Dear LIB readers: Should I date a guy whose ex-girlfriend is 7months pregnant?
From a LIB reader
I am crazy about this guy I met about two months ago. He swept me off my feet and made me fall for him before he told me his ex-girlfriend is 7 months pregnant for him. What I find odd in all this is that they dated for 6 and a half years and broke up just two months after they discovered they were expecting. He told me they grew apart and decided split which I find strange because which pregnant woman wants to leave the man she's pregnant for? I wish I could speak with the lady and find out what really happened between them but I'm too scared to contact her. He told me that chapter in his life is over and the only thing tying him to her is their unborn baby. I feel guilty dating a man with a pregnant girlfriend, but should I feel guilty? Should I go ahead with the relationship? Also, what kind of a man leaves his pregnant girlfriend?
Duuh! akuko mike Ejeagha. am sure u already had your mind madeup,see u forming mother theresa. for a guy u claimed you are crazy about what advice could change your mind. Isn't it better you date a guy whose girlfriend is 7months pregnant than an Aristo whose last child is 7years old.
My dear, if your mind is posing these many questions already, it obviously doesn't feel right. You think deeply and be sincere to yourself, so help you God.
You are dating a married man! Please I fink you should free him for now, let him take care of the responsiblity of caring for up coming mother and unborn baby, u can go ahead wit him after birth and the child is a little grown, that's if he decides not to marry the mother of his baby, and decides to marry u, but for let him be
Lol, pls my dear, do not try to continue, just call off that relationship ASAP. You and the guy might be friends bu srzly they r still coming back for each other
My dear pls dnt or atleast nt nw,tak ur tym ad study d whole tin b4 acceptin bcus if he cn leave dat gal wen she nids him most,he wil do it 2 u ad urs might b a worse situation
It's obvious there's more to the story than you know..if u love complications, u can stay put but I can assure you this will get really messy after now!
You answered the question yourself, what kind of man would leave his pregnant girlfriend he has dated for 6 and half years and tell you cock and bull just to get into your pants....If you dnt want to entangled in the drama you would walk...
It's obvious there's more to the story than you know..if u love complications, u can stay put but I can assure you this will get really messy after now!
Good questn! Wat kind ☀f man leaves his 7months pregnant girlfrnd nd starts dating someone else within 2months. Look b4 U limp, dnt limp b4 U start looking. Be wise
Look ere honey, those questions should be directed at HIM and HIM alone. And lil girl, your thoughts are exactly how you feel. P.s - Itali eji ti nwunye izizi ive ka dikwa na ime uno. Shikena.
Bck off darlid, cos d earlier d beta 4 u, else ur life will b worser dan herz.wait don't b in a hurry,a man who truly deserves u will showly come forth SHaLLOM SIS.
First of all, 2 months isn't enough time to be head over heels in love, in my opinion. You need to understand that you are a side chick! Someone he's banging while his girlfriend is indisposed. If you are truly that important to him, he'll want u to have an amicable relationship with the mother of his unborn baby because your paths are bound to cross. My advice? RUN! Run as fast as you can! Do not waste your youth on a man whom has committment issues! If he left her after 6 years, he'll leave u after 6 months! #justsaying!
I wouldn't date him if I were you.. Men lie! He will get u preggers too & run for it! Kill whatever feelings u have for him & trust God for someone better.
Better dont start what you can't finish ooo...How would you feel if your man left you like that for another woman??.You dont know what really happened so please shift far before it bites you in the ass....
Mumu you know the answer already to your foolish question! Stay at your own detriment! Msheeew foolish question! The curse frm his ex na your head go carry am if u no leave that wicked man! Dating someone for 6 yrs, and putting her in the family way, na Law degree he wan get from 6yrs relationship?
U̶̲̥̅̊ knw d right tin τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ do y ask silly questions??? If U̶̲̥̅̊ dont knw he is using τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ buy tym/distract himself,if were U̶̲̥̅̊ would tok τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ d girl τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ knw wat realy happend. Even wit D̶̲̥̅̊Α̲̅†̥ dont tink U̶̲̥̅̊ shuld go ahead τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ av anytin wit him.. #MAURINGABS
Men!!!!...this species called men can do nd undo only God knows what transpired btwn them two buh jst sit n watch nd don't give ur hundred percent heart to him yet so U won't get hurt at da long run...
Its so obvious d guy is keeping you for selfish reasons. He doesn't love you. The truth is he's still very much with his girlfrnd. Be smart and try to find out why he separated frm his pregnant girlfrnd b4 you'll be a victim of circumstances.
If the pregnancy is the guy's forget him. Ask him if he loves u he ll open up to u, if he keep quiet then he is responsible. Don't ve anything to do with d lady becos she might pour her Venom on you. Forget d guy n move forward.
So y ask when u ready knw d kind of man dat leaves his pregnant gf of 6 yrs? Abegi rubbish! Good sitdown bcos 4rm d tone of ur voice I think u knw d kind of man he is, d kind dat will dump u wen he is done wit u!
Don't date him I said it again don't date him if no what is good 4 u infat if u love ur life or s what happen 2 d first girl he dated for 6 month we happen 2 u also
What goes around comes around. Dig deep and find out more if u don't wanna become the next Gabrielle Union. also ask yourself what happens if u get pregnant tomorrow. who knows? the ex may have been tired of terminating pregnancies (6 and half years u said) and decided to keep this one hence their break up. u Berra be wise
Don't date him I said it again don't date him if no what is good 4 u infat if u love ur life or s what happen 2 d first girl he dated for 6 month we happen 2 u also
You have your doubts, that's good. It means you're actually using your brains. Contact the chic to know wsup b4 he'll get you pregnant and leave you too. Ella.
I will advice you not continue with a man who has a pregnant Ex . Let him sought himself out of D mess dat he got himself in. If U don't want a complicated future, Quit dis new relationship......
Tell him to bring the baby mama for you to meet. Obviously if you are dating her baby father you would be involved in her child's life bet she wouldn't have a problem meeting you. Case close everyone is happy
hmnnnn...think twice dear and pray for divine direction. This story sound one kain o, i srzly think u too young for this drama! Ask your mam more questions and demand answers!
