Sexual violation among family members have always been happening since time immemorial, but people do sweep it under the carpet for fear of stigmatization. I remember how my uncle that stays with us do finger me when I was just six....still pains me up till today that I could not confront him....such a silly man,he is still thinking inhospitable mind that I have forgotten...anybody try that with my daughter,I promise I will gladly commit murder
@Anonymous@9.20 PM, sorry to hear this from you but I think you should confront your uncle about this or else he will try it with someone else and never ever leave your kids (boys AND girls) along with family members like him!!
@ anon you can say that again one of my uncles fondling with my breast a cousin doing the same even a doctor/lab tech that should know better sexually molesting me all in the name of check up na only God fit keep us no wonder plenty girls have issues this animals caused it!!!!!!!
YA'LL CAN SAY THAT AGAIN OO..ME SELF,WAS A VICTIM,AND I WASNT SIX WHEN IT HAPPENED. I WAS FREAKIN 16 AND IN UNI ALREADY..MY UNCLE ALMOST RAPED ME..AND TWAS TERRIBLE..HIS WIFE IS LIKE THE BEST AUNTY IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD..HE THREATENED ME NOT TO SPILL,AND I TOLD ANOTHER AUNTY AND THAT ONE SENT A TEXT TO HIS WIFE TO SAY I WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH HER HUSBAND,OFCOURSE SHE BELEIVED.. TILL TODAY,M PAYNF FOR SOO MANY THINGS...
@linda wt sad memory i say this,,i remember when i was like 6 years old,,i travelled wt my mum,,from Calabar to Lagos,,and then dey do hv sit,,they call Attachment,,i sat there wt a young business man that i can call an uncle,,we dont know him,,he was just tryin to b nice,,and it was a night journey,,this so bloody Guy was busy fingering me,,real hard,,he wud look @ me,,and say i shud shut d hell up...bitter memory....Mothers watch ur kids,,anywere,,everywere???
u all keep talkin about it happening to u at sometime in ur life and mothers shud watch their kida...lets face d reality u wont always be with ur kids nd u cant avoid dem frm mingling with people esp.their uncles..i mean..where were ur parents wen it happened to u ..nd why didn't u say something...so lets stop saying parents shouldn't take their eyes off their kids and advice the parents to talk to give their kids sex education...cuz how many of ur parents taught u about sex .so lets teach our kids to speak out
What do u expect, when kids are exposed to all sorts on t.v, in magazines and even by their parents....i have a lil cousin of about 8 then, that used to grab my penis every time i get back home in the name of being happy to see me...my God it was so so embarrassing..@ first i thought it was a mistake, buh when it dint stop...i , with a very stern countenance checked it. it really scared me then....ask yourself...how did you conceive your child...that's where it starts..God help us
yep especially those that are family members. we get so caught up in warning against strangers dat we dnt see those right under our nose
ReplyDeleteSexual violation among family members have always been happening since time immemorial, but people do sweep it under the carpet for fear of stigmatization. I remember how my uncle that stays with us do finger me when I was just six....still pains me up till today that I could not confront him....such a silly man,he is still thinking inhospitable mind that I have forgotten...anybody try that with my daughter,I promise I will gladly commit murder
ReplyDeletethis is really sad......when sex is used to sell everything from tire to toothpaste to insurance, what are children supposed to learn? God help us.
ReplyDelete@Anonymous@9.20 PM, sorry to hear this from you but I think you should confront your uncle about this or else he will try it with someone else and never ever leave your kids (boys AND girls) along with family members like him!!
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad
ReplyDeleteit hits home coz my daughter is about the same age
Lord help me,I for kill that boy ohhhhh
@ anon you can say that again
ReplyDeleteone of my uncles fondling with my breast
a cousin doing the same
even a doctor/lab tech that should know better sexually molesting me all in the name of check up
na only God fit keep us
no wonder plenty girls have issues this animals caused it!!!!!!!
Horrifying!
ReplyDeleteYA'LL CAN SAY THAT AGAIN OO..ME SELF,WAS A VICTIM,AND I WASNT SIX WHEN IT HAPPENED. I WAS FREAKIN 16 AND IN UNI ALREADY..MY UNCLE ALMOST RAPED ME..AND TWAS TERRIBLE..HIS WIFE IS LIKE THE BEST AUNTY IN THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD..HE THREATENED ME NOT TO SPILL,AND I TOLD ANOTHER AUNTY AND THAT ONE SENT A TEXT TO HIS WIFE TO SAY I WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH HER HUSBAND,OFCOURSE SHE BELEIVED.. TILL TODAY,M PAYNF FOR SOO MANY THINGS...
ReplyDelete@linda wt sad memory i say this,,i remember when i was like 6 years old,,i travelled wt my mum,,from Calabar to Lagos,,and then dey do hv sit,,they call Attachment,,i sat there wt a young business man that i can call an uncle,,we dont know him,,he was just tryin to b nice,,and it was a night journey,,this so bloody Guy was busy fingering me,,real hard,,he wud look @ me,,and say i shud shut d hell up...bitter memory....Mothers watch ur kids,,anywere,,everywere???
ReplyDeleteGOD save our children......Amen
ReplyDeleteu all keep talkin about it happening to u at sometime in ur life and mothers shud watch their kida...lets face d reality u wont always be with ur kids nd u cant avoid dem frm mingling with people esp.their uncles..i mean..where were ur parents wen it happened to u ..nd why didn't u say something...so lets stop saying parents shouldn't take their eyes off their kids and advice the parents to talk to give their kids sex education...cuz how many of ur parents taught u about sex .so lets teach our kids to speak out
ReplyDeleteWhat do u expect, when kids are exposed to all sorts on t.v, in magazines and even by their parents....i have a lil cousin of about 8 then, that used to grab my penis every time i get back home in the name of being happy to see me...my God it was so so embarrassing..@ first i thought it was a mistake, buh when it dint stop...i , with a very stern countenance checked it. it really scared me then....ask yourself...how did you conceive your child...that's where it starts..God help us
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