Dear LIB readers; I met my soulmate just 2 months after I proposed to another woman
From a male LIB reader
I proposed to a girlfriend in June 2015 and just two weeks ago, I ran into an ex, a lady I dated for a year about 9 years ago. I fell instantly inlove with her all over again and I have no doubt that she's my soulmate. The way we met again was divine and I believe this lady is the person I am meant to spend the rest of my life with. The only problem is I proposed to another woman two months ago who I gave a ring to. I'm in my late 30s and I was eager to settle down and she seemed most suitable from the lot but now that I have found my rib, how do I break my engagement with my fiancee without breaking her heart? My new love doesn't even know I'm engaged. I am hoping she would even read this here and forgive me for not coming clean with her.
Oga run from the so called "soul mate". It happened to me too,after my husband proposed,people started coming with proposals from everywhere.that current feeling is from hell..go ahead and marry d woman u already proposed to.
POSTER, u left out a very vital information in ur post that will enable any LIBER advice u correctly. What made you break up with ur ex, the circumstances surrounding ur break up is a very major determinant here.
But you're crazy man.If that your ex is your soulmate,why did she acquire the ex title in the 1st place? You think women are rags that you can just change at anytime you like ko? Is it this easy for a man of your age not to know what's good for u? I can't tell you how to break someone's heart coz I'm a woman like her.We're divas that impress,not damsels in distress.Deal with it;
Bonita for your mind now you don make sense. Diva ko damsel ni. @Poster follow your heart o. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Don't marry out of pity or convenience. #my2cents
Anon 2:20, you must be a man. Insensitive buffoon. In his late 30's he doesn't know what he wants? Break up with the one you proposed to and let God judge everybody.
Exactly! Please, get on your knees and pray about it. There's something the devil does when weddings are being planned. He puts a distraction and makes either of the partners to start having doubts, and atimes, he succeeds in sowing a seed of discord and tearing apart, people who are truly meant to be together. The devil knows that a marriage starts failing the moment two wrong people are joined in the union. Please pray and fast. Ask for God's direction and stay away from sin while you pray. Marriage is the most important phase of life. Be careful.
There's no sentiment or petty in marriage, she will be heart broken no matter how u present it to her, u just have to tell her and follow ur "rib" I will do that over and over again, if she was in ur shoes she will do the same damm thing so don't apply petty here
A wise one ones said....."if u have two lovers and u need to leave one, pick the second cos if u loved the first u wouldn't have fallen for the second.......
A broken relationship is better than a wasted marriage
Let the innocent lady u engaged know on time and let her find her soulmate too elsewhere
YOU AINT OKAY,WHY ARE YOU PLAYING WITH HER HEART,IF I WERE HER EEH,I WUD MAKE SURE U PAY FOR RAISING MY HOPES AND DASHING IT AGAIN...YOU WUD DEFINITELY GET YOUR COMEUPPANCE IN THE NEAREST FUTURE...NONSENSE
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YOU AINT OKAY,WHY ARE YOU PLAYING WITH HER HEART,IF I WERE HER EEH,I WUD MAKE SURE U PAY FOR RAISING MY HOPES AND DASHING IT AGAIN...YOU WUD DEFINITELY GET YOUR COMEUPPANCE IN THE NEAREST FUTURE...NONSENSE
You're not well o! There is no easy way to break up, there is no way you will break off the engagement without hurting her. I just pity her, after telling her family and friends she's getting married, only for a confused like man who doesn't know what he wants, to embarrass her before everybody. Leave her, someone 100times better than you will marry her.
Tell her! Tell them both, it is an engagement not a marriage better now than when you marry her. But you know you are breaking a promise and must feel sh*tty about it
Hmmmmmm this is heartbreaking no matter how you do it!!!but they always say broken engagement is better than broken marriage!!so its better to be happy than wallow in bad marriage so just follow your heart.
Hmmmmmm. This is hard o.. But why will u propose to a girl just after two months of dating her? That was way too fast... That's why most times, u apply patience to most things u do... Don't rush things, I comprehend ur desperate to settle down αи∂ have a family, Now look at what ur gonna do... Your gonna explain to this girl u'v engaged things, make her understand ur heart isn't in the relationship anymore, αи∂ make sure u do it when she's in a good mood so u don't get her throwing tantrums... Talk to her, if she's d understandn type, she will understand u...
But b4 u do this, make sure ur ex also feel same way for u, so u don't end up pursuing d very right woman for u..... Wish u luck though
Hmmmmmm. This is hard o.. But why will u propose to a girl just after two months of dating her? That was way too fast... That's why most times, u apply patience to most things u do... Don't rush things, I comprehend ur desperate to settle down αи∂ have a family, Now look at what ur gonna do... Your gonna explain to this girl u'v engaged things, make her understand ur heart isn't in the relationship anymore, αи∂ make sure u do it when she's in a good mood so u don't get her throwing tantrums... Talk to her, if she's d understandn type, she will understand u...
But b4 u do this, make sure ur ex also feel same way for u, so u don't end up pursuing d very right woman for u..... Wish u luck though
Dear brother, i feel your plight. But this one question i must have to ask you. How are you sure that your new found love is your soul mate despite you have once dated before? I must also believe that you also haven't proposed to her too yet. You must have to be more careful not to mess yourself up. As for me, since you don't have a problem with the one you proposed to, steak to her and plan your life with her because i know you also love her. Thanks.
U re such a big confused fool, U don't know any solumate. How on earth U gonna tell the girl U ve engaged all dis nonsense without breaking her heart? U people should stop being selfish n self-centred. Just imagine someone does something like this to U or ur sisters?
If u are sure.. follow ur heart. Don't marry out of pity!!!! Make her understand u! That u don't love her enough to marry her.. marriage is not by force after all. Both parties have to be in full agreement.
If you dated a girl for nine years,why didn't you marry her?..be sure your ex still feels what she felt for you and its not just the temporary feelings you get from seeing an ex you banged for nine years and wants to know what it feels like to bang her again.just saying tho.
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Are u daft? Are u the only one who has dated a woman for more than 9 yrs? How do u expect her to know u referred to her? To give u a clue. I think the best way is to call ur gf( the one u just proposed to) and explain to her, she won't die I promise, she will just be heart broken but she will get over it.
Marriage is a lifetime commitment and you can only be happy in it with your soul mate. However, you risk breaking an innocent lady's heart. Bros, I don't want to be in your shoes now.
There's no other way to break off ur engagement without breaking her heart. It's better to let go, to avoid living in regrets and what might have been...
Pls kindly sit ur rib down n tell her d whole truth, then go and meet ur supposed to be fiance and tell her everything. No how she must hurt n will be heart broken.... on d other hand, I'd suggest u just go off anything relationship for now n seek God's help before u make a lifetime mistake cos u are most definitely CONFUSED!