Ma dear ask questions! Dear libers, shld I date a guy who dated ma sis nd den ma friend?? He's seriusly askin mi out. P.s dis girl luks lyk mi o. #wierd. *rhymz
its not that right for a lady to date such a man cos the unborn baby when born will surely connect the two of them together again now or in the future,esp when the child grows and starts requesting to see his father. this why its good not to indulge in sex before marriage.i dont support abortion at all so abortion is out of it. it will be in best interest for you to leave the guy so the guy can reunite with his girlfriend and hopefully get married to him all for the sake of the unborn child. so i advise you leave the guy alone and look for another.
My sista,don't go into sumtin dat ur gonna regret 2maro,u tink say 6 nd dah half Yrs na smalltin?? Dat man did sumtin 2 dat gurl dah made her walkaway or d reverse myt b d case!!jst bcareful b4 u bcum a victim of "had I known" **divy** lili hope u slept like a queen??
Now that's a gud tot u have dere. I advice U listen to instinct. Els who knows if he will do same 2u smday? We guys cn be coning n trikish atimes? Y dint he tell u abt d pregnant ex bf toastin u? N how wuld u feel if sm els is datin a man ur 7months. Pregnant 4? N u'v spent ova 6yrs wit. Haba habibi. End it dt relationshp @ once. Wat eva u do to sm1 will one dey hunt u. Gud or bad. Weda we lik it or nt. Its nature! Cheers.
Sisi sugomu.... he needs a knacking partner since his main girl friend currently cant fulfil his sexual needs. Wen he's done wt u which should be in approximately 3 months (2 months to delivery, extra one month for healing) he will toss u like dirty toilet paper.
Also ask yourself this question: What kind of woman would be with a man who left his 7month old pregnant girlfriend? Remember what happened to Britney Spears after she snatched K-fed away from his heavily pregnant girlfriend and then married him? Let that be a very candid lesson for you, otherwise different forces will be vetting punishments your way from every corner, side and angle. He 'll do exactly the same thing to you, even worse and it might be too late for you by then. The guy even sounds heartless to start with, he dumped her after 6.5 years and a pregnancy!. Sweetheart, shine your eyes; don't claim and share somebody else's self-imposed curse, let him deal with it himself. Just Me
Do u want a polygamous family,if yes stay,if no run fast b4 it get's worst....dat guys does nt hav conscious come on 7months,you left her...you hav to be kidding me.
Better quit that thing u call a relationship coz that dude isn't a real man, he will break your heart and move on to the next babe coz he is heartless . After fucking u as much as he wants, he will quit u by telling u he reconciled with his baby mama. He is just a serial heartbreaker , he will dump u when u get pregnant for him and will tell the next babe that both of u grew apart.
As long as you know that he is "tied" for life and if you are with him you also will be "tied" to the baby and a potentially crazy baby mama for life, then you're good. However, my advice is that this guy is not the dependable type. If they were dating for 6+ years and a baby on the way made them split, then that shows that there's something wrong somewhere. The fact that he also chose to not tell you upfront shows that he is the manipulative type. If it were me, I would run away fast because this is just the beginning of more drama to come.
Miss re u blind, can't u see dat he is married, as long as dat lady is pregant 4 him, them will surly make up, pls my dear run 4 ur life B4 its too late.......
Heiiiiiiiii. The amount of fools in this Nigeria is baffling. Olodo po! That's why the government will be cheating us, and we know but as usual we sit and get fooled with "what' can I do". YOU MY DEAR HAS BEEN FOOLED. Maybe they had small problem, he's using you to pass time.Hell soon leave you. You said he swept you off your feet? Tell him to kindly drop you back so you can be going your own way. Shalom.
Hey girl, How are you sure he will not abandon you too after 7 months of getting you impregnated? I don't know your age, You look so young and pretty and i don't think you want start your life with in polygamous way, Why don't you wait for your time, you will surely find someone that is honest.
My dear, all those questions popping in ur head are d right questions nd dey are there cos u hv a good heart..It all depends on what u want and wt u can condone. If u can't live with d fact dt u aided a guy to not look back 2 his pregnant girlfriend, then u shud back out, but if can live with it, den u go ahead nd date d guy dt has swept off ur feet.if u love him so much dt u can't leave him, u shud try to make sure he takes care of his ex and d baby(u shud be careful on this anyways) while u guys are still dating..whichever one u wanna do, leaving him or staying with him, find time to talk to d both parties to knw why and how such a long lasting relationship wud crash just at d verge of their love being harnessed by a bundle of Joy. I promise u, by d time u get to knw, u wud knw who's at fault,who to be blamed nd whose side to take..but methinks dt a guy who wud do dt 2 his ex wud do it again to someone(but it all still depends on wt actually happened)..so try to speak with d lady and knw her kinda person nd wt transpired...
I found myself in a similar situation. Just that his gal friend was out of the country and not pregnant. I kw exactly how in love you are. But let me remind you, he only asked u to date him. Do u kw his intention for the relationship in the long term? I suggest u contact the girlfriend and hear wat she has to say, he isn't being completely honest wit you, find out the rest now dat u can to avoid regretting later. If he has nothing to hide, he shudnt b worried abt u contacting her. Else, he is just using you while away time before he gets back with his gal. Raro
Better Give him a bit of space to clear his dilemma. You don't want to be caught up in any mess. men will tell u just about anything to get what they want. Use ur head, eyes and ears. All I see is drama jor. 6 years n a baby in d corner n he can just walk then who u be?
You can never tell, a lot of things could be involved. It would be better if you spoke to the other lady, just find out why they broke up. Then you can decide. Hilary Obiorah
My dear some men are scared 2 Sleep with their wife during pregnancy,so they tend 2 go Outside
2) What kind of an irresponsible man Breaks up with a girl he dated for Over 5yrs during this trying Time What kind of a man keeps this good News from his "supposed"girlfriend. Or is he ashamed of his unborn Child?
