There are so many scars on my body, especially my back and it's all thanks to my boyfriend. We have been dating for about nine months but I am beginning to be sick of having sex with him. You see every time he's about to have an orgasm during sex, he digs his nails into my back depending on his position and sometimes peels the skin off. His orgasm is so intense that he is not even aware of how much he is hurting me until his body is relaxed. We have talked about this many times and he promised to be more careful but it hasn't stopped as it looks like it's out of his hands. I have refused to have sex with him for about two weeks because the last time we did it he literally drew blood from my side. Is there anything we can do? I can't continue having sex with him if he can't stop hurting me at the end. I love dude and I want to be with him but what can I do to stop this? Are there other women experiencing this?
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let him cut his finger nails.
ReplyDeleteAbeg buy gloves for am.
DeleteLet him wear gloves
DeleteBest solution cut off the 2 hands/ fingers lol
DeleteBORN TO SHINE!!!
U for show us ur back now. Why u go wear white dress. As I dey look u, u no dey inocenti u neva talk true. mtcheeew
DeleteLinda, how I go use google dey coment
yea, let him cut his nails really short for a start
Deleteyea, let him cut his nails really short for a start
DeleteLmao which kind story be dis biko???
Delete9ice talk...y givin urself headache
DeleteLooolz dear run for your life, one day he will pull out your intestine.
ReplyDeleteWhat sort of rubbish orgasm is that, he should dig his fingers into his lungs when cuming.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Lool...for once i agree wv u
DeleteOmg,Bonario lmao
DeleteHahhahahahahaha. Bonario u no well at all
DeleteFunny u!
DeleteSeriously, Bonario, you're a clown mehn. But really, he should just cut his nails or he might end up plucking out her eyeballs on his next cumming *grin*
DeleteGbam
DeleteLmao Bonario.!
DeleteBonario u wicked ya bt @same tym true.....na fr who de fuck sha
Delete~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~
You're really funny, you know that?
DeleteAm nt but the way most guys go about this sex of a thg, it makes u break up wit them so easily, just all over you bcos u re dating as if sex is food..please guys take a break #justmineownview#
ReplyDeleteTELL HIM TO WEAR HAND GLOVES *SIMPLE* OR BOXING GLOVES LOL. IN MY OWN CASE ITS THE OTHER WAY ROUND. MY WOMAN DON TEAR MY BODY FINISH. LOL
ReplyDeleteUr comment got me laughing, hahahh. Nice idea sha
Deletethere are lots of ways to deal with this but i cant write all. He's hormones are on the high side that's why he experiences such raging orgasms. you guys can try a little bondage, tie him up but in a sexy way and be the one to ride him. When he orgasms he would be already bound by the hands. Or if he is getting close to having an orgasm during a spontaneous sex session you can try to be mindful of when he is about to and call he's attention to it. www.askralph.blogspot.com. I deal with matters like this
ReplyDeleteYOU ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE HAVING SEX WITH HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE. HE IS NOT YOUR HUSBAND. IF THE RELATIONSHIP BREAKS, YOU WOULD LEAVE WITH YOUR SELF ESTEEM SHATTERED. STOP SINNING AND REPENT. JESUS IS COMING SOON.
ReplyDeleteYea sure, some men even go as far as biting the skin of their spouse while they orgasm. maybe he should cut his fingernails "pretty short"
ReplyDeleteMa bf snack ma bum wen he is abt to cum. Always got a mixed reaction wen he does dat, pain plus pleasure!
DeleteLady, if he actually can't control it, den he needs help. If u eventually get married to him u will have to live wit this pain all ur life. Think about it...
ReplyDeleteYour boyfriend you say? No wahala sha! I would advice you guys for for counselling
ReplyDeleteHe should cut his nails really short.
ReplyDeleteIntense orgasm, pls sit him down and have a serious talk with him before ur back turns to something else.