Better late than never. If you feel more comfortable with this missing rib of yours then you marry her. You will be doing your current fiance a favour because if you marry her in regret it will be trouble for all the thru her life. Remember marriage is meant for forever.
LIB? Wrong eat place to bring Ur problem to. Too many inexperienced and senseless commenters, save a few. Well, too late. Just enjoy ur dissection. Next time see a guidance counsellor.
wish u all the best in ur new found love! but make sure u think twice b4 u leap! an ex of over 9 yrs needs to be tested b4 trusting cos a lot of waters might ve passed under the bridge ova the 9 yr period
hmmm a ti de ni yen o (we don come again o)! Yinmu! Short time now, you would meet another soul mate. Men!Hmmm always finding ways to behave badly. Shiooor. Anyway na you sabi, may God help you with your ....whatever this is......
LoL missing rib?don't tell me u belive that fairytale shit. It's only a matter of tym before u get tired of your so-called "missing rib" n your rib gets lost...again! No matter the woman, u would eventually grow tired of her...but hey, what do I know? Do whatever pleases u.
I am in my mid- thirties. I am born again. I love God. I am in the choir in a very good Pentecostal church. I am an only daughter. People say I'm beautiful. I have, through God's help, tried to be a good girl all my life, because I want to please God and make heaven. But, Father, when will I be married? When will I ever meet that godly man who will take me as the love of his life and love me as Christ loves the Church? Please, Lord, uphold your word in my life. This year 2015 shall indeed be my Heaven on Earth year. Grant me a single godly man and a godly home. Amen. Thank you Father. #happyandtrustingGod. #Hewillmeetmyneeds.
"I am born again", "I am in the choir".... something tells me that's why you're not married! Some girls make " church" their only life. The time they should spend socializing and getting to meet the opposite sex, they spend it with pastors. Some frown and become intensely rude and nasty, immediately a young man approaches them! How do you get married then? You may be a church girl, and a good girl too, but you sound very boring to me. I wouldn't want to be with someone like you. Little wonder men cheat on "godly" women like you. Let me tell you something, men get irritated with monotony. Spice up your life Miss Mid-thirties- Cum born again and watch Mr right approach you. Just see the "CV" you flashed here- "born gain" "choir" "good girl all my life" "only daughter"! My sister, step up- you're too 'jew'!
Will I say ur not patient enough???? Or ur ex appeared from nowhere to ruin ur happiness wit ur fiance?? Think abt it....... Nothing just happen.. There maybe something behind it
yeye man. Which love? Abi infatuation? U just want to hit that again thatz what it is.
meanwhile guys see how this lady cursed her ex-husband, his family and lawyers. http://misseby.blogspot.com/2015/08/a-must-watch-touching-and-sad-video-as.html
You are not serious. 9months from now i predict another headline "how i missed marrying the love of my life" What made you to break up with this your 'soulmate?' For you to post this here shows you are not even sure of what you feel and who you feel.
Bro, u be theif nd hrt breaker. U wnt try t break sm1's hrt bcs u just met ur ex bah? Y did u propose t dat lady in d first plc, wen u knw she's nt ur soulmate. Haaaa....men!!! If u brk dat lady's hrt en...thunder ll strike u ni o..... OLE, OLOJU KOKORO. Vry soon nw u ll strt t frame anoda lie fr Linda dat u just met anoda ex frm d garden of Eden who is ur Eve.
Better explain to d one u proposed to and ask her to forgive u and if she is wise she should move on cos u guys are not meant to marry, and if u marry her out of pity u will frustrate her life cos u will never love her again.
Your very stupid and ill in the head. If she is your soulmate? Why did you break up with her in the first place? If you break an innocent girls heart you will not have rest.
Forever is too long to remain unhappy.I wouldn't want a man to remain with me,if he is in love wit anoda woman.A broken engagement is way better than an unhappy marriage.what made ur relationship wit the supposed soulmate crash previously? Wateva decision u decide on,pls do it in time nd be sincere to the ladies involved. It's wrong to carry on wit a new relationship while anoda woman is Left hanging on the threads of being engaged.There's no way u wud soften the blow to ur engaged woman. Tell her nd let her go,a better man wud love to be wit her
You are an IDIOT... U think its that easy and she's just meant to understand... Nonsense, no matter how u put it,SHE WILL BE HURT... But still..do what ever u feel right cuz a lifetime is not a so short time
We're lol. Listen women knows how to package, 9years is a long time for people to change. U don't know if she did Ashewo in that 9years she was away. Don't break up your Engagement yet. Date them both for know, then later decide. Only a weakling of a man feels guilty for dating 2 people together.
We're lol. Listen women knows how to package, 9years is a long time for people to change. U don't know if she did Ashewo in that 9years she was away. Don't break up your Engagement yet. Date them both for know, then later decide. Only a weakling of a man feels guilty for dating 2 people together.
Aww....I pray u neva mak d mistake of ur life as choosing a life partner is a very delicate decision....mak a decision on wat u truly really want....fink of the long term and short term effects of ur decision...pray bout this....if possible go to a spirit filled pastor u can trust to also pray n check d situation out for u...weighn both options out for u on a spiritual base.....then go for ur choice wiv all ur Heart......Goodluck.
You are very confused and immature, you can't even make a decision and stand by it,I think you should not even be thinking of marriage with your state of mind,whether you marry this or that doesn't matter cost you are the problem.. I bet you after marriage, even if to your so called soul mate...you would still cheat, cos you always see something in another lady that you have always wanted.. my advice... even at your late 30...I still think you should try to mature to the point you are able to still to a decision you make...grow up,a soul mate is who you decide is your soul mate.
Engagement is not a wedding. It is only wedding that binds you to the woman. As long as you have not wedded her,you should follow your heart and pray about it. Marriage is a matter of lifetime. Marry someone you think will make you happy. You should never force yourself on anybody. If you think you no longer want to marry the person you have engaged,sit down with her and apologise. By the way,have you proposed to your newly found old lover?Has she said yes?
Ur a fool. If she's your soul mate how come u broke up with her? What was the reason for the break up? What's the guarantee it will work out this time? Ur just a jerk.u will see another soul mate soon.ur confused. Clear the confusion in ur head n think straight. No1 should tell you what to do. U dated them, so u kn them better. Decide
Broda, talk to your "soul mate" to find out what she feels about you. if you two feel strongly about each other, then, be honest with the girl you proposed to and break off with her. no need to punish your self in the marriage you are not ok with and punish the girl too; reason, you will never be happy with her knowing you could have married you soul mate. you will be the fault finder and the nagger, she will be depressed and in sorrow all the time. good enough you have only proposed just after 2 months and nothing else, you can salvage the situation. Good luck to you.
