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Tuesday, 14 August 2012

Chris Okotie verbally attacks ex-wife Stephanie during church service

This happened in his House Hold of God Church just two days ago...during his sermon on Sunday August 12th. According to some members of his church that attended the service that Sunday morning, pastor Chris Okotie threw caution into the wind and verbally attacked his estranged wife, Stephanie Henshaw, comparing her to Jezebel in the bible and saying that he was free to judge her because of what he suffered in her hands. (He didn't say what). He was also quoted as saying that Stephanie was free to go to CNN or BBC to talk about him but he will never take her back.

Those who listened to him said he sounded so bitter and had never spoken about her like that before.

Pastor Chris has also taken back the two expensive cars he gave Stephanie during their four year marriage; a Benz S Class and a BMW X6.

240 comments:

  1. Na wa oh!!!!!!!!

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    1. As in... Real WA!

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    2. wow! atlast d long awaited autocomment is here. Gracias Lindiway,I hope it has come to stay.~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310.

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    3. Chris okotie is not a gud role model

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  2. oma gaa oh, broda yi gaa oh, na real wa.
    God dey. Shikenah.

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  3. hmmm...only God can judge this situation

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  4. I only feel for his congregation,dats if they're going there with sincere intention of worshipping God,or going for a sunday show by a sickman and their offering a ticket. Smh for a failed writer, musician, politician, pastor, husband.~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310.

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  5. haba... take back car ? will she take back the sex ? #justasking#

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    1. I wonder oo. That's an absurd thing for him to have done!

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    2. Shame! Shame!! Shame!!! May God help us and give us a good leader in all aspect of our lives..na wire o men of God ha

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    3. Craziness at its finest,calculate 4yrs sex,cooking,putting up with his madness he will have to add rolls royce phantom on the collection.I hate when men do that

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    4. Which kind Man of God ?Shameless Pastor. He is just using style to convince his followers but not laying gud examples.

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    5. D woman craze no reach! She for ask d man for her toto back..419 pastor!

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    6. Let God be true and every man a liar!

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    7. He took bak d car wow...well can she regain d 4-years of her life that she wasted???she shouldn't have let em take it oo.....a pastor that's been twice divorced!I wonder why people stil go to that church

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    8. @sugarray Is the sex not both ways, y do women think they gave out sex and didn't receive it in return, it amazes me when people make statements like this. If the woman had bought the man a car too or other properties she can recover them too, but if you look into the matter it might be singlet and boxer gifts or some expendables. Am sure yu counted sex as gift unfortunately it can't be retrieved and she also received the sex

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    9. Correct response joor. Why babes go dey think say second na Favour done to guys? Abeg it was mutually enjoyed so car or no car, sex with Chris won't have been a loss for her. Unless say naij babes dry charge money for sex, then the answer is all naij babes are..... Nor be for my mouth u go hia am..

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  6. This man is shameless. A pastor....smh!

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    1. He È‹̝̊Úª simply α̲̅ lunatic. â„“̊ wonder Ɯђã†̥ on earth ll take M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ †̥ such place of worship. Agents of darkness deceiving ignorant people. Zinny.

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  7. Issokay.. Lemme goan grab my guguru and amstel matla.. "Omo general"

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  8. me no understand oo...i wish he can tel us wat d prob actually is

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  9. Lol @ will she take bck d sex?

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  10. No comments.its a private affair between him,steph and God.im jus not impressed with the fact that he took back the car gifts he gave her during the marriage.i only wish she cld also take back the sex and all the loving she gave him when the goin was gud.

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    1. It's not private anymore, he's made it public.

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  11. Whatz al this crap in the chc of God,,,,pesnal izzus,such be kept pasnal

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    1. Ur use of english hurts the eyes...what da hell is "pesnal"?

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    2. As in! Why won't people just speak plain old english? All this abbreviation gives me headache! After they will be claiming "Graduate" and cursing government for "unemployment". Who will employ someone who spells "pesnal"? Mschew!

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    3. What's the diff btw "pesnal" and "pasnal". #justasking

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  12. This chris man na real psycho abeg! Na wetin him ex-wife go do am sotey he utter such shameless words to her? I tire ooo!anyway I pity his congregation n family. The man no be any man of God at all at all. Ewwwehhhh!!!

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  13. Stupid Man and no!! you are not a pastor of GOD.... you are self ordained. Mr Chris Okotie go wash u and ur wife dirty linen in the privacy of ur home...i am just tired that people can not see through people like you the scam that you are....you are the men that Paul talks about in 2nd Timothy...only interested in finances...Nonsense abeg give me correct gist this man is a wash out...and people actually go and listen to the word of God come from his vile mouth mtchew!!!