ReplyDeleteYour boyfriend you say? No wahala sha! I would advice you guys for for counselling. Madam Linda I'm not a robot pls
ReplyDeleteLol strange things
ReplyDeleteWhich kain story be dis? Tell him to cut his nails! Or would really low nails still injure somebody?
ReplyDeleteAsk him to cut the nails simple.
ReplyDeleteUse your teeth bite the nails comot.
ReplyDelete2. Anytime you wan do that thing, get a needle and place under the pillow. Once e don don climb that mount everest so and e start to scratch you like winch so, you to comot the needle begin scratch am for back too.
If e no work come back make I giyu number 3
Haahaha
DeleteShioooooo u na evil o
Mke e shuk am with needle?
Dt wan na bloody sex na
Oboy u funny die..lol
DeleteLwkm
DeleteHahahahahahahahahahaha
DeleteLmbooo OMG. This is the comment of life. Buhahahahahahahahha. Oniyeye
DeleteSome guys are just dogs when it comes to sex of a thing and orgasm
ReplyDeleteCut his nails & give him hand gloves 2 wear.. simple!!
ReplyDelete-trillz
Wahala dey. ..fornication advice ...lol
ReplyDeleteHMM
ReplyDeletevery simple bandage d gye hand.
ReplyDeleteLmao...your so called boyfriend is a monster...can't stop laughing here...lwkmd
ReplyDeleteSee What this Man is Busy Doing with a Lady in an Uncompleted Building
Vampire alert. Run for your life.Or better still a straight jacket will him in his ryt senses.
ReplyDeletesimple bandage d gye hand.
ReplyDeleteWhat type of question is this? Why do we have razor blades and nail cutters? Let him wear hand gloves when he wants to have sex wit you. The lady who sent this to Lindodo must be joking bcos this is not an issue..
ReplyDelete#The Theist
Why is it that Linda has made popular those that are so Vulgar in their comments? bonario and onyx are some of the most insensible thinkers here. wilhemina moses and badoo of toronto are not left out in the band wagon of pathetic animals. There are some brilliant commenters here that don't even get noticed.Alloy Chikezie,Hilary Obiora, Bonita Bislam, Cute G, Adeneye Adisa and the likes.Linda please try to encourage the witty ones here and appreciate them as well. Some comments should be seriously censured.
ReplyDeleteNa ppl way be ur friends na him u mention. If Linda no notice Dem, then she needs to work on herself. Linda abeg notice dem
DeleteUse handcuff to cuff his hand anytime you guys wants to have sex, or let him wear hand gloves or you wear hazmat suit. Case closed.
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Get him to wear gloves during sex.
ReplyDeleteHe likes it rough... Perfect solution -- scratch his back also,make sure he bleeds badly, look at how he reacts(if he's angry or turned on) if he's angry break up,if he likes it and not willing to stop,break up...
ReplyDeleteFor ur mind, you don make mega sense
DeleteFor ur mind, you don make mega sense
DeletePlease tell the ur man cut his nails na...
ReplyDeleteSimple solution, cut his nails! -sugar pweddie
ReplyDeleteBuy goalkeeper's gloves for him and continue enjoying your sex life. #Sekem
ReplyDeletePlease tell him to cut his nails na...
ReplyDelete
ReplyDeleteLol
If he holds his nails on ur back during that moment,use ur teeth to hold his ear.pls abstain from premarital sex,God is not happy with it.
ReplyDeleteHe should cut his nails na.
ReplyDeleteWhich kain problem be this?
He should do something about himself abeg,else by 2years u would be totally mutilated.
Please tell him to cut his nails na...
ReplyDeleteTell him to cut off his nails then.
ReplyDeleteThis is simple. He should CUT his nails!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is serious
ReplyDeleteBuy him a lateX glove to wear before u start the action or u sellotape his fingernails before action. Orderwise he will take more flesh o
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmmmmmm
This is serious>..Well< going on a break (like one u just embarked on) is better since talking him out of it didn't work.
