Dear LIB readers: Can't get the image of my ex **** out of my head
From a female LIB reader
I have been married for 3years with a child, love my husband, he is the
kind of man any woman can hope for, spoils and pampers me like a guy
asking a girl out for the first time (we are happy). But I think I love
my ex more, we broke up because he lies too much to me and any guy that
lies to you is not serious or doesn't love you (my theory), but we
remained friends, the kind of friend that you can tell anything no
matter how weird. We were chatting about 2 days ago and we got emotional
that he sent me a picture of his penis and I almost jumped out of
my skin. Since then I have not been able to sleep, work or do anything
without seeing that image and longing for it, I so much want to be with
him but I am married. What should I do? Please don't insult me, I need
honest answer cause I can't talk to anybody about it.
I actually wish ur husband finds out cos u r a bad woman...he is ur ex for a reason, why dont u just freaking let him stay in d past now dat u r married...and for u guys to evn talk about intimate stuff like dat, dont u know d so called ex knows wat he is doing? He just wants to ruin ur home..and pls if u claim u love him den evn wit all d lies, u shouldnt av left him..ewu, leave ur husband and go for d fool dat tells lies cos of his penis.we women never learn sha.....idiot. .
you dont need to be insulted just know that you married and whats wrong with you is OJUKOKORO AINI ITELORUN.. LONGERTHROAT! Learn to be contented with what you have! delete the pix and stop talking with him.. and increase the number of sex with your husband ASAP
Perfect example of why nice guys finish last. The good husband is there being a good, loving and caring husband but the wife still wants the lying ex boyfriend who sends penis pics to married women.
My advice to you men..Treat em mean, keep em keen. Girls respond to a challenge and don't like things easy. Applies to 90% of girls
Then jump out of your skin now. Snap your husbands pen** and look at it maybe it will erase ur exes own. Biko stop chatting with your ex. Its your past, move on.
My dear you need to distant yourself from him if not you will only realize you have lied to your husband just to go sleep with your ex, and the morning after will not be good for you ESP if you got a conscience.
First things first darlyn.friendship wit your. Ex can't work.start by cutting that off.he doesn't love u he jus wants to spoil your relationship with your family.think abt all you v to loose by shattering your home.face your marriage and ve hawt. Sex wv ur boo regularly.lol it wil gt that liar's dick outa ur head
Ohhh Madam You Have Come To The Right Place!! Ma Dear you saw his and nearly jumped out of your skin eh kwa?? Well you have not seeing Mine cause you go Take Banana Till You Go YO!!
Woman Hold Thy Self...That Is furnication...If u fear God den don't do it and as for that ur ex, he's not a gud guy, knowing the fact dat ur married and did wht he did, den I beg to pls stop associating wt him cos he might land u in trouble
U re a bi fool. A married woman viewing another man's dick nd u cnt stop thinking of him u better ask God to forgive u bitch. Stick to ur man or better go stay wit ur broke ass long dick ex fool
Ermmmm woman... Off course u know u shall receive insults. What is wrong with ladies these days. U get a man that loves u and all, instead on focusing on him u r focusing on ur useless EX who would bang u just to boost his ego that he can get u whenever he wants and move to the next chick. Well if he's sending u pics of his dick, he clearly dnt respect u or ur marriage. U need Jesus clearly. Mschwwww. Next!
My dear this life is complicated. I would advise you get the thought of him out of your head and focus on building a happy family with your husband and kids. We can't always get what we want in this life but at this stage girl, your ex is extremely bad news. If he lies to you he'll never respect you. You only want him more now because you know you can't have him. Trust me that feeling will die once you seize to communicate with him. I hope this helps.
You obviously do not really expect that you won't be insulted.that said,don't be stupid.you better stop playing with fire otherwise,you will come back to this blog to tell us they have caught you and your stuff has been thrown out.
Believe me, thats not love, he just wants to have sex with yu by so doing destroying ur marriage..... Sending his dick to yu,thats a clear indication... I suggest yu dlete that rubbish as soon as possible bcos if ur husband sees it he will stop trusting yu and when their is no trust in a relationship that relationship or marriage is completely destroyed...... Think about it and make wise a decision and dont forget yu nw have a kid.... . . . ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
I almost insulted you but stopped not because u pleaded but because I want to receive holy communion on Sunday. I feel for your husband the good man at the receiving end. I pray he catches u and ur ex oneday.
U need deliverance abeg. Wetin u want make we advise u. U wat make we say go fuck ur ex?. Women nd their fish brain later u will start saying men re wicked wen u present urself as a married cheap whore
First off, I'm sorry but I'm gonna insult you. You are a very daft woman, and that ex of your has no shame whatsoever. How will you be married and have your ex so close to you that you can discuss anything with him??? What happened to your husband? Is he not supposed to be the person you can tell anything? Now your ex has taken the place of your husband emotionally. YOu better cut him loose. He is not a man...to even go as far as sending you his dick pic?? naaa mehn!
Here's my candid advice! Look at the so you have with your husband (that is if he's even the father, how am I sure you did not marry him for comfort?? You should have married your ex naaa)....back to what I was saying, have a good look at your Son, do you love him (your son), do you want to see him grow up in a stable home? or would you want him to grow up in a broken home?...if you don't, then bitch delete that guy from your mind and phone, never be in touch with him anymore, he has gone too far! you wanna be with him? you should really have married him....oh no, but you knew he was a two timer!
Dear Libers, this is what happens when you keep having sex with the person you are dating, you get married to someone else and you begin to think of your ex sexing you!
Stop every contact with him so u can concentrate on ur marriage if not u end up fantasing on it and this might distract u from ur hubby and I bet u if u're given a chance to go back u might just discover he is not worth all that. It's just a lie of the devil to distract u from ur God 's given gift which is ur hubby. Trust me, stay focused on ur hubby n u will find out u're not missing anything. N pls n pls stop d indecent chat with him cos it might put u in trouble n if u ask dis same dude to marry u, he will not so pls stop n focus on ur home. My ten kobo
I have three words for you: "you are a fool". Your husband and child deserves better, hope in catches you out in time. If you can do this then you can do way worse. If you are not happy then you simply leave the relationship, don't ruin his life because of your selfishness.
I can imagine what you are passing through. I have been married for 14yrs yet I am still in love with my ex. He is the one that knows me in and out, I can tell him everything. We went our separate ways blc of health incompatibilities. Outsiders may not understand. I feel you can only fall in love once. I love my husband but I can lay my life for my ex, mind you we are not sleeping together but that love that is pure, strong. He has been married for 2yrs now yet when we talk we forget about the whole world. Back to you, are you in love with him or are you missing your love making? Know exactly what you want so that you won't miss what you have. If it is his manhood you are on your way to adultery, come back before it is late. If you love him candidly, go ahead, you can't stop loving someone you love deeply no matter what they do to you, but since you are happily married turn that love into sisterly or motherly love. You will be happy, he will be happy and your marriage will be saved. My dear, it is not easy to stay away form your REAL love but when you are left with no choice you move ahead, bottle up the fun memories, lock it up safely, bring it out once in a while go through it and save it for another day. I strongly believe you can only LOVE ONCE. Others are likeness, fondness, infatuation, appreciation, resting place etc but just one person have that key that can unlock the secret place of your heart even in utmost darkness. Be careful there, you are infatuated with his manhood, it is not love. Run before you loose what you have.
U re jst bin childish. U neva c penis before? Forget dan guy n enjoy ur nice husband. If u are horny, den fuck ur husband. If u try it u will forever regret it.
You have a happy home but the devil has come to steal, kill and destroy the home you and your husband have built for three years. Recognize what this is- the devil's bait to lose your happy home.
Extremely foolish for even trying to contact an ex and ask for pic of that while married.i understand u can get carried away but do not let it even get to that stage..I think it's highly irresponsible for u to be chatting with an ex u still have feelings for while married..I would insult you cos u caused this urself..u better start puttin image of your husbands penis in ur head and ko ma pon la...as my hubby would call it...this is y my hubby cannot even stand the idea of me still saying hi to my ex.i don't know y we women always go for men that don't love us and leave the one that adore us..Iv learnt my own lesson and I won't even try it .again.u better hold who loves u more and leave lust aside..Lin Lin abeg next pls
Happened to me. I cut all contact from him. It's a constant battle, i constantly have to push him out of my head. I hate it when he jumps into my head while i am having sex with my hubby and only come when i think it's him. This is the price to pay for having sex before marriage. I av accepted my cross and I hope i will win this battle someday. The guy was a cheat. If i ever try to see him alone, i won't be able to resist him!
Happened to me. I cut all contact from him. It's a constant battle, i constantly have to push him out of my head. I hate it when he jumps into my head while i am having sex with my hubby and only come when i think it's him. This is the price to pay for having sex before marriage. I av accepted my cross and I hope i will win this battle someday. The guy was a cheat. If i ever try to see him alone, i won't be able to resist him!
