tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post3984564176730079408..comments2024-03-19T03:06:18.197+01:00Comments on Welcome to Linda Ikeji's Blog: Dear LIB readers: Should I marry a man who sexually abused me?Linda Ikejihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05801432363352079668noreply@blogger.comBlogger274125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-36080927180163693982013-01-21T15:02:09.765+01:002013-01-21T15:02:09.765+01:00I don't in anyway claim to be a psychologist b...I don't in anyway claim to be a psychologist but it's obvious that you still haven't forgiven yourself for being a victim of sexual abuse. If you had any value in yourself at all,you would not be considering that marriage proposal...<br />You think that no man will want you because you're flawed and you're wrong. I should know because i was once a victim..<br />There is a Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-48760195627357353592013-01-20T17:43:23.892+01:002013-01-20T17:43:23.892+01:00yes chickeeto you should also marry your father an...yes chickeeto you should also marry your father and brother who have been raping you since you were six because blood is thicker than water. meeennn nigerians are sick if this is how you guys think. i think maybe you all truly deserve boko haramAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-43438688004425943352013-01-20T17:36:31.108+01:002013-01-20T17:36:31.108+01:00Monsieur bonario, this generation is truly a waste...Monsieur bonario, this generation is truly a wasted one if this is your advice. Please wake up that indian girl who was gang raped and tell her to marry all the men that raped her afterall the have changed. May your daughters know rape so u'll understand.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-15795403967685028962013-01-20T17:29:16.752+01:002013-01-20T17:29:16.752+01:00seriously bloglord u think she should? is that wha...seriously bloglord u think she should? is that what is normal in your household? husband abusing or has sexually abused u before? jezuzzzzz women think... am going to vomit now...ciyaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-66033256528800835412013-01-19T10:17:19.490+01:002013-01-19T10:17:19.490+01:00Exactly OooooooooooExactly OooooooooooAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-8458784739197514522013-01-18T20:37:57.094+01:002013-01-18T20:37:57.094+01:00No, abuse him back sexually and leave him...Mtchee...No, abuse him back sexually and leave him...Mtcheeeeew! Olodo!<br />Feelsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-83280736590751383152013-01-18T16:29:38.416+01:002013-01-18T16:29:38.416+01:00no oooooo if u dnt want to be dumped in the middle...no oooooo if u dnt want to be dumped in the middle of one year you will listen to meAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12924174825868212369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-81746331049087801512013-01-18T15:47:31.927+01:002013-01-18T15:47:31.927+01:00Hehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe...Heheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheheehhehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehehe!!!!!!<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17166694554504237047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-72634887046125878472013-01-18T08:05:04.848+01:002013-01-18T08:05:04.848+01:00Some of the comments here are just beyond stunning...Some of the comments here are just beyond stunning ( not the good kind). Someone abused you and you want to marry him. As a family therapist, this is a very huge sign that you have not yet completely recovered mentally. You need to seek counselling from a mental health professional or your pastor if you are religious. Please dont do it. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-74696069179839284402013-01-18T07:57:40.959+01:002013-01-18T07:57:40.959+01:00I will keep this very simple and straight to the p...I will keep this very simple and straight to the point. A man who abused you sexually broke your trust and it shows what kind of character he has. True he is sorry, but can you 100% be sure that he wont molest and sexually abuse your daughter(s), sister, neighbor, cousin? Accept his apology and keep it moving. Its just common sense. Unless you have very low self esteem and men don finish for thisAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-13917663566162569402013-01-18T04:52:09.611+01:002013-01-18T04:52:09.611+01:00Ode oshi can't believe you made first comment ...Ode oshi can't believe you made first comment sha .Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-45031962815854757142013-01-18T00:25:21.053+01:002013-01-18T00:25:21.053+01:00Run like the wind . I don't even understand ho...Run like the wind . I don't even understand how u r even in a relationship with someone who sexually abused you as a child. You are clearly still psychologicaly affected by what this man has done to you and it isn't healthy for you to be in such a relationship because he still has a hold over you , the man is a sick pedophile that needs divine intervention and incarceration . By marryingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-46262309746880621642013-01-17T23:20:15.082+01:002013-01-17T23:20:15.082+01:00I sincerely feel u enjoyed what u guys did when u ...I sincerely feel u enjoyed what u guys did when u were young. You are just using abuse cos that's what everyone says when they have sex with an older person early in life. If he really 'ABUSED' you, we won't be discussing this. You are only scared that he may just be into younger people Anabelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-2460717419438059412013-01-17T21:29:37.296+01:002013-01-17T21:29:37.296+01:00love is brain box.if u love him go ahead.love is brain box.if u love him go ahead.goodluckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04727163331349782424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-11113871723003084302013-01-17T21:26:27.712+01:002013-01-17T21:26:27.712+01:00u love him is this main tin,go ahead.
