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Saturday, 2 February 2013

The most common ways cheating is discovered

In this age of modern technology 'going through mobile phone' has been cited as the most common way cheating is discovered, according to a new poll.

See the stats below... 
1. Went through mobile phone - 41 per cent 
2. Went through social media account - 23 per cent 
3. Went through files on PC/laptop/tablet - 13 per cent 
4. Caught in the act (face to face) - 11 per cent 
5. Told by friend - 5 per cent 
6. Told by family member - 3 per cent 
7. Confession - 2 per cent 
8. Other - 2 per cent

 So how did you discover your partner was cheating? Any of this or the old ways of lipstick on the collar? Scent of another woman's perfume, etc?
at 2/02/2013 10:27:00 pm

230 comments:

  1. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 22:31

    Well none of dis,she just arrive naija wt 2 of his kids. So I was thrown away like a menstral rag. Kapish

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 01:02

      I checked my bf's phone and found out he cheated, I am still with him but I will definitely kill him soon, fucking cheat! DIE

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    2. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 01:59

      Lmao I half died now, abeg don't kill him oooo.

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    3. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 05:27

      Then you'll fucking go to jail Mario!!!

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    4. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 10:36

      Ur silly. If she had two kids while she was away, don't know what you were waiting for. That must have been like 3-5years away and you were still hoping??? U need ur head checked.

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    5. Pregnancy Concierge3 February 2013 at 12:42

      Damnnnnn @1:02... Men, if I cheat on someone and he lets me stay, or vice versa, I would sleep with one eye open....

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    6. tunde nnewi3 February 2013 at 13:09

      Even if u check my fone u can not find anytin

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    7. shyla3 February 2013 at 16:07

      I guess you are the one that needs your head examined. If only u try and understand what the lady wrote b4 u start insulting her.

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  2. segunsd2 February 2013 at 22:32

    But the phone thing is so annoying anyways. Why would that be?

    Have you read 10 signs to know that your relationship might be heading for the rocks

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  3. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 22:33

    Ya,phone,phone,phone......nuffin happens wtout communication...so d easiest way is to chek out his fone...n u just might get clues...

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  4. James2 February 2013 at 22:33

    Linda, you're a bitch! Yes, you are! It has been documented that women and men cheat at the same rate yet you're listing ways only men can be caught cheating! Do you know how annoying your misandry is? Rubbish! I'm so angered now.

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    1. Haleeemarh3 February 2013 at 00:54

      Look @aw yu vexin untop social media am sure u r a woman beater u cn lik to hug the transformer#not intrested

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    2. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 01:06

      James,u were not forced to read this blog..The poll was abt MEN cheating..please,go HUG a TRANSFORMER if ur so angered by this post..

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    3. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 01:41

      U r sooooo unbelievably dumb James. Did u see dis post specify its ways men r caught? U need us to translate dis post to ur local language b4 u understand?

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    4. KOFOSHY3 February 2013 at 06:52

      Lol dumb james

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    5. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 08:34

      Hehehe.james has been caught!guess thats y he's boiling.sowie o

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    6. Pregnancy Concierge3 February 2013 at 12:44

      And see your misogyny @ James....why she gotta be a bitch?

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    7. Unknown3 February 2013 at 13:05

      I'm sure he is suffering fom delayed sensitivity, he will understand it in 2 years time

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  5. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 22:34

    Na lie o!!! Told by friend shud be 50%! Onya!!!

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 09:11

      I would go wit d fone tingy...buh my bf always locks his fone so its so hard 4 mi 2 want 2 check it,if I ask 4 d code he asks w@ I want on his fone

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  6. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 22:36

    went tru the bloody cheating lying wanker's fon!!! cant blv i ddnt do it earlier. had all i needed to know in there. dis poll is on point as far as i'm concerned lol. now, i know what to do when am wondering. xty

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  7. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 22:38

    Hmmm interesting, I have learnt my lesson Biko, wat. You don't know won't kill you, I don't steal my boyfiend's phone just to to check its contents.did it for my last relationship, and it was woe unto me the offendee.

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  8. ★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★2 February 2013 at 22:38

    This comment has been removed by the author.

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 07:49

      Tђɑпkƨ Lin for reemmovinng whateva basic comment diss dude posted.
      Time to. Occupy Prince Charming!

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    2. ★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★3 February 2013 at 12:33

      @Annonymous 7:49; Sorry to ask but are you this dumb?? Or is it just plain hate? Comment removed by the "AUTHOR" isn't that me? For your info, Linda didn't "reemmovvinng" my comment ok? The network fluctuated and posted two identical comments of mine(check the other comment of mine below) I deleted this, and if you don't still know, I can delete my comments as I am using a blogger profile to post comments, anyone with a blogger.com profile can too. Occupy the poor state of your reasoning first pls!

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  9. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 22:38

    Non of the above.

