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Tuesday 10 September 2013

Question for the ladies: Which would you choose?

A. 37 year old woman, who has her own business and is worth N200million, with N100milion cash sitting in your bank account, BUT no husband or kids...but hoping to one day have them.
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B. 37 year old woman married with three/four kids and earns N150k a month - her husband also earns in the same range a month.

Which would you choose?

598 comments:

  1. 37years married with kids with de 150k happy with my self $ my family $ hope 4 more open doors.

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  2. Linda. It's not all about money sometimes

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  3. kaii walai me i go choose d woman wit flenty flenty cows.
    THE ONLY HAUSA MAN DAT BLOGS

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  4. I choose b. I love family

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  5. The 1 with kids na

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  6. Abeg I will choose kids n children, y have all the money and be lonely and miserable?

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  7. Hmmm, adammi asung oo. Mkpa nka ye akpa ado sia ami mme mmma akok eti eti. Nyemme adi do uwene bag ami ndia akok mkpon idem nyong mfresh nkodo. Mmekem adi adopt ndito. Gbam
    Beautiful Monster

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  8. The second is far better oo.don't want a lonely future.

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  9. I'll go for A! :)

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  10. Huh? Woman for woman? I guess its a mistake Linda, which I suppose you would correct.

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  11. Been married wt kids.it can only get beta

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  12. I'd prefer d 2nd woman cos she has it all.there's nothing like aving a family u call ur own,money aint evryting u knw.

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  13. I will choose B. Nd by d way, Linda I think u want ds answer for urself.

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  14. B is enough Fǿя̩̥̊ M̶̲̥̅̊e̶̲̥̅̊ ..notin like havin ur own family

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  15. I never wanted to get married until my family persuaded me to and you know what.. I pray for them everyday because I will not give up my husband or children for anything in this world. They are priceless

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  16. Family is everything....even with all that money, u might not be happy afterall....so I go with"B"

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  17. B! Wid efforts t earn more

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  18. This is. LILYBIEN talking-"abeg 150 salary evn 100k salary wit loving husband and kids o if u hv millions no husband no kids of wat use wld it be @d end all wld become vanity smebdy who hvnt sufered for it wld cme n waist it after ur death wats d use of the money wen no kids God forbid 37years for dat mata

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  19. Ah ah see question. Is it for u linda? Pls go n marry o u alredy hv ur millions. Me sha I'll pick d 1st one

    The real baby oku

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  20. Linlin the latter is d case. U nko?
    By d way 1st to comment.


    Puts down gele, drinks alomo bitters and smokes a blunt

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  21. I wld rather be the married woman, because the really rich woman wld b wishin to b married..for me to be married with 3kids + 150k as salary means am responsible and I have contentment

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  22. i prefer d no 2 one plsssss

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  23. "B" would do. Money is not everything. For all I care the first lady might be sooo depressed and she wouldn't know if any guy that comes to her wants her money or truly loves her. But the other lady even with the 150k can be very rich tomorrow and in addition already has a hubby and 3-4 kids.

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  24. none abeg I want a perfect family with money

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  25. This should be interesting, would be back for comments ;)

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  26. Hmm abeg gv me 150k salary and kids wat am I using millions for witout kids all wld bcome vanity after death a woman sucess is fufiled wit a husband go and ask dose sucesful ladied thy r nvr hapy inside thy dnt feel fufiled no husband no child abeg o I choose chldren wat are we on earth for

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  27. B, wahz d use of money without the joy of a husband and children

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  28. Wldnt pick neither. How abt a 37 year old woman happily married with 2 kids,earning 500k a month,while her hubby earns same or more? Now that I wld pick *wink*

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  29. I'll rather be married with kids to having money as my husband n kid!

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  30. The second!!! nothing beats the happiness in a family! Wouldn't trade it for all the money in d world

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  31. What kind stupid question be dis?

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  32. I'll rather be married with kids to having money as my husband n kid!

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  33. THE. MONEY FIRST DUH!!!!!!!!!