Ur a fool. If she's your soul mate how come u broke up with her? What was the reason for the break up? What's the guarantee it will work out this time? Ur just a jerk.u will see another soul mate soon.ur confused. Clear the confusion in ur head n think straight. No1 should tell you what to do. U dated them, so u kn them better. Decide
You should have come clean from the very beginning. I suggest you be honest with both women. They deserve to know the truth, no matter how bitter it is.
By the look of things you never loved her, why should you propose to someone you don't love, it hurt Bro, but if you think yea in a right track I wish you the best with your future partner
Come clean with them both. My sincere opinion is that if you are certain, your soulmate is your soulmate. Then break up with your fiancee and propose to your soulmate. If you marry your fiancee and you are certain your soulmate is the one, you will live a life full of regret and resentment. Alternatively though, you should also leave space to question the timing of the return of your ex. What if she is not your soulmate as you think?
hmmmm, the girlfriend no go take am lightly o. we women love proposals. anyways pray about it, cos this new flame may not want to settle down with you. let God direct you.
it's good, all things work together for her good, maybe you will be a dead body in the next few months that why God wants you to get out of her dear life
It would be good if people could first of all read the post and properly and sensibly comment without animosity. For one he dated his Ex for "1yr about 9yrs ago" for those of you saying he dated her for 9yrs. For those who also said he engaged anoda 2months after knowing her need to also read the post again as he said he proposed to her 2months ago. Which means he could have known or dated her much longer than that. On the flip side, I agree with those saying he needs to be very certain of his feelings for his ex and vice versa as 2weeks of reuniting cannot confirm that. Also, he needs to determine that his ex and who she has become 9yrs later is who he wants to spend the rest the rest of his life with too. I know for a fact that it would be unreasonable to marry based on pity or sentiment. He shouldn't go ahead to mardy someone who he no longer feels compatible as he would simply make her life miserable through his detachment and also possible infidelity. He needs to know that marriage is not a flight of feeling.
What kind of advice does he want us to give him now, when in the end he will still do whatever he want, he who wear the shoes knows where it pinches him shikena!!!
What kind of advice does he want us to give him now, when in the end he will still do whatever he want, he who wear the shoes knows where it pinches him shikena!!!
Dude, that thing that you call love is plain distraction. It comes when you are about to get it right. I learnt that the good old days may not have been that good. Exes where exed for a reason; even if it's all foggy now. If you're the one that screwed up in the 'EX' story, then you an emotionally unstable and unready for any kind of commitment. No disrespect intended.
Dont know if you will read this but PLEASE BREAK HER HEART NOW, SHE WIL THANK YOU IN FIVE YEARS OR EARLIER WHEN SHE MEETS HER OWN SOUL MATE. SHE DESERVES TO BE HAPPY AND SO DO YOU...BREAK HER HEART NOW AND GET HER TO THANK GOD YOU DID YEARS LATER OR MARRY HER AND HAVE AN UNHAPPY HOME FOR ALL TIME!!!
The choice should be clear now. Looking at pressure from her family or yours? It's YOUR LIFE! Not theirs. You will bear the unhappiness not theirs.
End it with the one you're engaged to and come clean to your ex girlfriend, now turned boo. Better to do the difficult thing now than to live the rest of your life in misery, married to the wrong person..... Follow your heart bro
Guy be serious 4 ones, receive BRAIN in Jesus Name Amen! U re a worldly fellow, u know Y? Becos u've not spoken 2 ur creator! U dated ur so called EX lover about 9yrs ago yet u didnt find her attractive to propose to; and u didnt border searching for her wen u realized dat u loved her dis much dat u could marry her. Are u trying 2 tell us dat after her 4 ova 9yrs u've not ran into another thing under any woman's skirt b4 u met d' lady u engaged ? Are u sure u are not a player or a gold digger? U need 2 sit down relax ur head and think well so dat u will not make a mistake. But Y is ur ex not yet married after 9 good yrs? Is it dat no man has proposed or she hav nt seen d' Mr right? Make sure she is not a bad girl and neva u marry out of pity cos marriage is till enternity. U have proposed a lady and b4 u proposed ur heart tell u dat she is rightfull one and dat u are deeply in love wit her so y not carry on wit d'preperation and 4get about ur past memory. Becos if u dare break her heart i bet u dat any marriage u found urslf into will crash someday . So my dear be WISE and not SELFOOLISH! I pray dat God will help u not 2 turn ur hands of clock back.
First a lot of men go through indecision wen its time to choose a life partner. Be sure that u are mentally mature and ready for a lifetime commitment and not that ur the kind of man that falls in and out of love with women, not that today u love girl A and tomrw it seems like girL B is better and next tomrw girl C is better than A & B. Know what you want and stick to it forever.
Having said that, Soulmate is who u decide is ur soulmate. Pray, talk to ur ex about it to be sure she even feels the same way, also talk to ur current babe about it to see their separate reactions. Then give it time, no hurry in life. The truth is that women are dramatic, the two girls can all be doing everything right and being of best behavior so that u would choose either of them. I advise that you give it time while you ask the holy spirit for discernment. Marriage is a looooooong journey, u can't afford to take just anybody along with you.
Oga, if ur ex has always been ur soulmate, how come it never occured to u for the past nine years, how come when u thought of settling down, she never came up to ur mind, ur souls never connected in any way and u never felt the way u feel now until u saw her again. U better think twice. I'm not saying u shld marry ur fiance out of pity, but be sure this thing u're about to do is worth disgracing the poor girl in front of the whole world, cos if not, karma is a bitch, and I guess she's already taking notes of how to deal with u. Also be sure that ur so called soulmate feels the same way u do too.
U r a forkin cheat,if nt,u wouldn't hv had an ex,b4 engagin nd formin ribs,so whn u whr engaging ur gf whose ribs do u tink u whr engaging, myfrnd go for deliverance .my advice.
How you so sure it is not Satan who sent the ex back into the picture to distract you from having a great future with your fiancee? The frightening thing here is your confidence level in the ex. She has been gone for 9yrs, you do not know what the hell she has been doing, where she has been mixing, but you are going to drop everything for a feeling. Remember a bird in hand is worth two in the bushes, and brass when well polished will fool anybody that it is gold. Make sure you do not end up trading brass for gold, you only get one chance to get it right.
bro... this is not about what you think... its about the will of God. would advise you to keep hold and seek God's decision over this. what you desire might not be what God has for you. Remember, God said i know the thoughts i have towards you, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to bring you to an expected end. There is an expected end designed by God awaiting you, only if you will seek God's direction. seek God on this and i know that he will definitely show you the light. It is well with you bro
Pls break the engagement with the other woman and go with the one u consider ur soulmate. I think it's nice u r concerned bout breaking the other woman's heart, but in this case it's a necessary evil. Just try and explain things as well as u can when u r breaking the engagement. Marriage is forever (or at least it's supposed to be) and if u r sure ur ex is the one then go for it. If I was the other woman I wouldn't want to be second best, you would be killing me if u married me when ur heart was with another woman. I would prefer u just end the engagement and end it on time, instead of wasting both our time. It's better u leave me in peace to find my own soulmate. To me a broken engagement is far better than a broken marriage.
