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Monday, 12 May 2014

Confession of a DL man

Weird thing to read on a Monday morning..hehe...but some of you might find it interesting. *wink*. Mail I received this morning from a Down Low Lagos man. There are actually quite a few women married to men on the down low in this our Lagos. Read confession from one below...
Sitting in the Best Man’s seat yesterday watching my boyfriend getting married in one of the biggest church in the Country. Yes, you read that right, I’m a guy and my boyfriend got married yesterday. We have been dating for the past 7 years right after we met at the NYSC camp in the northern Part of Nigeria. Now, laying back on my bed, thinking about how happy the wife was not knowing she was just embarking on the journey of sadness to someone who have no love for her. Then I concluded that she deserves it, she was arranged for him, she was forcing him to get married even when the guy told her he is not ready. Then, I partly blame the government for giving us such attention we never wanted. We were doing fine, even living together and never wanted to get married, but since the homophobic law came into existence, everyone questions 2 best friends living together, everyone questions older man who hasn’t married yet, the fear of being ‘suspected’ now makes most gay men in the country marry a woman so as to cover up their act.
Also to the parent, who keep forcing their child into marrying someone who they  know nothing about, or parents who threathens to disown their child if they don’t get married. His parent threaten to cut him out  if he didnt get married and he is just 32 so they arranged the girl for him. 

Things like this will always happen, if other people’s business is our concern, if parent won’t allow their child to be whatever they want, if girls won’t stop forcing themselves on guys or forcing marriage on them. You wonder why most homes are unhappy, because the woman was the one forcing everything.  We already love how we secretly do our things, the government act is just foolish and will cause more unhappy homes. And to people who are homophobic online, well, in every family, there is always at least somebody different.

243 comments:

  1. Wow! Now women too will suffer for the anti-gay law. Lmfao! Please NIGERIANS need to realise someone else's sexuality is none of your business. I was surprised when women were encouraging the law. Like don't you know we r the ones tht will suffer as well? And no one cares abt what your bible says, pls & thank you

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    1. Abeg Linda enough of dis already, ah ah it seems gay talk is wt gets a high response on ur blog wch is y u always bring one gay talk after d other
      Jst let dis gay issue rest 4 a yl abeg

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    2. How did this people even enjoy it? God this is absurd... #TeamStraight









      Beautiful Girl Who 'Serviced' Her
      Boyfriend's Best Friend Exposed Online
      [SEE PHOTOS]

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    3. And you will rot in hell for regarding the holy bible as something common.. Fool.

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  2. Disgusting.... So the guy is gay. Some people's problem start on their wedding day the girl don enter one chance

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  3. Gay folks, I got an advice for you all, hide somewhere and keep shut!

    But then, wait a minute! When gays are sentenced to 14 years imprisonment... Who are they gonna be jailed with? Males or females? Think!

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  4. My ex got married few weeks bak cos of religious diff...we broke like a yr ago but we still had sex in January. ..he loves me more than the girl but had to marry a girl that is acceptable by his parents...had to cut off all communications with him so I can move on with my life too..all is well

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    1. And you are male or female ? So I will know how to start raining abuses on you..

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  5. God is wonderfully merciful.

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  6. This is weird mehn.

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  7. Feel for the woman... your husband cheating on you with a MAN! Yuck!

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    1. Aziiin...after d tin Don enter shit hole E go come enter d woman's pussy. Chai..i really pity her condition

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  8. God punish dat ur useless gay mouth

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  9. A friend of mine once said every Woman is a concubine of pain.I never understood him then,but this post is making me brainstorm on what it really means now.

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  10. God punish dat ur useless gay mouth

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  11. Chai....derisGod ooooo

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  12. Can this be for real? Even if it is dat not mean he dose nt love his wife is a code of fooling cheap girls..

