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Sunday, 23 March 2014

Dear LIB readers: Would you stay married to him?

From a female LIB reader
This is a question for the women. Watched a movie a few hours ago. A couple got stopped on the road by an Oro group (Yoruba know it as something occultic a woman must not see). The group tells the husband that they have to behead his wife or behead the two of them. The husband turns and starts shouting that he actually does not know her, that she is someone he picked up down the road. So they should behead only her.
My question now is if you were the wife and you miraculously escaped, would you stay married to such a guy?

238 comments:

  1. Lai lai, that would be the End Of SOLOMON GRUNDY!! Marriage Kor..

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  2. Lai lai, that would be the End Of SOLOMON GRUNDY!! Marriage Kor..

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  3. no way!! he is a coward

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  4. If kids are involved i will stay. As for my husband, i will continue to pinch him for the rest of his life. I will make him so miserable he will commit suicide.

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  5. Maka wat naw linda????such a coward n hypocrite

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  6. Question of life.. Since marriage is for better for worst, two wrongs won't make a right so I'll stay in my marriage..

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  7. God Forbid,I'll say gud bye 2 d man,nothin is goin 2 make me even talk 2 him again.I reject him.

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  8. To me there have never been married.

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  9. THE QUESTION NEEDS NO ANSWER






    DR POPE

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  10. Never ohhhhhhhhhhhh!

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  11. Any1 who need my nude pic hit mai name.

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  12. Hmmmmmmm no nahhhhhhhhhhh!!!

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  13. Lindido. Am commentin first abi?
    But y did d husband man cutteth her wife head off na. Wonders shall neva end.
    Ds must b yoruba people. Wicked people

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  14. God 4bid.....yooo ...1st to comment Chyqueen

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  15. African magic things... lol... its just a script being played out

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  16. Lindido. Am commentin first abi?
    But y did d husband man cutteth her wife head off na. Wonders shall neva end.
    Ds must b yoruba people. Wicked people

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  17. There is no way I would stay married to someone who denied me at the time I needed him most. That person is not a husband abeg, probably he was just managing to cope with her in same house in the name of marriage or maybe he had something to benefit from her dats y he actually married her, coz its obvious from the story that he has no love for her

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    1. Who wants to die? On that day one will know its for worse for go. True love will be tested . We are humans anyone can betray you , judas sef betrayed jesus . I will not be surprised if my future wife does that

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  18. Hell no. The truth though is that many people betray their loved ones everyday maybe not this extreme. ..

    Mayowa


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  19. Lindido. Am commentin first abi?
    But y did d husband man cutteth her wife head off na. Wonders shall neva end.
    Ds must b yoruba people. Wicked people

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  20. Lindido. Am commentin first abi?
    But y did d husband man cutteth her wife head off na. Wonders shall neva end.
    Ds must b yoruba people. Wicked people

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  21. Lindido. Am commentin first abi?
    But y did d husband man cutteth her wife head off na. Wonders shall neva end.
    Ds must b yoruba people. Wicked people

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  22. Say Wetin happen? My dear Linda, u no need ask that question. The answer is obvious.

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  23. God 4bid me goin bk to dat kinda person
    God as jst used dat medium to make im reveal is real slf to me
    God pls,provide for me hubby dat ll LMTHD,jst like Tuface loves ANNIE

    ..............HJJ...........

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  24. NEKYNYMOUS said......I definitely will not continue the marriage.

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  25. Is that supposed to be a question?

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  26. Eheheh. Seriously, I must say diz is thought-provoking. What can I say? To err is human, to forgive is divine. Eheheheh

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  27. Wen I escape I'll pack my tinz n leave d ouse 4 him

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  28. God forbid! I can never stay married to such a wicked man If I miraculously escaped.

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  29. If you as a lady were in his shoes, would you have given up Ʊя life for him? It's not really Easy to give up this life even for someone we Love so Dearly. However, I think the Man acted too naïve and didn't show enough courage by denying his wife.

    My Answer is this: if he Treated you like a Queen and always protected you to the best of his abilities before that incident, then stay married to him!!! That's after he must have apologised for denying you. You MIGHT also do thesame thing he did in such circumstance. Giving up Ʊя Life for someone is not Tom and Jerry.

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  30. Omo babes ruuuuuun as fast as ur legs can carry my dear, his not worth it ooooo

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  31. I'm sorry but, Is that even å real question? The husband didn't only agree to the wife being beheaded he also denied being married to her. Wtf? And you're wondering if she should stay married to him? Absolutely NOT! #hellNO.