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  14. Dats really absurd.ds man wori o.

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  15. infact Bonaventure Nnagboro 11:22
    I dey feel you, real sickman!

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  16. Habaaaaa... he is so pained naa. If not why would he say such about her in public? She must have dusted it of her shoulders to have come around. and about the car... what happened to sex and good time she gave him. Who takes it back? An economist should calculate it and moneytise it jareeee.

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    1. Abi, we need to call an accountant make he calculate d "happy hours" she give am and monetise it since marriage doesn't mean shit to him. Can u imagine he took back d car he bought 4 her during d pendency of d marriage! Smh, mog indeed!

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  17. Sad one,but we shouldn't judge,only God knows what would ve happened,so let only him be the judge

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    1. then he shud Judge in privte...

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    2. You are simply a fool for saying we shouldnt judge. A matter that has been thrown into the public domain? I know you are his church member, ignorant people who cannot call a spade what it is.
      A man would go and retrieve the cars he bought for his wife during the marriage and even without a formal dissolution of the said marriage, Okotie is simply lucky he is in Nigeria, let him come over to london, or any other developed country and try that, he will run back home with a Ghana must go bag, after serving jail term. I am not speculating, i work as a solicitor so i know what am saying. Hopeless man.

      Sorry for swearing at you but am really angry at him.

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    3. Your comment is Idiotic... But I respect your opinion.

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    4. African men no get shame!
      African people eat drink and sleep bullsh1t as long as its wrapped in bible
      one Sunday he says judge not lest you be judged
      next week he says I can judge her because she put me through a lot?! Whatkind nonsense is that?
      Anyway sha...he should thank God he's in 9ja where law favors the one with money
      like this one, say he dey for London town metropolitan police go collect back all the cars he seized and fine him too
      419 pastor

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  18. Sad one,buh we shouldn't judge,only God knows what would ve happened,so only him should judge

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  19. Uhmm!! Beyond comment.

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  20. If he knows wat wrong d poor woman did y cnt he come out nd say it he is jst been wicked if he is to blame satan will surely punish him

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  21. There's gonna be a long que on dat day.I mean on judgemnt day.oloun o ku aibinu,can only take a long breathe hmmmmmmmmmmmm!

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  22. I feel really sorry for the wife! Lord take control!

    It's the Celebration of Marriage week- Appreciate your spouse today!!

    www.princessofzion.wordpress.com/2012/08/14/celebrating-marriage

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  23. Habaaaaa... he is so pained naa. If not why would he say such about her in public? She must have dusted it of her shoulders to have come around. and about the car... what happened to sex and good time she gave him. Who takes it back? An economist should calculate it and moneytise it jareeee.

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  24. Her RoyalPoshness14 August 2012 at 11:48

    I think Rev Chris shld act reasonably and matured. Fine the marriage didnt work out,i dont think he shld speak bout her in public like dat especially during service to the congregation,for crying out loud he's a man of God.
    He shld be able to hold sometins in...God has a reason for everything and God sees us. Am not judging anyone buh i pray God intervenes!

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  25. And people still attend his church? Plus he took back gifts he gave to her? Such a child! She even sounds more of a christian than chris from all their drama episodes.

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  26. the Bible say that in the last days false prophets will arise....fake men of God inclusive....
    this could be a cause for stumbling block to the members of the organization

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  27. Pastor! Oh Pastor! Hmmmm...what kind of sermon are u preaching to ur congregation? Those of u leading the most precious creation of God astray, God is watching u ooo! N only HIM will judge u! #shikena

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  28. Its a real shame. Both of them r busy castigating each other in public! whatever happened to the love?!

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  29. This man sure has problems. I wonder what people are still doing in his church. What are they learning from him anyway?

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  30. Whatever the case may be, he married here with an oath from d bible and d bible strictly forbids divorce.. If he is truly a man of God,whatever differences they both have can always be solved. There are far more worse couples dat have gone thru trials but yet still work it out and remain strong.. HE IS not a man. To even come out and try to degrade her infront of d world is d most shameless thing a man cud eva do.. HE shud return d SEX and all d years she spent with him,cos dats 4yrs of her life she wud never get back. No matter d wrong she did he has also done her wrong. So he shud shut his mouth

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  31. lol - i guess men of God are human too. Human to be fooled; human to feel foolish from being fooled; human to act the fool! The feeling of being a victim of a fast one hurts, obviously.

