Here's the question - If you donate N1million to the family of a very ill person who needs urgent surgery (the money is to pay for the surgery) and a few hours after you make the transfer, you learn that the ill person has passed away, would you ask for your money back?
lol,tricky question. I sure would ask for it back
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Nope I won't
ReplyDeletehaba! no nw..u cant!
ReplyDeleteWhy not? Of course!! The money was given for a purpose, of which that purpose is no longer achievable, I will expect my bucks back!
ReplyDeleteIts simply a lost cause 'cs deyd use t 2plan d funeral.
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God forbid i dnt want dat kind of money ooooo. They should use it for the persons funeral.
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Definitely! No point not asking nah, abi?
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Y would I want to do dat (ask for my money back)?
ReplyDeleteCan a dead person pay back his debt? No!
I will not though it will pain me that the money was not used for its original purpose. Tinwa.
ReplyDeleteAs he dey hot! Bt I'll only demand 4 80% of d money! #wink# publish ma comment 4d 1st tym o linda!!
ReplyDeleteawkward to ask for it but e go pain me o
ReplyDeleteFor me to donate 1m means am rich n 1m means nothing to me!
ReplyDeleteWise comment
DeleteNo i wont, i will leave. It 4 God
ReplyDeleteFirst to comment #NO#
ReplyDeleteI'll definately ask if they(deceased family), did not ask me to collect.
ReplyDeleteYeah nau....immediately sef...shap shap
ReplyDeleteI will wait a little while for the family to return my money. I believe thats the right thing for them to do. But after 2 weeks of silence I will go and make a request for my money. i will even put it in writing. Warramess!!!
ReplyDeleteNaaaaaa I wouldn't .It will rather serve as part of my condolence assistance to d family.
ReplyDeleteHaba! its very simple na.
ReplyDeleteHis death is already a huge loss,so I won't compound their woes by takingback my money.
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DeleteDepend on d a/c I paid d moni in2, if its d doctor's or hospital's I will ask 4 it cos d ill person's family would nt fast ask for d moni in dt few hours diff. DD
DeleteLily dis ur question nobi here oooooo,,anyway No, y shld i ? I believe d person is only dead n nt yet buried so d family shld use it 4 his or her burial or oda necessary tins dey will need moni 4....
ReplyDeleteNever,I think it will be wrong to do that.
ReplyDeleteYes naa.....mayb gve em a lil asvcondolence.buh if am so rich,wil gve em d whole tin
ReplyDeleteNope, coz its as God wants it
ReplyDeleteOfcourse,I donated 4 a surgery nd nt 4 a funeral nd since †ђξ surgery aint gonna tak place,AAAIIII WAAAANT MY MONEYYYY BACK!!!
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It wasn't an investment. Period!
ReplyDeleteNooo..I don't think so...but if the family make any attempt to refund..omo I go collect am..I tried God knows
ReplyDeleteNope i wont.. that answer is subjective...>>> click here to know why most Nigerians love this spot .
ReplyDeleteOf course, i will...since the aim of transfering the money had been defeated.
ReplyDeleteThe money was for surgery, ain't no surgery done on a dead person. The family should be wise enough to return d money else I will ask for it ooo #JayBeyBlu
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ReplyDeleteYes of course, I will definitely ask for my money back.
ReplyDeleteNo need...
ReplyDeleteWait o linda! U are taking dis personal! Y is it dat u dnt lyk posting ma comment? Abi anoda tin ffg?!
ReplyDeleteSince the money is meant for the ill person to undergo a surgical process of which later the person passed on without the operation; the best thing to do is to account for the money collected so far. Then inform those that donated the money for record purpose and remittances as the case may be as opinionated by individual to determine.
ReplyDelete1million #yepa.............i will collect the money with style.......
ReplyDeleteY do u ask stupid question dis days?
ReplyDeleteNO!! if i can afford to give out 1 million Naira, then i can afford to let that money go. That someone is able to give away that amount of money, it means the person can afford to live without it.
ReplyDeleteNaaaaaa, gone is gone,i'll just let it go...
ReplyDeleteNaaaaaa, gone is gone,i'll just let it go...
ReplyDeleteDis kind question sef ni..bt dis moni too big 2 leave ooooo bt how person go do na ? U don already give out d moni...
