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Sunday 16 February 2014

Nigerians said 'No' to sex this Val unless there's a ring on the finger - Christians.ng sex survey

Valentine's Day and love is in the air. Flowers, cards, chocolates.... Sex? Christians.ng, Nigeria's No.1 online dating site for Christian singles to meet their soulmates, put the question to Nigerians during this romantic period - "Is sex before marriage ever acceptable?"

Nigerians answered in their thousands on this hot topic. It was a controversial question - one that sparked a lot of debate and discussion. And today, Christians.ng can reveal that the answer is no. 68% of Nigerians say that sex before marriage is wrong and that it is a sin. 

That being said, 52% of them did admit to having sex outside of the Holy union of marriage. And it seems that Nigerians are a forgiving people as well - even though they believe sex outside of marriage is a sin, 89% of them would marry a non-virgin. God loves us sinners! Continue...


Christians.ng final question was: Is sex outside of marriage for Christians a sin? 93% of Nigerians said YES. 

If you're a single Christian living in Lagos, looking to meet someone who has the same beliefs and religious convictions as you, in a safe and secure online environment, now is the time to visit www.christians.ng 

Good luck with finding God's match for you on www.christians.ng - next Valentine's Day could be your biggest and best yet!
at 2/16/2014 01:15:00 pm

94 comments:

  1. Unknown16 February 2014 at 13:18

    Linda na lieeeeeeeeeeeee. All na wash.. Nigerians To Say NO to SEX lai lai... Not Possible!!

    I Rep IT JAKES YOU ( A Book Of Inspiration By Linda Ikeji)
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    1. Unknown17 February 2014 at 09:10

      Common fool isnt common dats wat u r. Sexual mumu

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  2. BONARIO NNAGS16 February 2014 at 13:18

    Am for sex after marriage.
    Will teach my children that.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  3. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 13:19

    Linda you should visit this online site 4 urself to find d perfect man. Am praying u find the perfect man this 2014 who will walk u down the aisle. Amen

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  4. AnnMarie16 February 2014 at 13:20

    And 52% from from the 68% are guilty of the offence. body no be fire wood

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  5. Opelicious16 February 2014 at 13:20

    Hmmmm. That's a good one!

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  6. Unknown16 February 2014 at 13:20

    hehehe nice piece of innovation..
    buh sorry to dissapoint im with the other way round o...*kill me*

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  7. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 13:20

    dats a good development. i hope they got their facts right.







    At last, you too can now start making legal income online. click to see how you can .

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  8. Emeka Philips16 February 2014 at 13:23

    I agree that it is a sin but that does not mean that they do not indulge in it. Jut saying

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  9. Bonita Bislam16 February 2014 at 13:24

    Lol what a witty advert.The statistics seems accurate and only portrays further the bible passage that said "The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak"

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  10. Unknown16 February 2014 at 13:25

    Well done is better than well said. It doesn't matter if they said "no" and did otherwise.

    ~~Success Has No Limitation~~

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  11. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 13:27

    LindaBody Nor Be WOOD

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  12. tuffcookiey16 February 2014 at 13:27

    Sex b4 marriage is bad.. but I still prefer to check wht im buying and spending the rest of my life wit... God forgive me.

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  13. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 13:28


    hypocrites, Africa will remain d same until we put an end to hypocrisy. we r all sinners, both virgins n non virgins. God will judge all dt have twisted his words for money.

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  14. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 13:30

    Yes Ooooooooooooooo

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  15. Mrs E16 February 2014 at 13:31

    Dear linda, hope you've signed up? You should be their number. Customer! Good luck in finding love

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  16. ary16 February 2014 at 13:32

    That is a tricky question.

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  17. sahnzylyn16 February 2014 at 13:33

    Hmm..this is a very controversial topic. .anyway the truth is that most nigerians especially the ladies tend to shy away from this topic but it doesn't change the fact that most young people indulge in premarital sex..