ReplyDeleteThis is simple. He should CUT his nails!!!
ReplyDeletewhen u want to have sex wif him let him wear gloves dat wol stop d scratchn.
ReplyDeleteThis guy is a vampire. Legend has it that this is how they make love. U better beware cos one day he will deep his fingers into your heart, rip it off and eat it.
ReplyDeleteNa vampire lol
ReplyDeleteLMAOOOO
ReplyDeleteDude should cut his nails biko.
ReplyDeleteWhenever he's. Coming, nwanne deep ur own claws too into his skin And very hard. Let him feel dpain. Dt alone can even make me hate him automatically. Wonder why u said. U still love him......till he stabs u wit knife wen coming. Mtchew!
ReplyDeleteAre u daft or just plain stupid, how does dis relate with him stabbing her with a knife
DeleteAre u daft or just plain stupid, how does dis relate with him stabbing her with a knife
DeleteCut his nails... for DAMN sakes
ReplyDeleteur husband is a werewolf, which kain orgasm be dat
ReplyDeleteBoyfriend Ewu
DeleteBlood ke?wuh kinda oloriburuku boyfriend is dt?babe?run 4 ur dear life...b4 u start bleedin al ova ur body like an ebola patient #hiss#
ReplyDeleteMake him wear stockings on his hands b4 una make love next time
ReplyDeleteArchibong, you too don comment here? Congratulations.
Deletelols... your guy na vampire?.
ReplyDeleteNa craze people u dey carry for blog now. Nonsense
ReplyDeleteWetin we no go read on Dear LIB,u dating each other for 9 months and u talking about sex as if u guys r married....dunno wot to say abeg
ReplyDeleteGod help us all.
DeleteI just dey laff,he must be a vampire.
ReplyDeleteAre you married? Sounds like you are not married. Stop fornicating. If you are married, make sure all his nails are trimmed.
ReplyDeleteCleo
Maybe na Dracula e be?kpele ooooo.....or u cud be wearing a specially cut out at d boobs only top for easy access to boobs whilst d rest of ur back is covered?try it and save ur back from fingernail tatoo.Gudluck.
ReplyDeleteHave him wear boxing gloves before sex. That will keep his nails from your skin. And pray he doesn't start throwing punches. Lol
ReplyDeleteHe should cut his nails nah!! Nawa for you oh
ReplyDeleteU both shud not be having sex until marriage.
ReplyDeleteAlways Cut off his nails clean...bohr
ReplyDeleteAlways cut off his nails clean... bohr
ReplyDeleteLaughing in spanish,ur .abeg give ur life to christ n stop funicating!nawa ooo people re now proud of their sinful life.
ReplyDeleteIf you love him. Try to cut his finger nails.. I hope it helps.
ReplyDeleteNope..ya alone,u better start biting him once he starts pinching u..he gon learn by force
ReplyDeleteOk...sorry abi?
ReplyDeleteBut since you obviously arent brave enough to cut the nails off before sex or leave him...STOP HAVING SEX!!!.....and the latter i strongly recommend because you are not married to him woman!
Why?....please why do we continue to promote sin, what is it about portraying sex before marriage as Natural Necessary and Completely-Acceptable? its a sin Wrong & only returns negative feedback.
.....do what you like abeg, Nine months' shows you're obviously not worth advising.
Stop premarital sex period
ReplyDeleterun for ur life..he is a VAMPIRE!..
ReplyDeleteHe should wear winter gloves. That will help.
ReplyDeleteCut his nails juh. isn't it the obvious solution?
ReplyDeletesimple , let him wear a globe.
ReplyDeleteSTOP having pre-marital sex! God hates it and He has reserved judgement for you if you fail to repent! Heb 13:4
ReplyDeleteCindy
dump him
ReplyDeletehe should cut his nails to tne lowest level na...