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  10. ★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★2 February 2013 at 22:39

    I agree with the phone thing, its very true, especially messages, it leaves a lot of clues, its either you would see messages sent or received that point to cheating and then if you have a partner who is trying to be smart and keeps and an empty message log or deletes every message then its also a clue too. Then call logs, pics, etc.

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  11. confessor2 February 2013 at 22:39

    Hmmmmm!my man grabs my fone d min I walk tru d door,buh wen I check his fone everytin z empty "inbox,outbox even draft,bbm ko?no chat" na wa...how do I catch him na?

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 02:10

      He's cheating.

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    2. Sleek!3 February 2013 at 06:32

      Hehehehehehehe! Dis is so hillarious...

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    3. Sleek!3 February 2013 at 06:44

      Hehehehehehehe! Dis is so hillarious...

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    4. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 08:54

      Don't give him urs,if there is nothing 2 c in his..

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    5. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 09:11

      Hey! You don't have to be bothered in as much he's not doing it to your face, why not enjoy your relationship as long as you both can. Hope that helps ....
      Berry

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    6. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 09:43

      Sharp guy... LoL

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    7. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 10:32

      My dear, didn't u read Prince Charming's comment...? He is "obviously" cheating..

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    8. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 11:49

      Lmbfaoooo....hahaha

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    9. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 21:12

      My boyfriend hacked into my phone and got all the messages i deleted and call logs... U can use dis method, L ol.. Its only funny now, it wasn't then

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  12. sean2 February 2013 at 22:40

    Hu cares ????? Dnt just get caught !!!! First to comment, yipeeeeeee

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  13. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 22:40

    I use to be expert in checking my partner's mobile phone, I'll wake up at night wen he is sleeping and take the phone to d bathroom lol.but I didn't see anything implicating.

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  14. Unknown2 February 2013 at 22:41

    me and ma galfren don sign MOU mk we no dey spy each oda fone so d likely hood of us catchin eachoda is very slim..heheehhe

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  15. Reglin2 February 2013 at 22:48

    Confession ke?? Who does dat dis days. Even afta confessing, will you be forgiven?

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  16. sexy photos2 February 2013 at 22:49

    ok oooooo waploaded on point

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  17. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 22:53

    1 & 2..very painful discovery. These days I don't bother trying to find out cause my expectations from women is now zero. They can't be turusted

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  18. Unknown2 February 2013 at 22:54

    I think Going through the Phone logs,text msgs and passwording of phones..

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  19. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 22:56

    On his blackberry. He was chatting with the girl about how hard he shagged her last nite. Lol

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  20. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 23:01

    Went through mobile phone, then looked for hair strands not mine in his car.

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 05:21

      LMAOOO!!! #detective

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    2. ****Mufasa Said3 February 2013 at 15:37

      LOL!! As per brazillian hair that girls fix na.

      ****Mufasa Said

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    3. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 22:09

      So deep! LOL

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  21. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 23:02

    through his phone...it was devastating cos i so trusted him

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 02:12

      M̶̲̅ε̲̣ too. NoW he is begging to come back

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  22. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 23:09

    I signed into his skype, and was reading the live and dirty chat he was having with a horrible jamaican girl in his class. I burst into hot tears.....And he found out mine by me just confessing out of guilt...Mumu Linda,, what will you do with this information now. Do your job and give us gist.

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  23. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 23:14

    He had been chatting with the babe right in front of me on his PC but I didn't know cos I was sitting opposite him.He stepped out to get something, I decided 2 check out what he had been up to and the first thing I saw when I opened the Laptop was exchange of Love messages.
    That's my story.

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 10:35

      Lmaoooo!! That guy didn't have a single regard for u.. Such guts, such an asswipe of a man!!!

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  24. smiley2 February 2013 at 23:14

    Hmmm..Interesting but women have that ability to knw by just looking at dia man and they would sense it if his cheating

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 10:22

      Gbam!!! A lot just won't wanna admit. Anny

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    2. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 15:20

      Not really.... Only works for slackers and rookies. Proffessionals just learn to play it cool and act like a fool. No one suspects a fool. Lool. Wisdom in folly.

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  25. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 23:14

    Mobile phone is d commonest... Other pple shd comment ooo lemme laugh.

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  26. lekan Lawrence2 February 2013 at 23:18

    couple of years back. I caught my Ex cheating on me cos I followed her home. Even if i had to wait till the middle of the night in the shrubs to see it happen, it was worth it. I saw her through the window, and his D**k was still inside. U needed to see the look on their faces. That was one of the best feelings I had in my life.
    I never cheated on her even if I saw alot of other big Yanshed fine girls(I like big yanshed girls), but all she did was give me the freedom to explore. During my exploration, I met the perfect person.
    Do you know the funny thing about cheaters:After they cheat; they'll become exceedingly nice.

