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Wednesday, 9 April 2014

"If you fail in the kitchen, you've failed as a girl' - Black Magic says

According to singer, rapper and song writer, Black Majic, if you're not a good cook, you have failed as a girl. He made this comment on Ebony Live TV show 'The Spot' yesterday.

So being a good cook is what defines a woman? How many men agree with him?

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    1. Of course! Her personality, beliefs and character don't matter one bit. Bullshit.
      So FOOD is the most important thing to a man? Terrible.

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  2. M sure he wud regret dat statement if he eva gives birth to girls.

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    1. Shut ur mouth jor.....I can see thru ur comment dat u can't cook,even if dudu give birth 2 gals if dere mum is gud,dey will definitly learn how 2 cook.so go n learn how 2 cook dear,as 4 me am a gud cook.tnx

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  3. Any man that does not agree with this is either stupid, crazy or just feel like commenting rubbish..... ladies, if a man still dates yu and yu cannot cook is obvious he wants yu for the sex no more no less....
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  4. I agree
    Most yoruba women can't cook. They only know how to open their legs

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    1. *Sweetes Pussy Ure a senseless stereotypical entity. #dumbass

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    2. SW, I shouldn't dignify your stupidity with a response, but I found it ironic that you dub one ethinic group (female in particular) of being loose, yet you gave yourself a profile name that suggests you're extremely loose yourself. Both in thought to have given yourself such a lewd profile name and in action. To each his own, but ethnic bigotry shows your mental state and it doesn't look good for you.

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  5. Linda, this tweet no reach to carry this guy enter ur blog nw.... Black magic go dey feel himself nw.....
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    1. You have to be a Basterd to make such comment, Can ur father do half of what Black magic can do?! Bitch ass nigg

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    2. diz dude is juz a fool...Linda is not giving away money diz year so get a job.

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  6. For an African lady, couldn't agree less


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  7. really, everyone should be able to cook..not being able to cook is like animals not being able to hunt..you will starve

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  8. what a myopic view too shallow,. african men marry women for the kitchen.

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  9. Who be this one abeg! Men no be celebrity chef? Woman no fit cook u teach her. If a man cannot provide for his family would u call him a failure? Its all about understanding and patience. Next gist abeg.

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    1. If a man can't provide for his family, what is he if he's not a failure?

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  10. As a gal,i agree..Because u gain a mans luv nd respect tru his stomach.Being a gud cook is real prestige,cause u can stand anywhr t tlk nd do any cooking competition wifout any fear.

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  11. So what of men that fail in bed what do you call them

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    1. Gbam.... you dey read my mind?

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  12. Of course he is correct a way to a man's heart is through his belly! Good wife na only good looking?

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  13. Hehehehe, ma guy you couldnt have said it any better.. Dated one who failed in Sex but passed in Kitchen.. And another who failed in Kitchen but passed in Bed... kitchen still top the chart for me ooo..

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    1. Dj, you are a boy not a man. You need to grow up fast fast. What if she didn't perform well in bed because you sucked in bed and she felt you were a waste of her skills or time? Or maybe your breathe was such a kicker, it blew her mind and reduced her physical interest.

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  14. Hehehehe, ma guy you couldnt have said it any better.. Dated one who failed in Sex but passed in Kitchen.. And another who failed in Kitchen but passed in Bed... kitchen still top the chart for me ooo..

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  15. pricelessprincess9 April 2014 at 16:05

    hmmmmm i agree to that partially..the best way to a mans heart is his meal.....but mind u, that man must love u naturally 1st,cos no matter how perfect u hold d spoon in d kitchen,u cn never ever satisfy a man who doesnt have feelings for you

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  16. he should shorrup there!

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  17. Lmao.....seriously???? ok oooo......taken!

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  18. This is a very backward and sexist statement. Why should cooking define a woman? If a woman wants to be a chef then yes that is her identity but if she decides that cooking is not her forte then it means she is a failure? I am very disappointed in this kind of talk. Why am i surprised anyway? It is coming from a man who lacks intellect.

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  19. Nna bia BM...that wan mean say na 95% of women nowadays don fail be dat na.