Shine ya eye cos u will be dumped In may,when she wld av given Birth and healed
Hmmmm dis guy don sound like a nice pesin to me. U beta stop dat relationship and run for ur dear life. He is soon gonna dump ur ass. Very wicked soon.....SMH
Right now pity is what I feel for you, go ahead and try him, a trial will convince you, I know by the time he impregnate you too your chapter will also become closed in his life, better find a way to meet with this lady secretly withoutt his knowledge and hear what really happened before you put your head.
Is this a joke? 2 months, 6 nd half years, 7 months pregnant. Even the pregnancy is older than your wept off your feet relationship. Believe me he can leave you anytime, it could be next week, in 6 years.
You be bastard na if yu date him. Can't you read btw the lines. Am sure he has money and that's what swept you off ur freaking fucking feet. Think woman. Am sure you're not getting any younger. Outta here*
My own problem is that only guys that r already in relationship that comes to me,they will be honest to tell me they have a gf buh that they like me...should I go ahead or should I still chill for my own?libers pls I need ur advice
My dear,run for your dear life oh cos this dude cud possibly be telling lies just to get U in bed with him.And just so U know,this two have an "unfinshed relationship".
You already asked the simple question "what kind of man leaves his pregnant girlfriend". The answer is direct "AN IRRESPONSIBLE MAN". If you like you can go ahead to dating him. You are OYO
Learn from this story yourself. You already have the answer. The Yorubas will say "Pasan ta a Fi na Iyale wa loke ajaa fun iyawo. Meaning the cane that was used to beat the old wife is kept on the roof top for the new wife
A good man #Nonsense. Can't you simply think on your own. Go ahead and date, he will leave you in the same situations. Innocent girls always attract bad boys anymore. Good morning, Naija gossips
My dear, run 4 ur life, d chapter can never b closed! He will have a child who will always come b4 u which cos dats his blood. And if u succeed in making him abandon d child what's d assurance he won't do d same to you? Pls u'l get sm1 else besides who dates while expecting a child??? Dats just unfair
You just said it yourself that it is strange, please move on with your life and do not entangle yourself with any mess. Clearly the guy is irresponsible, leaving a girl he sated for 6 yrs who is pregnant or he is either lying to you and just wants to get into ur pants because she might be too heavy to. give him some. Be Wise.
Well first of all being pregnant for a guy guarrantees nothing!! U can't tie a guy down if he dosent wanna be... so If he says he loves u then go ahead u don't have to feel guilty,But also be watchfull!!
Better wait until child is born and even over one year sef to be sure you are not the rebound lady. Know what you will be dealing with before you get too serious.
My dear run fast and far for your life! Ttust me breaking a relationship of that long years + expecting a baby together is not easy . break up with him or at least give him space for like 5months and u will hear dey back together. I fell u encouraging him not to use his head.
Hmm, I advise u stay off. Don't b scared of contacting her, go ahead to contact her if u can, u could find more things abt him. For me, a guy who dumps his pregnant girl friend whom he has dated for over six years is only but wicked.
All dis questions yu re asking us re d exact questions yu shuld b asking d guy....dated 4 6yrs, she got pregnant, yu broke up, it doesn't even make any sense 2 me so definately, he's nt telln yu d whole story, dere's more.
You have already answer your own question. What kind of a man leaves his pregnant girlfriend After dating for 6 years and 2 months after finding out that she is pregnant. They have issues he first of all needs to deal with. And if he cannot handle those issue with her after 6 months, what makes you think that he would be able to do so with you. I am not saying tart they would get back together but, something is not right. And you need to take it slow. Now is not the time to be picking aso ebi.
Gf they only advice I av 4 u is 2 mov on wit ur life,dnt date d guy if u av Conscious,hw can a man leave his gf dat is pregnant 4 him 4 6 month? Man eeehhhhh.mtcheeew.
You asked a question , and you have it all answered by yourself. A man who cn suddenly see a woman he dated for six years and a half , who is also pregnant for him that she is no more good enough will do worst to any other lady, that lady's own is season1 am sure you will be the full version of season 2.
You asked a question , and you have it all answered by yourself. A man who cn suddenly see a woman he dated for six years and a half , who is also pregnant for him that she is no more good enough will do worst to any other lady, that lady's own is season1 am sure you will be the full version of season 2.
U beta leave him or find out thns properly b4 u go ahead.....dere is fire on d mountain oooo......u don't need 2 be told........dat guy is telln some lies... Linda post ooooo...wetin I do u?
I see deceit written all over his relationship with u. It's absolutely impossible for him to leave his 7 months pregnant girlfriend of over 6years relationship for u whom he met just two months ago. And even if u think he's serious with u, trust me, u can't deal with the " baby mama" stuff.
The writings are clearly written all over d wall. Use ur tongue and count ur teeth.
I see deceit written all over his relationship with u. It's absolutely impossible for him to leave his 7 months pregnant girlfriend of over 6years relationship for u whom he met just two months ago. And even if u think he's serious with u, trust me, u can't deal with the " baby mama" stuff.
The writings are clearly written all over d wall. Use ur tongue and count ur teeth.
Now that you know RUN. Your case will be worse. That poor girl is in agony and suffering alone. He likes enjoyment but runs away from responsibility. BEWARE!!!
It's not possible for a guy who dated his babe for 6 and a half years to split when they discovered they expecting and she is just 8months and their so called grow apart...contact the babe and find out the truth
Nooooooooo!!!! Have bin there!!!! Dont!
ReplyDeleteDuuh! akuko mike Ejeagha.
ReplyDeleteam sure u already had your mind madeup,see u forming mother theresa. for a guy u claimed you are crazy about what advice could change your mind.
Isn't it better you date a guy whose girlfriend is 7months pregnant than an Aristo whose last child is 7years old.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310
Yes! Because when the baby is born she'll need u to babysit.
ReplyDelete#That happy sister!
Run for your dear life dear, if not, your case will be worse than his ex cos you knew what kind of man he was and did nothing
ReplyDeleteIts allowed.lol
ReplyDeleteYou're very stupid...you don't need any prophet to tell you that the guy is just f**king for fun. He will surely dump you for his baby mama.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, if your mind is posing these many questions already, it obviously doesn't feel right. You think deeply and be sincere to yourself, so help you God.