Stop every contact with him so u can concentrate on ur marriage if not u end up fantasing on it and this might distract u from ur hubby and I bet u if u're given a chance to go back u might just discover he is not worth all that. It's just a lie of the devil to distract u from ur God 's given gift which is ur hubby. Trust me, stay focused on ur hubby n u will find out u're not missing anything. N pls n pls stop d indecent chat with him cos it might put u in trouble n if u ask dis same dude to marry u, he will not so pls stop n focus on ur home. My ten kobo
U need a deliberate self discipline to get him and his penis outta ur head. I mean u've got a guy every woman longs for.just be determined and u will do it hun?
Try to get d image off ur head n stick to ur loving husband or else u re heading to disaster. And warn him not to send u such picture again n never allow him to discuss to length with u again. The best way to erase such emotion is tru staying away from dat person. My ex girl ve bn begging me to see her since she got married few years ago but I ve bn posting her cos I don't want to sleep with somebody wife. Kindly respect ur marriage
U already knw u deserve insult u av already cheated on ur hubby for u to want ur ex bside wat r u still doing chattin witl him or ur hubby not as gud as him.. u r just a spolt bitch u even av d God's to write it out hissssss
Ojai says" try and get him off ur head and if u can, cease chatting with him. I knw its nt easy becos we r all human and it can happen to anyone. Rem, ur family is gold. If ur hubby gets to knw abt this and asks u out of the house, that ur ex will never marr you oooo. Just eject him from ur memory, biko
Na na na. You shouldn't have and should never have continued to be his friend especially when you knew how much u loved him. Plsssssss cut off all communication with him ASAP if you don't want to break your home.
WHAT THE HELL WERE U THINKING? You want to break your home cos of a sex organ! Come on babe, get a grip. Jeez. Some women sha!
Make ur husband see d picture of anoda man blucos 4 ur fone, u go talk d kinda explainition wen u go give am. And from the way u sound, be like ur ex bLucos dey live mountain of zion, why ur hubby dey shekele so dem nor resemble. U berra delete ur ex priCk mAke u focuS on ur hubby own if u knw wats good 4 u. AShawokobokobo
I don't think being frnds with him is doing any good cos he's in d past and let him remain there in ur life... U have ur husband, u can tell him anything no matter how weird! Cut him off ur life and delete d image... Thank u
My candi advice to u is to take it off ur mind if actually u love ur husband. To be honest wit u d dick he sent to u is d same thing wit ur husband's own.. plz be a responsible wife to ur husband.
You will be insulted oh! The truth is you never really got over your boyfriend and lying and not being serious is not enough reason for you to break up with a person, unless there is something you are hiding. You played with fire and you were burnt, thankfully not bad, best thing to do is cut ALL communication with him, go meet your hubby and screw his brains out and hope to God, it erases that memory.
That means u don't luv ur husband ....the truth of the matter is u like the way ur ex Handle u on bed....oga ooooo,u beta stay where u are....there's no good man out there ooooo....na dick full outside
first, u brought this upon yourself. your is meant to be your bestfriend, your companion, som1 you tell any and everything to. the truth is that u know the truth. you've always loved ur ex more and u wer hiding under the cover of being close friends and telling him everything. my advice cut off the communication totally. cut off the eye that makes you to sin unless u dnt love ur marriage and child that much...
stop chatting with your ex, you have a good husband and u want to make a mistake?, please and please cut all ties with ur ex. some people really do no know what they have. smh
What do you want LiBers to say now, that u should follow your heart and cheat on your hubby? No, this is no dating relationship, its a marriage institution, you took vows, so kill those emotions and sit your butt down, your husband is a good man and doesn't deserve that, if he was a bad man that will be easier, but u said it your self he's nice, so how will u live with your self after you cheat on him.
Woman get on ur knees right now n begin to bind aany spirit of adultery.....aving done dt pls kindly limit ur chats wit him cos honey he does nt love u n respect u cos if he did he wont send u a pix of his Johnny....be wise gal cos he wants sex n if u succumb.....u b d one loosing cos he gat nuttin to loose y nt delete him frm ur social media frnds......u cn still send him text (casual n inspirational text) nd lets see if he wont flee frm u.....Thank you
My dear, just ignore that feeling. That is the devil trying to lure you to commiting adultery and you know adultery is something that is difficult to stop once started....pls think about the vow you took on the holy alter, what will Jesus do? My dear, get over your Ex, if he loved you that much, he would have married you, don't be some one's side chick.
Tell him to give U a break. Honestly,why is it that we women don't always appreciate nice guys,most times we prefer the ones that bully us,the ones that don't even value us. U better be carefull before U loose your husband.that your x want to scatter your home, cos am very sure that he won't like another man to do with his future wife what he is doing with U.
You are on the edge already. I tell people, you can't be married and the opposite sex is your best friend it amounts to serving two masters. In my opinion your best friend as a couple should be your wife/husband. That’s why i preach marrying your friend/confidant to avoid the case in question. But sha Linda this story na Fabuuu! Omazo
Really? you dont want insults? u av a new life now... u need to remember that. if you love ur family, u will get him out of ur head. u dnt av to ruin the good tins u already have. wake up
Thats why im never comfortable with Xes remaining "very good friends" especially when you said you guys can talk about anything...That's just the recipe for disaster
I av same problem...mine is different cos am not yet married. Av broken up wit ma ex 4 ova 2 yrs now n av stil not gotten ova him. I still luv him evn more dan ma recent boyfriend
Anyways, darling, the solution is simple…you are in serious need of some sweet sweet loving dick….either u suck it real hard or someone screw your brains with it real gud…anyone u prefer. But as I said, the solution is simple, 4 letters, One Word: DICK!
It's clear ur current guy doesn't have correct size thats why ur wondering about the better D u were getting from ur ex…stop dreaming make ur dreams a reality…go suck dick. Shikina!
He's not ur friend and he doesn't love you. He knows you are happy and he wants to ruin it, silly thing is, you are leting him. Godluck ruininng ur life
Sincerely avoid contactn him no matter hw hard ÈŠ̝̊̅†̥ is. Evn if ЂƸ̵ calls give escuses y Ʊ cnt tlk for long. If ЂƸ̵ snd msgs give him close ended answers. N dnt rply A̶̲̥̅̊â„“â„“ tink any guy wit brains wil strt gettn d pic. Avoid him, his cals, msgs by al means no matter wat it takes n also mk sure Ʊ dnt also reach out to him cos commitn adultery is a mortal sin n cn break ur home. I do it too to my ex bf wen I'm in a new r/shp n it wrks perfectly wel. Get closer to ur huby nw n make out wt him often. Den ask God to also tk ur mind off him. God help u
Delete all contacts u have with him and tell him emphatically not to connect you again..Don't try it cause if not now,it wld hunt u later on.its not jst you it has happened to,others wld have passed thru it and definitely overcame,u also can overcome.God help you.
Too bad you left your husband to be and settled with a man who isn't meant to be your husband.Most men lie and you can't do nothing about it.just learn to take everything he says with a pinch of salt.sorry luv,you've gotta stick with your husband.#ForBetterForWorse
wat r u still looking 4 wen u hv such a caring man.u said he lied wen u were frnds and u wnts 2 go back 2 him again.r u a leaner,it's a sin b4 God.pls dnt try it,he jst wnts 2 cause problem btw u and u hubby.
U made a big mistake,u shuld never make ur ex ur bestfriend, it ll definitely rekindle old memories back.Ur ex doesn't love u,love is not selfish .he knows u r married yet he sent naked picture of his,don't use ur hand to scatter ur home nd cry "had I known"nd blame d devil,I pity u bcs u ll surely av lot of tinz to loss. My advice is 4 u too confide in d man dat loves u ,don't keep such secret from ur hubby..it ll make u start infatuating tinz abt ur ex.
You don't love him more dear, all you need is a big dick. Tell your husband to use enlargement pills if you're so desperate, ashawo ten kobo *tongue out* -baby face
y du u even ve to keep ur ex as a mutual frnd to b honest with u ex will never c anyfing kud in u or ur marrage if u knw wot is kud for u block every contact u ve with him if truly u luv u hubby + ur marrage cheers #THAT AKWA IBOM BOY
Get the devil behind you my dear... u should change your line, block him from fbk, twitter, delete him from ur bbm. Forget abt him because his evil, if his not trying to ruin your happiness he won't send ur such pix. My dear his just flirting with u and also trying ur intelligence...Concentrate on ur man. Thank you
Cut all communications with him.. How can u b friends with someone u once loved to the extent that u can tell him everything?.. What did u think was going to come out of it in the first place?.. Girl, things don't work that way. And if you have anything to do with him I can promise you that NOTHING GOOD will ever come out of it. So all you should do is occupy your head with your husband, have sex with him like you've never done before, talk with him like you've never done before, think of all the good things he has done for you, instead of thinking of ur ex occupy your mind with all the incredible sex you've had with your husband and don't forget God, because without Him your equation will not be balanced. He can give you the strength to do all things if you ask(I'm believing u r a christian or atleast you believe in something, so ask for strength). All the best my dear
Don't ruin your happy marriage darling, we have d ability to control our emotions so try and get every thots abt sex wt ur ex out of your head. You broke up wt him for a good reason so why let his dick rule your thots now. Forget him for good. Try avoid talking with him too often and keep ur marriage issues away fron him. Its not healthy for an ex to be involved wt ur marital issues.