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  20. Hmmm....who be dis one self?

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  21. thats an african tradition and thats who we are. a wife must be able too cook for the husband .

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  22. The question is what excuse will justify a woman inability to cook? Black magic is only trying to be blunt. A woman that does not know how to cook should allow it to become a threat in her marriage.

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    1. What about a man that can't satisfy his wife in bed, should we ladies be blunt about that? Not all men that have penis' knows how to fuck, your wife or girlfriend could be thinking you're a failure and doesnt want to be blunt with you. How about them apples.

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  23. NA wa oh! Which world does thi one come from! Mtschew... You wont believe what happened to popular actress

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  24. He is100% correct&i agree wt him,I dated a girl for 2years bt each time she visit me,she won't agree to cook,my kitchen is always filled wt varieties of food items bt dis very girl won't allow to cook anytin than indomie,even d indomie sef no d make sense.It got to a point dt I ve no choice than to quit





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  25. Lol..The guy just said it raw. A girl that cannot cook has no right to be addressed as a Girl. What else will qualify her? bedroom performance or what? Rubbish.

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    1. Legacy, you dont have a legacy at all, na decadence you get. I qualify you as a persona non-grata. Im sure you can't satisfy a girl in bed, but you can complain about her cooking. What r u bringing to the table with your pencil size dick? What is wrong with these guys? If the girl no fit cook, dem aputate your arm and feet wey u no fit enter kitchen begin dey cook? What is with the gender role tag as though its ordained from above. You guys should respect yourself o before we girls start to dey mention all the things you men are failures at, and trust me, the list is looooong.

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  26. You're right, that's why they say the way to a man's heart is his belly, I congratulate my future hubby cuz am certified OK in that area.

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  27. Bastard! This short man devil should just shut up. How many food him mama cook. Idiot.

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    1. Men like this believe women are property. Your an idiot,your mother is a goat and she didn't raise your ugly black ass well. Nonsense

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    2. God,I pray my daughters don't marry a man like this.who believes a woman's place is in the kitchen.

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    3. Beyonce don't know how to cook,but she makes more money than jay-z. She can also buy your entire retarded generation,so has she failed as a woman. You're a bastard and you don't know what it is to be a woman,I'm sure you will be beating your wife/girlfriends

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    4. Kitchen olodo like u.

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    5. you don't hv the right to call him a bastard....why you dey beef dis innocent man...i cnt blame you ''anonymous''

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    6. @anon4:14pm why are you so bitter, that is his own opinion. That u can't cook shldnt be his headache now

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    7. U̶̲̥̅̊ be mumu 6+3 = 9 ...so does 5+4 and 7+2. The way you think isn't always the only way to do them. Respect and listen to other people's opinion too..and stop insulting d guy mom... Anyway I think he is right

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    8. Guilty conscience speaking...

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    9. It's so clear you are a bad cook.saying bluntly

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    10. @anon 4:14.....e pain u die....I know you are a woman and u can't cook dats pure 0/1000 on the score sheeta for u. Na ur type sabi wrap weed but tie moi-moi na weac for where u dey.

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    11. U a fool...ladies like u dont know how to cook..u better go learn bfor ur housemaid to snatch ur hubby wif food..useless imbecile

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    12. Hahahaaha this 1 wey u d vex like this I hope say u sabi cook?lol

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    13. You ar so ill-mannered. Seriously u lack home training. He expressed his own opinion, live it, say ur own or go and die, shikenah

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    14. The insult was totally uncalled for. Na wa 4 u sha.

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    15. NO! U shut it. I bet u don't know how to cook even indomie dats y u have d guts to cuss him out.
      I agree with him 100precent!
      Some girls r ready to learn y some na to open only leg them good for!
      U better go learn how to cook if u r a woman before some chic dat knows d koko collect ur man n u r stupid for calling his mum, idiota!

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    16. I hate this blackmagic with his stupid lyrics..how can u tell a girl"I just want to have Sex with you"and. How dare you say"we might not see tomorrow"which kain curse be dat.daft lyrics.

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    17. hahahahahahah painment lmao seems u don't know how to cook, that is y u are this pained. A responsible well trained African woman should know how to cook, now talking of what defines a woman, according to linda I think it's part of the whole package.

