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Dear LIB women, would you have a problem with a boyfriend who constantly takes selfies?

It's cute when a woman takes a selfie and shares on social media but when it's a man...it's cute at first but when he does it constantly, you're like "chill Ni**a, WTH?" lol.

But seriously, would you have a problem with a boyfriend or a husband who takes selfies all the time and shares on social media? Please share your thoughts..
at 10/22/2014 01:46:00 pm

125 comments:

  1. tuffcookiey22 October 2014 at 13:48

    Its irritating. .

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    1. Baddest Puta22 October 2014 at 16:43

      Yesso big problem! WTF?

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    2. sensei22 October 2014 at 19:09

      Big, gigantic problem...Guy going shirtless its becoming excessive, its like they flipped the script on women.. the one champion ia Iyanya works for him, it is well.

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    3. suzydiva22 October 2014 at 20:51

      Ended ma previous relationship basically cos of ds kinda shit, dude's gat 500+ pics on Ig n he's not even a celeb, d likes on one pics never exceeds 4, it's damn irritating, makes me fall outa love wiv him without realizing it... I advised him n he dint listen, I had no choice dan 2 let him go.

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    4. Unknown23 October 2014 at 07:37

      Well girls started this first and guys had to leave it and guess what guys wil soon start having bikini pictures too




      Breezy-p porting!!!

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    5. DADDYSWIFE23 October 2014 at 10:42

      Wont tolerate it unless he s still a kid

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  2. Uche Emma22 October 2014 at 13:48



    Yes

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  3. Unknown22 October 2014 at 13:48

    Hmmmmm
    If he/she dey faithful to me y not

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    1. lesbehonest23 October 2014 at 05:02

      Confirm!! you're a freak .. Hit me up

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  4. APPLE22 October 2014 at 13:49

    I will be a bit worried. The guy no get work?

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  5. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 13:50

    why would a guy be taking selfie in d first place? dats gay

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    1. Unknown22 October 2014 at 18:45

      There is nothing fay about a guy taking selfies. If he feels good about himself and he takes a pic, is that gay? You guys are so myopic abeg. Everyone has the right to feel good every now and then.

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    2. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 19:50

      Taking a selfie equals gay in your own dictionary... You should go back to school kia kia

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  6. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 13:50

    Itz nt really bad....buh dere is a BUT....#Shanny

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  7. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 13:51

    When I criticise the likes of Flavour, Psquare, Iyanya for constantly taking selfies and post on social media, people say I'm hating! But u can see that even a lady feels something is not right with it


    A shrinked, bleached and braless Tonto Dikeh steps out at event (PICS)

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  8. Unknown22 October 2014 at 13:51

    It's not kul jor...

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  9. KWEEN22 October 2014 at 13:51

    Yes. I'd have a big problem with that!

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  10. ebony22 October 2014 at 13:52

    Na him sabi,si long as it does not affect our relationship. I guess he loves himself.its cool

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  11. Neks22 October 2014 at 13:53

    yes i have a problem, selfies are for women.

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    1. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 19:05

      Selfies ar for women tryin 2 impress who outside?




      ~Jslimz~

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  12. @Charming_rascal22 October 2014 at 13:53

    Even as guy I dislike it when it's getting too much.. Girlish act

    #The Theist

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  13. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 13:54

    Question for the Ladies in the House


    I am Coonett

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  14. Unknown22 October 2014 at 13:55

    Nonsense

    BORN TO SHINE!!!

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  15. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 13:57

    Yea I wil.....dumbshit

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  16. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 13:57

    So long as he's nt doing it for Women of which we all are sure its 4 women.....I'll hide d phone n drop d sim somwhere. He buys anoda fone, I'll still hide it. Nyanwa ka ike ga agwu.

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  17. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 13:58

    So it's normal for a guy not to take lot of selfies and share on social media? Thank God..I thought something was wrong with me :D

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  18. snowflix22 October 2014 at 13:58

    Of course I will have a problem wit it bcos it simply shows dat he is gay shikena #onelovefromSnow#

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  19. Unknown22 October 2014 at 13:58

    Yes I would have a problem...it's disgusting.

