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How cute pics of father tending to his daughters caused uproar online

The bashing on the internet is sometimes unbelievable. Photos that are supposed to be described as cute and loving is being highly criticized. Doyin Richards, a Los Angeles-based Nigerian father and blogger who is currently taking a paternity leave of absence, posted the pics you see above of himself tending to his daughters on his blog - Daddydoinwork.com while his wife went off to work and this incurred the wrath of his readers.

The images, which went viral, had some of his readers lashing him viciously, calling him a lazy man who should be out looking for a job instead of taking pride in staying at home, looking after his girls and sharing photos on the internet. Lol. Unbelievable! Continue...



Doyin said he took the pictures so he could prove to his mixed-race wife that he could tend to their two young daughters, a 2 year old and a 6 months old, all alone.

Doyin wrote:

Well, his readers didn't find it funny and abused the shit out of him...lol. See some comments below..

Doyin replied...


at 1/10/2014 01:48:00 pm

209 comments:

  1. kay10 January 2014 at 13:50

    first to comment. No comment. LOL. where is lushiesta

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    1. Unknown10 January 2014 at 16:25

      He's doing a great job¤ they are just their hating away their miserable life. People must talk!

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    2. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 17:30

      Wretched people that were brought up by neighbours, stray chickens and goats raise their voice against what should become the norm. Fools. Any woman who dissed him is just a walking contradiction on a path to peril.

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  2. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 13:53

    People must talk.

    »» GOD's HEARTBEAT ««

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  3. Unknown10 January 2014 at 13:53

    People must talk.

    »» GOD's HEARTBEAT ««

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  4. SLEEKREEK10 January 2014 at 13:53

    Some people reason/think upside down.......am sure majority of those who see wrong in what dis man did are from homes with an unloving father and they themselves too cant show love to dia kids......welldone man,,,no mind 'em haters....

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    1. Fuck your opinion10 January 2014 at 16:06

      I see notn wrong wt d pix. Ppl will always talk.

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    2. Chiek10 January 2014 at 17:13

      You are not getting the point. Their annoyance is that, if he married a black woman, he won't do this.

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    3. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 18:32

      I agree

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  5. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 13:53

    Comments by morons.....

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  6. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 13:53

    Nice comeback from Doyin...WTH!

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  7. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 13:55

    My hubby stayed @ home and watched our daughter while i went back to work for a while cos that's what suited us. he is now back at work and earning x 3 my salary. Whatever works for your marriage!!! and the kids are mixed race!!sheesh people shd get a life.

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  8. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 13:55

    Well......Linda to be honest, if he married a Naija woman, he would not be doing this. I appreciate what he did but lets be honest, African men dont do this when they marry African women, which is wrong! ALL FATHERS should tend to their kids this way.

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    1. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:03

      Anon 1.55 pm you are correct jare. Even the educated and exposed ones among them see it as disrespect by a woman. Later they will say " my kids, my children". Nonsense

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    2. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:09

      U are right .


      Bookiegold

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    3. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:10

      But lovely.
      Brb


      Bookiegold

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    4. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 16:17

      Ur wrong anon 1:55pm. I was born and raised here in naija and my wife was rasied same. Just this Christmas following the departure of my housemaid I had to go on leave for 3 weeks to take care of my 2 dotas while my wife worked. I did EVERYTHING in the house from cooking to changing diapers to cleaning d bathrooms and sweeping. I took my kids to d salon and waited for dia hair to be made. AND IT'S NO BIG DEAL. On the contrary u discover the beauty of parenting. Except u were raised wrongly I deeply understand wot mutual respect is in a marriage and in the home. I have a maid now and things are back to normal and I've gone back to my banking job BUT id gladly do it all over again!!!!!!!

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    5. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 17:04

      So not true. I'm an Edo chick married to an Edo man and my husband tends to the kids when I'm not around. From giving them a bath, combing and giving my daughter a ponytail to changing diapers and a lot more. My guy does all that and he's a not a stay at home dad but earns well working in oil and gas. It's not about being naija but an individual thing. Yes, we live in Canada and he would still do these things if we were in Nigeria because that's just who he is.

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    6. Unknown10 January 2014 at 17:07

      Hahahaha,its tru oo.

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    7. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 17:22

      I disagree wit u totally. I am a nigerian woman who lives in nigeria and married to a nigerian man. He runs his own bizness and I do a 9- 5pm job. He practically takes care of d home all I do is cook and he is a millionaire dealing in real estate. Its wat u tell pple outside dat dey will "see" and read meanings to. He wants me to quit my job wen I am 35yrs old but for now he is doing all d baby sitting witout issh.

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    8. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 17:22

      I think its a person tin,mi n my hubby born n bred nija n live. In lagos n he does even more than brushing hair.when ou love someone u ease of their burden.instead of licking lollipop when they are hustling.#some9jaguysrock.

