people,s life hw are u sure if she is a lesbian wots ur biz dere maybe u think she is eating ur bros money and she not given u abii go and fine wrk u fucker ashwo ass
ReplyDeleteAre u sure ur brother doesn't already know she's gay? Maybe she's his breed and his her biabia. Don't involve yourself in matters u don't understand. I don't see how you'll be married to someone and not know they're gay. Maybe he choose to look the other way.
ReplyDeleteI think you should let your brother know, he deserves to know so that he can confront her. If she wants to be with girls then its ok for her to go with girls. Just tell him what you observed and allow him deal with in he's own way www.askralph.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteAunty....she's bisexual...deres a diffrence...
ReplyDeleteI love your brother and you can't break my home. My frd in Parkview saw you and her husband,you can't frame us. I can see Owerri is calling you.
ReplyDeleteHmm... are u the in-law or are you just pretending?
DeleteAh!inlaw u don come?things women do!if u love him why u cheating on him?i have no issues with lesbians so it cld av been a dog!but u cheated!dats d issue here
DeleteBuhahahahah! Oh d poster bu di ashawo sef! Biko nne pack for pit toilet.....hahahahaha! But wify if dis is truly u and u did wat she said,pls dnt do again.... And pursue dis poster frm ur matrimonial home! Ndi sister inlaws na witch! Anya ufu.
DeleteR u for real? so u actually did it
DeleteWow!!! D wife don reply ohhh,am enjoying dis drama
DeleteD babe don reply oooooo. Fire on d mountain.
DeleteAha! I knew something was missing somwhere... So she is no saint after all... She can't break your home don't worry. She's just trying to scare you with the joker.
DeleteDeal with the matter wisely pls, I'm sure you know its wrong but I commend you for wanting to keep your marriage intact. I bet your husband suspects anyway, so its between you and him and your sis-in-law should butt out.
DeleteKimmy*****
Ghen ghen lol
DeleteThis is interesting. Are you the sister in law or you are just messing about??
DeleteSeriously??? Are u the sister-in-law or another fake ass
DeleteAshawo oshi, u love him yet u r cheating on him. What do u want to teach ur kids?
DeleteWhy are u sounding so guilty?attack is d best form of defense......better stop d lesbo practice,its not worth breaking ur home,cos there is nothing hidden under d sun,...he will soon catch u in it if u don't stop now dat it's early
DeleteAs for u tatafo inlaw,its not worth it,breaking ur brother's home won't make u gain weight,neither will it increase ur bank account.....i believe she will change...pray for her
This babe harsh oh. See threat!!! I wonder how people stumble into this activity. Yes, we do crazy stuff due to youthful exuberance but know the limit and how to control the flesh. This poster might be putting herself in danger, rather than making it public and expecting your sister-in-law to see and keep mute, you better tell your brother.
ReplyDeleteLol.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, he who is without sin, cast the first stone!
In as much as we don't encourage everyone to be sanctimonious, we DO need those sanctimonious individuals to even things out.
Does she take care of your nieces and nephews?
Her home slash your hubby nko?
Is her hubby complaining?
What if your brother was cheating on her, would you be obliged to come here on LIB to rat him out or warn him as you've just done?
Bottom line is, it's none of your goddamn business. Fuck off!!!
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Best comment..let her fuck off..lol
DeleteIf u tell ur broda, u destroy her marriage but just wait n see ur broda will find out soon..hmconcept2000@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteYou should mind your own business and stop thinking of destroying other people's marriage.
ReplyDeletetalk to her and see if she can change so as to preserve ur brother's family. And keep praying for her.
ReplyDeleteU neet 2 think twice,ur brother might nt being satisfying her sexually. is that nt better than giving it 2 another man outside?
ReplyDeleteJealousy ga egbu gi abii give me her number make I call her am also lesbian mother of 4
ReplyDeleteAnd ur proud of it God have mercy on u
DeleteHahahahahaha my dear you better tell your brother ASAP, make sure you have prove 4 your brother to believe your story. Rozay talking
ReplyDeleteI LOVE MY BROTHER IF I CAUGHT HIS WIFE(GOD FORBID) I WILL TELL HIM
ReplyDeleteLmao!
ReplyDeleteShe is bisexual. Lesbian and also love the cane. I only wonder how a married man or woman with kids, enjoy sex with same sex.
