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Monday, 3 December 2012

Question for the guys...

You can only save ONE person. Your MUM or your WIFE? And why?

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  1. I jst dnt knw why,I dnt lik answerin such questions

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    1. Exactly, Lily u know dat men are strong so why can't they save both their mum and wife...I need an answer

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  2. Lol...I know the answer to this one. My ex husband would have picked his mom. They were so close and ganged on me so much won't be surprised if that boy was licking mummy's obo whenever I was at work. Foolish son and mother...can't wait for him to get her preggers

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    1. Bitter soul....

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    2. LMAOOOOOOOOO OMG!!!!!! Y so evil......ROTFL!!! TEE

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    3. Ok...Ewwwwwwwwwwwww!!!

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    4. Try and let it go dear.

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    5. Girls like u are y marriage breakdown are on the high in 9ja society. U marry a guy and want to separate him from his family by creating division. Lesson of the day, when u marry a man you marry into his fam. I guess when u have/if u have a make child, u won't want him to abandon you becos of a lame girl that thinks like u do at the moment. Peace

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    6. LooooL... Funniest shit ever! Hahahaaaa

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    7. No one is trying to seperate a man from his family. The only problem I that Nigerian men put their mothers and family 1st before their wives. Even in the bible did they not say a husband will leave his family and cling to his wife? Your supposed to become one with your wife, think as one act as one. Not behave asif she is just another woman living in your home

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    8. as a man,my mum would even advice me to go for my wife.cos my wife will continue her motherly love towards d family.
      So,i go for m'wife

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    9. I dont know what bible u read, but i have not seen where it is said a man should cling to his wife. If / when u marry again, respect your husband and his family. Get your family to love and respect your nan and his fam. This goes both ways and u will be smiling and be happy just as my wife is.
      And by the way, due to the joy, happiness and bright future my wife presents to me, I will save her and I am sure my loving mum will understand as she knows and can go in peace knowing that her son has got a great wife, happy family and a great future. Peace

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  3. Mum obviously lol. A wife is replaceable but a mother isn't.

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    1. You answered this question so easily, apparently you have not met the woman that would make you not have an easy answer. Yes, a wife can be replaced but can the mother of your kids ever be replaced? That means sone like will be so selfish, all you want is your mother, the one you have had all your life but you want your kids to be without their mum and suffer under a wicked stepmum.Don't be a selfish hegoat.

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    2. Very correct my brother,most especially when U find out that she was a mistake.There is nothing like family,my mum can never fail me or curse me unless I have been an ungrateful child.A wife will always do the same when she is meant to choose.The only restriction she might have is never finding another husband that easy.That's the only reason she might opt for her man,but deep down she will stick to her gossip partner and know it all mum.

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    3. Yea you are correct dude my mum first then I can replace her But ...

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    4. U prefer ur kids to be motherless? ...

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    5. So d mother of ur children is replaceable#dumb tot#...mtcheew!

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    6. Really,when she has kids for you,just like your dad replacing ur mum with someone else's mum,the fact is your mother is a wife so they are both ireplaceble.

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    7. Ūя wife is τ̣̣ђё choice u made as a man....buh should ​¶ say whether u like it or not u must accept Ūя mum τ̣̣ђё way she is.
      A real man respects his choice!

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  4. M̶̲̥̅̊Ɣ mum as been an Icon o̶̲̥̅̊f̶̲̥̅̊ Inestimable 2 ♍ƺ nd d rest o̶̲̥̅̊f̶̲̥̅̊ ma family, very caring, lovin nd always ve every1's best interest @ hrt...I L♥√ع ♡̬̩̃̊ her wit M̶̲̥̅̊Ɣ whole life, but d fact stil remains D̶̲̥̅̊å† I also L♥√ع ♡̬̩̃̊ M̶̲̥̅̊Ɣ wife nd neva W̶̲̥̅̊ȋ̝̊̅ι̥ι̥ I stop, but if ȋ̝̊̅ڪ to save one person out o̶̲̥̅̊f̶̲̥̅̊ dem....Abeg na M̶̲̥̅̊Ɣ mama, she nurtured ♍ƺ 4rm birth til d stage I Ǻ♍ nw, she carried ♍ƺ I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ her womb Fǿя̩̥̊ gud 9months.....I cn alwayz marry anoda wife, even if she ȋ̝̊̅ڪ d mother o̶̲̥̅̊f̶̲̥̅̊ ma kids.....But M̶̲̥̅̊Ɣ sweet mum IRREPLACABLE joor.... So ti ee!....Osheey!