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    18. Why are u soo bitter? Gosh! And a man will end up marrying this bitter woman who can't cook! Sooooo much bitterness! And linda u hardly post my comments! Abi we are now doing PDP on the blog? All for auto post biko linda

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    19. That's his own perspective, so don't blame or abuse him.

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  28. Linda i agree cos every woman can open them legs but not all can food very well and cooking very well is not by cooking a pot of soup with 20k but with 1.5k can do magic with bitter leaf or ogbono soup! Abi guyz ni lie i lie?

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    1. Na lie u talk. Close ur legs and shut up.

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    2. Shutup! Misyarning, na be ur music career when u go concertrate on? Monkey

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    3. @fyf 1k5 fit give u soup and stew for 3 people remain for morning chow sef

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    4. If u like, don't marry that girl that loves u simply bcos she can't cook. What abt u that can't write a simple sentence? Mtcheeeeeeew

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    5. Abeg go sidon joor mumu. If ur a man n u can't cook 2 then pls dnt talk. Linsweet as far as I'm cncerned cooking is 4 evry1 bt dsnt really define nybdy as a failure. Bth men n women cn learn hw 2 cook----C21

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    6. You no lie joor

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    7. I am a girl. And u didn't lie @ all. Some girl can only boil water and make indomie. A real woman shld make her husband run home frm the office for lunch wt her cooking magic
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  29. Humnnnnmm,ok for me I can also say a man who is not good in bed has failed as a man. Lol.

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  30. If u like linda, blog frm now till jesus come! If u dnt learn hw to cook, u'll still end up in deep SOUP!!!!

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  31. ROFL! Waiting for the incoming butthurt women who can't cook. You're a grown woman who can't cook? Get out! Reminds me of my uncle's wife who couldn't cook. Kept deceiving him with her friend's food till they married

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  32. @FYF,SHUT YOUR SHIT HOLE

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  33. Ya his right. It is very fundamental for a woman to know the kitchen science.

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  34. its simple ... as a girl you need to knowing how to cook is a key factor in choosing a wife

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  35. i totally agree, every woman should know how to cook, she is indeed a failure if she cant

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  36. @F.Y.F i.5k self big self but the bottom line is a woman should be a cook , a maid and a whore .QED if u have only one of theses then u got nofin .

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  37. Anonymous 4:14,...you are such a bad belle fowl,what's your biz with weither ihm mama sabi cook or not...u seriously have so many things to work on your self...itchew!!...ijahi like you...ehn ehn back to the main matter jare...its true o...a woman that cooks very well is the husband's favourite...so girls...learn how to cook good food and stop all those body firm firm thing...it doesn't really help...baba ibeji says so...

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  38. @1st cmmentor. U get luck say I dae in a hapi mood. I 4 tell u say U BE STUPIDITY ITSELF! Imagine. Hw can a woman nt knw hw 2 cuk? Na F15 she be na

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  39. You are right. Even #500 can produce sweet okro soup.

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  40. I truly agree with him. I cannot be better than my wife in terms of cooking.

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  41. He is right... what's the point of eating out all the time

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  42. It's the 21st century the woman's place is no longer in the kitchen but out in the world, but still if a man is going to be classified by how suCcessful he is, why can't a woman be judged by how good of a cook she is? Am just saying.

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  43. Anon 4:14 ur guilty ryt lol

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  44. Y person go suffer 2 post comment and linda no go put am

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  45. Bifor nko? Abeg Lindodo comot dat ya Louboutini make you go pound yam for me.

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  46. I so agree wif him..d best way to man is tru is stomach... every African woman should knw how to cook good food

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  47. Fact bt said in a harsh way and manner, i think as a woman.u shud knw how to cook, bt setting ur criteria of ur kind of woman based on hw well she cooks its Doom!!

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  48. I agree die!! Linda me I know you can't cook anything!! E sure me die, even Laura can't none of you can!!

