

A touching photo of an elderly Canadian couple who have been married for 62 years and are now forced to live in separate care homes went viral after their granddaughter shared their story on Facebook.
The photo of Wolfram Gottschalk, 83, and his wife, Anita, 81, shows the couple wiping away tears as they held hands during one of Anita's visit at a transitional facility in British Columbia, Canad, while they are waiting for Wolf to be be accommodated at Anita's nursing home. The image has been shared more than 10,000 times.
Ashley Baryik, 29 said her grandparents have been separated because there is no room for both of them at the same home in Surrey, British Columbia. Mr Gottschalk, who has been diagnosed with lymphoma, is on a waiting list to move into the same home as his wife.
'It was the saddest photo I have ever taken" Baryik wrote on Tuesday. She explained that her grandparents were separated in January when Mr Gottschalk went to hospital for congestive heart failure.
"Friends please read! This is The saddest photo I have ever taken. This is my Omi and my Opi. As you can see they are both wiping away tears! But why? It was taken in Surrey at Yale road, a transitional facility for people waiting to get into nursing homes, that's where my Opi is! After 62 years together in marriage they have been separated for 8 months due to backlogs and delays by our health care system, whom have the power to have my grandpa moved to the same care facility as my grandmother. They cry every time they see each other, and it is heartbreaking. To make it worse, TODAY he was diagnosed with Lymphoma. Besides that limiting his time and making this more urgent, His Dementia is growing ever stronger each day, but his memory of my grandmother has not faded a inch...yet. We are afraid however that if they are living apart much longer, his memory of her won't stay. This has been a strain on our family, making the 30 minute commute to bring her to see him, every second day, so he does not forget her. Now with the news of cancer, our fight to have them in the same facility is even more urgent. He isn't even getting proper care where he is, including no physical therapy which we were promised (the only reason he is in a wheelchair is because it has been 8 months of no walking!!) They deserve this! Financially, physically and emotionally exhausted, me and my family are begging for your help my friends. We have contacted our local MLA, called Fraser Health and done in person inquiries, but none of our questions and concerns have been answered. We want justice for my grandparents who after 62 years together deserve to spend their last moments in the same building. Please share this and tag anyone that needs to see this post to get the help we need! @fraserhealthauthori"
34 comments:
I think there love is not blind#Winks
Oh!,how devastating!.Omi & Opi shouldn't be apart for no reason at all;what a life!.Just too bad!!.
Awwww this is so sad. I'm sure the authority will do something about the situation if not one of them might not last. This is heartbreaking
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So touching!
...merited happiness
Eayah
Linda this story was featured in Bella's blogspot 2 days ago
A beg no dey slack your dirty eggplants and nipple flashing
Is taking the substance out of your blogspot. You need to buckle up
If you like don't post my comment
these whites have one terrible culture, why on earth would you "put away" your aged parents cos they've become old..?? what is wrong in having them stay with you?? oyibo and low mentality...
Choi!! Dey shud do something abeg
This has made me shade tears...God pls heal dem n make dem live together again Amen
Crazy and foolish Western culture! Eventually,the shock of this separation will kill them earlier than Their time.parents will train their children to adulthood and,in their old age,they find themselves dumped in care homes.when then do children and grandchildren return honour and care to the ones that nurtured them? old people above 80 in African countries are happier because,that is usually the time they move from the house of one son or daughter to the other,being fondly cared for by daughters,sons,sons in-law,daughers in-law,grand and great grandchildren. Dumping parents in care homes and visiting them occasionally is wicked and ungodly. It defeats the true essence of begetting children
Ben Nwankwo
Hmmmmmm
Eeeeeeeeyah! Linda take note!
why can't their children get a nurse for them at home
Very touchy...
Eyah! Quite touching. This thing call love is very strong o.
So sorry for these old folks
Eyaah
Please they should put them in the same home I beg.
Stupid people always putting aged parents in homes.
Awww... Such a lovely Sight! #LoveisaBeautifulThingy
Sad. But hope this isn't staged.
Long Live LIB
Hmmmm
Pls how long does it take to publish my reaction to this pathetic post
Wow sooo touching.
Pls how long does it take to publish my reaction to this pathetic post
Chai. Ehyaaa.
CHAII
AUNTY LINDA 👩
Aww
True love
-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds
This is so sad! The old African social welfare system is still the best. Urbanisation I making it more difficult to care for our old ones now though.We still have family and church/mosque and neighbourhood support but I pray that doesn't also diminish with time.
May God grant them a solution that will reunite them and gladden their hearts.
Dat is real love
Life..
Life
I love African culture. This can't happen here. It's quite sad.
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