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  5. My mother of course. My reason for thet is that my wife can always be replaced by me remarrying by my MOTHER cannot.

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    1. Will Ūя mum be happy if Ūя dad choose his mother over her

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    2. Oldo d question is not who would you make happy or sad, d question is who would u save, if your dad chooses his mum over his wife dats his choice...

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    3. Good question!

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    4. God bless u Somadina Obi, same question i wanna ask all d guys dat has bn choosing their mum.....Remember ur mum was once ur father's wife....If he had choosed the mother, where will u be now....Choose Wisely#

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    5. Somadina, God bless you for that question..

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  6. Hi Linda and LIBers, pls help me out here. recently (not going to say exactly when) took a video of a nollywood actor & actress kissing in a hotel lobby (not going to say where) They had just walked out of the elevator together and were waiting for their turn at the desk. It wasn't just a kiss, he was grabing her butt and they really seemed to be into each other. She was wearing shades and he was also with a hat, but the video shows without a doubt who those two are. I was checking in with my boyfriend and he asked me to mind my business but I didn't.
    He is one of the top & talented actors and married with kids. She is known more for appearing at events, wild antics, altering her looks and not very talented but single. My cousin thinks I should release it because she does not like the female but I am hesitant because of the guy's family.
    I did a little research on these two and some pics of them together makes a lot more sense after I saw them.

    So what should I do? Linda? Anyone? Sorry Linda I posted on an unrelated post. Thanks.

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    1. Spill it...we are all one here

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    2. My dear post the video! Send it to any of the blogs. Send it to naira land or stella dimoko...it will go viral in a second. Release the video pls coz u don't knw wat the wife of that man is goin thru bcos of that actress. Remember wat happened to Ruke Amata's wife Gilda? They exposed her evil affairs with other men. So my dear pls in the name of God post the video bcos it may even be my husband. I am married to an actor and frm ur description it feels like its my husband ur talking abt. Av been suspecting him but I need a very concrete strong evidence to nail them. Send the video to Stella Dimoko...I knw she will post it without fear. Pls help me my dear, put me out of my pain and misery. Thank u in advance!

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    3. Lol @we are all one. Pray tell. Pretty please!

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    4. Anon 5:14am Wife in pain is very correct! Please send it to Stella Dimoko, she'll post d video, she's d only with guts that can expose them! Sharp pls!

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    5. Pls DON'T post the video, it is none of ur business what people do. Do u want to destroy someone's home.

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    6. Post the shiiiiii...

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  7. My wife obviously,my mum wld def give herself p up any good mother should b able to do dt

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  8. Wife, she will fill the space of mum nd eventually mum will die cause she's old, but wife will b wif me for a long time. Nd no b mum I go fuck

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  9. Tough question,hmm I would save my wife because I love my children and I hate to see them without their mother.They need their mother more than I need mine. They are so close sometimes I get jealous and I know they would "die" if their mun was no longer there.Can't afford that.

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  10. My wife is more important...mum has spent considerable time on earth..she should allow others.

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  11. Serzly i get speechless wen i see such question...... Secretly i wee say Mother buh M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ wife must nt know ooo coz if its the other way round (father/husband) ‎​A̶̲̥̅♏ sure she will pick ♍ƺ *smiles*

    Lindy plz be posting M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ comments oooo..... Hmmmmmm

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  12. A mother is irreplacable. Women come n'go.

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    1. And ur mum is a she-male abi? Mu2

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  13. Linda the question no just join! You would have added a wife wiv kids. If I have kids wiv the woman na my wife o!

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  14. I'll choose my mum definitely. I can get another wife whose even finer sef. Lol. I can't even imagine betraying my mum, my love. My wife might be pretending to love so long as there's money but my mum will always be there 4 me. I love you mum. To my girlfriends. Ntooor. Bitches and Witches.

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  15. With what Marriage have turn to these days n with women's unpredictable change #omo na my Mama oh, no tym....... After saving your wife she'll probably Leave you someday, n you'l be left asking yourself why you didn't save your mother,when she saved you n didn't take the "Pill" or Swallow you sef....