Honest advice! Delete him. Stop chatting with him. Or else u will loose ur home nn u won't still ave him. N if u are bold enof, talk to ur hubby about it.if he really loves u.he will help get out of that mess. If not ehn, u are headed for d rocks n mark my words, d end will be horrible. And u will hate ur self n that guy.make up ur mind now n be determined before it's too late.
You have committed adultery on every front...emotionally by having conversations with your ex that you can't tell your hubby about.and physically by fantasizing about his penis. By the way...your ex probably sees you as a whore and doesn't value you or your marriage. Which is why he had the gutts to send a picture of his to you.
Pls I beg u in God's name..do not be tempted,,focus on ur husband and kids...nd u gonna be surprise on how much u adore them...ur ex is just a distraction
Don't ruin your happy marriage darling, we have d ability to control our emotions so try and get every thots abt sex wt ur ex out of your head. You broke up wt him for a good reason so why let his dick rule your thots now. Forget him for good. Try avoid talking with him too often and keep ur marriage issues away fron him. Its not healthy for an ex to be involved wt ur marital issues.
My dear am a guy sometimes it happens but plz don't cheat on your husband. Pray to God with your bible read psalms am sure it will help you. Plz don't cheat.
Lol! Linda there's nothing we'd say or do to stop this lady from cheating on her husband at dis stage...d body has demanded, and she must go collect from d oda guy...she has that mental representation of his *u know wat* already so she won't be satisfied until she rides it...
This is where self control and the fear of God comes in my dear. Being married don't mean u wunt get attracted to another but before u go any further, think of the consequences is it worth it? Is risking ur marriage over mere lust worth it n to tink that its d same liar from the past...... Wheeeew! Come on girl really?
U must be having an hard time wit ur husband for u to still be chatting wit ur ex but for my suggestion I think u should let him go or else u will be gettin into shit try nd make up wit ur husband nd stay more closer av lot of fun wit ur husband nd stop chatting wit ur ex
Well, everybody gets that feeling especially if your ex was very good in bed. Solution is just stop communicating with your ex. That's all. Rededicate your life to christ, love your husband and leave your ex where he belongs(The past).
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Just get sexy and seduce your husband. Or better still fuck him like a cowgirl. It's only a penis, you'll get over it. Or does it mean you fantasise about every penis picture or porn you see? Maybe you should have your husband's dick on your phone to keep your head straight...at least he has a penis. too.
Are you really sure u don't want insults? Bcos u hav com 2 d den of lions and u shdnt expect not 2 get hurt..Anyway, I will tell u 2 cut off d ties u hav wit ur ex, a little bit extreme bt if u want 2 save ur mind and ur marriage, u wud do so. Otherwise, u shd hav expressed ur disapproval immediately he send d pix and warned him not 2 do such again but it seems to me, u do not possess a strong will and dat is very dangerous 4 d future, so just cut off every coonection with him NOW and oh, Enjoy d blast 4rm LIBers. **drops mic**
Lol. But u re actually a fool. U gave him d opportunity to cos u nursed d feeling of wanting to be with him. U re married! And he's ur ex!! U re not content with what u av. Stop chatting with him and I feel u shd tell ur husband.
You asked for trouble when you got to telling your ex anything. Sure you can be friends with your ex but there has to be a limit to what you can tell him/her. Ordinarily, there are things you should not tell other people about,not to talk of telling your ex. Well, if you want to keep your marriage, I suggest that you first of all delete the said pic if you haven't done that already. Then stop talking with him totally, else he will keep messing with your head. He doesn't have anything to lose whether you remain faithful to your husband or not but sweetheart, you've got so so much to lose including your sanity if you keep on playing with fire because that is what it is. I hope you take the best decision for yourself.
Am almost in d same boat as u. Just dat am not married. I can't get d pic of a close male friend's/toaster's dick outta my head. Like..d dick is bigggg
Wow! So you are torn between a husband that loves you and a guy that wants to destroy your family(what you have built for 3 years). So much for the power sex, it literally shuts down your brain preventing you from proper reasoning.
Your ex is been selfish and only cares about what he wants, you don't call such person a friend. If he cares, he will do the best for you, your daughter and your family. And not trying to destroy what you have built for 3 years.
If you love your family as much as you claim to, you will pick them over this ex of yours. It is simple opportunity cost.
Start by deleting his pictures, messages and numbers. A 20mins pleasure at the expense of what you have built for 3 years isn't worth it. Think of your child, you need to be a wonderful role model for him/her.
Great guys like your husband should also know that sweet dirty sex is an important part of showering their women with love.
You can't navigate this situation without God's help. May the Holy spirit guide you through this difficult period and help you make the right decisions both spiritually and morally.
DO NOT! That'll be the end of your happy marraige, besides it's adultery. Delete your ex off bbm or whatever means you contact and focus on your husband's dick.
Hey gurl u spoilt evritin frm d beginning!why maintain a friendship wit an ex?it doesn't end right!flee frm Temptation which means do nt start wat cn lead u into it..gurl once u start u can't stop and u wil be caught and u mite end up loosing dis happy life u ve nw!u dnt luv ur ex u luv d idea of him I.e Sex..u btr delete him frm ur life rite dis second.afta Sex wt next?gurl u btr stick to ur hubby...and bind d devil*Ex*..... Xoxo Charmie
Idiot... If ur ex was that good, why you still keeping such a close relationship such that u start getting emotional? It all boils down to women not knowing exactly what they want and also very covetous. If ur husband finds out now and he starts acting weird or perceive you in a certain way, you start saying he is not a man, such thing is not new... Blah blah blah.... Which human being man or woman can stand his or her partner cheating or keeping such relationship with her ex? You are about to ruin what God has blessed you with and I pray your husband finds out and make you pay for such an ungrateful act.... Idiot
Wow! So you are torn between a husband that loves you and a guy that wants to destroy your family(what you have built for 3 years). So much for the power sex, it literally shuts down your brain preventing you from proper reasoning.
Your ex is been selfish and only cares about what he wants, you don't call such person a friend. If he cares, he will do the best for you, your daughter and your family. And not trying to destroy what you have built for 3 years.
If you love your family as much as you claim to, you will pick them over this ex of yours. It is simple opportunity cost.
Start by deleting his pictures, messages and numbers. A 20mins pleasure at the expense of what you have built for 3 years isn't worth it. Think of your child, you need to be a wonderful role model for him/her.
Great guys like your husband should also know that sweet dirty sex is an important part of showering their women with love.
You can't navigate this situation without God's help. May the Holy spirit guide you through this difficult period and help you make the right decisions both spiritually and morally.
Madam, do u want to keep ur marriage? Cut off all interactions with that dude! Delete his number, and delete him from bbm or whatever contacts u have wit him. The Bible says flee from every appearance of evil...u r about to get swept away and never return if u don't flee nw! Besides, what sorta dude taunts and tempts a married woman!!! Poor husband...doesn't knw what madam's finking all the time! Such is life tho!
U r just a v.greedy child.....commonsensically u know wat to do, stop talking like u need some psychotherapeutic attention. Pls cheat or rather end ur marriage....dere's always a result. I know u o.
Wow! So you are torn between a husband that loves you and a guy that wants to destroy your family(what you have built for 3 years). So much for the power sex, it literally shuts down your brain preventing you from proper reasoning.
Your ex is been selfish and only cares about what he wants, you don't call such person a friend. If he cares, he will do the best for you, your daughter and your family. And not trying to destroy what you have built for 3 years.
If you love your family as much as you claim to, you will pick them over this ex of yours. It is simple opportunity cost.
Start by deleting his pictures, messages and numbers. A 20mins pleasure at the expense of what you have built for 3 years isn't worth it. Think of your child, you need to be a wonderful role model for him/her.
Great guys like your husband should also know that sweet dirty sex is an important part of showering their women with love.
You can't navigate this situation without God's help. May the Holy spirit guide you through this difficult period and help you make the right decisions both spiritually and morally.
Making ur ex ur confidant was the biggest mistake u made. Every one gets vulnerable at one point and he will definitely take advantage of it when the chance arises...and he did. Are u looking for a fling with him or something serious? Nne u better weigh ur options and do what's right for u now and in the future. The sex will last for at most 30 minutes before the guilt sets in, and u wont stop there....eventually ur hubby will find out and wahala go bust. Just appreciate what u have cos good men are hella hard to find out there! Look around u well well and see babes in their late 20s and 30s/40s still single and searching....and remember the unhappily married ones that even get beat up on a daily and those that have to stay up all night waiting on their promiscuous hubbies to come home. U are lucky, pls don't take this man's goodness for granted. That ur ex is evil...u are married with a kid and he's still trying to seduce u? What do u want with such a man that has no conscience, or boundaries? Do u think he will respect u and have such boundaries if ur union breaks up and u end up with him? I hope u make the best choice....but do not use ur hand to destroy ur marriage or cause enmity between u and ur hubby....possibly causing him to go outside and seek comfort in the arms of another woman! It will be almost impossible to get things back to the way they were at that point. Biko severe all contacts with this ur ex entirely! U will miss him but trust me u will get over him. And if he has no decorum wo respect ur marriage best believe he is messing with other chics on the side too so do not feel special. Good luck!
what kind of man sends a picture of his dick to a married woman,no respect and you are thinking and dreaming of a man dat has no respect for u plz biko delete his number and any form of contact until u loose ur husband then u will realise wat u have or had.