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  32. Its no ones business.. Moreover here Ʊ there. How authentic is this story

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  33. I think what he needs now is prayers, I pray the spirit of error doesn't take over him. I think he should return the gift that shows he is emotionally immature. Pastors are mere men and women we accord respect for their anointing , they are not God, they are bound to make mistakes. Looking onto Jesus alone the author and finisher ---

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  34. what are u stupid people talking about the woman taking back SEX, its just so annoying. WHAT IS SEX. when they were having sex was the man the only one enjoying it.abeg he should take back his property if he didnt buy the cars in her name. she should carry ha sex and look for another man. all this fine girls, their wahala is too much abeg.

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    1. If to say ur mama fine u no go talk like day so ur mama ugly na hin make u talk like that mumu

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    2. U saying she should carry her sex and look for another man, u are a big fool

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  35. if a man f God wll act as such, wat wll hppen wen his members behave as such?

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  36. Critical observer14 August 2012 at 12:08

    He has all the attributes of a pop star..

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    1. Lol @ the attributes of a pop star, the guy should leave that pulpit and do collabo with Rugged Man or better still Terry G. Hahahahaaaa.

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  37. Ha ha ha hee hee hee! Me know say this 'i need someone like you' marriage no go last! Was on a flight with them to London a long while back...(business class *wink wink*..no haters please)come see as pastor dey behave like 'akamu' boy boy all in the name of i love my wife...he go stand up from him seat each time 'Mrs Simsi' come back from toilet to give am im bag or cover her with blanket! Every woman wants a good man but a 'real man'...na lie?! Biko Sisi Linda which church Aunty Stephanie dey go now make me go block am for there...help am jolly part of the thithe money 'Pastor Jerry Curl' take furnish her celebrity life style...'i need someone like her'! God forgive me oh!...hope say the 'touch not my anoiting n do my prophet no harm' no apply to this 'guy man'...if so please forgive me...na joke me dey joke oh!

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  38. I am sorry at those who refer to this man as a man of God.I am equally sorry for those who listen to him or whatever calls what he says.These are people who feast with the devil.They have asked him to put away his wife for more fame.This man is a cultist ,sorry to say this but it is true.In no time they will all show their true skin...wolves among the children of God.I can be deceived ...I do not know about you.

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  39. take back which sex? It's a mutual thing. But the man dey fall hand shaa.

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  40. God help us,the Lord has told us to each work out our faith with fear and trembling, the bible is what we should follow in these last days as even elect men of God will fall.Lord help your children not to fall.hipsy

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  41. @Funmi, You cracked me up. Yeah, the sex and cooking and other services rendered should be considered too. let's just be patient. with time, all the gist will come out.

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  42. Its well that's all I av to say.

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  43. Dis man is 4kd,done 4 confirmed mugu!

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  44. He's obviously hurt. More like hell hath no fury like a "man" scorned! Please he should stop all this mudslinging. He has more to lose than this girl if she decides to open her mouth very wide.

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  45. People there are 2 sides to every coin. Do u know wht she did that Is making this man react in this manner. Stop with the insults till u do pls

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  46. Then members that have left the church shud come back and collect all the tithes and offerings they gave formerly... Cos its like a the culture in that church

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  47. so much for matt 6:14-15
    we must learn to live by example.

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  48. Linda pla these comments should not be delayed for approval. Who are you to review an approve or deny my comment? This the problem with this country. Everyone is saying they don't like something but you are not listening.

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    1. No mind linda,mke she D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ form,mke anoda blogger tke d popularity frm her.

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  49. i simply pity the people who still listen to ds man preach! disturbed is his middle name....moving on..

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  50. Is this really a Man of God? Would Jesusu do what this man is doing?
    The congregation are just going there to watch AFRICA MAGIC LIVE. Highest lel of unseriuosness msheeww.....This is not the kind of example i want to follow.

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  51. Just waiting to see the next woman who will fill the vacuum and warm his bed.
    meanwhile he can have sex with the benz and BMW.

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  52. Why would a man of God do this?? im not judging but this is not right. He should hold himself in indeed. Besides, is that the message for the day? is that what his congregation will use to fight the wiles of the enemy. He should really check himself and realise that he has sheep and he should be a good shepherd and lead them aright.

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  53. smh! if he is free to judge his wife then i might be free to judge this sanctimonious self righteous self proclaimed once a man of God preacher.
    If he truly talked about her to the congregation then he has opened the flood gates for criticism. What kind of pastor is this biko. i understand that he is a man, but i also understand that once he cannot be a beacon of example of good christianity and good living then he should get off the podium and let someone else preach.what kind of example is he giving to people that are unsaved or even the saved, divorce your wife, abuse her and take away gifts you gave her.even if she did him wrong, he is a pastor he should forgive and forget and move on or better still turn the other cheek and let God take charge of the situation.i wish his congregation would just open their eyes and hearts and think!smh...anonymous somebody just vented!