ReplyDeleteU knw wats up dnt let ur feelings sweep off ur thinking cap
ReplyDeleteHis is a fraud,b careful
ReplyDeleteGoan read ur book...
ReplyDeletePls my dear,u dnt av to do smfin u wld regrat. Still find out more abt him b4 u end up hurting urslf
ReplyDeleteThat guy hand no pure that's all I can say my lady all in glitters are not Gold u better think twice b4 love will sweep u away haba
ReplyDeleteYou are dating a married man! Please I fink you should free him for now, let him take care of the responsiblity of caring for up coming mother and unborn baby, u can go ahead wit him after birth and the child is a little grown, that's if he decides not to marry the mother of his baby, and decides to marry u, but for let him be
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Babes, no jst try am o.... Cuz, in d end, he'll go bak 2 her. He's not meant 4 u.
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That ur last question is d answer to your puzzle my love. U r beautiful and will find a responsible man who is serious about you. #KeepItMoving
ReplyDelete3 advice 4 u dear, if u must go on wid him..1.dnt date him 4 too long, 2.dnt get preggy, 3 shine ya eyes...u welcome.
ReplyDeleteLol, pls my dear, do not try to continue, just call off that relationship ASAP. You and the guy might be friends bu srzly they r still coming back for each other
ReplyDeleteChai!! I hear akuku evry day
ReplyDeleteshe has seen every sign to drop the guy, she don't need to ask again....
ReplyDeleteMy dear pls dnt or atleast nt nw,tak ur tym ad study d whole tin b4 acceptin bcus if he cn leave dat gal wen she nids him most,he wil do it 2 u ad urs might b a worse situation
ReplyDeleteIt's obvious there's more to the story than you know..if u love complications, u can stay put but I can assure you this will get really messy after now!
ReplyDeleteYou answered the question yourself, what kind of man would leave his pregnant girlfriend he has dated for 6 and half years and tell you cock and bull just to get into your pants....If you dnt want to entangled in the drama you would walk...
ReplyDeleteIt's obvious there's more to the story than you know..if u love complications, u can stay put but I can assure you this will get really messy after now!
ReplyDeleteBabe my candid advice?leave b4 u get to entangled in a web too difficult to loose urself frm...
ReplyDeleteGood questn! Wat kind ☀f man leaves his 7months pregnant girlfrnd nd starts dating someone else within 2months. Look b4 U limp, dnt limp b4 U start looking. Be wise
ReplyDeleteU have all d answers u want but u don't want to face it,btw it will just crazy to date him
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Look ere honey, those questions should be directed at HIM and HIM alone. And lil girl, your thoughts are exactly how you feel. P.s - Itali eji ti nwunye izizi ive ka dikwa na ime uno. Shikena.
ReplyDeleteU better leave him..my candid advice girl..
ReplyDeleteLinda post my comment o! Break up wit him
ReplyDeleteBck off darlid, cos d earlier d beta 4 u, else ur life will b worser dan herz.wait don't b in a hurry,a man who truly deserves u will showly come forth SHaLLOM SIS.
ReplyDeleteU don't av to date a guy with his ex 7months gone buh its ur choice anyway who knows d guy may av something hidden
ReplyDeletePls stop being so gullible. They are still very much together and he is just looking for a fling. U will end up having your heart broken.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, 2 months isn't enough time to be head over heels in love, in my opinion. You need to understand that you are a side chick! Someone he's banging while his girlfriend is indisposed. If you are truly that important to him, he'll want u to have an amicable relationship with the mother of his unborn baby because your paths are bound to cross. My advice? RUN! Run as fast as you can! Do not waste your youth on a man whom has committment issues! If he left her after 6 years, he'll leave u after 6 months! #justsaying!
ReplyDeleteTalk to the pregnant girlfriend first
ReplyDelete"what kinda man leaves his pregnant girlfriend?..." THE KIND THATS GONNA LEAVE YOUR ASS!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteAjuju!!!! u bera run 4 ur life! or else same fate will be fall u...
ReplyDeletems'uj
Dey there dey ask question when u already know d answer...or are u not a naija babe..
ReplyDelete"what kinda man leaves his pregnant girlfriend?..." THE KIND THATS GONNA LEAVE YOUR ASS!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteur relationship will nt last,cos u will ave problem
ReplyDeleteI wouldn't date him if I were you.. Men lie! He will get u preggers too & run for it! Kill whatever feelings u have for him & trust God for someone better.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, run for ur life cos dat guy met no good for u... Mind u, u don't knw 2marrow.. B4 is too late late ok
ReplyDeleteI think say I dull till I read this story, u no wan wise abi? dae dia dae ask question...
ReplyDeleteBetter dont start what you can't finish ooo...How would you feel if your man left you like that for another woman??.You dont know what really happened so please shift far before it bites you in the ass....
ReplyDeleteMumu you know the answer already to your foolish question! Stay at your own detriment! Msheeew foolish question! The curse frm his ex na your head go carry am if u no leave that wicked man! Dating someone for 6 yrs, and putting her in the family way, na Law degree he wan get from 6yrs relationship?
ReplyDeleteyou have answered your own questions? my guess is he needs sex right now but hey benefit of doubt ...right?
ReplyDeleteU̶̲̥̅̊ knw d right tin τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ do y ask silly questions??? If U̶̲̥̅̊ dont knw he is using τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ buy tym/distract himself,if were U̶̲̥̅̊ would tok τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ d girl τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ knw wat realy happend. Even wit D̶̲̥̅̊Α̲̅†̥ dont tink U̶̲̥̅̊ shuld go ahead τ̲̅õ̸̳͡ av anytin wit him.. #MAURINGABS
ReplyDeleteBabe follow ur heart o
ReplyDeleteSista make ya decision yasef, lyfz full of tough choices dear...
ReplyDeletekind of a man leaves his pregnant girlfriend?
ReplyDeleteYOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF MAN LEAVES HIS PREGNANT GIRLFRIEND ??? THEN GO AHEAD AND DATE HIM.
U better run nw that u can run.
