"One of the reasons my ex-husband and I broke up is that he stopped eating my food. He was pissed (off) for other reasons, but the best way to show me was by leaving what I'd made for him uneaten for days on the kitchen counter. It was a smack in the face.Maybe the food wasn't well cooked? lol, kidding. Is this one of the ways to know your marriage is almost over; when your husband stops eating your food?
If nothing else, its definitely a sign that something is up. Especially if this (or any other) behavior change is seemingly unprovoked.
ReplyDeleteHungry never catch am. Yeye.
ReplyDeleteHe must be eating somewhere else if he is not eating your food.
ReplyDeleteAfrican men do that when they are angry with their woman. I'd do it, though, if McTurkey / KFC / Burger King tasted better than her burnt offering.
ReplyDeletethis is serious! nothing to be kidding about. each woman sees the relationship her way. That's how she felt. when you try to make something for the other person and that person does not at least appreciate the effort it means it's over
ReplyDeleteNo two marriages are the same! regardless of the similarities there may be, every marriage has its own unique 'pillars'. For me, the day my husband stops touching me is the day our pillar crumbles...
ReplyDeleteSo plsssss this one isnt a laffing matter at all... at least to Jill.
marriages are not all the same. I am so sorry that her marriage didn't work. for me my husband doesn't eat much so its not about him not eating my food.
ReplyDeleteBut at least Jill's husband should have tried not to leave the food on the counter for days..Haba
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@nonye, dats the only thing o! lol
ReplyDeleteIf he is not eatting my cooked food but eatting my bedroom food then all is fair in love...
ReplyDeleteNa the bedroom one matter most.
Maybe he find manna for road.
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ReplyDelete@Nonye - word!!! i'm an excellent cook...he raves about my food, his friends and family do too when they have an opprotunity to eat with us...so yes, it is a major thing for us..
ReplyDeleteinfact, it's like a taboo where i come from, u dont refuse ur wife's food...the only and only time hubby tried it, he saw my 'red eye' for the 1st time ever...and he learnt his lesson cos he did not smell food for days after...now, we understand ourselves
that you tlk abt any issues you may have and not try to 'punish' anybody...so yes, it is major sign that something's wrong
I'm a nigerian and i live in nigeria. My husband used to do that a lot any time we have a misunderstanding and it used to hurt me so much. As time went on however and the children came, it stopped carrying the sort of emotional impact it used to carry then cos my kids would happily eat what i gave them without noticing what was amiss and that used to be such a salve to my frayed nerves. Now my kids are grown (teens) and when he gets in that mode, i simply feel no pain. I still ask him every morning before i leave for work if i should make breakfast for him and same in the evening when he returns, and to his answers of "No" I laugh in my heart cos at nearly 20 yrs of marriage, if he hasn't realised that that strategy doesnt work anymore, it's his cup of tea. Don't get me wrong, i still love my husband very much but that emotional weapon Nigerian or should i say black men in general always use to get back at their wives can only work for so long. I still dont get it how they never realise that applying the same principle of dialogue which they use at their work places to resolve conflicts will ALSO work in their homes. Over-grown babies all of them.
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