Another son of Chief Etoromi from Stella, Mr Tuoyo Etoromi Oduah, had released a damning statement to his father.
He had in the statement, denounced his father saying that he will rather be a bastard than be called his son.
He had accused his father of being an attention seeker in the course of his brother’s death.
But the retired Army officer fired back,imploring his son to retrace his steps and not allow himself to be used by his mother.
Chief Etoromi in his statement to his son wrote thus;
"Eyituoyo my son, they have misled you. When Omabuwa came home last year, Stella, your mother told me to call you to come home.
She gave me your phone number. She said you were in the United States of America and don't answer calls. All calls to that your phone were not answered. I believe Omabuwa was killed, that is why Stella refused to tell me."
"The stories about how Stella took you away need not be told now. The grief that my son, Omabuwa who was contacted by your junior sister, Valentina Omawumi Etoromi and who came home is dead is too much a pain for me now. Stella should bring our kids home. I want to bury Omabuwa who is now late, and you my lovely son, Eyituoyo should come home. I married Stella traditionally and under Ibo marriage law, every child she has before my dowry is returned belongs to me.
It is Stella and not yourself who should tell me that my son, Omabuwa, your senior brother is dead", he said.Chief Etoromi also wrote that;
"You said you offered flight tickets and accommodation to attend the burial and funeral of my son. Burial where? Do you have flight infrastructures at Akili Ozizor now? Is it Ibo culture for a woman whose dowry was paid to take her children's corpse to her home town? That is abomination. The controversies surrounding Omabuwa's death will be investigated".
"My son, do not allow yourself to be dragged into what you do not have knowledge. Could it be that Omabuwa was killed because he came home? This is not the time to talk. May the Almighty God grant us His Mercies, show us light that will make us know the truth. Amen".
He pointed out that;"Eyituoyo, I am not Mr Satchie Etoromi. I was commissioned into the Nigerian Army and attained the rank of Lieutenant Colonel before Stella came into my life. I was also conferred with a Chieftaincy title when she was with me. It is a pity that you were not told my status in life. You will know I am not a nonentity as you were made to believe"He added:
"My marriage with Stella was not short. She moved out of our home 19 years ago and so her telling you she divorced me 30 years ago is another big lie. How old are you? So why did she tell you all these lies? I am an incorruptible and disciplined officer and gentleman and you shall be proud that my blood flows in your veins when the truth becomes knowledge. I was a polygamous man before Stella married me. I married many wives and it is a custom of our people.
His Royal Highness, Igwe Oduah 1 of blessed memory had many wives too, so what did I do wrong? When Stella took you and everything away, in humility I prayed for the Almighty God's mercy. Must she not do the needful and bring you to me? The Almighty God shall judge. I am your father. Bring Omabuwa home and come with him. I am not threatening you nor your mother. .
May the Almighty God bless you my son. All will be well.
65 comments:
Hmmm this is serious but I dong engage in family issues
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Its well may his soul continue to Rip
The father is an idiot, an attention seeker. You married many wives Oya clap for yourself. That one Na your life achievement.Stupid fool
Ok ooo, Nollywood over to you another script is coming and I will like to watch this one
It's well
Useless man get out of here, why would anyone kill the guy, u r an irresponsible man for marrying many wives,seeking attention,swine,may God not allow me have a father like u
SORRY FOR THE LOST
All these nonsense junkies..father mother and sons should find other means of display of their madness....we aren't interested
You drag the people you claim to love through mud and expose them to the public. Shame! These 'children' you keep referring to are adults. They are individuals. Your actions show you are very manipulative and self centered. You engage in emotional abuse, while giving underlying threats. You have turned a time to mourn and love into a time of hatred. Did you actually love your son at all? I pray nobody answers you and you stop washing your dirty linen outside. You wait for your child to be 'told' your status. Live that status! Protect your family
Madam it's God u need now n stop dis nonsense...
Family drama and matters arising... Abeg they should go inside and settle their family brouhaha without disturbing our peace.
Maybe maybe not.
Hian! Nsogbu dikwa! Linda take note!