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  18. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 13:34

    hmmm....I fear oh...I wont blame them them because girls are becoming lord of the rings..for the perfect work from home job visit..www.sfi1.biz/13754838

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  19. Unknown16 February 2014 at 13:36

    Story story = story

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  20. ('-_-) IMPRESSION16 February 2014 at 13:36

    Especially if u're a lady and your intention is to get a serious relationship that could result in marriage, NEVER EVER try online dating! It's a waste of time; full of dubious, mere fun seeking wolves, looking for lambs to slaughter. Whether it's a Christian or Muslim dating site, it's full of deceitful married men who are looking for easy access to unsuspecting ladies. I've tried it many many times and my friends have similar experiences too. This is Africa, don't compare us with whites. Be wise!

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  21. Igor16 February 2014 at 13:37

    Sex before marriage a sin ? This message will continue fall on deaf ears (mine inclusive) when the norm this days is pregnancy/ baby mama first before. marriage.

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  22. dee16 February 2014 at 13:37

    Nice 1

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  23. Unknown16 February 2014 at 13:39

    Is good but some of them will still ask for it before marriage

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  24. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 13:42

    I would marry a non virgin over a virgin!!!

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  25. Alloy Chikezie16 February 2014 at 13:43

    Abstinence is the surest way! So "No to sex before marriage"


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  26. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 13:43

    Though it's difficult but no sex without marriage . God condemns it.

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  27. FDJ16 February 2014 at 13:44

    Noted

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  28. Desmond 2 d G16 February 2014 at 13:45

    Okey

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  29. Unknown16 February 2014 at 13:45

    Kikikiki !!!if i hear !story !dey'd b surprised how birth rate will rise by dz year endin all tanks to val..

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  30. Unknown16 February 2014 at 13:48

    Have u registered on d site Linda?

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  31. Unknown16 February 2014 at 13:52

    Hmmm, See msg, very easy to read but hard to practise. Okay nah, we don hear ooO. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ 

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  32. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 13:53

    Bia Linda, why can't replies to comments appear directly below the comment? It's more interesting that way than reading all the way done and trying to figure out who's replying who. Pls let me know if it's a setting or if it's your fault. Thanks

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  33. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 13:58

    Most Nigerians r hypocrite.....MineRhoda

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  34. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 14:00

    Nid a serious yoruba lady, workin class /God fearing, based in lagos(btw 26-28yrs old) kindly add me; 25DFE01F. God bliss us

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    1. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 23:33

      Bliss?! Hmmm... While you're getting your girl get an english teacher too.. #Goodluck.

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  35. sunday otuns16 February 2014 at 14:00

    Is it only the guyz that enjoys sex?As if you dont finger yaself or use vibrators if guyz didnt smooch you for 1 month.
    @ladies.

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  36. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 14:13

    Linda my so called bf doesn't care, from wht he displays anyways. He says he rele does but I doubt cuz he doesn't call, he doesn't text, or even want to knw hw am faring and worst case is dt we dnt stay togedr in d same city in Nigeria. In ma mind av so moved on cuz after I confronted him abt it, he promised ro change buh none is coming. I can't keep on calling him. Am tall, beautiful, shapy and intelligent to be treated dis way. I dnt even want a boyfriend anymore sef. Am believing God for a life partner. Libers just felt like sharing...if uv bin in ma shoes, u wil understand.

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  37. Adorable Jewel16 February 2014 at 14:13

    Dis info came verrryyy late cos i've already said yes!! To sex two days ago

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  38. Unknown16 February 2014 at 14:16

    What an interesting survey.

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  39. babyboiynk16 February 2014 at 14:22

    Ok noted
    Ynk

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  40. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 14:27

    Let them go have sit jor is not saying is the problem but putting it into pratice is what matter the most, for we the ladies we really agree to "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE" but 95% of Nigerian guys can not put it into pratice

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    1. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 17:17

      ANO..!!!BETA STAT NW B4 ITS 2 L8.GOD BLES U

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    2. Bike Packing Blog16 February 2014 at 17:25

      These things can never work in Naija. Nigerians have beautiful laws but poor implementation. So will be same for this

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  41. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 14:34

    I support d move but can dey keep 2 their Promise? Am sure 80% of 9ja single babes had sex or touchingston. L̳̿Ö̤̣̇☺ː̗̀(=)))ː̖́☺Ö̤̣̇L̳̿.

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  42. Danny Csi16 February 2014 at 14:34

    We all knw the truth b4 nao....buh d truth bitter die........................

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  43. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 14:39

    Ebenebe...

