Hope y'all are doing great and looking forward to an incredible Xmas, the best of many more to come for us all.
Some people actually think I'm a therapist or something like it lol, I'm always getting emotional emails from people asking for advise and etc. Some I try to help, others I have absolutely no idea what to say to them.
Like this one I got a few days ago from a reader of this blog. She asked me to share her dilemma with y'all and seek your advise.
Her exact words..."My unmarried younger sister is pimping girls for my husband and his friends. What do I do?"
Her exact words..."My unmarried younger sister is pimping girls for my husband and his friends. What do I do?"
Of course it was a long email explaining a lot of things but this is basically the long and short of it.
So what's actually the problem you may wonder. That her sister is a pimp or that she's pimping for her husband? Both I guess.
I'm totally against pimping girls. As a modeling agent, I get requests like that sometimes from clients, but I tell them without mincing words that I'll never do it. I won't participate in messing any girl up. That would have to be entirely her own doing. There are those who specialise in pimping, but like they say, to each his own.
So what do you do if you find out that your own sister is supplying girls to your husband? I can't even imagine it. How can you disrespect your own sister like that? So unfair.
If you have any advise for her, please send us a comment.
Meanwhile check this out...
House of Makeda Exhibition
House of Makeda Exhibition
Saturday, December 20, 2008 at 4:00pm to Sunday, December 21, 2008 at 7:00pm
Location: Didi Museum, 175 Akin Adesola St, Victoria Island
Contact: 07056289509 Email: houseofmakeda@yahoo.com
It's the beginning of a new movement in style! The House of Makeda Summer 2009 collection showcase. Come see the very first exhibition of Makeda's exotic, earthy bohemian style with bags by Linda Mesrob!
It is also the launch of our non profit organisation Makeda's Mission. Buy a pretty semi-precious stone 'Love' bracelet, proceeds of which go to our beloved street kids!
Be there!
Sleek Hair
Sleek Hair
I got myself sleek weave recently and I'm loving it. For those looking to purchase SLEEK 100% HUMAN HAIR, OR ANY ITEM ON THEIR BRAND LINE, go to their website:
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Or office: 64B ANIFOWOSHE STREET, OFF ADEOLA ODEKU, VICTORIA ISLAND
Another magazine births
Another magazine births
It's called Gaze Magazine.
Looks really nice. Make sure you grab a copy.
Looks really nice. Make sure you grab a copy.
Nollywood Talent Search/Miss Nollywood UK
Nollywood talent search and Miss nollywood uk is a competition that is open to everyone worldwide , this competition is created to give young men and women the opportunity to achieve their dream of becoming actors in the Nollywood movie industry.
For more info contact: opinion_uzo@yahoo.com
http://www.missnollywood.co.uk/
Miss World 2008
Here's our new Miss World. The pageant took place last Saturday 13th Dec in South Africa
Miss Russia, Kseniya Sukhinova won the Miss World 2008 beauty contest, beating 108 other contestants to win the title.
Here's our new Miss World. The pageant took place last Saturday 13th Dec in South Africa
Miss Russia, Kseniya Sukhinova won the Miss World 2008 beauty contest, beating 108 other contestants to win the title.
The first runner up was Parvathay Omanakuttan of India, and the second runner up was Gabriel Walcott of Trinidad and Tobago
Drop Dead Gorgeous women.
Saw Quantum of Solace last weekend and I can't help but ask. Which of these James Bond flick is better....?
Saw Quantum of Solace last weekend and I can't help but ask. Which of these James Bond flick is better....?
Casino Royale or Quantum of Solace? I prefer the former, what about you?
Mode Men Men of the Year Award 08
On the cover, Austin 'Jay Jay' Okocha, Tony Elumelu, Dr.Eyimofe Atake, Tuface Idibia, Okey Bkassi and Dr.Newton Jibunoh. ( Nominees for Men of The Year Awards in different categories)
Mode Men Men of the Year Award is an award celebrating men that have achieved, inspired, intrigued, entertained or taught us or otherwise captured our collective imaginations over the past year.
Check out pictures from the award which held on the 13th of Dec at THE TRANSCORP HILTON, ABUJA
Enjoy...
Female rapper Kel
M.I
Abuja Enquirer Publisher( Dan Apkovwa) with Mode Men's Editor In Chief.
Award Winner AY with his wife ( Mabel)
Beautiful ladies from Telavares.
The Award Hosts- Bobby Taylor and Adegbe Ogbe.
The Katagums and friends.
Adebola Adesakin
Dana Air's communication's manager Tony.
Polo Ltd 's Director Jennifer Obayuwana
The Face of Selara-Meg Kaka
MI recieves his award!!