Nah wha oh.. for some reason I believe the said Stella might just maybe have killed her son
cos the controversy is too much.
time will tell.
she wouldn't be high and mighty forever
when the chips are down.
we will know it all
Fire on the mountain o
Can dey just let d joy rest in peace?
...merited merited happiness
What I see from all this ,the boy is a baster for coming out on his father like that, and I'd he's not careful he will die in his pram, he was not brought up by a man and his useless hopeless mother didn't led him through the right path, the father should not even reply him any more, God want punish his mother that is why at this time of her greef and sorrow all these mess is coming out,
Hmmmm...family palava....thought the guy is buried???
Hmmmmmmmm,this issue is getting out of hand
Lib addict#just passing#
Sad event anyway. It shows how continually, we miss tradition and forget we have "values". The woman-stella should do the needful. Love is better than hate!!
Hmmmm.. story! We await the phase 2
I suspected foul play from the beginning, that woman is a beast she brain washed her children against their father, she can do anything possible to seek power, she is the prime suspect in her son's death. Mr Erotomi, relax they may not acknowledge you has their father, but they can never take away your name from their name, keep praying, prayer is the only weapon now
.... It's getting more complicated.... If you a not in your son's life when he was alive.. Is it during his death you will be with him?....
........... Liber maniac.......
This man seems to be in pain.
Hmm sad. The letter that came from that boy to his father shows that the boy was not trained well and makes the story about him being misled very believeable. Nothing should make a young man address his father with such strong words. This man's story seems very believeable.
Where I come from a woman does not have the right to Bury a child, my late sister was buried in my father's compound in the village even though they separated 27yrs ago and my dad died 11yrs ago. My mum had to call his family that their child died. Where I come from, if a woman does it, nobody will teach her before she retrace her steps becos they will attack her spiritually and she won't stop seeing the dead child, they will make her life miserable and torment her, she will eventually call them to do the right thing. So Mrs oduah,I think you shld do the right thing even if the man never gave a penny to the child, some nigeria culture are just insane. Do the needful
RIP Omabuwa
Mh! THE MAN SEEMS GOOD. ALL THESE WOMEN POLITICIANS SEF...THEY NO DEY GET RESPECT FOR THEIR HUSBANDS.
Like Seriously?
Waoow! Very pathetic.hope people shld learn 4rm dis drama. I hv always convinced myslf dt quareln isn't a beta option. In ibo tribe,its really an abomination 2 bury his own son in her own village.bt 4 her 2 do dt,hmmmm,am sure de MUST be a tangible reason. My intrest gos 2 de son who denouce his fada.plsssss retrace ur step and apologize.even if ur fada is de worse man on earth,i wil not suport de way u addressed him.am sure u wl be a fada one day. Am nt tryn 2 suport ur dad,bt u wldnt hv delved into de mata de way u did. Ur family is a public figure,alot of WISDOM is needed 2 handle critical matters lik dis. Truth be told,ur fadas blood flows in ur vein. U can't change it. In all our dealns consider de future.
This is a cry of a father let them do him that honour by granting his wish.Forgiveness is divine there is none that is perfect.The woman has got it all wrong by burying the young man without the consent of the father who is still alive, there is what we call cultural diversity.The man has a right over the son as well as the mother.Time for her to retrace hes step and have a rethink on this issue its very important she does this.
This man is truly an attention seeker. Lt `Colonel with many wives, how do you pay for all kids school tuition and show much love to the mum and your children?
He is sick
ok
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds
So polygamy na Achievement now abi, Idiot!
They av sacrificed the boy, the old man knows what he is saying. How can the son of a billionaire senator die bcos of minor ailment. All that glitters..... I be anambra boy, u see stella, ekwunife and anenih wife, fear dose women!
A broken man! Ibo tradition does not allow there sons to b buried outside. Stella ur story no good outside, u r over ambitious....
This man is making sense..it is never done in igbo tradition for a woman to take her childs corpse to her home town..it is a very big abomination(Aru)Eyituoyo pls be wise.be smart..judge wisely..don't be partial..so u don't get yourself entangled with what you know nothing about..