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  34. what money with out happiness and genuine love around me.....id prefer the 150k abeg

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  35. linda....money is not everything....what matters is happiness....so its up to the individual

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  36. Nice question Lindiway.
    very witty of you.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  37. linda if i'm not mistaken the (a) relates to you more personally........money is not all in life girl! You gotta give one of those men a chance into your life, into your world. Trust me thousands of us are out there waiting for the day u'll release your wedding details!

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  38. Hahahahahahahaha... They'll obviously chose d 1st..... no contest, biko ( ˘˘̯)

    @Bobo_Edo

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  39. Definitely B. Cuz A sounds lonely n sad

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  40. linda, i chose B cos money is not everything.

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  41. Will go 4 B, i no go just do pass my self

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  42. OPTION B!
    ~typed with my adorable fingers

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  43. I would rather be a 37 year old lady who owns her own business without any husband or kids....if I eventually get to a stage where I no longer see marriage as a possibility I would. adopt two beautiful kids....these days women who get married live for themselves and their kids because the men are just dissapointments.Sad but true! TDA

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  44. I think every woman deserve's marriage so i choose B.

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  45. B. Will rather be the 37years old earning 150k wit beautiful kids .:)

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  46. I will prefer the B. option, as far i have dreams and growth,with hand work, diligence and prayers more money will come, and u will have a wonderful family to celebrate with.

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  47. I prefer d second option.wot is d essence of having so such money n not have children/husband.

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  48. Abeg A for sure, with that kind of money she can have kids even in her 40s and I can assure you she'll get a good husband sef. Successful men are looking for successful women. Her kids will attend the best schools and have a huge advantage in life.

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  49. I prefer option B! Family is everything.

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  50. Bia Linda, ibiakwa............... Na A nah...

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  51. B Ofcourse,having much money like that and still lonely is a miserable life

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  52. Linda ibiakwa............... Any man inhis right senses go choose "A" nah

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  53. eXceptional daystar.10 September 2013 at 11:48

    I'll choose option (B) cos u've simply got everytin good life has got to offer,the only thing needed more is contentment!..in btw 1st time commenter on LIB.

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  54. will most definitely go with the option B becus dir re evn some pple out there who re not earning up to half of the 150k nd ve a large family to cater for. Moreso, what am i still waiting for being single @37 wen some of my mates wld ve stopped giving birth..... D money cn't come first in dis situation

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  55. Money role de world. I go for the first choice:)

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  56. I`m married with kids and I have more than One Million Dollars in my accounts, and my husband is a Billionaire. So I guess am out of this question.I know some frustrated idiots with frustrated belly wont believe me. Well its not my fault that you are hungry;put the blame on your president and the thieves you call leaders. Linda love,have a nice day!

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  57. BBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBB...but truth is i want d cash of A and life of B//////but worse of...i go with B

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  58. A is better jare. By the time she marries and has kids everything will be smooth. The kids sef will thank her for waiting to have them when she can give them the best and men these days like women who are doing well so she'll bag herself a successful man sef. It's not about how far but how well.

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  59. A!!! A!! A!! A!!! And A!!!! Again! Abeg which kind question be this sef?

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  60. B- family is best. Wt hapens 2 d money wen derz no family.
    ~me~

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  61. Married wit kids

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  62. i prefer B
    B. 37 year old woman married with three/four kids and earns N150k a month - her husband also earns in the same range a month.

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  63. I will go for d first woman with 200 million.. 1st to comment

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  64. B ni Oooo°˚˚˚ ........everytin in dz lyf is nt all about money, Happiness matters and to ♍ƺ Family is happiness....

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  65. Linda na wa to u oh. Abeg I'd rather have a loving n big family to care for than to be alone wt all d money.

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  66. The B woman who has kids and husband.

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  67. Hope wetin? Abeg I no wan hope anything @ dat age ooo,I sud have my husband nd kids by then.

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  68. Bible says 'None shall be barren in the land'. If God does not want any woman to be barren, the it means he wants them to have kids. And since God doesn't support having kids out of wedlock, it means he wants women to get married and have husbands. So taking the side of scripture, I will prefer having a loving family above jush cash.