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    1. Kogi Media3 February 2013 at 15:59

      So true dear, "they'll become exceedingly nice". Bag of shits they are!

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  27. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 23:18

    Found out my guy's cheating on me from facebook. Plus I got scoop from his driver.

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  28. BONARIO NNAGS2 February 2013 at 23:20

    Discovered mine through other.lolz
    Neva knew till we brokeup,won't forgive her for taking ma innocence she less deserved. fool,idiot.smh

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 03:24

      Bona, dear this must have hurt so much. For you to write with a hint of anger. Forgive

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    2. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 07:59

      Bona boy sef dey luv eeh? So Ųя wifey was right wen she came 2beg for foorgiveness. Lol

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    3. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 10:01

      Wait o bona,is it not the chick that came on this blog begging for forgiveness?? That u shld pick her calls?? :o

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  29. Treasure2 February 2013 at 23:26

    By their looks you shall know them. That guilt is always there though it takes some experience

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  30. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 23:33

    Went thru his mobile phone...I played a good Jemima Shore on him and discovered that he was always on d phone wit a particular female name(supposedly a colleague in another branch of his office). Wouldn't know if he actually cheated but their chats included stuff like-"i miss u, thinking of u so much right now, miss ur lovely smile" etc. I just totally ignored him and acted like I didn't knw what he'd been up to. Anyways, wldnt knw wat transpired btw both of them but I realised dat d late nite calls and chats suddenly ended. Me, I no send meeeeeen!

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 08:04

      If you no send, then you я̅ alsso cheating or yu've cheated.

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  31. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 23:35

    Mobile fone.twas craaaaaazzzzyyyyyy

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  32. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 23:35

    I went through his Mobile Phone, I was shocked @ wat I saw, it was so heart breakn...

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 09:18

      You chose to break your heart my dear cos WHY do you have to check on a guys phone ???
      Whatever you don't see won't hurt you. Stop checking!!
      Berry

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    2. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 12:52

      Shut ya mouth der berry you are obviously cheating that is why you do not want your phone checked.

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    3. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 12:59

      IF YOUR PARTNER DOES NOT GIVE YOU HIS / HER PASSWORD HE / SHE HAS SOMETHING THEY ARE HIDIND.

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  33. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 23:39

    niga woman can not even agree when you even see them face to face...mustly the ones that think such act is eye opening mustly the warri women now.

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  34. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 23:44

    Truly I agree with the mobile phone because it is private. Is like knowing someone hidden heart. No matter how careful they might play game "let me after work, remember to delete" somehow mistake might still happen. Discover the Secret to losing weight and burning tummy fat

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  35. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 23:45

    He came from work n i wanted 2 surprise him with a Blow job while he was still all sweaty n stuff, he begged that i let him shower first which i vehemently refused. When i finally tasted it, lo and behold i tasted another girl's pussy.. I left him for a while but we got back together after he appologized. However I'm now wiser n knowin that men will always be men (another name for dogs) i play my own runs on the side. I now insist he must showe before sex. Everybody is Happy!!!

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 01:40

      Ur story got me cracking! Jeez!!

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    2. LordLexie3 February 2013 at 05:45

      'Man' is not a name synonymous to 'Dog'. That a number of men exhibit infidelity does not mean there are no men with dignity. Besides, the men you caught cheating didn't sleep with homosexuals - they did it with women. If men are dogs because they cheat, what then are the women with whom they cheat. No man is a dog- u can have a straying man-try to bring him back to his senses. No woman is a dog either; man (both male and female) is a dignified creature. Respect them!

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    3. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 09:56

      As serious as ur try to sound I just couldn't help but burst into loud laughter. Pele.(Ola baby)

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    4. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 09:58

      Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

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    5. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 10:42

      Yurk! Yurk!! Yurk!!!

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    6. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 12:23

      Babe that must mean u have tasted a cat many times enuf to know its taste.eeeeewwwwwwww.

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  36. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 23:46

    They no include use of magun aka thunderbolt...

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  37. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 23:52

    Went through phone and I tell it was not very funny at all. LAW

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  38. Anonymous2 February 2013 at 23:52

    Mobile fone.+

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  39. bitchplis2 February 2013 at 23:53

    D bitch is a pathological liar but she doeesnt know ao to cover her tracks very well...u can't lie to someone much smarter dan u...her fone records n messages gave her up...on 3 different occassions.

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  40. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 00:06

    Went through mobile phone

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  41. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 00:19

    You forgot one Linda: use of Black magic. Just put it in that hole and it traps any foreign object. Haha

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 09:58

      Lol pple are mad on dis site o. Lmao(Ola baby)

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  42. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 00:31

    Through a friend's firend... Which made me curious to check his phone..low and behold it was the truth.. Confronted and dumped his sorry ass that didn't deserve me...