u love him is this main tin,go ahead.<br /> goodluckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04727163331349782424noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-47702497414614520212013-01-17T20:00:07.414+01:002013-01-17T20:00:07.414+01:00some gals can be funny sha...fall in weytin?...it ...some gals can be funny sha...fall in weytin?...it U̶̲̥̅̊я call tho buh i was also sextually abused when i was 18.. A̶̲̥̅♏ older now ãήϑ yet i still can't find a space in my hrt to 4give him...he also tried beggin ãήϑ all..told he to go to blazes..it took M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ yrs to have a normal reltionship...dat was how bad i was affected...so moi dia...all dat fall in love na rubbish!..mayb he didn&Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-76422863304526441222013-01-17T19:47:48.852+01:002013-01-17T19:47:48.852+01:00my dear, this is a very simple and straight forwar...my dear, this is a very simple and straight forward answer 'NO'...You shouldn't be asking this type of question in the first place, you should know the answer already....do you want to spend the rest of your life in horror/misery? if yes then go ahead and marry ur abusive partner.....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-39129279192237616892013-01-17T19:27:57.099+01:002013-01-17T19:27:57.099+01:00Once beaten, always beaten!!! Move onOnce beaten, always beaten!!! Move onAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-45010297753497258322013-01-17T19:01:18.007+01:002013-01-17T19:01:18.007+01:00Think about ur children . Will he do the same to t...Think about ur children . Will he do the same to them??????Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-73473077431286465572013-01-17T18:14:35.286+01:002013-01-17T18:14:35.286+01:00You are brain dead period!!!!
By all means forgiv...You are brain dead period!!!!<br /><br />By all means forgive him and wish him well....but to fall in love with him?????? Shows you are truly damaged and needy and that there's a loose screw in your head....<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-55864057450106480682013-01-17T17:29:34.363+01:002013-01-17T17:29:34.363+01:00wow!!! i think he's grooming you again and you...wow!!! i think he's grooming you again and you are mistaking it for love this time round....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-41540682893781787552013-01-17T16:44:13.455+01:002013-01-17T16:44:13.455+01:00Ɣ☺u have to ask?? R Ɣ☺u serious?? Wen Ɣ☺u wia d8n ...Ɣ☺u have to ask?? R Ɣ☺u serious?? Wen Ɣ☺u wia d8n him b4 he proposed did Ɣ☺u tink?? Even if Ɣ☺u av 4given him..I doubt dia'll b trust bcoz d fear dat he'll do same to d ppl arnd Ɣ☺u n even ur children wee alwz b dia...n dia cnt b a marraige witout trust..MizzMacAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-34943433391169210722013-01-17T16:07:26.274+01:002013-01-17T16:07:26.274+01:00He is the one that made you damaged goods, so he m...He is the one that made you damaged goods, so he might as well live with his handiwork for life. #rubbishquestionAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-47721613446109597602013-01-17T15:03:49.187+01:002013-01-17T15:03:49.187+01:00When is the wedding? Ode. Learner.When is the wedding? Ode. Learner.Apinkehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10533901147081186591noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-21939862080799887792013-01-17T14:08:26.935+01:002013-01-17T14:08:26.935+01:00there's fire on the mountain run run run and d...there's fire on the mountain run run run and don't ever look back Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com