    Being surrounded with people who love you trumps being surrounded with cash and gold diggers anyday

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  69. foolish question. Post my comment

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  70. 2nd option oooooo!!

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  71. LOL! Though am not a lady, but will go for the 37years old whose worth 200 million! money matters!

    BASHorun

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  72. Sincerely,I'll go 4 B...but A is enticing,I always envy women wth great success.can't wait 2 be on d richest women list.

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  73. ehya,dis is clearly about u linda.....dunno what to say

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  74. abeg my BB don run down
    anybody get charger there?

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  75. D married woman.... Wat will I be doin wit dat kind of money without an immediate family..ders noffin like family loneliness na bastard.

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  76. B of cos, u hav a husband kids and 150k monthly, dats ok.

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  77. I choose B,dats d life I'm living now ,married wit 3 lovely kids and things are really lookin up,verry soon we'll b very rich!now we're contended,God provides our daily bread,we don't lack our immediate needs,dia's peace and we're happy. D joy of havin kids is indescribable,God bless dos dat're still waitin and trustin him 4 a hubby and kids,Amen

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  78. Ofcourse any lady with a sane mind would choose B. With 300k in d family monthly...I don't think they can be doing bad atall..unless they venture into things that are unreasonable. They should be able to live a modest life with proper plans.

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  79. Hey Linda,

    Option B is the situation with most homes in Nigeria,Wife earns 150k and Husband earn 250/300k,live in an ok appartment,have 2 cars they are gonna pay for,for the next 3 years,

    Yes,that's the case,but the most important thing is,are they happy together?do they wake up everyday and smile and thank God for having the "little" they have and having a husband/children that Loves her? Is she living in good health?no high BD,no cancer?

    If yes,then,I don't mind being in the Option B!

    There are some things in life that are more important than money,having big cars and fat accounts...Happiness,Joy,Good Health,Love,Care,Children,Peace of mind,having reasons to smile is a lot better than having all the wealth and be left alone coz that might coz depression,High BP and all.

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  80. am not a lady, but some will pay that amount to get a good family

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  81. will choose both.. lol.. hahaaaaha dat was a joke.. will fuckin choose d b over nd over again.. it jus a mata of savins nd investment.. if i and my husband r able to save lil then we can always start a smol biznezz.. even if it d 50 k on top or less den mayb we save 30 k both.. save dat up in 6month dat alot of moni.. nd y nt we can always use d savins to invest... money cannot buy us happiness oo.. no mata hw rich u r.. nobodi is complete witout a family. my kobo advice

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  82. Linda y u dey ask dis kind questn na, na d 1st one nai make brain pass.

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  83. I'll chose B a million times over. I know a woman in category A and...no comments!KD

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  84. i will go for d B option. Am first to comment

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  85. loool.....ask your self linda dear

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  86. I AM A GUY. IF I WHERE A BABE, I GO TAKE MONEY LEAVE HUSBAND. BUT SHA, MONEY FIT FINISH BUT MY CHILDREN MAY GROW TO BECOME GREAT.

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  87. I will Definitely choose the second, what's the point of have that huge amount of money and no husband and kids. Wasted life.

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  88. I wil G̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡ wit option B Oº°˚˚˚°ºo

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  89. are some people really going to go for the husband and children??? pleaseeeeee gimme my money, everything isnt about money but husband would find u wen u have money and if not, im a strong believer in adopting. i shall adopt and be hapy, smiling all d way to the bank. husband will come later, men too are materialistic, they will chase you.

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  90. Option B i most prefer, hav my kids wit d luv of my life by my side**wink**

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  91. At 37 I sincerely think a husband and kids with 1.8 million naira per annum job would be more fulfilling than living single with no husband and kids. On the contrary, I could become a single mum and go with the former. Money is sweet. *winks*

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  92. A ofcourse...with N200m i can buy and marry 2husbands...they will even be bowing for me...life is short

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  93. the first abeg, no amount of money can buy the love and joy that comes with children

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  94. Wld rather be a 37yr old with husbby and kids. Without kids to inherint my wealth all is a waste. Linda u better post my comment or else.#wink#

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  95. Option B i most prefer, hav my kids wit d luv of my life by my side**wink**

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  96. B!ma kids are worth billions!