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  13. Intresting!!! ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ 

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  14. I feel for the wife.
    Of all the sexy and endowed ladies around,a broda will choose to bone a broda. Its quite unfortunate.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

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    1. Lmfao....@Bonario, brother boning another brother......that na war o! Ijakadi

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    2. Bia Bonorios abi wah eva u choose to call ur name dis days!!! Don't u eva write any negative post about gay pple on this blog eva again or believe me I will give linda a story and believe its a story that will be told for a very long time! And oh av gat proof! So shut the fuck up if u have nofin to say!!! Ur the gayist dude I eva meet! Yet u write as if u hate gays with some kind of passion! Bloody coward!

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  15. Hahaha. . Dis is funny. . Abeg no tym for dis kind of discussion dis morning. . At some point hes ryt.. I pity d innocent wife. .

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  16. my dear, this is bondage :( the sooner you realize it the better for you. i even feel more sorry for you cos apparently u're the babe whose ass gets busted. i fink more damage would be done to u. believe it or not ur guy has moved on. do same and with a girl pls!!! i knw its not easy but you can make it work.
    **someone who truly cares*

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  17. my dear, this is bondage :( the sooner you realize it the better for you. i even feel more sorry for you cos apparently u're the babe whose ass gets busted. i fink more damage would be done to u. believe it or not ur guy has moved on. do same and with a girl pls!!! i knw its not easy but you can make it work.
    **someone who truly cares*

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  18. stupid gays, dey are possessed its not normal

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  19. Puke puke puke. The thought of two hairy, muscular dickly men calling each other honey kissing and what not. Gagfest

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  20. awwwwwwwww. may GOD never allow such pple cum arund us...... yakkkkkkk

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  21. This ish is actually worrying -

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  22. Linda u ar right. Hmmm... Na wa O°˚˚˚. Husband scarce, sm cm still be gay frm d lil number. God we dey ur hand O°˚˚˚
    $$k@y$$

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  23. At least he will have an heir with his wife but as a homosexual, I wonder how you guys plan bearing children. Ogbo gbagoro agbogo!

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  24. Omg! The day wonders end is the day the world ends.

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  25. Shut up already

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  26. Hello,sorry I cant find any contact info.
    Please get in contact with me for a beneficial, lucrative partnership.

    Kind Regards,
    Cheyenne Gooding
    gooding.c@goodrelocate

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  27. Not in my family oooo. Chai I pity the babe...."facking" d tin dat her hubby dey chuk inside another yansh. Eyannma!!

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  28. 8-| ˚°◦hmmm!.. .
    _\\_ . #bright bravo#

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  29. Na wah o, I dont get how a guy will prefer anoda mans anuxx to a female juicy vejayjay coated with soft flesh on a smooth skin plus extra moulds of two soft n succukent flesh called boobs... Mbok I don't just get deez gay folks... May b dey r sick genetically or may b na ogbanje sef.God help them n my cuzn

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  30. May God forgive them for they don't knw what they are doing.

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  31. God punish u dia idiot,u shuld b ashamed of ur miserable life.I just wonder y all dis boko haram no dy c dis kind pesin.

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  32. Rubbish

    PURPLE

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  33. Sick f@#ks...

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  34. Had to read this twice...
    Go for deliverance my friend!, and take your partner in sin with... ; I pity the wife; that's what desperation does.
    Single ladies, pls, before getting married to him, make sure he loves you more than you love him; maka adi ama ama!
    How can ppl actually think it's normal to be gay/lesbian?....and to say in every family, there's always someone different. Speak for yourself pls!

    *My R1.50c comment *

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  35. Hmmmm....dhiz is true!! Av had such experience as a guy or evn my frndz Boyfrnd who had to marry jst to cover up al ind name of wat society expects of dem. Loads and lots of Married men I knw in such situation, d wife iz jst as used as haus furniture n Decoration and no real Luv 4 her!! Itz btr d society jst accept pple d way dey are den dem Makin Gay guys fake wat dey r not!! Ur Daughters wud suffer it u homophobes,una jst nvr knw anytin bcos u want d gay guy 2b wat he's not, izit nt better 2b ursef dan lyin pretendin 2b wat u not. My brother evn had such encounter @ his work place wt his boss who was married man bt wanted n liked my brother he shared d experince wt us @ home bt henvr knew am bisexual too. I Love Whites datz y dey bn sincere and wud accept u for who u are not Fakin wat u r not #Lovenothatred#Beyourself#BeTruthful#