Men and there uncertainty believes, what makes u think she's ur soul mate are u God lol. Let even leave that for a moment let us assume u guys got married and one thing or the other happen bw u both and she decided to pack her thing out of her matrimonial home and some month later after which u have come over the pain she put u through, and fortunately then u have gotten another person as companion so to speak hw will u react to her move unless u are one making the advances oooooo
Hmmmmm they are always confused, that is how you tell a mature mind from an armature; they could have a change of mind when new events unfolds in their life. My advice is that he should give both ladies a break and take out time to figure out what he wants more so not that I am trying to judge you but, for you to have been single till your late 30s , this shows that you might have some personal issues you got to deal with . Pls see a counselor
Talk to her! Atleast she wil be happy than live with sadness (you!) all her life!
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DeleteAfter 9years soulmate ba. Then on your wedding day, the Caterer would be your KG3 girlfriend abi.
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@elvis, don't mind him. Marriage is more than mere feelings for som1, u don't want 2 be confused when an ex shows up still single. #wisdom
DeletePlease I'm looking for my missing Hip
DeleteOga run from the so called "soul mate". It happened to me too,after my husband proposed,people started coming with proposals from everywhere.that current feeling is from hell..go ahead and marry d woman u already proposed to.
DeleteHahahahaha very funny
DeleteHmmmmmmmmm dn't knw wat to tell uuu,jst follow ur hrt bcus marriage no get end ooo til death do party lolz
ReplyDelete...Am gettin dere...
Just say d truth man.....u met ur ex and realized she is richer than ur fiancee or riher than u ever expected
DeleteHmm men sha..they want everything in skirts and bum shorts. Oya tell her just the way you've told us and pray she forgives you.
DeletePOSTER, u left out a very vital information in ur post that will enable any LIBER advice u correctly. What made you break up with ur ex, the circumstances surrounding ur break up is a very major determinant here.
DeleteBut you're crazy man.If that your ex is your soulmate,why did she acquire the ex title in the 1st place? You think women are rags that you can just change at anytime you like ko? Is it this easy for a man of your age not to know what's good for u?
ReplyDeleteI can't tell you how to break someone's heart coz I'm a woman like her.We're divas that impress,not damsels in distress.Deal with it;
STFU and be sensible for once at least. He asked for advice, if u can't offer it, zip your dumbass brain up!
DeleteNice one
DeleteThis bushmeat bonita will u shut your Islamic mouth? Talking nonsense all the time
DeleteThumbs up Bonita, you're right
DeleteBonita for your mind now you don make sense. Diva ko damsel ni. @Poster follow your heart o. A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Don't marry out of pity or convenience. #my2cents
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DeleteAnon 2:20, you must be a man. Insensitive buffoon. In his late 30's he doesn't know what he wants? Break up with the one you proposed to and let God judge everybody.
DeleteLeave the idiot......he is kinda confuse here iif u can't contribute shut ya hole....u fnk it's easy 4 him? Not every guy wil care....
DeleteU sound so sure! Have u prayed about it???
ReplyDeleteYou want us to tell you how to break someone's heart? Men like you have a special seat right next to the devil in hell.
DeleteExactly! Please, get on your knees and pray about it. There's something the devil does when weddings are being planned. He puts a distraction and makes either of the partners to start having doubts, and atimes, he succeeds in sowing a seed of discord and tearing apart, people who are truly meant to be together. The devil knows that a marriage starts failing the moment two wrong people are joined in the union. Please pray and fast. Ask for God's direction and stay away from sin while you pray. Marriage is the most important phase of life. Be careful.
DeleteThere's no sentiment or petty in marriage, she will be heart broken no matter how u present it to her, u just have to tell her and follow ur "rib" I will do that over and over again, if she was in ur shoes she will do the same damm thing so don't apply petty here
ReplyDeleteThe word is "Pity".
DeleteI bet your new found love would break up after reading this and by then your fiancé would also break up with you. Stupid oliver...
ReplyDeleteHe's very stupid. Useless men that don't deserve anything good.
DeleteThank me later
ReplyDeleteWhen it comes to the matter of the heart,its a hard one
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Go suck your dick....u'll be fine bro. Ashiii
ReplyDeleteOnye iberibe.... ikpu na amu...thats all ur father tot u..
DeleteThe same way INA eji arachakwa ikpu na amu okwaya? Ikpu shighuo GI there
DeleteHahahaha
DeleteA wise one ones said....."if u have two lovers and u need to leave one, pick the second cos if u loved the first u wouldn't have fallen for the second.......
ReplyDeleteA broken relationship is better than a wasted marriage
Let the innocent lady u engaged know on time and let her find her soulmate too elsewhere
U aren't the only man on earth
Your head is there. Confirmed.
DeleteNice one
DeleteExactly!
DeleteLol. We men ehn
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Linda please get pictures from Pastor Tunde Bakares daughters engagement jawe and prepare to get us wedding pictures tomorrow. patiently waiting
ReplyDeleteNa oju kokoro dey worry u. U better face ur front
ReplyDeleteYOU AINT OKAY,WHY ARE YOU PLAYING WITH HER HEART,IF I WERE HER EEH,I WUD MAKE SURE U PAY FOR RAISING MY HOPES AND DASHING IT AGAIN...YOU WUD DEFINITELY GET YOUR COMEUPPANCE IN THE NEAREST FUTURE...NONSENSE
ReplyDeleteTaa shut it...after they would say they know love...mpa gi
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DeleteTel ur ex abt then knw her stand. Cos ur ex can take or leave u for nw snc Itz bn long u both met
ReplyDeleteYOU AINT OKAY,WHY ARE YOU PLAYING WITH HER HEART,IF I WERE HER EEH,I WUD MAKE SURE U PAY FOR RAISING MY HOPES AND DASHING IT AGAIN...YOU WUD DEFINITELY GET YOUR COMEUPPANCE IN THE NEAREST FUTURE...NONSENSE
ReplyDeleteYou're not well o!
ReplyDeleteThere is no easy way to break up, there is no way you will break off the engagement without hurting her.
I just pity her, after telling her family and friends she's getting married, only for a confused like man who doesn't know what he wants, to embarrass her before everybody.
Leave her, someone 100times better than you will marry her.
