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Friday, 21 December 2012

"I've not seen my baby daddy in a while' - Grace Amah opens up on life as a single mum

"I have not seen the father of my child in a while. I live here (Nigeria) and he lives abroad (UK), though we talk on the phone often. I come from a very strict family so my parents were a little disappointed when I got pregnant because they were hoping I would get married first but you would have to agree with me that it's not everybody that has to get married before having a child. It happened, and I wouldn't because I have to get married first abort my child. Being a single mother is not easy but I manage. How do I deal with my sexual feelings since he's not here? That's when the phone comes in. When I hear him, it's all fine. It may not work for other people that way, but it works for me. And there's no truth in the reports that my man is a married man. I don't go for married men  and to the best of my knowledge he's not married. - Actress Grace Amah said in a recent interview

109 comments:

  1. Pretty lady..........ng owerri

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    1. Hater! Go Mob ocean #tongueout#

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    2. *mop....ode, u too #tongueout#

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    3. Mob or MOP..??
      Oga o..na all sorts we dey see for LIB...

      @sheikh_alazeez

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    4. Mob Is yoruba language for mop.same tin wit colab meaning collapse.get it?

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  3. Dis just made me laugh! I love her as an actress buh dis story is funny! *to †ђξ best of her knowledge he aint married*? LoooooooL! Naija girls pls grow up! Anyway, wen breeze blow, fowl nyansh go open

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  4. Interesting! Why can't he arrange for you to come see him sometimes over there? That's the logical thing to do.
    Make I digress a little, does anyone remember Grace in one last Super story episode like that? She played a part of something kind of very related to this her story, hmmmmnnn... quite strange!

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    1. She's not a jjc to london becos i saw her and her slim boyfriend in newham a&e department about 4 years ago. Up close she was even more radiant n captivating than when i had seen her on tv.

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    2. How old r u dude????

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    3. How old r u dude????

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    4. Errr..... Did I just read 4yrs ago? *isokay*

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    5. U are pure silly

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    6. Bia Prince Charming, u no get work? Must u always comment trash? Abeg shatap if u dnt have anytin good to say. Never see jobless dude like u befor!

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    7. Anon 11:13am, leave Prince Charming alone and don't harass him the way u do to Bonario. Anuofia!!!

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  5. Akuko story..may God help u.tanks for honoring d sanctity of human life sha.abortion is murder.Dr.olaspecial

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  6. All the best Sugar but I thot u should know this: if a man really wants to marry you, he won't waste time in making his intentions known.

    Stop jonzing. There r other fishes in the sea!

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  7. If he is not MARRIED then what THE HELL is he waiting for before he puts a ring ............ Girl you better open your eyes and smell the roses.

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    1. She be serious mumu,see her lying about her sex life,shez fine if she hears him speak on fone,ode oshi

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  9. THANK YOU GRACE FOR NOT KILLING THIS INNOCENT HANDSOME YOUNG MAN I SEE IN THIS PICTURE! YES A MISTAKE WAS MADE BUT SHOULD A MISTAKE BE CORRECTED WITH ANOTHER MISTAKE –ONE THAT CAN COST ONE ETERNITY? NEVER! HOPE YOU’VE LEARNT FROM YOUR MISTAKE AND GIVEN YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD. ONCE MORE, THANKS IMMENSELY GRACE, GOD WILL REWARD YOU FOR PRESERVING THIS LIFE. YOU’VE ALWAYS BEEN A WONDERFUL ACTRESS.

    Prov 6:16-19

    16 There are six things the LORD hates,
    seven that are detestable to him:
    17 haughty eyes,
    a lying tongue,
    HANDS THAT SHED INNOCENT BLOOD,
    18 a heart that devises wicked schemes,
    feet that are quick to rush into evil,
    19 a false witness who pours out lies
    and a man who stirs up dissension among brothers.
    NIV

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  10. Its a lie grace u do married men and u sleep with men in his absence stop lying d guy na mugu?