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  36. There's absolutely Notin wierd abt dis on a Monday morning...walahi I feel dis guys confession. dat marriage will take more dan grace of God to work cos only him can tell truely where he's heart belongs #chairman#

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  37. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.tins re happening.oh God pls don't let me marry the wrong guy.I pity dat woman n her future wit him.she is sooo dead

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  38. Well well well, wonders they say never ends. And the craziness of the world never cease. Think the gov't should have a rethink about the gay laws.... People should be allow to be who they are. The fact that we can't explain gayism does not mean we should hate those who practise it, only God knows y someone will be attracted to a member of his or her own sex, only God knows why someone will come into this world with double sex organs, why somebody will come into this world as a member of one sex but feels and acts like a member of the opposite. Only God understands, we don't understand, neither do those who practise it, but what we can do is to love ourselves,because if God can love us in our imperfection and send his son to die for us, and still find us worthy to put his spirit in us, then who are we not to do the same to others. It is not their fault that they are who they are, but it's a result of the imperfection that exists in nature. no body holy pass.#allmenareequal

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  39. The reasn I doubt u hv a boyfrnd that married in 1 of the biggest churches is that u xpress urself ina wrng manner. All that k 's' in unecesary places n none in the right places. Ur writeup 2 Linsweet is pretty terrible. U jst promoting gays , nathin else bt stil I can't judge. I'm nt God the Creator. He loves all his people.----C21

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  40. Hmmmmmm speechless

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  41. N then again Its a guys choice 2 marry. There is mre presure on we females anyway. If u want 2 marry u can. If nt stay single. Marriage is not by force.

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  42. Its a norm between the rich and influencial also the poor forces their children to marry rich inorder to help raise the family. D reasons differ sha

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  43. Ummm.... So many down low men in Lagos.... Most are mostly "homophobic" jst to hide face nd appear straight..

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    1. Errr! Tell us more ...you seem to know them too well.

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    2. Yes! Ur very right onynx.. I believe u, atleast am looking @ one right here infront of me. Yuck!

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    3. U now pretend as if you are any better? Useless little faggot..

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  44. Oga, you can choose to make ur pathetic case under any guise but it won't help ur cause.
    U r an anomaly, u r a curse and u should view ur birth location as testimony of God's love for ur soul.

    .....Addyfel......

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  45. Ehya I pity d wife sha all in the of marriage.marriage is nt a thing u rush into u really ve to know yourselves wt sum period of courtship.ladies pls take ur time nd stop rushing into marriages,its a life agreement nd broken relationship is far better than a broken marriage.e oo ni shi ile ya ooooo.deronkenug

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  46. Kai! I pity d woman o. Why all dis homo stuff nau? God dey watch una o. He made us male n female as match, y all dis? God forbid this.

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  47. Lol..I so knw who sent this mail to Linda..am 90% certain is that guy that always attack homophobic peeps here..hehheheh..lucky them..@ least they shld enjoy themselves secretely b4 their cups get filled up..na their palava..

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    1. And I agree with you. Cos his
      Comments are limited or rather not here today.. Mofo.

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  48. Hmmmm! Salt, sugar, milk, milo inside egba garri! Sour taste. Feel sorry for the bride. Anus better than pu**y. I'm gonna puke. Abeg

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  49. Just passing by...

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  50. Biko nu,in my family no diff one + d world is cmin 2 an end

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  51. Linda i know say this na your job.But stop distracting the working citizens with scrap like this. #banker

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  52. Seriously,what tha furck???

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  53. Go and seek for asylum in US if u are hurt

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  54. Mstheeeew! Jungle justice awaits u

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  55. Can't find any tin I interesting here sha

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  56. True talk but check yourself God didn't make us to sleep with same sex, check yourself and ask for God intervention

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  57. Sin sounds interesting. Just as death seems good. Say no to gay embrace Lesbianism . Lol. ENGR E.