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  54. Haba, man of God!?! Even me an 'ordinary' christian who doesn't even remember to pray sometimes knows that you should just let somethings be. It is far better than talking about them; in this case yabbing his wife like that, no matter what she did. It is unnecessary and childish... this is why the bible says that if a man can not control his house, he has no business controlling the church! So now she is Jezebel abi? Can't wait for her side of the story :D

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  55. He needs to take a cue from Deitrick Haddon.

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  56. Right from time,  hated dis man..jst dnt knw y! And c wat he has done again!

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  57. Chris is a big fool.man of GOD ma foot,he is a devil

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  58. Really do need an economist 2 calculate d sex worth n she shld demand 4 it in cash. Who does that? Take bk what u give a woman? R u 14?

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  59. =))º°˚˚˚°ÂºLmaoº°˚˚˚°Âº‎​°Âº‎​=))!!!! Wonder wot he xpcts his members 2 learn 4rm dt sunday....he 'll soon mk anoda decree dt his membas shudnt talk bout him 2 d media! #smh#

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  60. Ά̲̣̥п̲̣̣̥∂
    Dat church still has members?

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    1. @ Tomisin yessss o!In fact some of those members're still receiving marriage counselling from the guy as we speak *smdh*

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  61. I'm really surprised at those (obviously ladies) who made comments 'bout sex being taken back like it wasn't a mutual affair. It clearly shows that most of u ladies see urselves to be jst sex tools to ur husbands/partners rather than being helpers/companions/friends etc. Now tell me, if u see urselves dat way, why wud u expect d men to see u differently? Pple tend 2 see u d way u see urself. It beats me how women tend 2 see relationships as war/game, little wonder why u always wanna have d last punch. Let's not be sentimental. Too bad it didn't work out between d two of 'em. Marriage is supposed 2 be for better, for worse. The only grounds given 4 divorce by Jesus himself in Matthew 5 is infidelity & nothing more. No one said marriage is α bed of roses & even if is was, remember, roses have thorns too. Men shud learn 2 luv their wives, not 4 their beauty, but 4 who they really are. And women shud be submissive 2 their husbands as well. They say marriage is like α pandorax box, u don't know wats in it till u get into one. I've never been married anyway but I know there's nothing like luv at 1st sight. 2 me its what's left after all d fighting, when both parties are old, wrinkled, worn out & saggy dat is luv. My advice 2 all d single LIBers is marry who u wud be happy with & not who ​u'll be comfy with cos d order of d day now is guys marry beauty & gals marry money. Marry bcos of common direction & not bcos u think u're in luv. Wat most pple call luv is actually infatuation.

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    1. Nice post. Well said. Those who have ears....

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  62. Personal indeed! It became public frm the time he mounted the pupilt to inform the unintrested public bout his home affairs,abeg*grabs popcorn&coke* so looking forward to ex-wifes comment.That woman shud not just dull me o,make she no slack at all at all,shebi she get pickin's'??what's she waitin for

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  63. What an example for the christiandom...hmmm our God is patient sha...*lipsealed*

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  64. THIS MAN IS SICKO WAKO CHRISO

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  65. i don't care wat happen between them as marriage for me is not do or die affair.

    But to collect the car gift??? he never even love her from start.

    Move on baby!!! beautiful cars are not yet even made.

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  66. Dis is serious! Only God knws woh transpired btw dis 2.. Too bad none of em is ready 2 tok bou it..

    Deczy..

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  67. this guy must be a big joke...when his mates like Bishop Oyedepo are increasing their empire, he's doing front and back because of woman...maybe he shld close his church and become a member of winners.

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  68. Emperor Okotie calling the shots in his empire...

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  69. Can u imagine a so called pastor! Smh for u shaa

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  70. Linda please we want auto updates ohhh!!! We gona leave ur blog soon

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  71. After divorce she becomes Jezebel
    Interesting! He collected his car bk intersting! Like some1 said she shd go bk to collect her sez bk dat too ll b interesting.
    What ll I not hear in this country.
    May God help us all.
    Amen

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  72. i still refuse to comment...