ReplyDeleteGod help her
ReplyDeleteHow about you mind your business, abi na for your mouth you want make them hear say teacher mama don die?
ReplyDeleteHmmmm, Trust nobody. Going to Church or Mosque everyday doesn't makes you a good Christian or Muslim. I pray she see this post and change or stop that bad habit.
ReplyDelete⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥
Bad grammar go back to school
Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Baby mind ur business and dont scatter this family abeg.....
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if you also wish to speak with her first then that is fine, but he is your brother and he really deserves to know what is happening. Let her come clean, it'll be the best thing for her also
ReplyDeleteWow! Ur bro is lucky!!
ReplyDeleteIs it your business? Why don't Nigerians mind their business? What of if your brother is gay or Bi and decided to marry a lesbian that will understand? If you don't know that is what is happening now. My sister remove the log in your eyes before you see the grain in another's eyes. Mind your own business. It may turn out that you are exposing your brother.
ReplyDeleteMa sister as am writing dis comment be dialing ur brother's line now nd tell him oooo, cos 1, 4 de sake of her children nd shame she will do evrytin to make sure dat dis story never gets ur brother so she might end up killing u trust sm women are desperate. 2, ur brothers life is in danger oooo cos dat her lesbian fool will be seeing ur brother as a rival nd an obstacle nd will want to kill him nd am sure u knw ur brother's wife is de 1 to finish de work cos she is got nothing to loose she has kids already nd ur brothers wealth belongs to her as his legally married wife.3, she will turn ur brother's children into lesbian nd gay cos dose kids will be looking after her nd might think dat is life, pls ooo am crying now save ur brother nd ur family b4 is too late ooo plssssssss nd Linda publish ooooo u knw am suspecting u ooo nd I want to marry u so no fall ma hand.
ReplyDeleteIs it your business? Why don't Nigerians mind their business? What of if your brother is gay or Bi and decided to marry a lesbian that will understand? If you don't know that is what is happening now. My sister remove the log in your eyes before you see the grain in another's eyes. Mind your own business. It may turn out that you are exposing your brother.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm how come all the anonymous writers are sounding same, seems to me that's her and her cohorts.
ReplyDeleteI think you should tell him
ReplyDeleteAmebo, how is your own life going? I can see she's the inlaw from hell...
ReplyDeletePray for her and mind you're own business Jare... Problem with a lot of Nigerians mscheww!
Tsew. This person is a coward. If u want her to know that u know then u go talk to her instead of bringing ur bro's fam affair out in d open on social media. Anyway, I have questions for u; were u in d room or whereva u claimed they had sex? U say she goes to church every sunday to act like a saint, are u a saint? U really wanna sort this out, then u sit her down and talk like adults. Tellin ur bro cud break his home buh if that's what u want, then go ahead.
ReplyDeleteCasala don burst, Egbe don gas
ReplyDeleteMimicking Burna Boy
If ur Sister Inlaw na Lesbian n u found out, Yawa Dey OOO
does it disturb their relationship??
ReplyDeleteEVERYONE SAYING SHE SHOULD TELL HER BROTHER IS STUPID..PUT YOURSELF IN HER POSITION,DO YOU WANT THEM TO DIVORCE..
ReplyDeleteWHAT IF THE HUSBAND KNOWS SHE IS BI SEXUAL BEFORE SHE GET MARRIED TO HER?
THE BEST THING TO DO IS CALL HER AND COUNSEL HER...
SO MANY NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE LESBIAN,THEY JUST HIDE IT...
What concerns you about it? It's none of your business as long as she satisfies her husband (sexually). How did you know sef?
ReplyDelete...hmmm stories that touches the heart
ReplyDeleteOk so what? Now that youve found out how are you gona prove it?
ReplyDeleteYou might be suprised that he knows also
My sister this is a sensitive issue because it can destroy your brother`s marriage if not handled with care.See what to do-Call her attention and let her know that you are aware of this her problem,and you want to help her out of it without your brother knowing about it.Remember this problem can be psychological,hormonal or even demonic.Discurse it with her and let her know the effect of continous indulgement in such act.Meet a true man of God or a counsellor experinced in such matters who can help her out.Pls remember that she cannot help herself out of this problem,God want to use you in this situation that is why He allowed you to discover it.We meet such cases occationally ,and this the way we handle it without people knowing about it.Everybody have one problem or the other to conquer in this lie,this is her own problem.Good luck.