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  58. i personally do not support forced marriage or arrangee stuffs....who you do want to be....gay? im still scared cos iv got a lil daughter. please bro,i think you try give a chance to normal life of being either true sex.male or female period.izuu

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  59. Yes in every family I there is someone different. Am suspecting my brother inlaw, ever since I kno him I hv nt seen him wth girl. He always entertain male visitors.

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    1. Jessica. U had better use him as a bait as see If he falls for it.. Useless Gay people..

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  60. wat a shame!!my dia u r a disgrace to manhood nd God il judge u jst d way he judged sodom nd gomorrah u bastard.i pity d innocent woman who carried u in her womb fr nine consecutive months wf d pains she passed thru.God il console her bcs she has jst lost a son nd i tel u wat hiding il alwyz be ur portion bcs d day u dare show ur self kirikiri il kiss u welcm.ashawo nwoke.

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  61. Can't find anything interesting here sha

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  62. IT A PITY THAT SOME PARENTS HAD LED THEIR CHILDREN ASTRAY.

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  63. Ewoooo!
    Lord haff mercy on us all.....
    I 4bid such man o, God abeg oo
    Poor lady, i so pity her....
    & he's still gona kip diggin' dat prick n Shit & in2 d wife..... *BBMSacarsticFace*




    God abeg o, i jump am pass..

    It's well wit us all...
    #4Give&HealOurLandGoodGod
    #BringBackOurGirls


    #Beau.Ti.Ful#

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  64. Sad* his confession is so touching, like he said, in evry family, dre is atleast somebody different. So y don't d govt just leave them alone? And there're bound to b unhappy and broken homes cause of this. M not gay and I hate it but what the guy wrote is so so touching esp d forceful marriages. D world is getting to an end. And yes I find their convo insteresting, funny. I pity the wife in this

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  65. another gay brother12 May 2014 at 10:30

    Una nefa see anyfin half the men in Nigeria are Gays the sooner u all accept it the better for u all!!! Unhappy homes dats wat the society has created for u all and all u pple can do is sit down in ur misrable homes and curse out gay pple... No problem dey will get married to u buh den some day u would learn it the hard way that the father of ur kids loves dick probably more dan u do... Let's the gays be Mba! Ok na shey dats wat society wants Game on!!!

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    1. I tell you whole heartedly, if God allows you to see the end of this year, then you will know if am serving a living God that is against this act..

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    2. Very well said!!!

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  66. foooooool, thats what you are

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  67. Na wa oo,God have mercy

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  68. Na wa. Oooo! #bbmshockedface#

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  69. guy u are raving mad. please give us ur addy and d addy of that ur boyfriend, both of u needs to continue ur relationship behind bars for at least 14 good years. idiaaaaat!

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  70. The world is truly in a chaos state.

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  71. This is not longer funny I wonder how this so called homosexuals who say the have gender prefence and all sort think its normal if we take back to look far back we would discover that all this things were not in the society only abnormal and mentally challanged people faced this problem but the Bible says this things would occur in the end times and its a shame Nigerians only copy the bad things from the rest of the World. For example the man has a penis and a woman has a virgna its like a key being put in the door lock that's how it was created to function so does the chemistry of man and woman so all this things are not normal you homosexuals should stop allowing to devil to use you. And for the guy that his partner is getting married I won't insult you I assume you either have a quran or a bible or a tradition rather so you better do the right thing and allow his marriage to work you could marry a woman to and sees how it goes maybe you don't have the balls to talk or get a woman to be that's why you resulted to being Gay. JESUS is watching and weeping over your souls.Repent!!!

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    1. Remember Sordom and Gomorrah, that is were they are from.

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  72. Linda nwa Ikeji salute! You're doing a good job. O diro easy,dalu nwannem. I pity this guy. If really people are wired to do! Through the anus and its ok,there will be no need of adult diapers. Is it not obvious that the two fools involved in this wicked act are just fooling themselves , if the one that got married is really wired that way his JT can never react to any woman's touch,yet he slept with his wife but to console his homo partner turns round to tell him that "its sweeter with him. Ife na ato uto na egbu egbu. That you choose evil and the world is applauding cannot stop God's ultimate judgement,it grinds slowly but it must surely come. Onitsheoo,there's Godoooo. Linlin dalu.

