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Saturday, 28 June 2014

Another piece from singer Lami Philips, talks about women and their insecurities

I agree!!!

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  1. true but ermmmmmmm.... dats d nature of women,nothing can change it

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    1. We can change ooo.. its possible

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    2. Please how can I contact Linda Ikeji urgently, thanks. E3

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    3. Exactly what I do.
      Btw..Linda be shouting 'I agree' like she can do ite

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  2. Oh yeah all good #bright bravo#

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  3. lami Godbless you. You said it all. wherez the love? If God is our father, then we are all sisters.

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  4. So true...

    The worst I have seen was at the Bank,the Teller and a Lady Client,b4 u know wasup they were bitching and insulting each other!

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    1. But on a serious note, most female bankers are very very rude. So whenever they give me bullshit, I give them a double dose of it. It's ermmm... Self defence. Hehehehe.

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    2. But on a serious note, most female bankers are very very rude. So whenever they give me bullshit, I give them a double dose of it. It's ermmm... Self defence. Hehehehe.

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    3. You very correct, I was insulted by 1 female banker (choi) I gave it to her. I told her, if this is wat she cals marriage ( cheap mallam ring n cheap cloths is wat marriage is about, den I want 2 be single.*lol* her suit na die. she just seal her mouth. Cos she tinks she's married, so she can throw tantrums 2 anyone.



      Mrs DAvido

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    4. Anon 8:07am/mrs davido, wait: I'm confused o.... A female banker insulted you at the bank because she was married and you weren't? Are you sure you're giving us the full picture madam or did the chick catch you somewhere you no suppose dey? Wetin concern banking hall with wether customer don marry or not? This your story get k-leg abeg. Single ladies, pls try to dey stay away from people's husbands too. Ehn?

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  5. Actors nd Actresses are now turning to musicians while musicians are now turning to Writers. I wonder wat de Writers will turn into? All dese as a result of bad market. It is well. I'm out. ***CATCH ME IF U CAN***

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  6. Nice one, women are their own creates enemies.
    They see each other as competition.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

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  7. I agee also


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  8. why she come resamble miss sahara nau.#THAT AKWA IBOM BOY#

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    1. Lmao. U harsh ooo. But really she looks like him...

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  9. She wan turn writer?true talk.

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  10. Very very true.

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  11. Tell 'em gurl! Stupid ass bitches! Very envious set Of fools!

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    1. U mean ur mother?

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    2. Am a lady but am sorry to say this. I rather be a bitch than to associate with someone like you. Ur life is a mess. Do u even have a BF?

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    3. Exactly wat we just discussing about...lol. Chill ladies

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  12. Maturity, well said!

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  13. Linda its likely you wont post this but YOU ARE THE LAST PERSON TO OPEN YOUR MOUTH TO SAY "I AGREE" on this matter. You are the most biased and feminist supporting blogger i can think of and thats one of the reasons i hardly ever comment on your blog. You encourage women to belittle men any chance you get and you have severe double standards when women fuck up so biko dont come and be forming fake agreement here. Rubbish

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    1. Hahahhahahaa see this one. All these low self esteem having naija men. Women are moving forward.

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    2. You are 100% right. Linda is primitive. She is only opportuned to have attained this height. Naturally there are things she shouldn't say or do as a blogger..

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    3. Anon 10:13pm, what's your point exactly? The post is encouraging women not to be bitchy to one another and you're here trying to push a case for chauvinistic men. Where's the correlation between the two? Trust me real decent and loving men get applauded all the time on this blog, it's even other men who beef & try to put them down while women stand up for them and say they are the types of men they pray for. Only the a-holes, disrespectful chauvinistic unfaithful bastards get belittled. And what do you expect? Women are also human, they have feelings too. As for anon 3:32am, how is supporting women rights, standing for the rights of defenseless people primitive? What have you done for anyone lately? Because the linda you're trying to chastise has used her blog to bring awareness and help both men and women. Instead of complaining about someone who is trying to make a difference, why don't you go and look for someone to help? It might make you feel better instead of bitter

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  14. I agree with u darlin! Women r always jealous of dia selves

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  15. Very brilliant piece. I've always loved Lami, she's effortlessly classy even from afar(hope it's spelt correctly). I keep praying not to have those very unnecessary insecurities and so far am doing well. Thanks Lami. #TeamVirtuousWomen.

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    1. God bless you Chukukere ! Mwaaaah ! And God bless you Lami ! Mwaaaaah !

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  16. Never heard of her but she spoke ma mind, earn respect and 1000 gbosaah! Please tell them make them know

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  17. You may be nice all you want, some women are bitches and can't be levelled with. Lemme bore you with a little personal experience, one semi-literate salesgal was employed to work in my offc. I was easy and frndly and we kinda became chummy. All for me to discover this hoe had be hooking up with my boyfy for months. Only God knows how they started their BS. But

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    1. And I'm sure you are still dating the boy. Your boyfy is the hoe. He hooked up with your colleague...wow.

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    2. And Isnt your boyfriend the one you should hold accountable? He is the one in the relationship with you who swore to be faithful not the girl.
      This is part of the stupidity. A man catches you cheating he doesnt care who you cheat with in fact he dumps you are stays friends with the person you cheated with because he HOLDS YOU ACCOUNTABLE, while women will always go attacking and accusing the other woman. The married women who move from joint to joint beating and fighting women while their cheating husbands are pampered and given a free pass to change women.
      Hold the one who is committed to you accountable, thats how its done jare.

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  18. Strongly agree!! #phew#womenwahala#

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  19. Tell 'em gurl! Stupid ass bitches! Very envious set Of fools!