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    9. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 18:06

      That's not true. My husband took care of our son for three months. Taking him everywhere with him becos I had to go back to work. He is a strong black IGBO man. Do not judge. Doyin, carry go jare.

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    10. Unknown10 January 2014 at 19:04

      Anos 1:55 u r so right.

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    11. Unknown10 January 2014 at 19:09

      Anos 1:55 u r so right.

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    12. gbemi10 January 2014 at 20:44

      I think u should say some african men, my dad did a damn good job raising me!

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    13. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 23:27

      I second that. My dad is 69 yrs, limps from an accident 2005, but still loves to help out. We r just two girl they gave birth to though we hv a precious Bro now who is adopted, 6yrs old now, everyone loves and spoils him rotten. He is with my folks. My elder sis 33 is married and i am single 32. My sis and i both live in lagos. Working. Parents in Enugu. I travelled to help out for xmas cos d nanny stopped work. Just some days back the day we travelled to the villa, the meat (a considerable amount) we bought from lokpanta needed to be washed, mumsy who had a heart condition was beat same with urs truly cos my bro has cerebral palsy and needs 2-4-7 attention plus he gets fretful in a place he doesn't know so well, there was no one else with us, plus we got in late at night, after mumsy tried half-heartedly to sigh about how me or her needed to get d meat washed guess who stayed up from 12 midnight till around 1am washing meat and offals and stacking them in fridge. Mumsy and i woke up in d mrg so touched at what he has done. There are so many things my dad did as a kid growing up, I can't begin to mention here, he had just 2 girls my sis and i, he dotes on mumsy till date, pampers us till date. My roomy in d uni then who comes from a broken home used to envy me then at the type of support system I had, my parents call almost everyday. I pray with all my heart my future hussy is half the man he is. Some men, Naija men, are wonderful.

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  9. Toronto Finest 10 January 2014 at 13:55

    There is no big deal in taking care of your kids. Wives are not maids. Naija mentality needs to be changed

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  10. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 13:56

    Smh.Ignorance at its best at those condemning him. SMH

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  11. jaybillz10 January 2014 at 13:56

    Definitely 1st on dis one..........na wah o shey na crime to tend to ur kids again as a responsible father

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  12. olori10 January 2014 at 13:56

    Humans,I really feel this is cute and lovely

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  13. BONARIO NNAGS10 January 2014 at 13:57

    Duh there is a limit to what an African man like me can do in the name of care.
    My kinsmen shouldn't find me doing these or I will be banished.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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    1. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:08

      Uncle Bona, its either ur Kinsmen ve half brain or u re d one wt quarter brain... Dis is not too much for anyone hu calls himself a father!!!
      ~SHACKLES~

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    2. jewel10 January 2014 at 15:42

      WTFF is wrng with some pple and the way they think? Wat is so wrng with wat this MAN did? If a man is able to f**k his wife,get her pregnant and see nthin wrng in dat why in hell's fury can't he raise his kids? Whoeva said dats the xclusive job of the wife? Puh....lease those who condemned wat this honourable man,husband,father and DADDY did shuld HANG ON HIGH TENSION.


      Ps: he neva admitted to doin dat on a daily basis jst sumthin he did to clear his wife's doubts. #jeeeeeeeeezzzzzzzzzz#

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    3. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:44

      Bona na ur type go turn ur wife to maid....some guys think from their dick...nonsense

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    4. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 18:00

      I actually thought bonario was a really cool and enlightened guy, didn't realise he is just a fake feeling funky. If you cannot do that for your children without caring what people would say then you are indeed a fake. My husband helps whenever he can without batting an eyelids, he earns correct money and I also work and I respect and submit to him more because of the way he cares for his kids. They love the attention he showers on them. Although traditionally it is my responsibility, he actually wants to be a part of tending to them.... Grow up bonario and move with the times

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    5. Yud10 January 2014 at 18:20

      All I can say is "cute". If the dude loves his woman and values his children enough to do so, what the heck?? People will always talk jare

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    6. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 18:25

      My father is an accomplished engr with d uttermost respect..he carried myself and my younger siblings on his back with a wrapper...cooked when my mum was too tired or sometimes for d heck of it n still made out time for work..if ur ego is too large to care for the most important people in your life then you have way bigger issues to tackle my friend.

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    7. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 18:53

      It's high time u realized that a guy using the word "duh" or saying it to prove a point ain't cool. You should hv left that in 2013. Also, taking care of your kids doesn't make you a half man, it only makes u a loving supportive father and husband. But saying "duh" makes u come off as a winnie. Something a half man is even better dan. Go figure bonario.

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  14. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 13:58

    Hhhmmm so lovely......weldone

    Relationship issues****Psychological counseling**just halla......22F5D187...
    Petersonconsultant@yahoo.com...

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  15. Unknown10 January 2014 at 13:59

    Linda, its not everybody that you see is normal ooo. Biko what is wrong in a man taking care of his children when his wife is not around?
    Some people are ILLITERATE.

