tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post5363060667973870194..comments2024-03-29T10:31:44.843+01:00Comments on Welcome to Linda Ikeji's Blog: Dear LIB readers: My boyfriend never wants to set eyes on his mumLinda Ikejihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05801432363352079668noreply@blogger.comBlogger180125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-12125133728338948362014-12-28T21:47:28.502+01:002014-12-28T21:47:28.502+01:00what offense do you want to offend him to top that...what offense do you want to offend him to top that. if you cheat on him, then maybe. As much as I do not judge him, that experience might have created a toxic heart, unforgiveness might be the least of your worries.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-27799048246940849662014-12-28T12:41:40.650+01:002014-12-28T12:41:40.650+01:00Run, Run, Run for your life. I was married to a ma...Run, Run, Run for your life. I was married to a man who refused to forgive or speak to his younger sister over a minor disagreement that happened more than 10 years ago. I thought I will be able to bring about a reconciliation between them but rather was in a miserable marriage for over 3 years. Anytime we had a minor disagreement, I usually endure silent treatments which could last for a week orAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-35790166068306334132014-12-27T18:34:51.636+01:002014-12-27T18:34:51.636+01:00Give him sometime dear. By the way, maybe the dad ...Give him sometime dear. By the way, maybe the dad was the one that banned their mum from seeing them. I don't believe that a mother can abandon her children just like that.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18412342361533353054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-83874615253740770902014-12-27T11:25:33.484+01:002014-12-27T11:25:33.484+01:00Really it is painful for ones mother to abandon he...Really it is painful for ones mother to abandon her children for another woman to take care of. However, her reasons could be a wise one if he would go and find out what really went wrong. I was in his situation some years back until I moved closer to my mum only to discover that it was for her own safety, or we would have lost her long ago. So tell your man to find out why his mother left the uwagwu fidelisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-36666728050727259222014-12-27T11:23:12.628+01:002014-12-27T11:23:12.628+01:00Really it is painful for ones mother to abandon he...Really it is painful for ones mother to abandon her children for another woman to take care of. However, her reasons could be a wise one if he would go and find out what really went wrong. I was in his situation some years back until I moved closer to my mum only to discover that it was for her own safety, or we would have lost her long ago. So tell your man to find out why his mother left the uwagwu fidelisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-10648415341847282572014-12-27T11:23:11.301+01:002014-12-27T11:23:11.301+01:00Really it is painful for ones mother to abandon he...Really it is painful for ones mother to abandon her children for another woman to take care of. However, her reasons could be a wise one if he would go and find out what really went wrong. I was in his situation some years back until I moved closer to my mum only to discover that it was for her own safety, or we would have lost her long ago. So tell your man to find out why his mother left the uwagwu fidelisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-79537928107584276502014-12-27T11:22:56.522+01:002014-12-27T11:22:56.522+01:00Really it is painful for ones mother to abandon he...Really it is painful for ones mother to abandon her children for another woman to take care of. However, her reasons could be a wise one if he would go and find out what really went wrong. I was in his situation some years back until I moved closer to my mum only to discover that it was for her own safety, or we would have lost her long ago. So tell your man to find out why his mother left the uwagwu fidelisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-68526005427993973812014-12-27T11:17:28.228+01:002014-12-27T11:17:28.228+01:00It's none of your business lady, he is ur husb...It's none of your business lady, he is ur husband and you should like whatever he likes ... he can't just decide without seeing something, some mothers are like that so let it be like that and you should also not do what will make him get angry! <br /><br />@gr8akinAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16219930752388208907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-6792711265979291442014-12-27T11:06:18.112+01:002014-12-27T11:06:18.112+01:00I have stuff of that nature too and I will tell ev...I have stuff of that nature too and I will tell every woman who say she's ready to be with me before getting dip. Stay or you run is your choice.... I don't think you should be advice on that.