Hmm! waiting for comments to pop in
ReplyDeleteHMMMM DIFFICULT JUST SETTLE THE FIRST ONE WITH
ReplyDelete1M AND GO AND MARRY YOUR SO CALL SOULMATE
MEN ARE TOO FUNNY
Tell her! Tell them both, it is an engagement not a marriage better now than when you marry her. But you know you are breaking a promise and must feel sh*tty about it
ReplyDeleteA broken engagement is better than a broken marriage
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm this is heartbreaking no matter how you do it!!!but they always say broken engagement is better than broken marriage!!so its better to be happy than wallow in bad marriage so just follow your heart.
ReplyDeleteBurn and die
ReplyDeleteBest comment ever. Lol. Oga, BURN AND DIE!!!
DeleteSorry, I can't help you !
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Na una go burn and die. Fools
DeleteHahahahahhahahahaha
ReplyDeleteHaaaaaaa pele ooooo can't advise u o.
ReplyDeleteDon't go into marriage that u will not be happy
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm. This is hard o..
ReplyDeleteBut why will u propose to a girl just after two months of dating her? That was way too fast...
That's why most times, u apply patience to most things u do...
Don't rush things, I comprehend ur desperate to settle down αи∂ have a family,
Now look at what ur gonna do...
Your gonna explain to this girl u'v engaged things, make her understand ur heart isn't in the relationship anymore, αи∂ make sure u do it when she's in a good mood so u don't get her throwing tantrums...
Talk to her, if she's d understandn type, she will understand u...
But b4 u do this, make sure ur ex also feel same way for u, so u don't end up pursuing d very right woman for u.....
Wish u luck though
#iT Will OnLY geT beTTer
#it MuSt EnD in PraISe
Guess u didn't go to school he proposed 2 months ago they have been dating before that time dummy!
DeleteHahaha..grace paul...chai...there is God oh@dummy
DeleteLol, chill now @gracepaul, you didn't have to insult her, she probably got it mixed up....
DeleteHmmmmmm. This is hard o..
ReplyDeleteBut why will u propose to a girl just after two months of dating her? That was way too fast...
That's why most times, u apply patience to most things u do...
Don't rush things, I comprehend ur desperate to settle down αи∂ have a family,
Now look at what ur gonna do...
Your gonna explain to this girl u'v engaged things, make her understand ur heart isn't in the relationship anymore, αи∂ make sure u do it when she's in a good mood so u don't get her throwing tantrums...
Talk to her, if she's d understandn type, she will understand u...
But b4 u do this, make sure ur ex also feel same way for u, so u don't end up pursuing d very right woman for u.....
Wish u luck though
#iT Will OnLY geT beTTer
#it MuSt EnD in PraISe
Dunno whether to say IDIOT!
ReplyDeleteOh, 2months after u proposed, nt like u dated d engaged one for 2months, #noted
ReplyDeleteSame advice applies
#iT Will OnLY geT beTTer
#it MuSt EnD in PraISe
Dear brother, i feel your plight. But this one question i must have to ask you. How are you sure that your new found love is your soul mate despite you have once dated before? I must also believe that you also haven't proposed to her too yet. You must have to be more careful not to mess yourself up. As for me, since you don't have a problem with the one you proposed to, steak to her and plan your life with her because i know you also love her. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteOh, 2months after u proposed, nt like u dated d engaged one for 2months, #noted
ReplyDeleteSame advice applies
#iT Will OnLY geT beTTer
#it MuSt EnD in PraISe
You are a confused soul, and pray ur new luv don't even read dis today, my advice to ur fiancé is for her to run far from u same goes for ur new love cos who knows if u marry ur new love u might run into ur ex fiancé 3 years later and fall in luv again
ReplyDeleteCorrect and so funny
DeleteU re such a big confused fool, U don't know any solumate. How on earth U gonna tell the girl U ve engaged all dis nonsense without breaking her heart? U people should stop being selfish n self-centred. Just imagine someone does something like this to U or ur sisters?
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If u are sure.. follow ur heart. Don't marry out of pity!!!! Make her understand u! That u don't love her enough to marry her.. marriage is not by force after all. Both parties have to be in full agreement.
ReplyDeleteIf you dated a girl for nine years,why didn't you marry her?..be sure your ex still feels what she felt for you and its not just the temporary feelings you get from seeing an ex you banged for nine years and wants to know what it feels like to bang her again.just saying tho.
ReplyDeleteHe didn't date anybody for 9 years! Can't you people comprehend simple English?
Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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I just hope yu will not see another soulmate again though..... #NowPlaying>> ekebe: tonto dike....
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Only d heading got me rolling on d floor, nr be only u meant ur soul mate after proposing to anoda woman. Come o, u well so?
ReplyDeleteWater don pass garri....na pastor fit help u for this one oo, cuz that heart must definitely break oooo
ReplyDeleteMen!!! you guys are just fucking crazy..... All of you ..
ReplyDeleteOkay
DeleteAre u daft? Are u the only one who has dated a woman for more than 9 yrs? How do u expect her to know u referred to her? To give u a clue. I think the best way is to call ur gf( the one u just proposed to) and explain to her, she won't die I promise, she will just be heart broken but she will get over it.
ReplyDeleteHe didn't date her for more than 9 years
DeleteHe didn't say he dated her for 9 years, he said he dated his ex for one year >9 years ago< . Read it again!
DeleteU're the daft person! He said they dated 9years ago for a period of one year! Nigerians jumping to conclusion since 1900...msheww
DeleteSo what now?
ReplyDeleteI advice u go wif the one u proposed to cos u don't know wat ur ex girlfriend has turned into.
ReplyDeleteThis thing called love is very wide to comprehend. Kai! May God help you
ReplyDeleteCrazy!
ReplyDeleteBro u gat a really problem cos u dont know what u want!
ReplyDeleteGuy... you are so confused!!!
ReplyDelete#Blessed Child
JUST NEGODU! You're a confused man who doesn't even know what he wants. Tomorrow u'll see another one and come Wt another story.
ReplyDeleteGobe!!!!
ReplyDeleteMarriage is a lifetime commitment and you can only be happy in it with your soul mate. However, you risk breaking an innocent lady's heart. Bros, I don't want to be in your shoes now.
ReplyDeleteThere's no other way to break off ur engagement without breaking her heart. It's better to let go, to avoid living in regrets and what might have been...
ReplyDeleteOga kill urself!!!!
ReplyDeletePls kindly sit ur rib down n tell her d whole truth, then go and meet ur supposed to be fiance and tell her everything. No how she must hurt n will be heart broken.... on d other hand, I'd suggest u just go off anything relationship for now n seek God's help before u make a lifetime mistake cos u are most definitely CONFUSED!
ReplyDeleteMr loverman, I can't help u but i'll suggest u seek spiritual advice b4 taking a decision on this crucial matter
ReplyDeleteBetter late than never.
ReplyDeleteIf you feel more comfortable with this missing rib of yours then you marry her.