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  20. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 13:59

    Yes o. A guy must not be too vain...it's not even sexy

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  21. Unknown22 October 2014 at 14:01

    Don't think so
    Afolabi Tosyne's blog

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  22. ary22 October 2014 at 14:03

    ABEG THIS IS JUST SEXISM!! IT'S CALLED SELFIE NOT GIRLFIE OR WOMANFIE! ANYBODY CAN TAKE A SELFIE, WHO SAYS WE DON'T FIND IT IRRITATING TOO WHEN Y'ALL TAKE TOO MUCH SELFIES TOO?! FYI I DON'T DO SELFIES MUCH.

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  23. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 14:05

    Y will the wife or girl friend lament, after all he has been doing that, is not a new act, so lamenting now will be too late. *wasn't it tru taking selfie shots nd pasting it on media,they met? I mean probably *thinking aloud*

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  24. sheyee22 October 2014 at 14:06

    yes bcos hez callin out to other women

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    1. Unknown22 October 2014 at 18:47

      And you don't feel other men are admiring you and feel you are calling out to them. Don't conclude like that pls.

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  25. Unknown22 October 2014 at 14:06

    Why will I be angry....after all I take selfies too..is nt a bad thing......

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    1. badoolee22 October 2014 at 22:33

      thanks! U r thinking like a human!

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  26. Unknown22 October 2014 at 14:07

    It simply means he is always too less busy to have time for such. I will try to keep him more busy

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  27. sandradunkwu22 October 2014 at 14:07

    UHMMMM i don't think am ok with it biko... the question is ..... BUT Y????. he has the body already we know and we are evn tired of seeing it sef... linda nxt story abeg.

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  28. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 14:07

    Real men dont tak selfie. Any male who takes selfie constantly is either a womanizer or he is really into bein gay. Wantin peeps to comment on his pics lik a girl.

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    1. Anonymous23 October 2014 at 01:11

      Very gay. Like Onyx Godwin.

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  29. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 14:08

    Yes i will.
    Its gay, lame and so not cool.

    Sugar#

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  30. ary22 October 2014 at 14:08

    Pulizzz it is called a selfie not a girlfie! Who says it is the exclusive reserve of women?! As there are vain women, so also are there vain men! And who says guys don't get tired of seeing SOOOOOOOO MANY selfies?! After a while it gets tiring!

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  31. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 14:09

    Abeg chill jo. Nigerians just love to effeminate the most silly things. What is wrong if a man likes to take pictures of himself? He likes the way he looks and that's a problem?

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  32. nancy22 October 2014 at 14:10

    Is he gay......y doing DAT constantly

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  33. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 14:11

    It's not manly

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  34. seunLondon22 October 2014 at 14:14

    As a guy I think too much of it to both gender is abit narcissistic tilting towards low self esteem...#SeunLondon

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  35. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 14:15

    Yes ooo,dat means he is suffering frm a narcissistic personality disorder..

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  36. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 14:17

    I will o buh can still get used to it with time if it's not a shirtless selfie. My ex can take selfie for olmpics. Choi, and I was always complaining buh got used to it with time

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  37. Nocknarl22 October 2014 at 14:17

    Shallow much!

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  38. Unknown22 October 2014 at 14:21

    Ooo please! Y will it b ok for only females to take selfies? Abi is dere a rule dat only females shud take many selfies? Y can't men do stuff without their sexuality being questioned?its ok for a girl to do manly stuff but totally wrong if a guy does girly stuff, abegi,all dis imaginary unreasonable rules just makes life boring, go to my INSTAGRAM, i have over 50 selfies there, kill ur self if u no like am,abi na u buy my phone 4me?shior!

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    1. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 18:45

      If people dey talk even this gay mofo go open mouth dey talk. If them say make men come out now, you sef go come out. Nna try pack well abeg.

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    2. Anonymous23 October 2014 at 01:12

      I knew he must talk. He is always taking pics, trying to show us how feminine he looks. What A barf scene.