    IJN we pray! Amen...

    ty

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  73. He's lucky he dint get married to a woman lyk me..hmmmmm i wud burn dose cars to dust even b4 he tries to collect dem...infact..dis woman needs to tell him how to be tough...she's dalm too quiet for him

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    1. I hail u jare

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    2. My thoughts exactly...I would've had a waiting to exhale moment with his sorry behind.

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  74. Emperor Okotie calling the shots in his empire...

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  75. How come God didnt speak to him that the woman was not his wife before they go married? This pastors ehn! Na only God go judge them

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  76. If not for anything, I pissed at the fact that a man as old as pastor Chris despite been a man of God would take gifts back. If na me be the woman, lailai, I no go return the cars oooo.

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  77. Was he not the one who warned people not to talk about their break up? Now he's the one encouraging gossip and truth...smh...Steph oya strike back!! *covers head in shame*

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  78. he ask for the cars and she gave it back to him then she is a fool nonsense no man would try that with me mschew after marrying him for 4 abi is it 5 years okay ohhh we would see. i don know why we naija women like to take nonsense from men ehhh

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  79. Im so shocked at the way Nigerian women shamelessly talk about sex in terms of monetary gains. Have we lost our sense of value so much so that sex is now a commodity reduced to naira and kobo? Sex between two adults is by mutual consent and the two were married and thus, sex is not only necessary it is commanded by God. Chris has absolute rights over her body anytime any day as long as they are legally bound in marriage. I don't subscribe to him stripping her of the material things, but I guess Pastor Christ has gone beyond reasoning with after his divorce with TEENA his first wife. I'm not saying that Stephanie was a better choice or even a good choice... I believe Pst. Chris is only playing emotional blackmail with his congregation to gain their sympathy and support. Its a shame for a man of God to have so many marital crises. Its a sign of immaturity and irresponsibility. However, Nigerian women should change this mindset of reducing sex to money. There is a name for such a thing, it is called whoredom, prostitution, selling of the body.

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    1. Abeg shut it, how many naija women enjoy sexual gratification from their unromantic selfish masochistic naija men?

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  80. what happened to all the grammar now? maybe na the thing wey make Stephaine comot be dat.. too much grammar self can run the lady crazy. Pastor is just leave failed life... home frontim failed, politics im failed, music im failed, etc im be like say im cut up for failure... who dey make this kind guy role model? properties are more important than love and marriage.. haba pastor...

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  81. this man eh, no be real man of God

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  82. And the sclass,pastor chris never her the car,he has been using the car before & after their breakup!so linda watch what u write & say!! watch what u say!!

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    1. Shatap. Did linda say that? She is telling us what she heard. Use your time 2 upgrade ur grammer

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  83. Karma È‹̝̊̅Úª a bitch, Stephanie might have been i̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ d shadow of his 1st marriage.

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  84. @People: Its funny how some Nigerians think. Is the sex what she used to get the cars? Does the sex cost her something? Does the sex hurt? How much is sex on the street?. Didnt he give her sex and good loving too? what did she give for that?

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  85. Did she refuse to give him the puxxy? Did he confuse the pulpit for his therapists couch? So many questions..so little time. Lmao at the person who said Chris had ABSOLUTE RIGHTS over her boy as long as they were married. O ma shey o, why are poeple so used to abuse.

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  86. don't judge any one judgement belongs to God almighty

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  87. Naija marriage is a waste of womens time and lives

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  88. LOL... I need to know most Nigerian men take back gifts they gave their wives and girlfriends when the going was great... Like seriously that's as childish as one can get. Smh. Truly mothers aren't raising their sons right.

    Linda 10/10 for the auto comments. I'm loving this blog again.

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  89. He is taking back the car he gave her whn d going was gud, can he restore her sanity for that four years?

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  90. Let me start by saying that ” Let he that is without sin cast the first stone”. No one knows the details or the nitty gritty of what let to that decision. Nobody (Pastor, Reverend, Evangelist or Pope) is above/beyond having struggles or being attacked by the devil. This is what happens when you idolize pastors. Being a pastor/reverend doesn’t automatically make your life perfect, pure and free from sin/struggles. Yes he should be held accountable for his decisions but he doesn’t owe any of you explanations of what happened; the details is between him, his wife and God. I applaud Pastor Chris Okotie for coming out to show he has a weak point and struggles. It takes courage for any Pastor especially in a place like Nigeria to show that they go through struggles. Everyone expects the Pastors life to be all rosy, pure and perfect. The journey of a Christian is not a smooth/perfect road; you go through struggles and overcome them. The struggles makes you a stronger person; it also makes you realize that you are not immortal or invincible. Pastors are human beings and they do depend on God. The same Pastors, People or Reverend coming here to judge or going on the pulpit to blast people; they go back home and physically, emotionally and sexually abuse their wife and kids. Some of them even enslave their wives. They go outside saying “it is well, it is well”, like as if everything is perfect in their home. Meanwhile their house is hell, the woman will stay in the marriage or should I say Bondage with the hopes of protecting her husbands post as a Pastor. If you are not perfect, totally free from sin, struggles, weakness, pain — Zip your mouth because none of you are immortal. Instead of letting thrash ooze out from your mouth, Pray for him and his family. That is what they need most at this time.