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  43. halleykeys3 February 2013 at 00:33

    Lmaooooooo...allah linda ur commentators r crazyyyyyyyyyy....dis blog makes my day everytime

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  44. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 00:35

    I sensed it from my husband's lovemaking.

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 08:11

      Expanciate. Was his lovemaking more intense or less

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    2. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 09:08

      How pls?did he reduse or increase in speed/force?

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    3. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 10:44

      Pls, explain...

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    4. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 12:22

      Babe I beg enlighten us, wat did u do afterwards?

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  45. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 00:43

    I go tru his phn,and seen a lot b4,told him to change his password,he did,we were cool,then some girl calls him arnd 12pm,to say what I dnt know,for some funny reason I know he is seeing 2 of em cos they keep occuring on his call log,and txt messages,me am tired joor,am soo pained cos am sooo loyal,pple say am cute,am homely,have a lot of guys on my case bt I won't cheat cos I wasn't brought up like dat,I pray God bring my own thou,cos a man who cheats up and dwn isn't mine.........

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 02:50

      God**i love your comment and I respect ur loyalty! Rino

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  46. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 01:08

    Av tried evry trick I know buh all I can say is jst dat he has neva cheated on me..... He gav me all d username & password he has, I busy myself wif his fone almost all d tym jst 2 know if his cheating buh I saw nuffin.... Nw am feeling so sad cos he dosnt even have my username talkless of my password & he always say somfin wen I get 2 busy wif my fone dat he trust me so much.... It not my fault that am feeling so insecured, he's jst too handsome and he has gat so much green light frm various babe.... I don't know wot 2mao holds buh as for dis day I declare dat I LOVE MY MAN

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 02:52

      U wish#

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    2. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 08:09

      Awwwwwwwwwww! <3

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    3. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 09:25

      Hehe, loads of guys are like that BUT some have got another way(s) of playing games....pls don't ask "how". As a matter of fact, he's smarter than you but let it be and no one will be hurt....end of.
      Berry

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    4. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 13:07

      Berry I pity your partner. Your comments are sickening

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    5. Anonymous4 February 2013 at 07:45

      Maybe he has another phone....maybe.

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  47. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 01:24

    Mobile phones are definitely the most random. Nigerian UK University Graduate Does Amazing Life-... http://viddeeoo.blogspot.com/2013/02/nigerian-uk-university-graduate-does.html?spref=tw …

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  48. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 01:27

    hmmmmm, thru her fone and her friend....i dont believe there is any girl who doesnt cheat..anyways....it doesnt make any diff if we find out or not..

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 14:34

      I don't cheat! I'm only sleeping with one guy,and I've been doin that for almost 20months.. My BF' and he's cheating on me with like 5 different babes..You see life? Veryfunny..

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    2. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 16:41

      I don't cheat! I'm only sleeping with one guy,and I've been doin that for almost 20months.. My BF' and he's cheating on me with like 5 different babes..You see life? Veryfunny..

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  49. The Glammonist3 February 2013 at 01:35

    Mobile phones are d surest way to catch a cheating mofo...

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  50. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 01:36

    I FOUND A CONDOM IN HIS WALLET (U NEED TO SEE HOW HE HID IT). THEN I WENT STRAIGHT TO HIS FONE, I SAW CODED MESSAGES, BUT STILL NOT SATISFIED, I WENT THRU HIS CAMERA AND EMAIL AND DISCOVERED PICTURES THEY TOOK TOGETHER AND THE ONES HE SNAPED HER WHEN SHE VISITED HIM. WHEN I CONFRONTED THE HE-GOAT, HE SAID THERE WAS NOTHING BTWN THEM AND AS FOR THE CD, HE HAD IT INCASE HE'S TEMPTED. IMAGINE?

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 02:53

      He was honest and he plays safe. B happy.

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    2. Sleek!3 February 2013 at 06:44

      Hahahahaha! Dats crazy... She probably visited for bible study...lmao!

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  51. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 01:41

    @james y mst u cal her bitch?den u r nt a gentle 'boi'....shez nt a bitch..ok!mstchew...d tin dey du u ba cos u knw dt ur gf abi na wife z goin to gt u soon cos u r nt faithful...

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  52. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 01:44

    When you snoop, you deserve whatever you discover.----ISpiksDaTroof

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 06:06

      SpiksDaTroof... True dat!

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    2. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 08:02

      "Ignorance is bliss" they say but at the same time they also say "if you think Education is expensive try ignorance" So my friend its better to snoop and get the information you need so you will kno aw to conduct ur affairs with the cheat

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    3. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 13:10

      You are on point anon 8:02 am. Know the dog or bitch you are dealing with shikena

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  53. veeon3 February 2013 at 02:11

    my boyf checked my laptop + his friend told him

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  54. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 02:16

    I HAVE HAD MORE THAN ONE UNPLEASANT EXPERIENCE. which one i go talk biko?
    One was facebook, another suspicion which i investigated. another i see live. all were bad

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  55. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 02:55

    Men cheat women cheat, Linda u cheat too. No body holy pass. Ya all should worry about your self, una don chop?EOD.