ReplyDeleteIt seems u wnt to have many baby mamas arnd...that's If he'll nt make u one of the baby mamas sef...lol
my dear i will advice u to leave him..
ReplyDeleteIts either de re hiv positive. U guys should run aa test.
ReplyDeleteFuck off, before it get messier!
ReplyDeleteYou're crazy about him or the way he fucks u?madam,wake up,u sef go soon carry belle,and no be u go tell d end of the tory later.LatinoPINKY
ReplyDeleteMen!!!!...this species called men can do nd undo only God knows what transpired btwn them two buh jst sit n watch nd don't give ur hundred percent heart to him yet so U won't get hurt at da long run...
ReplyDeleteYour guy is a f***** a******
ReplyDeleteYou don't have to be a rocket scientist to read between the lines.
girl you just fell for the oldest trick in the book
ReplyDeleteODE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! From the way you construct your sentences, it already shows how DAFT you are. Linda, I can't believe you posted this, honestly!
ReplyDeleteIf you date him you making the biggest of your life girl, he is going to leave you pregnant the same way he left the first girl. So be wise, jare.
ReplyDeleteIts so obvious d guy is keeping you for selfish reasons. He doesn't love you. The truth is he's still very much with his girlfrnd. Be smart and try to find out why he separated frm his pregnant girlfrnd b4 you'll be a victim of circumstances.
ReplyDeleteHmmm,den u nid 2 get pregnant 4 him 2 to ansa ur question nd clear ur doubt.
ReplyDeleteIf the pregnancy is the guy's forget him. Ask him if he loves u he ll open up to u, if he keep quiet then he is responsible.
ReplyDeleteDon't ve anything to do with d lady becos she might pour her Venom on you. Forget d guy n move forward.
Search ur conscience,there lies ur answers
ReplyDeleteSo y ask when u ready knw d kind of man dat leaves his pregnant gf of 6 yrs? Abegi rubbish! Good sitdown bcos 4rm d tone of ur voice I think u knw d kind of man he is, d kind dat will dump u wen he is done wit u!
ReplyDeleteDon't date him I said it again don't date him if no what is good 4 u infat if u love ur life or s what happen 2 d first girl he dated for 6 month we happen 2 u also
ReplyDeleteFather of the nation, don't worry girl soon U̶̲̥̅̊ will get urs from him then he will port to another. The choice is urs.
ReplyDeleteWhat goes around comes around. Dig deep and find out more if u don't wanna become the next Gabrielle Union. also ask yourself what happens if u get pregnant tomorrow. who knows? the ex may have been tired of terminating pregnancies (6 and half years u said) and decided to keep this one hence their break up. u Berra be wise
ReplyDeleteDon't date him I said it again don't date him if no what is good 4 u infat if u love ur life or s what happen 2 d first girl he dated for 6 month we happen 2 u also
ReplyDeleteYou have your doubts, that's good. It means you're actually using your brains. Contact the chic to know wsup b4 he'll get you pregnant and leave you too. Ella.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, i will only advise you to quit him.
ReplyDeleteGirl you r very naive. This guy is still with his gf. The earlier you leave his ass, the better for ya.
ReplyDeleteI will advice you not continue with a man who has a pregnant Ex . Let him sought himself out of D mess dat he got himself in. If U don't want a complicated future, Quit dis new relationship......
ReplyDeleteIs vry wrng 2 go ahead wt such r/ship,cos d guy ways nor pure
ReplyDeleteI think u shld try n find out 4rm her b4 u continuer the relationship
ReplyDeleteTell him to bring the baby mama for you to meet. Obviously if you are dating her baby father you would be involved in her child's life bet she wouldn't have a problem meeting you. Case close everyone is happy
ReplyDeleteWat kind of man leaves his pregnant gf? Well , a type u are dating! *SAINT*
ReplyDeletehmnnnn...think twice dear and pray for divine direction. This story sound one kain o, i srzly think u too young for this drama! Ask your mam more questions and demand answers!
ReplyDeleteOmo u are a side chic.
ReplyDeleteDate him and become frustrated and restless
ReplyDeleteAnswer: the man you're dating.simple as ABC
ReplyDeleteMa dear ask questions! Dear libers, shld I date a guy who dated ma sis nd den ma friend?? He's seriusly askin mi out. P.s dis girl luks lyk mi o. #wierd. *rhymz
ReplyDeleteits not that right for a lady to date such a man cos the unborn baby when born will surely connect the two of them together again now or in the future,esp when the child grows and starts requesting to see his father. this why its good not to indulge in sex before marriage.i dont support abortion at all so abortion is out of it. it will be in best interest for you to leave the guy so the guy can reunite with his girlfriend and hopefully get married to him all for the sake of the unborn child. so i advise you leave the guy alone and look for another.
ReplyDeleteBut pple can ask stupid questions shaa. Why won't u leave him? Siddon there, the same fate that befell the ex will also fall on u if u don't leave.
ReplyDeleteNor try am oooo if yo do dat means yo are evil even if your conscience nor cm disturb u d guy ex go pour acid for ur body.
ReplyDeleteKowalski
Are You a Learner??? Next pls!
ReplyDeletebabe tell the dude that all three of u should sit down and talk. if hes serious he wouldn't mind. if not pack ur bags and go. he is not ur man
ReplyDeleteMy sista,don't go into sumtin dat ur gonna regret 2maro,u tink say 6 nd dah half Yrs na smalltin?? Dat man did sumtin 2 dat gurl dah made her walkaway or d reverse myt b d case!!jst bcareful b4 u bcum a victim of "had I known" **divy** lili hope u slept like a queen??
ReplyDeleteGood question
ReplyDeleteDear, no matter what anyone tells you it really is up to you to decide. My opinion tho is no.
ReplyDeleteMumu
ReplyDeleteUse your dumb brain. You don't need anyone to tell you that he's using you for sex.
ReplyDeleteBabe u need to dump his ass, else his willing to tell u why he left his ex
ReplyDeleteNo please leave that men because when the baby is here they you be a happy family and you will come second #trust me I have been their
ReplyDeleteMy dear, I'm sure u already know the answer. Goodluck in wotever decision u finally take. Cheers
ReplyDeleteWhat is the answer to your question? Just 7mths. Welcome to mumu-ism. Na so e go dump u once e knack u belle too.