ReplyDeletebuhahahahahahahahahahhaaaa.i no fit laff.
ReplyDeleteHian its simple cut his nails!
ReplyDeletehehehehe,u still dey their they ask questions,stay their till he kills u,dat man na vampire.Goldensarah@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteThis is crap. Ur bf is a vampire if what you wrote is correct. He should learn to cut his nails frequently which is basic hygiene unless he fix nails.
ReplyDeleteNEXT ---
I am Coonett
Buy the guy nail cutter... don't be stupid
ReplyDeleteCut the nails off.
ReplyDeleteThis is the purnishment u get for sex outside marriage. The bible clearly condemns fornication. The wages of sin is death
ReplyDeleteWear cloth na
ReplyDeleteSighed! This is serious. I think he needs serious counselling. He needs someone else to talk to him apart frm u. Plus does he keep his nails? Most importantly u need to pray. God will help u make the right choice
ReplyDeleteDumb that guy, his ass belongs in the zoo
ReplyDeleteNo be only 'dumb' na 'wise'
DeleteGet him to cut his nails
ReplyDeleteEnsure his nails are always cut na...my sister!
ReplyDeletecut his nails
ReplyDeleteI wil advice u let him stay ontop durin dat period so wen he is abt realeasing he hs either d matress or d sheets to hold nd nt ur bak.meanwhile u can stay off it for nw after all u kal him boyfriend nd nt husband.
ReplyDeletehe should use a glove or trim the nails before s*x.Enjoy
ReplyDeleteSimple..always make sure his nails are well cut before sex.
ReplyDeleteWetin we no go hear for dis world..... Lwkmd
ReplyDeleteAnd he has refused to cut d nails why? If its his nails dat hurts u then he shuld get rid of the nails or has it not occurred to both of u.since dat is how he responds to orgasms he shuld make sure d nails are very very short.simple.
ReplyDeleteScrap his nails and also get him a hand glove before having the next with him.
ReplyDeleteIs he a vampire? Please let him seek help, with a therapist. Better still, he should always wear boxing gloves before anything.
ReplyDeleteAdd 2B5CB881 for Organic Beauty products
Advice him to wear gloves or no more Puna for him..is he an animal?...............................#KingOfKings
ReplyDeletemake him wear safety leather hand gloves before action..
ReplyDeletevery easy, buy him gloves
ReplyDeleteVery funny question madam, even a nursery school child knows the answer to stopping injury from long nails. Simply tell him to cut his nails very short, finito! Enjoy your wild sex and thank me later
ReplyDeleteLet him wear plaster or tapes on his fingers.
ReplyDeleteask him first if he is in fact wolverine. and then proceed to wear a body armour during sex.looks like a war front already.
ReplyDeleteTell him to wear gloves or cut his nails.
ReplyDeleteHian... NNE my sis... Run for your life..which kind orgasm be that... He must be a vampire...full moon is always out and he is transitioning...
ReplyDeleteGo n marry
ReplyDeleteLolz,I once experienced ds frm my ex n I ran after 2months. Y do I feel he's dsame guy? Lolz. He's an igbo guy tho if he's d one.
ReplyDeleteGive him something to hold so that just before he cums, he can grab hold of that and drag his nails as he deems fit.
ReplyDeleteMy candid opinion is for you and your boyfriend to seek third party intervention. He must be willing to seek help where both of you should be ready to go in earnest. Stop having sex with him for now. If he truly loves you he will go for help and stop all the damage he has caused.
ReplyDeleteYea my bf bites d sh** out of my neck. Tins is wn he does it It excites me n gets me more wet. Buh wn we r thru I start hittin him jokinly cos of d pains,marks n red circles on my neck n we jos laff abt it. Infact wn we r in public he starts pointin at d marks n b like wot is ds, dn we look into each odrs eyes n smile. Anywhw...my point is, u not dat into d guy,so...