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  56. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 04:17

    Saw the idiots email from his slut accusing him of cheating on her with his wife. Checked his Facebook messages and nearly fainted.

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  57. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 05:32

    James ure a goat

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  58. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 05:43

    mr james are u an idiot did she specifically say men? she was only talking generally to both sex....take a chill pill jor ode oshi kmft

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  59. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 05:59

    Definitely the first. I went thru the bastards phone and saw naked pictures of women with their vajayjay open.God would punish him. He knows himself. He reads this blog.

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  60. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 06:03

    Mobile phone! My ex saved my name with only the first letter of my name and another girl as Baby. deleted it immediately after i confronted him.saved d third girl he was cheating with as D.Ladies, if u want to know if ur man is cheating.Go thru his phone. Most men r so dumb they leave evidence lying around.Today dat guy is still cheating on the "baby".Once a cheater..always a cheater.

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    1. @Baby_Confessor3 February 2013 at 15:22

      The "Baby" is the Real chick! U were just a side chick. He was cheating on her with "you" Get real pls and count ur loss!

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  61. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 06:05

    JAMES STFU!!!!! ITS LINDA'S BLOG. SHE CAN BLOG ABT WHATEVER SHE WANTS. U OBVIOUSLY R A CHEATER! BASTARD.

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  62. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 06:07

    confessor...sorry to say but ur man is cheating on u hands down.its his guilt that is making him check ur phone all the time

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  63. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 06:09

    I found out by going thru his phone and saw the girls pictures, I asked him who the girl is he said it was nothing, this is somebody I trusted with my heart. Called her and she gave me all the info. no shaking , two can play the game, quietly went on a date with my first boyfriend, whom I had loved, but we are both married. I did not know what to do , but because I feared God, I could not bring myself to cheat.I have my eyes on him.

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  64. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 06:12

    With all the phones passworded? Impossible! Definitely not that way.

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  65. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 06:13

    told by the other girls boyfriend well through social media he sent me evidence ...absolutely broke my heart i never would have imagined felt so stupid i didn't see the signs and so hurt because i trusted him 100% proper mumu in the name of love>> Lesson learnt moved on.

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  66. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 06:13

    Anonymous said...
    I checked my bf's phone and found out he cheated, I am still with him but I will definitely kill him soon, fucking cheat! DIE

    February 3, 2013 at 1:02 AM

    I felt the same way wen i found out mine was cheating.All these NY lazy ass ibo guys. On eday I wld drive up to his house and shoot him. I'm watching u...u son of a bitch. I'm coming for u. That car u r proud of that u bought with 419 money.I'm going to kill u.

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  67. Jay3 February 2013 at 06:14

    Right now I think am in the best relationship but am worried cause he keeps talking to his exs most especially his most recent and he has this habit of always ending his chat when he is chatting with anybody on his BB and all....I don't know if I should feel insecure. Sometimes when we talk he tells me the contents of their discussions(him and ex) and he keeps telling me they are just 'padis' and there is definitely wrong in keeping in touch with ur exs but I told him that if there is anyother thing involved that if I catch him "I be Benin babe na" I go show am we no dey carry last at all" but it won't be funny.

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  68. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 06:16

    Anonymous February 3, 2013 at 1:36 AM.....

    In case he got tempted? Some men r just goats! my ex kept tellin gme all the girls he was fucking were his FANS! Talentless fool. Which kain fans..Fans of their pussy?

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  69. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 06:27

    I found out through a friend! I confronted him and he deleted me on bbm! He hasn't even called me till now! I'm so heartbroken

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 12:32

      Woww, e pele dear, Kia. Anyways good riddance, you will find a better one.

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    2. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 15:27

      U were a side chick

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  70. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 06:28

    Very true!!! Na so Abiodun Bakare caught his ex wife, very shameful!!!!

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  71. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 06:34

    I was lying on the bed with my man,my man was asleep but i was not,so a message came,the girl said call me i want to sleep now.that was on Sunday around 9pm,so i called the number to know if who sent it is a girl,behold is a girl,immediately i was trying to question her,my man woke up and took the phone from me.that was how i found out but the most funny part of it is that he still deny that the girl is his girlfriend,and that is what pains me most.

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  72. Unknown3 February 2013 at 06:51

    Person wey dey look inside another person secret, na wetin e dey find e go see. Just trust ur partner.

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 13:29

      Trust and be heart broken because you will find out some day the bastard cheated. Hehehe

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  73. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 07:13

    Followed her to her lovers house, caught her right at the door,d dude never came out and she denies till this day that they were just friends and nothing ever happened. I was too in love with her so I married her,but everyday,the memory of catching her red handed in another mans house haunts me.