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  16. MUM... There's no woman to compare to her...
    I can marry anoda wife, but i can't and never have anoda mother.
    I can even choose to save my grandma to my wife...

    Blood they said, is thicker than water

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  17. It is always ur wife u pick. She has become one with you when u married her. Sorry mum

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  18. I don't think such a situation can come up though, a wife is replaceable but a mum is not in the general context but you would also know a wife is irreplaceable too when she is your soul mate. If such a situation come up, maybe and maybe, I might sacrifice myself for them, especially if my wife has kids for me already.

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    1. Laff laff laff!!
      Bros,e no easy to die o,wen the time comes dis ur yarn' go give way to true talk o!......hahaha

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    2. Don't mind him, always trying to play the good guy,mtcheeew!
      Fake arse nigger.

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  19. Both are irreplaceable. And both have a special places in my heart. Don't get it twisted.

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    1. Ok but ur English is twisted !! Too early in the morning thank you

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    2. Yes sir but ur English too is twisted abeg it's too early in the morning
      Thank you

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  20. Anon 4:40am. You are so dirty and vile. What a heresy?

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  21. My wife oooo. Abeg d gal can nack well well.

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  22. Oh ma sweet mother...!.they are incomparable dear linda.

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  23. What the hell is a wife?

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  24. I'm a lady nd ll prefer if d guy choose his mum..my mum is late..deres no love like a mothers love.

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    1. Meet my moda,den u'll know nt all Mothers r worthy...my wwife pls,no one compares!all of u saying ur mother n u'r married,sorry to say bt u'v nt found ur soulmate.Mothers r to be cherished n all bt rememba,she has lived her life to a stage n every gud mother wld even tell u to save ur wife!

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    2. Meet my moda,den u'll know nt all Mothers r worthy...my wwife pls,no one compares!all of u saying ur mother n u'r married,sorry to say bt u'v nt found ur soulmate.Mothers r to be cherished n all bt rememba,she has lived her life to a stage n every gud mother wld even tell u to save ur wife!

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  25. Simple! Mum.. Cnt av anoda moda buh I can get anoda wifey (am female though)

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  26. You can replace a wife? What kinda dumb statement is that? The mother of your kids? So u would rather ur kids be without a mother because u wanna save ur mom that has lived and enjoyed her life? Ok o

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  27. My husband will deffinately save his mum.

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  28. My wife its just logical she has lived her life and its time to live mine with my wife. But seriously why ask such a question. Its like asking a woman to have a CS or natural and fast delivery.

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    1. Note: CS is faster than natural delivery. Its just d recovery that's slower.

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  29. Sensitive question...

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  30. definetly my mum

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  31. I'm a lady and i won't like any guy dat chooses his mum over me,if E could love me who E jez met more dan his mumm dat has always been there,den what gives me D impression dat he won't chose sum1 else ova me too,wen a new person comes along

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    1. WONU: Wow! Dat is strong neva thot of it, its d truth doug

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  32. Anon 4:40 u wan take laff kill me ooooo.......was it dat terrible.....eeyah....m so sorry.....but dis wan hard oooo. Keep d comment rollin.....Check out yelnatsfashion.blogspot.com

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  33. If I can save one, I can save all

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  34. This is a very tough question cos i love both but no one like my mum. Guess you know where i am heading to. Want to have a flat belly, burn fat, maintain your shape and fitness. Visit this web address www.bitly.com/fitnessandweightlossreport

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  35. I as a wife and mother to only boys know what the answer is. I won't advice my husband to choose me over his mum.

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  36. The situation that would warrant such a question is sth I don't pray for.I am still single,and only have a mother who can lay down his life for me.Nobody should be too quick to answer this question.May God never let us be in such a situation.

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  37. My wife everyday.....

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    1. :* u said it ryt...the bible quoted a man shall leave his mother and father and become one with is wife...

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  38. None of them. Find alternate solution, fast. If u leave one in the lurch, the other will hate u and make ur life stonecold misery...

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  39. Very silly question
    Especially if answered by single, or unhappily married men.

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  40. Wife .. Mother has done her part by raising a successful man.. U can alwyz give her a tlk of the town funeral

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  41. Evil question for early momo. Linda u aff start oh.

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  42. Imagine wot you r sayin.ur moda has lived ha life

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  43. MOM.. The only reason a guy won't pick his mother that mean his mother s wicked but as for me I sincerely pick my mom, she is the best in the world..