ReplyDeleteNot that i believe this is actually happenning tho. My contribution is that Ʊ finger him too if just nine months n Ʊ already have scars by 1yr then part of ur body will be missing since you both decide to be doing what only husband n Wife is suppose to be doing.
ReplyDeleteMy dear handcuff the hand to the bedpost
ReplyDeleteNa wa o
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Cut the nails for him, that should stop iy
ReplyDeleteNa wa oo, this is beyond me oo!
ReplyDeleteSe na by force?
ReplyDeletena vampire ni help him cut d nails now.
ReplyDeleteChaiii! Dt kind orgasm na open heaven o
ReplyDeleteWerewolf ni boyfriend yi oh!! LOL!
ReplyDeleteSIMPLE ISSUE: WEAR GLOVES OR TIE HIS HAND WHEN MAKING LOVE..HE WILL STILL ENJOY IT
ReplyDeleteAnd your still there doing what?
ReplyDeleteGod forbid Bad thing. He needs deliverance. He is suffering From the spirit of tiger
ReplyDeleteOdiegwu oh. Nne biko ask him to cut his nails short nah that is the only thing to do. or better still you too you scratch him too so you can both be even.
ReplyDeleteNothing wey I no go see 4LIB,na d reason y I no dey carry mat come again be dat,can you imagine?? When did your Bf become a Vampire!! Drilling blood from ur side like a palm wine tapper looooolz...ko funny mehn...wat rubbish if he can't control himself den ppl like him suld be fucking Baby Doll,or mannequins!!! Beta go for counselling before its too late Libers can't help u on dis...Odabo!
ReplyDeleteIs he a vampire,my dear let go of him before its too late to cry.
ReplyDeleteloooool there is nothing i wont hear.... let him wear hand gloves
ReplyDeleteThe guy should try as much as possible to be conscious whenever his is climaxing to orgasm in order to avoid inflicting injuries on you nah. Sex is a thing of the mind, no matter how pleasurable it is, we can still discipline our feelings and act right and not behave like animals. Whatever you don't have a control over, is enslaving you! Guy, Be disciplined joor!!!
ReplyDeletelol...My sister abeg buy winter hand gloves for am to wear...That way, if he likes, let him dig his whole hand into you in the name of orgasm, you'll be safe
ReplyDeleteyour guy na calabar man or akwa ibom man? if yes, there is nothing anyone can do than for you to bear it or quit the relationship.
ReplyDeletehis just a boyfriend and your back is finished? wen he become a husband u will just die. pls stop having sex with him before he strangles you all in the name of love making. can't you stay wthout sex? oya answer my question
ReplyDeleteSince you said he is your boyfriend,i think it's better you stay out of premarital sex,it is unadvisable
ReplyDeletelmaoooo....
ReplyDeletelet him just cut his nails very short at all times.
ReplyDeletelol, vampire..ish orgasm. This does not look like an illness to me and he should be able to control grabbing you and hurting you that way, if he is not controlling it.. well I can question how much he cares..this thing should be psychological.
ReplyDeletePlease don't cut his nails. Cut off his hands.
ReplyDelete@iamcedar said so.
Nawa oooo some men sha
ReplyDeleteOne day he will bite off your nipple during his so called intense organism
ReplyDeleteIs he a werewolf? Its advisable for u to put a stop to it b4 he gives u any everlasting mark.
ReplyDeleteAhn ahn he shld cut his nails na shoo... Abi na werewolf him be? Or make him dey wear gloves during sex
ReplyDeleteHe should cut his nails.
ReplyDeleteBuy thick glove for him
ReplyDeleteCut off his hands...rubbish
ReplyDeleteGosh,it's even a boyfriend and not a husband. See babe,him even digging your intestines out while having sex with you does not even guarantee the stability of the relationship. Why would you even have sex with someone who is nt your husband? Well,the earlier you retrace your steps ,the better for you,else he will strangle you to death one day while 'coming' and you know it's straight to hell fire you go land yourself. Repent and stop feeding him sex oh,it's not food. Rather look for a way to change him positively,madam sex girlfriend.