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  39. Unknown22 October 2014 at 14:22

    Ooo please! Y will it b ok for only females to take selfies? Abi is dere a rule dat only females shud take many selfies? Y can't men do stuff without their sexuality being questioned?its ok for a girl to do manly stuff but totally wrong if a guy does girly stuff, abegi,all dis imaginary unreasonable rules just makes life boring, go to my INSTAGRAM, i have over 50 selfies there, kill ur self if u no like am,abi na u buy my phone 4me?shior!

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    1. Anonymous23 October 2014 at 01:15

      It's not an issue of buying a phone. Any sugar daddy could have bought it for you. It's about what is for men and women. But you wouldn't understand. You are a woman, after all. Silly transvestite.

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    2. Anonymous23 October 2014 at 01:16

      Is your life more interesting now that you do such? That's all there is to your life?

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    3. Anonymous23 October 2014 at 01:17

      Lol @comment

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  40. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 14:25

    I wil surly ve a serious conversatn wit him,to knw wht it means...I won't b confortable wit it.

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  41. Unknown22 October 2014 at 14:25

    Ooo please! Y will it b ok for only females to take selfies? Abi is dere a rule dat only females shud take many selfies? Y can't men do stuff without their sexuality being questioned?its ok for a girl to do manly stuff but totally wrong if a guy does girly stuff, abegi,all dis imaginary unreasonable rules just makes life boring, go to my INSTAGRAM, i have over 50 selfies there, kill ur self if u no like am,abi na u buy my phone 4me?shior!

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  42. LIDDIEBERRY22 October 2014 at 14:30

    EXCUUUUUSE ME!!!! SAY WHAT... HELL NO, I dey craze???? If he tries dz, I will relieve him of his SOCIAL OBLIGATION(break up, divorce, separation).... Dz aint meant for MATURED MEN

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  43. Unknown22 October 2014 at 14:30

    Definitely n absolutely I would...personally I find it annoying when guys have time to change their dp every 5mins,mirror selfie is ridiculous n annoying for guys

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  44. Unknown22 October 2014 at 14:31

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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    I dont like selfies and i think is weird for a guy to be addicted to it.....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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    1. Anonymous23 October 2014 at 04:52

      Come this dude do you live on this blog?

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  45. Hayzed22 October 2014 at 14:35

    If I hear....selfies aren't meant for men sef

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  46. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 14:38

    Yes I will

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  47. deczy22 October 2014 at 14:40

    Yes I would.. he can send d selfies to me instead..so I Wud knw he's trying to impress just me and not d whole world..

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  48. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 14:43

    Of course, he is definitely a boy, not a man.

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  49. obietrezy22 October 2014 at 14:46

    Any lady that doesn't like a guy taking selfies and she too enjoys doing it must be highly selfish.

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  50. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 14:52

    Why too much selfies. I am not dating flavour now Why that. Hiss

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  51. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 14:54

    Actually my girl friend thinks it's not cool but I think it's because they feel you could attract other girls to your self. So ladies be a bit selfish, let the guy fluent what he has.

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  52. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 15:01

    Chai linda,there's nothing as disgusting as that....why on earth wld a man be doing such crap huh?me wey be woman sef,i don't have time 4 such bullshit how much more a man...Biko,nah arrant nonsense!!!

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  53. Unknown22 October 2014 at 15:03

    Neva

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  54. ChincoBee22 October 2014 at 15:05

    Hmmmm lol aunty linda biko am confused oooo

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  55. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 15:05

    yes ooo...i will ooo.

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  56. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 15:08

    Yesssss!!!!!!!!! i have a big freaking fucking problem with it!!! im tired of whinning about it and my boyfriend is usually deaf when i complain

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  57. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 15:16

    Linda like u said, wen he does it constantly it becoms annoying.....

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  58. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 15:20

    I will

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  59. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 15:21

    Like hell I have a problem wit guys always takin a selfie....

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  60. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 15:23

    Yes now, why will a man,guy, bro etc keep taking selfies? I get pissed like seriously are you gay?