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00665267807951189656noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-70903328959810457982014-12-27T10:58:46.480+01:002014-12-27T10:58:46.480+01:00Girls are too selfish please...you dint even bothe...Girls are too selfish please...you dint even bother knowing how hurt he is,how sad he had been to say he wouldn't forgive...all that matters to you is you rubbish self,I say u get the hell out of his life and burn in hell you selfish bitch....he deserves better than youAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-80509732077519245182014-12-27T10:30:04.224+01:002014-12-27T10:30:04.224+01:00Babe just take ur time to talk to him, but if he d...Babe just take ur time to talk to him, but if he doesn't accept, pls find ur square root.Sandra Diamondnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-64343884452647456062014-12-27T10:27:37.983+01:002014-12-27T10:27:37.983+01:00I honestly think you should tell him how you feel ...I honestly think you should tell him how you feel about him not forgiving his mum ...i have the same issue ... i dont hate my mum ...but i keep her at arms length .. people who dont have abusive parents will not understand that sometimes ...you stay away from them for your own sanity and protection...before you become them ...you assuming that he is not a forgiving person is presumptous ...and Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-44047070493518339222014-12-27T10:26:38.236+01:002014-12-27T10:26:38.236+01:00I honestly think you should tell him how you feel ...I honestly think you should tell him how you feel about him not forgiving his mum ...i have the same issue ... i font hate my mum ...but i keep her at arms length .. people who dont have abusive parents will not understand that sometimes ...you stay away from them for your own sanity and protection...before you become them ...you assuming that he is not a forgiving person is presumptous ...and Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-32478092560447739232014-12-27T09:49:41.900+01:002014-12-27T09:49:41.900+01:00I know How it's like when you grow up without ...I know How it's like when you grow up without your mum in your life, it's hell, you need to stand by him not thinking of running, it's going to take time for that part of his heart to heal,before he forgives his mum, if you love him, you will assist in making him come out of such trauma, he needs you now my dear.MAYKEY'S BLOGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13507193180844370277noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-33039147504977211902014-12-27T08:18:38.021+01:002014-12-27T08:18:38.021+01:00Lolz, u no well, bt love d observation and sinceri...Lolz, u no well, bt love d observation and sincerity, v a grt day,lolzAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11432283510878986022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-36392416116929475472014-12-27T07:35:58.794+01:002014-12-27T07:35:58.794+01:00Kingsley moronKingsley moronAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-25909114415719727782014-12-27T07:30:38.442+01:002014-12-27T07:30:38.442+01:00Your just an akwa ibom goat...what on earth makes ...Your just an akwa ibom goat...what on earth makes you feel you are better than a child from a divorced parents? I weep for your goat like mentality.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-60118597720383229762014-12-27T07:26:32.788+01:002014-12-27T07:26:32.788+01:00@akwa ibom boy, did u say u don't want anythin...@akwa ibom boy, did u say u don't want anything 2 do with divorced children? Smh for u, so if u are in their shoes pple should run 4 u as well, u think it's by their making being in that position Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15654871507779930692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-33380880779008519822014-12-27T07:16:53.484+01:002014-12-27T07:16:53.484+01:00He needs to forgive,stick with himHe needs to forgive,stick with himAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08024685235435368614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-15419179287954502242014-12-27T06:57:11.508+01:002014-12-27T06:57:11.508+01:00Oh! That's part of what u came to do in His li...Oh! That's part of what u came to do in His life, its ur business o, reconcillation is peace, forgiveness is for ur own good.DGBASKYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13516364703484660369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-53650290891701715192014-12-27T06:57:05.251+01:002014-12-27T06:57:05.251+01:00So children from divorced couples r not human bein...So children from divorced couples r not human beings, abi? It is ur type that run to marry pastors/reverends daughter only to end up with the biggest flirt in town. Mtchewwwww Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-54281530914267007882014-12-27T06:54:14.202+01:002014-12-27T06:54:14.202+01:00Blood is thicker Dan water. HIs thinking of d nega...Blood is thicker Dan water. HIs thinking of d negative aspects of wat his mum did daz y is bin furious but wit time he will ve no choice dan to forgive. If God can forgive us who r we nt to forgive ur ability to stay put to him nd help him see reasons to forgive his mum is wat mks u a gud companion. Mother na mothermarthajknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-56796851449920875302014-12-27T06:31:55.350+01:002014-12-27T06:31:55.350+01:00You just spoke my mindYou just spoke my mindAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10322809967059584894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-42707606001696125722014-12-27T06:10:49.843+01:002014-12-27T06:10:49.843+01:00Hez probably too hurt to think of forgiveness. Its...Hez probably too hurt to think of forgiveness. Its those who are softhearted that get hurt the most. All thru his childhood he was pained by the absence of his mother. Now hez grown he is even madder. His mum needs to appease him and show she is sorry den things can get improved. Yoy can orchestrate this if you want your man happier.<br /><br /><br /><br />Nonso Okoh via SAMSUNG GALAXY SMART Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12130582401674676401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-50417191576994086652014-12-27T05:49:33.991+01:002014-12-27T05:49:33.991+01:00..nd now dt uv replied? Pls check bc on ur comment.....nd now dt uv replied? Pls check bc on ur comment, read again & let's really know who d "arrogant" one is. People shld stop attaching sentiments to ethics. Odiegwu!Sylvoncehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17226984381652633750noreply@blogger.com