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  44. i will save my mum o!,y becuz i can go and ahead & marry another wif,bt cnt get another mum

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  45. My Mum any day.

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  46. My Mum any day.

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  47. Both of 'em can take the two spots available.

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  48. You are very slow and stupid for asking such a question

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    1. And did they stupidly force ur hand to comment? No manners hissss.. See who is not slow????

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  49. lol...yes i wil save mi wifey, bcos she is my covenant life-partner, "for better 4 worse" jorrr

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  50. lol...yes i wil save mi wifey, bcos she is my covenant life-partner, "for better 4 worse" jorrr

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  51. My one nd only mum,cz she isn't replaceable!!!

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  52. Difficult question.

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  53. @anon 4.44, wif ur head lyk saucer! Ur wife will choose ur mum over you too. Oga eme gi vooom n'anya. Lol. #Jade Said#

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  54. @ anon 444 am yeye D̶̲̥̅̊عƔ worry you. Wife is replaceable but mom is nt. So likewise hubby can be replaceable. In answering this question it has to do wit the bible. For the bible says D̶̲̥̅̊عƔ for will a man leave his father and moda and sha cleave unto his wife and the †wo sha become one. So if every generation dis question keep arising and its for real the situation know dat me and you won't have a mom for if our own papa choose their mothers and my own grand father chooses his mother. We will have a mom to even pick in preference to our wives.

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  55. Linda did u watch Tonto Dike'S interview yesterday on STV??? Omg its a must Watch!! Dis gal is really on drugs, she's nt normal, it was really ovious , really felt for d pretty gal yesterday...

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  56. Hhhmn...hope he picks me...am not sure he would....on the other hand...okay he would.lol

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  57. Save the wife for the future .....mumsie have lived her life!!she will still soon die anyway,so wat the heck!!

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  58. Linda, as a smart badt sharp guy, I'll tell u to rephrase the question based on my view towards it and my reply which goes like this: I assume both are the same person cuz she might be my step mum and at d same time my wife meaning I married her after dad passed away. Meaning I've saved both. Pretty smart huh?

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  59. Mum anytime.it will serve as a good opportunity to get a new wife.LoL

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  60. Na my mama, wife ko, wify ni!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  61. If I have to answer this question, I will give my answer anonymously...lol

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  62. It's supposed 2 be "wife"....my momma told me so herself!!

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  63. Wife joor.. D moda has already reaped d fruit of ha labour.. D wife hasn't yet..

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  64. MUM ANYDAY....

    ALSO IF ITS DAD OR HUSBAND.....DAD ANYDAY ANYTIME...

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    1. Speak for ursef cos I will nt pick my dad. U pretty if dats ur pix

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  65. My mum, after the marriage we(my wife and I) r one, makn my mum a visitor/outsider to our home... My mum can't be my wife but a good wife can be my mum

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  66. Mum 4 real. I can hav another Wife, bt can't hav another mother.... MAXY AJAHWHITE

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  67. My lovely MUM joor, coz I can afford to av anoda wife,but I can only av one mum. Save a wife and she divorce u tmao,save a mum she stays forever.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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    1. Oga Bona, "save a wife and she divorce u tmao", "save a mum n she becomes immortal abi?" think twice b4 writing....

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  68. i will go for my wife, don't ask why because i love her so much, my wife first, my kids second, my mother third and myself fourth.

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    1. Lol...d okpor ur wife give u chop nor b small oooh

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  69. I wouldn't pray for such...but i'll save my Wife! She's my soulmate, my flesh and bone. I love my mum, but am sure she would want Me to save my wife and sacrifice herself for my happiness!

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  70. I i pick my mum who will my dad pick,everybody has to pick is wife because every man has a wife that way all women will be safe.

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    1. Well said ma broda,just fell in luv with u 4 dis comment..*kisses* #thatishowrealmentalk

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    2. Well said ma broda,just fell in luv with u 4 dis comment..*kisses* #thatishowrealmentalk

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  71. Anonymous 4:40. U are one hell of a sick person

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  72. Annoying question!I will pass please*rme*

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  73. Wife abeg. Let ur mums husband choose her stupid men even d bible said you wld leave ur parent to become one wif ur wife,make una go suck una mama breast na

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  74. Hmnnn... This is obviously hard. If u pick your mom, u don't truly love your wife then. When true love exist, think the wife should be picked cos the mom is already old and aged and will die sooner or later. Pick the one you love the most. But why will you marry a woman you aint in love with?...

