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Sunday 30 November 2014

Dear LIB readers: I want to leave my girlfriend because she had sex with me

From a male LIB reader. I never hear this kind one before o...lol. Abeg read below...
My girlfriend and I have dated for two years now and for the period we have been together, she has NEVER said no to my sexual advances, as in never. She gives me her body at will and never hesitates. Last Sunday in Church my Pastor while preaching said that a woman who really loves you and would be faithful in marriage would not give you her body at all while you are dating and if at all she gives it to you, it would be after a "battle". Now am having a rethink because even me sef am wondering "why would she not ever say no to giving me her body? Does she respect her body at all or is it blind love? Would she be ever faithful? Is my Pastor right?
Lol. Nothing wey person no go hear. Oya, over to you guys...

279 comments:

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Anonymous said...

Put yourself in her shoe and decide

Unknown said...

Put yourself in her shoe and decide

Anonymous said...

So wetin u want make we do wid ur. #Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE

sommy said...

Guys get wahala o. Chai, so this girl just wasted two years of her life...mtchw...I pity her

sommy said...

Ehya....yeye guy

Anonymous said...

If your girlfriend is not 'giving you her body' she is giving someone else or she's not feeling you. Lol

Unknown said...

It is well

Unknown said...

U and dat ur pastor be olodo, foolish people after u have slept with the girl all dis time now u re looking for one stupid excuse

Anonymous said...

Guy, aswear u r a silly, immature goat and u don't deserve anybody's love include animals too... So it nw u r prob wiv d way she get down wiv u? Wen u r askin 4 it, u didnt av any prob den? Dump her, and watch ur d*ck fall off.
Davido's GF

Unknown said...

I don't even know who is more foolish between u and ur so called pastor,na now u know say u wan leave d babe....olodo now d obo no dey swt u again,foolish idiot

Unknown said...

Dis guy be big fool

Unknown said...

this dude shld rethink

Unknown said...

I feel lyk calling dis nigga an idiot. Better go and marry dt babe

Baby P said...

What a fool.Walk away and hisses.

Anonymous said...

Stay from premarital sex! Its for ur own gud pls.

Anonymous said...

Stay away from premarital sex; its for ur own gud pls.

Anonymous said...

you are both desame thing, she and he goat (eleyele1@yahoo.com)

The Diplomat said...

So funny, Men sha.....

Anonymous said...

It obvious you don't love her. She probably is crazy in love with you, and that's her way to show you. You have slept with her for 2years and now you wanna leave her. Shameless man you are heartless.

Anonymous said...

Linda,I'm beginning to doubt your sanity with this posts that u decide to publish....dude u will rot in hell

Unknown said...

Imagine dat

Anonymous said...

This is crazy..... dude nah waaaa

Anonymous said...

Your comment deserves a like.

St hobnob said...

Guy u need to examine ur head very well. Don't forget dat u will reap wat u sow.u want to Dump her after sucking dry the honey in d moon. There is God oooo oh

Unknown said...

See finish don come be that bro is not that she is cheap but trust me you need to overcome this bad feeling or else you broke up with your woman after two two years of marriage.Trust me your pastor had it with his wife more than you do and yet their are still married think wise

frankenstein said...

diz guy nah MUMU

Unknown said...

Lol...Una wan finish the guy? Maybe he has finally come to his senses.

zinny said...

sometimes I wonder what you men really want from we ladies, I think u men derives pleasure in driving us crazy wt ur silly n nasty attitudes. you men told us dt sex bonds relatnshp, we ve bn giving u freely all in d name of love. now ds one is complaining , after boring hole for 2years in her middle east, well no one is against u giving ur life to Christ but if dis is a way of u tryn to dump her, God will punish u ,dumb skull!insatiable dog!!

Unknown said...

Fuck off man, y didn't ur pastor see u wen u wanted to start having sex with her after enjoying her pants she is now cheap. U irriate me more dan a gabbage

Unknown said...

Yesooo

Livvsreamblog said...

The guy na mumu even the pastor follow join........how is he even sure of what his future wife is doing right now with another man?Every day with strange stories

Adeola said...

But guy, all these while the pastor has been preaching against Sex before marriage you didnt take action on that nor did you stop, you were still enjoying your girl...now that he said this, your ears picked it abi

Anonymous said...

odehh and olodo join from your case. after the girl has given you her body,soul nd mind. you are realizing she is not right. if you leave that girl and she do midnyt prayer on top ur head.u are finished

Unknown said...

So funny

Unknown said...

So funny

Anonymous said...

U are probably a kinda guy tha's not contented that's y she always say yes so u don't look else where. Now u still blaming her for being cheap. Guys!Guys!!Guys!!!!.... Just remember there's God

Anonymous said...

@ anonymous November 30, 2014 at 6:51 PM. you are crazy for calling the girl cheap. i bet you are even cheaper. nonsense

StAnLeY-d said...

FOOL!!! Get a real job nitwit. If u didn't want her to give herself to you, why did u ask in the first place? U actually u need to break up with her cos she would be at loss to be dating someone like u

Unknown said...

pastors of today and way self.

Unknown said...

pastors of today self

Anonymous said...

All ladies should just decide to sealed up! Damn mthewww nonsense boi

ESAN'O'GBOGUN said...