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  74. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 07:39

    His Girlfriend called me to leave him alone.. Longstory ...lol.. Strangely i m still with him..

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  75. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 07:57

    Went through my BF phone, saw a very rotten message from a lady which made me shocked because my BF is not a too good looking guy, Though am still with him but as soon as the next guy comes along I am going to dump his sorry black ass.

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  76. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 08:09

    all of the above joo.

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  77. Newly Bad Guy3 February 2013 at 08:10

    well my ultra bitch ex gf kept suspecting me of cheating and was forever snooping around. I wasn't but later a psychologist told me people suspect you to be doing what they are already doing.Her inbox was always clear but i noticed her pussy was always torn even when we hadn't had sex for weeks. She was a real sneaky lady

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  78. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 08:15

    Had his fb password one time and discovered how he's been sexting this random girl. Went mad, confronted him after awhile, he apologized and said he was gonna delete d girl. Ryt nw, I dnt hv d heart to go tru his fb (LDrelationship), I rather not know mehn!

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  79. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 08:47

    He deletes all messages and his phone has a password. Signs of a cheater I guess.

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  80. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 09:15

    Linda you're a mumu of life! so "Any of this or the old ways of lipstick on the collar? Scent of another woman's perfume, etc?" is supposed to mean only men cheat?? u be ode!

    My answer: I found out my bitch cheated by going thru her BBM messages, n i dropped her unloyal ass immediately without looking back.

    n if u like no post my comment, i no send u

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  81. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 09:16

    How?pls explain

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  82. Unknown3 February 2013 at 09:25

    Lol. @ other, linda do u mean OTUMOPKO?

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  83. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 09:34

    Well I went tru his fone,saw a text telling a girl that he loves her so much,I got so pissed and asked him,he said there was nofn btw dem,that it was ex trying to make contact and wen he didn't wana go along with it,she threatned to lie to me that there was something btw dem,that's why he sent the I love you msg,and I was like he cud have allowd her to send it na,I got so confused he begged me even to extent of asking we go into a convenant but I said no,well I forgave him,cos I felt he wasn't lying,no I check his fone like every min I get the chance,and he's so careful about his fone calls and msg.

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  84. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 09:54

    Went thru his fone. He deleted his inbox but 4got 2 delete sent items. I dint waste time. Broke up with d lying broke ass. I deserve beta. I'd rada b single n hapi dan b in a relationship n unhapi.

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  85. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 10:01

    I just went thru my boyfriends phone. Infact am too weak

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    1. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 12:37

      See wetin Linda don cause lol, you too who send u make u look ur boyfriend phone now.

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  86. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 10:04

    Went through useless ex husband's phones. Saw bbm, naked pixs, txt msgs,packet of condom under d bed, lipstick stains on shirts and all sorts. God I made d greatest mistake of my life but I ve moved on n d pieces ve picked themselves. Am a lot happier.

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  87. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 10:18

    I don't even know how to use her fone. Always seek her help check live soccer scores. I don't want to be all caught up in the frenzy of fone-checking. Truth is she's really beautiful and a woman of every sane man. I count me lucky to have her in the first place and that's just fine for me. Men will follow, pester, harass, do all possible to get anything under skirt -married or single, so why bother my head especially when my wifey is a hottie. I don't want to have a migraine Jare... I'll just be the best husband I can for her. She's too much to lose. Femi

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  88. Unknown3 February 2013 at 10:20

    WELL THE ONLY WAY U CAN CATCH ME IS IF I TELL U, I DNT KEEP EVIDENCE, AM A SMOOTH CRIMINAL BUT DAT DOESN'T MEAN CHEATING IS GOOD.

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  89. Nk3 February 2013 at 10:23

    In 7yrs of marriage,he's cheated thrice,I knw cos he confesses anytime he does it wit lots of regret and I 4gv him all d time. Now I'm d one tempted 2 cheat,hot guys chasin me everywia,God hlp me

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    1. aya3 February 2013 at 12:13

      Try it and see how he will call for a village meeting on ur behalf!!! Mwl u will b contemplatin if u should carry ur bags inside ur fathers house or just leave them Outside where he dumped them

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    2. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 20:48

      @ aya gbam!! Correct talk..

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  90. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 10:54

    There are some faithful folks out there but every1 gets to cheat at one point in time especially in this contemporary times. If you catch ur partner in the act or not, it's his/her humily that goes a long way to ur decision making. So parting ways sometimes is not the best way cos you'll still hold on to the anger of one relationship. The best to do sometimes is holding unto the guy/lady temporarily till you slip apart. If he's a changed fella then his luck else that moment spent on a short term should be used to find another "suitable" guy. #justanopinion#

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  91. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 11:13

    Thru his phone chats and pix,Saw everything the babe that came ta spend the weekend,the babe that he made love to,and the only faSt way in knwing if ur man is cheating on U.pls check his chat with his frnd,And if u go spend the weekend in ur man's aus and every other weekend u go there u seeing diff gals as his friends girl frnd,ma dear they re most likely birds of the saame feather.

