Linda I am a full blooded nigerian.In fact make that a full blooded Yoruba girl.The only way I am mixed is that my mum is from Ife and my dad is from Ilesa.But I guess people dont see a full black girl when they see me.(well I have long hair too so maybe that doesnt help matters). Enough about that, finding the right ONE?I dont think there is a 'meant to spend the rest of your life with'.I believe God always gives us choices because He would never force us to be with 'just ONE' person in the whole of the world, but I believe He made someone fit you the best and when you do find this person,you will be at peace with yourself and the person will compliment you. If one has doubts about a relationship,it doesnt necessarily mean the person is wrong,it might even be that the issues lie within oneself,like trust issues or independence/co-independence issues. So there is never a straight answer to this question.
U will know when u do...I don't know how because I haven't found that someone but I have been told that that is how it happens. And oh: borrowing from movies- when u look to the future and are unafraid to go forward and meet it because you know u are going to meet it with that person Courtesy "Scrubs"
when you are at peace emotionally with that person, and when you both are willing to sacrifice for each other. When you are each others cheerleaders, when you could just be with the person and silence is not uncomfortable. I think i have found mine, God hasnt told me otherwise. lol
NA wa o na movie you wan learn when its the right person, don't mind me, just kidding, well for me its knowing what you want first, so when it comes you cann't miss it.i knew what i wanted in a guy i want to spend forever with so when it came i did not have doubts.
Linda I am a full blooded nigerian.In fact make that a full blooded Yoruba girl.The only way I am mixed is that my mum is from Ife and my dad is from Ilesa.But I guess people dont see a full black girl when they see me.(well I have long hair too so maybe that doesnt help matters).
ReplyDeleteEnough about that, finding the right ONE?I dont think there is a 'meant to spend the rest of your life with'.I believe God always gives us choices because He would never force us to be with 'just ONE' person in the whole of the world, but I believe He made someone fit you the best and when you do find this person,you will be at peace with yourself and the person will compliment you.
If one has doubts about a relationship,it doesnt necessarily mean the person is wrong,it might even be that the issues lie within oneself,like trust issues or independence/co-independence issues.
So there is never a straight answer to this question.
When he is willing to give you the last bite of cake on his plate :)
ReplyDeleteFound that in some move I think its The movie
The brothers featuring Gabrielle Union and Morris Chestnut.
U will know when u do...I don't know how because I haven't found that someone but I have been told that that is how it happens.
ReplyDeleteAnd oh: borrowing from movies-
when u look to the future and are unafraid to go forward and meet it because you know u are going to meet it with that person
Courtesy "Scrubs"
when you are at peace emotionally with that person, and when you both are willing to sacrifice for each other. When you are each others cheerleaders, when you could just be with the person and silence is not uncomfortable. I think i have found mine, God hasnt told me otherwise. lol
ReplyDeleteYou 'll know it when everything just feels right with that person.There's this natural bond that draws you closer and closer.
ReplyDeleteNA wa o na movie you wan learn when its the right person, don't mind me, just kidding, well for me its knowing what you want first, so when it comes you cann't miss it.i knew what i wanted in a guy i want to spend forever with so when it came i did not have doubts.
ReplyDeleteThere's no right one, You just choose one fish from the river
ReplyDeleteSo, tell us....linda baby, is Mr. F 'd one'? ;)
ReplyDeleteTo know if you've found the right one, go on your knees and seek God. He is the only one who will never mislead you
ReplyDeletelol at ~mimi~. the truth is that like mimi said God gives us choices, and there's never a straight answer to the question.
ReplyDeletei would say go to God in prayers. he alone knows it all.