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  44. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 14:39

    Why no sex damm guys is not going to agree #bright bravo#

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  45. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 14:40

    I second that!!! Ladies shine ur eyes oh. No sex...till he puts a ring on it

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  46. Unknown16 February 2014 at 14:43

    Na lieee ooooo.i chop like 6babes dis Val oooo.i even get luck self,1 na vergin self without no ring

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    1. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 17:20

      U R CRAZY.KIP ON SHARING D KURSES&BLESSINGS PLACED ON DOSE GULS.UR LYF EN.

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    2. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 18:45

      U should be ashame of yourself!

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    3. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 19:28

      How did u do it? Na wao!!!

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  47. pwitie B16 February 2014 at 14:48

    Making sense atleast it wil reduce illegitimate kids baby mama biz wil reduce drastically lol

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  48. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 14:52

    Hmmmmm abeg are dey only in lagos? Looking for my missing rib in the church abeg.

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  49. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 15:03

    Wel, we all no d@ is a sin b4 God, sex b4 marriage, bt even if I wil abide in dis rule not 4 u aunty linda, abi I lie? Ceceeboi says so..

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  50. Harnikky16 February 2014 at 15:17

    Ok º°˚˚°ºoo .......

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  51. Ceeflo16 February 2014 at 15:26

    Lol,this site would soon be a Badoo or eskimi in no time

    You can't change the culture...

    If may ask, who are the "Christian" brothers and sisters?

    Their self acclaimed stand... Is it gonna be stamped on Their reproductive organs?

    Well,nice initiative nd in between I'm a Christian brother,lol

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  52. last baby16 February 2014 at 15:44

    Say big NO to see before marriage

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  53. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 15:52

    Dafe etibo God punish u!

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  54. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 16:02

    See d small boobs used for no sex b4 marriage
    ~D great anonymous!

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  55. Unknown16 February 2014 at 16:07

    Wow...am moved by the Christian values we,Nigerians,have.
    niceeee

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  56. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 16:13

    Yes dats a very good move to cause d changes we want to see in our society. No sex,no unwanted pregnancy,A better tomorrow for everyone! Say no to sex b4 marriage today!!!

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  57. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 16:17

    is a well cum development buh i'm sex addict wot shld i do plsss #THAT AKWA IBOM BOY

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  58. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 16:18

    WE ALL KNOW NIGERIANS LIKE TO PRETEND..

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  59. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 16:19

    WE ALL KNOW NIGERIANS LIKE TO PRETEND..

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  60. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 16:57

    Linda said "Us sinners" == Linda is not a virgin, who is the guy *wink*

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  61. Unknown16 February 2014 at 17:24

    bfl

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  62. Unknown16 February 2014 at 17:38

    bfl

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  63. Visages Parfait16 February 2014 at 18:18

    May God help us!

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  64. Adorable Jewel16 February 2014 at 18:21

    Dats good ....leaders shuld as well lead by example and not hypocritically***

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  65. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 18:27

    Omo oba u kno get sense c as u com for public dey tel people hw stupid u re "idiot". Linda abeg post my comment

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  66. Lucille16 February 2014 at 18:48

    D ladies can keep to dis rules but I swear 90% of our Nigerian guys r. Sex maniac, when it comes ladies can control demselves compared to guys... Guys abi na lie talk cos if God wants 2 punish us 4 d sin of fornication he will start 4rm d guys cos dey can't control their sexual urge...

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  67. Iyke Okereke16 February 2014 at 19:20

    IS SEX OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE SIN?! IMAGINE! Imagine! IS MURDER SIN?. WHAT IF THE WHOLE WORLD SAYS NO ITS NOT! Would that make it right? HAS GOD NOT SAID SINCE IN HIS WORD THAT ITS SIN to have sex outside of marriage & before marriage. & WE ARE STILL DEBATING IT!. ALL THESE INSTRUCTIONS ARE FOR OUR OWN SAFETY AND WELL BEING. THINK CAREFULLY ABOUT THIS. GOD WANTS US TO HAVE FUN, HE PUT THOSE DESIRES IN US & HE HAS PLANNED THAT THE SAFEST PLACE FOR SEX IS IN MARRIAGE. CASES OF STDS, BROKEN HOMES, CHILDREN BORN OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGES, SCARRED & MAIMED HEARTS, COUNTLESS SPIRITUAL CONTAMINATIONS WOULD BE ALMOST NON-EXISTENT IF PEOPLE STUCK ONLY TO THEIR MARRIAGE PARTNERS.