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  73. wooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooow. Things happen in life o. Jesus is Lord

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  74. So sad! I pity the wife I swr. There is God o, He will soon expose all this gay people. Amen.

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  75. Hmmmmm I knw dat feeling but is well

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  76. Hmmmmmm yaa I knw that feeling.. But its well

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  77. To love is something,to be compactible is another..am confused..shld we singles marry based on LOVE or COMPACTIBILITY??..pls Linda dis cld help a sis..tanks

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    1. Marry based on love,compatibility not sure that word is true as regards marriage,I'm married and I married him because I love him. But there's complementality,in this case you complement each other,here you lean on each others strenght and help each other in your weak areas. Pls marry someone who accepts you the way you are,someone you can talk to on any topic. Above all,keep an open mind and be realistic in your expectations.

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  78. No wori, ur shit hole go soon start 2 lick,and u go dey smell like dead meat.. den Pampers go Be ur best fwend! Mofo

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  79. Linda, always promoting gay talk yet u seem 2 sit on d fence. R u 1?

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  80. Linda You are Indirectly promoting this Gay thingy, Be very carful oo!!

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    1. Don't mind her. All in the name of stupid blogging..

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  81. See this stupid GAYbriel o, better carry your foolish life and seat in a toilet so disgusting so d wife will suffer now, I feel bad for her but just know all 3 of u are fucked up none of u would b happy, OK maybe just u cos u can move on to another guy! Wo I no fit talk una dey vex me. #these poor chibok girls HV got to b brought back u ya comn to talk nonsense here witch oshi....I dunno what's vexing me self mcheww.ode

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  82. My dear sorry for the heart break, but that is what you get for going against the law of nature. God didnt create adam and eve to become gay, he made them man and woman to go into the world and multiply (bring forth children). My advice is for you to beg God for forgiveness and change your ways. But from the way I see things your case is more of deliverance! I will keep on praying for people like you!

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  83. Eiya I come pity d wife walai.

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  84. its just wrong in all ways two matured muscle grinding one another. ewwwww.

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  85. My brother, God loves u despite ur condition...seek the face of the lord and it shall be well with u. You are made of body and soul care for ur soul just as u care for ur body too. Being gay is wrong in its totality. Give ur life to christ and he will teach u everything u need to know in life...God bless u my dear

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  86. Bloody faggot...move this shit somewhere else eh...and Linda stop allowing dis ppl to use yur blog as medium to reach out...fkin lotion bois

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  87. Derz natn we'll nt see...Gay ppl n der wahala......God will deliver u ppl IJN....Amen!....linda am d 1st oo

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  88. Lol, I believe dis....

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  89. Like seriously why does this people so much enjoy the shit factory when yu can enjoy like three different juice in a woman(boobs, pussy cat and lips)... Well is really infortunate and i dont like the idea of parent forcing their children to marry someone dey dont like bcos that will always lead to a broken home no doubt..
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    1. *why DO* and *unfortunate* you DUNSE of d highest order! I'm so tired of correcting ur foolish grammatical errors which ur BLOCK head has refused 2 accept! You shd take some tym off dis blog and work on ur grammar!

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  90. Blood of Jesus. May God deliver you

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  91. Anal sex should also be abolish bcos that shit sometimes makes one to be gay.... seriously gay fellas, yu people are really missing alot no doubt....
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  92. Choii! See life o.. Oya over to them gay guys! Let ur comments strt rolling in! I pity all of una! Until ur asses can't control releasing shits u wnt learn!

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  93. Useless and idiotic post. Linda what are we to make out of this nonsense?? Are gays now paying you to promote their course?? Stupid idiotic bloody faggots. If we catch, your names will be sorry, murrafuckers. Linda am beginning to think you are one of them.

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    1. I won't be surprised if she is. Coz she sticks to no sex no marriage . So how come she gets satisfied?

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  94. I reject that your last sentence in JESUS name! Amen..holy ghost cover my family and unborn children...in this spirit of gay demon ..amen

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  95. Such a disgusting post to ruin my week.. I reject this in Jesus Name and will pretend I didn't read this.. So so neausiating and irritating to read. SMH..