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  49. Whenever way you look at it, that is the fact. Though millions will criticise him. Yet many women push their husbands to mama put wey go put "Husband Snatching Charms" in their food and eventually loose those husband to them out there. Truth is in what that dude said

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  50. I think I agree with him to an extent, what most of girls of now adays kno is Runs. Most of them only know how to cook salt.... Of coz they will add small rice.

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  51. What an incredibly sexist statement to make.

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  52. Lol now don't I just like this guy? He's on point on that. The dumbest chick can spread legs without hassles but it takes a proper girl with good home training and a helping of intelligence to win in the kitchen.

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  53. In dat case every man should earn big money if nt he has failed as a man

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  54. Most guys will agree with him. No man wants to marry a lady who is not a good cook.

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  55. @anon 4:14pm y u acting lik d statement he made ws directed 2 u?wat blackmagic said is d trut if u lik go push plane.mumu lik u.we r Africans nd d way 2 a man's hrt ere is tru his stomach.am sure ur moda does nt know hw 2 cook 2.

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  56. How many men can fix their car by themselves, do basic carpentry work at home or electrical jobs even plumbing. Its so easy to point fingers. if you a man can use an artisan at home then a woman can employ a cook. The best chefs in the hotels are men. Enter the kitchen if you are hungry.

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  57. U̶̲̥̅̊ be mumu 6+3 = 9 ...so does 5+4 and 7+2. The way you think isn't always the only way to do them. Respect and listen to other people's opinion too..and stop insulting d guy mom... Anyway I think he is right

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  58. "If you fail in bed, you've failed as a man" Is this also true.

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  59. Anon 4:14;I see absolutely no reason y he is a bastard in dis case.Am a lady and I think being an expert in kichen matters is a major prequisite in d game of marriage.afteral it is still d men whu says''d way to a man's heart is tru his stomach..So I agree 100%

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  60. Little black bitch.

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  61. Hehe see as d talk dey affect sum pipul hmmn e neva too late o 6ta go learn hw2 cook abeg asap

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  62. I'm a chic and I have to agree w him. My first bf that I had at 19 still haunts me cos I captured his heart w my cooking. He never fails to mention it 10 years later of how I used to sweep him off his feet w my food. Food plays a major role ladies. If u like fine like mami water and no sabi cook or serve a man. Na u go suffer am oh.

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  63. True talk black...
    A woman's cooking skills defines her upbringing...

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  64. Ok, is this Celebs-Open-Your-Mouth-And-Yarn-Bullshit Week? Cos I didn't get the memo. First it was Gbemi and her airline nonsense. Now this bigoted sexist rapper? Abeg make dem dey think before dem yarn or get a social media manager like the rest of us.

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  65. Shut up and take a seat. They didn't give u mouth for u to be saying nonsense . Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeew!!!!!!!

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  66. Who is this ignorant bitch? He has failed in life with that face. Photoshop & a high quality camera cannot do shit for that face.

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  67. He's very right. The primary duty of a woman is to cook. And if she can not cook, then sorry is the word. So also if a man fails in his bank account, then he has failed as a man.

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  68. Please ladies make sure u know how to cook. its part of our tradition. To be gender sensitive, I would say that its proper for the man to equally assist the woman in any way (fetch water, help her dice vegetables, keep her company while she's cooking; its wrong for him to always cross his legs and watch d t.v while you labour in d kitchen). I appreciate every woman who cooks for her family. Don't be lazy, no body is saying it is your "calling" but its a very good social skill. So you want a househelp to nurture your husband and give him treats and tantalize him. I'm sorry for U! Men like good food and develop affection for its provider. Its genetic. This our younger generation sef! My daughters can cook O! Tan loomo ranu!

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  69. He's very right. The primary duty of a woman is to cook. And if she can not cook, then sorry is the word. So also if a man fails in his bank account, then he has failed as a man.

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  70. what a sexist statement to make! MUMU GRADE ONE

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  71. Is tru mana Linda,any gal dat cannot cook is a failure,any1 can open his legs bt nt every lady can make a mine smile by d teste of her food.

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  72. you no lie OJARE you be true Africa queen.