KEL doing her thing!!
Wazobia FM's presenter YAW recieving his award.
Mode Men's editor in chief with MOMO's Creative Director/CEO Mrs Fati Alisebua
Pix thanks to Mode Men's editor, Abubakar Tafawa Balewa.
Will get you Naija Entertainment News NEXT!!!
Make sure you come back ;)
Cheers.
Her little sister is supplying girls for her husband ans she's asking advice ke? What happened to a good old fashioned ass whooping? She's not to grown to get beat up... what the problem is?
ReplyDeleteHow come she's still with the guy though? This whole idea of marry by force even when u're emotionally abused still confuses me? As per the little sis, who says you can't cut off family? I mean forgive them both but pls show some respect for yourself and cut loose.
ReplyDeleteAlternatively go the normal naija route and call a family meeting and/or church meeting led by pastors/priest and elders...if the two of them no listen....just curse them both with midnight prayers and incense/holy oil....LOL! Sad situation though.... itire for wicked ppl in this life!
I say call both husband and sister on the accusations (separately) and SECRETLY record both conversations in audio and video (if possible). This is a suggestion as per the first step to take. Its really complicated tho. Talk to your pastor about it also. Pray before speaking to either husband or sister about the issue. Seek guidance from God, He's never too busy. I hope all works out well.
ReplyDeleteWHY IS THIS LADY SOUNDING WHINY AND STILL ASKING FOR ADVICE WHAT KIND OF DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILY DOES SHE COME FROM?/IT AMAZES ME WHAT NIJA CAN DO TO WOMEN MAKING THEM NEEDY...HOW DARE THE SIS HAVE NERVE TO PIMP GIRLS FOR HER HUSBAND?? AND SHE IS TILL ASKING QUESTIONS...FRANKLY I DONT GET IT AND IT REALLY BEHOOVES ME!!!...I AM MARRIED WITH KIDS AND IF I HAD A YOUNGER SISTER DOING THIS!! SHE IS DEAD MEAT!!....CUT HER OFF!! DISGRACE HER!! AND AS FOR THE HUSBAND HE IS HISTORY!! AND WILL BE SEVERELY DEALT WITH!!..WHAT KIND OF MARRIAGES ARE PPL HAVING..EVEN IF IT IS THE WEALTHIEST MAN IN THE WORLD!! ..PEOPLE! PEOPLE! PEOPLE! ALL THIS SLEEPING AROUND WITH ALL THE DISEASES AND PESTILENCES OUT THERE?? COME ON NOW!! WHEN DOES THE CRAZINESS STOP??/THE SEXUAL PROMISCUITY IN NIJA IS REALLY UNPRECEDENTED!!!! MY GOODNESS!!!
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ReplyDeleteMy sister, which one be what is naija doing to women. It happens here too.
U took ur vows and said for better for worse. And the issue of love comes into play too... e no easy to waka commot smth u have spent yrs building u know.
I'll advise the woman to pray oh. Even when he's not messing up, u need to pray for ur man.
As for that piece of shit she calls a sister, na bad prayer for her... may she neva marry, na so so ashewo she go continue to dey go. Good for nothing slut.. that's y na so so person husband she go dey follow... she aint good enuff to be some1's wife.
You know my first reaction was exactly the same as Elsie's. I will definately be moved to deal with the two of them,God help them survive my wrath. However, going as far as I would means I have absolutely no plans of salvaging the marriage. Now that's where i really feel sorry for this lady; it's not an easy decision. When you are truly committed to someone in every sense of the word, against all (for some of us 'against most') odds you will try and find hope in that situation.
ReplyDeleteDis one pass me sha...Her own sister!!!! Unbelieveable. Women. na we dey do ourselves. These days there are enough girls with loose morals.If it wasn't her sister it would probably have been another girl since her husband is really the randy idiot here. If it wasn't her blood sister I might have suggested something really terrible. I HATE relationship wreckers with a deadly passion. I'll be praying she finds wisdom in this madness.
@Elsie- Your comments sound so much like what ED will say......Anyways, i will advise the girl to confront her sista and good for nothing hubby. Its quite unfortunate her sista is involved in this mess. In fact, i will suggest she call her whole family into this. This is abominable.....
ReplyDeleteIf i were a woman and i get such treatement from my husband and younger sister, i'll defifnitly feel more betrayed by sister than husband and from that moment she ceases to be my sister. She becomes an enemy and i'll surely treat her f..k up. I'll hire profesional to pick her up, destroy her two legs and confine her to permenent wheelchair for the rest of her life so that she'll live with the pain till she dies.
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