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  92. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 11:19

    always check the sent msgs.

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  93. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 11:21

    For a person to leave messages on their phone, inbox etc...means they want you to find out. That's mot smart.

    V

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  94. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 11:45

    He picks calls 4rm a certain bitch.Said it wuz his sister..4got he tld mi dat. Later said it wuz his cuz. On his b/day, I met er dia n' he said she wuz his sis' friend. All d wile he wanted hit ma ass wif his pecker... He dint. Lol.
    she got ma pin smhow to have a groupie fight...Tld er she can have d cheat, she told me I wuz 9ic( I will treat her later)
    Meanwile d dude felt he wuz d worlds best controller. I watched him Lie 4 months.
    Praise heavens I got a whole lotta self control. Wanted him to just b truthful. Wanted to learn to trust men again but.. smh... A cheating male can NEVA EVA change.
    Lil wonder y ladies r so heartless!itz sweet n' hilarious to find men scared of women's tactics... u made em dat way... Deal wif it. That's ur curse.

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  95. James3 February 2013 at 12:59

    Oh, so I see I annoyed some gullible Linda fans high on her pathetic Kool Aid. You can't expect to be respected when you respect no one. Holier than thou idiot. Since men are the only ones that cheat. I hope IF you ever get married, your best friend cheats with your husband on you and then you'll realise that it takes two to tango. Misandrous dog.

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  96. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 13:36

    D bastard was alwaayz checkin ma fone n alwayz suspectin me even wen I was so faithful..den I decided 2 do d same n saw so many messages of a particular lady beggin n saying sorry n can she come ova..n I saw him reply dt he was outta town n wld c ha wen he returns..den I decided 2 call d numba n d bitch n I gt talkin n she told me of how she came ova 2 his huse n ow de ve bn vin sex wivout condom sef..I was so irritated...ow. Cld a girl be tellin me all dis..n she said she was done wiv him n I cld ve him..well I told ha she can ve him cuz am done..d idiot came bck hme n kept on lying sayin d bitch was a groupie chasing him around n he didn't want ha. ..blah blah..I. Dumped his sick sorry ass n moved on...am happily married nw 2 a faithful n wonderful man!!

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  97. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 13:53

    Bonario pls 4gve n 4get. Dnt knw what else 2 say bt i believe it was fun while it lasted though. #KISSES#

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  98. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 13:54

    Bonario Dear, pls 4gve n 4get. Dnt knw what else 2 say bt i believe it was fun while it lasted though. #KISSES#

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  99. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 15:00

    When he doesn't pick his call infront of u or sound confused or vague in conversation. That's his GF calling!

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  100. GLAM ME PRO3 February 2013 at 15:05

    Well with all d cheating tinz going on in dz part of d country, there's an application for android fones where u can save up some dirtt stuffz from pic, porn, hidden contacts even wen d caller calls and so on. For all dem samsung users are now using dz app and u can even make it invisble on ur fone dt no one can see it. They jus gave men a very reliable way to lie and cheat n never get caught. Well if u want to kno d app i can add me up but hold a 1500 mtn card biko and i wud tel u d App. Dor Android users only..

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  101. Sasha Fierce!3 February 2013 at 15:13

    No amount of technology will stop men from cheating.
    I am not saying that is good to cheat, but I don't see myself fucking the same pussy for the rest of my life.It doesn't mean that I don't love my gf, but the fact is that I, myself and I,will cheat.How I do it is what matters.
    Am just keeping it real.

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  102. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 15:45

    check his phone and other check-ables, especially if you claim to be in a "serious" relationship. keep forming what you don't know wont hurt you, you may even be the side chick and next thing you'll see is wedding card of your fiance and his wifey. Sharpen up!

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  103. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 17:00

    Discovered my bf was always online @odd hours n doesn't even bother to chat with me.his calls reduced and always claimin busy.@ a time I need him most.jus quit my job and had to takecare of my sick sista(bless God shez beta now)when a guy is cheating,ur instincts will always know.sent him messages which he never bothered to reply,calls he never bothered to pick.And one day,I went to church and received a powerful message from God.There are many other things happening in life.My life shouldn't evolve around a guy.so many women are making it and are successful.I am smart,I am sexy and beautiful.I have decided to pick the pieces of my life,pray to God for a better job and be successful.At His appointed time,my man will come for now,I've decided to live my life as a better person and someone my family,friends and God will be proud of.By His Grace,I shall overcome.