ReplyDeleteHoney hell no it just means he would do the same thing to you if you got pregnant his a man do the math...
ReplyDeleteNow that's a gud tot u have dere. I advice U listen to instinct. Els who knows if he will do same 2u smday? We guys cn be coning n trikish atimes? Y dint he tell u abt d pregnant ex bf toastin u? N how wuld u feel if sm els is datin a man ur 7months. Pregnant 4? N u'v spent ova 6yrs wit. Haba habibi. End it dt relationshp @ once. Wat eva u do to sm1 will one dey hunt u. Gud or bad. Weda we lik it or nt. Its nature! Cheers.
ReplyDeleteAnnie Idibia accepted to marry tubaba while Peru was almost due for delivery
ReplyDeleteJust saying...
Babe, u done answer your own question by yourself @What kind of a man leaves his pregant girlfriend? Move ahead. Chicolate.
ReplyDeleteYoung lady jst leave d guy cus he wil stil go bak 2 her.
ReplyDeleteRun. . .d dude is not being truthful. . . His relationship raises far too many questions than there are answers, . . . Doesn't look healthy.
ReplyDeleteSisi sugomu.... he needs a knacking partner since his main girl friend currently cant fulfil his sexual needs. Wen he's done wt u which should be in approximately 3 months (2 months to delivery, extra one month for healing) he will toss u like dirty toilet paper.
ReplyDeleteAlso ask yourself this question: What kind of woman would be with a man who left his 7month old pregnant girlfriend? Remember what happened to Britney Spears after she snatched K-fed away from his heavily pregnant girlfriend and then married him? Let that be a very candid lesson for you, otherwise different forces will be vetting punishments your way from every corner, side and angle. He 'll do exactly the same thing to you, even worse and it might be too late for you by then. The guy even sounds heartless to start with, he dumped her after 6.5 years and a pregnancy!. Sweetheart, shine your eyes; don't claim and share somebody else's self-imposed curse, let him deal with it himself. Just Me
ReplyDeleteThe guy is lying and if you HATE yourself go ahead and date him!
ReplyDeleteDo u want a polygamous family,if yes stay,if no run fast b4 it get's worst....dat guys does nt hav conscious come on 7months,you left her...you hav to be kidding me.
ReplyDeleteThe kind that would leave you for another girl when you get pregnant too...
ReplyDeleteThe kind that would leave you for another girl when you get pregnant too...
ReplyDeleteBe careful with that guy,he looks like a player.
ReplyDeletePls dnt go 4 guy. Dts d same way d guy wil leave u 2
ReplyDeleteBetter quit that thing u call a relationship coz that dude isn't a real man, he will break your heart and move on to the next babe coz he is heartless . After fucking u as much as he wants, he will quit u by telling u he reconciled with his baby mama. He is just a serial heartbreaker , he will dump u when u get pregnant for him and will tell the next babe that both of u grew apart.
ReplyDeleteAs long as you know that he is "tied" for life and if you are with him you also will be "tied" to the baby and a potentially crazy baby mama for life, then you're good. However, my advice is that this guy is not the dependable type. If they were dating for 6+ years and a baby on the way made them split, then that shows that there's something wrong somewhere. The fact that he also chose to not tell you upfront shows that he is the manipulative type. If it were me, I would run away fast because this is just the beginning of more drama to come.
ReplyDeleteMiss re u blind, can't u see dat he is married, as long as dat lady is pregant 4 him, them will surly make up, pls my dear run 4 ur life B4 its too late.......
ReplyDeleteHeiiiiiiiii. The amount of fools in this Nigeria is baffling. Olodo po! That's why the government will be cheating us, and we know but as usual we sit and get fooled with "what' can I do". YOU MY DEAR HAS BEEN FOOLED. Maybe they had small problem, he's using you to pass time.Hell soon leave you. You said he swept you off your feet? Tell him to kindly drop you back so you can be going your own way. Shalom.
ReplyDeleteThe dude is probably lying, no need to try. You should probably hear from the lady herself
ReplyDeleteBeta run
ReplyDeleteHey girl, How are you sure he will not abandon you too after 7 months of getting you impregnated? I don't know your age, You look so young and pretty and i don't think you want start your life with in polygamous way, Why don't you wait for your time, you will surely find someone that is honest.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, all those questions popping in ur head are d right questions nd dey are there cos u hv a good heart..It all depends on what u want and wt u can condone. If u can't live with d fact dt u aided a guy to not look back 2 his pregnant girlfriend, then u shud back out, but if can live with it, den u go ahead nd date d guy dt has swept off ur feet.if u love him so much dt u can't leave him, u shud try to make sure he takes care of his ex and d baby(u shud be careful on this anyways) while u guys are still dating..whichever one u wanna do, leaving him or staying with him, find time to talk to d both parties to knw why and how such a long lasting relationship wud crash just at d verge of their love being harnessed by a bundle of Joy. I promise u, by d time u get to knw, u wud knw who's at fault,who to be blamed nd whose side to take..but methinks dt a guy who wud do dt 2 his ex wud do it again to someone(but it all still depends on wt actually happened)..so try to speak with d lady and knw her kinda person nd wt transpired...
ReplyDeleteHell no
ReplyDeleteI found myself in a similar situation. Just that his gal friend was out of the country and not pregnant. I kw exactly how in love you are. But let me remind you, he only asked u to date him. Do u kw his intention for the relationship in the long term? I suggest u contact the girlfriend and hear wat she has to say, he isn't being completely honest wit you, find out the rest now dat u can to avoid regretting later. If he has nothing to hide, he shudnt b worried abt u contacting her. Else, he is just using you while away time before he gets back with his gal.
ReplyDeleteRaro
If you love your life and you want to enjoy it,avoid a man wiv baggages
ReplyDeleteBetter Give him a bit of space to clear his dilemma. You don't want to be caught up in any mess. men will tell u just about anything to get what they want. Use ur head, eyes and ears. All I see is drama jor. 6 years n a baby in d corner n he can just walk then who u be?