Who the gods want to kill they first make mad. My dear the image can leave ur head if u want it to. First I don't believe in remaining "close" friends with exses coz they do more harm than good. Secondly pls u need to tell urself the truth n that is, u re married n shouldn't ve anything with a guy who is clearly out to ruin ur marraige n pls break all forms of communication with him unless u don't value ur home. Oh one more thing, its TGIF so screw ur hubby hard n get d image of that home recker off ur mind. Chao! Sweet anonymous.
Girl get ur act Together and grow up!!!! U have a good husband stay There Nd work on ur marriage.is it pennis u ve never seen before or u ve never tasted before.of course passion is a crazy tyn u can not hold down but Sis get urself together nd school ur mind nd talk to urself.cos if u allow ur fomer passion to spoil d good place u re in.trust me u will regret it.stop. Chattin with him. nd being friends with him is a no! No!.cheatin is nt just sex,telling him everytyn is emotional cheatin cos dats wat u shuld discuss with ur husband.now pull urself togeda,cut off frm this guy cos he is ur past nd face ur future which is ur husband nd family.they re too precious to give up for old flames.period!!!!
FIRST OF ALL,DEAR..YOU HAVE TO GET HIM OFF UR MIND..I KNOW THAT ITS NOT EASY,BUT YOU HAVE TO DO IT IF YOU DONT WANT YOUR MARRIAGE TO CRASH.. I THINK YOUR HUSBND IS NOT SATISFYING YOU WELL COS IF HE DOES,I DONT SEE WHY U WANA GO CRAZY OVER AMODA GUYS PENNIS WHICH UR HUSBAND ALSO POSSES..
JUST FORGET ABOUT THE GOOD TIMES U HAD WITH THIS UR EX AND ENGAGE YOURSELF IN THINGS THAT WILL BUILD YOUR PRESSENT MARRIAGE..MAKE I TELL YOU:MEN ARE SCARCE OOH,
Get yoursef together hooker! Sorry...Whore! Inshort Hoe! Ahn ahn.. U want take dick ruin ur marriage? Please introduce me to d guy tho, am longing for him! ;)
I believe you encouraged your ex to send dat pic, just like uv heard from other comments, dis smouldering fire will burn u cos ur husband will find out! D minute you allow ur ex nack you akpako, ur behaviour will change and daddy will notice!
what kind of man sends a picture of his dick to a married woman,no respect and you are thinking and dreaming of a man dat has no respect for u plz biko delete his number and any form of contact until u loose ur husband then u will realise wat u have or had.
Loox, like your current hubby is deficient in the Great Fuck Department. I advise going for sex counselling. Suggest it to him gently, when you are on holiday.
You go with the other guy, [Penis pic] it will end in tears. You cannot have everything. No one, has it all; Even if they do, it never lasts.
i'll be honest with you my dear,until you nack the guy, your head and eye no go clear!!tricky situation, cos unlike most people, i do believe you can be friends with your ex, the problem occurs when you are in denial about not being over the person..In your case You are a bad boy lover, your husband just fulfills your material needs but the real deal is with bruce-lie..Go for deliverance #contactJim
You women can't just get enough...nice husband and still na dick dey distort you. The man is good wahala he's bad problem, he's caring crime. What do u want? U need Jesus!
A man that can sleep with another man's wife, can kill the woman's hussy to have his way. U re playing dangerous game. A word Is enough for the wise. Sweet anonymous.
I think loosing contact with him will be a good start.your are married now, so u just have to forget about him.
ReplyDeleteI actually wish ur husband finds out cos u r a bad woman...he is ur ex for a reason, why dont u just freaking let him stay in d past now dat u r married...and for u guys to evn talk about intimate stuff like dat, dont u know d so called ex knows wat he is doing? He just wants to ruin ur home..and pls if u claim u love him den evn wit all d lies, u shouldnt av left him..ewu, leave ur husband and go for d fool dat tells lies cos of his penis.we women never learn sha.....idiot. .
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you dont need to be insulted just know that you married and whats wrong with you is OJUKOKORO AINI ITELORUN.. LONGERTHROAT! Learn to be contented with what you have! delete the pix and stop talking with him.. and increase the number of sex with your husband ASAP
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DeleteI concur.
DeletePerfect example of why nice guys finish last. The good husband is there being a good, loving and caring husband but the wife still wants the lying ex boyfriend who sends penis pics to married women.
ReplyDeleteMy advice to you men..Treat em mean, keep em keen. Girls respond to a challenge and don't like things easy. Applies to 90% of girls
Soo true, I dnt fall for simple men... I love the slightly complicated ones
DeleteGo and meet him na....u ve a husband wat else do u want? U dnt knw hw its doin u o.
ReplyDeleteDrink acid it will format ur brain. Jonk wife
ReplyDeleteAbeg no kill me with laugh
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Good advice, u have a good man and den still tink of ur ex original jonk wife
DeleteThen jump out of your skin now. Snap your husbands pen** and look at it maybe it will erase ur exes own. Biko stop chatting with your ex. Its your past, move on.
ReplyDeleteIf really u love ǔȓ husband as u said, then u should stop any form of communication with ǔȓ ex-boy frnd if ñ✽t he will destroy ǔȓ marriage
ReplyDeleteWhy r u chatting with ur ex when u claim to be happily married
ReplyDeleteHow do u think ur husband will feel if he finds out?
'Cos he will eventually
Go fuck him! Release the tension. My two cents
ReplyDeleteMy dear you need to distant yourself from him if not you will only realize you have lied to your husband just to go sleep with your ex, and the morning after will not be good for you ESP if you got a conscience.
ReplyDeleteHmmm.. Serious issue
ReplyDeletePls pray to God to help u resist d temptation
Be smart repent of ur evil ways
ReplyDeleteFirst things first darlyn.friendship wit your. Ex can't work.start by cutting that off.he doesn't love u he jus wants to spoil your relationship with your family.think abt all you v to loose by shattering your home.face your marriage and ve hawt. Sex wv ur boo regularly.lol it wil gt that liar's dick outa ur head
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ReplyDeleteSo you have done something like this before ?
DeleteAm going through same too..its not always an easy past to let go..trust me
ReplyDeleteSee mumu ooh.....stick too your husband...forget the playboy
ReplyDeleteOhhh Madam You Have Come To The Right Place!! Ma Dear you saw his and nearly jumped out of your skin eh kwa?? Well you have not seeing Mine cause you go Take Banana Till You Go YO!!
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DeleteOk so make we no insult u but wait what happen to ur husband penis u don chop that one finish, idiot.
ReplyDeleteLWKMD @''I almost jumped out of my skin''.....oh girl you are as horny as the JEZEBELS of BADOO. Conji wey hold you fit full one tanker!
ReplyDeleteBabes you didn't have to put our business out there...just text me back and you can have that hot rod anytime you want...I know you miss it
ReplyDeleteHaaaa ode, fool you wish you were d one she was refering to... abg go use vaseline
DeleteWoman Hold Thy Self...That Is furnication...If u fear God den don't do it and as for that ur ex, he's not a gud guy, knowing the fact dat ur married and did wht he did, den I beg to pls stop associating wt him cos he might land u in trouble
ReplyDeleteU re a bi fool. A married woman viewing another man's dick nd u cnt stop thinking of him u better ask God to forgive u bitch. Stick to ur man or better go stay wit ur broke ass long dick ex fool
ReplyDeleteSleep over it.
ReplyDeleteI dnt know y women love dick shey ur husband own no reach u ashawo
ReplyDeleteu just a perve bitch, well u can decide to end something good for ur fucked up craving.....the choice is urs.
ReplyDeleteErmmmm woman... Off course u know u shall receive insults. What is wrong with ladies these days. U get a man that loves u and all, instead on focusing on him u r focusing on ur useless EX who would bang u just to boost his ego that he can get u whenever he wants and move to the next chick. Well if he's sending u pics of his dick, he clearly dnt respect u or ur marriage. U need Jesus clearly. Mschwwww. Next!
ReplyDeleteJst pray abt it,dats all I cn tink of
ReplyDeletecan u imagine n listen 2 ursef ...gueeez pls stay away 4rm him b4 u kill ur matrimonial home wit ur sili ex bullshit .abi na
ReplyDeleteCheap whore face ur husband dat loves u nd live ur ex dick alone mad woman
ReplyDeleteWhere ever you are, may you find comfort with Shigidi's Penis. Oloriburuku Omo ale jati jati . Please linda to other issues abeg.
ReplyDeleteThen marry him or her pls not errrything shud be aired
ReplyDeleteMy dear this life is complicated. I would advise you get the thought of him out of your head and focus on building a happy family with your husband and kids. We can't always get what we want in this life but at this stage girl, your ex is extremely bad news. If he lies to you he'll never respect you. You only want him more now because you know you can't have him. Trust me that feeling will die once you seize to communicate with him. I hope this helps.