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  96. I can clearly see the effects of dick in ones rectum, they take away ur common senses. He even has the courage to say it

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  97. I totally agree with this guy on this. am a gal and i have at some point been with a gal too. There is indeed someone different in every home- I am and am proud of it. It goes to explain the high rate of broken homes and unhappy marriages....#happysingle

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  98. Fools... They had beta get a life

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  99. He is a mad man.. Rubbish.

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  100. wtf......................

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  101. If there should be a different person, d person shouldn't be homophobic. If ur parents were u won't be here blabbing dis crap! I'm so thankful there's an anti gay bill in dis country. That's how 1 of u Faggot was banging his 9 year old son, apparently he's been doing it for 2 years. Don't u see how sick u guys are? U should seek spiritual help. Homesexuality was treated as a mental case in d past. I wonder why that changed. It's d sickest thing 2 ever condone

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  102. fuck niggas y'all can be fags and leave the bitches for us straight men

    maybe then these bitches would appreciate us more


    scribble says so

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  103. Hmm...linda its lik u r in support of dis act...u keep postin sumtin abt it each time

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  104. One advice for u...repent from your sinful ways.

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  105. Very funny... Mr who ever you are better give your life to God. If I were Linda i will never put anything Guy on my blog..

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  106. A question will I ask d writer of diz piece.- 'Is there an iota justification in iniquity'... I love the 'gay people' wiv d love of Christ but I detest d act coz of the luv of Christ dat resides in me. I will never forget the day I was askt out by a friend who, to me was a fervent christian (until he askt me out for sex)- he held (still does) the post of a Choir leader and a Youth leader in the church. I had always emulated his attitude towards God's work until the day he askt me out on watsapp claiming he didn't know how to tell it to my face. I askt him if he knew it was sinful to practise same sex. His answer baffled me... He said he knew but he couldn't help himself and that he resolved that when he gets to heaven, he will ask God why he created him that way. He said the feelings for other men started when he was a kid and since then, he had had sex wiv several men but none was ever as cute and sexy as me and in fact, he loved my slightly dark lips and sexy abs. Eheheh. I lafd and told him I was sorry but I cannot do such. I didn't stop there. I askt him if he really thought there ever would ever be a chance after death for him to ask his maker (God) why He created him that way. As a matter of fact, I do not subscribe to such ascertion coz of what my bible told me in 2 Chorinthians 4 vs 4 (U may read it if U like). Well, some may say I believe and let a book that was written in some thousands years ago rule and guide a 'ME' of this modern age. Eheheh. What can I say? We choose to believe what we believe in. And as for me, my own faith lies in my bible, what it instructs me and the saviour it speaks about and that is it!
    Again, I must say this. I do not hate my friends who are gays (after all, I still call them friends) but I detest the acts of sodomy. I do not claim the most righteous, neither do I call them the worst sinner. After all, we are all working towards perfection. But in the end- Sin is sin, whether big or small and the place of a sinner is the pit of hell.
    May the Lord heal our world. Amen

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  107. Evil!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It was better with him but doesn't mean it wasn't good with her! Confusion. Did he show interest in her? If yes why did he in the first place if he didn't feel sexually attracted to her?? If you say he was pressurized then I'd say as long as his 'thing' stands while he's with the woman, that's not pressure!!! Sex does NOT define you as a human being let's stop this madness.

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  108. Na God go safe we women and the men we get entangled with these days.... Hw cn one b sure?

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  109. Lord have mercy....this is indeed a sick story for a monday morning.

    To that gay dude, my advice is go and find a wife of your own & turn from your evil ways.

    What God has joined together, not even your gay & sick & twisted opinion/ intentions can put it apart.

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  110. This is so disgusting.. to think he was talking with so much confidence...May God save ur very lost soul

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  111. This post would be the perfect explanation for a pic you posted weeks ago of a groom practically in tears at the marriage registry as the wife looked on uncaringly. She was happy to get the ring and he sick at the thought.