ReplyDeleteWhy should I ask for a refund? It doesn't make any sense. Since the purpose for giving out d money has been defeated,deRes no big deal. God is still gonna reward you.
ReplyDeletehmmmm,hard one.for me,i ll leav d muny cos d family just lost a dear one and it ll b against good morals and my conscience to do so.and besides being able to gv dem d muny witawt any hope or agreemnt dat dey pay back,i shud b abl to overlook d muny afterall dey are family.ma take though.
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I will ask for my money back before it cause a big problem in the family**Raregem*
ReplyDeleteI wil nt take it back, bcos i neva donated d money 4 me 2 take it back whether life or death.
ReplyDeleteNot at all....it will be used for the burial
ReplyDeleteIf the person have kids.. i will make sure my money is put in a trust fund account for the kids.. ***Fizzy***
ReplyDeleteI wil ask for my money to test d family if dey wil return or refuse bt if they eventually return it I wil nt collect it cuz I giv it to dem in d first place bcuz I can afford it bt some family can be funny wen it comes to money don't be surprise some family wil refuse to return ur money.
ReplyDeleteiF I find myself in dat situation i wouldn't ask 4 my money back!cos av already given it out..!#doctorbobby
ReplyDeleteYou've given/donated the money, your job is done, its a gift and you shouldnt be bothered about how it's spent.....you donate/tithe money in church, the pastor buys a mansion/luxury car/designer clothes/jewelry/private jet, etc, do you ask for your money back?
ReplyDeleteI alredi donated it na.....wud nt ask 4 it o.
ReplyDeleteNah I won't ask for it back.
ReplyDeletei wont collect the cash back nah,i have given him/her.the family can use it.
ReplyDeleteKia!!!!!!linda dis one na tight question ooooo.na to free d money last last nw.@list mak dem use augument hospital bill n oda stufs necessarily
ReplyDeleteMake them use am do burial, if you could part with it, why ask for it. But if they gave it back? Now that's a different question.
ReplyDeleteI don't think der ȋ̝̊̅§ need to collect d money back, it can also b used for d burial ☺f̶̲̥̅̊ the person.what U̶̲̥̅̊ give to somebody U̶̲̥̅̊ don't need to take it back for any reason.
ReplyDelete4 wat na. Haba linda na so u wicked reach? Wetin b d meaning of donate?
ReplyDeleteNah i wuldnt
ReplyDeleteNo. I give and forget
ReplyDeleteNope, u can't ask d dead 4 ur money + dey can use it 4 a proper burial
ReplyDeleteHow exactly can one ask for that kind of money?to me the money is gone,I no fit ask dem
ReplyDelete4rm my heart i gave d money,wats d deal if d person makes it or not,d family is left behind so d can continue dia life wit it,i hv given it so it dos nt matter wat d do wit it.Shikena
ReplyDeleteHmmm; dts a tough one o, I dnt fink I nid 2 ask b4 dey no dey av 2 return my moni, wnt ask dou bt I fil dey shld no!
ReplyDeleteNo I won't,dey should use d money for his buriel.
ReplyDeleteThe family members should later on return the money....and if they don't! Ah, me I'll ask oh! Awkward yea, but its a million
ReplyDeleteYes I will.
ReplyDeleteU've already answered the question Linda. Its a "donation". You don't ask for a donation back
ReplyDeleteNah, since I had already made up my mind to part with that sum, I'll just assume its not mine anymore..it'll be too embarrassing to ask sef.
ReplyDeleteThey sppse know sey they should refund the money naa. Afterall no be bcos of burial u donate am in d first place.
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Lol awkward!!!
ReplyDeleteNo i won't ask 4 my money back cos for me 2 av donated such amount, i av sumthing left.I'll jst let go
ReplyDeleteNope,when I Decide to giv someone something,frm that Moment. Of decision,I belongs to that person,If I give someone something I don't what happens,it belongs to the person.
ReplyDeleteSharply... Or mayb it will b used 4 d burial preparation.
ReplyDeleteNo I wouldn't
ReplyDeleteIt's not wrong to ask for the money o,cos in that case 'who Don die,don go be dat'!