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  61. Subomi22 October 2014 at 15:29

    I dont like pictures so much, I neverrrrrrr take selfies but its what it is, diff shit for diff peeps, Eyin men ton take selfie, biko take on o jare

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  62. pipifierce22 October 2014 at 15:40

    No no no... Dats if d selfie is him being half naked.

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  63. Unknown22 October 2014 at 15:47

    Yes, cause too much of everything is bad.

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  64. Unknown22 October 2014 at 15:48

    ITS NO BIGGIE AS LONG AS HE DOESN'T PAINT HIS NEW HOBBY ALL OVER MY FACE. *****QUEENMAYA*****

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  65. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 15:51

    linda biko, i will have serious issue with it.

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  66. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 15:54

    Deal with it you all. I will continue doing it. No filter shikena.

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  67. nkiru22 October 2014 at 16:10

    some of them do it as a result of complex so it required alot of understanding. but am nt oky with that.

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  68. nkiru22 October 2014 at 16:11

    some of them do it as a result of complex so it required alot of understanding.

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  69. Unknown22 October 2014 at 16:22

    What a man can do a woman can do better, what a woman can do a man can do better, nothing dey am as a man if u no sexy u not fit share

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  70. lindaspartner22 October 2014 at 16:36

    my bf does dat sumtimes i wonder wat joy he derives from dat,he is always in dis blog so am sure he is guilty of dis shit.

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  71. aituaje22 October 2014 at 16:38

    thats just gross

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  72. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 16:44

    Selfies are womens' thing. It's only a jobless man that wld constantly take Selfies

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  73. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 16:46

    That would be a baby in a grown man body,,- I don't do babies...selfie ko# GiftedDiva#281d27a4

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  74. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 16:59

    Girls be taking selfie and posting online daily nd its not wrong.. When a nigga do the same its now immature huh?? Well b**ch. U aint d only 1 tasty and seeking for attentions from Opp sex..Niggas need ur ass to trip too (LS)

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  75. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 17:09

    Now i see how dumb yall can be. so linda dis post apparently is to promote what? so cuz a guy takes selfies is now a crime?sometimes u shld think before posting stuff. life is short whatever one feels like doing that makes him happy or feel good. i say go for it. same way driving range rover isnt meant for guys alone but for everyone who can afford it. so i say stop dis act of trrying to make no meaning out of nothing.. If u dont love yourself how da hhell someone gonna love u.

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    1. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 22:34

      Best comment ever!!! Whoever u are, u're so on point.

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  76. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 17:35

    ofcos!a whole lot of problem with that.Is he that jobless?

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  77. PRETTY GIRL22 October 2014 at 18:24

    Nahhhh! Too vain and too childish. ....I' ll have a truck load of problems with it and will most likely break up with him#I can't Abeg

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  78. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 18:48

    I think its a show of joblessness, low self esteem and constantly in need of d social media for self reassurance. Not just d guys but ladies also......

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  79. Unknown22 October 2014 at 18:55

    My gosh, most Nigerians are dull. Who said selfies are just for women. Who made that rule? Selfie is simply taking a picture of yourself with your phone or any device. Who says only ladies should do that. Men are also disgusted with ladies who take too much selfies. Everyone gets tired of anything in excess. So guys and girls should not take too much selfies cuz it's annoying for both sexes. I take selfies but it's once a while it don't mean gay or vain it just means that at that moment I feel good nd I take a guyish pic of me.

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  80. jbankzE22 October 2014 at 20:14

    I won't v a problem if he gat a belly like Mr ibu or as short nd ugly like Dede Oneday den itz cool or we do it 2geda or he is faithful (which no man is) BT if he is an addict of selfie den Break up coz u will jst die of BP.

    ~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~

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  81. Daily diet tv22 October 2014 at 20:36

    women complain a lot. Tufiakwa!

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  82. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 20:40

    Dis one nah gays tins ooo!

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  83. Unknown22 October 2014 at 21:40

    If he take a selfie of himself all the time, what happened to my phone. ngwanu, lets compete for the best selfie, i will post mine as well.