ReplyDeleteYou obviously do not really expect that you won't be insulted.that said,don't be stupid.you better stop playing with fire otherwise,you will come back to this blog to tell us they have caught you and your stuff has been thrown out.
ReplyDeleteBelieve me, thats not love, he just wants to have sex with yu by so doing destroying ur marriage..... Sending his dick to yu,thats a clear indication... I suggest yu dlete that rubbish as soon as possible bcos if ur husband sees it he will stop trusting yu and when their is no trust in a relationship that relationship or marriage is completely destroyed...... Think about it and make wise a decision and dont forget yu nw have a kid....
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pls dnt do wat ur mind is tellin u , u r married pls be faithful to ur spouse pls
ReplyDeleteI almost insulted you but stopped not because u pleaded but because I want to receive holy communion on Sunday.
ReplyDeleteI feel for your husband the good man at the receiving end. I pray he catches u and ur ex oneday.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310
Bonario o! Lmao
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DeleteMy own 2kobo is go look at your hubby's penis&keep that image in your head.
ReplyDeleteU need deliverance abeg. Wetin u want make we advise u. U wat make we say go fuck ur ex?. Women nd their fish brain later u will start saying men re wicked wen u present urself as a married cheap whore
ReplyDeleteMadam, d simple truth is dat u dont love ur husband.and if u dont stop watsoever u hav wit dis ur ex, dat guy will break ur home if u are nt careful
ReplyDeleteLol did u just ask people nt to insult u? Ok pls keep longing for him,when u done search for him nd do what u heart pleases aii? @X!!!
ReplyDeleteFirst off, I'm sorry but I'm gonna insult you. You are a very daft woman, and that ex of your has no shame whatsoever. How will you be married and have your ex so close to you that you can discuss anything with him??? What happened to your husband? Is he not supposed to be the person you can tell anything? Now your ex has taken the place of your husband emotionally. YOu better cut him loose. He is not a man...to even go as far as sending you his dick pic?? naaa mehn!
ReplyDeleteHere's my candid advice! Look at the so you have with your husband (that is if he's even the father, how am I sure you did not marry him for comfort?? You should have married your ex naaa)....back to what I was saying, have a good look at your Son, do you love him (your son), do you want to see him grow up in a stable home? or would you want him to grow up in a broken home?...if you don't, then bitch delete that guy from your mind and phone, never be in touch with him anymore, he has gone too far! you wanna be with him? you should really have married him....oh no, but you knew he was a two timer!
Dear Libers, this is what happens when you keep having sex with the person you are dating, you get married to someone else and you begin to think of your ex sexing you!
#my2cents...Vex dey catch me abeg!
Stop every contact with him so u can concentrate on ur marriage if not u end up fantasing on it and this might distract u from ur hubby and I bet u if u're given a chance to go back u might just discover he is not worth all that. It's just a lie of the devil to distract u from ur God 's given gift which is ur hubby. Trust me, stay focused on ur hubby n u will find out u're not missing anything. N pls n pls stop d indecent chat with him cos it might put u in trouble n if u ask dis same dude to marry u, he will not so pls stop n focus on ur home. My ten kobo
ReplyDeleteFace ur home, ur ex ÈŠ̝̊̅§ the devil himself. Dnt break ur marriage cuz of Satan. Abeg Oo°˚˚˚°!
ReplyDeleteJust be prayerful...................you will definitely forget his MANHOOD/PENIS.
ReplyDeleteI have three words for you: "you are a fool".
ReplyDeleteYour husband and child deserves better, hope in catches you out in time. If you can do this then you can do way worse. If you are not happy then you simply leave the relationship, don't ruin his life because of your selfishness.
Bia linda okoye must u post any senseless question here
ReplyDeleteGo fuck na
ReplyDeleteI can imagine what you are passing through. I have been married for 14yrs yet I am still in love with my ex. He is the one that knows me in and out, I can tell him everything. We went our separate ways blc of health incompatibilities. Outsiders may not understand. I feel you can only fall in love once. I love my husband but I can lay my life for my ex, mind you we are not sleeping together but that love that is pure, strong. He has been married for 2yrs now yet when we talk we forget about the whole world. Back to you, are you in love with him or are you missing your love making? Know exactly what you want so that you won't miss what you have. If it is his manhood you are on your way to adultery, come back before it is late. If you love him candidly, go ahead, you can't stop loving someone you love deeply no matter what they do to you, but since you are happily married turn that love into sisterly or motherly love. You will be happy, he will be happy and your marriage will be saved. My dear, it is not easy to stay away form your REAL love but when you are left with no choice you move ahead, bottle up the fun memories, lock it up safely, bring it out once in a while go through it and save it for another day. I strongly believe you can only LOVE ONCE. Others are likeness, fondness, infatuation, appreciation, resting place etc but just one person have that key that can unlock the secret place of your heart even in utmost darkness. Be careful there, you are infatuated with his manhood, it is not love. Run before you loose what you have.
ReplyDeleteI love u for this
DeleteU re jst bin childish. U neva c penis before? Forget dan guy n enjoy ur nice husband. If u are horny, den fuck ur husband. If u try it u will forever regret it.
ReplyDeleteIn a second thought, this a gud script for a movie.... May God lead yu into making a gud decision though......
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ReplyDeleteGo kill urSelf untop dick
ReplyDeleteYou have a happy home but the devil has come to steal, kill and destroy the home you and your husband have built for three years. Recognize what this is- the devil's bait to lose your happy home.
ReplyDeleteExtremely foolish for even trying to contact an ex and ask for pic of that while married.i understand u can get carried away but do not let it even get to that stage..I think it's highly irresponsible for u to be chatting with an ex u still have feelings for while married..I would insult you cos u caused this urself..u better start puttin image of your husbands penis in ur head and ko ma pon la...as my hubby would call it...this is y my hubby cannot even stand the idea of me still saying hi to my ex.i don't know y we women always go for men that don't love us and leave the one that adore us..Iv learnt my own lesson and I won't even try it .again.u better hold who loves u more and leave lust aside..Lin Lin abeg next pls
ReplyDeleteHappened to me. I cut all contact from him. It's a constant battle, i constantly have to push him out of my head. I hate it when he jumps into my head while i am having sex with my hubby and only come when i think it's him. This is the price to pay for having sex before marriage. I av accepted my cross and I hope i will win this battle someday. The guy was a cheat. If i ever try to see him alone, i won't be able to resist him!
ReplyDeleteHappened to me. I cut all contact from him. It's a constant battle, i constantly have to push him out of my head. I hate it when he jumps into my head while i am having sex with my hubby and only come when i think it's him. This is the price to pay for having sex before marriage. I av accepted my cross and I hope i will win this battle someday. The guy was a cheat. If i ever try to see him alone, i won't be able to resist him!
ReplyDeleteStop every contact with him so u can concentrate on ur marriage if not u end up fantasing on it and this might distract u from ur hubby and I bet u if u're given a chance to go back u might just discover he is not worth all that. It's just a lie of the devil to distract u from ur God 's given gift which is ur hubby. Trust me, stay focused on ur hubby n u will find out u're not missing anything. N pls n pls stop d indecent chat with him cos it might put u in trouble n if u ask dis same dude to marry u, he will not so pls stop n focus on ur home. My ten kobo
ReplyDeleteU need a deliberate self discipline to get him and his penis outta ur head.
ReplyDeleteI mean u've got a guy every woman longs for.just be determined and u will do it hun?
Good one cute G.my tots exactly.
DeleteYou are very right.
DeleteTry to get d image off ur head n stick to ur loving husband or else u re heading to disaster. And warn him not to send u such picture again n never allow him to discuss to length with u again. The best way to erase such emotion is tru staying away from dat person. My ex girl ve bn begging me to see her since she got married few years ago but I ve bn posting her cos I don't want to sleep with somebody wife. Kindly respect ur marriage
ReplyDeleteU already knw u deserve insult u av already cheated on ur hubby for u to want ur ex bside wat r u still doing chattin witl him or ur hubby not as gud as him.. u r just a spolt bitch u even av d God's to write it out hissssss
ReplyDeleteguts oo nt God's
DeleteOjai says" try and get him off ur head and if u can, cease chatting with him. I knw its nt easy becos we r all human and it can happen to anyone. Rem, ur family is gold. If ur hubby gets to knw abt this and asks u out of the house, that ur ex will never marr you oooo. Just eject him from ur memory, biko
ReplyDeleteNa na na. You shouldn't have and should never have continued to be his friend especially when you knew how much u loved him. Plsssssss cut off all communication with him ASAP if you don't want to break your home.
ReplyDeleteWHAT THE HELL WERE U THINKING? You want to break your home cos of a sex organ! Come on babe, get a grip. Jeez. Some women sha!