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    1. Gud question y wud u marry a woman u don't luv. N to all guys dt think wifes r replaceable pls keep off marrying d wife since they r of no value. Thank you

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  75. GOD! @ Anon December 3, 2012 4:40 AM You're pathetic! No wonder he divorced yo ass!

    And my answer is definitely my MOM! I can find another wife but i can't find another MOTHER! A wife can divorce you, but no matter what a MOTHER with NEVER disown you!

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  76. this is pretty hard question, but am going to pick my wife! My wife is still young and we are starting and building our own family... My mum will be angry sef if i pick her over my wife.

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  77. In Edward cullen's voice "Bella, I can't live witout u"

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  78. My dad picked his mum leading to their divorce.

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  79. 4 sure its gonna b my momma, i can get anoda wife/g.f anytym anyday

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  80. I can have plenty wives απϑ concubines, but hw many mum can i have?
    Goldfish

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  81. My own husband will not choose his mum or me, but he will choose his sugar mummy who is currently controlling his life. God help us.

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    1. Buhahahahaha. The sugar mummy is also controlling your life. Because whatever STD she's got, you're getting too. This sad world.

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  82. Mum nd Y... Wife can neva give u half d luv frm ur mum. ( Talkin of gud mum)

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  83. I think the question should be 'Ladies,how will u feel if ur son chooses to save his wife than you(his mom)'

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    1. A true loving mum ll ask d son to pick his wife for his happiness. pls my son shud pick his wife. I have lived my life and had my fun so let him also enjoy his home wit his wife. I don't pray to find myself in such a situation but trust me a true motherly love will stay off for her son's wife except d wife is nt a gud one

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    2. @anony10:23 will u ever see eye to eye with ur other siblings if U̶̲̥̅̊ kill ur mom?

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  84. Nawaoooo,this question has confirmed so many ladies odeals at home,how can a man pick an old mom which has fufiled her destiny to a wife who have has just started life.guys who picked thier mom, what will be the faith of your children in another hands.think twice.

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  85. mumu boiz picking their momS...ma husband recently told me he doesnt miss his late mom anymore ever since we got married! Moral of the story: MARRY A GOOD WOMAN AND SHE WILL BECOME YOUR LOVER, YOUR WIFE AND YOUR MOTHER!...i care so much for him,makes his meals, takes care of his laundry(motherly love)...buh at d end i still service his oproko n he shines my congo! MAMA cannot beat that one!!!

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    1. LMAO! U are right indeed. U must be a wonderful wife. A good wife can always replace ur mum bt what if d wife aint good? That's where d issue lies so dnt blame some for picking mum, they knw wht they are saying.

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  86. I'd rather save my WIFE cos the Bible says; "He who find a wife, find a good thing..."it also says; "Husband and Wife are one and once they are joint, let no man put assunder" my mum has lived her life, she'll rather let us live ours or haven't ya heard or watched a movie where parents die for their children???

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  87. I'd rather save my WIFE cos the Bible says; "He who find a wife, find a good thing..."it also says; "Husband and Wife are one and once they are joint, let no man put assunder" my mum has lived her life, she'll rather let us live ours or haven't ya heard or watched a movie where parents die for their children???

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  88. A good mother will tell u save ur wife, cos no woman can take care of ur kids d way she will do n ve lived my life enuf to sEe my grand children, if ur mother accept 4u to save her den she is really a bad woman

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  89. To all the guys sayin they will pick their mothers, so if u have very special wives, u'll pick ur mumsies over them?, cos u feel u can get anoda wife anytime? issorai, pick ur mums, and sharper guys wud pick ur wives...this is why I am scared of marriage....*rme*

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  90. Am goin 2 look at dis from 2ways,as a wife,I'd want my hubby 2 pick me,I kno mums r irreplaceable buh dis is a new phase in his life nd since we r married we r both one now.as a mother,i'd want my son 2 pick his wife.av lived my life nd its jst logical 2 let d son I claim 2 love live his too. Besides wat is he goinin 2 be tellin my grand kids? "I let ur mummy die so I can have my mummy(grandma)". Its nt an easy decision tho.