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  84. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 21:57

    Ok

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  85. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 21:59

    Women

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  86. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 22:00

    Bam

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  87. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 22:01

    Hiss

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  88. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 22:02

    Move

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  89. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 22:17

    that is swag, i love selfies

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  90. Anonymous22 October 2014 at 22:31

    any man who has to look at the mirror more than me is a NO NO

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  91. Anonymous23 October 2014 at 00:36

    Bur dat is not man like,its girly! I jst hope his not gay,when is not like his a modeli kinda dislike guys dat dose like a lady. #cutecatty.

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  92. Anonymous23 October 2014 at 05:44

    Gbogbo yin ti ya werey. when selfie begin wey e don turn female thing? ehn?

    My fone, I bought with my money i cannot comman now snap ehn? aye yin ma baje ni!

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  93. Unknown23 October 2014 at 06:28

    Tahhhh HEAR GIRL..YOU ARE NOT UP TOHIS STANDARD OF TAKING PICTURES WITH HIM?PREHAPS HE MIGHTBE MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YU DO OR YOU ARENOT THE TYPE OF GIRL HE REALLY WANTS HE MIGHT BE JUST MANAGING YOU BUT NEEDS SOMEONE MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YOU DO..FOR EXAMPLE IF HE WAS DATING NIKKY MINAJ WILL HE TAKE SELFIE????????????USE UR BRIANZ WELL PEOPLE.

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  94. Unknown23 October 2014 at 06:59

    Tahhhh HEAR GIRL..YOU ARE NOT UP TOHIS STANDARD OF TAKING PICTURES WITH HIM?PREHAPS HE MIGHTBE MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YU DO OR YOU ARENOT THE TYPE OF GIRL HE REALLY WANTS HE MIGHT BE JUST MANAGING YOU BUT NEEDS SOMEONE MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YOU DO..FOR EXAMPLE IF HE WAS DATING NIKKY MINAJ WILL HE TAKE SELFIE????????????USE UR BRIANZ WELL PEOPLE.

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  95. Unknown23 October 2014 at 07:04

    Tahhhh HEAR GIRL..YOU ARE NOT UP TOHIS STANDARD OF TAKING PICTURES WITH HIM?PREHAPS HE MIGHTBE MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YU DO OR YOU ARENOT THE TYPE OF GIRL HE REALLY WANTS HE MIGHT BE JUST MANAGING YOU BUT NEEDS SOMEONE MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YOU DO..FOR EXAMPLE IF HE WAS DATING NIKKY MINAJ WILL HE TAKE SELFIE????????????USE UR BRIANZ WELL PEOPLE.

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  96. Liddy23 October 2014 at 07:37

    I just can't deal with that abeg! Soo damn vain, extremely childish and a BIG TURN-OFF! Same as females who over do it too! But mainly a matured man shouldn't have soo much time for that crap! NO!

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  97. Nocknarl23 October 2014 at 07:54

    Linda, and you felt it wasn't necessary to post my comment?

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  98. Anonymous23 October 2014 at 09:04

    Is terrible,and dey will have mouth to say women disturb dem.

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  99. Anonymous23 October 2014 at 09:34

    Actually, i'd take selfie of every moment of ma life, bt aint doing it 4 a gal, i don't even share it, jst save it on ma fone.... Is that kul? If its nt i wld stop

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  100. Anonymous23 October 2014 at 10:01

    Is this worse than a man who is on Whatsapp every minute of the day? I mean right from the minute he wakes up till he goes to bed and switches off the phone for whatever various reason. Island big boy Joe E this is for you. Lagos girls una dey try o.

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  101. Anonymous23 October 2014 at 10:10

    I will sure have problem with that, cos its freaking not good for a guy! such guys might seems not to be serious.

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  102. Anonymous23 October 2014 at 12:52

    Super disgusting! Broke my relationship once cos dude cldnt stop taking pics and staying on social media I still think he's gay for this. Its jst irritating. Except you are gay or a child then it's allowed. Even my lil bro don't like when u snapping him. That's wtsp!!!

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  103. Anonymous24 October 2014 at 20:31

    i seriously cant stand it...

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  104. Unknown26 October 2014 at 17:02

    Yes, I would! It's so not masculine! *smh*

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