U are mad u need help
ReplyDeleteMake ur husband see d picture of anoda man blucos 4 ur fone, u go talk d kinda explainition wen u go give am. And from the way u sound, be like ur ex bLucos dey live mountain of zion, why ur hubby dey shekele so dem nor resemble. U berra delete ur ex priCk mAke u focuS on ur hubby own if u knw wats good 4 u. AShawokobokobo
ReplyDeleteHahahahhahah @blucos...lib readers una no go kill me o
DeleteSorry dear! But ur such a piss of s**t!!!!! Oops!! My bad! But girl friend, u have a good thing ont screw itt up. Delete your ex!
ReplyDeleteyou are mad!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteI don't think being frnds with him is doing any good cos he's in d past and let him remain there in ur life... U have ur husband, u can tell him anything no matter how weird! Cut him off ur life and delete d image... Thank u
ReplyDeleteMy candi advice to u is to take it off ur mind if actually u love ur husband. To be honest wit u d dick he sent to u is d same thing wit ur husband's own.. plz be a responsible wife to ur husband.
ReplyDeleteYou're not over him
ReplyDeleteYou will be insulted oh! The truth is you never really got over your boyfriend and lying and not being serious is not enough reason for you to break up with a person, unless there is something you are hiding. You played with fire and you were burnt, thankfully not bad, best thing to do is cut ALL communication with him, go meet your hubby and screw his brains out and hope to God, it erases that memory.
ReplyDeleteCut him off... stop dat friendship or ruin ur marriage! he obviously still wants u but at d expense of ur marriage, and dats really selfish of him
ReplyDeleteYou need to cut off link with your ex, that's the truth you seek.....
ReplyDeleteDo it fast or you will regret it.
That means u don't luv ur husband ....the truth of the matter is u like the way ur ex Handle u on bed....oga ooooo,u beta stay where u are....there's no good man out there ooooo....na dick full outside
ReplyDeletefirst, u brought this upon yourself. your is meant to be your bestfriend, your companion, som1 you tell any and everything to. the truth is that u know the truth. you've always loved ur ex more and u wer hiding under the cover of being close friends and telling him everything. my advice cut off the communication totally. cut off the eye that makes you to sin unless u dnt love ur marriage and child that much...
ReplyDeleteYou are a very stupid woman, you said we should not insult you, but you know the obvious answer, if you don't, you won't second guess yourself.
ReplyDeleteSlow news day.....yawn
ReplyDeletefirst thing! cut ties with him, cz clearly he wud continue 2 b a distraction!
ReplyDeletesecond have it at the back of ur mind that if u do enitin wiv ur ex it wud only b a fling and u wud ruin somefin great for something temporary
Talk to linda about it cos she adores huge dick too! Hpe that helps *smiles*
ReplyDeleteThe Devil is using you
ReplyDeleteStick to ur hubby pls no fornication, pray to God u will get ur ex off ur mind@mercy
ReplyDeleteThe guy has your mumu button
ReplyDeleteDivorce ¥Æ¡ur husband fool,becos øƒ͡ penis
ReplyDeleteYou don't love or appreciate your husband. abs you can't be trusted.
ReplyDeleteTalk it out with ur husband. He has the answers.
Deletestop chatting with your ex, you have a good husband and u want to make a mistake?, please and please cut all ties with ur ex.
ReplyDeletesome people really do no know what they have. smh
All you need is to cut that your ex off and back it up with prayer cos the devil might use him to destroy ur marriage...ekwuchakwaaam
ReplyDeleteWhat do you want LiBers to say now, that u should follow your heart and cheat on your hubby? No, this is no dating relationship, its a marriage institution, you took vows, so kill those emotions and sit your butt down, your husband is a good man and doesn't deserve that, if he was a bad man that will be easier, but u said it your self he's nice, so how will u live with your self after you cheat on him.
ReplyDeleteWoman get on ur knees right now n begin to bind aany spirit of adultery.....aving done dt pls kindly limit ur chats wit him cos honey he does nt love u n respect u cos if he did he wont send u a pix of his Johnny....be wise gal cos he wants sex n if u succumb.....u b d one loosing cos he gat nuttin to loose y nt delete him frm ur social media frnds......u cn still send him text (casual n inspirational text) nd lets see if he wont flee frm u.....Thank you
ReplyDeleteMy dear, just ignore that feeling. That is the devil trying to lure you to commiting adultery and you know adultery is something that is difficult to stop once started....pls think about the vow you took on the holy alter, what will Jesus do?
ReplyDeleteMy dear, get over your Ex, if he loved you that much, he would have married you, don't be some one's side chick.
lmao. such a funny post. Is ur husbands dick small??
ReplyDeleteU ar so stupid so ur husband don,t hav d same penis?
ReplyDeleteNa wao o madam abeg make up your mind!
ReplyDeleteSee Gist! You won’t believe what happened
Sweetie stay focused,ur husband's Dick is beta Dan he's**lol**divy
ReplyDeleteTell him to give U a break. Honestly,why is it that we women don't always appreciate nice guys,most times we prefer the ones that bully us,the ones that don't even value us. U better be carefull before U loose your husband.that your x want to scatter your home, cos am very sure that he won't like another man to do with his future wife what he is doing with U.
ReplyDeleteU can decide to ruin ur marriage for the penis of ur ex,,,,nd then ruin ur perfect marriage...ñå u Sabi...GOODLUCK JONATHAN
ReplyDeleteLol, you're a hoe fam...jus accept the fact that you are!!!!
ReplyDeleteYou are on the edge already.
ReplyDeleteI tell people, you can't be married and the opposite sex is your best friend it amounts to serving two masters.
In my opinion your best friend as a couple should be your wife/husband.
That’s why i preach marrying your friend/confidant to avoid the case in question.
But sha Linda this story na Fabuuu!
Omazo
we call dis ojukokoro in yoruba. Haaba!
ReplyDeleteYou need Jesus
ReplyDeleteHmmm! Let me think. Break every r/ship wit ur ex or u will find urself cheating wit him in no time.
ReplyDeleteReally? you dont want insults? u av a new life now... u need to remember that. if you love ur family, u will get him out of ur head. u dnt av to ruin the good tins u already have. wake up
ReplyDeleteThats why im never comfortable with Xes remaining "very good friends" especially when you said you guys can talk about anything...That's just the recipe for disaster
ReplyDeleteI av same problem...mine is different cos am not yet married. Av broken up wit ma ex 4 ova 2 yrs now n av stil not gotten ova him. I still luv him evn more dan ma recent boyfriend
ReplyDeletefirst to comment…yay!!!
ReplyDeleteAnyways, darling, the solution is simple…you are in serious need of some sweet sweet loving dick….either u suck it real hard or someone screw your brains with it real gud…anyone u prefer. But as I said, the solution is simple, 4 letters, One Word: DICK!
It's clear ur current guy doesn't have correct size thats why ur wondering about the better D u were getting from ur ex…stop dreaming make ur dreams a reality…go suck dick. Shikina!
Keep ur ex where he belongs,IN D PAST,ur Problem is u r still holding on.JAY.
ReplyDeleteHe's not ur friend and he doesn't love you. He knows you are happy and he wants to ruin it, silly thing is, you are leting him. Godluck ruininng ur life
ReplyDeleteSincerely avoid contactn him no matter hw hard ÈŠ̝̊̅†̥ is. Evn if ЂƸ̵ calls give escuses y Ʊ cnt tlk for long. If ЂƸ̵ snd msgs give him close ended answers. N dnt rply A̶̲̥̅̊â„“â„“
ReplyDeletetink any guy wit brains wil strt gettn d pic. Avoid him, his cals, msgs by al means no matter wat it takes n also mk sure Ʊ dnt also reach out to him cos commitn adultery is a mortal sin n cn break ur home. I do it too to my ex bf wen I'm in a new r/shp n it wrks perfectly wel. Get closer to ur huby nw n make out wt him often. Den ask God to also tk ur mind off him. God help u
Delete all contacts u have with him and tell him emphatically not to connect you again..Don't try it cause if not now,it wld hunt u later on.its not jst you it has happened to,others wld have passed thru it and definitely overcame,u also can overcome.God help you.
ReplyDeleteYou have to be insulted!!!
ReplyDeleteToo bad you left your husband to be and settled with a man who isn't meant to be your husband.Most men lie and you can't do nothing about it.just learn to take everything he says with a pinch of salt.sorry luv,you've gotta stick with your husband.#ForBetterForWorse
ReplyDeletewat r u still looking 4 wen u hv such a caring man.u said he lied wen u were frnds and u wnts 2 go back 2 him again.r u a leaner,it's a sin b4 God.pls dnt try it,he jst wnts 2 cause problem btw u and u hubby.
ReplyDeleteU made a big mistake,u shuld never make ur ex ur bestfriend, it ll definitely rekindle old memories back.Ur ex doesn't love u,love is not selfish .he knows u r married yet he sent naked picture of his,don't use ur hand to scatter ur home nd cry "had I known"nd blame d devil,I pity u bcs u ll surely av lot of tinz to loss. My advice is 4 u too confide in d man dat loves u ,don't keep such secret from ur hubby..it ll make u start infatuating tinz abt ur ex.