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    1. This one na 1st,2nd and third letter of St.Nanny Vaughn to.........................Which country abeg?

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  91. Lily pls nah auto comment I take God beg u. It's not good oh God is watching u

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  92. sex is highly overrated...see people talking about taking back the sex like it was sometime special. Those that said about cooking, how do u know she even cooked once for me, they would have maids to run errands... guys this is 2012.. sex is CHEAP

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  93. Appetiser, waiting for d real gist from both sides. By the way, they are lucky, they have good friends that's Y we are still in d dark. Soon when pastor Chris gets anoda bed warmer, she will worm d story out of him. Linda get ready to update us oo.

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  94. Wow may God help his people

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  95. Father God we lay this issue at your feet! We are mere mortals and can't judge. So we ask that you please touch Pastor Chris's heart. Heal him,heal Ms Stephanie,whatever the enemy has set upon them,may it turn loose. In Jesus name Amen.

    Lord he is your anointed, we can't touch your prophet nor do him any harm,either by our words or actions, so Lord we as that you who sees all and knows all set things right. That all will see and know you are God!

    Balm of Gilead,heal these souls!!!! Amen

    OSJ

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  96. MOG nor pray and fast to identify Jezebel before him spend all that money do society wedding?...hmmm. Nigerian men = Useless men.

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  97. dis man has lost it serzly,he is a failure n i dont knw y pple still attend his pathetic church. man of God my foot.Uzoamaka says so.

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  98. I just wonder y all the girls are just talking about sex sex sex.

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  99. HIDIOT!!!!!I am so PISSED RITE NOW

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  100. I wonder why she is still attending his church. Now see the further humiliation she has subjected herself to.

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  101. August 14, 2012 1:02 PM unsure why you generalised that women marry for money eventhough it is somehow true but there are still women who have money so don't need a man's money at all only his love and attention

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  102. Is this the man that wants to rule a country? I wonder d kind of people that carry their HEADS to his church.
    Olorun a r'ejo da...*smh*

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  103. I'm not supporter or follower of TB Joshua ...... There's an ongoing feud between Chris Okotie and TB Joshua. This is a perfect opportunity for TB Joshua to mess up Okotie's head. TB Joshua should give Okotie's ex-wife two better cars and make sure it's given maximum press coverage. It would shame and infuriate Chris Okotie. 

    Chris Okotie is foolish and shameless, really. He's not a man of God. Would he say God told him to take back the items? Fraud! It is gross injustice. It is very very unfair. Don't do evil just because you can; you call yourself a "man of God"?! Your part in the dispute with your ex-wife is to do no evil - with your thought, actions or / and words. That is the law of God. DO NO EVIL. If your ex-wife did whatever unforgivable wrongs, your part as a "man of God" is to go your way, hold your (STUPID) tongue and leave judgment to God, you foolish "man."

    Where's Nigeria's divorce law and lawyers in all this? Isn't Chris Okotie's ex-wife entitled to a share of his assets? Chris Okotie calls himself a man of God, but has nonchalantly robbed his ex-wife what is rightfully hers. Chris Okotie is a charlatan. Taking back the cars and gifts is very childish and stupid. He gave her those items in good time and there was no strings attached. He gave her those items out of unconditional love. The air Chris Okotie breaths is from God. How about God take back his unconditional love and the life in Chris Okotie the countless times he sinned? 

    In everything, I don't blame Chris Okotie's ex-wife and I don't blame Chris Okotie. I blame the offering giving and tithe paying members of Chris Okotie's church. They foolishly gave him those money. Without their generosity and 100% gullibility and foolishness over the years, by now Chris Okotie wouldn't have two pennies to rub together. They must demand a refund of all their offerings  and tithes. 

    Chris Okotie, damn you. Return those two cars and gifts to your ex-wife. They  belong to her. People like Chris Okotie give Christians and Christianity a bad name. Chris Okotie, go to HELL cos that's where you and your dyed hair belong. Dumbass preacher.