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  32. Omo babes ruuuuuun as fast as ur legs can carry my dear, his not worth it ooooo

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  33. No way. After the man saying such a thing.

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  34. Haaaa!!!! Haaaa!!!! Dat man na winch!!! Helll no!!! Divorce! Divorce! * am nt a lady nd i answered, kill urslf if e pain u*

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  35. lol...... Thats odunlade itself

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  36. The question should be, would you stay married to any man because 99% of men will deny you and expect you to understand.

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  37. If this is a movie, then it has no biz being on LIB. But if its ur life and u deliberately changed d story, then pls, forgive the man if he's remorseful. Life is really precious u kno. It must av been a spur of d moment act. But if u can't forgive, then walk out. Afterall, his love for u wasn't strong nd ur action can b justified

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  38. Wot kind of stupid question is dis?

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  39. Hell No
    www.ameriestyle.blogspot.com

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  40. Linda tot u are out of naija?cos I also watch dt movie ds evening on African magic yoruba.nice1.@ur question,no commt

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  41. Linda tot u are out of naija?cos I also watch dt movie ds evening on African magic yoruba.nice1.@ur question,no commt

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  42. he is not a husband, i can't marry him again he is a devil in disguise

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  43. No try am ooo because that husband of ur fit kill u for house berry u nobody go no oooo ! Shai men are wicked oooio

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  44. Omo babes ruuuuuun as fast as ur legs can carry my dear, his not worth it ooooo

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  45. Why would you? It is for best for worst and he left you in dire straits! That ain't a husband material at all.

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  46. Linda, you already know the answer. I will do the same thing you will do.

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  47. No i won't, for the fact that he denied me he even said he picked me down the road can't continue with such marriage

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  48. Gotta love made in Aba love..#cheezyjayne

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  49. Stay married? How now? He doesn't knw me, so am so out of that marriage.

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  50. No i won't continue with such marriage,he even said he picked me from the road

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  51. Never, not even in my weirdest dreams.. Such a man won't stand by u through thick and thin

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  52. So u were watching yoruba movie at african magic.watched it as well.

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  53. Hmmm wat a scene!

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  54. God forbid dat I stay a second with him

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  55. WTH, I will walk out from dat marriage.

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  56. poison him... God will understand!!!

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  57. Who marries a chicken ?

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  58. Na wao... Dat kind question. Lol
    No mata hw blind d love be, am so leaving him #fact

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  59. Maka WHY. Marriage gbakwaa oku.

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  60. Jamb question........

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  61. Lol, something similar happened to my neighbours, they were travelling & some guys stopped @ gun point to rob them, loool....the man started shouting that he was just the driver going to drop oga's wife in the village, lmaooooo!!!! & yes, she's still married to him

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  62. ₪O WAY. Its GOODBYE to HIM. Cos dat simply means, he can give M̲̅e̲̅ up @ anytym. So A̶̲̥̅♏ definitely bera witout him.

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  63. God forbid dat I stay married for such a man..

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  64. nop can never marry such a person o o o o

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  65. The mumu man shd just say she's blind.

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  66. Ahhh women make una ans dis question but that husband na smart ass man n selfish cos he dnt wanna die with the wife

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  67. This is a very rare case where one head is better than two. The woman is actually the HEARTLESS one here; why would she want her husband head to roll when either way her's MUST roll?

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  68. No...why should I biko? Linlin no chop my comment oh

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  69. No!!! why should I biko? Linlin no chop my comment

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  70. Lindodo u now watch african magic yoruba!

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  71. No way #bright bravo#

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  72. Looooool see Lucas and Naomi - old eastenders cast.

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  73. No........I would not.......u dnt knw wat can apen next.......it is beta to run away for ur life.

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  74. Linda,if Ɲa̶̲̥̅ Ɣ☺ΰ,Ɣ☺ΰ go marry A̶̲̥̅♏???

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  75. That is not possible my dear

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  76. Are you mad?!!!

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  77. Nope,I won't.

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  78. Whatever for would I stay to that .......thing???

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  79. Mchewww!!! Movie that they didn't finish showing

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  80. Neva.........

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  81. A husband is meant to protect the wife in every situation. So any man dat can't protect ♍ƺ cannot remain my hubby. Divorce straight
    DIAMOND

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  82. Difficult. I will ask for separation for a while to digest well the whole scenario and to give the relationship a new definition. Obviously he is not a reliable and dependable husband!