ReplyDeleteYou don't love him more dear, all you need is a big dick. Tell your husband to use enlargement pills if you're so desperate, ashawo ten kobo *tongue out*
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well, i think you should just delete the guy and remove him totally from your life...you rally dont need that now
ReplyDeletey du u even ve to keep ur ex as a mutual frnd to b honest with u ex will never c anyfing kud in u or ur marrage if u knw wot is kud for u block every contact u ve with him if truly u luv u hubby + ur marrage cheers #THAT AKWA IBOM BOY
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ReplyDeleteGet the devil behind you my dear... u should change your line, block him from fbk, twitter, delete him from ur bbm. Forget abt him because his evil, if his not trying to ruin your happiness he won't send ur such pix. My dear his just flirting with u and also trying ur intelligence...Concentrate on ur man. Thank you
ReplyDeleteCut all communications with him.. How can u b friends with someone u once loved to the extent that u can tell him everything?.. What did u think was going to come out of it in the first place?.. Girl, things don't work that way. And if you have anything to do with him I can promise you that NOTHING GOOD will ever come out of it. So all you should do is occupy your head with your husband, have sex with him like you've never done before, talk with him like you've never done before, think of all the good things he has done for you, instead of thinking of ur ex occupy your mind with all the incredible sex you've had with your husband and don't forget God, because without Him your equation will not be balanced. He can give you the strength to do all things if you ask(I'm believing u r a christian or atleast you believe in something, so ask for strength). All the best my dear
ReplyDeleteDon't ruin your happy marriage darling, we have d ability to control our emotions so try and get every thots abt sex wt ur ex out of your head. You broke up wt him for a good reason so why let his dick rule your thots now. Forget him for good. Try avoid talking with him too often and keep ur marriage issues away fron him. Its not healthy for an ex to be involved wt ur marital issues.
ReplyDeleteHonest advice! Delete him. Stop chatting with him. Or else u will loose ur home nn u won't still ave him. N if u are bold enof, talk to ur hubby about it.if he really loves u.he will help get out of that mess. If not ehn, u are headed for d rocks n mark my words, d end will be horrible. And u will hate ur self n that guy.make up ur mind now n be determined before it's too late.
ReplyDeleteYou have committed adultery on every front...emotionally by having conversations with your ex that you can't tell your hubby about.and physically by fantasizing about his penis.
ReplyDeleteBy the way...your ex probably sees you as a whore and doesn't value you or your marriage. Which is why he had the gutts to send a picture of his to you.
Pls I beg u in God's name..do not be tempted,,focus on ur husband and kids...nd u gonna be surprise on how much u adore them...ur ex is just a distraction
ReplyDeleteLinda I hope I don't need to kill a cow as sacrifice to you b4 you post my comment
ReplyDeleteDon't ruin your happy marriage darling, we have d ability to control our emotions so try and get every thots abt sex wt ur ex out of your head. You broke up wt him for a good reason so why let his dick rule your thots now. Forget him for good. Try avoid talking with him too often and keep ur marriage issues away fron him. Its not healthy for an ex to be involved wt ur marital issues.
ReplyDeleteMy dear jst try as mch as possbl 2 4gt him,hez past nw nd u r married dnt let d devil make u commit sin!
ReplyDeleteMy dear am a guy sometimes it happens but plz don't cheat on your husband. Pray to God with your bible read psalms am sure it will help you. Plz don't cheat.
ReplyDeleteNah wahooo wit dis u ar showing hw not contempted u ar. I will advice u 2 let go of dat nd dnt break ur home wit ur own hand. Chikana
ReplyDeleteLol! Linda there's nothing we'd say or do to stop this lady from cheating on her husband at dis stage...d body has demanded, and she must go collect from d oda guy...she has that mental representation of his *u know wat* already so she won't be satisfied until she rides it...
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This is where self control and the fear of God comes in my dear. Being married don't mean u wunt get attracted to another but before u go any further, think of the consequences is it worth it? Is risking ur marriage over mere lust worth it n to tink that its d same liar from the past...... Wheeeew! Come on girl really?
ReplyDeleteU're a bllody cheat
ReplyDeleteIdiot...
ReplyDeleteU must be having an hard time wit ur husband for u to still be chatting wit ur ex but for my suggestion I think u should let him go or else u will be gettin into shit try nd make up wit ur husband nd stay more closer av lot of fun wit ur husband nd stop chatting wit ur ex
ReplyDeleteWell, everybody gets that feeling especially if your ex was very good in bed. Solution is just stop communicating with your ex. That's all. Rededicate your life to christ, love your husband and leave your ex where he belongs(The past).
ReplyDeletejust pray about and focus on ur marriage, so it wont have any negative influence on u ............to learn sportbetting tricks and tweaks online biz and importation biz updates kindly logon to http://onlinemoneygist.blogspot.com/
ReplyDeleteJust get sexy and seduce your husband. Or better still fuck him like a cowgirl. It's only a penis, you'll get over it. Or does it mean you fantasise about every penis picture or porn you see? Maybe you should have your husband's dick on your phone to keep your head straight...at least he has a penis. too.
ReplyDeleteAre you really sure u don't want insults? Bcos u hav com 2 d den of lions and u shdnt expect not 2 get hurt..Anyway, I will tell u 2 cut off d ties u hav wit ur ex, a little bit extreme bt if u want 2 save ur mind and ur marriage, u wud do so. Otherwise, u shd hav expressed ur disapproval immediately he send d pix and warned him not 2 do such again but it seems to me, u do not possess a strong will and dat is very dangerous 4 d future, so just cut off every coonection with him NOW and oh, Enjoy d blast 4rm LIBers. **drops mic**
ReplyDeleteBitch I know wat u r goin thru.....still can't get my d images of ex's privates outta my head.......I hate bein a guy
ReplyDeleteLol. But u re actually a fool. U gave him d opportunity to cos u nursed d feeling of wanting to be with him. U re married! And he's ur ex!! U re not content with what u av. Stop chatting with him and I feel u shd tell ur husband.
ReplyDeleteFive-letter word,BITCH...that's what u are,stupid slut.I wish your husband has a mind-reading mechanism.Oloshi oniranu
ReplyDeleteNot sure what you wanna hear. But I believe if this guy was right for you, you wldn't have been married to your husband. Be reasonable.
ReplyDeleteYou asked for trouble when you got to telling your ex anything. Sure you can be friends with your ex but there has to be a limit to what you can tell him/her. Ordinarily, there are things you should not tell other people about,not to talk of telling your ex. Well, if you want to keep your marriage, I suggest that you first of all delete the said pic if you haven't done that already. Then stop talking with him totally, else he will keep messing with your head. He doesn't have anything to lose whether you remain faithful to your husband or not but sweetheart, you've got so so much to lose including your sanity if you keep on playing with fire because that is what it is. I hope you take the best decision for yourself.
ReplyDeleteSorry, u' r gone for life.
ReplyDeleteWetin person no go hear. Babe deal with it. U can't eat ur cake n hv it. U r married stay married n cut off from any Ex
ReplyDeletefirst to comment. try and respect your marital home and be a gud mom and wife. if he was DAT gud why didn't you settle for him? pls forget him
ReplyDeleteMy dear, repent and give your life to Christ.
ReplyDeleteAm almost in d same boat as u. Just dat am not married. I can't get d pic of a close male friend's/toaster's dick outta my head. Like..d dick is bigggg
ReplyDeletefocus on ur family n 4get abt him
ReplyDeleteHey!!! Its official....I am bored n goin bunkers hence my comments
ReplyDeleteWow! So you are torn between a husband that loves you and a guy that wants to destroy your family(what you have built for 3 years). So much for the power sex, it literally shuts down your brain preventing you from proper reasoning.
ReplyDeleteYour ex is been selfish and only cares about what he wants, you don't call such person a friend. If he cares, he will do the best for you, your daughter and your family. And not trying to destroy what you have built for 3 years.
If you love your family as much as you claim to, you will pick them over this ex of yours. It is simple opportunity cost.
Start by deleting his pictures, messages and numbers. A 20mins pleasure at the expense of what you have built for 3 years isn't worth it. Think of your child, you need to be a wonderful role model for him/her.
Great guys like your husband should also know that sweet dirty sex is an important part of showering their women with love.
You can't navigate this situation without God's help. May the Holy spirit guide you through this difficult period and help you make the right decisions both spiritually and morally.
DO NOT! That'll be the end of your happy marraige, besides it's adultery.
ReplyDeleteDelete your ex off bbm or whatever means you contact and focus on your husband's dick.
*in madea's voice* U̶̲̥̅̊ need jesus
ReplyDeleteHelp me!!!! Can't stop typin meaninles comments......I am bored n goin crazy
ReplyDeleteHey gurl u spoilt evritin frm d beginning!why maintain a friendship wit an ex?it doesn't end right!flee frm Temptation which means do nt start wat cn lead u into it..gurl once u start u can't stop and u wil be caught and u mite end up loosing dis happy life u ve nw!u dnt luv ur ex u luv d idea of him I.e Sex..u btr delete him frm ur life rite dis second.afta Sex wt next?gurl u btr stick to ur hubby...and bind d devil*Ex*..... Xoxo Charmie
ReplyDeletefvcks da dude! Lol just playing! Delete him and focus on your marriage!