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  73. C em pipe line nose nd big mouth.....waka dia,I no sey na food u go like na em mak u de sing rubbish songs.....short,ugly nd foolish hungry boy

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  74. Small boi talk. Real men don't define a woman by her culinary skills

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  75. Linda I'm a woman and I agree with him. Real women cooks good. D shortestcut to a man's hrt is tru ez belly

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  76. and if you don't have money you have failed as a man. how does that sound

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  77. How many achievements that mumu wey dey call person bastard don ever achieve in him life (or her life as i strongly suspect ps, no vex, just go and learn how to cook pps, shame on you).
    It is not a must but a plus. Anyone lacking should learn or you would honestly watch another woman cook for the person you claim to be your man and then complain after when it goes beyond the kitchen abi?? Shiuo

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  78. Being a good cook is part of being a woman,way bk I really didn't know how to cook but now I'm perfect and it makes me feel good each time my cooking is complemented.

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  79. BLACK MAGIC, I USED TO BE YOUR BIG FAN BUT YOU HAVE REVEALED YOURSELF TO BE NOTHING MORE THAN A VILLAGE MONKEY. YOU ARE A FAILURE AS A MAN. HOW ABOUT WE DECIDE HOW MUCH OF A MAN YOU ARE BASED ON HOW MANY INCHES YOUR DICK IS? IDIOT. GO BACK TO THE VILLAGE. RUN ALONG NOW...

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  80. When God created Eve from the rib of Adam, did He admonished that a woman must be a good cook? When did knowing how to cook become a criteria for measuring the success or otherwise of a woman? Even though there is freedom of speech but sometimes I just fail to understand why some men still do think and reason like this in 2014 when we are not in 1914 especially from supposedly celebrities who should act like role models. It's high time we Nigerian men begin to see women for what they are 'helpers' to their husbands and not as slaves or giving them defined roles as if there is anything wrong for a man to also be a good cook.

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  81. Stone age reasoning

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  82. When God created Eve from the rib of Adam, did He admonished that a woman must be a good cook? When did knowing how to cook become a criteria for measuring the success or otherwise of a woman? Even though there is freedom of speech but sometimes I just fail to understand why some men still do think and reason like this in 2014 when we are not in 1914 especially from supposedly celebrities who should act like role models. It's high time we Nigerian men begin to see women for what they are 'helpers' to their husbands and not as slaves or giving them defined roles as if there is anything wrong for a man to also be a good cook.

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    1. Correct guy. Help me tell them o. Them tattoo"woman must cook" for our head?

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  83. Linda ikeji I certainly do notknow u to be dumb in anyway.If u fail in the kitchen u have failed as a woman does this mean you have to be a good cook in all aspects ??? Common ... A reasonable female should know how to cook,Am a guy and I can cook anything basically buh I don't consider myself a good cook.Go figure

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  84. he said girl ooo not woman na waa ooh

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  85. he said girl ooooooh not woman .

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  86. Anonymous 4:14 what has he said that's so bad that you had to call him a bastard, Linda i know you have put out disclamier shit and all but you really need to screen the comments. Am a lady and i totally agree, any woman can open their legs but i real woman should know how to cook and clean.

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    1. So what does the man do?

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  87. i agree because these are the values of our fathers and should not be abandoned because every one is exposed and acquiring knowledge from the west.We should not abandon our founding values.That's just how i feel.It is good these days that women want to be more than house wives.I respect that.But it doesn't mean we should all forget how we were brought up

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    1. Alright. I swear, if I no see you for that farm with hoes and cutlasses, na flogging you go get. Lets go back to the 1700's.

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  88. Black magic, u r a big fool, your foolishness is bigger than pacific ocean. i know cooking is necessary but that is not a pass mark because she can always learn to cook. if u fail in the bedroom or to provide financially at any level, u have failed as a man. Mongoloid!!!!!

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  89. It is synonymous to what Kelly handsome said that broke boys don't deserve erection,the only difference was that kelly handsome scored some rational point...... Been a succesful woman is more than been a chef, only people with a considerable level of exposure understands that# cheezyjayne

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  90. Black Magic, I would like to know how you came to this conclusion.

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  91. Not all men, mostly African, especially 9ja men will agree.