ReplyDeleteDisgusting act! I can imagine how grossed out u are. U should let ur brother know. Cos cautioning her won't make her stop, she will only be more careful than she has ever been.
ReplyDeleteTell your brother.
ReplyDeleteBetter tell him, let him know what he's gotten himself into.
ReplyDeleteAbeg shutup, how is it ur business that she is a lesbian... TaTAFO.....
ReplyDeleteIf we start to dig into your wardrobe Lawd Knows what we will find, Please allow the girl to get it in the way and manner she pleases, (at least she isnt sleeping with another man)
Maybe your brother doesnt touch her right or he doesnt do certain things right, may be he knows about her life , may be her lesbian partner is the only thing that keeps her sane.. Please keep your goody two shoes horny mouth in one place and stay out of peoples buainess.
If you tell him what will uachieve?, u will wreck their home and leave their kids in an unhappy home, so shut the fuck up and mind ur damn business.
STALKER OSHI!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteJOBLESS NICOMPOOP
SO u r so jobless, u trailed ur brothers wife to parkview.... Kai nne sorry o, u dont have work, that just ur problem
Tell your brother,the earlier the better,a stitch in time saves nine.
ReplyDeleteGbam, like she's better! Maybe ur broda is aware, better for him than for her to cheat with guys.
ReplyDeleteMaybe ur broda even pushed her into it
Maybe ur broda is gay too
Maybe its not something she indulges in always
For ur info, its everywhere, telling ur borda doesn't make it any better.
You too go find ur husband make babies and stay out of pples life aproko.
She even try to go for woman wen dick sweet like anoda thing.
Your brother aint man enough,that's why she needs a big vibrator,let her be,ur brother also cheats you know,investigate ASAP
ReplyDeleteWas the act before or after marriage?Nwy ever heard of bisexuality? instead of prosecuting her here put your your stance on sexuality and her personality aside and confront HER about it. see what she has to say before you decide whether to interfere
ReplyDeletesome of you here cheat on your wives ,husbands, boyfriends and girlfriends .
ReplyDeleteIf you aint guilty of these then you can talk . but others keep quite.
Madam I too know I am sure u don't have a husband and you are beefing your brothers wife cos u sound so bitter what is your business are you a saint?i aM sure if u have your own home u will too busy taking care of your home rather than monitoring your bros wife all these sisters in law sef just talk to her about it and leave her to her conscience u r not in d best position to judge her na u be God?Or u want to be a home breaker ba?pls just mnd your business bitter soul,I am sure you do worst things that is if u r not a witch sef!!!!!
ReplyDeleteMadam I too know I am sure u don't have a husband and you are beefing your brothers wife cos u sound so bitter what is your business are you a saint?i aM sure if u have your own home u will too busy taking care of your home rather than monitoring your bros wife all these sisters in law sef just talk to her about it and leave her to her conscience u r not in d best position to judge her na u be God?Or u want to be a home breaker ba?pls just mnd your business bitter soul,I am sure you do worst things that is if u r not a witch sef!!!!!
ReplyDeleteM,o Madam I too know I am sure u don't have a husband and you are beefing your brothers wife cos u sound so bitter what is your business are you a saint?i aM sure if u have your own home u will too busy taking care of your home rather than monitoring your bros wife all these sisters in law sef just talk to her about it and leave her to her conscience u r not in d best position to judge her na u be God?Or u want to be a home breaker ba?pls just mnd your business bitter soul,I am sure you do worst things that is if u r not a witch sef!!!!!
ReplyDeletePlease do not say anything to your brother about this, it is not your place to do so. As someone said, it might be a result of your brother's lack. let him find out himself or the least you could do is talk to her. As long as they are not having issues at the home front DUE to her sexual orientation. Do not use your amebo to break it for him. Gues what?...neither your brother or the wife, even family members will ever forgive you for it. "Those who the Lord has joined together...let NO MAN/WOMAN put assunder".
ReplyDeletehmmm after reading all d comments am short of words but pls let her be but if u care u can talk to her or rather keep quite untill ur brother finds out. i live with my ex-husband for 3yrs and 2boys without knowing his gay but everybody in his family know this untill i caught him. so let him catch her red handed then he can take his decision but dont be d one to separate them if nt u alone will take the blame.