You will be doing your current fiance a favour because if you marry her in regret it will be trouble for all the thru her life.
Remember marriage is meant for forever.
LIB? Wrong eat place to bring Ur problem to. Too many inexperienced and senseless commenters, save a few. Well, too late. Just enjoy ur dissection. Next time see a guidance counsellor.
ReplyDeleteeleyin gidid gan!
ReplyDeletewish u all the best in ur new found love! but make sure u think twice b4 u leap! an ex of over 9 yrs needs to be tested b4 trusting cos a lot of waters might ve passed under the bridge ova the 9 yr period
ReplyDeletehmmm a ti de ni yen o (we don come again o)! Yinmu! Short time now, you would meet another soul mate. Men!Hmmm always finding ways to behave badly. Shiooor. Anyway na you sabi, may God help you with your ....whatever this is......
ReplyDeleteShey the guy is just an isi....u r spot on that he will do it again. He doesn't really know what he wants.
DeleteJst follow ur heart
ReplyDeletestory for the gods
ReplyDeleteLoL missing rib?don't tell me u belive that fairytale shit. It's only a matter of tym before u get tired of your so-called "missing rib" n your rib gets lost...again! No matter the woman, u would eventually grow tired of her...but hey, what do I know? Do whatever pleases u.
ReplyDeleteLmao! Idiota
ReplyDeleteI am in my mid- thirties. I am born again. I love God. I am in the choir in a very good Pentecostal church. I am an only daughter. People say I'm beautiful. I have, through God's help, tried to be a good girl all my life, because I want to please God and make heaven. But, Father, when will I be married? When will I ever meet that godly man who will take me as the love of his life and love me as Christ loves the Church? Please, Lord, uphold your word in my life. This year 2015 shall indeed be my Heaven on Earth year. Grant me a single godly man and a godly home. Amen. Thank you Father. #happyandtrustingGod. #Hewillmeetmyneeds.
ReplyDeleteNothing when person no go see for this LIB!
DeleteSearching for a Godly woman to get married to. I'm in my late thirties and think we should meet.
Delete"I am born again", "I am in the choir".... something tells me that's why you're not married! Some girls make " church" their only life. The time they should spend socializing and getting to meet the opposite sex, they spend it with pastors. Some frown and become intensely rude and nasty, immediately a young man approaches them! How do you get married then? You may be a church girl, and a good girl too, but you sound very boring to me. I wouldn't want to be with someone like you. Little wonder men cheat on "godly" women like you. Let me tell you something, men get irritated with monotony. Spice up your life Miss Mid-thirties- Cum born again and watch Mr right approach you. Just see the "CV" you flashed here- "born gain" "choir" "good girl all my life" "only daughter"! My sister, step up- you're too 'jew'!
DeleteThis is interesting. If indeed you're serious for a marital relationship, just as I am, why not give me a call on 07036158532
DeleteWill I say ur not patient enough???? Or ur ex appeared from nowhere to ruin ur happiness wit ur fiance?? Think abt it....... Nothing just happen.. There maybe something behind it
ReplyDeleteBreak off.the engagement mate! It's better than a broken home/marriage
ReplyDeleteBetter to break an engagement dn live in regret & resentment & end up breaking a marriage.
ReplyDeleteyeye man. Which love? Abi infatuation? U just want to hit that again thatz what it is.
ReplyDeletemeanwhile guys see how this lady cursed her ex-husband, his family and lawyers. http://misseby.blogspot.com/2015/08/a-must-watch-touching-and-sad-video-as.html
There is no way you will break engagement without breaking the heart, but if u r sure it is the right thing, go ahead, some day she will realize it
ReplyDeleteHmmm
ReplyDeleteYou are not serious. 9months from now i predict another headline "how i missed marrying the love of my life" What made you to break up with this your 'soulmate?' For you to post this here shows you are not even sure of what you feel and who you feel.
ReplyDeleteBro, u be theif nd hrt breaker. U wnt try t break sm1's hrt bcs u just met ur ex bah? Y did u propose t dat lady in d first plc, wen u knw she's nt ur soulmate. Haaaa....men!!! If u brk dat lady's hrt en...thunder ll strike u ni o..... OLE, OLOJU KOKORO. Vry soon nw u ll strt t frame anoda lie fr Linda dat u just met anoda ex frm d garden of Eden who is ur Eve.
ReplyDeleteBetter explain to d one u proposed to and ask her to forgive u and if she is wise she should move on cos u guys are not meant to marry, and if u marry her out of pity u will frustrate her life cos u will never love her again.
ReplyDeleteLol! Dis one is a joker o! Imagine?
ReplyDeleteYour very stupid and ill in the head. If she is your soulmate? Why did you break up with her in the first place? If you break an innocent girls heart you will not have rest.
ReplyDeleteYou are a confused man..
ReplyDeletepassing with full speed,.,,,,,,,,,u did not pray before u engage her.
ReplyDeletehow do you break off the engagement without breaking her heart....u are mad for asking that question
Wicked man.
Palaver. Just tell ur fiancee d truth. A broken relationship is better than a broken home.
ReplyDeleteForever is too long to remain unhappy.I wouldn't want a man to remain with me,if he is in love wit anoda woman.A broken engagement is way better than an unhappy marriage.what made ur relationship wit the supposed soulmate crash previously? Wateva decision u decide on,pls do it in time nd be sincere to the ladies involved. It's wrong to carry on wit a new relationship while anoda woman is Left hanging on the threads of being engaged.There's no way u wud soften the blow to ur engaged woman. Tell her nd let her go,a better man wud love to be wit her
ReplyDeleteThis is a mirage. Be careful
ReplyDeleteYou are an IDIOT... U think its that easy and she's just meant to understand... Nonsense, no matter how u put it,SHE WILL BE HURT... But still..do what ever u feel right cuz a lifetime is not a so short time
ReplyDeleteWe're lol. Listen women knows how to package, 9years is a long time for people to change. U don't know if she did Ashewo in that 9years she was away. Don't break up your Engagement yet. Date them both for know, then later decide. Only a weakling of a man feels guilty for dating 2 people together.
ReplyDeleteWe're lol. Listen women knows how to package, 9years is a long time for people to change. U don't know if she did Ashewo in that 9years she was away. Don't break up your Engagement yet. Date them both for know, then later decide. Only a weakling of a man feels guilty for dating 2 people together.
ReplyDeleteAww....I pray u neva mak d mistake of ur life as choosing a life partner is a very delicate decision....mak a decision on wat u truly really want....fink of the long term and short term effects of ur decision...pray bout this....if possible go to a spirit filled pastor u can trust to also pray n check d situation out for u...weighn both options out for u on a spiritual base.....then go for ur choice wiv all ur Heart......Goodluck.
ReplyDeleteConfused idiot....