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  11. GRACE, I BELIEVE YOU FEARED GOD IN PRESERVING THE LIFE OF THIS LITTLE INNOCENT YOUNG MAN. GOD WILL SURELY GIVE YOU YOUR OWN FAMILY; YES WITH A LOVING AND CARING HUSBAND AND KIDS . . . SEE IT;

    Ex 1:15-17

    15 The king of Egypt said to the Hebrew midwives, whose names were Shiphrah and Puah, 16 "When you help the Hebrew women in childbirth and observe them on the delivery stool, if it is a boy, kill him; but if it is a girl, let her live." 17 THE MIDWIVES, HOWEVER, FEARED GOD AND DID NOT DO WHAT THE KING OF EGYPT HAD TOLD THEM TO DO; they let the boys live.
    NIV

    Ex 1:20-21

    20 So God was kind to the midwives and the people increased and became even more numerous. 21 And BECAUSE THE MIDWIVES FEARED GOD, HE GAVE THEM FAMILIES OF THEIR OWN.
    NIV

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  12. "you would have to agree with me that it's not everybody that has to get married before having a child."

    My friend, I do not agree with you o! You should get married BEFORE you have a child, sorry! And if you are NOT married, have your sex safely and protected. You wouldn't be talking abortion IF you had taken your birth control pill and had dude STRAP UP.

    You are a grown ass woman who knew when your last period was and when the next one was beginning so when you decided to have sex without a condom, you knew there was a possibility that you would get pregnant. You also knew you were from a "strict" home but it didn't stop you. What is the point of this interview sef? Are you the first single mother in the world? You are the one that signed yourself up to be a statistic so deal with it. Why hasn't this man married you and taken you to the UK? You no dey movies, you no marry, you still dey Naija. Like Tamar Braxton would say, GET YO LIFE, girl and please take your violin and your sob story somewhere else jo!

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  13. Its better than being single and childless, religion and culture apart

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    1. Gbam! ... Pure undiluted truth. As it is what most people would think but not dare say aloud.

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  14. So wetin come concern reverend sister with diaphram???

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  15. Tell those idiots who have aborted countless children all in the name of culture and tradition. Continue fucking and aborting babies, when its time to keep one, the babies won't come. Many ofu abusing ibidapo obe must have committed several abortions. That same tradition and culture u are upholding is what will send you out of your matrimonial home when u don't have children!

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    1. Frustrated bigot, if u like continue to slp arnd & bear chldrn all ova d places & still expct a gd man, frm anoda tribe, to com marry u. Many of d chldrn who are reared without d nurture of a father end up being societal misfits.
      Be reminded dat dis ur tradition & culture of adulterous living & arrogance u'r upholding is d root cause y many of ur type alwyz end up with divorce & can't mk a happy home!

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    2. Gbam! Gbam!..

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    3. Madam 11:36 pm. What is a home wivout a child. Go to the general hospitals and see the amount of women running from pillar to post looking for a child. If u are having sex and aborting u are not supposed to live amongst men! Was obama raised wiv his father? Keep looking for ways to be in sin. If u are old enough to have sex, u should be ready to face the consequences. To me having a child out of wedlock is better than dying barren.

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  16. heyah Grace! i dont know u hv a child now, am disappointed but all d same all shall be well girl.

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    1. Y r u disappointed? Olodo rabata

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  17. Cute actress bt her height tho.

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  18. I laff at the satetement"when I hear him,its all fine".dats a big fat lie, how dare u say dt Grace! Ofcourse u must be masturbating big time or some fone sex kind of thing must be involved

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  19. I laff at the satetement"when I hear him,its all fine".dats a big fat lie, how dare u say dt Grace! Ofcourse u must be masturbating big time or some fone sex kind of thing must be involved

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  20. Talk 2 d hand,we dnt care rily.

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  21. Soooooo???????????.............

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  22. As long as she's happy, dats all dat matters. Being a single mom definitely can't be easy. I respect her for not aborting her baby. Wish them well.

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    1. Yes o, it aint easy o jare. Even some married women are no better than single mothers raising the kids all by themselves in everyway as they have 'dead-bit dads' as husbands. God help us all

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    2. U talk well my dear.i happen to have a hubby like dat...Married but single dats what I am.Everyday I pray for God's unending grace.Strong black woman dats what I am.

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  23. .....When I hear him, it's all fine. It may not work for other people that way, but it works for me.
    hmmmmmm! i hear you o! am a learner.

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  24. and he obviously love u enough to stay away for that long b4 he could come to nigeria to see you or the baby..even if both of u are satisfied with being phone lovers..what about the kid that needs the daddy presence .if u cant go to him then he should love u and the boy enough to come to you.

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  25. My dear, move on. He's done wit u.

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  26. Feed ur son pls.

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  27. Y are dey not married what's d reason? Is it money or what? D disadvantage of looking for abroad husband,

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  28. Lol
    www.naijaexposed.com

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  29. This child should be a resemblance of his father,not Grace..fine gal!!
    I hope say the man get money o,before she go do 'two zero'
    I can't Shout.