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  104. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 17:01

    hahahaha these comments are soooo funny. once was through the pics of the naked girl he left in his phone after they shagged and the next one kept denying till the bitch was pregnant. lmao

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  105. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 17:03

    Hmmm. I was with hubby pho and saw some bbm and started crying.although he apologies but still I can't trust him again. It hurt to feel cheated by your spouse mostly when you trust Him so much.

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  106. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 17:05

    Linda this ur post is and causing breakups.....not nice

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  107. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 17:54

    caught right in the act with him oblivious of my presence but when i threaten him with a reprisal, he warned me not to let him know of my escapades or else.......

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  108. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 18:06

    From his facebook account. I log onto fb wit his account. Lo and behold he was flirting with this gal. BUT I actually suspected because he started becoming apprehensive and was getting angry easily (u knw wot a guilty conscience does) that's wot prompted me to check his fb.

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  109. zzzzz3 February 2013 at 18:14

    Men cheats ladies cheat...my boyfrd cheated on me..ds nt hs first or hs second..he always does it n ask for forgivness bt nw e did n broke up wt me can u imagine...fuck u..I mean Fuck u..I no som pple who knows him n read ds blog tell him (A) tells OZ fuck u n u wil never ve peace..amen

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  110. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 18:15

    She was always his profile picture and he kept lying she was his childhood friend.. He kept tweeting at her and telling the world hw much he loves her but kept telling me she was an old friend that he hasn't seen in years..I guess he didn't see the need 2 code the relationship. I had to flee and nw I'm with the perfect man, cudnt wish 4 a better person in my life..

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  111. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 19:49

    I went thru his phone one night I ws sleeping over @ his place,after banging me senseless,e slept off like a log,saw pix of many bitches cunt,n read was of his nasty chat wif a married woman living in Jos,of all places.confronted him,and e begged his heart out,forgave him and the next year wen I was left alone in his house,I saw e had continued from where e left off wif em' bitches..I cook clean n bang ds asshole,dumped d asshole...ladies,its not bout cooking,washing or giving him d greatest blow job,if e wants to cheat e will cheat...xoxo

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  112. Anonymous3 February 2013 at 20:11

    *sobs*Mine will neva release his password,how will I catch him?pls help.

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  113. Unknown3 February 2013 at 21:44

    Men are always crucified most of the time in this cheating game, but it hurts more when a lady does hers. Sometimes a misunderstanding doesnt mean you are cheating. I was dating someone that saw 'I need a sideKICK' on my blackberry she thought I put 'sideCHICK' and she had a boyfriend as at the time. SMH

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  114. Ennieblaq3 February 2013 at 21:51

    Well, I av his passwords and he has mine, I even respond to his BBM chats on his behalf, I got noffin to hide, he enquires abt my new toasters like evry week, I tell him evry, but den he cheated on me Once, wit his EX, I neva knew, he told me and I 4gave him... But wat bothers me is how convenient it is 4 women to 4give in cases like dis, I'm sure if reverse was d case, he will NEVA EVER 4give me... Bottom line is we love each oda, and 4d very first time in my life, I know I own dis relationshp,

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  115. Anonymous4 February 2013 at 00:02

    He keeps his phones around , never seen any strange texts of chats. But but but the smart ass kept another phone in his office drawer strictly for his rubbish. Bubble burst wen he had an Emergency appendix operation. Went to his office to notify his boss and decided to look thru his drawer. Then I saw the PHONE of LIFE. I just love Men. Phew

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  116. Anonymous4 February 2013 at 01:34

    This is d most hilarious comments eva!!!! Solution to sum pending probs cums in mysterious ways. For me, i just had my closure. *smiles*

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  117. Anonymous4 February 2013 at 07:45

    @ Newly Bad Guy February 3, 2013 at 8:10 AM

    That means u left her based on assumption with no solid evidence against her, she may NEVER have cheated on u (after all her slates were clean). By the way what do you mean by "torn"?
    I'm a lady and when I haven't had sex in weeks, my Vagina gets tighter, so sex gets a bit painful and I feel bruised sometimes and I complain, sometimes I tell him not to sex me anymore that day cos I'm bruised. But then the vagina heals very fast and from the next day we can go on n on with no complaints. So honestly I wouldn't wanna think of any one mistaking a "bruised" vagina for a "cheating or torn" vagina.

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  118. Anonymous4 February 2013 at 10:38

    Hehehe! Am actually rolling on d floor reading these comments. Me,I found thru phone nd other tell tale signs. even tempted to cheat sef sometimes..

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  119. simply cute4 February 2013 at 11:08

    He's a stupid cheat, saw a pix of a gal on his fone asked him who she was and the fool told me she was his fwends new GF, the idiot 4got I rap well wif his fwend...I asked that 1 abt the gal and said he's not dating her that she's mah BF's friend, the fool had no choice than 2 confess blaming me for it cos I don't av sex wif him...is it my fault I wanna kip myself till am married....I have neva touched the idiots fone...broke up wif the fool, I deserve beta

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