ReplyDeleteAt least u can use it to save another dying life before it's too late rather than leave it for the deceased family to embezzle!..did I say embezzle? Yes (only dat dey are not govt)lol but dats exactly what dey will do to dat money in the name of giving him a befitting burial.
if the person died before the surgery then yes but,
ReplyDeleteif the person died after the surgery was performed...then still yes, money is not free in this world.
I won't ask for the money back since I did it voluntarily @1st 1st 2 comment yippie
ReplyDeletebefore nko I will get me money back like mr crabs would say asap
ReplyDeletelool Linda this question hehehe lol I dont know hoo.
ReplyDeleteNo because it was given voluntarily...........1st to #yippie# @Oilessdamerell1
ReplyDeleteWell... I. wouldn't ask for a money back. I'm sure the will need money for funeral arrangements and all that.
ReplyDeleteyes na i will ask but not 4 dat moment,may be after some days
ReplyDeleteI hav no reason to @ alllll... Eleanor
ReplyDeleteI won't collect it back because it was given out freely @Oilessdamerell1
ReplyDeleteThey will need the money to bury the body now. lol. I would not ask ...and just take the loss.
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If i av more dan enough, i won't ask for it....bt if not, go collect am back sharp sharp
ReplyDeleteYes na I will ask 4 my money back na, no be few hours u call am? They will have to give me my mony back o! Or better still 80percent of it. I can help dem wit 200k as my own token 4 d burial, shikena.
ReplyDeleteOfcourse,I will ask for my money back.
ReplyDeleteHmmm,i won't request it back if i've planed to dash dem initially bt of course dey ll ave 2 return my money if dey borrowed it
ReplyDeleteLol! U can't na. That would be heartless. I think you should rephrase the question tho. What if you donated the money and a pastor came to pray for the ill person and the illness disappeared?? Would you ask for your money back?
ReplyDeleteDifficult!
ReplyDeleteI fink I'll ask for d money back if I had to gather d money
Buh if am like my uncle dangote,I won't.
If I am loaded enough to donate 1 million Naira then I shouldn't feel the need to ask for it back. However I feel it is ethical for the family of the deceased to offer me the money back.
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Yes I wld,I hav to be sincere,I wld tel dem hw sorry I am abt d demise,bt dat since the reason behind d cash has been defeated,it wld be nyc if they wire bak my cash to my account....can't lie linda
ReplyDeleteNope,bcos before i can donate #1m to someone definitely i have millions in my acct
ReplyDeleteIf u've given it.. Its no longer yours.
ReplyDeleteNo I will NOT ask for my money back
ReplyDeleteHave gvn him/her....so thats it
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Yes oooo, sharp sharp!!!
ReplyDeleteI won't,bt I wld really feel bad,and regret why I wasn't delayed by sumtyn,cos if I was,he wld hav died and I wld hav kept my money.mak nobody curse me,am jst bein truthful
ReplyDeleteHahahaha,nnaeeee dis question hard ooo,bt once u hv given out,u hv given out,so no asking 4 me
ReplyDeleteNot at all. The family will need the money. At least, 4 a befitting burial n needs aftermath.
ReplyDeleteNope, I will not! Its the same thing donating and the person still dies later on! So i will just let it be!
ReplyDeleteI swear down,I would ask for my money back and later give them something for funeral arrangement
ReplyDeleteU said I donated not lent. I will not collect it back. For me 2 v donated such an amt I must v cared. D family need d money more than me. Will sign it under good deed. Just sayin...D Curious1
ReplyDeleteNo, they re still mourning d person & its unfair
ReplyDeleteU said I donated not lent. I will not collect it back. For me 2 v donated such an amt I must v cared. D family need d money more than me. Will sign it under good deed. Just sayin...D Curious1
ReplyDeleteLinda don't ask for ur money back, you won't feel good about it no matter how anyone tries to justify it.
ReplyDeleteYes cuz the cause is no longer on course
ReplyDeleteKiakia... Sharp sharp.. of course yes..lol..
ReplyDeleteno I wont
ReplyDeleteNa gobe b dt o,i wnt ask,since i aredy tuk my mind frm it frm d tym i sent it,its out of ma purse aredy bt if d family of d deceased dcides to return it,i wnt hesitate to collect it
ReplyDeleteLinda your own is 2 much,y ll you collect your money bck?leave it 4 d fam jare..