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  104. PLEASE M,ARRIAGE IS NOT LIKE A PANDORA'S BOX ... STOP USING WORDS U DO NOT KNOW.

    PANDORA WAS A FEMALE IN THE GREEK MYTHOLOGY THAT SOMETHING BAD (MISTAKENLY) SO PRODUCED EVIL.
    THEREFORE WHEN HER BOX THAT WAS MEANT TO BE CLOSED, OPENED IT UNLEASHED EVIL INTO THE WORLD.

    MARRIAGE IS NOT EVIL....

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  105. And people are still attending the church? What spirit is guiding hind?
    He has always been a fraud.

    He is only violating her because he is being allowed to get away with it If the cars were gifts he can't take that back. In any case it is a product of the marriage so he it is her property as well.

    girlfriend, get your self a good lawyer and defend your rights

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  106. Mr Okotie, the church of God has become a platform for drama where a so called man of God now divorces and remarry, You people need to know that marriage is a lifetime thing and according to the Bible , It is not allowed to remarry unless the wife is dead as only death can make a man or woman remarry and that's why care has to be taken before one dabbles into it.. I feel this man jumping from one marriage to another is out-rightly wrong 2corinthians7 and matt 19 . What is he teaching the congregation (how to get married and divorce to remarry again), I think his followers are actually blind to things like this. This same pastor have been seeing visions that have not materialized . I really think it's time he tells the world what has been going wrong with his marriages....

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  107. pastorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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  108. Linda am going to say this and i don't care if Chris okotie sues me i just don't give a fuck. For starters this guy is no man of God the bible says dont judge but i am judging the prick. how can u take back gifts that you have given to ur wife even wen big boys like us give our babes gift and we fall out we dont re-possess such gift i mean common ya all is this boy Chris for real he is so childish. Imagine the so called man of God lashing out on his ex they were married for 4 years yet he could not get her pregnant his this guy for real is he a man am sure he doe not have a heir apparent to his name. for those that still got oh is church well good luck tot hem

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  109. So they went to church to discuss the woman anyway that is what you get in that type of pastor.

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  110. @anonymous 2:39pm pls speak for ursef...my marriage is going to be worth my time and it will be exactly as God intended d institution to be for me...dere are some really good marriages here in Nigeria and dats wat i look forward to

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  111. It is what it is....

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  112. Na wa. He should return the sex and kisses. Simple exchange.

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  113. Hmmmmmmmmmm I comment moi reserve.

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  114. ONOME says.......
    Lollllllllllzzzzzzzz

    Nigerian drama at the very best...and it's free too,no need to subscribe of Africa Magic or buy soft sell magazines.There's one going on and it gets even funnier and more intriguing with time.

    Carry on Okotie.I am enjoying your flagrant display of childishness and lack of propriety immensely.Who dare tell me "judge not ......."Holursef for there.I am a woman of God too.

    Naija I hail o.Pastor sha.ROTFLMAO.

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  115. Pastor Chris and hs drama....the man needs fasting, praying and flogging.

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  116. TAMARA, Thank God e did not marry you and tats wy u will remain single for life. were, crazy girl

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  117. Its a real pity. Man of God indeed!

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  118. As a christian this is terrible news. Why so much injustice in 9ja. In the states, the courts will arbitrate and divide yr assets in fairness to the woman . he can get away with this only in a country like this. nothing worse for a woman than the feeling of been used and dumped unless she cheated on him. May God touch his heart. Too many 9jns operate in thr christianity without the fear of God and devoid of the infilling of the Holy Spirit. Most folks will be shocked when they die and cannot get into Heaven Beware!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  119. By their fruits you shall know them.

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  120. Whatever her sins are, these utterances are worse off. Iv been married for some 8yrs, I cannot stoop so low as to discourse my wife's misgivings how much more to harass her by taking back gifts. Sad some folks will dare defend this "pastor" !!!

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  121. Pstor, 2nd failed marriage.

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  122. Truly its only God dt can judge in ds case, bt i knew of a man bak dem, he wasnt even a pastor bt was a strong xtian, after 7yrs wth his wife without and children, he told the woman his no longer interested in d marriage nt for the fact dt she doesnt av kids, bt becos d woman is so non-chalant abt everytin. Ds man neva collected all d tins he bought for her den, he left everytin for her and and file for divorce after 2yrs separation. Pst Chris case is so complicated, i wonder if his truly a man of God!

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  123. What exactly did he say. Sounded bitter and what he suffered in her hand. Can't pick any quote of him Linda

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  124. @ Super_sly, pls dnt u compare ds kind person to bishop oyedepo, bishop is marured in everytin.