ReplyDeleteStop fornicating. When you guys are finaly married,please ensure he cuts his nails. But am afraid of this selfish guy who tears your back! Please consider if he truely loves you.
ReplyDeleteGosh,it's even a boyfriend and not a husband. See babe,him even digging your intestines out while having sex with you does not even guarantee the stability of the relationship. Why would you even have sex with someone who is nt your husband? Well,the earlier you retrace your steps ,the better for you,else he will strangle you to death one day while 'coming' and you know it's straight to hell fire you go land yourself. Repent and stop feeding him sex oh,it's not food. Rather look for a way to change him positively,madam sex girlfriend. Seeking advice for fornication,oh Chim oh! #Wonders.
ReplyDeleteAre you sure he doesn't change to a lion/ wolverine or incredible hulk during sex...better strap a chopping board to your back during sex before he rips your skin to pomo
ReplyDeleteIs it that serious? Must be a virgin before he got married...or that pussy goooooooooooood :D
ReplyDeleteCut his nails and plaster his nails ends each time you want to have sex or ask him to wear hand gloves so that he will not kill you since you also enjoy him.
ReplyDeleteSeek help from health expert so that you may know if there is remedy
Pray for him and yourself for God's intervention. Toks
Chai!!!!!!! Av dey stopped selling nail cutters in our country? If yes pls order online.
ReplyDeleteget him gloves or better yet get him to cut his nails and try more of the missionary, it hides your back.
ReplyDeletelol......eeeeeheeeee!....na love pls bear it oooo...u go soon dey use to am...
ReplyDeleteif you two must have sex he should wear gloves. he should cut his nails too and you can get sharp objects and pierce him when he is doing same to you so he can appreciate how you feel first hand.
ReplyDeletei think he shud constantly cut off his nails,cos u might nt b able to avoid aving sex with him anymore,unless u guys break up
ReplyDeleteGet a pair of Usain Bolt's track shoes, wear it and bolt away.
ReplyDeleteLol@ vampire...loooool
ReplyDeleteBE IN THE "MISSIONARY" POSITION WHEN HE IS ABOUT TO CUM! AND ALWAYS LOCK HANDS WITH HIM AT THE "CRITICAL" MOMENT (THAT'S IF HE REFUSES TO CUT HIS NAILS)
ReplyDelete...Abah, Bonario and Onyx Godwin
ReplyDelete...Those comment of yours were so lame
...If you got something meaningful to say just say it
...And if you don't, just hush or better still take several seats
...Ogbeni, O girl fear God Oh and tell your bf to cut his nails
someone is in a big sin and need advice on how to continue....*smh*
ReplyDeleteI am sorry to tell you this-your guy has a unique sign of vampire.tell him to cut his fucking nails,if he refuses,please run for your dear life.
ReplyDeleteTie his hands.
ReplyDeleteGo and watch basic instinct by sharon stone and micheal douglas, then u'll understand wat ur stupid bf is tryin 2 do..... *smiles*
ReplyDeleteBuy him gloves dat labourers like D ones dat wok in d block industry near my hous wear..shi kenan!!! Unles U want mek conji kill am#26247c63
ReplyDeleteBuy him winter gloves to put on during sex, that will solve the problem.
ReplyDeleteLet him cut you more and more.
ReplyDeleteStop sex n go marry
ReplyDeleteAbstain 4rm premarital SEX!!!! God hate it
ReplyDeletestop fornicating, Simple!!!
ReplyDeletestop fornicating, Simple!!!
ReplyDeleteTrue love is ur ability to accommodate/tolerate someone else's inadequacy. If u truly love him, help him find solution to it and share all the thrills with him. If u run away from it, I beg to say u never loved him.
ReplyDelete