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  16. Mrs E10 January 2014 at 13:59

    I already love this dude. Haters go huge transformer jare!

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  17. Eugenia Ekeji10 January 2014 at 14:00

    There's nothing wrong with this. I always appreciate men who do this 4 their family. Are the kids not his?

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  18. Alloy Chikezie10 January 2014 at 14:01

    Linda dear! there is nothing wrong with what the man did, that's a wonderful husband in the making, a down to earth man and husband, a loving and caring husband, that's really the kind of husband I want to be, a husband that lends a hand when the wife is not around, or when the wife is sick, or a couple of months pregnant or when the wife is away like the case of this man! A man that cooks for himself when the wife is not around, instead of going to buy food


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  19. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:02

    People sha! This is wat most Nigerian Girls are looking for...A proud father!
    «PINK»

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  20. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:02

    all comments are from black people no doubt

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  21. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:03

    Awww,this is so cute,I wish for such a man,who would do anything for his kids,and help the wife too....oh pls,women weren't created to be slaves naw,,,,this is so lovely,,good work man...to hell with haters...

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  22. oreo10 January 2014 at 14:03

    real niccur. m sure he's got some huge dick....

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  23. joyce10 January 2014 at 14:04

    Who cares if he is jobless,love men dat look after der kids.

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  24. Bonita Bislam10 January 2014 at 14:04

    Som ppl r jst racists nd hv refused to grow up.at dis age n tym? Mtcheew

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  25. chris10 January 2014 at 14:06

    peoples method of thinking tho.. was wrong in giving time to raise your kids... there is no sexuality in that.....

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  26. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:07

    I'm sure some Dumb ass black americans posted those nasty comments. Just too cute abeg... To think that he even took the time to explain it!

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  27. Alloy Chikezie10 January 2014 at 14:07

    Husband and wife are meant to complement each other, and that's what the caring husband is doing, he is a real man



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  28. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:07

    HATERS PRESS DIE!!

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  29. Just Sayin'10 January 2014 at 14:08

    Mean, bitter people all over the world! Phew!!

    What is wrong with those photos please?

    And who told them he is unemployed because he is at home?

    Only a truly ignorant person would think that in this day of modern technology and IT, someone with 24-7 power supply needs to physically leave the house to go to work and earn income.

    He even wrote on his blog that "I’m taking the month of October off from my corporate job for baby bonding with my 3-month old daughter - See more at: http://daddydoinwork.com/dreamin/#more-3120"

    And as for the racists, PUH LEASE, love can find you anywhere!

    Him and his wife look VERY HAPPY and that is all that matters!

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  30. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:09

    Mshewwwwww!!!!!!!! Na wa 4 human beings oh?! Wat s wrong wit him taking care of his kids? Or marrying sum1 dat isn't black???? Mshewwww!!!! Afterall, dey re living hapily & legally married?!
    Alrdy made up my mind 2 marry a white man, dey re straight forward, stress free & far better dan Nigerian men!!!

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  31. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:10

    This is actually sweet. Abeg, bab belle people, make una go sleep joor.

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  32. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:12

    People can be so ignorant! What is wrong with being a hands on dad or marrying outside your race?

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  33. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:12

    They're just trolling. Why would he even dignify them with a response?

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  34. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:13

    American version of LIBers and SDKers... mtchwwww

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  35. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:13

    the people hating obviously have daddy issues,probably their dads weren't around.

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  36. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:14

    Call me names but I don't see anything wrong with him being a stay at home dad as long as he doesn't see his wife as a meal ticket. I'm sure many women are only ranting out of jealousy

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  37. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:14

    You are a great dad. And your kids will be proud..Keep it up!!

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  38. shannia10 January 2014 at 14:14

    Lol critics dey will always talk, dey r cute jare..

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  39. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:14

    the people hating obviously have daddy issues,probably their dads weren't around.

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  40. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:14

    How cute to see this cute guy taking care of his beautiful family. He's getting it from all sides from his attackers. Whites are calling him a lazy thug; blacks are bemoaning his choice of a wife. He can't win for losing.

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  41. joyce10 January 2014 at 14:15

    So so cute, Richard darling hope u r cin o,I know u make d best dad 2 ur kids Love u dear.

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  42. Apple10 January 2014 at 14:16

    I see nothing wrong with this pictures because my husband dose the same for me ( he is not a Nigerian ) One thing i have noticed is that most Nigerian men don't treat their Nigerian wives well, it is always different when their wives are foreigners.

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  43. Cute G10 January 2014 at 14:16

    How sweet of him.His type is rare.My dear Doyin tell ur haters that "Silent is Golden But Duct Tape is Silver".

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  44. puregold10 January 2014 at 14:16

    I don't get it! What's wrong in a guy helping out his wife when he has the time?
    That's why we will always remain backward and myopic..
    My husband helps me out with our 9months baby..
    Not an easy thing for him but at least he helps me...
    Haba! African Mentality.