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  112. This is soo true..I heard of a gay guy who said he sleeps with married men in this Lagos

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  113. Why do they call them Down Low men?

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  114. That's wonderful to know...At least he'll be happy when they have children and u'll keep hiding yourself being a gay right activist deluding yourself that it's u he loves.... Ans u'll die a lonely anus busted gay bastard plus a cast out and u still get to go to hell.....psycho!

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  115. At least he'll learn to be happy when they start having children while u'll remain d anonymous gay right activist

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  116. lol....what a douchebag...infact "Go and Die"....

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  117. lol...what a douchebag....infact "Go and Die"

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  118. This is so true.

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  119. Wow!!!
    I really feel their pains.
    I'm not against gays, I have gay friends and they are really good people.
    One of them is even planning on getting married to a lady he doesn't love, I pity her.
    I won't blame them, some Nigerians say they made themselves gay, how I have tried to lecture a few. Anyways, good luck to them.

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  120. Sally p said na wa ooo....we are really in the end times.in Gordon's Voice.."God made adam and eve,not adam and steve"....I can't even begin to comprehend how anoda man will enjoy playing with anoda mans reproductive organs...not to talk abt its spiritual implications and numerous curses..lord help ur children

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  121. WTF! You'll rot in hell! God created women for a reason you know??

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  122. Hmmmmmm nice writeup....Nice point

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  123. Nice write up.... girls are so desperate this days ..like if they don't have a particular guy they would die....patience is a virtue..its better to be alone than to be in an unhappy home all day days of ur life.

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  124. LEAVE HIM ALONE MR DOWN LOW....HE IS ALREADY MARRIED OR GOD'S JUDGEMENT WILL COME ON YOU FOR FIRST BEING GAY AND THEN, DESTROYING SOMEONE'S MARRIAGE COS THAT'S WHAT YOU WANT.

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  125. Start praying, its neva too late...cos 4rm d beginning it wz not so, while men slept d enemy came nd did dat 2 u. Go 2 MFM 4 deliverence or any bible believing church.

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  126. Chai!!! Linda I see u r jobless on this one I will create a profile for u on jobberman ensure u attach ur resume ...#bring dis girls back na#

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  127. Linda stop posting useless things like this on a monday morning *hissss*

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  128. As much as I don't agree with forced marriages, the thought of seeing 2 men showing affection in public is scary.

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  129. This guy is so possessed with diff evil spirit of infirmities!!!!!

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  130. This is such an evil post.

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  131. God do not let such come to me. Sorry new wife

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  132. Dear Linda, it truly happens. I almost fell in the same trap but I found out. He left me and married another girl in December last year, his partner (best friend;)) was supposed to be the best man but they fell out...the embittered partner came to be and indirectly outed his friend, I already knew his friend was gay...I watched the wedding pics on FB and pitied the bride. Right now it appears the "best friend" of the groom is battling HIV...may God preserve us.

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  133. where is " Oya ugly , fat , obese, miserable Nigerians start insulting gay people. " that comment is always funny.

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  134. THNgs wey se happen dis days, it shocks d hell out of me...

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  136. Ohhhh puhleeeese the comments and the gay bashing ain't going to stop gay people from being together! God will punish God will do this and that to them oh well God is also going to punish all the wicked and evil people who do wicked and evil things ........ Being gay is not wicked to anyone! Stop being fucking narrow minded Nigerians and allow people to express their love how they want why because regardless they will still find a way to FUCK! Married people fuck outside their marriage it ain't going to stop! Besides the 'campest' niggaz are in nij they are everywhere Homophobic my ass!

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  137. @ anon 10:21 (#banker) Aren't you supposed to face your work??? What are you doing logging on to linda ikeji. Aren't you supposed to be working??? Lazy banker. Hypocritical worker

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  138. The Lord made us male and female. God's principles can't be altered.
    What is interesting in a man sleeping with a fellow man, or a lady sleeping with a lady.
    If God has that in mind, He would have freely given us the two sex organs each, so u can sleep with whoever u come in contact with, but praise God it isn't so.
    Note: God can't be mocked, whatever a man sows, he will reap.
    Spiritually, morally, even physically it isn't right.
    Desist from it, it is the Devil's plan, so as to ruin your destiny. God created u for a purpose, make him happy by fulfilling His purpose for your life. You're not an accident, He knew u before u were born.
    Shalom!!!

