tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post151376473703402188..comments2024-03-19T03:06:18.197+01:00Comments on Welcome to Linda Ikeji's Blog: Dear LIB readers: My husband and I can't stand each other anymoreLinda Ikejihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05801432363352079668noreply@blogger.comBlogger496125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-78970335210664946082014-04-16T14:21:19.461+01:002014-04-16T14:21:19.461+01:00Well that us mature and helpful ↑↑↑↑. Sweetheart ...Well that us mature and helpful ↑↑↑↑. Sweetheart is he abusive in any way? Marriage is for better or worse the good and the bad but not if you are being physically or mentally harmed. Dig deep within and talk to your husband.counselors sure are making a killing now a days. Your a woman be strong and get it together. No one is perfect and the grass is never greener on the other side even though Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-51119192889286408222014-03-17T16:03:17.446+01:002014-03-17T16:03:17.446+01:00I was in an abusive marriage which i left and I am...I was in an abusive marriage which i left and I am now in a healthy, loving marriage.<br /><br />I would never wish divorce on my worst enemy, it is stressful and traumatic. People shud only divorce in abusive and adulterous marriages.<br /><br />Coming to ur issue here, u don't fall under any of those categories. U just do not love ur husband and u sound full of urself. Give urself time to Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-14535298884420341442014-03-08T13:20:49.735+01:002014-03-08T13:20:49.735+01:00Marriage is suppose to make u happy. A friend of m...Marriage is suppose to make u happy. A friend of mine confided in my about her home. She is been married for a year now, but she noticed she started feeling old in the marriage barely 3months after thier wedding. And it's been one issue to another till now. She complained about her husband not showing care and love, being too uptight, the dude hardly even have sex with her, they can be Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-57671600207292668452014-03-08T10:55:33.749+01:002014-03-08T10:55:33.749+01:00awwwwn sorry about this. just pray about it and le...awwwwn sorry about this. just pray about it and leave everything to God JER 32:27. think of the Good parts of ur husband and try noyt to think of the bad parts. be polite, try loving him bac and help you marriage work. GOD BLESS YOU<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-80365360234018125552014-03-08T07:49:42.586+01:002014-03-08T07:49:42.586+01:00Once you are in, there's no way out LOL. Am jo...Once you are in, there's no way out LOL. Am joking oh...both of u decided to get married so deal with it in a proper way. Wealth is good BUT it doesn't bring complete happiness in life. You definitely have to try your best to make your marriage work by talking to your husband to find out what you have done wrong, once he tells you his mind then you tell him your mind as well. Look at him Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-23431533066794523192014-03-08T04:37:11.307+01:002014-03-08T04:37:11.307+01:00hmmmm!! no b small thing. go n c a counsellor, bt ...hmmmm!! no b small thing. go n c a counsellor, bt first u both shud sit n av a hrt to hrt tlk. U knw wt attracted u to him n vice versa. where is dt thing now?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07787278270032790547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-2020009109118181052014-03-08T01:48:58.198+01:002014-03-08T01:48:58.198+01:00Is that a question? All you gold digging mother fu...Is that a question? All you gold digging mother fuckers - you get what you bargained for. You were so desperate to tie the knot with his pocket that you blinded your eyes to his absolute flaws. well cover ya eyes and endure or get the fuck off my computer screen and Lindy's blog and go do what ya need to do to make ya self happy. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-31155687283426334912014-03-08T01:37:16.867+01:002014-03-08T01:37:16.867+01:00How do u. Know ur friends are happily married. And...How do u. Know ur friends are happily married. And don't you know marriage is forever. When marrying don't listen to anyone oh... Marry for you...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-26541718620151020532014-03-08T00:55:08.688+01:002014-03-08T00:55:08.688+01:00See a marriage counsellorSee a marriage counsellorAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16332950716404446873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-24706304969147706982014-03-07T23:25:20.231+01:002014-03-07T23:25:20.231+01:00My dear don't leave,I think a vacation will do...My dear don't leave,I think a vacation will do,n no phone calls and all.dia u can have max fun,time alone n den chip in what's heavy on ur mind etc.sure ds will work.in d society we re u can't just pull out of marriage,trust me they ll call you names n tag u a permanent name n u ll be miserable for the rest of your life wh will worsen matter.a lot of peeps re blaming u bt trust me Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-26819023906711931062014-03-07T21:18:30.009+01:002014-03-07T21:18:30.009+01:00Funke and Chiedu OKORO Funke and Chiedu OKORO Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-27160213412725646322014-03-07T21:06:27.828+01:002014-03-07T21:06:27.828+01:00Funke and Chiedu OKORO smhFunke and Chiedu OKORO smhAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-11983903914611602582014-03-07T21:06:02.994+01:002014-03-07T21:06:02.994+01:00It's probably too soon to just end it.