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  45. Walata10 January 2014 at 14:17

    Hmmm I smell jealous from ppl low life ppl

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  46. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:18

    His just the perfect guy! Strong,caring, loving,undastanding and above all humble! "Fuck ye haters with a sand paper dick!"

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  47. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:18

    awww cute, every childs dream

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  48. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:20

    I gbadun this guy.

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  49. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:21

    this guy is absolutely amazing. I am 100% in support of his views. My hubby does same and i see the annoying looks from my ignorant neighbours. We all need to change our views honestly

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  50. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:25

    blah...blah...Will he do same thing if he is married to a niaja gurl??? Nigga plzzzzz

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  51. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:25

    Na wa o, am sick of people reading stupid meanings to harmless pictures! All these internet bullying mtcheeew...

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  52. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:26

    Good job Doyin! I pray my future husband can do same and even better :) opinions are like A-holes everyone's got one so let them say...I say GOOD JOB DADDY!!!

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  53. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:27

    Good man.

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  54. Visages Parfait10 January 2014 at 14:27

    Dear future husband,I don't care if people call u Dead beat,Up beat,Afro beat...whatever beat! Abeg always feel free and proud to tend to our kids. Truth is,mouths will run even if you decide not to do it.
    See you soon #okbyee

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  55. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:28

    Haters everywhere. Why can't people just be happy for once? Instead,they'd rather bring one down just so they can feel good.

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  56. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:28

    Lovely dad but go and work@mercy

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  57. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:29

    Real dad do anytin for his kids.

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  58. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:29

    it doesnt matter wat any1 tinks abt u,jus kep doin d best u can 4 ur wife n kids.

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  59. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:32

    He is a real man. Jst like my hubby who helps me out with our baby too. It's gives a lot of pride n joy doing it n shows how u love ur children.

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    1. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 17:48

      He's not helping you out, he's doing HIS job! African fathers need to understand this. If God gave you these special gifts then you're responsible to take care of them in every way, not just the woman and not just financially. There are some men out there who can't even have kids at all. ....Just Me

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  60. ebony010710 January 2014 at 14:33

    Dats really bad, dia z nothing wrong in him takin care of his kids, afterall dey r his...some people be thinkin thru dia ass...smh

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  61. byobnigeria10 January 2014 at 14:34

    I think people just express their anger on facebook. This is just soo cute! And I sure had a really good laugh @ the comments. 9ja 4 life!

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  62. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:34

    there is nothing wrong about a father tending to his kids nor the fact that they are white. I think its cute. beefers should goan born their own.

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  63. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:34

    Changing social perception. Live with it and do with it. Is a gigo thing. (garbage in garbage out). When he posted such pics he shud be ready to face whatever he gets. Zionzukki

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  64. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:34

    I think those fools writing that are the jobles fools, how sweet for a father to attend to his kids. I love it. He is doing the right thing while those fools are making a week

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  65. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:35

    nice one dude. child raising shouldn't be left for moms alone.

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  66. may b10 January 2014 at 14:35

    Blacks! These days we're more racist bou stuff we shldnt be bou n ignore d issues we shld b dealing wif! We copy stuff 4rm whites we shldnt n leave d stuff we shld! Ever wonder y they get d kids who invent stuff n we get d kids dat... Ah well. I fink a man dat can handle his kids for a bit be darn sexy! So y'all shld quit calling each oda n**gaz n b*tch*s and start tackling wat went wrong in a rich, beautiful continent like ours, no one shld b judged 4 being a gud human cos we gat only 2 types: gud n bad!

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  67. Chidimma10 January 2014 at 14:35

    Haba mana! The pics are cute joor

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  68. BUBU10 January 2014 at 14:36

    Read this..what a good father and understanding hubby...pple and their opinions sha...

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  69. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:37

    My boo has same kinda qualities I just cant wait to walk down the isle with him, make babes and watch him unleash this kinda care to our angels *LoveStruck" :D

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  70. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:38

    And what's the big deal about that??? We Nigerians and our Mentality sha... Afterall they are his own kids... I see nothing bad in him tending for his daughter or kids.

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  71. Tee Cutie10 January 2014 at 14:39

    Nice one Doyin, luv u.

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  72. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:39

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  73. harnikky10 January 2014 at 14:40

    Wow! I love this&i pray for a husband like this! The home is to be taken care by both in every aspect, Ɣ☺u are good to go man!

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  74. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:40

    I think this guy is brave. I mean he was showing the world "family man' scenario and what does he get in return? seriously some people are downright wackos! what's the deal with racist comments!

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  75. Nneka10 January 2014 at 14:40

    I don't see anything wrong with d picture. Nothin at alllllll

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  76. jbankzE10 January 2014 at 14:42

    I luv diz Man

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  77. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:42

    I think what the man is doing is cute

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  78. Jules10 January 2014 at 14:43

    abeg make dem leave the man jare,person no go take care of im pikin again.the man even dey leave so wats d challenge

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  79. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:44

    kip it up jare ma guy. ur doing good. Bashers, to hell with you. It works for the man and his wife,so i ask;whats ur own? LINDA IKEJI! no be u i dey folo talk o.the bashers fom d man site nio.