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  97. Ofcos a 37 year old woman wif kids.....moni isn't every tin

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  98. Am so comfortable wit B, at least my children, husband and I will eat our 3quare meal and have d basic tins we need

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  99. Na wa o...Linda. U should have said 45 to 50. 37! plenty hope still dey naa. d answer is simple

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  100. A please. I can buy me a husband. I can even buy babies different race sef. Infact, I can use the money to build a husband from China.

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  101. B abeg ooo. B is a more fulfilled woman in life. Nd no condition is permanent. One day she nd her husband would get promoted nd earn higher salary. And dey can even start up deir own business. Nd bfor u knw it dey re millionaires as well.

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  102. I like B o, as a woman there's no hoping 4 one day u'll get it,wen u're not a man,we women we have our own biological clock ticking,before you know u'll get to menopause.so what's the need of looking 4 money and be sad.

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  103. Linda na u b d first one? On my way to buy plantain jor. I no fit answer today's question madam

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  104. I don't need a second thought before answering this question. What is life without a good home as a woman. Abeg option B is the best choice for me oo. Money is not everything

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  105. I wud choose B....

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  106. I'll choose B anyday anytym!!! Pweeeassee! @funkiedipsy

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  107. Why bring a child to the world to suffer? Let's stick to our millions, be happy and then hope for the best. BUT with 150K from both parents monthly, A child will do and we can make that child happy "if" both parents cut their coat according to their size o.

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  108. O boy this wan hard oh. One has to be careful b4 choosing any oh. Though its a joke, make person no con swear 4 himsef.

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  109. To have a husband and kids

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  110. Definitely B. Money is not everything, Happiness is all that matters in life

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  111. linda did someone leave you for a married woman?

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  112. Linda, na 1st one oooo! Hubby Απϑ kids will come one day/soon, besides ‎​ℓ̊ can adopt a child or two self.

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  113. U can never find happiness when u have that kind of money, all friend u'll have will be fake, cause they all want ur money. So I prefer B,husband and kids with 150k a month.#smile#

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  114. I am a lady and believe me I will never trade my full value as a woman... A wife, a mother, a sister for wealth.... Contentment and hard work has been my spirit's only ornament and with God's favour and grace I am where I am.... I will stick to #150 000 with a lovable and peaceable man and my God-given children

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  115. I will choose B.cos dere is more 2 life dan moni,i prefer havin a happy family dan having too much moni wit out a family and love

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  116. I choose d millions oo.. one kain man that will come and mk me unhappy with all my money sef

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  117. Definately (B) of cos! Bcos there is no greater joy dan family been 2geda in peace love and harmony. And money cnt buy happiness nor family.

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  118. B.I rather ve d husband and kids dan to be rich and lonely

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  119. I'll go 4 A....dnt nid anyman 2 control moi lyf... Money talks...bullshit walks

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  120. The second option.doe the 1st one is tempting. But family n hapiness comes first!

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  121. I choose B. Nothing as fulfiling as a family and love. Money can't buy both! Period.

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  122. I get where ur drivin @ linda... Diffrnt strokes for diffrnt folks.. I dnt mind any,if I find my self in any of d scenerio, I'll aceept it like dat..
    We shudnt discriminate on single ladies.. Dey didn't choose 2 remain single up 2 dat age,and deres no law dat states u can't get married and hav kids in ur late 30's40's,and even 50's... Marriage aint everything in life,its not meant for everybdy... Buuuuuuuuuut!!!! Dat 200milion na money oooooo!!! Chai *ONYX GODWIN*!

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  123. i am already in option B and i'm loving it :)

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  124. No.1 any day, NO. 2 can't buy my father a new house, and take my mum on trips abroads, those are the two ppl I so much than anything take some burden off their heads

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  125. B pls o we will manage d income we have,being lonely will all that money wld ba a waste.

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  126. B of course....without blinking!

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  127. see question o linda :/huh? option b ofc we will manage and invest o

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  128. I prefer to have husband Ãήϑ kids o Ãήϑ earn Small money than big money wthout having Ʊя own family.