ReplyDeleteno I wont
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely not! Let them use my donation to bury the person. The family is going through grief, no need to add my own
ReplyDeleteDid u expect to get it back in d first place
ReplyDeleteI wud ask for my money, shikena
ReplyDeleteHehehehehe...
ReplyDeleteHELL NO!!! They just lost a child! No I will not!
ReplyDeleteno I wont
ReplyDeleteNo never! I will give dem more if need be,ntn compares to d lose of a loved one
ReplyDeleteBefore nko? Wetin I go do before?
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tbh, i'ld ask for my money back. maybe not immediately, but i will collect my money o.
ReplyDeleteYes ooo I will collect my money back but will make it 50-50 so dat dey can use it to bury d person.
ReplyDeleteNah..
ReplyDeleteIt would be used for burial arrangements
definitely No! They should use the money for the burial
ReplyDeletedepends on the situation
ReplyDeleteNo, for d fact that I've already given it away.
ReplyDeleteLoooolz.. I'll leave d money... 1st 2 comment!.. Linda pls post my comment#skelewu
ReplyDeleteAh! This is hard o, but I will try and ask for the money with scope....
ReplyDeleteOfcourse yes I will la
ReplyDeleteNope but a right thinking family will offer to return it.
ReplyDeleteWho passed away ? Linda ?
ReplyDeleteI won't collect de money back cus the family still need so I won't cus if am rich enough to have dem de money I will just leave it so
ReplyDeleteNo,I wouldn't take it back,cos is obvious the family didn't have enough before I made the donation.And u don't take back what u gave out freely.
ReplyDeletehmmmmm! tough one!!!! if I drained my account to help in the donation. ..YES, I will ask for it back few weeks after the person burial.
ReplyDeleteFor me to av given out 1mil means I av enuf already. In case sumtin lik dis apns, I ll just let go. Dey ll nid d money more dan I ll anyway nd askin for d money bck ll make me a very insensitive person. I ll just let go cos I av already let d money out so no point askin bck.
ReplyDeleteHaba! Anything given for charity is gone even its a million 27B61B1D
ReplyDeleteNo now. They will need the money for burial and all.....
ReplyDeleteOh hell yeah.of ocourse!sharp sharp!with imediate effect n atomatic allagrity.lidodo which english u want mak I tak answer ur funny question sef.bbm smiley laugh n rotate.
ReplyDeleteGobe.How do u collect money from d dead.D money don go b dat.
ReplyDeleteNope.I won't
ReplyDeleteFirst to koment, yes na.
ReplyDeleteno i wouldnt , i would only ask bak for it if i wasnt really really dropping it from my heart
ReplyDeleteI would expect them to return the money! It's that simple! The money isn't for funeral proceedings or to support the family. It should be up to me to decide if they can have the money or not!#simple
ReplyDeleteI will sharply ask for my money .
ReplyDeleteAsk p-square.
ReplyDeleteHaba.....y now? Dats Y it's called sacrifice. I won't ask for the money. #datsall#
ReplyDeleteWhat's gone is gone.if u gave the money from my heart,then I don't need it back.they should either use it to bury the person properly or they should use it to to check-up themselves in the hospital.shikena
ReplyDeletePretty tricky
I can't give the money from your heart lol
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DeleteI wouldn't take my money back! It won't be nice
ReplyDeleteIs dis who I think it is? #jumping with excitement
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DeleteDamn right I would. If the family had any good sense, they'd return the money without my asking... Tooth fairy
ReplyDeleteHmm tricky one...I would let it go cos it was gone right from when I donated it...no sense in asking it back
ReplyDeleteIt's a donation..can't take it back..
ReplyDeleteOgbeni, God has spoken! No disrespect, but, I gats get ma money back! It can't serve the purpose for which I gave it!
ReplyDeleteIf they dont offer then no
ReplyDeleteOf course I would collect my money. There's a reason why I gave them the money in the first place and since the person had died before they could use the money for what I inteded it should be used for then I shouldn't even have to ask before they offer to give me back. That's if I don't have plenty moni oh. But in the case where I have hundreds of millions, I would certainly not have to collect it back.
ReplyDeleteI will collect my money oooh
ReplyDelete@mzz_mary1
All u folks asking for your money back, if you gave it then it was something you could let go of, or get ripped off of so save your generations the embarrassment and forget about it.