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  92. I am appalled by the sheer sexism and ignorance displayed by this Black Magic kid. Never heard of him before today and the first impression is definitely making my heard hurt.
    If you do not realize that you leave in a modern world by now, well...I have no words. Maybe you should learn to cook for yourself so you do not mouth off on social media like that.
    If I were to think like you, then, a man ignoring his child and not having money to raise his kids comfortably, would also be counted as a failure, right? Except you probably don't see it that way. And by now, we both know I don't think like you.

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  93. If u are a poor man you ve failed as a Man!!!

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  94. Very true Linda, this made me leave a girl i know. omo if you don't know how to cook and you are above 18 years old. Omo u will never learn it and finding husband go be war!

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    1. How many inches is your dick? If its less than 6inches, you are a huge failure, in fact, kill yourself now. See useless comment, dem born women with cooking skills. Abeg, go sidon somewhere jare make I hear word. If you no fit cook yourself, na hunger go kill you.

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  95. If u fall to bring ENOUGH money home 2 ur wife & kids & protect them, u failed as a man. Infact, u r worse than an infidel. u r not a man & shud learn how to cook

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    1. I agree and a whole lotta nigerian men fall in this category.

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  96. I am just appalled by the level of sexism displayed by your post. I don't know who Black Magic is, but the ignorance showcased by this post just makes my head hurt!

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  97. Thanks 4 telling our ladies.

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  98. Respect goes to Igbo & Calabar girls
    When it come to that

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  99. Ask him if his sista can cook ?

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  100. We'll said joor....Al those lazy ass babes go n learn hw 2cuk

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  101. blackfool! so every woman dat can cook is a real woman? u can as well marry a food seller! FFO! "for food only"

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  102. Na everyday person dey hear am. Lindodo u no get better tin post dan all dese show ahow face people. Hiss.

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  103. Where is it written that it is a woman,s place to cook in the kitchen?
    All this local champions in nigeria opening their mouths to yarn rubbish. If you go to his house now, dont be suprise to see say na him dey cook for his babe. So if a man fails in the bedroom, he has failed as a man? nonsense, what about the man,s other qualities?

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  104. If a man fails to provide for his family does it mean he has failed as a man? or if a man fails to impregnate a woman, has he failed as a man?

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  105. Why learn to cook when you were brought up with cooks and you are going to have your own cook?

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  106. F.Y.F, Wetin u dey yarn? Rephrase biko!

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  107. I agree with him 100% lin lin pls post my comment biko

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  108. Everybody should learn how to cook, male and female. After all we are humans and we can open our wide mouth to eat, therefore don't wait for your wife to cook before you eat a decent meal.

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  109. Dis second comment is frm who pls ....dis u finish primary school

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  110. You will be surprised that pussy and food carries the same weight in the eye of a man! If you can't cook...Just say bye bye

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  111. And if you've failed in your bank account, you've failed as a man... Anuofia

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  112. Well, originally, I think he's right... But civilisation is fast turnin things around

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  113. The best for a woman is to know how to cook. Not know how to open legs

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  114. Do girls need to pass a cooking test to qualify as girls? Not everybody likes to cook, not every girl can endure all day in the kitchen when its not their hobby or a career..
    Times have changed, although learning to cook is a good thing because u will need to eat, but if u can't cook so well? Don't worry, just be a mechanic.

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  115. dats ur opinion black wateva. keep it.

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  116. So wait, wat if his mum cudnt cook for one reason or the other? Wat wid that make her? This is too judgemental

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  117. Girls are so gonna kill your for this. But it is the gospel truth. If you can't cook go and learn how to. Shikena!

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  118. Pele ooo Mr blackmagic,FFO of laive just say u like food and u need someone that can satisfy that need for you, there are so many wonderful women out there without a good cooking skill.

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  119. His opinion. My opinion, a woman should be a manager of the home. Does that mean she will be a good cook MAYBE NOT but she knows how to manage cash, organise her home, teach her children morals and keep them clean, have a humble spirit that makes her family happy. In all this, she still has her own source of income. Now that is a WOMAN *big grin*

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  120. No sabi cook o. Abi u no sabi fuck also. Se u wey go contract food wey man go chop u go contract woman too come house for ur husband. CORRECTGUY

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  121. Dear anonymous must u refer to his mum????? I agree wit him anyway•

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  122. @FYF poor ori ogbono.