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  80. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:44

    Nigerian men need to learn from dis man..sigh im tired of dead beats..kmft

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  81. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:46

    kip it up jare ma guy. ur doing good. Bashers, to hell with you. It works for the man and his wife,so i ask;whats ur own? LINDA IKEJI! no be u i dey folo talk o.the bashers fom d man site nio.

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  82. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:48

    Wow, cute I love it.

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  83. Gbabe10 January 2014 at 14:48

    Honestly. ...he looks stupid . Lol

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  84. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:49

    Nothing is wrong with d pix. Whatever work for them. People should stop all d negative comments.

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  85. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:50

    Very nice, no matter what u do either good or bad people will always talk. Only a few men can even baby sit their kids.

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  86. Sarah10 January 2014 at 14:51

    What is their biz. Work no pay

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  87. as myself10 January 2014 at 14:52

    what i will give to have such a man in my life.

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  88. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:54

    such a cute family! see a man that is ready to be involved in the upbringing of his kids and u call him names?

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  89. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:55

    I love this,wish my hubby can make out sure time for my kids

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  90. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:56

    Na wa for pple OOoº°˚ , der is nothing bad der nau, kai!!! People.....

    #GIFTEDhands

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  91. Unknown10 January 2014 at 14:56

    such a cute family! u see a man that is ready to be part of the upbringing of his kids and u call him name? how senseless can u be?

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  92. creamy B10 January 2014 at 14:58

    Understanding hubby, haterz go and kill ursef

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  93. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:58

    Correct guy jor #Godgivushusbandslykdis............... stupid haters

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  94. Amaka10 January 2014 at 14:59

    Sooo cute



    read interesting gist and entertainment

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  95. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 14:59

    such a cute family! u see a man that is willing to be part of the upbringing of his kids and u call him names? how senseless can u be?

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  96. yusuf10 January 2014 at 14:59

    There is nothing wrong if he truly has his own work. Our own religion does not even tolerate woman to work outside her husband house/ premises but the world won't take it

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  97. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:00

    All those haters should go kill themselves guy u and ur kids really looks cute.

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  98. NMA10 January 2014 at 15:03

    I don't se anything bad in what he did,I will be so pleased if my hubby can do dis..so romantivc of him

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  99. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:04

    Some women are used to being slaves,theres no book where the role of a man or woman is written God bless my boo baba ibeji lol love u much he helps out with the kids God bless you Doyin

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  100. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:07

    Thumbs up to him. But can he do the same if his wife is/was African or Nigerian? I think not. Black men always wiping the ass of white chicks.

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  101. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:07

    Only ignorant people who have never lived in the western world can say this trash. People hardly have house helps, so spouses share the domestic chores whether they are white or black. Chi

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  102. Unknown10 January 2014 at 15:07

    Wats wrong with him babysitting his chidren abeg make dem rest,I 4got its d internet both d foolish wise and dumb can say anything,I admire wat he's doing,God didn't put a sign on a woman's head sayn she must do everything 4 d men,once in a while let d man contribute in doing somthing in d home apart 4rm working,isn't dat wat marriage shud be about?abeg make we hear joor thumbs up to d man...

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  103. FRANK PALADINI10 January 2014 at 15:07

    Now I think those comments came out from very irresponsible future fathers and mothers to be cos I see nothing wrong in a man who choose to for a change take care and spend time with his kids...... Kudos to Doyin for his matured response to all d insults

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  104. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:10

    Give us gist about psquare poor performance.......abi u dey select gist oda blogs don carry am since

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  105. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:12

    If u live outside the country u will understand that parenting is done by both parents. U ve to shift the responsibility or else u go hear wen. Local mentality. Uk.kofo

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  106. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:15

    Some people are stupid and demented!!! Since when has it become a crime for a loving husband to take care of his babies? Well I am not suprised cos my own elder sister reacted almost same way whn I was 9mths pregnt. My Dr had insisted I stop wrk & go on a bed rest after I fell from the stairs and my blood pressure was high. It was my sis's first time visiting us
    in the Usa. she saw my hubby giving my daughter a bath and later saw him in the
    kitchen cooking. I decide to let her do the whole chores since it was a crime form my hubby to do them but after 2days she started complaining!!!! Lmboo!! She has 2 nannies at her beck n call. I told her welcome to america, a land of do it yourself. Even president obama takes her daughers to school and helps with their homework. Some people should grow up and let others bond with their kids!!!!

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  107. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:16

    I love this.....this is d kind of man i woud lov to marry ~maureen~

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  108. JJ10 January 2014 at 15:20

    Most white Americans are racist. They can't see anything good in a black person. I wouldn't put much credence to anything they say.