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  30. The babys name must be'HEADWARD'. Cute tho. Whatever works for u girl. Its really not for us to judge.

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  31. How strange... I remember seeing her on super story, her story was very similar to what's happening to her in real life. She got engaged to a guy who came from the city(she lived in a village) and before he went back, they slept together and she got pregnant. A friend of hers who coveted her man followed him to the city. Meanwhile, her friend framed her so that everyone thought she slept with someone else in the village. When her fiance heard about it, he called off the engagement and after a bit of seduction and man-wooing(lol i just made up that word), he got married to her friend. In the end, she was vindicated and he went back and got married to her. I just hope her real life story ends as happily as her super story.

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    1. Abegg save d tale 4 urself. Why eat up so much space talkin shitt here??? Mshewww

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  32. How do you deal with your sexual feelings ? When you hear him on the phone its alright. Huh! Ode who are you fooling? Who asked you about your sexual feelings? My friend get a life

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    1. Ode! The interviewer asked her about her sexual feelings.

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  33. The father of that child is ibo see head....hian

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  34. the baby worwor sha!

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    1. How could you have said that,its obvious your are not a mother nor a father.its sad

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  35. Y can't you go meet your baby papa. There is more than what you are making us believe

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  36. She spent quite a while in Jand. she just moved back to naija like recently

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  37. In cases like this wey the pikin dey resemble him papa, am sure he denied paternity at first. Chai!dear move on he's done o a real man will not waste your time

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  38. You must be an ignorant goat to be yabbing this little boy! I'm sure anyone saying that has no child of their own, and doesn't know what it means to carry a child, and have them be hale and hearty! Pray God gives you a child, a healthy one, free from birth defect, and that you or your wife( if a guy) gets through pregnancy, labour and delivery, esp in a place like Nigeria where not everyone does.

    Too many ignorant oops posting on here under anon, and Amy pray that you ever give birth and not end up seeking ivf 10 yrs post marriage!

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  39. Where is my Bona?

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  40. Please stop insulting an innocent child. Have you no shame? Agbayas!

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  41. Grace, are you insinuating you are still together with this baby daddy who didn't put a ring on it and who cannot even come visit you?

    Please move on. You deserve better. I think you got pregnant to trap him though.

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  42. Please stop insulting an innocent child. Have you no shame? Agbayas!

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  43. Itz must have bin h**l ( d birth).
    Dat head?
    Ur a good mum, gracie.
    #J Said#

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  44. Wow,her son looks like my 14mnths old son.d same shape of head and nose.yea,i tell him everyday it better be brain tissues in it.i knw hes gonna be brainy cos dat head not gonna waste o.love him alot.

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  45. Ewu..chim. Ha! Grace of all people. Well,for me oo jst move on wit ur life my dear. D man in question is very ugly ooo cos d baby boy dosent even in any look like grace. I still c love in d eye of grace...... She is stil in luv wit d papa of her son. Mennnnnn oh chimu ooo, full of lies all d time.

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  46. All the best girl! Pretty Grace, read between the lines and move on!

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  47. Una never notice say nollyword stars no lik 2 stay man house, Grace u fall hand abeg...

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  48. This is why I hate all the pretentious jand guys.they distract and deceive ladies.dey r even proud of being stingy.....I luv my naija guys biko!!!

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  49. Wish u all d best....

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  50. LINDA WHY NOT MODIFY YOUR COMMENT SECTION, SO ONE CAN REPLY A COMMENT BY POSTING UNDERNEAT THE PARTICULAR COMMENT IYKWIM

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  51. It's evil to call a little child ugly!! Idiots!

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  52. It really baffles me how ugly some people are on the inside,why must you insult the poor child,state ur comment on the mothers issue and move on with ur misrable and fake lifes,must you try to downgrade urself by showing the world how stupid and daft you are by making sick jokes about her child?pls grow up.

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  53. @jay God bless you for ur comment,@ amy since you are laughing at the childs head,mayb you should help God recreat him,stupid girl,atleast she is better than a lot of girls that have flushed thiers down the toilet,better go to God on ur knees and ask for forgiveness for ur ignorant comment.

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  54. Grace dont mind him, You have a very handsome son who will grow up to be good citizen and rich and take great care of you when you are old.

    Men aint shyt.

    Tis better to concentrate raising that child dont even think about him

    i pray God blesses you with a new man who will love you and your son.