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  91. A good mother can be saved and also a good wife can be saved.

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  92. I am surprised that all these boys, men and future husbands dont know that their mums love their husbands, i.e their fathers more than them... If you want to save your mum, you can go ahead but in the end you have lost yourself *WORD*

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  93. My wifey cuz both of us will make a union. Still searching for her sha

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    1. Awwww! Search no more...see me here!

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  94. The question is "is she a good wife" and "is she a good mum"? I guess Majority of the married guys picking their Mum do not have happy marriages. If you have a very good wife, you will not even remember your Mum but if you married a bad woman, then your choice is clear.

    A lot of men do not know what marriage is all about.

    From Ice.

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  95. Question for the Chicks! You can only save one person, your Dad or your Husband? And why?

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  96. Dis goes 2 show hw selfish some men can be, (for dos of u pickin ur mom ova ur wife) u had ur mom until u bcame man enuf 2 have a family of ur own nd u dnt want d same for ur kids, ask most kids dat are being raised by a stepmum hw it is 4 dem, only den can u open ur mouth 2 vomit nonsense on dis blog.

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  97. COMMON! GUYS U CUD PICK UR MUM BUT NOT ON THE BASIS OF NOT BEING ABLE TO REPLACE HER OR NOT, REMEMBER THAT UR WIFE IS ALSO SOMEONES' MUM.HABA! CUT IN SOME SLACKS - SOME WIVES ARE IRREPLACEABLE.MY POINT IS THAT WHO NO GO!- NO KNOW! SO TILL THEN BUT TRY TO THINK IF THE LADY IS TO CHOOSE BETWEEN YOU AND HER DAD

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  98. Foolish men- why didn't you take your mom to the alter mtcheeeeeeew

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  99. Its only a bad mum that would love τ̣̣ђё on to choose her over τ̣̣ђё wife.....Ūя wife I'd Ūя Future!

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  100. Me I'll neva marry a guy d@'ll chooz hiz mum ova me sha...such guyz r d ones dat'll let family cum btwn him n hz wife...4 a guy to even stat lukn for a wife it mnz hiz ready to let anoda woman apart frm hz mum b d centre stage of hz lyf...#my opinion# sha

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  101. Wife,d bible says u must leave ur papa nd mama nd to be joined to ur wife. Ur wife is ur mother,what a mother can do a wife can also do.not bcos things have change we keep saying marring another wife, why going to marry another when u choose ur mum instead of ur wife,let ur mother do what ur wife left behind so she seems important huu. Lili pls post my comment ur one nd only london reader.

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    1. Oga u get mouth, chop knuckle abeg...#thatishowrealmeantalk

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  102. She gave birth to me, nurtured me, taught me how to be a man ... And I'm supposed to choose another woman over her? What the fuck?! Hell no.

    Chucks

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  103. for all the guys that said they will pick their mom
    1st: if ur dad chose his mum will u even have a mom to choose?
    2nd: u say u can replace ur wife abi? ok..which stupid lady will hear how u sacrificed ur 1st wife for ur mom and still want to marry u?.. even if someone does, u shld know it's for the wrong reasons n u'll neva be happy in that marriage, cos she'll be timing ur demise so she can leave with what she can...
    wise up!! odes!

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  104. Haba, my mother one hundred times over. why? simple, she is my mum and will do same for me. No woman except your mother is worth dying for. Am talking from multiple experiences. @mattlawo

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  105. Nwa mekiri sense3 December 2012 at 12:04

    This is one hard question for my fiance. He loves his mum same way he loves me. One day the mum made me cry in his house and he told his mum please, i love her so much that i dont want to see cry, the same thing he told me.
    Recently, he his mum passed away and he begged me to get pregnant and pray God will give us HER resemblance(a female child).

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  106. I knw ma Bf wil choose hs mother over me, cuz he feels d mum sacrifice evn her Life 4 hm bt am happy there is one thing d mum cn't sacrifice dt I cn sacrifice. #Pussy#

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  107. My wife can wake up tomoro n decide to stop being my wife but my mum will always be my mum... So mum gets to live.