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  109. Unknown10 January 2014 at 15:21

    DOSE WHO COMPLAINED SHOULD HUG TRANSFORMER...

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  110. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:23

    I am yoruba and my wife same and did c same as this guy for two years while my wife worked and my kids and family are better for it. It is his family so haters should please hug transformer.

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  111. Fatimah10 January 2014 at 15:25

    Most of the comments were left by bitter,angry single black women who are still looking out for husbands or bitter married ones who hate on him because they couldn't find a good guy like him.

    @Bonario, your ancient kinsmen did not birth your kids so they might as well face front and mind their own kids and you be a man of your own and do you. There is nothing manly about leaving your kids to raise themselves

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  112. mary moore10 January 2014 at 15:25

    Just passing by.

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  113. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:26

    SMH,There is nothing you do that ppl will not talk.What is wrong in a Dad taking care of his kids.if your jealous,please go have yours.Or better still,all you dissers should get busy.

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  114. Adadavid10 January 2014 at 15:29

    Well my hubby helps out wit our 5months old son. Pples mentality needs to change.

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  115. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:30

    Nice one I love a man like dis his blessed

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  116. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:31

    I know a high profile career man who is married to a black woman and he still helps his daughters with their hair. It is called showing love. My dad used to help me pack my hair growing up.

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  117. Vikky10 January 2014 at 15:31

    ℓ̊ pray 4 such a caring husband. Those dat are against him are simply saying they don't desire good things. Keep it up Man and may U̶̲̥̅̊ reap the fruit of your labour

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  118. yemmy10 January 2014 at 15:31

    Some people and their bad mouth shaa. If u do dem go talk, if u no do na wahala. *eyerolling* u can't just satisfy them

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  119. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:42

    I cannot believe how some people reason, what is all the fuss that if he had married a black woman he wouldn't do the same? I am a Nigerian from Imo State married to my husband from the same LGA in IMO State. we both live in London and have 2 kids. My husband always helps in changing kids nappy, bath them, dress them and babysit them when am working at the weekends and he takes so much pleasure in doing it. I don't understand. People should not generalise issues. What this guy did is cool and many black men are really helping their wives out, I am a living witness.

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  120. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:45

    There is nothing wrong with a hubby helping his lovely wife at home. Women need support from men, not just dropping money. What am even saying? so don't even drop money for their family upkeep, women will go to work, shop, come back, cook,wash, serve, clean, take care of kids still above all bring money for food her hubby suppose to bring and still satisfy him in bed. Nigerian men should wake up. Love ur way man keep it up God will reward you. Nigerian men u people commit sin of omission always.

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  121. Unknown10 January 2014 at 15:46

    Cute dad I luv u, people must talk so always pleas ur family and urself don't look at what they are saying

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  122. mosumola4love10 January 2014 at 15:46

    Y do pple like using panadol on someone's headache.....Y dont they face their own problem

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  123. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 15:46

    Some people have the guts to condemn a loving and caring father- I HAFF TIRED!!Ignorant black people displaying their ignorance and racism for the world to see. I pray to have such a loving and caring husband. Lemme hear you shout AMENNNNN!!!

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  124. Unknown10 January 2014 at 15:57

    human beings are just insatiable. These are the same set of people that would turn up and go 'I bet their father was never there for them when they were kids'; should the kids turn out a menace to society. And so what if His wife is white?! #BlogReadersWithMisplacedPriorities

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  125. Juliebabe10 January 2014 at 15:58

    I don't see any thing wrong in what he is doing besides he was just helping out and I think he is a "9ice daddy"

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  126. Leeely Clinton10 January 2014 at 15:58

    Unfortunately, I was not privileged to have a father or a husband like this!! this is awesome and commendable. Haters are jealous!

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  127. Mary10 January 2014 at 16:07

    wen will people realize that parenting is for both parents and not the woman alone, i love this man, b'cos he just proved that he is a loving and caring father, those kids are for both of them and not for the women and both parents shd have a joint responsibility in tending to them, it is only our Nigerian/African mentality that sees it parenting as the woman's duty.

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  128. Amarachukwu10 January 2014 at 16:10

    People must talk with their big mouths.

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  129. Unknown10 January 2014 at 16:36

    Just love dis dad.

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  130. Busola10 January 2014 at 16:38

    I don't see anything wrong in the picture. It is called co-parenting. My husband does the same thing. I leave the house before him for work and we both wake up early in the morning to take care of the boys. Sometimes when I wake late due to tiredness, he tells me babe I got this, go get dressed and go to work. He will take care of the boys including breakfast, drop them off at the daycare and go to work.... So people insulting him are probably thinking upside down and leave their wives to do all the chores and stuff. Naija men with shallow thinking...SMH

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  131. Elsmama10 January 2014 at 16:40

    i think he is doing a good job my husband is great with our 9 month old and i appreciate those moments takes over so i can study, go to a fitness class or just relax.Cheers to the real fathers out there

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  132. Unknown10 January 2014 at 17:10

    man,who would do anything for his kids,and help the wife too....oh pls,women weren't created to be slaves naw,,,,this is so lovely,,good work man...to hell with haters.