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  68. Amarachukwu.16 February 2014 at 19:59

    That's the truth.

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  69. Unknown16 February 2014 at 20:11

    I pray oh.. imagine say dey give yu free suya for val yu go deny???? enjoy guys...

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  70. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 20:41

    I know a lot of ladies that have jump from one relationship to the other on the basis of self acclaimed love which they don't know is Lust..au can a single gal that has slept with at least 5 men including married men claim is love and still say and flaunt righteousness in church.. No wonder they keep wandering about..but 4 u Linda u are a decent gal and I wish dota single gals can follow suit

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  71. Unknown16 February 2014 at 21:06

    You wan kill person ni... after some #Alomo in the blood and she don take some barbeque and Andre.... NO i disagree ooooooo abeg no fall our hand oooo (*LOL* LMFAO*)

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  72. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 21:18

    WE NID 2 STOP DS,ALTHOU 1CE BN A VICTIM OF DS BAD OMEN.WARNING TO YOUTHS AVE D FEAR GOD,ENOF OF S** KOZ NDIRETLY SHARIN BOT BLESINS&CURSES OF D SIN PARTNER INVOLVED.GOD LOVES DS GENERATION&DOESNT WANT US 2 PERISH.BE BLESSED.

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  73. Unknown16 February 2014 at 21:31

    no sex... whooooooooo linda


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  74. Unknown16 February 2014 at 21:31

    D truth s reli beta nd dts Gods standard...its a no 2 sex b4 marriage!

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  75. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 21:42

    GEJ, if you like, ascend to the 7th Heaven and worship in Araboth (In the palace of Zoharariel YHVH), you will be ruling Otueke Community Development come 2015. We will not be swayed by your ogogoro antics the second time. No amount of religious sentiments you & your shepopotamus may whip up will bring you back to Asorock come 2015. As for the gluttons & covetous criminals parading themselves as anointed men of God, desecrating the house of God with ritualists like Jonathan as if they're not aware of his ritual blood bath every forthnight - your judgment is around the corner. Useless Hypocrites!

    zoharariel@aol.com

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  76. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 22:02

    I support but its nt easy to adhere to.MineRhoda.
    Linda pls post my comment

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  77. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 22:15

    No sex before marriage,I admit but M̶̲̥̅̊y̶̲̥̅̊ question can a girl behavly to hold herself b4 marriage?

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  78. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 22:16

    Dis is not God's word!
    Shane.Logan@ulsterrugby.com

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  79. Anonymous16 February 2014 at 22:17

    Shame on You. Believe in God!
    Shane.Logan@ulsterrugby.com

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  80. Anonymous17 February 2014 at 00:05

    I refused t go out wit d guy iv been sleepin wt on vals day cos he has always treated me like im not special nor does he luv me.His actions twd me always contradict his words twd me.Well who am i t blame him?Afteral i was d one who settled for less.No more sex til marriage 4 me.God wil help we single ladies hwevr we need t all wisen up too.

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  81. Anonymous17 February 2014 at 12:16

    Sex before marriage is an interesting topic. God condemns it in all religions but let us face reality. How many of us do practice it. for smart ladies, sex before marriage won't be to their detriment because they are still in control irrespective of it. Ladies shine your eyes o, guys are selfish people. love yourself above all.

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  82. Unknown17 February 2014 at 12:33

    heheheh lets go there!!!!

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  83. PAVOUR17 February 2014 at 13:33

    Lili u re flying high gal. Everyone around me during val was on LIB and its like do u read here too? Lol

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  84. SIMPLYCOCK17 February 2014 at 17:02

    Idiots....
    I have never seen more stupid people than folks who think that by shouting "down with sex before wedding night," people will stop being ordinary people....
    It is like telling me not to visit the toilet unless I am at home...

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  85. MRS OHIO ERANKO17 February 2014 at 20:56

    I THINK IT IS BETTER, NOT TO JUST HAVE SEX WITH NOBODY, AND BOTH OF YOU SHOULD GO FOR TEST,

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