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  20. Women and this insecurity ish sef...Wish that my babe fit carry her head read and make meaning from this piece...nice one there jor lami Philips

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  21. I have said it time and again, women are their own greatest enemies!

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  22. i Agree, but What is the Solution, you know we Nigerians we Spot Problems Everywhere with no Solution for them Why?

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  23. omg!! she is such a hipocrite, she's the biggest bitch herself. i dont know why she's doing all the talking, she's probably trying to get some buzz to promote another lame ass single. BITCH PLEASE. ps im not hatin

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    1. Oh plzzzz! U just hated! So dnt patronize anybari wit ur lame excuse. Smh!

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    2. Your man likes her right? See women and insecurity.

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  24. Story story. I hear you mma mary. Kokomma

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  25. All I can say is women are evil, some women are "friends" to your man/husband, but sleep with him and be "friendly" in your face. 90% of the time women feel insecure because their men dawged them out one way or another, by sleeping with his colleagues, so called friends and exs. Please do not underestimate female friends especially the single ones or hoes

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  26. A married woman or a women in a real relationship would not feel be so detached regarding life and how unfair it is esp to women. Women in relationships get cheated everyday,its only natural they feel that way. How about the men? Alot of us arent comfortable with our wives/gfs having male friends.

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  27. When u cnt give ur gf a reason to trust you,u think she wunt b insecure??? If ur frnds with any girl,mke ur gf frnds wit d girl n if she doesn't like d bitch,pls b frnds wit ur gf n ur gf alone. Must u even hv frnds??? If as a guy u hv a record of cheating.....hmmm.....pls girls I tink ur allowed to act bitchy or b rude,u dnt hv to surcome to any bullshit. Like guys dnt get jealous wen der gf's r tlkn to oda guys;wen she's dne tlkn u'll b d 1st to ask her wat d oda guy said. Lami, u myt b cool wit it bt most of us cnt be due to our nature or past experiences.

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    1. Gbam!! U said it 100% correct!!! don't mind Lami she's talking like a hypocrite

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  28. Why do we constantly refer to ladies as bitches please that's a degrading term it's not every thing we hear in rap music that should be converted to our everyday Language please let's learn to respect women and ladies respect yourselves

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  29. sure
    correct



    BORN TO SHINE!!!!

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  30. Women would Forever be there own enemies..Its not like being insecured,But a woman is capable of ANYTHING...not even in this modern society where reasonable and properly thinking men are scarce.

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  31. I agree and hope u kw, u can strech out ur hands to shake with ur boy friend's gurl friend with out knowing

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  32. Erm but Lami is speaking of herself now. This y she knows how to write about such people. Seriously tho I went to school wit d chic. Fake chic. No beef. Just being honest. Sorry dears.

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    1. Lami should pls shut up for once and face her marriage.Labo is busy sleeping wt girls up and down and becuz she knows she can't do anything abt it,she's on social media consoling herself with bullshit write up.Why not give ur husband his own write up abt dating girls here and there.Ode!
      This girl is d Fakest wannabe 'bitch' I know.everyone has turned a relationship adviser overnite.

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    2. How do u know labo? Pls take several seats

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  33. Anon 10:35 u re hating.I concur. ladies acts so bitchy.mshewww

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  34. Lmaooo who is the one ? Hian abeg !

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  35. Lami is a perfect example of a bitch botching her so called bitches

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  36. Lami speak for yourself .Please practise what you preach out there .You know you have got enemies with your bitchy attitude .It must be the way you address them that they in turn address you back. I'm not a bitch like you .

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  37. Lami speak for yourself .Please practise what you preach out there .You know you have got enemies with your bitchy attitude .It must be the way you address them that they in turn address you back. I'm not a bitch like you .

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  38. @chikakodi you need to meet lami before you complement her all the way . You may probably beg Linda to erase your comment or rather compliment

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  39. She's 100% correct. ..I Love her for this! Really tired of women always bitching on each other for nothing@ all

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  40. God bless ya Lami. Soem women will notice me having an ongoing conversation with their hubbys about business and wont even offer to say hi. Instead you can visually see them retreat into a corner mentally and become hostile. WTF. When I see hubby with someone, I usually introduce myself and let them be. What a man will do he will do. Frowns, sulking, hostility will not solve it.

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  41. I agree. Women shouldn't call themselves or each other bitches.

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  42. I agree a 100%. Women are just too bitchy!

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  43. I agree a 100 %. Women are too BITCHY!

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  44. I agree a 100%. Women are too BITCHY!

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  45. Shut up, Lami. I saw you, recognized you, our eyes met, I smiled and you just looked away. You're as silly as the others who do this rubbish.

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  46. Correct babe!

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  47. Ladies be ur sisters keepers * we all av wat 2 teach n want 2 learn from d oda sister. *lolz* sum galz will be in a taxi, n maybe u re waiting 4 ur own cab or taxi, n d next tin, she will eye u enh, u wil ask if u kn or av offended her b4. Gals re so bitchy I swear. If u re close wit my man, I won't frown @ u, bt treat u well so u will no I run his Dick. *shines teeth* be careful who u allow into ur Hz, so hanging out frdship is not bad. Am not married yet, bt I live my life dat way.




    Mrs DAvido

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  48. I just hope Lami u practice wat u hv just preached. As much I know women hate demselves sometimes, dat doesn't mean dere shld be laxity on d part of a woman towards her man & act like she cares less, even wen she knows somfin is wrong. u will just die in silence.
    Don't Men get jealous??? Abeg make I hear word.

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  49. Awwww!!! my baby have pressed P sha,LOL,but seriously,shes saying the truth tho,some women are RUTH ABOKOKU.but im sure Lami wont want a random chic be forming lemon plus with her hubby na,truth be told:)

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