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  133. Mistyk10 January 2014 at 17:13

    thumbs up fi d man jhareeeeee. some men have just refused to be responsible yet they are first to lament that their kids are not close to them enof to share secrets and worefa with dem. Doyin, God will eternally bless u for bonding with ur kiddos.

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  134. feddo10 January 2014 at 17:22

    This what man should do , help partner ,

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  135. Dj Gentle10 January 2014 at 17:35

    Real men don't give ears to what ppl say abt them

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  136. Unknown10 January 2014 at 17:54

    Pls y'all should tell those commenters. That there is nothing wrong with it. Tending to ur kids even gives u a stronger bond to em. It cool dude. Keep it up, and don't mind em haters.

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  137. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 17:55

    There is absolutely nothing wrong in what this man is doing. People just love to hate. There is no pleasing anyone in this world so I hope he didn't post those pictures to garner support. Keep doing you Doyin! Your girls are definitely going to turn out well rounded. Cheers.

    http://lovedeyshackme.blogspot.com/

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  138. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 18:04

    @BonARIO. You must be an illiterate to be taking your kinsmen over your family . i pity who will marry a stack akward thinking person like you . I am Yoruba woman living in uk , each time i am not at home , it is my husband turn to take care of the children , even sometimes i will be in bed and he has to do it possibly cos i am tired . Pls get over this thinking . Have you forgotten that my Sallary will make a diffrence irrespective what my husband earns?
    Honestly, anyman that loves his children will do anything for them at all cost

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  139. Ann Marie10 January 2014 at 18:16

    He's just being a proud father

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  140. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 18:18

    People and drama...abeg dont mind them ooo..take care of your daughters biko...

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  141. Yud10 January 2014 at 18:24

    The only thing I see is "cute". I mean if the dude loves his woman and cherishes his children enough , what the heck?? People will always talk o jare

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  142. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 18:50

    Is it not because he has an Oyinbo wife?

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  143. PRETTYSILVIA10 January 2014 at 19:15

    Seriously those guys should go nd hug tansfomer.wat is wrong with a man taking care of his kids!!!!! Not someone else's but his.nigerians nd all those shallow minded people commenting should please go nd enlighten their mind.kudos to him jare.........

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  144. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 19:51

    I think we've gone past †ђξ time where women slave †̥☺ death just †̥☺ please their husband Α̲̅πϑ society @ large! There's nothing wrong with U̶̲̥̅̊я̩̥̊ hubby helping U̶̲̥̅̊ out in taking care of †ђξ kids after all he impregnated her...people are S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ backward Α̲̅πϑ ancient in their thinking. If ♍Ɣ husband does №†̥ help ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥ I will №†̥ take it likely with him

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  145. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 19:59

    Actually I don't think this is because he's looking after the kids though that's wonderful and that's what I'd want in my husband. If you read what people are saying, they seem more annoyed that he married outside of his race.

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  146. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 20:01

    According to Flavor: 'anything you do they must talk' this world is so hypocritical, especially the black race! We want equal rights (supposedly) for both race, but don't really practise it!
    Black American women are so insecure that anytime a black man marries out of his race, they feel threatened! Why is that?!
    F*ck this sh*t!!!! I will do the same thing if I were in his shoe! F*ck the world jor. Hilary Obiorah.

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  147. Jade10 January 2014 at 20:35

    Awwwwww such beautiful pictures. They made me smile. Forget people,they always talk. Be a good dad so that one day,when you are old and grey,you'll have no regrets for not being there for them. Unlike my parents and lots of other African parents.

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  148. i say this...10 January 2014 at 20:45

    bonario i am highly disappointed in ur ignorant comment. all respect i had fr u is gone. just goes to show ur still a bush ass enugu boy. stop tryna act cool cus ur clearly not. fool. african man indeed, nigga plz.

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  149. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 20:52

    U now use swear words on ur blog? Shit? Smh

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  150. Feggies10 January 2014 at 21:19

    I think people should be left to do what works for them in their relationship to keep the love flowing... I mean, if the proof of a great tasting pudding is in its EATING (tasting)... What is the proof of TRUE LOVE?

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  151. Olamide yiiiii10 January 2014 at 21:27

    Why are people saying African don't help African wife, my husband helps to take care of our daughter and I go to work. We once posted a picture where he was carrying her at the back. A loving father is always proud to help no matter their race. Way to go Doyin!

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  152. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 21:42

    I see nothing wrong with the pic I stay in the states and this happens in my household it takes two, who said taking care of your kids is a woman’s job? My brother inlaw that stays in naija takes good care of his kids this way also and he’s a bank manager. If we ask our men to help us and they do please don’t rain abuses on them and just giving out money for school fees and stuff does not define you raising your kids great job MR.