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  108. This life self *sigh*

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  109. To be honest most guys dt commented stayn their mum r stupid cos even ur mum wud tell u to pik ur wife. She has lived her life. Only a wicked mother wud tell u to pik her and leave d mother of ur kids

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  110. Some of d guys commenting are fish brained. Its only logical to save a pretty 20-30 something year old lady over a 60-70 year old woman, who might even end up dying shortly after due to health related issues. I now know why many marriages fail and its simply cos the men have not learnt that they have to leave before they can cleave.

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  111. Why insult dos who choose deir mothers, some ppl are tlkn based on life xperiences. Recently met a guy whose marriage lasted for just 72 hours dis year cos he caught his newly married wife cheating on him red-handed and when his asked such a question.....ur guess is as good as mine.

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  112. my wife becos my dad will surely choose my mum if they are in my shoes.....

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  113. Bonario so afta all dose promises dat u luv me mor dan mumsy,no wonda momsy av bn clumsy 2 me dis days....;((cryin sobs) Sexypressy Bonario GF

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  114. My most beloved mother, of course! She conceived me, carried me in thr for 9months, breast-fed me for as many months, kept feeding me afterwards, nurturing me while tolerating my many childhood troubles, training me, toiled for me, thot for me, showed me unquantifiable love, care, concern and attention. Dat woman in my life was and still is irreplaceable, but unfortunately she is no more. Till this day, I will always choose her, not only above any other woman, but over-and-above any other human being on earth..Continue to RIP, my most beloved mother..I LOVE YOU.

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  115. That is footballer cum broadcaster and writer Ian Wright; on the day he received his MBE from Her Majesty The Queen. Linda, add caption.

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  116. Such a dumb and lame question

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  117. This questions should have been trown to the women, i am sure they will respond without thinking.....see, once a time my gf had either jokingly/seriously asked me to go stealing if that would put some money in her pulse. IF MY MOTHER WERE TO BE A WITCH I WOULD CHOOSE HER OVER AND OVER AGAIN....love between lovers can be faked, but believe me you can never fake the love you have for your mum or vice versa.....

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  118. na wa o! picking ur mum over ur wife reason being ur wife is replaceable. hear urself. how selfish can u be? yet u tell that woman u love her. what happens to ur kids? u leave them motherless in it?
    smh. For all those who has chosen to cling to their wives, may Godbless u and may nothing cut the joy of ur family ijn
    it is well.

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  119. Linda help me beg iya bonario,she's tryin 2 cum btw ma boo nd i,she will say am lazy dat ma hands re only polished so dat i can b able 2 ping ma frnds nd 2 rub ma son's head.BONARIO LUV dnt b mad @me dat linda is tryin 2 meddle in our affair,just want d best 4 d fam nd kids.LIBers plz make una no bite o,d tin just dey pain me SEXYPRESSY BONARIO GF

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    1. loolz u very funny,u so sound like u're for real.
      But seriously my 1st comment was so based on sentiments, realistically and rationally, even my mum will choose my dad over her parents,me and my siblings put together. I wished I could turn back d hand of time, something so hurting influenced my initial opinion. Thank God d mistake was only on LIB. Plz forgive me BOO.

      ~BONARIO~ pleading via NOKIA3310

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  120. ...and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from all evil... It's like the alegory of the King sending you on an errand and there is an overflown river on the way. The king's messeage must be delivered and the river is also impassible, what do you do? You are simply between the devil and the deap sea!
    may God not allow us to be in that situation. It's not easy. All of you that are commenting sef if you face that situation you won't find it funny unless you are already tired of your wife and you are praying for her to die! For such people.. aara ran bombu lowo ni (thunder assisted bomb to detonate. They will happily give up their wife with the pretex of 'i love my mum, wife is replaceable' etc

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  121. I DONT THINK THIS QUESTION IS NECESSARY OR HAS ANY RELEVANCE.

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  122. I think most men in our generation have not yet matured strong enough to actually be called men. they are still boys and so the need to keep sucking on mother's breast will yield them towards saving her instead of their wives.

    also because of the corruption and the sinful heart of the mind, divorce and seperation is no longer a sin. they forget that the wife is one body with them. the two become one. let me ask a question, if you were in a fire and you needed to save one person, your self or your mother, who will you save? i can imagine so many people come up with excuses to say mama has lived her life ripe and full so she can go join her maker.
    a man must live his mother and father and join with his wife and be one with her.
    before you start saving you mother instead of your wife, think about this; if your dad saved his mother instead of his wife who is your mother, how would you feel???