ReplyDeleteIdiot... If ur ex was that good, why you still keeping such a close relationship such that u start getting emotional? It all boils down to women not knowing exactly what they want and also very covetous. If ur husband finds out now and he starts acting weird or perceive you in a certain way, you start saying he is not a man, such thing is not new... Blah blah blah.... Which human being man or woman can stand his or her partner cheating or keeping such relationship with her ex? You are about to ruin what God has blessed you with and I pray your husband finds out and make you pay for such an ungrateful act.... Idiot
ReplyDeleteI must insult u.... The Devil is dancing skelewu in ur head... And if u don't chase it., you'll dance skelewu outta ur marriage...
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I really do advise you to get rid of all contacts you have with him so as to save your marriage and kid
ReplyDeleteWow! So you are torn between a husband that loves you and a guy that wants to destroy your family(what you have built for 3 years). So much for the power sex, it literally shuts down your brain preventing you from proper reasoning.
ReplyDeleteYour ex is been selfish and only cares about what he wants, you don't call such person a friend. If he cares, he will do the best for you, your daughter and your family. And not trying to destroy what you have built for 3 years.
If you love your family as much as you claim to, you will pick them over this ex of yours. It is simple opportunity cost.
Start by deleting his pictures, messages and numbers. A 20mins pleasure at the expense of what you have built for 3 years isn't worth it. Think of your child, you need to be a wonderful role model for him/her.
Great guys like your husband should also know that sweet dirty sex is an important part of showering their women with love.
You can't navigate this situation without God's help. May the Holy spirit guide you through this difficult period and help you make the right decisions both spiritually and morally.
Stop chatn with him.. it's a distraction u don't need! Concentrate on ur husband n child!!
ReplyDeleteMadam, do u want to keep ur marriage? Cut off all interactions with that dude! Delete his number, and delete him from bbm or whatever contacts u have wit him. The Bible says flee from every appearance of evil...u r about to get swept away and never return if u don't flee nw! Besides, what sorta dude taunts and tempts a married woman!!! Poor husband...doesn't knw what madam's finking all the time! Such is life tho!
ReplyDeleteU r just a v.greedy child.....commonsensically u know wat to do, stop talking like u need some psychotherapeutic attention. Pls cheat or rather end ur marriage....dere's always a result. I know u o.
ReplyDeleteFrom Aesop.
Wow! So you are torn between a husband that loves you and a guy that wants to destroy your family(what you have built for 3 years). So much for the power sex, it literally shuts down your brain preventing you from proper reasoning.
ReplyDeleteYour ex is been selfish and only cares about what he wants, you don't call such person a friend. If he cares, he will do the best for you, your daughter and your family. And not trying to destroy what you have built for 3 years.
If you love your family as much as you claim to, you will pick them over this ex of yours. It is simple opportunity cost.
Start by deleting his pictures, messages and numbers. A 20mins pleasure at the expense of what you have built for 3 years isn't worth it. Think of your child, you need to be a wonderful role model for him/her.
Great guys like your husband should also know that sweet dirty sex is an important part of showering their women with love.
You can't navigate this situation without God's help. May the Holy spirit guide you through this difficult period and help you make the right decisions both spiritually and morally.
Making ur ex ur confidant was the biggest mistake u made. Every one gets vulnerable at one point and he will definitely take advantage of it when the chance arises...and he did. Are u looking for a fling with him or something serious? Nne u better weigh ur options and do what's right for u now and in the future. The sex will last for at most 30 minutes before the guilt sets in, and u wont stop there....eventually ur hubby will find out and wahala go bust. Just appreciate what u have cos good men are hella hard to find out there! Look around u well well and see babes in their late 20s and 30s/40s still single and searching....and remember the unhappily married ones that even get beat up on a daily and those that have to stay up all night waiting on their promiscuous hubbies to come home. U are lucky, pls don't take this man's goodness for granted. That ur ex is evil...u are married with a kid and he's still trying to seduce u? What do u want with such a man that has no conscience, or boundaries? Do u think he will respect u and have such boundaries if ur union breaks up and u end up with him? I hope u make the best choice....but do not use ur hand to destroy ur marriage or cause enmity between u and ur hubby....possibly causing him to go outside and seek comfort in the arms of another woman! It will be almost impossible to get things back to the way they were at that point. Biko severe all contacts with this ur ex entirely! U will miss him but trust me u will get over him. And if he has no decorum wo respect ur marriage best believe he is messing with other chics on the side too so do not feel special. Good luck!
ReplyDeletesee why men dont want to get married. whatever happened to proper women? Fcking sluts everywhere. They and their moms. Hoes aint loyal
ReplyDeletewhat kind of man sends a picture of his dick to a married woman,no respect and you are thinking and dreaming of a man dat has no respect for u plz biko delete his number and any form of contact until u loose ur husband then u will realise wat u have or had.
ReplyDeleteWho the gods want to kill they first make mad. My dear the image can leave ur head if u want it to. First I don't believe in remaining "close" friends with exses coz they do more harm than good. Secondly pls u need to tell urself the truth n that is, u re married n shouldn't ve anything with a guy who is clearly out to ruin ur marraige n pls break all forms of communication with him unless u don't value ur home. Oh one more thing, its TGIF so screw ur hubby hard n get d image of that home recker off ur mind. Chao! Sweet anonymous.
ReplyDeleteGirl get ur act Together and grow up!!!! U have a good husband stay There Nd work on ur marriage.is it pennis u ve never seen before or u ve never tasted before.of course passion is a crazy tyn u can not hold down but Sis get urself together nd school ur mind nd talk to urself.cos if u allow ur fomer passion to spoil d good place u re in.trust me u will regret it.stop. Chattin with him. nd being friends with him is a no! No!.cheatin is nt just sex,telling him everytyn is emotional cheatin cos dats wat u shuld discuss with ur husband.now pull urself togeda,cut off frm this guy cos he is ur past nd face ur future which is ur husband nd family.they re too precious to give up for old flames.period!!!!
ReplyDeleteforget d past n move on wit d future
ReplyDeletePls my follow woman stay wit ur husband, remba u brok up wit him coz he lie 2 u.. Dnt do thing u wil regret later....
ReplyDeleteFIRST OF ALL,DEAR..YOU HAVE TO GET HIM OFF UR MIND..I KNOW THAT ITS NOT EASY,BUT YOU HAVE TO DO IT IF YOU DONT WANT YOUR MARRIAGE TO CRASH.. I THINK YOUR HUSBND IS NOT SATISFYING YOU WELL COS IF HE DOES,I DONT SEE WHY U WANA GO CRAZY OVER AMODA GUYS PENNIS WHICH UR HUSBAND ALSO POSSES..
ReplyDeleteJUST FORGET ABOUT THE GOOD TIMES U HAD WITH THIS UR EX AND ENGAGE YOURSELF IN THINGS THAT WILL BUILD YOUR PRESSENT MARRIAGE..MAKE I TELL YOU:MEN ARE SCARCE OOH,
ONYITEX SAID SO.
Get yoursef together hooker! Sorry...Whore! Inshort Hoe! Ahn ahn.. U want take dick ruin ur marriage? Please introduce me to d guy tho, am longing for him! ;)
ReplyDeleteI am sure you also sent him a picture of your pussy too.. Nice one bae.. Oloriburuku
ReplyDeleteI am sure you also sent him a picture of your pussy too.. Nice one bae.. Oloriburuku
ReplyDeleteI believe you encouraged your ex to send dat pic, just like uv heard from other comments, dis smouldering fire will burn u cos ur husband will find out! D minute you allow ur ex nack you akpako, ur behaviour will change and daddy will notice!
ReplyDeletewhat kind of man sends a picture of his dick to a married woman,no respect and you are thinking and dreaming of a man dat has no respect for u plz biko delete his number and any form of contact until u loose ur husband then u will realise wat u have or had.
ReplyDeletesee how prick scatter your head sha..lol LIB writer FACE YOUR WORK!!!! . hahahaha
ReplyDeleteLoox, like your current hubby is deficient in the Great Fuck Department.
ReplyDeleteI advise going for sex counselling.
Suggest it to him gently, when you are on holiday.
You go with the other guy, [Penis pic] it will end in tears.
You cannot have everything.
No one, has it all;
Even if they do, it never lasts.
Baron
Lekki
i'll be honest with you my dear,until you nack the guy, your head and eye no go clear!!tricky situation, cos unlike most people, i do believe you can be friends with your ex, the problem occurs when you are in denial about not being over the person..In your case You are a bad boy lover, your husband just fulfills your material needs but the real deal is with bruce-lie..Go for deliverance #contactJim
ReplyDeleteStay where you are and stop d chatting.
ReplyDeleteHHMMMMNNNN
ReplyDeleteYou women can't just get enough...nice husband and still na dick dey distort you. The man is good wahala he's bad problem, he's caring crime. What do u want? U need Jesus!
ReplyDeleteA man that can sleep with another man's wife, can kill the woman's hussy to have his way. U re playing dangerous game. A word Is enough for the wise. Sweet anonymous.
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