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  153. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 21:49

    N I tot bonario get brain....clearly he doesn't since he can't make decision for himself n stand his ground.....ooh dats right d kinsmen go banish am. Yeye.

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  154. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 22:38

    BONARIO HAS CONFIRMED THAT HE IS A BUSH BOY. SHAME ON YOU,

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  155. Anonymous10 January 2014 at 23:45

    if it were an african woman he married i don't think he would have done this ....jussaying

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  156. Ada Yankee11 January 2014 at 00:36

    As I browse through LIB, my hubby is on the floor playing and feeding our 10mth old daughter... After which he will change her diaper, cause I just asked him (kindly) to do so. Again, I spent majority of today with her, so he understands. We are both Nigerian and she is our first.

    Every real man would love to be completely involved in his children's lives. As a mother you should be comfortable leaving your baby/ies with their dad for crying out loud!
    I think the Nigerian society causes people to think differently For all its worth, we live in the US.

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  157. laitan11 January 2014 at 01:28

    and dis is exactly ow i wana b wit my kids,raise dem not only babysit.doyin temx 4 setting a gud example.Good fathers r hard to find n ur a rare one.d twats who lashed at him are simply irresponsible fools who cant neva do well wit dia kids

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  158. Anonymous11 January 2014 at 01:30

    Well, If you don't like what he is doing then Jump into the river. And besides , what made you think Nigerian or African men don't do it to their African Women? I think were most of these haters live are full of hate ...so not blaming them. Them never see love before ....

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  159. Anonymous11 January 2014 at 03:58

    The world has really changed, it has turned upside down. There is nothing bad in what the guy is doing by giving a helping hands and tender cares to his loving family. Despite the fact that is is written in the Quran to treat your woman with uttermost respect, some of your Muslim fellows would still see you as a woman wrapper. There are some work of work that is meant for a husband only at home but reverse is the case. Among husband works is to go to the market to shop for the family in terms of food stuff as a case study but any man that do that in this computer age will be classified as mumu but who cares when you are having a lovely atmosphere with your family.

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  160. Anonymous11 January 2014 at 04:06

    The world has really changed, it has turned upside down. There is nothing bad in what the guy is doing by giving a helping hands and tender care to his loving family. Despite the fact that is is written in the Quran to treat your woman with uttermost respect, some of your Muslim fellows would still see you as a woman wrapper. There are some work that is meant for a husband at home but reverse is the case. Among husband works is to go to the market to shop for the family in terms of food stuff as a case study but any man that do that in this computer age will be classified as mumu but who cares when you are having a lovely atmosphere with your family.

    # I had seen some instances whereby a Muslim man was fetching well water for his home while some other Muslims are mocking and gossiping about it and it is a work for a Man but everything has turned upside down.

    #I laughed when i heard some people saying Islam do not have a respect for a ladies but the religion is a complete religion but people practicing it today are doing it in a reversible way

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  161. Anonymous11 January 2014 at 05:42

    Bonario sucks!!! I pity ur wife.

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  162. Anonymous11 January 2014 at 05:42

    Bonario sucks!!! I pity ur wife.

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  163. Anonymous11 January 2014 at 06:08

    A clear case of mugu. Our friend is a paddy odenson. His head has been used.

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  164. Anonymous11 January 2014 at 06:09

    A clear case of mugu. His head has been used. This is a real paddy odenson.

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  165. Anonymous11 January 2014 at 06:22

    Doyin pls tke more photos so they can die finally...

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  166. Anonymous11 January 2014 at 06:37

    the people that read his blogs are probably all misogynists, what rubbish and i'm sure most women are praying and fasting to find a man that would even attempt to do all that this guy is happily doing
    Love from Miami

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  167. Unknown11 January 2014 at 10:44

    What's wrong with d photos now....mtchewwww...nxt news plssss

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  168. Unknown11 January 2014 at 10:46

    What's wrong with d photos now....mtchewwww...nxt news plssss

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  169. Anonymous11 January 2014 at 12:51

    African men don't do this because African women don't give them the chance to. African women are the ones that look down on themselves..

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  170. Ace18611 January 2014 at 12:51

    Its saddening how Nigerians still see demselves as inferior. How do u expect not to be racially abused by the whites when you are racial even to a fellow blackman.sigh# Talking about he wont do it if his wife was black. I've seen many a man tend to their kids even when their wife is fully nigerian. These saddist bashing him should get a life. Heck i'd do the same if i were in his shoes...ace

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  171. Anonymous11 January 2014 at 13:32

    when u leave abroad u will see that each parents takes turn to tke care of their kids ,wats wrong wit dis pictures?noting,y'll ,ur brain nids reestablishment .com n leave here n see life ,u half baked skol attendees witout thinkn faculties

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  172. Unknown11 January 2014 at 14:21

    It only takes one who has given birth and cares about his or child to know that this picture is awesome.

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  173. Unknown11 January 2014 at 14:22

    It only takes one who has given birth and cares about his or child to know that this picture is awesome.

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