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  123. Am a mother and a wife.I'd rather advice my son to choose his wife over me(his mother) because he has a whole lifetime to spend with his wife and kids to make their life/home meaningful and successful together. which is what i have achieved with my husband his father. The question of choice does not come into play here 'cause it has been ordained from the bible that a man and his wife shall become one and nothing shall by no means put asunder.

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  124. My Bible says...and two shall become one.The question should have been you or your mother?

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  125. My Bible says...and two shall become one.The question should have been you or your mother?

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  126. I also watched the interview. Honestly, it's obvious the lady is seriously on drugs. Immediately I saw her, I remembered Whitney Houston and Amy Winehouse and I told my brother, this lady is heading to destruction. I hope her folks are attentive sha. O ma se o.

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  127. My wife before any other person in this world. I mean my wife first even before my children or my parents!

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  128. the reply's here breaks my heart, i am officially scared of 9ja men. why marry a woman you don't love and see as replaceable? so u r willing to make ur own children motherless and sad cus of you selfish interest. save your mother and watch her live happily with her hubby and oda kids while ur kids cry and hate you for taking their own source of joy. you lot need to think before you say a word! selfish motherfuckers!!! i pray i don't end up with a man with such a foolish mentality. goats.

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  129. How about this: You can only save ONE person. Your HUSBAND or your FATHER? And why? or Your HUSBAND or your MUM? And why?

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  130. If all these crappy men picked their mother, who will their daddy pick?

    "a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife"

    Genesis 2:24

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  131. Lord have mercy!!! I pity many people's wives in this naija. So you will save your mother because she will lay down her life for you abi? All of you should go ask your mothers the same question. Jeez, wife can be replaced? Na wa o. Maybe your mother will raise your children for you. Selfish bastards!

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  132. My MUM has enjoyed her life so it time for my WIFEY......

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  133. Anon December 3, 2012 1:01 PM; true. It was Ian Wright and his Mum and ex-wife i was looking at....

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  134. Any guy you says he will save his mother is a "goat". Your best response is to pray not be be in the situation where you will have to make such a horrible choice. The bible says, "a man will leave his mother and father and be joined to his wife ant the two shall become one".
    If you leave your wife to die and save your mother, you have left yourself to DIE. At the same time, your mother does not deserve to die either but let one thing be clear, she comes after your wife not the other way around. Your mother is Nos 1 to her husband and if he is late, she is no 1 to God. She is not your nos 1 if you are married, your wife is. It is only when you silly men realise this that your home can be like heaven. If you choose to make your wife 2nd you shd as well have married your mother and bore children by her. These days wisdom is so bloody lacking and Men are so blind. Most of the problems in homes with mother in law and wife is because the men don't know who is No 1 and they allow their mothers to feel its them who matter in their own home. When you make decisions without asking your wife, eat your mother's food over your wife's food in ur home and shout at your wife in front of your mother then your're the idiot who will save his mother and replace his wife .In the end your new wife will bring you misery and your mother will still grow old and pass on leaving you unhappy, alone and miserable in your old age all because you let your life partner die. Wisdom is not out of fashion. If your a man who still prays, ask God to give you wisdom in your family life and you will experience joy like no other. I have said my own..

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  135. u knw wat i think is dat most of the guys that commented here re unmarried..wait until u gt the woman afta ur heart and u will sure knw that its a tough decision to make...am judgin frm my history wt my hubby oo,its bein 6yrs and its d best 6yrs of ma life..u can gt anoda wife bt sure u cnt gt anoda mother for ur children...i love my dad oo so much bt mehn chosing bwtween him and my hubby,abeg my hubby shld stay wt mua....wont be mad if my brodas chose deir wives before momsy...yelss dats hw it suppose bi..

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  136. My mother in law will probably shout that she needs to be picked, when my husband got married to me, he bought me a Jaguar and she cursed him until he finally bought her own car for her. She actually thinks my husband is her husband and constantly screams at him for her upkeep and not at her husband. I don tire for the woman sef! I pray God delivers him from her needy hands.Men love your wives, remember you are one, honor your mothers but do not allow them to stop you from providing and protecting your family,they have lived their own lives, now u live yours by God's grace.

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  137. Family....both ways ....meaning am a woman.will choose my dad any day over any man....yup!

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