What a mess! Must it all play out on social media?
Omo see gobe. Why on earth will madam stella bury their son in the east? No matter what d ex husband must have done, she didnt hav d right to bury d son in her village. Seems she's a bossy and arrogant person.
I said it before, this man is an irresponsible ogogoro drinker. Its typical for them to just distribute their sperm and not take responsibility when the children come. Fighting over your dead son's body when you never cared for him while he lived nor even offered to bury him. You shamelessly want the woman to sponsor the burial but in your place so you people will give her a long list of things to do first before the boy will be buried. Tueh! When a son will rather be called a bastard than to be called your son, that tells you how miserably you failed as a father. You were simply a sperm donor and not a father. Focus on your other children from your other wives and try to be a better father henceforth.
U c y polygamy is not good if we begin to get involved in dis matter we willl b biased so it's better we just kip quiet but my own take as a delta man is a woman that was married traditionally has no right to bury the son with out consent from the boys father tradition is tradition.
Oga, your old age didn't come with wisdom at all. Why make a private matter public? You're making noise because your ex wife is a public figure.
Hmmmnnnn...
Listen to the voice of reasoning and be fair in your judgment. Sometimes mother's can be sentimental.
Let sleeping dogs lie
May God help dis family at this point in time.people should be mindful of judging any one in dis matter since we do not have the clearest picture.May GOd grant dm the fortitude to bear dis and may they never mourn over their kids again
Very useless man who is capitalizing on his son's death to throw a pity party. By d way,who said every igbo man must be buried in his father's compound??? Those buried in cemeteries and even obodo oyibo,are some not igbos??? U want to play on tradition now. After abandoning ur kids for almost 30yrs. Thunder fire u there useless old man!u no make peace when ur boy was alive. Now he is dead,u want him to come back to a place where he never belonged while alive. Bastard man!
That's it! If she weren't a public figure we won't be hearing this rubbish. He didn't care when d boy was alive. He is dead now and he ran to social media. Useless old man! Tueh on u!
That man is an irresponsible man...
This man has no shame.
Stop blaming any one for your absenteeism in your children's lives.
Just crawl into the hole you came out from.
Remain absent in their lives.
They don't need you.
Who lieutenant colonel epp?
Stella I respect your silence.
Mr Etoromi will remain a barking dog .
He cant bite.
Lol....I thought he was going to bring down heavens during the burial in Anambra....
Nawa ooo.
How will this help the nigeria economy?
Hmmmm...dats serious
Chaiya...i seriously feel his pains. Quite a pity! SHM
When you get to his age in life, you would have known what the man faced in life especially with a woman like Stella. Is it that easy for a man to abandon 3 - 4 children. The woman dealt with him treacherously and spoiled him.
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Geeeez, people still write like this in this generation? Pls schools are still open, make sure u enroll after this vacation. Stop the public disgrace u r bringing upon urself. Inugo?
You are sick in the head. Why would Stella kill her son.
You are a fool. How dare you, with your stupid spellings. Who are you to say shit about the boy and his mother. It's apparent the father is irresponsible. He didn't take his fatherly role serious.
This is the true image of a father.Even after the son insulted him publicly,he is still willing to accept him.No one know the true story but I suspect that the guy has been brainwashed by the mother.Please guy,you are a man,an African and a Nigerian.You need your father no matter what.
The man na attention seeker
This is a man that used to beat up his wife in front of the boys when they were still small kids, I was personally told by Touyo that he would beat up his dad when he grows up cos he used to slap his mummy
Oya make una carry una case go meet Charly boy. I hear say he dey settle family quanta now. Via Samsung true i
I dnt get were some f u LIB ers r coming from, d fada might be bad or not, d mother mite be a saint(which politician is rite?) or not, d issue for me is in doing wots rite,its not in our tradidtion nd values for a woman to bury her children in her home town na ahhh!!! Unless said woman was Neva traditionaly married,Dat ACT puts her in a Bad lite,How cud her community alow Dat even, in my place it wudnt happen, senator or NOT.A Wise woman shud do rite, even if her hubby or formal hubby dosnt.
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