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  123. We all hv our freedom of speech buh then that shuldnt make some mofos sound like some retarded fool

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  124. U be fool which soup for nigeria u go cook with 1500naira? Get real dude. @least 5k

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  125. Only if you you will be married with an African man

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  126. Extremely Ignorant.. i am disgusted by this stigma that is placed on women

    How can you trust some else to nourish yourself... If you are hungry either u get ur ass up n make food for yourself or go to a restaurant

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  127. What an idiotic thing to say. Foolish man should concentrate on his career instead of belittling women- this is the 21st century. Everyone should know how to cook instead of relying on somebody else to feed them!! Stupid statement to make!!

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  128. u nor lie my broda

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  129. Nigeria men still have that mentality that a women place is or end in the kitchen.not in support of what he said! we women have some good attribute too. for the fact that a lady do not know how to cook does not mean she has fail as a woman.who knows if Dora,Ngozi iwuela etc can cook yet they are suceesful in their careers does it mean they have fail too nay am a lady and I can cook buh if a lady cannot cook don't judge her with that u can at least teach her or send her to a cathering sch.

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  130. Anonymous 4.14....u r an idiot for insulting black magic....am sure u r girl and u cnt fckn cook....u bettr go and learn.....Olowo toothpick....ts ppl lyk u dat make men eat in bucca 24/7.... Olodo...

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  131. Everyone's free to av opinion, dats d way he sees d female gender.. No p

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  132. true talk bro so many ladies do not kn how to cook at all! Even if u give them dat so call 20k they will still cook rubbish for u and na them make mouth pass. God will help them

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  133. Yes Man, a good woman has to take good care of the household in kitchen.

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  134. Hmmmm den its likewise any man who fails to have money like dangote has failed as a man

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  135. True Yarn black Magic...

    CAPT J.D

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  136. If you fail in the kitchen as a man, likewise, you fail as a man!
    Who made kitchen duties the responsibility of women in today's day in age. B.S.

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  137. BLOODY HELL WRONG AND STUPID. I CAN'T BELIEVE AT THIS DAY AND AGE SOME MEN STILL THINK SO FUCKING SEXIST AND BLOODY IGNORANT .

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  138. BLOODY HELL WRONG AND STUPID. I CAN'T BELIEVE AT THIS DAY AND AGE SOME MEN STILL THINK SO FUCKING SEXIST AND BLOODY IGNORANT .

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  139. I CAN'T BELIEVE SOME PEOPLE AGREE TO THIS SHIT ? IF YOU DO THEN YOU HAVE A MENTAL BARRIER .

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  140. you yourself u don hammer , see his mouth

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  141. I'M IRRITATED THAT HALF THE SO CALLED MEN HERE AGREE WITH THIS IGNORANT DEMEANING AND SEXIST STATEMENT. YOU GUYS DESERVE NO WIFE AND NO PUSSY. FUCK YOURSELVES.

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  142. i really don't get why some nigerians are so backward sometimes, i can't believe dat idiot dat commented @ "Sweetes Pussy" just mentioned tribalism into dis. like how in dis world does dat even correlate with this topic? it just shows how shallow minded u are, its pple like u dat are making nigeria divided.

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  143. and as for blackmagic the only reason women fail in the kitchen is because of weaklings like u dat can't provide for dem so women are left to fend for themselves and become the MAN u aren't.... lol

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  144. @PricelessPrincess, those words of yours are filled with wisdom. The principal thing required in a marriage is true love. I know of a woman who you can call a perfect home manager. She is a good cook, neat, conservative etc but her husband values her less. He doesn't see anything in wot she does. He never appreciates her effort. Just because he did not marry her for love but dat he needed a wife.

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  145. sweetes pussy,u are an empty headed Igbo animal,we all d tribe which girls open their dirty legs anyhow.ibo girls are ashawo champions of Nigeria.lots of Yoruba girls can cook and lots of ibo girls cannot cook.it depends on d kind of mother who trained them

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  146. Well, I feel the same about men who can't cook

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