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  83. dis 1 na capital NO...i no fit again oo,denying me in my presence..lindodo abeg view my post

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  84. Mehn....it takes God to forgive such a stupid act.

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  85. LINDA IT IS NOT EVERY QUESTION YOU SHOULD POST

    BTW IM YET TO SEE YOUR RESPONSE TO MY EMAILS O

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  86. Aunty Linda i also saw d movie ooooooo, i wont even think about it twice. marriage ko marriage ni

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  87. Is there even a question? Only a fool would stay

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  88. I will marry his best friend

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  89. My answer is NO. Y would I stay with a man dat cannot protect me no matter wat.

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  90. What kind of question is that everyone knows d answer which is capital NO

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  91. 4wetin na lin lin,I day madt?? Lol

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  92. Hell No! !! I won't

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  93. I won't,he's a coward and doesn't deserve me.its better to be alone than to be denied everytime the going gets tough

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  94. Linda 4 what na? A man than can kill me, he didn't even at least beg them first

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  95. Na this kind questions dey vex me! Is the answer not obvious enough? Abeg jor! *Nkey*

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  96. Haba!no I wouldn't.dats jst plain wicked nw.

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  97. Honestly, as a man if I do that and you still stay married to me, I go vex you sef.

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  98. Africa Magic Yoruba, Odunlade Adekola n Ireti Osayemi. Abi I don stay married ni.... lmao

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  99. I probably would've reacted the same way, had I been in his situation. I can't say I wouldn't stay married to him, but I don't think the marriage would be the same.

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  100. 4wat naa????? GOing straight to pick and kids and back to my father"s house. of what use is a man who cant take a bullet for his wife????????

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  101. The man was tired of the marriage and has now found a legitimate way to get rid of his wife

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  102. I reject such thou, but back to the question..God forbid me staying with such a man, I wont even be able to face him on a daily basis talkless of staying married but men on a second thot sha, na fear catch d guy, I fit do d same thing to am.

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  103. 4 whr game over

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  104. Ild sue him, make his life miserable and steal everything he has... mmshew. What, that niggur be history afterwards. .

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  105. Never,whn he wants m dead

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  106. The answer is just simple and it's hell no! If such man were given an opportunity to kill her himself,I assure u,he wouldn't wait a sec

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  107. Stay married ke! divorce him from ur life pata pata not just marriage alone

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  108. No wayyyy oooo...God forbid bad thing

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  109. If i hear sey i marry am? Marry gbakwa oku..

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  110. Not even in another world !!!

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  111. My question is apart frm ur kid wat equalz ur own life? If u die wnt she straff smone else? She suppose to knw datz nt love but life. U nd to be alife to show love.

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  112. The fuck did I just read?

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  113. Hell no. who would stay married to such guy?

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  114. No please!!! He should have even pleaded small

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  115. haa Kojo rara, dat means he doesn't luv me niyen

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  116. NO!!!!!!!!! Is that even a question?

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  117. Hmm...well, mm first of all; there must be a logical explanation as to why he left me for dead like, he escaped to find a way of rescuing me... for better/worse doesn't mean we should die on the same day...lol.
    I'd still stay married to him but he go hear nwii for sometime; my foot mat and servant for as long as possible until I pass tht traumatic experience. ..

    *My R1.50c comment *

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  118. Nigba ti Mio ya were....stay married to who??

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  119. Ofcos not! Its over! He wouldn't think of it too am sure!

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  120. Though as human dat we r,if I was 2 b in shoes(though I'm a guy),d reachn @ 1st will b not 2 stay wit d man again,but I know wit time,I'll 4give him.

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  121. I will quit d man

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  122. Even for me as a guy d marriage is DONE!!!

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  123. Definitely not. But fear can do a lotta shitty things 2 a persns mind----C21

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  124. Hilarious! God forbid that this kind of man be my husband. But,my advice for the unfortunate woman is,you can still be his wife,but make life a Lion's den for him,show him pepper before you finally leave him. He has to be punished!

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  125. No I will park my load nd go

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  126. Stay married ke? Oloun maje, dat kinda man can allow 20men to rape his wife if his life is @ stake. Na to pack ma load commot after warning him sternly never to show his face in my life again!