ReplyDeleteMust all of you curse? Tufiaa.. someone is seeking for advice and all you all have been giving are cursing lines! Haba!
DeleteTell her the truth. But sometimes Patience matters a lot!
ReplyDeletePray this though!!
Tell her the truth. But sometimes Patience matters a lot!
ReplyDeletePray about this though!!
You are very confused and immature, you can't even make a decision and stand by it,I think you should not even be thinking of marriage with your state of mind,whether you marry this or that doesn't matter cost you are the problem.. I bet you after marriage, even if to your so called soul mate...you would still cheat, cos you always see something in another lady that you have always wanted.. my advice... even at your late 30...I still think you should try to mature to the point you are able to still to a decision you make...grow up,a soul mate is who you decide is your soul mate.
ReplyDeleteur just a cheat and confused. i'm sure if u dump new fiance for your ex u will fall in love with ur former fiancee. oloriburuku.
ReplyDeleteSee Gobe.
ReplyDeleteI Want to Date A Man - Caitlyn Jenner
Wicked man
ReplyDeleteThis guy no serious...lindodo next
ReplyDeleteConfused guy.....how would you feel if someone tries to dump ur sister dis way?.U better stay with ur current babe.
ReplyDeleteEngagement is not a wedding. It is only wedding that binds you to the woman. As long as you have not wedded her,you should follow your heart and pray about it. Marriage is a matter of lifetime. Marry someone you think will make you happy. You should never force yourself on anybody. If you think you no longer want to marry the person you have engaged,sit down with her and apologise. By the way,have you proposed to your newly found old lover?Has she said yes?
ReplyDeleteYou are lucky you are not yet married. Just tell her.
ReplyDeleteUr a fool. If she's your soul mate how come u broke up with her? What was the reason for the break up? What's the guarantee it will work out this time? Ur just a jerk.u will see another soul mate soon.ur confused. Clear the confusion in ur head n think straight. No1 should tell you what to do. U dated them, so u kn them better. Decide
ReplyDeleteBroda, talk to your "soul mate" to find out what she feels about you. if you two feel strongly about each other, then, be honest with the girl you proposed to and break off with her. no need to punish your self in the marriage you are not ok with and punish the girl too; reason, you will never be happy with her knowing you could have married you soul mate. you will be the fault finder and the nagger, she will be depressed and in sorrow all the time. good enough you have only proposed just after 2 months and nothing else, you can salvage the situation. Good luck to you.
ReplyDeleteWICKED SOUL
ReplyDeleteGive it a little more time before you decide your ex is indeed your soulmate. In the mean time, tell your fiancée you need a break to work some things out.
ReplyDeleteFor the next 4 months, make up your mind about who you want to be with.
Forever is too long to be miserable. Better a broken engagement than a broken marriage. If you decide that your ex is still the one, go ahead and end things with your fiancée. It would be tough no doubt.
All the best .
Your Ex must have a Bomb P***y
ReplyDeleteUr a fool. If she's your soul mate how come u broke up with her? What was the reason for the break up? What's the guarantee it will work out this time? Ur just a jerk.u will see another soul mate soon.ur confused. Clear the confusion in ur head n think straight. No1 should tell you what to do. U dated them, so u kn them better. Decide
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ReplyDelete90% sure this is a Yoruba guy.
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ReplyDeleteSince you feel that way just take the matter to God in prayer, Only him can reveal to you the truth.
ReplyDeleteD reason why exes show up from nowhere after introduction or engagement is what am yet to comprehend. These exes are bad news, take it or leave it!
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ReplyDeleteYou should have come clean from the very beginning. I suggest you be honest with both women. They deserve to know the truth, no matter how bitter it is.
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ReplyDeleteBro although shall it really hurt, but shall since you re old enough to know what is good for you, I think you should follow your heart!
ReplyDeleteGOD WILL U UNDERSTANDING O
ReplyDeleteGOD WILL HELP YOU
ReplyDeleteBy the look of things you never loved her, why should you propose to someone you don't love, it hurt Bro, but if you think yea in a right track I wish you the best with your future partner
ReplyDeleteI have no advice for you because these things happen. thats why you really have to be sure of the person you are proposing to before taking that step.
ReplyDeleteHello Mr soulmate you better look before you leap.
ReplyDeleteCome clean with them both. My sincere opinion is that if you are certain, your soulmate is your soulmate. Then break up with your fiancee and propose to your soulmate. If you marry your fiancee and you are certain your soulmate is the one, you will live a life full of regret and resentment. Alternatively though, you should also leave space to question the timing of the return of your ex. What if she is not your soulmate as you think?
ReplyDeleteYou are too in a hurry!
ReplyDeleteYou don't know what you want
ReplyDeleteSame way u are telling us this bs story is same way you will tell her to. Linda with all this ridiculous stories.
ReplyDeleteWhat's d assurance that your ex is your soulmate? You really need God's intervention on this issue of yours....
ReplyDeleteyou are wicked, what ever she opens her mouth to say to you, will happen, dot let the devil use your mind
ReplyDeletehmmmm, the girlfriend no go take am lightly o. we women love proposals. anyways pray about it, cos this new flame may not want to settle down with you. let God direct you.
ReplyDeleteit's good, all things work together for her good, maybe you will be a dead body in the next few months that why God wants you to get out of her dear life
ReplyDeleteGo on with ur fiancee and forget abt de other one
ReplyDeleteIt would be good if people could first of all read the post and properly and sensibly comment without animosity. For one he dated his Ex for "1yr about 9yrs ago" for those of you saying he dated her for 9yrs. For those who also said he engaged anoda 2months after knowing her need to also read the post again as he said he proposed to her 2months ago. Which means he could have known or dated her much longer than that. On the flip side, I agree with those saying he needs to be very certain of his feelings for his ex and vice versa as 2weeks of reuniting cannot confirm that. Also, he needs to determine that his ex and who she has become 9yrs later is who he wants to spend the rest the rest of his life with too. I know for a fact that it would be unreasonable to marry based on pity or sentiment. He shouldn't go ahead to mardy someone who he no longer feels compatible as he would simply make her life miserable through his detachment and also possible infidelity. He needs to know that marriage is not a flight of feeling.
ReplyDeleteu met ur lust mate not soulmate
ReplyDeleteDecember said,
ReplyDeletejust ask for Gods direction. Marriage ne be con lick stew.
Guy u dey craze big time
ReplyDeleteAsk Google
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of advice does he want us to give him now, when in the end he will still do whatever he want, he who wear the shoes knows where it pinches him shikena!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of advice does he want us to give him now, when in the end he will still do whatever he want, he who wear the shoes knows where it pinches him shikena!!!
ReplyDeletepray.