    And to those judging her, dont judge. A woman doesnt make baby by herself okay so you and your stank ass judgemental self can go and take a couple of seats instead of judging Grace.

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  55. This is super stooooory!

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  56. I agree wit u Jare..ur child s ur companion.don't knw why most single ladies esp the old ones don't consider that option cuz obviously they still ve sex instead of engagin in contraceptive use and abortion that ve their own repercussions.

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  57. Single mum?nope,its single parent.#you're welcome

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  58. JAY D THANKS FOR ENLIGHTENING THESE FOOLS IN HERE.......
    THIS LITTLE BOY IS NOT THE BONE OF CONTENTION YET U OPEN YA SILLY MOUTHS 2 INSULT HIM.
    THE UNDERSTANDING OF ALL SHE HAD SAID IS BEST KNOWN TO HER, AND I DON'T THINK ALL OF U HERE IS NOT GUILTY OF ANY OF THESE THINGS SHE Z. IF U'RE A GUY (AND U'VE HAD SEX BEFORE), CHANCES ARE THAT U'VE IMPREGNATED A WOMAN B4 (SHE MAY NOT EVEN TELLS U).
    LADIES?! THEY'RE WORST!!!! YET THEY'LL BE THE FIRST TO POINT ACCUSING FINGER TO SOME1 ELSE.
    PLS GO GET A LIFE!
    BUT GALFRIEND (GRACE), U NEED TO REALLY WORK ON THIS GUY; DEFINE UR RELATIONSHIP AND LET HIM TELL U IF HE TRULY WANTS U OR NOT, INSTEAD OF WAITING 4 DONKEY DAYS OVER NOTHING.
    I WISH U WELL DEAR.

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  59. Am still confused at thre rate at which nollyhood actress/actresses leave Naija to go get spouses abroad! Una no see men/women for Naija to marry? Ini Edo, Mercy Johnson, uche Jumbo, Mike Ezerounye, etc #paper/passporttinzz.... God bless u and ur gorgeous son sha...

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  60. But m darling, you are not acting anymore so why not join him there or why can't he marry you and take you with him? Open you eyes empress. And oh, u dnt need to tell the world every little detail of your life,we'll judge you.

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  61. Like dis babe die!!nd all of u insulting her shuld go nd die jare!

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  62. Like dis babe die!!nd all of u insulting her shuld go nd die jare!

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  63. Grace is just a bullshitter....

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  64. baby girl lyf is lyk dat sumtimes but mistakes are made 2 b corectd, my dear!my advice 4 u is 2 muv on wit us lyf i also hv similar sory and and mine ws even more disapointin cos ur parents were just strict but mine ws a rev. But though people may say dif negative tins about u but u've 2 mk a dif by taking gud care of ur self and ur baby and 4get dat guy cos if he rily wnt u he wud hv cum 4 u 4 lng.take gud care of dat child one day he'l make u proud.god wil giv u a luvin husband.2day am nt regretin hvin my child but proud 2 hv him and use my story 2 encnurage odas.just wish we can talk beta. LUK! NEVA MIND WHAT PPLE SAY BUT STAY AWAY G DAT GUY PLS.

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  65. The guy took her for a long ride and it looks as if he is not sending money for his son's up keep. She fell madly in love with her eyes closed.

    These London Naija dudes are liars most of the time. The American Naija dudes seem to be better.

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  66. Nonsense talk. Who d hell cares! Manage ur life o.

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  67. Na u mumu pass arindin like u if u hear his voice u are kool na so,u go too old 4 dere madam jonzer lolzzz

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  68. And Grace Amah is an Igbo lady! I thought only Yoruba ladies do this kind of thing.

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    1. Which kind of thing? Tondi oshi

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  69. Grace, it is obvious dat dis guy wil nt propose nor marry u nt even for his son's sake. Except God intervenes oh. Pls 4get him becos I'm sure u n I knw he has a family already. God wil gv u ur own husband. God bless u

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  70. Hmmm...na wa oh! But Gracie we really don't need to hear all this naw ah ah!

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  71. Men in Nigeria wont marry them, so they have to go abroad.

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  72. What has yoruba or any other tribe for that matter got to do with being a single mother...it happens everywhere na...which kind okorowanta u be sef?...u 4 hide ur ignorance small abeg

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  73. Fornication is a sin. Baby, it's not too late to be morally upright.

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  74. Jesu!!! dis geh don woh woh finish,i hope dat ur hubby is not married where he is oh?cuz dats ow dey all lie nd then go marry again back home,too bad!!! GoodLuck baby:)

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