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  127. A man that can't lay down his life for his woman is not worthy to be called a man !! Heck no I'm leaving his ass

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  128. Eeeh, ekwensu kpokwa nwoke ahu oku. Satan shud punish him. I won't marry him oo

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  129. 4 wetin na linda, which kind nonsence be ∂ατ̲̅ na, abi dem bury our placenta 2geda? God punish ∂ατ̲̅ kind husband

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  130. Omo mehn.anybody will do such in such condition buh No,i no marry again oo

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  131. Yoruba movie part one!

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  132. Yoruba movie part one! What if twas vice versa?

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  133. i know that movie. to answer ur question:mba!

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  134. I hear....Marriager's club ni.

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  135. lailai, That's the end

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  136. If his intentions truely ψås to behead her, hell NO! ßut if its save the situation yes.. Afterall our father Abraham lied and denied sarah in the scripture when the situation wasn't right.

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  137. For better for worst linda. If he doesn't give U̶̲̥̅̊ over to death, U̶̲̥̅̊'ll still die one way or the other. People may profess undying luv but only in very critical situation will U̶̲̥̅̊ know who they truly are. Only God deserves our 100% trust.

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  138. What a retarded question! Common!

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  139. Its crazy. You might loose it and stay away from him.... Its complicated.

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  140. Never!only a stupid person will stay married 2 d guy.

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  141. Errm nope..how do we want to continue the marriage?

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  142. I'd rather die... What kind of sly husband is that? That just shows that he doesn't love me and can sell me for a plate of food. God forbid!

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  143. See question sha,u sef ,will u stay?

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  144. There is so nothing that will make me stick to such ɑ̤̥̈̊ man.

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  145. Michael Babatope23 March 2014 at 22:36

    Nope, I will not, though, I'm a guy, if she can deny her in such a sin, then he can kill her for ritual if situation demanded it not even thinking she has a sister who is a woman! Gosh! Some men can be callous and coward. Not me oh!

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  146. Stay married ke? I will not only run but make sure he is ruined for life. There is no marriage in heaven.

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  147. No husband will do that. Linda, when u get married u will knw better.

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  148. U just hav to thank God first nd pack ur bags,becos it show dat d man whom u call husband can't protect u

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  149. First,I will ask him the reason for his action but if the reason is invalid then I will go my way.

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  150. that man is a betrayal, so for me o NO NO and NO

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  151. No way,I wud rada rmain single dan get back wit him

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  152. never..he is even more dangerous than d killers

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  153. @lindaikeji, this's a movie jor!!! #NewsBlist

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  154. Stupid question.

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  155. God forbid,continue ke! Dat wuld b d end of d marriage o.

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  156. It is God that miraculously save her. therefore, she shld obey that same God and forgive the man.

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  157. Lailai...never!. It means he himself can kill the wife then

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  158. Neva !!!! Am so goin for a divorce d nxt day it shows I'm of no importance 2 him

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  159. IS THAT AN HONEST TO GOD QUESTION? I DONT KNOW HIM TOO. SIMPLE

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  160. If I happens to be the woman, na to pack my things and take off immediately..

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  161. That's the last I will do oo. I will never try it.

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  162. Dis question is nt called for, hell No!

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  163. God 4 bid stay married linda abi d@s if I dnt kill him 1st..I wil nt stay married 2 a guy lyk d@ nd I wil also kill d idiot masef...

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  164. Linda, I have just one word to answer your question.......NEVER.

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  165. Sista linda, Afrika Magic Yoruba Dis Afterng... Weldon Ma... Lmao

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  166. Stay married kwa, if i luckily excape am paying touts to beat the hell out of him and kick his ass off my life

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  167. stay married to who? God forbid, the marriage ends there immediately

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  168. Which kain mumu kweshun be dis? Stay married to him ke? Someone that left you for dead??? And someone is saying if kids are involved... WHEN THEN NKO? You wan wait till he kills you? After that another woman will come raise your kids. If you like stay sho gbo! *long hiss*

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  169. LOL To a man who won't defend me? I rebuke it in the mighty name of Jesus but it's possible I could, I'm hesitating I don't know why.
    Marriage I guess is different from a relationship, and what if you're already old, you'll go searching?

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  170. African Magic things,so Linda you watched that movie too,just finished watching it and am like,all this Yoruba people with their nonsense culture,that is so bizarre,there's no way i will stay with such a wicked man.God knows.Sandy Berry.

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  171. BET Y WUD I STAY...I Would delete you from my memory an fly to the other Side of the World#loveniLove ko!

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