ReplyDeletePlease do not say anything to your brother about this, it is not your place to do so. As someone said, it might be a result of your brother's lack. let him find out himself or the least you could do is talk to her. As long as they are not having issues at the home front DUE to her sexual orientation. Do not use your amebo to break it for him. Gues what?...neither your brother or the wife, even family members will ever forgive you for it. "Those who the Lord has joined together...let NO MAN/WOMAN put assunder".
ReplyDeleteAbeg joor mind your business, in due time your brother will know.. So keep off
ReplyDeleteImagine ur husband being a gay! 1st, do you think your brother can handle the truth? You have to confront her too. Weigh your options.
ReplyDeleteAdd 2B5CB881 for Organic Beauty products
How did you know about it? I am sure u have some issues with your sis-in-law that's why u are coming out to vent this way. If it was ur brother u discovered was gay, I don't think u would have posted this.
ReplyDeleteWe are too quick to judge in this country... How are you sure your brother's attitude is not the leading cause of her new found sexual pleasures??? Think hard, nobody is a saint, not even you!
ReplyDeletena wa o tell your brother about it and let him catch her himself i pray she changes before she is disgraced by this shameful act
ReplyDeleteShe is bisexual... Mind your business o.. Or better still break the marriage and let her go enjoy her life full time with a woman.
ReplyDeleteAt least she has fulfilled her duty to her sex, family and humanity by getting married, rather than remaining useless fruitless for the sake of abnormal feelings. As long as she continues as a wife and mother, that's the best way to be a lesbian in my opinion. Don't tell your brother and break up a home, its her secret to keep. Just mind your business.
ReplyDeleteKimmy*****
Madam Is your Brother better? is he an adulterer?? does he sleep with women outside his marriage? are u a fornicator? answer these first becos u are judgemental.....do u knw if your brother stop sleeping with her years ago thereby prompting this action???
ReplyDeletethe babe dn reply sef she sed her frend caught u with her hubby so ur guilty of sleeping with peoples husbands.how com ur hurt wen dey straf ur sister inlaw?.hmmmmm iheojo akaria nuwa.
ReplyDeletespeak to her about it first before going to your brother
ReplyDeletemonitoring spirit is what you are
ReplyDeleteTell your brother.
ReplyDeletehi pls can u and me her ditals, in a lesbian myself and looking for a new girlfriend
ReplyDeleteOh you bloody judgemental idiot ! We all sin on a daily basis but that doesn't stop us from going to church to seek the face of God. I advice you to go get a life of your own and leave ur brother be.only a fool interfers in the matters concerning husband and wife. And to every other peeson reading this: bisexuality is the not the biggest sin in this worl. Fornication,adultery,stealing and all this our petty white lies are all big sins. So instead of judging others,go and confess your sins and ask God for forgiveness
ReplyDeletefree sex all the way... i'll fuck her as much as i want. nothing wrong with liking a dick and eating pussy. who are you to judge any-ways.
ReplyDeleteFirst, u v no rit to judge her.....2nd, is none of ur damn biznx.... Do u hate her dat much cos I cn feel it in ya word?u ddnt see it yasef nd u want to tell ur broda....ur reali stupid,go nd marry so u will stop hating....wat if ur broda is to b gay,wat will u do?anywayz mind ur biznx nd let ur broda find out emsef
ReplyDelete~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~
Maybe ur brother does not kw how to do it well hahaha
ReplyDeleteodikwa risk oo.
ReplyDeleteWould like to ask u a question, would you tell your sis in-law if ur brother was a gay? If no then “don’t” I know it’s a shameful act but the best u can do is to help her, pray with her, counsel her and if need be let her see a counsellor cos it not what only u can do… Nobody holy pass!!! She might be a lesbian, we don’t know ur history though….. don’t be a home breaker… if u r really concern about the act as u said, “Human Right Activist” Do ur brother a favor by building and protecting his marriage and not destroying it……………..
ReplyDeleteomggggg!!!! your brothers wife has replied. lmao so u found out bcs u went to leep with her frds husband. hahahhahahahaha superstory, chews kpo kop garri
ReplyDeleteIf their home is a happy one, you better keep your mouth shut.
ReplyDeleteIf their home isnt happy , u still have to keep your mouth shut.
Its actually none of your business. You can confront her and even threaten to tell but do not.
Dear poster.. I sense some HATE in ur post; don't let it cloud your judgment. Tell her you know and you can actually blackmail her by making sure she gets help thru deliverance or you'll tell your bro.. That is, if you are very sure of what you are saying and not hung up frm your hatred for her.