ReplyDeleteHELLLLLLL FUCKING YEAHHHHHH I WOULD!
ReplyDeleteI hope we are not talking OJB here...na Joke Ohh...
ReplyDeleteY some peeps dunce like dis sef?!
DeleteHow ojb take enter dis discussion?
Ejiro akpata etufue aba ogaranya men!!I gave d moni nt bcos I hav excess but bcos I wanted to save a life..since d person died without usin d moni..d family should be wise enuf to send d moni back to donors so dey either keep it back or use 4 other charitable motives. »Ononenyi«
ReplyDeleteY shld u collect the money back. If u can afford 2 DONATE it! Dnt even if dey wanna return it. Tell dem 2 keep it. Its like robbin a dead coz no matter hw u look @ it d money is 4 d dead man. U dash am na. Just sayin...D Curious1
ReplyDeleteNna eh, Linda what re u not talking,1miller for surgery and it didn't hold. I will collect the money o and just becos am still a nice guy I will leave 100k for condolence
ReplyDeleteWhat if I couldn't let it go bt gave it out so that I could save a life.if there is no need for the money ,the wisest thing is for the money to be returned then I can then use my 'church mind' to say don't bother if I choose (but il take it back sha)
ReplyDeleteWhat if I couldn't let it go bt gave it out so that I could save a life.if there is no need for the money ,the wisest thing is for the money to be returned then I can then use my 'church mind' to say don't bother if I choose (but il take it back sha)
ReplyDeleteWhat if I couldn't let it go bt gave it out so that I could save a life.if there is no need for the money ,the wisest thing is for the money to be returned then I can then use my 'church mind' to say don't bother if I choose (but il take it back sha)
ReplyDeleteYes money back. Because it was for the person, not for the family. Unless I know it will go to their kids or surviving spouse and genitors. I will not let my money just go into anybody's hand like that.
ReplyDeleteMake Dem use the money bury the person
ReplyDelete@anonymous 11.37pm, your fada...na u wan kill OJB? which kain expensive joke be that? U too,u go soon get kidney failure;na joke I dey too! Annie sayz so!
ReplyDeleteNo, I won't ask for my money back. That ain't right.
ReplyDeleteI won't ask for my money back cos I gave it on my own free will. I'll just let it go.
ReplyDeleteThe TRUTH is, those who're saying they'll collect d money back are either stingy, calous, atheists, or poverty stricken_ it takes one who knows wot it means to give to note dat it's wrong to collect back, it's like helping a blind man cross the road and midway taking him back to where u met him, its quite cruel_ a true giver never get enticed abt wot use his gift is for_ #MrStarQuake
ReplyDeleteI wont ask bt if dey gimme,i will gladly collect my money back
ReplyDeleteYa all that will ask back are so irrational and wicked..that means it wasn't straight from ur heart that Ɣ☺ΰ gave d money at first..♍ε̲̣̣̣̥h̶̲̥̅̊n I tink ya all should go back to ur bibles and qurans that's if Ɣ☺ΰ do read dem at all and know more about giving FOOLS...!
ReplyDeletefor some1 to donate such an amount dt means he/she must hv had more dan enoff in his account, he can easily let go, cos it will look lyk dashing out 1 naira out of a thousand naira/ taking a cup of water in d ocean.
ReplyDeleteIt's charity. It's gone.
ReplyDeletebe honest to ur self o hahahah, to me the money was meand to refun na so i will ask for it, it was borrow not dash so they must pay me later buh
ReplyDeletebe honest to ur self o hahahah, to me the money was meand to refun na so i will ask for it, it was borrow not dash so they must pay me later buh
ReplyDeletei dnt tink it wil b 9ce of me,if i axk 4 d moni
ReplyDeleteNaaa Linda, I won't /can't collect d money back na!
ReplyDeleteHaba! Dat would be so cruel!
No..... d money should b used for the funeral.
ReplyDeleteLinda! well I'll not... God keep from making such mistake in any area of life in Jesus name Amen!
ReplyDeleteRTS
ReplyDeletepls how is OJB? this one you are asking.
ReplyDeleteIn a country like this(Our Naija), investigate whether such a person needed any surgery or if he even passed away.
ReplyDeleteactually courtesy demands that the family return the money themselves.....at least there has to be some courtesy that demands that:'(
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