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  125. pls miss/mrs linda, can u do me favor of giving me ur facebook username. i av sumfin i want 2 discuss wif u, its about this blog tin. thenkzz.

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  126. Kudos to bonaventure nagboro he s said it all failed writer failed musician failed politician failed pastor nd a failed husband FAILURE is d word

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  127. Wat a shame!!!

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  128. Pastor should please free this woman, what did he want fro her again

    naijabreakingnews.blogspot.com

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  129. I must comment----------\> Dear pastor- u are such a loser of a man. you are not a good example to anyone. you are a coward. you are an imp. you lack luster. you are a weak man. you be one of them potopoto man when no get backbone for body. Close your church or walk away from it becuase you are misleding God's Children. Walk away from being a pastor before God throws you in hell alive.

    Do not bitch about what a jezbel your ex-wife is and not tell us what it is she did. Shut-up!!!! Allow God to handle his business, ewu furu uzo.

    Chi Njoku.

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  130. and why did she allow this idot collect the cars in the first place. she should sue his behind in court and get back those cars. She deserves somethnig for all those years she spent with him, taking care of him. Gosh... Women in naija fight for what u deserve jor.

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  131. Very funny! It took him 4 years to realize, his wife steph was a jezebel ba? As a man of God that he claims he is, how come he didnt see it all the time she was cooking for him before they got married, how come he didnt see that she was a jezebel then, all of a sudden after how many years, his eyes are now clear to call her names. Who cleared his eyes now, and who blinded his eyes before they got married. Pleaseeeee

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  132. A man of God 4 dat Matter...hmmm. Onli God knows those dat r serving him in truth n in spirit.

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  133. I obviously dont know what happened between them so i'm not going to say anything about that, but taking the car he bought for her thats so so low! and the humiliation she must have felt after he said those things infront of his congregation must be something! i feel bad for both pf them though. God help us all in dis life sha....i3ei3e

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  134. The world has really come to an end..............man of GOD ke

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  135. Okotie is an animal.

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  136. Na man of God o

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  137. @ Anonymous said...
    August 14, 2012 3:33 PM
    "You are simply a fool for saying we shouldnt judge. A matter that has been thrown into the public domain? I know you are his church member, ignorant people who cannot call a spade what it is." Not everyone that is saying don't judge is his church member or ignorant. You seriously think you are all that knowledgeable and have the guts to castigate people.Seriously who made you the judge over Pastor Chris Okotie. When did you become so perfect and free from sin to cast a stone. Aren't you suppose to live by the word of God and not by man. If you want a good example then follow the word of God. Instead of writing trash about him, pray for him regardless of what he has said or done on the pulpit

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  138. Women can be harzardous sometimes! Take for instance my stupid girlfriend I sent two hundred and fifty thousand Naira tWo weeks ago! She now comes uP with this story that someone stole her ATM card and withdrew all the money? What do some of these lowlife cunts take us for?
    So u can imagine all the emotional extortions and finicial blacmail that goes on in marriages! Until we know why their marriage didn't work out,let's Pray for them! As for my girlfriend who is a student,she is history.Fucked her for two weeks when I was in Nigeria and I am glad she has been paid off,scammer!

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  139. ....and people still worship/attend his church?
    lost souls!

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  140. And by 2015 now, posters bearing the face of this same man will be in all nook and crannies. If he can't run a home, what on earth makes him thhink he can run Nigeria as the president? Man of God u no dey try at all at all.
    ****Spring says so**

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  141. Dis man is obviously not a son of God, y will a Pastor behave in such manner? I just don't get it. I wonder if he reads his Bible. Most pple do not understand wot marriage is, I mean, it's for beta for worse. Wot happnd to d days of our parents? Wen our fathers misbehave,maltreat n cheat on mothers,but dey look d other way and ignore them just cos of the kids? At d end,the men get their senses back. It hurts me wen I hear of marriages breaking up, did you love each other in the first place? Do you know what love truly means? I believe people should get married for the right reasons and not just because our friends our getting married,most of my friends are married and am single but it doesn't bother me cos I know my Baby boo is out there somewhere, it's not how soon,it's how we'll. Linda,dis is the first time am commenting on ur blog, am soooooooo proud of you.

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  142. Linda go and buy the tape 1st....

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  143. Pastor Chris Okotie's (self written) bible is written in big big and meaningless grammar and he reads it upside down while resting his greasy head on the bosom of one of his several mistresses. Chris Okotie na wayo pastors. He's in Christianity to make money.

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  144. @ Pastor Chris, sir please let he who is without sin cast the first stone.

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