You sh...It's probably too soon to just end it.<br /><br />You should make an effort or talk to someone. Try and rediscover what made you think of marrying him in the first place. Sally Ruehttp://www.sallyrue.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-6398042507042540202014-03-07T20:10:17.550+01:002014-03-07T20:10:17.550+01:00hi...well, i also just got married and totally und...hi...well, i also just got married and totally understand. Go and ask your parents especially your mum how she managed to sustain her own marriage. marriage isnt for the weak, or impatient. it is for strong people who are willing and able to endure, tolerate another and learn. Men will be men, you cannot struggle or compete with him. Give him his respect, and submit to him as unto the lord. Be a Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-39178178330015699422014-03-07T20:00:29.954+01:002014-03-07T20:00:29.954+01:00You need to know your place as a wife. The only p...You need to know your place as a wife. The only problem might be you. No man wants a mother or a boss in his house, so as long as you want to show him you are boss, the house will be like that. If you honor and obey your husband no matter what he says and does, you will discover that after a short while he will appreciate you and hold you high. Humble yourself to him, he will appreciate and Etimhttp://www.agentsng.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-11260067059250422932014-03-07T19:16:07.676+01:002014-03-07T19:16:07.676+01:00It is not true you cannot stand each other, proble...It is not true you cannot stand each other, problem is both of you are too lazy and dumb to work things out!<br /><br />Perhaps you want the man to shift ground based on your expectations and the man is sticking to his points based on his beliefs.<br /><br />Marriage is work and you both need to do that hard work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-24017593500507455822014-03-07T18:58:00.027+01:002014-03-07T18:58:00.027+01:00I love your comment. It takes two to fight. Both p...I love your comment. It takes two to fight. Both partiess have got ego issues. <br />Young lady, work on your ego and take the lower desk. God has made him your head. You as the neck, turn him as you wish by being the best wife a woman can be. One luv. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-66811412363143235992014-03-07T18:57:51.575+01:002014-03-07T18:57:51.575+01:00Dis is d best comment eva!Dis is d best comment eva!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-60455295044287827012014-03-07T18:54:48.869+01:002014-03-07T18:54:48.869+01:00Nawa ooooooooooooooo!!! Pray even harder!!!Nawa ooooooooooooooo!!! Pray even harder!!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07114235320104204448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-20998816359271643512014-03-07T18:52:10.428+01:002014-03-07T18:52:10.428+01:00am sure from what you have said it was a match mak...am sure from what you have said it was a match make from both parents....if you were not interested from the word go then why did u marry him....now you are more concerned about the same parents who lured you into the weddin than you life...if its not workin out call it quits...and stop with the facade of a marriage already cept you not lookin forward to a fruitful future<br />oteveehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13451382776594617946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-43927377302051041422014-03-07T18:41:35.066+01:002014-03-07T18:41:35.066+01:00One side of d story, difficult t judge.One side of d story, difficult t judge.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04806191521321924730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-84334265944334981672014-03-07T18:23:07.129+01:002014-03-07T18:23:07.129+01:00He who wears the shoes know where it hurts. He who wears the shoes know where it hurts. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-68513345828609986162014-03-07T18:14:52.895+01:002014-03-07T18:14:52.895+01:00Whatever happened to working on ur marriage? Mehn ...Whatever happened to working on ur marriage? Mehn this our generation really needs reorientation, our parents are 30 years together & more, it's not been all rosy, as long as he's not violent, d rest are issues u can live with, work on urself and u would conquer evil by doing good, gently & lovingly correct ur hubby, d grass is never greener on d other side, no other marriage is Suenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-54455038245218737142014-03-07T18:10:27.095+01:002014-03-07T18:10:27.095+01:00Are you dumb or just plain stupid? What has pregna...Are you dumb or just plain stupid? What has pregnancy got to with her not happy with her marriage Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9174986572743472561.post-48743889725246365342014-03-07T17:52:15.592+01:002014-03-07T17:52:15.592+01:00Counseling is what they need.
Poster are your par...Counseling is what they need.<br /><br />Poster are your parents aware of what is happening?<br /><br />Talk to your mum.Cynhams Cakes, Abujahttp://www.cynhamscakes.comnoreply@blogger.com