ReplyDeleteTwo words...HELL NO!!!
ReplyDeleteBabe, I will advise you to know what really happened between him and his Ex.
ReplyDeleteBe careful. This guy is a shop rite. He want to take advantage of u and leave. So watchu face and see clear of it u hear
ReplyDeleteYou have answerd d question your self be wise.
ReplyDeleteYou can never tell, a lot of things could be involved. It would be better if you spoke to the other lady, just find out why they broke up. Then you can decide. Hilary Obiorah
ReplyDeleteMy dear some men are scared 2
ReplyDeleteSleep with their wife during pregnancy,so they tend 2 go
Outside
2) What kind of an irresponsible man
Breaks up with a girl he dated for
Over 5yrs during this trying
Time
What kind of a man keeps this good
News from his "supposed"girlfriend.
Or is he ashamed of his unborn
Child?
Shine ya eye cos u will be dumped
In may,when she wld av given
Birth and healed
Pardon my gbagaun if any na sleep eye
U can see d handwriting on d wall, run 4 ur life o, what makes u think u might nt end up dat way
ReplyDeleteU beta run for ur dear life.
ReplyDeleteU r sooooooooo on your own.
ReplyDeleteThat nigga is gonna wreak havoc in your life dear. Flea!!!
ReplyDelete~~Success Has No Limitation~~
Hmmmm dis guy don sound like a nice pesin to me. U beta stop dat relationship and run for ur dear life. He is soon gonna dump ur ass. Very wicked soon.....SMH
ReplyDeleteThat is one hell of a heartless man. He will gladly do same to you.
ReplyDeleteRespect yourself and leave him to sort himself and his messed up life out.
Y FRIEND! RUN FOR UR LIFE. THEY DATED FOR YEARS GINNI!!! HE WILL DUMP U JUST SAME!!!! HOW U GET A MAN IS HOW U LOSE THEM!!!! SAFE URSELF
ReplyDeleteRight now pity is what I feel for you, go ahead and try him, a trial will convince you, I know by the time he impregnate you too your chapter will also become closed in his life, better find a way to meet with this lady secretly withoutt his knowledge and hear what really happened before you put your head.
ReplyDeleteIs this a joke? 2 months, 6 nd half years, 7 months pregnant. Even the pregnancy is older than your wept off your feet relationship. Believe me he can leave you anytime, it could be next week, in 6 years.
ReplyDeleteIf he can leav his preg gurl, a r/ship of more dan 6yrs, he can also leav his preg wife, a marriage of one night. U beta dig deep gurlfrnd
ReplyDeleteIf u av eyes pls open it. Leaving his pregnant woman is an ominous signal of worse things looming for u. Looking better guy who u can cope with
ReplyDeleteYou be bastard na if yu date him. Can't you read btw the lines. Am sure he has money and that's what swept you off ur freaking fucking feet. Think woman. Am sure you're not getting any younger. Outta here*
ReplyDeleteMy own problem is that only guys that r already in relationship that comes to me,they will be honest to tell me they have a gf buh that they like me...should I go ahead or should I still chill for my own?libers pls I need ur advice
ReplyDeleteU r nxt online. U'l soon cry bcos urs wil be worst.
ReplyDeleteMy dear,run for your dear life oh cos this dude cud possibly be telling lies just to get U in bed with him.And just so U know,this two have an "unfinshed relationship".
ReplyDeleteBetter run 4 ur life! Do not be blinded by Infatuation! Cos surely n truly, ur guy will go back to his baby mama n leave u heart broken.
ReplyDeleteu'v answered it urself wt ur last question.d guy is either mean or just lying to av his way wit u and den dump u....my dear,pls run for ur life ooooo
ReplyDeleteNne, u better run away from dat relationship as fast as ur leg can carry you.
ReplyDeleteBaby girl,he might do dsame thing 2 u if care is nt taken,mayb d ex refused 2 have an abortion den he left her.
ReplyDeleteHonestly, I'm d guy being talked about here. IJ, is that u? I sincerely do love u..
ReplyDeleteYou already asked the simple question "what kind of man leaves his pregnant girlfriend". The answer is direct "AN IRRESPONSIBLE MAN". If you like you can go ahead to dating him. You are OYO
ReplyDeleteLearn from this story yourself. You already have the answer. The Yorubas will say "Pasan ta a Fi na Iyale wa loke ajaa fun iyawo. Meaning the cane that was used to beat the old wife is kept on the roof top for the new wife
ReplyDeletemy sister run run run, he wld do same 2u if by any chance u get pregnant for him too.
ReplyDeleteExactly,wat kind of man leaves a pregnant girl! Decison is simple.
ReplyDeleteRun for your life girl.
ReplyDeleteA good man #Nonsense. Can't you simply think on your own. Go ahead and date, he will leave you in the same situations. Innocent girls always attract bad boys anymore. Good morning,
ReplyDeleteNaija gossips
I advise u 2 leave d guy bcos if after u continue dating nd u get pregnant he may also leave u 2 ur pregnancy
ReplyDeleteMy dear! Wise up, no fall mumu 4 dat man abeg.
ReplyDeletePls pls wake up already!!! D dude is lying. Don't b a side chic pls walk away for d relationship. All lies!!!! Valerie Anthony
ReplyDeleteMy dear run for ur life
ReplyDeleteFind out the truth from the woman, most times women are terrible. Then advice yourself
ReplyDeleteMy dear run for ur life
ReplyDeleteI wanna believe its just a short-term relationship.Cos if U date him,he'll leave u as soon as U get preggy for him.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure U knw this.
My dear run for your dear life - what makes you think yours will be different!!!!