ReplyDeleteGood luck!
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If ur bro wz a fag would u tell his wife???why d hell do u wanna break her home???? Pls stay off since its nt affecting their home...
ReplyDeleteIt s none f ur biz cos 1ce u tell ur bro u r nw an enemy of the family n again are u a saint?
ReplyDeleteyou are a lesbian too..im not saying I wanna promote lesbianism oo.olabode82@yahoo.co.uk
ReplyDeleteAm a girl n I knw dat if it were a man sleeping wit anoda man ppl will ask u to let hell loose but simply becos its a woman everyone finks its cool.
ReplyDeleteU shud pretend u dont even know wat the word lesbian is,
What if ur bro knows n enjoys d threesome his being benefiting u wud look like an idiot.pretend u dont knw shit.
Safest way out.
How do you know your brother doesnt already know. Are you in the bedroom with them.. Abeg mind your own business jor!!!
ReplyDeletePray 4 her i tink she needs deliverance but dnt break ur brodas home
ReplyDeleteAny1 dat supports her not to tell her brother z a lesbian or gay oooh shit some people comment as if they feed from the nose *i guess you lesbians aren't happy wif her telling ha brother*jeeezzz
ReplyDeleteThatshe is cheating on your brothe is wrong but everything else is really none of your business...
ReplyDeleteIf na me be your brother, I go like that kind gist sef... Na to tell wifey make she invite friend for threesome sef..
ReplyDeleteSome times, I wonder if God was to be a Nigerian, then how the world would have been. What is wrong in being a lesbian or gay? The bible warn against nations with unreasonable thought, which base on lack of human understanding, including human sexuality, this question goes to u all, WHO WAS CAIN'S WIFE?, that's where homosexuality started from, not sodom, proof me wrong people.
ReplyDelete1st confront her and ask her to stop. if she doesn't then get evidence because it is your word against hers. u don't want to be labelled as the one trying to destroy their marriage. 3 with ur evidence report her to your brother.
ReplyDeleteYOU THAT YOU ARE A CHRONIC MASTURBATOR, HOW ARE YOU BETTER THAN HER? MTCHEW! YORUBA WILL SAY "ENI ILE BA MO BA NI BARAWO!". SEE, YOU DONT WANNA KNOW THE NUMBER OF BISEXUALS LIVING IN THIS COUNTRY RIGHT NOW. THE DEVIL HAS TAKEN OVER. END TIME THINGS OF COS. HOW DO YOU KNOW HER HUSBAND IS NOT GAY? OR YOUR OWN HUSBAND FOR THAT MATTER?! IS SHE WORSE THAN A PASTOR THAT COMMITS ADULTERY WITH HIS CHURCH MEMBERS? I'M NOT SAYING WHAT SHE DID OR IS DOING IS GOOD. I'M ONLY SAYING ITS NOT YOUR GODDAMNED BUSINESS. I HOPE THIS DISCUSSION HAS REDUCED THE PRICE OF GARRI IN THE MARKET ELSE I'LL CONSIDER THIS A WASTE OF MY PRECIOUS TIME.
ReplyDeleteNobody needs to give you advice, and the advices you have been given you dont need to take. But ask yourself this question- if it was your sister and you found out, will you tell her husband? There might be repercussions for her sins but you wont come out a saint either if you end up destroying the marriage and having the kids grow up in a broken home. The harm from that might be far worse than the harm from her cheating on your brother. And pls, she may not be the best wife to your brother but is he a model husband? No body is perfect! Stop looking for her faults; you will keep finding them. I also suggest you talk to her with love and there are counsellors that can help her. Dr obi sandra
ReplyDeleteMsheeeew......what if your brother na GAY???? What if he knew bfr d marriage...all u will hear is 'thank you' and then you remain single till u r 48!ode!!! Mind ur business!!
ReplyDeleteMy dear sharraaaap there....gossip....would u rather she fucks a man?do u know why shes doing it?do u know what ur brother is into?rubbish. ..leave the woman alone jor...it will shock u to know that we have so many bisexual married women in naija...but dey hide it cos of what society thinks...mind ur business jare...u never fuck woman before?if u havent den u should try it....its fun....pretender
ReplyDeleteMind your business!! If it's not affecting their marriage how e take concern u???
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