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  139. And my question is"why marry a woman when you know your are a miserable gay,why torment the women?" I know of an uncle of mind who is a secret guy,only for the wife to realize it after years of marriage. I was sick to the bone the day the wife disclose this to me,and it's really very cruel of him to have married her knowing fully well he is gay.Now he doesn't even make real to the wife ,he counts to know when she is on her ovulation,he mounts and within few minutes he release and that's all. She lives a life of torment with him.I pray she advises herself and quit the marriage for good cos she had suffered so many miscarriages so far.

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  140. Such things will continue. There will be many wretched or broken sham marriages because our leaders have made the choices of illiteracy and ignorance. This anti-gay law is a disgrace. It takes us behind civilization. Enlightened people know that nature is not totally straight. Let the gays be. So many people world over, from our own hero Wole Soyinka to Archbishop Desmond Tutu, from Obama to the Archbishop of Canterbury have spoken out against persecution of gays. So, the result of ignoring these informed people - miserable sham marriages, which will be based on lies and secrecy, cause domestic violence, drunkenness, alcoholism, drug abuse, birth of children of questionable paternity. All because our people are too backward to know that throughout creation and human history, gays have existed, that nature is not totally straight. Well, we're getting what we asked for but those
    behind this disgusting anti-gay law should hand their heads in shame.

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  141. gay gay gay gay.. what moral barometer do we answer to? if its God.. then where do we derive our inspiration from..? I hope not the bible.. After God is the Government. You have to obey the laws of the land; they are similar with the commandments. NIGERIANS, we are africans..soo called black monkeys. This is not America. Every society has Norms and Values. Our corruption has eaten soo deep that any "monkey" opens his/mouth without considering what our society stands for.."African Society" We frown at societal menace such as HOMO that is why our Govt frowns at it as well.. every govt is a reflection of its society. Pls if you have such tendencies of getting attracted to the opposite sex, if you are a Christian kindly go for deliverance.

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  142. We just imprison u guyz for 14yrz in oda places like Uganda dey kill u guyz....so thank God for His little blessingz

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  143. I doubt the credibility of that conversation. That's obviously a message between a newly married man and his GF! Why are people buying this crap? Just one bored gay trying to make a statement. FYI gay idiot, I don't believe your story.

    Misan

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  144. Ds is Ayo....sorry S

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  145. like seriously

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  146. I feel for the woman he married....

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  147. Man and woman, Adam and Eve. God had a purpose for that. He didn't say Man and Man or woman and woman. This is very clear even to a child.

    I'm not judging any act conceived against this but my question is if we Recognize this law in or (Qur'an / Bible)made by God, why go against it?

    I stand to be corrected pls.
    what will it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul. (this phrase if for libs that ll say, one has right to freedom........

    OLA LIB

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  148. some times the way Nigerians call Jesus name to hate gay people, that alone make God close his ears and turn his face from our land.

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  149. Linda, thank you for this post. I know homosexuality is a sin, but the problem with not letting people be themselves is that innocent people will suffer. If this man was openly gay, no woman will even touch him, but now his innocent wife has to suffer and may one day contract a disease she never bargained for. Women shine your eyes well, find out more about men you want to marry because a lot of them may be on the DL.

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  150. please guyz and girls. black males who have sex with men (MSM) are 580 times more likely to contact HIV and consequently AIDS than normal men who have normal sex. so ladies before choosing your spouse look thoroughly and check for gay signs before you put yourself at 580 times more risk of catching HIV than the normal population. and also save yourself from early widowhood cos they all come down with anal cancer and some other dirty diseases. A word is enough for the wise.

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  151. To all you critics and hypocrites, U want to knw wat it feels like to be with someone of d same sex and wat is enjoyed? Why not give it a shot and see if you will not be stucked and want more?????

    Make una pull over park well abeg....

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