ReplyDeleteMy dear run for ur life
ReplyDeleteHe wil pregnant u nd leave u too
ReplyDeleteU beta luk b4 you leap cos it might be ur turn soon as yoruba wl say ''pansan ti won fi Ŋaa iyale,on be loke aja fun iyawo''
ReplyDeleteHe would leave ur aSs when he finds out ur pregnant 2 ... Men ar DOG's an beta b careful ... After 6 years, if I was the girl I'd suwer 4 him * sigh*
ReplyDeleteNO!!! Back Off
ReplyDeleteYES !!! Back Off
ReplyDeleteMy dear, run 4 ur life, d chapter can never b closed! He will have a child who will always come b4 u which cos dats his blood. And if u succeed in making him abandon d child what's d assurance he won't do d same to you? Pls u'l get sm1 else besides who dates while expecting a child??? Dats just unfair
ReplyDeleteYou just said it yourself that it is strange, please move on with your life and do not entangle yourself with any mess. Clearly the guy is irresponsible, leaving a girl he sated for 6 yrs who is pregnant or he is either lying to you and just wants to get into ur pants because she might be too heavy to. give him some. Be Wise.
ReplyDeleteWell first of all being pregnant for a guy guarrantees nothing!! U can't tie a guy down if he dosent wanna be... so If he says he loves u then go ahead u don't have to feel guilty,But also be watchfull!!
ReplyDeleteU want ma candid advise, den NO dont go ahead with the relationship..
ReplyDeleteIn another couple of months u will also find out exactly what kind of man he is. By then u will also be pregnant and alone.
ReplyDeleteMy dear your are walking on rough waters, moreso you are lucky he even told you he's expecting a baby from his ex..
ReplyDeleteMikky
Better wait until child is born and even over one year sef to be sure you are not the rebound lady. Know what you will be dealing with before you get too serious.
ReplyDeleteU ad beta ignore d feeling. A guy who could abandon a lady cos she's pregnant can do so to u as well. Beware o
ReplyDeleteMy dear run fast and far for your life! Ttust me breaking a relationship of that long years + expecting a baby together is not easy . break up with him or at least give him space for like 5months and u will hear dey back together. I fell u encouraging him not to use his head.
ReplyDeleteWhat they unto d jews shall be done unto d gentiles,u think he's a fool? U'll find out tht u'll be d loser @ d end of d day.
ReplyDeleteHmm, I advise u stay off. Don't b scared of contacting her, go ahead to contact her if u can, u could find more things abt him. For me, a guy who dumps his pregnant girl friend whom he has dated for over six years is only but wicked.
ReplyDeleteAll dis questions yu re asking us re d exact questions yu shuld b asking d guy....dated 4 6yrs, she got pregnant, yu broke up, it doesn't even make any sense 2 me so definately, he's nt telln yu d whole story, dere's more.
ReplyDeleteBetter find ur way now before its too late for u.or u will join the cue
ReplyDeleteYou have already answer your own question.
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of a man leaves his pregnant girlfriend
After dating for 6 years and 2 months after finding out that she is pregnant. They have issues he first of all needs to deal with. And if he cannot handle those issue with her after 6 months, what makes you think that he would be able to do so with you. I am not saying tart they would get back together but, something is not right. And you need to take it slow. Now is not the time to be picking aso ebi.
Gf they only advice I av 4 u is 2 mov on wit ur life,dnt date d guy if u av Conscious,hw can a man leave his gf dat is pregnant 4 him 4 6 month? Man eeehhhhh.mtcheeew.
ReplyDeletedo ur research very well dear dnt jux believe d guy,b wiser dan sarpent..............nwa lbeku
ReplyDeleteU know d answer,run and don't look back 6years aint 6months.
ReplyDeleteYou asked a question , and you have it all answered by yourself. A man who cn suddenly see a woman he dated for six years and a half , who is also pregnant for him that she is no more good enough will do worst to any other lady, that lady's own is season1 am sure you will be the full version of season 2.
ReplyDeleteUr stupidity is in abundance...
ReplyDeleteYou asked a question , and you have it all answered by yourself. A man who cn suddenly see a woman he dated for six years and a half , who is also pregnant for him that she is no more good enough will do worst to any other lady, that lady's own is season1 am sure you will be the full version of season 2.
ReplyDeleteAre u blind? U only hv ur self 2 blame latter.
ReplyDeleteU beta leave him or find out thns properly b4 u go ahead.....dere is fire on d mountain oooo......u don't need 2 be told........dat guy is telln some lies... Linda post ooooo...wetin I do u?
ReplyDeleteWhy wuld u date him? Are u blind? Cnt u see d handwriting on the wall? Carry ur craziness to anoda guy o!
ReplyDeleteHey babes, don't feel guilty. Just try to get your facts right so you won't make any mistake. If you are hapi with him it's a yes! From me.
ReplyDeleteI see deceit written all over his relationship with u. It's absolutely impossible for him to leave his 7 months pregnant girlfriend of over 6years relationship for u whom he met just two months ago. And even if u think he's serious with u, trust me, u can't deal with the " baby mama" stuff.
ReplyDeleteThe writings are clearly written all over d wall. Use ur tongue and count ur teeth.
I see deceit written all over his relationship with u. It's absolutely impossible for him to leave his 7 months pregnant girlfriend of over 6years relationship for u whom he met just two months ago. And even if u think he's serious with u, trust me, u can't deal with the " baby mama" stuff.
ReplyDeleteThe writings are clearly written all over d wall. Use ur tongue and count ur teeth.
Now that you know RUN. Your case will be worse. That poor girl is in agony and suffering alone. He likes enjoyment but runs away from responsibility. BEWARE!!!
ReplyDeleteIs beta u leave d guy nd find ur own man else where cos u ar also a woman nd u cnt take such a tin if dey try it wit u.
ReplyDeleteYou have said it all what kind of man leave his pregnant girlfriend? You shldnt date such a man!
ReplyDeleteFeel guilty pls she z pregnant...........y would he liv ha now dats d same tin he z gonna do 2 u if u also get pregnant
ReplyDeleteCommon sense is nt common @all.. Wats d assurance dt he won't do same to u? No need advisn u sef. Apply ur numbr 6.
ReplyDeleteIt's not possible for a guy who dated his babe for 6 and a half years to split when they discovered they expecting and she is just 8months and their so called grow apart...contact the babe and find out the truth
ReplyDeleteYOU HAVE ANSWERED THE QUES YOURSELF... MY ADVICE? RUN WITHOUT LOOKING BACK!!!
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