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  129. I choose d 2nd option with all my hrt.money is nt evrytin nd besides I can start up sometin with d little savings I will gather 4rm my salary.I and my husband can even tke a loan to start up a business if need be.afterall business is all abt taking risk.

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  130. A. Wats money without kids or family?

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  131. I choose B,cos I might all dat d A has and end up lonely and u knw that lonliness kills

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  132. I chose option B.

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  133. Linda this is a no brainer. MONEY. You can always buy a husband and adopt a child. Our society is money based, so is our value system. Is this right? I say absolutely #irestmycase

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  134. As a man, I will choose both. As a woman, I will choose 2. But wait... I am a man.

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  135. The latter, the joy of having a family is priceless, besides , money can still come anytime

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  136. the second one ni o with kids...

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  137. D second is better cos no woman is. Complete without her own family.#amyqueen# 1st 2 comment.

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  138. A........37 is not a hopeless age...

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  139. A looks temptin buh I choose B cos am no stranger to money n it trully doesn't bring happiness or joy it only deludes you until u lose control of ur lyf.B is farfar better.

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  140. The second oh,a wonderful family brings an everlasting joy,buh money without kids and husband will always make u sob in ur big high life

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  141. Are you a learner? A ofcourse

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  142. second one ni ooo...

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  143. Well. if i were a lady definately the first. d question dint say i cant get married in the future did it. kinda hav a feeling this is u linda.

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  144. Option B definitely cos it ll surely get better.

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  145. I wil choose d one wit husband n kids

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  146. A with a loving and supportive boyfriend

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  147. For me... Its Definitely A. As scary as that may seem, I love the idea of having mine at my convinience. Taking care of my immediate family nd the children around. If a husband comes along the way, that's fine. If not, there's always Vibrator nd I.V.F until he decides to show up! Money first for me sha...

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  148. Any day i'll choose the second woman.
    Money can't buy the beauty that marriage and kids can bring.

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  149. You make a mistake with this question; kids, money, husband etc aren't a measurement of a person's fulfilment in life. Is she happy with her life, does she feel fulfilled wit al dat money in her acct, same goes to the other woman with kids and a husband; does she feel fulfilled. Is dat what she wants. I would choose wueva is happy n fulfilled.

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  150. what is 150k a months with 3-4 kids ? mtcheeew.....I prefer the 1st option abeggi...kids ke husband ni

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  151. D ist. Cos wit that I can get a man to impregnant me n I wld hv enuf to fend 4 dem.eleanor

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  152. married with kids and 150k every month biko post my comment ooh chi chi.com

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  153. i would choose the second one o. 150k is noy dat bad and there is hope for the living. money does not buy hapiness.i love to be happy

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  154. yes to option B cos there's fulfilment.

    no to option A: endless loneliness

    K

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  155. Definately goin wit option B

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  156. Wud rather b 37 with kids n husband n earning 150k than 37 with 200 Million...what is money without ur luvd ones to share it with.

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  157. Is only men that worry much about Children , i need the millions , i dont even want to hope for any fucking husband #Okwunkasiobi#lolz

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  158. The first one abeg husband wil come

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  159. I am a lady and believe me I will never trade my full value as a woman... A wife, a mother, a sister for wealth.... Contentment and hard work has been my spirit's only ornament and with God's favour and grace I am where I am.... I will stick to #150 000 with a lovable and peaceable man and my God-given children

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  160. The 2nd one ofcourse. Nothing like a family of ur own oo. At least to spend money on and obviously have a reason to keep working. Money cant buy happiness and pure love. Zeme

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  161. I'll rather have a family n b happy than have all d money in d world n be lonely.

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  162. Option A all the way, men r useless, with his 150k salary he will still cheat on u and form am the man of the house. I'll rather go for artificial insemination and have peace with my kids n money. O pari

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  163. I choose d 1 wit husband n kids

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  164. Why are u boosting to the world that your are worth N200 million naira?

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  165. I will let my sis go for the first option it just too obvious. There are millions of 37yrs old women who are still unmarried today, its just trending.

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