ReplyDeleteDude, that thing that you call love is plain distraction. It comes when you are about to get it right. I learnt that the good old days may not have been that good. Exes where exed for a reason; even if it's all foggy now. If you're the one that screwed up in the 'EX' story, then you an emotionally unstable and unready for any kind of commitment. No disrespect intended.
ReplyDeleteOne chance
ReplyDeleteDont know if you will read this but PLEASE BREAK HER HEART NOW, SHE WIL THANK YOU IN FIVE YEARS OR EARLIER WHEN SHE MEETS HER OWN SOUL MATE. SHE DESERVES TO BE HAPPY AND SO DO YOU...BREAK HER HEART NOW AND GET HER TO THANK GOD YOU DID YEARS LATER OR MARRY HER AND HAVE AN UNHAPPY HOME FOR ALL TIME!!!
ReplyDeleteThe choice should be clear now. Looking at pressure from her family or yours? It's YOUR LIFE! Not theirs. You will bear the unhappiness not theirs.
Please try to seek the face of God on this, your feelings won't take u anywhere.
ReplyDeleteI will suggest you seek the face of God on this, because your feelings at this point in time will not take you anywhere.
ReplyDeleteREALISTIC ADVISE
ReplyDeleteEnd it with the one you're engaged to and come clean to your ex girlfriend, now turned boo. Better to do the difficult thing now than to live the rest of your life in misery, married to the wrong person..... Follow your heart bro
ur just a player. clearly from ur age uve been confused about who is ur 'rib" all ur life!just stay single becaue you'll only hurt those who love you.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, I will advise you to follow your heart as you're even lucky that it's only engagement you have done which is not the actual marriage. You better make haste while the sun shines. Marriage is not an easy journey. It's always good to do it with the person you truly love. I will advise you to call her and explain everything to your fiancé and your new found. Settle your fiancé, ask for her forgiveness and break the relationship. Good luck.
ReplyDeleteGuy be serious 4 ones, receive BRAIN in Jesus Name Amen! U re a worldly fellow, u know Y? Becos u've not spoken 2 ur creator! U dated ur so called EX lover about 9yrs ago yet u didnt find her attractive to propose to; and u didnt border searching for her wen u realized dat u loved her dis much dat u could marry her. Are u trying 2 tell us dat after her 4 ova 9yrs u've not ran into another thing under any woman's skirt b4 u met d' lady u engaged ? Are u sure u are not a player or a gold digger? U need 2 sit down relax ur head and think well so dat u will not make a mistake. But Y is ur ex not yet married after 9 good yrs? Is it dat no man has proposed or she hav nt seen d' Mr right? Make sure she is not a bad girl and neva u marry out of pity cos marriage is till enternity. U have proposed a lady and b4 u proposed ur heart tell u dat she is rightfull one and dat u are deeply in love wit her so y not carry on wit d'preperation and 4get about ur past memory. Becos if u dare break her heart i bet u dat any marriage u found urslf into will crash someday . So my dear be WISE and not SELFOOLISH! I pray dat God will help u not 2 turn ur hands of clock back.
ReplyDeleteFirst a lot of men go through indecision wen its time to choose a life partner. Be sure that u are mentally mature and ready for a lifetime commitment and not that ur the kind of man that falls in and out of love with women, not that today u love girl A and tomrw it seems like girL B is better and next tomrw girl C is better than A & B. Know what you want and stick to it forever.
ReplyDeleteHaving said that, Soulmate is who u decide is ur soulmate. Pray, talk to ur ex about it to be sure she even feels the same way, also talk to ur current babe about it to see their separate reactions. Then give it time, no hurry in life. The truth is that women are dramatic, the two girls can all be doing everything right and being of best behavior so that u would choose either of them. I advise that you give it time while you ask the holy spirit for discernment. Marriage is a looooooong journey, u can't afford to take just anybody along with you.
Oga, if ur ex has always been ur soulmate, how come it never occured to u for the past nine years, how come when u thought of settling down, she never came up to ur mind, ur souls never connected in any way and u never felt the way u feel now until u saw her again. U better think twice. I'm not saying u shld marry ur fiance out of pity, but be sure this thing u're about to do is worth disgracing the poor girl in front of the whole world, cos if not, karma is a bitch, and I guess she's already taking notes of how to deal with u. Also be sure that ur so called soulmate feels the same way u do too.
ReplyDeleteyou are not serious because If she was your soul mate how come u broke up with her and What was the reason for the break up? Relationship Tips
ReplyDeleteU r a forkin cheat,if nt,u wouldn't hv had an ex,b4 engagin nd formin ribs,so whn u whr engaging ur gf whose ribs do u tink u whr engaging, myfrnd go for deliverance .my advice.
ReplyDeleteHow you so sure it is not Satan who sent the ex back into the picture to distract you from having a great future with your fiancee? The frightening thing here is your confidence level in the ex. She has been gone for 9yrs, you do not know what the hell she has been doing, where she has been mixing, but you are going to drop everything for a feeling. Remember a bird in hand is worth two in the bushes, and brass when well polished will fool anybody that it is gold. Make sure you do not end up trading brass for gold, you only get one chance to get it right.
ReplyDeletenobody holy pass
ReplyDeletebro... this is not about what you think... its about the will of God.
ReplyDeletewould advise you to keep hold and seek God's decision over this.
what you desire might not be what God has for you. Remember, God said i know the thoughts i have towards you, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to bring you to an expected end.
There is an expected end designed by God awaiting you, only if you will seek God's direction.
seek God on this and i know that he will definitely show you the light. It is well with you bro
Pls break the engagement with the other woman and go with the one u consider ur soulmate. I think it's nice u r concerned bout breaking the other woman's heart, but in this case it's a necessary evil. Just try and explain things as well as u can when u r breaking the engagement. Marriage is forever (or at least it's supposed to be) and if u r sure ur ex is the one then go for it. If I was the other woman I wouldn't want to be second best, you would be killing me if u married me when ur heart was with another woman. I would prefer u just end the engagement and end it on time, instead of wasting both our time. It's better u leave me in peace to find my own soulmate. To me a broken engagement is far better than a broken marriage.
ReplyDeleteMen and there uncertainty believes, what makes u think she's ur soul mate are u God lol. Let even leave that for a moment let us assume u guys got married and one thing or the other happen bw u both and she decided to pack her thing out of her matrimonial home and some month later after which u have come over the pain she put u through, and fortunately then u have gotten another person as companion so to speak hw will u react to her move unless u are one making the advances oooooo
ReplyDeleteSit think and ask God wat His. Saying look for d God Factor in all ur issues #StayBlessed
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm they are always confused, that is how you tell a mature mind from an armature; they could have a change of mind when new events unfolds in their life. My advice is that he should give both ladies a break and take out time to figure out what he wants more so not that I am trying to judge you but, for you to have been single till your late 30s , this shows that you might have some personal issues you got to deal with . Pls see a counselor
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