Hello Gentleman, your Pastor is not your God. This Pastor is absolutely wrong. Although, sex outside of marriage is a sin. If truly you love your Partner, call her and reveal what u heard through your Pastor to her. Both parties should reach a conclusion on this subject matter. Don't ever leaver her on this issue except otherwise. Search your mind as well...

Unknown said...

dis guy is really a boy...

Unknown said...

pastors of today self

Anonymous said...

u no know wetin dey do u sef

Wunmi O. said...

This guy is sick! After sleeping and enjoying her for the past two years u want to dump her for who? Better grow up guy...

ohiojemeagbon@gmail.com said...

Both of you need Serious EGBA

Anonymous said...

Must you people curse to make your point?haba pls take it easy make ona no get hypertension

2ndeslash said...

yes.the guilt happens,especially when you go to church on sunday and she is in your house that same day.guy,she loves you and dont want you going out..u lucky man..some guys fight with their babe before dey are allowed touching talk more of the koko

Tanya said...

You want to leave her, period! Dan iska kawai!!

Anonymous said...

May God punish that your stupid mouth poster...

Unknown said...

Then you should stop asking her for sex.....

Anonymous said...

You are just an unserious dude ,Wetin woman won do to satisfy you men Haba after all the shoki you no ear all the pastors preaching until now abeg go sit down you are just looking for an excuse

Otaru Samson said...

Habi naa...........if he did listen to is Pastor or read his well he will never av approached his gf for sex nd wait 4 marriage.

Anonymous said...

this guy no know where de pain am for nyash. pico

Anonymous said...

you better repent and accept Christ into your life. sex outside marriage is sin.

Anonymous said...

Well as it is now. he has seen that what he has been doing is wrong from the message in church,a nd loves the girl enough to get married to her. so repentance should be the next thing on his mind.

Anonymous said...

Don't know you asampokoto but I fully agree with you. Sadly the Nigerian mind set is totally male chauvinistic and is reflected in such statementsstatements.

SGB said...

Ur pastor may be right and may be wrong as to whether the girl is ur true lover, above all seek for God's giudiance

Anonymous said...

You too are ashawo

Anonymous said...

Premarital sex is a sin, take it or leave it, IT IS THE TRUTH. JUST CHANGE!!!

Anonymous said...

Jesus loves everyone of you. If you haven't accepted him as your Lord and Saviour, Say this prayer now "Lord Jesus, I believe you died and rose for me, I am now saved, Amen. It's very important, do not say tomorrow, it might be too late. This is for you.
Congratulations dear!

Anonymous said...

Jesus loves everyone of you. If you haven't accepted him as your Lord and Saviour, Say this prayer now "Lord Jesus, I believe you died and rose for me, I am now saved, Amen. It's very important, do not say tomorrow, it might be too late. This is for you.
Congratulations dear!

Unknown said...

this guy isn't normal at all!!

Anonymous said...

Chai! Kanyinsola, it's such a pity you're my name sake but your reasoning no match at all! The pastor is the main person to be blamed here. Instead of him as a pastor to be discouraging youngsters and unmarried people in general to desist from formication, he's busy encouraging guys to use sex as a means of determining wether a girl loves a guy and wether she would be faithful after marriage. How does that even tally? How does that make sense? Let's call it what it is, as a pastor; he is encouraging guys to try to sleep with girls and desist from marrying the girls that succumb to sex. What if the guy sleeps with 20 before finding one who isn't blinded by love and wouldn't agree to sex? Is that the kind of thing a pastor should be encouraging in this day and age of HIV and STDs? The pastor is really to blame here. His propaganda is very risky. It'll just encourage young guys to sleep with as many females as they can while claiming "pastor said this and that" while in the meantime, STDs will be making its rounds among the youths...... Nuff said

Kateorok.blogspot.com said...

the girl in question must have been too in love to never say no. If the guy feels it wrong now then he shld tell the girl how he feels. Ladies its not a do or die affair. LOL

Anonymous said...

Take newtons third law in2 consideration, then think if it's a good gambit "chess".

Anonymous said...

OOOOOOOOOOO!wat will pastors nt tell their congregation instead of tellin u not to hav pre-marital sex he is tellin u she wont b faithful or she doesnt love herself or watever u call her infact u nid to leave dt church before they tell u ur mother is a witch becos she takes gud care of u

Anonymous said...

Girls are too cheap nowadays, but the dude is funny. Truthfully, the girls mind might not be in the right place. Move on

Anonymous said...

lol..pastor preached well,,,,u are meant to act with wisely

Unknown said...

this is serious!!!

Unknown said...

this is serious!!!

Emeka Umeh said...

A woman can do anything for love. She is giving you her body because she love you and you should not take her love for granted

Anonymous said...

Anon 7.38...can't u read well, that is a worthless n dumb post,u r cursed from this day, I know u.

Anonymous said...

Anon 7.38 u r cursed from today..

Chioma M.C. said...

Is this a joke? The pastor didnt tell you that if you loved her, you wouldn't ask for sex. Please next story!!!!!

Anonymous said...

I am a guy, and he is an Idiot!

Unknown said...

if you confess your sin one to another God is Holy and just to forive. All thisgs are past aways. As you said your pastor said. I hope your paster also said ask God for forgiveness. So why dont you and your girl do that then continue the relationship on a sexless clean slate

anonymous said...

You are looking for flimsy excuse to learn her. Maybe you have another babe by the corner. If that's the reason may God punish you. When you start receiving your punishment in the future don't say it's your enemies at work.

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