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'How I wish I were still a virgin at 39' - talking drum queen Ara says

Queen of talking drums, Ara, in a recent interview said if at all she has any regrets in her 39 years of living, it would be that she's no longer a virgin. She however said she looks beyond the regret because she lost it while still married to her now estranged husband and the father of her son, Saliu Olalekan, whom she later found out was still legally married with kids after tying the knot with her at an elaborate wedding ceremony in June 2009.
'How I wish I were still a virgin. Yeah, but it's a good thing I have a beautiful son from my previous marriage" she told Encomium.
On the state of her divorce from the father of her son, Ara said;
'It is not even a divorce. As at the time we got married, he was still legally married to another woman. I wasn't aware. So automatically our marriage was annulled. We lived together for three years. I don't have any regret because a beautiful child came out of it. If I say I have a regret, then my son will be a regret. I don't have to regret it because of my son." she said

67 comments:

  1. Hmmm, human beings could be wicked ohhh. even though she's got no regrets i bet she's hurting inside...her wish is lame though
    Princess

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  2. Seriously? That's her regret?...She's had life easy then...buh why would you want to be a virgin at 39??.....go back to your drums woman!

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  3. Eyah but it not possible. Even 14yrs re getting pregnant. No virgins in Nigeria.

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  4. some men are actually devils and do not deserve to be on earth... wtf!

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  6. Wickedness of Men.. very deceitful. . Nne sorry. . I hope he pays for child support?

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  7. Been a virgin doesn't make u any diff, y does ladies always fink ur V is so important mtcheeew

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    1. You're quite obviously a retard or possibly with an IQ below -1

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    2. If being a virgin means nothing to u my dear it realy means alot to God if u dnt knw.Please man n displease God?

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  8. tnk God u hv a lovely child,dt is ur joy,i pray God will give u ur own hubby.as for dt man live him he will reap wat he sow

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  9. Ok ma!ndo, sorry abt dat,let's move now#lyrics

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  10. Na Yoraba men way

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  11. Ok............................#KingOfKings

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  12. So she is indirectly saying she wished she never gave birth to the beautiful son, because there was no way she would have remained a virgin and gave birth to the beautiful son she is thanking God she has


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    1. Let's give you another chance Alloy. Start from the beginning, read the post again. *Reading time elapses* Do you now understand? 0kay you're welcome ----C21

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  13. Funny #bright bravo#

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  14. but you are not so shut up about it

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  15. The man deceived her.Maybe she meant to say she regretted loosing her virginity to a deceitful man but took consolation in the fact that her lovely son came out from that relationship.

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  16. She fit use needle and thread take tie am nah! mtcheew

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  17. No woman will be a virgin at 25 nt to talk about 39

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    1. I know some. So shhhh!

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    2. im 25 and i am so shhhhh

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    3. U very silly for saying dat...I was a Virgin rill I married @34...U think all women r d same.....retard dude like U

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    4. And how do you know dt dere are no 25yr old virgin,what made you to arrive @ such a generalization???perhaps the kind of mum/cousins and sisters you have??what a libtard#cheEzyjayne

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  18. She can regret going into marriage with the guy but talking about virginity while u claim to have an adorable son? U can as well block ya VEEjay again. SMH

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  19. I am an advocate of knowing almost all the family members of whoever u r getting married to, iin order to avoid such calamituos end in marraige.

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  20. If wishes were tracks, the blind will race. Place Ara, save the rest for ur biography, titled "I wish I was a Virgin!"

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  21. Men!ladies do your research before saying I do.

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  22. Hmmmm...is well.@Bishop..i need ur prayers plz.cos am in search of my own kanye.

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  23. Some men sha.so is still legally married nd still went ahead to do an elaborate wedding....hmmm diarisGod o.

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  24. Hmmm, I knw most women do regret that they are disvirgin by a wrong man. But all d same, you can stil be a virgin in christ Jesus by flee from fornication until you get married.

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  25. There is no advantage of being a virgin, thank God your eyes has opened now.

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  26. MEN ARE BASTARD U SEE WHY I CANT WAIT TOO LONG TO DIS-VIRGIN BECAUSE IT DOESN'T WORTH IT........ MEN ARE FROM THE PITY OF HELL VERY PRETENTIOUS, IMAGINE I JUST CANT HELP BUT TO CURSE THAT DEVILISH HUSBAND OF URS ANUOFIA RERERE...............

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    1. FRUSTRATED IGBO HARLOT!!!

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    2. I know your type! You are already fucking every Guy that comes ur way and you're looking for any Lame Excuse to justify it.

      Frustrated Bitchy Animal!

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  27. It too late to cry when the head has been cut off

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  28. I can't imagine d kinda pain she must b feeling,good thing she gracefully did dat interview like a grown woman should,bt biko next time u seff hire private investigator b4 marrying someone #okbye

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  29. Not again, Wizkid Versus Davido.
    Click to watch the battle. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLI70D8Xp6Qf3-uCUuwt-dFRhDUXW1TBH2

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  30. Where is my comment linda

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  31. Hahaha, Linda am reading comments o

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  32. She's talkn trash. Uo got married to aa man married wit kids, uo nver find out until 3rd year of ur marriage, dnt fool us. LIB Princess!

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  33. You still rock though... N she's got a child too.
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    www.haleenation.blogspot.com

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  34. In order words you are not an inteligent woman . You knew he hadawife and kid,,,so you didntalso know if the man has a mother father or brothers lie lie ,by the way being avirgin doesnt make youa good girl

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  35. Some men are just Beasts in human form. It hurts mehnnn, but u hv gat 2 braze up Ara.

    Mehnnn dis ur braids mehnn, If I try it, my name is sorry, my hair go just finish.

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  36. Well, sorry u ar not anymore, and nothing can be done to help it

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  37. How on earth can a man be sooooooo heartless

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  38. @ nngozie peace,,n ur father,brothers,male friends,husband to be, if u ll ever get one,,n ur sons if God ll ever give u one re all bastards,,,,,fool

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  39. Hmmmm. I wonder whats beautiful in ur story nw

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  40. Seriously is nothing private anymore, we are not interested if you wish you were a virgin or not smh!!! Every single thing people want to share, very vain and selfish, live your life, and stop telling us what you get to every minute, hour day, month, etc!!! Get a life jeez!!! Whizman

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  41. it is funny how no one is praising this lady for reserving her virginity to 34 its unfortunate such a mean man took it. Kudos ARA for showing such chastity you are now a model to me

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  42. Ara Araldite will close up ur veejay....case closed..

    queenreigneth@gmail.com

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  43. Am all against domestic violence buh gurls with brains like you deserve a 2 by 4 bcox if dy ignore ur stupidty, u wud neva mentally germinate...........#cheEzyjayne

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  44. Virginty in marriage, miscarriage in d convent.. Hmmm, irony of life!

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  45. Use super glue for your pussy MUMU.

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  46. She can be a born again virgin. That exists.

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  47. Why do people feel been a Virgin makes any difference?when i was going to get married, i chose a lady who's gone through bad relationships over a Nigerian University graduate who was still a virgin...that was the best decision i ever made in my life...She should grow up and deal with her issues....what about ladies who were raped?

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  48. Been a virgin is nothing??? did I hear that? it issssssssssss, some people are so sad they are no more.Bravo girl at 34 u still were.

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  49. Linda are still a virgin like Toolz said she still is???heheheheh linda linda.

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  50. dat doesnt mean u shuldnt move on girl, wiseup

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