Bisola Aiyeola, 1st runner up of Big
Brother Naija 2017, yesterday sat down with Ebuka for an interview on
RubbinMinds. She reacted to accusations of being a bully and having
anger issues, also speaking up about the stigma that comes with being a
single mother.
"Those
are not true statements. I try ad much as possible to let myself out
when I'm upset because I've lived a number of years in my life bottling
things in and it didn't do me any good. I walk around with this lump in
my chest upset at somebody who doesn't even know that they upset me. So
if you make me upset, I'll just let it out and once it's dine, it's out
there. I do not like bullies personally, I have a couple of friends
that I have stood up for in the past. When people were saying I was
this, I was like maybe that was their own way of trying to make me look
bad on the show. But I'm not a bully, I believe in standing up for
yourself. If you can defend yourself, just go ahead and defend yourself
because nobody else will defend you netter than yourself. I'm not a
bully and maybe I talk a lot because I'm a bit expressive and it's
something I learnt in the latter part of my life and I do not regret
it."
On the standards being used by people to judge single mothers, would it have been different if she was a guy? Bisola replied;
"It
definitely would have been different. There's a stigma attached to
single mothers, especially if you have a child out of wedlock. You're
judged. A lot of people actually said to me that they thought I had my
child while I was in secondary school. I was like no, I was a grown
woman. I was 23 year old when I had her. They kind of make it seem like
the whole world is against you. It's now up to the woman to bring
herself up and I have an amazing family. My mum has always been on my
side. If I was a guy, I would be celebrated more."
30 comments:
But my television set showed me a bully and a racist person. Didn't you deny giving Tony a blowjob when everybody saw it? Whenever I see her face on my screen I change the channel. Bad example to womanhood. Go on with your bad self.
Nice
... Merited happiness
GOOD FOR HER... UGLY BITCH
My queen B..dont love u any less.
The incredible miss versatile. better to say it out and forget it than kip it bottled up. Live free. Kisses dear
People and double standards, if others speak out its because they are standing up for themselves, if its bisola, she is a bully. Y'al goan sit down jor. Do you my dear. Still love you big.
Miss B baby..me lobe you for a long time. Loud sometimes sha. Lol
The girl that can do everything. Children are a blessing jare. Dont mind people.
Intelligent BISOLA. Lovely interview
Nice. She looked really gud for the interview.
Bisola you were a big bully on the show, haba! How can you say you were not, you were the reason Cocoice, derby rise and others couldn't really be themselves on the show, you swallowed their characters. They couldn't do much. You may have stood up for people being bullied in the past but that was before you became popular
You have become popular before going into the house so it got into your head, you subdued everyone and they all respected you subtly except Tboss. We watched it, I'm typing this so if you read, you should know what you really did, we all make mistakes and fame gets into celebrities head except one who knows God, I've worked with a lot so I know, so I'm not judging u, just stating the obvious
Abegy,don't judge her,bad example to womanhood my foot..let her be,u can be worst Dan her who knows...
Lol. This one doesnt know when and how to use the phrase "go on with yoit bad self"...its not a phrase to shame somebody but actually praise them. Smh
Bisola is just a wawu person, gifted mother.
You are who you are,no one can change that and from my own point of view you were aggressive on the show and was very dissapointed especially during the conspiracy.
I love bisola mehn. Plenty homo
My dear Bisola!!!!!!
You are a BULLY o' jare.
what's the difference?
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds
Bisola was a cheap commodity. It's no surprise she had a child to someone who didn't love her n is still to learn.
Bisola is sexually indiscipline
Carry go my queen forget thin tall liar for life
What has one gat to do with the other. For Gods sake blow job is blow job irrespective of where. Pls free her, look on to her good heart and remember that no one is perfect and God is the only perfect judge
Seriously somtin dey worry ursef...bisola dat i knw is not a bully....naturally her voice is loud so pls stop judging her and keep ur dirty mouth shut
Expensive commodity,we Don see u.shameless cow
Oloshi, if you have not done a blowjob before be the first to cast the stone.hypocrite like you. Every body engage in blowjob for fun so don't sacrifice Bisola. Judge your hypocrisy
Bully or not I love you very deeply and i'd pay whatever to see you wherever perform or watch you Bisola...you are just like me except the single mother issh but I still love you and respect you so much
Swallow characters?? You are so dumb jo?... Those people you mentioned had nothing to offer in the show...#inferioritycomplex
IT'S SO SAD TO SEE THAT PEOPLE CAN STILL BE EASILY INFLUENCED BY WHAT THE MEDIA PORTRAYS. BISOLA WAS ONLY BEING HERSELF IN THE HOUSE AND LIKE SHE SAID IT IS GOOD TO STAND UP FOR YOURSELF. IF OTHERS FELT SHADOWED BY HER PERSONALITY, THAT IS NOT HER FAULT. THEY SHOULD HAVE RISEN TO THE TASK INSTEAD OF EXPECTING HER TO SHRINK HERSELF SO THEY WILL ALSO SHINE.
TRUTH IS THAT GETTING PREGNANT AT THAT TIME FOR BISOLA WAS A MEAL TICKET OR WAS SUPPOSED TO BE .... UNTIL SHE UNRAVELLED THE PACKAGING THE BABY DADDY HAD LOL!!!!!!
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